Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

[Fivestar4everMVP]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Actually is totally depends on what gambling is to the person because there are people that there survival depends on gambling so however if a future wife ask the person to quit gambling, indirectly she is telling the man to suffer.

Never should a person's live or life depend on gambling, it is absolutely wrong mate, assuming this to be right is also as wrong as believing it, gambling is for entertainment purposes only, it was never created to become a source of income for anybody. A man, be you married or single, should have a dependable source of income, like owning a business or having a stable job, gambling should always be secondary because, it is not a source of income anybody can depend on.

If i am a woman and a man wants to marry me, or maybe we are already married and my husband has no job or business he manages, but only gambles all day, i initially won't ask him to stop gambling, but i will ask him to either start a business or find a good stable job, he should engage in one of this while he does his gambling by the side, if he refuses and just want to gamble, i will sure have no choice but to leave him for good.

[wheelz1200]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

I mean if it's a deal breaker for them and they won't stay with you over it then yeah if ypu love her/him why wouldn't you?  If gambling is worth more than the one ypu love then you need to check your addiction out and possibly get help.  If it's not an issue in your life then maybe have that conversation with them first to see if there is some possible middle ground like a set dollar amount or something.

[bitgolden]

My future wife/husband ask me to stop my gambling activity? I will leave her/him and continue to gamble lol.

I know what the consequence of my activity, I don't see gambling is harming or bad thing, so there's no reason to leave it if I think it's good for me. Why should stay with someone who trying to stop or limit our activity? there are so many people out there, you just need to find an appropriate wife/husband, not force to stay in relationship with the current person.

I would say that is a bad bad approach to life. They want you to stop doing something harmful and you may think that you are not doing something harmful but gambling is where you lose your money, you may think it's okay but most people will not think that losing your money while gambling is alright.

If you want to find someone that would be ok with you gambling that's fine, but that would mean that you are leaving your emotions aside and trying to find someone that would pamper to your needs and wants, that's not what a love is. Love is what you feel when you see someone and if that person wants you to cut one of your limbs then you do it, because love doesn't have any boundaries and you just love someone as much as you can and do whatever you can to see them smile.

If you are so adamant about gambling that you would literally stop seeing a person for wanting you to quit, that is not love and that would only be considered "was wanting to not be alone, now I want to be alone again", not love.

[bittraffic]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

I mean if it's a deal breaker for them and they won't stay with you over it then yeah if ypu love her/him why wouldn't you?  If gambling is worth more than the one ypu love then you need to check your addiction out and possibly get help.  If it's not an issue in your life then maybe have that conversation with them first to see if there is some possible middle ground like a set dollar amount or something.

For the guys who are fed up with their wives, they will really take this as sort of an opportunity. Heck, some men find gambling to be more entertaining than with their wives who don't even know how to cook omelets.

For housewives who are unsure what their partner would choose they better not ask their husbands to choose whether her or gambling. It's not in his best interest to keep a wife who is not supportive.  

[Westinhome]

You are right to some extent. But even the people associated with gambling are smart now with their financial decisions. They are not like past gamblers who used to take loans for gambling. Someone who is doing gambling with crypto is already wise enough to be aware of crypto. Such a person will not be involved in activities like violence for gambling.

The gambling addicted person answer will be the no for the gambling quit for the family or for the girlfriend relationship.The gambling is just the game,So the gambling addicted person should avoid of the leaving the relationship for the gambling games.The gambler should concentrate on their family along with the gambling involvement.The reason behind this was the family is always important to us.Without the family we can live the life,but we can’t enjoy without the gambling.Some of the wife of gambler asking divorce only because the gambler will get the loan for the gambling after the big loss in the gambling sites.

[Casdinyard]

Yes. Gambling isn't that ingrained in my personality that it would prevent me from having good relations with my wife. At the end of the day gambling is just one way for me to let off some steam and if I would have that prevent me from having a full romantic life with my partner then you bet your bottom dollar I'm going to leave gambling for good. It's not about being controlled or whatnot, it's just about putting your priorities straight and if you're going to leave your partner for gambling then you might have some screws loose cause why the fuck?

