Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

[Suzume]

No, I will never do this after listening to him.  Because I have been associated with it for a long time and I have been at a lot of tie profits in it.  Besides, my experience is increasing day by day and this is slowly making me self-reliant.  I am studying in class 12 and again I am spending money on gambling.  As a result, I am very self-reliant at this young age.  Therefore, after listening to sameones words in the future, I don't have any questions besides this.  But yes, two things may happen in the future, first, this may be my profession, and this may be my leisure time.  But there is no question of leaving this in the future.  Because this is helping me to be more self-reliant now.  Again this will not be my means of earning extra money in the future but it will be very beneficial for me in the future.  That's why I'm not leaving gambling for anyone's words.

[HelliumZ]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Yes of course I will definitely give up gambling to get my beloved if she forbids me to do something like that.
Gambling is a social disorder that creates dire conditions for the degeneration of the youth. The conscious citizens of the country wish that gamblers come out of this situation. If my girlfriend expects such a good thing from me, then surely I will fulfill her expectations and not suffer from the social evil called gambling later on.

[dezoel]

I will have no problem doing that as long as they insist because it is actually affecting me negatively which means that they are asking me to do this just for my own benefit and maybe for us to have a more secure future safe from the threat of losing a lot of money in gambling due to the addiction. There is nothing wrong with a partner thinking about the betterment of their partner and the future of their family and for that, they can obviously ask their partner to stop or leave any habits that might have a negative influence on their future.

However, if I know that gambling doesn't have any negative affect on me, I'm not an excessive gambler and don't spend a lot of time and money on it, and I've never lost more than what I have allocated for my gambling activities, I will obviously try and make them understand but if they still insist, I might need to take the step because I would obviously not break the relationship just because of a habit or an activity.

[Oilacris]

Of course it will stop, because in a marriage relationship there must be a commitment that must be mutually agreed upon, there are no lies to cover up, so if one partner can accept his partner gambling then he will be lucky but don't gamble carelessly. This means, don't gamble too much so that your partner doesn't experience disappointment. Take advantage of the opportunity to get permission from your partner by gambling well and correctly, by placing small bets and just for entertainment in your free time, because the most important thing is your partner's happiness.

It is very important for us to try and keep our gambling lifestyle oru habit to ourselves. It is unprofessional for us to allow our family or wife to find out that we have this gambling lifestyle which can be very discouraging to them especially if we are spending too much money and always complaining that we don't have money with us. Women always see through things and the way they interpret things can be very different from the males entirely. Gambling need to be secretive and we need to make sure that people we value a lot do not have knowledge about our gambling lifestyle.

Good luck hiding your gambling habit from future wife. She is your wife not coworker that will never see what you are doing at home in leisure time.

There's no secret that could really be kept forever and considering that you've been with your wife for the rest of your life then time will come that your wife would really be able to caught you up
on doing gambling. Maybe not now but its not an assurance that it would last forever and time will come that you do get  caught. So what would really be your main reasoning on telling which  you would really be saying that it was your first time? You would be saying that it is really just that for fun? You would be saying that it was just for the sake of entertainment?

Validity of reason would be entirely be depending on your financial spending because if your wife do notice something about that huge expenses or really some big cut off with your salary
then she would really be normally connecting out things basing up on what you are doing on which it is really that a common approach and since women are really that smart
than us men when it comes to budgeting or simply with finances then there's no way on escaping it.  

[decodx]

Of course it will stop, because in a marriage relationship there must be a commitment that must be mutually agreed upon, there are no lies to cover up, so if one partner can accept his partner gambling then he will be lucky but don't gamble carelessly. This means, don't gamble too much so that your partner doesn't experience disappointment. Take advantage of the opportunity to get permission from your partner by gambling well and correctly, by placing small bets and just for entertainment in your free time, because the most important thing is your partner's happiness.

It is very important for us to try and keep our gambling lifestyle oru habit to ourselves. It is unprofessional for us to allow our family or wife to find out that we have this gambling lifestyle which can be very discouraging to them especially if we are spending too much money and always complaining that we don't have money with us. Women always see through things and the way they interpret things can be very different from the males entirely. Gambling need to be secretive and we need to make sure that people we value a lot do not have knowledge about our gambling lifestyle.

Good luck hiding your gambling habit from future wife. She is your wife not coworker that will never see what you are doing at home in leisure time.

That's right! It's not that you gotta hide what you're into from who you're with.  More like, be open and take responsibility for those things youre into and  whoever you end up marrying, that's a person you'll share your whole life with.  So you gotta have real talks about your hobbies and stuff how they'll maybe affect your relationship.

[macson]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

no matter how much i love my partner, if it involves gambling then i will try to ignore her prohibitions, but the language i use is of course polite and will not offend her because she will definitely be worried about me and persuade me to stop gambling.  i will also try to convince her that i will not change to another person even if i gamble, i am responsible for my gambling actifity and will not turn into a gambling addict.. building good communication in every relationship is important.

