Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

[Blitzboy]

Surely will.

What's there to be a gambler and displease family in exchange for peace and togetherness.

As a man, if your spouse tells you to give up gambling and you don't, you just singed up for a great deal of subtle trouble. I personally appreciate peace more than my ego and other stuff, if leaving gamble will ensure a lasting peace at home, so be it

Becoming a gambler can have negative consequences for his household after he gets married, especially when, after marriage, he turns into a gambler who cannot be responsible for his gambling activities. This will give him bigger and more serious problems because his partner will definitely find out what he is doing. If it is gambling, arguments will arise in the household, which could lead to divorce if the partner cannot accept the fact that her husband is still gambling.

Someone who wants to marry us definitely wants to build a good household. She will advise the man who will become her husband to stop his gambling activities immediately. That is good advice because it is all for the sake of his home life and he can avoid financial problems that can be disturbed by gambling. So it is better for those who want to get married but are still gambling to immediately stop their gambling activities so that they don't cause problems after they get married.

Marriage and gambling? Similar to water and oil. Gambling first attracts people with its thrill, danger, and big payouts. Isn't it a rush? Then,weddings stop you from sabotaging your own life. You're gambling with your spouse's happiness, too. She wants a lifelong partner, not a gambler. She's right to say "stop gambling." Money is vital, but so is peace of mind and faith. Don't touch the cookies. How will you face marriage's challenges? It ended this way. You're risking marriage? Quit. Now. You think winning is more exciting than getting married? Slow down. Marriage is risky enough - don't make it worse

[Sanugarid]

Many of us started gambling at the teenage although it's required 18 + but many of started before 18. I started gamble at the age of 17. I am also 17 years old. I take my own risk and I started sports beating. Sports waiting help me to be a self depend a person. Continuously I am doing this in my opinion I am not going to leave this in future because I started earning from batting and day by day I get more experience. I will do it in future because that will be a source of income for me. I am not leaving it by listening my future wife told me. Because itself me to be a self depended person that's why I am not leaving it. Limitation gambling help me not to addected.

You can say that now because you are not in the situation yet, I think your perspective will change a little in the future but it really depends on the person if they know how to handle it. When your partner sees that you are not an addict and that you can handle the gambling well, she will allow you as long as there is a limitation.
But for now what you are doing now is good. While you are still young, just explore and have fun. Your learning.

[TurboMen]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

First, think about what's gambling to me. Is it more important to me than anything else in the world that I can easily sacrifice? Is this habit of me is hard for the people who love me? Is it worth it to quit for them? But if it's negatively affecting my life, then nobody needs to advice me, I will quit at my own will. I don't like addiction to anything.
I don't know about quitting, it depends on the situation, because if gambling helps me get financially stable, then I might rethink about quitting it. Even if it's good for me but my family thinks differently, then I'll consider quitting this for sure. I can find another source for money, but I can't find another source for love easily.

[tusandii]

Many of us started gambling at the teenage although it's required 18 + but many of started before 18. I started gamble at the age of 17. I am also 17 years old. I take my own risk and I started sports beating. Sports waiting help me to be a self depend a person. Continuously I am doing this in my opinion I am not going to leave this in future because I started earning from batting and day by day I get more experience. I will do it in future because that will be a source of income for me. I am not leaving it by listening my future wife told me. Because itself me to be a self depended person that's why I am not leaving it. Limitation gambling help me not to addected.

You can say that now because you are not in the situation yet, I think your perspective will change a little in the future but it really depends on the person if they know how to handle it. When your partner sees that you are not an addict and that you can handle the gambling well, she will allow you as long as there is a limitation.
But for now what you are doing now is good. While you are still young, just explore and have fun. Your learning.

While you are still young and not married, it would be better to get used to being honest with your potential partner, even if it is about gambling, maybe some partners will not allow it because sometimes gambling is considered a bad thing, but if as a man you continue to show an attitude of gambling responsibly, it will definitely be forgiven and after it will allow to gamble very small amounts.
Actually, whatever happens as long as you tell the truth, a partner will not leave you because honesty is important, but if there is a selfish partner who puts pressure on their partner to leave gambling, this might be a complicated situation, but rest assured, a partner wants the best for the future, so understand that.