Gambling is all about entertainment, and a pastime, if you want to not be bored there are other ways you could do that. Having a compatible partner comes once in a lifetime. This shouldn't even be a discussion.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Marriage is not just something that happens overnight; first, it starts with courtship before leading to marriage, and during the period of courtship, the woman should be able to detect some of the habits of the man that she is not comfortable with, and if the man decides not to stop some of those habits, it is left for the woman to either go ahead with the marriage or not. Also, if the man really loves his partner and is willing to give up on their gambling lifestyle, it's a decision they should take. Gambling is my thing, despite the fact that I don't gamble more often, but it is fun anytime I am out with my friends to gamble. I think it will be a very difficult decision to make if I stop gambling for any reason.

[Oilacris]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Marriage is not just something that happens overnight; first, it starts with courtship before leading to marriage, and during the period of courtship, the woman should be able to detect some of the habits of the man that she is not comfortable with, and if the man decides not to stop some of those habits, it is left for the woman to either go ahead with the marriage or not. Also, if the man really loves his partner and is willing to give up on their gambling lifestyle, it's a decision they should take. Gambling is my thing, despite the fact that I don't gamble more often, but it is fun anytime I am out with my friends to gamble. I think it will be a very difficult decision to make if I stop gambling for any reason.

Lets assume that majority of women would really be hating gambling which we cant really be able to deny that it could really disrupt someones financial management considering that spending is much more often specially when you are engaging with gambling on which it is really just that spending would really be there and as someone who do find for some husband that they could really be with forever then it would be hard on dealing up with someone on whose a gambler on which you do already reflects out or simply making out some generalization that you would really be messing up your life with that kind of husband and this is why its not really that shocking that women would really be that skeptical about gambling habit.

If you are that someone whose really that loving gambling that much then you would really be having doubts on quitting for the sake of love but well we cant really be able to tell since there are
really man who are really that willing to quit on everything for the sake of love then its up to someones choice whether he should pursue such girl and could exchange gambling habit for that
or would really be sticking into his interest and skip out that woman. 

[Saisher]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Not if I'm a responsible gambler and I think the money I allocated is not something that will harm our relationship and finances but if I think that it will harm our finances and relationship because I'm spending too much time and money on our relationship then yes I will work on to not stop but limit my gambling expenditures and time so it will become manageable.
Gambling is for entertainment only and this should not harm our relationship the wife will understand if she sees that you treat it as entertainment and not something that will make the family suffer, because gambling addiction is one of the causes of family breakdown.

[Wiwo]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Not if I'm a responsible gambler and I think the money I allocated is not something that will harm our relationship and finances but if I think that it will harm our finances and relationship because I'm spending too much time and money on our relationship then yes I will work on to not stop but limit my gambling expenditures and time so it will become manageable.
Gambling is for entertainment only and this should not harm our relationship the wife will understand if she sees that you treat it as entertainment and not something that will make the family suffer, because gambling addiction is one of the causes of family breakdown.

If the partner doesn't have experienced in gambling then I will try to talk them into understanding what gambling really is and how best to staying safe while gambling because a lot of time,  why many have this so called bad misconceptions about gambling and some other things in real life is because they don't have experience of it and what really makes up for the risk that we mostly talked about,  because if a partner wants me to decease from such at action or activities then there should be a reason behind such decisions and not based on speculations most especially if my gambling life is not interfering with my family responsibilities.

At most also do not allow my gambling activities to take too much control of what and how I treat and care for my family in terms of finances and time to care for family and this is the most concern of many of our spouses who feel allowing you to gamble will take the time you should have for them.

[Mr.suevie]

Lucky for her I am not a gambler because there is no need for her to ask me to leave gambling. But what if I am a gambler and my future wife told me to leave gambling? Well, since my family is my priority I will definitely without a doubt leave gambling. 

Most prospective wives/ wives ask their partners to stop gambling because they are afraid you are too much in gambling so that it ignores your family, many cases like that happen, even violence because gambling in the family is also many happening, but while you feel able to cover up your needs And your responsibility as the head of the family, I think they also will not forbid you to gamble, but here must be a note that you are only to look for the pleasure of gambling not to double your money, it can destroy yourself.

You are right to some extent. But even the people associated with gambling are smart now with their financial decisions. They are not like past gamblers who used to take loans for gambling. Someone who is doing gambling with crypto is already wise enough to be aware of crypto. Such a person will not be involved in activities like violence for gambling.

