The rate of divorce in the society

[Essential10]

I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?

The trend of divorce is increasing day by day in our society and many families are getting wounded due to this divorce. Most of the reasons for divorce in our society are created by husband and wife without their own knowledge. One of the reasons for divorce in our society today is the lack of mutual respect and values of both the husband and wife for each other due to which divorces are constantly happening in our society. In the country where I live, divorce rates are higher in urban areas than in rural areas

Yes, the incidence of divorce in society has increased over the past few years. I am a citizen of Bangladesh, divorce is increasing in our country too. I was in charge of a region in the census survey activity conducted by the government in 2022, which provided information about every person in the country. Divorce rates have doubled over the past year in that survey. I have been able to observe many changes in the society by participating in the survey work. I have noticed that not only the urban areas, but also rural women are becoming part of a major economic role in the country. Female education rate is increasing a lot. Women are not hiding their faces as before, they are protesting a lot now, women have highlighted their position. Differences in mutual understanding are creating, resulting in increasing divorce rates. Whereas women send divorce letters more than men.

[cryptoWODL]

In my country girls are mostly looking for a settled boy and for them age does not matter. No one is willing to struggle. Hence, if you go for a well-settled person, there might be no bonding between the individuals because the person she is marrying is already busy and might not give her the time she needs. Also, money is not everything in marriage. Once the money charm is over and people face the reality they divorce because of their different nature.

Similar problems exist in our country. Girls in our country also find settled boys for marriage, but if the boy is too old, they have no problem.The first goal of girls is whether the boy is established. But another attraction of our country is to find government job boys for girls. It is seen that girls are married at a very young age to older government employees. As a result it is seen that the man cannot give proper time to his wife due to busy work and as a result misunderstanding starts between them which leads to divorce of many families.

Due to another problem in our country or our society, the amount of divorce is increasing day by day and that is the dowry system. In many families, girls agree to pay dowry for marriage, but if they are unable to pay the dowry arrears properly after marriage, divorce ensues.

[Promocodeudo]

I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?

I will blame this man because before you marry there should all round scrutinization, you don't just marry like that, more especially for him that wants to marry because of beauty, he didn't act as a wise man earlier, he should have check his parcel when she was not wearing any makeup to know what she was made off.

The problem we have this day is individual wants, people desire for different things, they only care about themselves, sometimes I tag it immaturity because before you say that you are ready for marriage, you should no that it is a school that you can never graduate from, and you have to be ready for anything that may come, you prepare yourself yourself for means to solve those issues because if decide to quit you may meet the worst and regret your actions later.

[Bravut]

Smiles.
Both are the problem to themselves,I don't see the need whereby you divorce after years of marriage.
What was the need of getting married at the first instance,I have seen a case where the woman just married the Man because of his money,later the Man goods was seized by Custom Service leading to the fall in the Man business then,the wife filed for Divorce you can imagine that.....that means some persons today get into marriage for material gains in order for them to escape poverty.
You even see celebrities divorcing,I think gone are the days marriage was sacred and fuel with love from both partners.
God should help our generation..
Love and trust should be built,and good marriage system preached in our society,not making divorce as the only remedy for marriage settlement.
And family avoid pressuring or forcing one to get married to someone they don't love either because of social status,power or some selfish Gain.

[Linggajanitra]

In social media recently there is being horrified by various cases of divorce from artists and others. Judging from the culprit, divorce itself is divided into two types. First, divorce divorce which means a husband's request to divorce his wife to the court to carry out the hearing as a witness to divorce. Second, is a divorce. Conditions where the divorce submitted by his wife or legitimate power at the court table. Pledge can be submitted to court by one perpetrator (wife or husband) by giving several reasons.
In divorce quarrels are the main causes. And the highest cause of divorce is then motivated by economic reasons. We don't know if in divorce who should be blamed. Maybe they also actually do not want if the household must be destroyed and ended in divorce. We cannot see from the next side and we have to see what causes those who have to be separated by the end. Those who are separated because divorce are also entitled to be happy for the sustainability of their lives.

[Gormicsta]

People in civilizations where trust is low and love is bought with money and material possessions are less likely to cooperate and more likely to engage in conflict. This may reduce the amount of love and trust in marriage and lead to divorce, especially if the couples are always busy and do not have time for each other. In today's society, men are more likely to look after beauty than character, and when they marry, they may regret and be unhappy, which will lead to divorce.