[God bless u]

It is the fact that gambler if settle a happy life with wife then he left all those activities which have no usefulness ever and they always do what their wives tell them to do. In our society if someone know about a person that he is a gambler then it become hard for him to marry with a good girl because gambling is consider as a bad thing in our society.

If someone hide his gambling activities in a family then there is a chances that he will surely leave gambling after getting married. Married life has more positive effects on a person's life than anything else. As you will also have experienced that if wide forbid his husband to smoke then he left smoking same is the case with gambling and other bad activities which a person can only try to get rid of after a successful married life. But if someone is not interested to leave gambling even after marriage then it means that he has no respect for his relationship.

[ethereumhunter]

Marriage and gambling? Similar to water and oil. Gambling first attracts people with its thrill, danger, and big payouts. Isn't it a rush? Then,weddings stop you from sabotaging your own life. You're gambling with your spouse's happiness, too. She wants a lifelong partner, not a gambler. She's right to say "stop gambling." Money is vital, but so is peace of mind and faith. Don't touch the cookies. How will you face marriage's challenges? It ended this way. You're risking marriage? Quit. Now. You think winning is more exciting than getting married? Slow down. Marriage is risky enough - don't make it worse

Actually, there is no rush because marriage is aimed at building a household. At the same time, gambling can be done in your spare time, provided that a person really has self-control and is responsible for themselves. Now with the wedding. It may be true that getting married means gambling with your partner's happiness but they feel they can live happily with their partner, otherwise, why do so many people get married and live happily? Meanwhile, in gambling, you gamble and lose money even though you can win, but are you happy? You definitely know the answer because gambling and marriage are different things.

Answering marriage challenges? You are not alone in answering marriage challenges because you can discuss them with your partner to find a solution. And it's okay to stop gambling after you get married if it's for the sake of your household's happiness. If you are still gambling, it means you are still putting your ego first and you still want to gamble where you know the risks of gambling. You should be able to choose it.

[boltz]

I think if you're getting to that point when you can't control yourself anymore and you have to rely on dear ones to make you quit gamble , then it's the time to actually get concerned about your addiction and start looking for a solution without actually hurting your dear ones.

Actually , the correct question would be : would you stay with yourself , knowing well that you're a gambling addict ? I think we all know the answer. 

[slapper]

Marriage and gambling? Similar to water and oil. Gambling first attracts people with its thrill, danger, and big payouts. Isn't it a rush? Then,weddings stop you from sabotaging your own life. You're gambling with your spouse's happiness, too. She wants a lifelong partner, not a gambler. She's right to say "stop gambling." Money is vital, but so is peace of mind and faith. Don't touch the cookies. How will you face marriage's challenges? It ended this way. You're risking marriage? Quit. Now. You think winning is more exciting than getting married? Slow down. Marriage is risky enough - don't make it worse

Actually, there is no rush because marriage is aimed at building a household. At the same time, gambling can be done in your spare time, provided that a person really has self-control and is responsible for themselves. Now with the wedding. It may be true that getting married means gambling with your partner's happiness but they feel they can live happily with their partner, otherwise, why do so many people get married and live happily? Meanwhile, in gambling, you gamble and lose money even though you can win, but are you happy? You definitely know the answer because gambling and marriage are different things.

Answering marriage challenges? You are not alone in answering marriage challenges because you can discuss them with your partner to find a solution. And it's okay to stop gambling after you get married if it's for the sake of your household's happiness. If you are still gambling, it means you are still putting your ego first and you still want to gamble where you know the risks of gambling. You should be able to choose it.

You shouldn't rush into marriage. Building a life together is a significant decision. And gambling? Although a hobby, it needs extreme self-discipline. Your assessment is correct. Gambling is a game of chance, and the house always wins. Gamble, win or lose, but the thrill? This is transient.