I don't actually agree with you on that because gambling is actually an habit and everyone has a personal view towards it so actually saying gamblers are wiser these days doesn't really cut it for all the other chronic gambler even the crypto gamblers. Nobody ever plans on gambling violently until it completely goes beyond their control so I think gambling is something that everyone has a choice and view to it, if you are discipline with your habit doesn't mean the next person is and moreover humans are fund of doing crazy things all the time.

[klidex]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

No, I don't think it's fair to try and change your partner without any reason. For many years now I have been gambling and it's quite common for me to visit my home casino with my friends or play in a poker tournament. I can understand that my girlfriend doesn't like it, but it's wrong of her to ask me to stop completely. I can understand if she wants to know more about my gambling habits and I would try everything to make her understand that I am still control and don't lose large amounts of money each month. Honesty and being open about our life's is key to a successful relationship in my opinion. Hopefully I could convince her otherwise and it won't remain a big issue between us.

Having honest and open communication in a relationship is an important key to understanding each other, taking an open approach to discussing your gambling habits with your partner is a good step in building mutual understanding as well as explaining how you manage your gambling habits and ensuring that this does not get in the way family finances or your relationships, are very important in building trust and openness.

Listening to your partner's concerns and perspectives with care and understanding is another important step. Together, you can find solutions that meet each other's needs and ensure that your relationship remains harmonious and mutually supportive.

[lienfaye]

Lucky for her I am not a gambler because there is no need for her to ask me to leave gambling. But what if I am a gambler and my future wife told me to leave gambling? Well, since my family is my priority I will definitely without a doubt leave gambling. 

Most prospective wives/ wives ask their partners to stop gambling because they are afraid you are too much in gambling so that it ignores your family, many cases like that happen, even violence because gambling in the family is also many happening, but while you feel able to cover up your needs And your responsibility as the head of the family, I think they also will not forbid you to gamble, but here must be a note that you are only to look for the pleasure of gambling not to double your money, it can destroy yourself.

You are right to some extent. But even the people associated with gambling are smart now with their financial decisions. They are not like past gamblers who used to take loans for gambling. Someone who is doing gambling with crypto is already wise enough to be aware of crypto. Such a person will not be involved in activities like violence for gambling.

Well, regardless what currency you use to gamble (either fiat or crypto) it's not a basis to say if the gamblers are more wise to not take a loan. It depends on the gambler's mindset when he/she is playing. So it doesn't necessarily mean they're already different compared to gamblers who are using fiat to be able to play.

Anyway, to answer the question, my spouse can't dictate me on what I should do. I'm not a compulsive gambler it's just a habit thus there's nothing to worry about. One of the reason why it's important for partners to know each other well before deciding to get married. Because once you marry a person you should accept all his/her flaws.

[ethereumhunter]

Yes and I hope that they can immediately realize that this activity can cause a lot of problems for their family including in terms of finances, agree with you, sooner or later it will definitely become a problem even though initially they thought it would be fine, but as we know gambling develops in humans without them realizing it, especially when they have entered the addiction zone, they will continue to play and it is very likely that the allocation of money for basic needs such as food will be used for gambling. Of course it is very dangerous and I can't imagine what will happen to the family, not infrequently we see that lately there are many divorces due to the consequences of gambling which of course makes their economy decline drastically. So yes there is nothing else but to stop, that's the best and if they have realized that this is really bad then hopefully they can consider stopping and reducing all their gambling activities. That's right, some can realize it and some can't at all, so it really depends on them like you said.

And if they can reduce their gambling activities for their own good, they will not experience the problems other people have experienced. They must pay attention to basic needs for their family rather than using their money to gamble because that is their current concern so they will realize that gambling is not a concern they need to do. If his family's basic needs can be met and he still has free money, he can return to gambling. But if he is worried that he cannot care for himself well, he should not gamble and do other activities with his family. By realizing that he now has a family, he will prioritize his family more than gambling because it is just having fun in his spare time.

Yes as I said above, inevitably if they are married then they must be able to think that there are already big responsibilities that they must focus on in the future, and that means they must be able to reduce their gambling slowly, because I am sure to stop suddenly it is almost impossible especially for those who are already addicted. Therefore, they can start by reducing their activities and divert their attention by adding other activities such as adding jobs to increase income. They should be able to think and take examples from the many cases that have occurred who ended up divorced because of gambling which affected the family economy.