[Dunamisx]

When we follow up in building a relationship in the right and appropriate manner, then things are more possible in working out for us in marriage and we would have both been so used to each other right before the marriage, this is why it is also an important thing to go into courtship before marriage in a relation, this allows the two parties to get used to each other and have an interpersonal relationship in with each other in which they can both cope with after they got married

[yazher]

I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?

At this point, the husband has all the necessary choices to divorce his wife if he wants to because he was clearly deceived and that is not a complicated reason to get a divorce. Unlike others who just divorce their wives out of boredom because they don't find any sweetness in them anymore they just simply divorce them which is somewhat find compared to the wives who are still sufferings and are chained to their irresponsible husbands. Sometimes divorce is not all bad because it can free the woman from the shackles of unwanted marriage.

[pinggoki]

That just means that people are now aware that you can leave the marriage if it's toxic and you don't have any love for your husband or wife anymore, divorce is a beautiful thing to be there because it gives the option that someone can get out of a marriage that would destroy you inside out and even though I have some reservations about divorce being used by gold diggers to scam rich men or women into getting half of what they've worked hard for, I still think that this kind of thing is necessary because it helps protect the women and men that are victims of emotional and physical abuse in the household, with divorce, they've got a bullet against these people that are doing them harm. It should also be a good thing for everyone also that with the advent of more people getting divorce, you also should be considering to get your prenuptial going, that way you're not going to be a victim of gold diggers that wouldn't show their true intentions early on in the marriage.

[Y3shot]

The rate of divorce in my society is increasing with every passing day. The plausible reason for this spike in divorce is higher expectations in marriage. In my country girls are mostly looking for a settled boy and for them age does not matter. No one is willing to struggle. Hence, if you go for a well-settled person, there might be no bonding between the individuals because the person she is marrying is already busy and might not give her the time she needs. Also, money is not everything in marriage. Once the money charm is over and people face the reality they divorce because of their different nature.

You are right, people don't want to be real that is why marriage don't last this days. People tend to hide who they really are and coming together to stay in marriage it feels so difficult for them to cope with the marriage because they find out that they are not even compatible and this leads to the end of the marriage.  If people can open up and be original I think their won't be much divorce like we are having this days.

[xandriel]

Agree with your view on the increasing rate of divorce in our society. It seems like higher expectations are the main reason for divorce.

[Zanab247]

Both man and woman are the cause of all those things that is happening to people marriages these days because, our forefathers use to make friends with their women or men they are going to marry before bring the women or men to their parents to also study them very well to know if he or she can be a wife  or husband material in the future and, you will never hear anything like divorce in our forefathers marriage.

But these new generation, no longer take their time to study the woman or man they are going to end up forever before bring such woman or man to their parents to confirm which are some of the things that is increasing the rate of divorce in the world today and, many people has viewed it as a normal thing in the society.

[Y3shot]

Nothing works as planned in this life. People nowadays tend to get bored easily and they just don't try to fix things rather ending up divorced. It's almost like there's a Divorce Olympics going on, with events like the "Argument Gymnastics," "Emotional Relay Races," and let's not forget the "Marathon of Misunderstandings." And the trophy? Well, it's a piece of paper that says, "Congratulations, you've successfully uncoupled!"

I think the reason why it is like this is because at the beginning of every relationship people never focus on the main thing,  things that determines if the relationship will work or not. Most people just only concentrate what they can benefit,  like money and some people focus on the physical looks . And if this is the main thing why people go into marriage their is high tendency that the marriage won't last , because people don't understand what marriage is all about.

[SATWAT]

Nothing works as planned in this life. People nowadays tend to get bored easily and they just don't try to fix things rather ending up divorced. It's almost like there's a Divorce Olympics going on, with events like the "Argument Gymnastics," "Emotional Relay Races," and let's not forget the "Marathon of Misunderstandings." And the trophy? Well, it's a piece of paper that says, "Congratulations, you've successfully uncoupled!"

I think the reason why it is like this is because at the beginning of every relationship people never focus on the main thing,  things that determines if the relationship will work or not. Most people just only concentrate what they can benefit,  like money and some people focus on the physical looks . And if this is the main thing why people go into marriage their is high tendency that the marriage won't last , because people don't understand what marriage is all about.