But marriage is a long-term commitment. Sharing life and overcoming problems with someone else. You're never alone. You confront anything comes your way with your companion. Mutual understanding and growth are involved. If quitting gambling ensures family happiness, it's a no-brainer. Continuing gambling after marriage? That's prioritizing yourself over your family. Marriage is about priorities, and family comes first. A lifetime of shared joy or transient exhilaration.

[EluguHcman]

Depends on the effect because I don't think if a wife would ask husband to stop gambling if the husband is being lucky on a gambling winning roles that is tendered to bring earning to the family more that the legal job.

Imagine i have $50 on my weekly gambling budgets and I am always lucky to realize $400 at the end of it and had never been unlucky to lost without interests of winning, I guess I would be addicted to it and would only listen to her if I have been thought tough lessions to had been on the wall of loosing so I am definitely going to fight it out and dances to her tunes.
Though gambling is an addiction that doesn't considers one being impressed of winning or being depressed of loosing.

She must practically buttress to pick points of the negative effects in my Indulgence in the gambling else she won't succeed as Long I am not flexible to her orders.

[ethereumhunter]

You shouldn't rush into marriage. Building a life together is a significant decision. And gambling? Although a hobby, it needs extreme self-discipline. Your assessment is correct. Gambling is a game of chance, and the house always wins. Gamble, win or lose, but the thrill? This is transient.

But marriage is a long-term commitment. Sharing life and overcoming problems with someone else. You're never alone. You confront anything comes your way with your companion. Mutual understanding and growth are involved. If quitting gambling ensures family happiness, it's a no-brainer. Continuing gambling after marriage? That's prioritizing yourself over your family. Marriage is about priorities, and family comes first. A lifetime of shared joy or transient exhilaration.

You are right because before getting married, you have to consider everything carefully. Meanwhile, in gambling it is an entertainment that you should be able to give up for something more important than gambling. But in reality, not many people can do it, even when they are married. Maybe there are still many who still gamble secretly.

By getting married, you learn to be responsible and of course, that also requires self-control over what happens to us and our partner and we also cannot put our ego first in running a household. After a person gets married, his life priorities should change, where he now has a family that he must provide for to be able to meet his daily needs. And many other things require greater responsibility so priorities will definitely change.

[dansus021]

Only fools who would really be having that kind of mindset on trying out to spend up the money which is more than that they could be able to earn.Getting beyond with those things
then you are really just making the bad decision of your life.

Trust me bro there are plenty of people out there that willing to sell everything he has just to gamble, even though there are people who hard work and go all in. The worst part is they take loans for other friends family or illegal landing companies just to fuel the gambling addict. That is the problem hahahahha

[Litzki1990]

I gamble for fun so in future I will adapt my wife to this and I believe she will prioritize my liking and support me in whatever I do. Parents or spouses sometimes convince people to gamble when it is seen that the person has become too addicted to gambling. We know being addicted to something is never a good thing. I can guarantee that I am not addicted to gambling and I play gambling only for my pleasure and I treat gambling like any other game. Whereas gambling is not affecting my life badly and I am not addicted to gambling so I don't think my wife will object to gambling. And I don't want to share these things with my family as much as possible, I have been gambling for a long time but no one in my family knows about it and I hope no one will know about my gambling in the future.

[Josefjix]

Many of us started gambling at the teenage although it's required 18 + but many of started before 18. I started gamble at the age of 17. I am also 17 years old. I take my own risk and I started sports beating. Sports waiting help me to be a self depend a person. Continuously I am doing this in my opinion I am not going to leave this in future because I started earning from batting and day by day I get more experience. I will do it in future because that will be a source of income for me. I am not leaving it by listening my future wife told me. Because itself me to be a self depended person that's why I am not leaving it. Limitation gambling help me not to addected.

It's seems you're an addict, because the signs are already there and there's a whole lot to learn from the system. On the records it's not some random person that tells you to quick gambling, but your better half, your companion, though I'm not married yet but I'll do my cards well by listening to her because is very possible she wants the best for me, not just me but also both of us. Planning a future together, and reaching ultimate goals can only be achieved when there's presence of strong communication in marriage. We're not longer children anymore, rather we're grown-ups and aims at hitting and striving harder for prominent results in the system.