When a person gets married, their responsibilities become greater, so they have to focus on meeting their family's daily needs and can reduce unnecessary expenses. And by reducing their focus on gambling, they can focus more on their family, which is what is more important to do. And if he earns income, he can hand over the money to his family so he can use it to meet his daily needs.

[FinneysTrueVision]

Gambling is just something that I do for entertainment. I wouldn't risk an amount that could significantly impact my family. What I do with my own money is my business but if my gambling habits ever became a problem for anyone I would strongly consider their opinion. I'm not married but it would not be worth it to lose somebody I really cared about because of gambling. There are other ways of being entertained.

[boty]

Gambling is just something that I do for entertainment. I wouldn't risk an amount that could significantly impact my family. What I do with my own money is my business but if my gambling habits ever became a problem for anyone I would strongly consider their opinion. I'm not married but it would not be worth it to lose somebody I really cared about because of gambling. There are other ways of being entertained.

If we consider gambling as entertainment, of course we will be able to control ourselves when gambling and this will not be a problem for us and the people around us, but it will be very different if we cannot control ourselves, of course this will be very troublesome for those closest to us. Before we are married, I think we are free to easily use the money we have for whatever makes us happy, but it will be different if we have a wife, of course we have to agree with them if we don't want our relationship to end with something trivial. I agree with you that we can seek pleasure in other things if we are already in a marriage relationship.

[Crypt0Gore]

You already know the answer because in every countries gambling have ruined some peoples lives, so it's normal for your wife to be scared of losing all to gambling, remember, you are both in this together, so maybe you are over doing it? And they noticed?

My advice is to listen to your partner if they warn you about gambling or if they are trying to make you stop gambling, it's possible that they noticed you are too into gambling.

I used to tell people that some things are better done before getting married, setting your goals up and taking risks are way easier when you are living alone, I wouldn't have get married if I am not capable, there is time for everything and if you know where you are going things will always work in your favour, it starts with you.

[Jody.Drummer]

Yes and I hope that they can immediately realize that this activity can cause a lot of problems for their family including in terms of finances, agree with you, sooner or later it will definitely become a problem even though initially they thought it would be fine, but as we know gambling develops in humans without them realizing it, especially when they have entered the addiction zone, they will continue to play and it is very likely that the allocation of money for basic needs such as food will be used for gambling. Of course it is very dangerous and I can't imagine what will happen to the family, not infrequently we see that lately there are many divorces due to the consequences of gambling which of course makes their economy decline drastically. So yes there is nothing else but to stop, that's the best and if they have realized that this is really bad then hopefully they can consider stopping and reducing all their gambling activities. That's right, some can realize it and some can't at all, so it really depends on them like you said.

And if they can reduce their gambling activities for their own good, they will not experience the problems other people have experienced. They must pay attention to basic needs for their family rather than using their money to gamble because that is their current concern so they will realize that gambling is not a concern they need to do. If his family's basic needs can be met and he still has free money, he can return to gambling. But if he is worried that he cannot care for himself well, he should not gamble and do other activities with his family. By realizing that he now has a family, he will prioritize his family more than gambling because it is just having fun in his spare time.

Of course because there is no other way but to stop doing it or slowly reduce the activity, not to mention it is also for their own good and also for their family. Although they may argue that they will gamble with all control or self-restriction, it will not always be like that, the flow of gambling runs under the human consciousness so it is very possible that they will unconsciously enter into addiction and will always say "This time I will definitely win", they always hope - and even though there is absolutely no certainty and even the chances are very small. And obviously if they have entered the zone like that then maybe they will not think about their family including the basic needs for their family. Indeed there may be some of the gamblers who can withstand all the temptations that are there with strong self-control, but I say the chances are very small to be able to do that, as we know how the temptation in gambling until - until you can forget everything in your life gambling has distracted you. So the bottom line for those who are still gambling or even addicted is better from now on to reduce it and for those who never gamble at all I hope you can stay in that position by not being tempted by gambling at all, that's better.

Yes as I said above, inevitably if they are married then they must be able to think that there are already big responsibilities that they must focus on in the future, and that means they must be able to reduce their gambling slowly, because I am sure to stop suddenly it is almost impossible especially for those who are already addicted. Therefore, they can start by reducing their activities and divert their attention by adding other activities such as adding jobs to increase income. They should be able to think and take examples from the many cases that have occurred who ended up divorced because of gambling which affected the family economy.