[rahmad2nd]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

For those who have a partner, wife or husband, things like this are not something foreign to us. If there is a complaint from our partner, this is very normal. Moreover, if what we do in gambling is too excessive. Therefore, it is also important to have a partner who understands each other.
By the way, my story brush was once asked to stop doing this hobby activity. At first, my wife didn't know I liked gambling. But that doesn't mean I hide it from them, because after all they will question everything if they find out we like to gamble. I mean, when the wife is afraid that her husband has spent a lot of money and is even in debt. So it's very natural, isn't it, if they think more about things or needs that are more important.

Well, actually for me this is just a matter of trust between partners. but it's not easy to convince him, especially since we promised not to spend a lot of money on the gambling we do. Even this hobby can create conflict in a relationship. well, as I said above.  that there must be mutual trust, and remind them when they have carried out excessive activities. that way, they won't worry. but it's not easy, because before gaining trust, we first have to prove it and that's what I did.

[Franctoshi]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this?

There are various things I would consider before deciding to stop, first of all, I will check if I'm getting a positive result, that is if I'm realizing profit, Too if I'm addicted and not paying much attention to things concerning my potential wife and if we are having a little issue concerning that. If I'm making profit and the money I win from gambling helps in settling my bills, I may find it difficult to stop but in a situation where there is no profit being realized I wouldn't hesitate to quit.

[Cryptomultiplier]

I do think that, unless it is like an order or there's a clause(s)/conditions/terms added, then no one not even a spouse can stop one from gambling.
It is more like a decision waiting to happen and when the spouse expresses dissatisfaction with such habit, one just stopped.

It isn't easy to let go of a habit like gambling which most times has caused a lot of emotional damage,  but the real deal is that a spouse comes to make our life better and if they think ones gambling habit is toomuch and may crumble the family to be loved and taken care of, hell yes, I would gladly leave gambling and channel the energy into making the relationship and family work.

[Finestream]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

 For those who have maximize their time gambling in casinos, I think this is not an easy thing to do. But if your future husband/wife has seen already where your gambling habit will lead you, then most likely the best decision is to stop gambling for good. If he/she sees that your finances has already been affected with your gambling addiction, then it's a good thing to better stop gambling before gambling will ruin your good relationship with your partner.

However, there are also instances wherein your partner seems to be highly controlling on you even in those simple habits that you find more exciting and entertaining. And as long as you never cross your limits in gambling, I think leaving gambling because your partner tells you to do so is not the best decision.  But you have to explain your side in a nice and understandable manner so that he/she will not be offended.

[topbitcoin]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Yes of course I will definitely give up gambling to get my beloved if she forbids me to do something like that.
Gambling is a social disorder that creates dire conditions for the degeneration of the youth. The conscious citizens of the country wish that gamblers come out of this situation. If my girlfriend expects such a good thing from me, then surely I will fulfill her expectations and not suffer from the social evil called gambling later on.

There are two things I want to ask you and this is something that might happen.
The first thing I want to ask is, what if in reality you can't get rid of gambling from your life even though you have tried your best to do so? Will you try again to give up gambling, or will you leave your future wife because she will firmly refuse to accept you if it is discovered that you still like to gamble?

And the second thing I want to ask, what if after marriage your desire to gamble again peaks so that you have to break the agreement you have agreed with your wife, because you return to gambling. Will you try to keep your gambling activities a secret so that your husband and wife relationship remains harmonious, or what steps will you take?

[Nheer]

Being into the gambling system already will make it a bit challenging to leave even though one is not addicted to it because of the love we have for it and the fun in it. By my future wife do you mean my fiancée or just my girlfriend who I intend to marry?

If my fiancée asks me to leave gambling i will quit with immediate effect because marriage is about understanding and sacrifice. I will do this for the sake of the love and also to avoid minor problems even before marriage and also just incase i notice something bad that i am not comfortable with my fiancée i can also talk to her about it without bringing issues. These are the kind of situations that bring about little misunderstandings in marriage so i want to avoid all this by all means.

I will try my possible best to quit gambling if she asks me to if it’s difficult i will keep trying until i will be able to quit finally.

[Miles2006]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

I am not gambling like an addict, so I will not expect my fiancee to determine what I will do or not. But I noticed women correct when they know their boyfriend is affected by gambling, but I am not that type of person.

For people that are addicted, if their wife or fiancee or girlfriend tell them to quit gambling, I will dice them to do so.

If the wife /husband does not like gambling definetly the wife will suggest the husband stop gambling. Secondly if anyone is stopping me from doing something I love very much at least you must give me some reason why I should stop.
Gambling affects mental health a lot and it gets very annoying. So I believe if you're wife is telling you to stop there must be a reason and to save your marriage or relationship is better you stop.