Even I have to be agreed with you about this all but still I want to talk about something with it's not applicable in all countries currently we are having too many issues in different countries with everyone is going to settle things by his own and society is suffering with this badly even still in few countries this ratio is not high because their elders are doing good job and fixing issues with cooperation which is helpful for the all.
But in few countries we are having completely different situation because they are having things which are not under central control and as they lost expectations they do this all quickly which are creating serious mess up which needs to be fixed but now due to social media and too much awareness things are going out of the control.

[Promocodeudo]

Divorce is a common thing in the society because of individual differences, that's why understanding should always come in play in marriage, marriage is a union of understanding and tolerance, for two people to agree to stay together as one their must be understanding.
Though how you start your relationship before marriage matters, both parties should make sure that they are compatible before agreeing to marry because we shouldn't expect change when we finally marry, individual character differs and such character should not be sleeping to change, though if two can not agree, divorce should be the next option but this would have been corrected if they workout the modalities earlier.

[Bushdark]

Both man and woman are the cause of all those things that is happening to people marriages these days because, our forefathers use to make friends with their women or men they are going to marry before bring the women or men to their parents to also study them very well to know if he or she can be a wife  or husband material in the future and, you will never hear anything like divorce in our forefathers marriage.

But these new generation, no longer take their time to study the woman or man they are going to end up forever before bring such woman or man to their parents to confirm which are some of the things that is increasing the rate of divorce in the world today and, many people has viewed it as a normal thing in the society.

The rate of divorce might keep increasing if we don't try and look for the solution byjiur individual self.
The government does not have a say herr and sometimes divorce is important to avoid some unnecessary problems.
We do cause many of these problems and that should make us to know where we are doing whatever relationship that we are.
There are so many marriages that are ending these days and all we have to do is to tighten our corners to avoid problems.

[Oiravon96]

I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?

the new marriage lasts forever. I've only been divorced for a few months. of course this is a problem. The problem is that many young couples are not old enough to be married. Young couples who still act like children or are unstable are allowed to marry. Of course this should be a concern for the environment and parents. Basically, marriage should not be used as a place to play games or just give vent to lust. Of course there must be a role and education from parents for young couples who want to get married. What is happening now is that young couples who want to get married are only judged by their readiness without looking at environmental factors and mature attitudes towards the couple. Many divorce cases are economic issues. How could it not be, young married couples sometimes don't have a definite job or a clear job. Of course this will be a time bomb in the future when the man doesn't have a job. Of course this problem can be overcome. can be overcome with education from parents and relatives and also awareness of couples who want to get married...

[Mystic75]

Divorce rates vary widely across different societies and regions. In many Western countries, divorce rates have been relatively high, with estimates ranging from around 40% to 50% of marriages ending in divorce. However, divorce rates can be influenced by cultural, economic, and social factors, and they may fluctuate over time. It's essential to consider the context of a specific society or region when discussing divorce rates.

[MissNonFall9]

I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?

Truly the rate of divorce is increasing in today's world but I doubt that divorce is due to makeup. I am surprised to think that in today's age marriages are happening without seeing. One of the main causes of divorce is a lack of mutual understanding conflict of interest and a tendency to blame each other. Through all the rules of marriage in the Western world, the dependent partner gets half of the partner's property effortlessly. In such cases many self-interested people often resort to divorce.
Above all, it is the duty of both to sustain this sacred and beautiful relationship of marriage through a full reflection of mutual respect and responsibility.

[FinePoine0]

Divorce rates vary widely across different societies and regions. In many Western countries, divorce rates have been relatively high, with estimates ranging from around 40% to 50% of marriages ending in divorce. However, divorce rates can be influenced by cultural, economic, and social factors, and they may fluctuate over time. It's essential to consider the context of a specific society or region when discussing divorce rates.

Divorce is the biggest problem in the world today, because most women and men have high levels of pride. So there is a high chance of breaking up before each other's relationship is solidified, especially in the case of women.  A man never wants to destroy his family, but when a girl is touched by a man, she starts committing adultery. And nowadays divorce is more than 10% to 20% due to this extramarital affair.