When a person gets married, their responsibilities become greater, so they have to focus on meeting their family's daily needs and can reduce unnecessary expenses. And by reducing their focus on gambling, they can focus more on their family, which is what is more important to do. And if he earns income, he can hand over the money to his family so he can use it to meet his daily needs.

That's right, when they are married or married then what they have to prepare at the beginning is good management in terms of finances, because of course their expenses will be greater than usual when they are still supporting life for themselves, and now there are two lives they have to feed, you and your wife and also maybe some of your children later. As much as possible, we should minimize our spending and not buy anything that we don't need. So if in such conditions for example you are still gambling then instead of saving the budget but you are busy by continuing to allocate money to gambling. Believe me there will be many problems that come especially in terms of finance, if indeed you have more money then it is better to save for other needs in the future.

[ethereumhunter]

Of course because there is no other way but to stop doing it or slowly reduce the activity, not to mention it is also for their own good and also for their family. Although they may argue that they will gamble with all control or self-restriction, it will not always be like that, the flow of gambling runs under the human consciousness so it is very possible that they will unconsciously enter into addiction and will always say "This time I will definitely win", they always hope - and even though there is absolutely no certainty and even the chances are very small. And obviously if they have entered the zone like that then maybe they will not think about their family including the basic needs for their family. Indeed there may be some of the gamblers who can withstand all the temptations that are there with strong self-control, but I say the chances are very small to be able to do that, as we know how the temptation in gambling until - until you can forget everything in your life gambling has distracted you. So the bottom line for those who are still gambling or even addicted is better from now on to reduce it and for those who never gamble at all I hope you can stay in that position by not being tempted by gambling at all, that's better.

When the money runs out, he doesn't immediately leave the casino. Still, he will think about depositing another amount of money into his gambling account to be able to continue gambling. This often happens to many gamblers because they still want to win and recover previous losses. When they do not realize that their family is more important than gambling, they only spend their family's money on gambling without considering meeting their daily needs. That's because they can't abandon their gambling and think they can win so that they will fulfill their family's daily needs with their winnings. But what happened was different from what he wanted.

That's right, when they are married or married then what they have to prepare at the beginning is good management in terms of finances, because of course their expenses will be greater than usual when they are still supporting life for themselves, and now there are two lives they have to feed, you and your wife and also maybe some of your children later. As much as possible, we should minimize our spending and not buy anything that we don't need. So if in such conditions for example you are still gambling then instead of saving the budget but you are busy by continuing to allocate money to gambling. Believe me there will be many problems that come especially in terms of finance, if indeed you have more money then it is better to save for other needs in the future.

Financial management is something that must be done by both married and unmarried people so that they can fulfill their daily needs. If he only uses his money for gambling without any allocation for other things, he will have difficulty meeting his daily needs and this will make him borrow other people's money to buy his living necessities. Having a budget for gambling and other things will help us to survive and meet our living needs so that we will not borrow money from other people because other people also need money to survive. And if the husband/wife says to leave gambling for the sake of their family later, it is better for them to really leave gambling because otherwise, their family life might be disturbed. They will not be able to meet their daily needs because all their money is used for gambling.

[Negotiation]

Gambling is just something that I do for entertainment. I wouldn't risk an amount that could significantly impact my family. What I do with my own money is my business but if my gambling habits ever became a problem for anyone I would strongly consider their opinion. I'm not married but it would not be worth it to lose somebody I really cared about because of gambling. There are other ways of being entertained.

If we consider gambling as entertainment, of course we will be able to control ourselves when gambling and this will not be a problem for us and the people around us, but it will be very different if we cannot control ourselves, of course this will be very troublesome for those closest to us. Before we are married, I think we are free to easily use the money we have for whatever makes us happy, but it will be different if we have a wife, of course we have to agree with them if we don't want our relationship to end with something trivial. I agree with you that we can seek pleasure in other things if we are already in a marriage relationship.

If you are in married life you have to think about your wife and do something good if you do not have control over gambling then many times the relationship is ruined. Most of the time is passed by gambling or thinking about gambling ready to make big bets day in and day out. They don't even remember the losses or losses many people gamble to cover up personal problems helplessness and even depression. Negligence comes to family or professional work so if it can be controlled there is no effect on the family.