[Huppercase]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

You must have been a terrible husband for your wife for your wife to say that you should stop gambling. Gambling has ended some relationships and marriage because of the lack of mutual understanding. I don't there is any reason why your wife will tell you not to gamble, not nice unless there is a reason that justify her demand, I will not do it because I will not stop her from doing her hobbies either so long it doesn't affect her marital vows and same goes to mine as well.

If she give her own reasons why I should quit gambling and points are pick, I will quit because I will equally do anything to save my marriage but if she just feel like I need to quit without any concrete reason, then I'm afraid I can't because some people naturally don't like gamblers, they don't want to see anything like gambling around them, I'm not sure why they are wired like that but those people need to chill, there's nothing wrong with gambling.

[Jating]

Of course it will stop, because in a marriage relationship there must be a commitment that must be mutually agreed upon, there are no lies to cover up, so if one partner can accept his partner gambling then he will be lucky but don't gamble carelessly. This means, don't gamble too much so that your partner doesn't experience disappointment. Take advantage of the opportunity to get permission from your partner by gambling well and correctly, by placing small bets and just for entertainment in your free time, because the most important thing is your partner's happiness.

It is very important for us to try and keep our gambling lifestyle oru habit to ourselves. It is unprofessional for us to allow our family or wife to find out that we have this gambling lifestyle which can be very discouraging to them especially if we are spending too much money and always complaining that we don't have money with us. Women always see through things and the way they interpret things can be very different from the males entirely. Gambling need to be secretive and we need to make sure that people we value a lot do not have knowledge about our gambling lifestyle.

Good luck hiding your gambling habit from future wife. She is your wife not coworker that will never see what you are doing at home in leisure time.

It's obviously you are in the dilemma, and I think it depends on why your wife or husband are asking you to do quit gambling.

- you prioritized gambling
- you life is ruined, not just the both of you, but your kids as well

So in this case, your wife/husband has every right to ask you and if you didn't then for sure there will be divorce. So it's really up to you to answer that question. But if I'm in that situation and I still do love my wife or husband, then I might try as hard as I can to quit to salvage our marriage. You also have to see where the other party is coming from and not just you or your gambling activity. Because gambling as well is one cause of divorce and then your kids are going to suffer.

[lalabotax]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

As someone who is still not addicted or has no indication of gambling addiction, this might happen. Because after all, there are reasons when our wife or husband asks us to stop. Sometimes, the people closest to us understand our condition more deeply than we do. And of course they do that because they are worried about the negative impacts of gambling addiction. And all this must be done through calm discussion so that both of them can come to or decide something with a cool head. But whatever the final result, of course make sure it's the best for both of you, not just you. Because that is the essence of a relationship.

[TechnoX_X]

If you are someone who is married, of course you will really respect the best decision that your partner or wife wants and do what he says because stopping gambling is the best way for him when he sees unhealthy gambling activities. And if you may not be married or just want to get married, of course a man will obey whatever his partner says, whether married or unmarried, because a real man will always obey his partner as a form of respect for him. But not all gamblers can do this because in reality there are still many addicted gamblers who would rather lose their family than stop gambling.

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

[kawetsriyanto]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Well, try to explain how we gamble. Tell her that we gamble in a proper way and never risk the financial stability because it is for small allocation only. We also don't chase the wins, it is just the way to get entertainment. The prize or winning money is just the bonus from the gambling games. We don't target to win on every gambling game. So, she doesn't need to worry because we gamble in a normal way, we aren't addicts. In this way, I'm sure she will understand and accept our situation.

Don't hurry to stop as long as gambling doesn't ruin our life. Just ensure the future wife understand the real condition!

[BitDane]

It is very important for us to try and keep our gambling lifestyle oru habit to ourselves. It is unprofessional for us to allow our family or wife to find out that we have this gambling lifestyle which can be very discouraging to them especially if we are spending too much money and always complaining that we don't have money with us. Women always see through things and the way they interpret things can be very different from the males entirely. Gambling need to be secretive and we need to make sure that people we value a lot do not have knowledge about our gambling lifestyle.

this fall under the statement "it won't hurt if they don't know"  but what if your wife happened to discover your gambling habit and asked you to stop?  Would you comply?  I think this is the question asked in this thread and not about revealing our gambling habit to our relatives and love ones.  The fact that the question states would we stop if our future partner in life asked us to stop gambling means they already know that we are already engaged in gambling activity.


About the question, I will think of it and possibly consider but of course there is always a room for discussion, maybe I will make an appeal...  

[Rockstarguy]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

I think for my partner to complain about my gambling habits that means it has gotten to a stage that it is becoming dangerous to me or affecting the family financially,  I have no choice than to stop just for peace to reign in the family. I don't think if gambling is really favouring me my wife would want me to stop , so if my wife ask me  to stop gambling I will listen to her expecially if I have really check myself if to continue playing gamble is good for me. It is only something that is affecting men negatively that their wife will always be worried of, if it is something benefiting the family she won't complain.