[Blitzboy]

I gamble for fun so in future I will adapt my wife to this and I believe she will prioritize my liking and support me in whatever I do. Parents or spouses sometimes convince people to gamble when it is seen that the person has become too addicted to gambling. We know being addicted to something is never a good thing. I can guarantee that I am not addicted to gambling and I play gambling only for my pleasure and I treat gambling like any other game. Whereas gambling is not affecting my life badly and I am not addicted to gambling so I don't think my wife will object to gambling. And I don't want to share these things with my family as much as possible, I have been gambling for a long time but no one in my family knows about it and I hope no one will know about my gambling in the future.

Congratulations on viewing gambling as fun rather than addiction. Balance is critical in everything, including gambling and relationships. You enjoy gambling, but involving your wife may not be a good idea. We all have distinct interests, so respect them in relationships. While sharing hobbies is fun, its important to keep your own. Making gambling a choice, not an expectation, will let your wife enjoy it. Communicating is crucial. Discuss your gambling pastime with her, but respect her feelings and boundaries.

Remember, relationships require mutual support. Be willing to support her interests, even if they differ from yours, as you would hers. To understand and respect each other. Consider how long-term family secrets affect you. Secrets regarding gambling might cause trust concerns.

[Mauser]

I gamble for fun so in future I will adapt my wife to this and I believe she will prioritize my liking and support me in whatever I do. Parents or spouses sometimes convince people to gamble when it is seen that the person has become too addicted to gambling. We know being addicted to something is never a good thing. I can guarantee that I am not addicted to gambling and I play gambling only for my pleasure and I treat gambling like any other game. Whereas gambling is not affecting my life badly and I am not addicted to gambling so I don't think my wife will object to gambling. And I don't want to share these things with my family as much as possible, I have been gambling for a long time but no one in my family knows about it and I hope no one will know about my gambling in the future.

This seems as a very important factor in relationship, to talk openly about what we like and what we want to do for fun. Money shouldn't be the main concern when talking about what we like to do for fun, because almost anything costs money these days. Going out for drinks or a movie or visiting a museum, all cost money and time. As long as we are not addicted to gambling and it's not our main focus in life there shouldn't be any issues. It's one thing for our wife or girlfriend to have the same interest as us, and something complete different to accept that everybody is unique and has his own interest. In a good relationship the wife should be understanding and accept our gambling instead of trying to change us. This includes of course that our life is in order and we are not struggling with an addiction or have financial issues because of gambling. It should be something we do for fun in the evening after work and as long as there is no other important things to do before. When kids are involved it might be more difficult to find the free time as we don't want to gamble in front of our kids. I would recommend to not keep gambling a secret and talk openly about it with friends and family. They will support you if things are getting worse and can give also some outside advice that we might not see ourselves.

[Negotiation]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

First, think about what's gambling to me. Is it more important to me than anything else in the world that I can easily sacrifice? Is this habit of me is hard for the people who love me? Is it worth it to quit for them? But if it's negatively affecting my life, then nobody needs to advice me, I will quit at my own will. I don't like addiction to anything.
I don't know about quitting, it depends on the situation, because if gambling helps me get financially stable, then I might rethink about quitting it. Even if it's good for me but my family thinks differently, then I'll consider quitting this for sure. I can find another source for money, but I can't find another source for love easily.

Rightly said it depends on the situation and if gambling is leading to bad financial loss and thinking about your family, it is a good option to quit. Here it becomes very difficult to find source of income, if luck is good it is possible to win once but it will not happen again and again. There is no real alternative to making money in gambling so it is better to find other ways to make money other than gambling where the risk is much lower. You can get rid of negative influences easily.

[Taskford]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

First, think about what's gambling to me. Is it more important to me than anything else in the world that I can easily sacrifice? Is this habit of me is hard for the people who love me? Is it worth it to quit for them? But if it's negatively affecting my life, then nobody needs to advice me, I will quit at my own will. I don't like addiction to anything.
I don't know about quitting, it depends on the situation, because if gambling helps me get financially stable, then I might rethink about quitting it. Even if it's good for me but my family thinks differently, then I'll consider quitting this for sure. I can find another source for money, but I can't find another source for love easily.

Rightly said it depends on the situation and if gambling is leading to bad financial loss and thinking about your family, it is a good option to quit. Here it becomes very difficult to find source of income, if luck is good it is possible to win once but it will not happen again and again. There is no real alternative to making money in gambling so it is better to find other ways to make money other than gambling where the risk is much lower. You can get rid of negative influences easily.

Well if gambling cause a lot of financial damage to your family then this activity must be stop since this can cause a lot of trouble which can possibly the main reason why husband and wife separates. But if you are fine doing this activity for fun only well that's good but we also need to consider our priorities and we need to think that gambling is not forever so we need to know on when to quit so that we can priorities those important happening in our life.

Our kids would provably need us so there might be no timeline for us to quit but for sure one day we will just decide that enough is enough since we need to change our priority and we need to step up for the betterment of our future. Family would be the main reason why gamblers quit so its just each of us here just have different timeline.

[junder]

Many of us started gambling at the teenage although it's required 18 + but many of started before 18. I started gamble at the age of 17. I am also 17 years old. I take my own risk and I started sports beating. Sports waiting help me to be a self depend a person. Continuously I am doing this in my opinion I am not going to leave this in future because I started earning from batting and day by day I get more experience. I will do it in future because that will be a source of income for me. I am not leaving it by listening my future wife told me. Because itself me to be a self depended person that's why I am not leaving it. Limitation gambling help me not to addected.

Well as i've always said, It depends to every individual because we have our own perspective when it comes to this matter. For you, it's okay for you not to leave gambling because it gives you a money and this is your source of income but is it much better to have a stable job rather than gambling? no matter how good you are in playing, it is important for you to know when to stop. Do not let gambling affects your relationship with your partner.

Yes I agree with you. About the different points of view of each person, but it seems unethical to make gambling the main income in life, because this will affect our lives in the future, even though there is a lot of parental wealth so that we can continue to gamble in my opinion it is shameful, if gambling with endless parental wealth they should be ashamed. And they should think about finding a permanent job instead of gambling, this habit must be abandoned when they are going to marry their partner, because this habit can have a harmful impact that will destroy their relationship with their partner. Because in my opinion, it is also wrong to make gambling the main income in life, it is better to find a permanent job that has activities that will certainly make us happy with the job rather than gambling that can spend all the money they have.

[GxSTxV]

There are two cases here, when someone is gambling and control himself and rhe other case when someone is addicted to gambling and that act is really harming his family financially or even emotionally where he get to a point of throwing the anger on his partner or even kids.
Both cases should be treated carefully and both sides find a solution,. In my own perspective, the first case where the gambler is controlling his acts and only gambling for fun like most of us here, if my wife ask me to stop gambling I will explain to her what I'm actually doing is only having fun and if the wife agreed it's great, if not I would probably just stop gambling and do something else to have fun.

While in the case of addiction, the gambler should really accept the fact that he is harming himself first and also his partne, thinking wisely that person should seek for help from a professional or an expert. The only solution IMO is to stop otherwise the partner has full right to end the relationship to avoid a lot of harming.

[krishnaverma]

There are two cases here, when someone is gambling and control himself and rhe other case when someone is addicted to gambling and that act is really harming his family financially or even emotionally where he get to a point of throwing the anger on his partner or even kids.
Both cases should be treated carefully and both sides find a solution,. In my own perspective, the first case where the gambler is controlling his acts and only gambling for fun like most of us here, if my wife ask me to stop gambling I will explain to her what I'm actually doing is only having fun and if the wife agreed it's great, if not I would probably just stop gambling and do something else to have fun.

While in the case of addiction, the gambler should really accept the fact that he is harming himself first and also his partne, thinking wisely that person should seek for help from a professional or an expert. The only solution IMO is to stop otherwise the partner has full right to end the relationship to avoid a lot of harming.

You are correct. When the person who is gambling has self control, he will not be a problem for family at all.