He Used Our Wedding Savings to Play Bet

[Winterfrost]

Oh what was the man thinking when he did that! He has left such a lady heart broken. Definitely its not easy to take the burdens of wedding alone that is why some friends and families contribute to support individuals who wants to get married. But the guy in question was too quick to do that and at least he should have been sincere to the lady by telling her before he decided to use the money. To find such ladies who are willing to save up with a man to plan weddings together is rare these days. This is such a terrible situation for the both of them as now the wedding will no longer hold and also all the hard earned money saved is loss. Except the extend of their love for each other I dont see the both of them getting married.

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  Hi guys and ladies, here comes a very sad and heart-breaking story (true life confession) of a young lady who was contributing money (saving money) together with her husband-to-be (fiancée) in preparation for their wedding. The story in quote ..

My fiancee and I have been making arrangements for wedding, we are both contributing (saving) money because i know about his financial condition, in fact, i will say that i have contributed to about 60% of the total money in our savings, just for him to use nearly all the 5 million naira (approximately $5000) we saved to play betting and when i asked him about it, he said he was trying not to put all the wedding burden on me, that he thought he would be able to double the money.

I am really speechless and confused, and i think it's best for me to call the wedding off, what will i even tell people that already know about our wedding plans? this is the most disgraceful thing that has ever happened to me.

This is a really sad story that the fiance have to take their whole $5000 meant for upcoming wedding to just gamble it all away without he taking proper measure knowing fully well that gambling is just like a 50/50 chance whereby you are likely to win or lose, and as such he ought to have gambled with the fund he knew he could always afford to lose, and not the entire $5000. Because with is situation now, I doubt if that wedding will ever go on again, as that lady is likely not to ever forgive his fiance any day ever again for making such a huge mistake in such a critical and important time like this in her life. And this should be a lesson to all other men to not gamble with any money that they just can't afford to lose.

[seoincorporation]

This was the right signal for that woman, i would say this was something good because if she got married to a man like that it would be the biggest mistake in her life. So, with this, she lost part of the money for the wedding, but was a cheap price to pay, other way that guy could gamble the house or the cars in the future.

I really feel bad for her, is one of those scenarios where the gambling vice is bigger than love and trust.

[TelolettOm]

  Hi guys and ladies, here comes a very sad and heart-breaking story (true life confession) of a young lady who was contributing money (saving money) together with her husband-to-be (fiancée) in preparation for their wedding. The story in quote ..

It's really unfortunate and really a  sad story that makes big dilemma. Also sad about the woman's condition. And for the man who was her future husband, this was truly outrageous. If there is still a chance, even though this is not easy, even very difficult, it is better not to continue. I think this is not just a plan to make the money multiply by betting. but it could be that this has become a habit or even an addiction. And when someone is addicted to betting without thinking about financial management, this will last a long time. And it won't be easy for that person to change. It may be difficult, but it may be the worst possible outcome.

And this can be a lesson for all of us. Please remember, don't expect to get rich from gambling, don't risk what you have in betting or gambling in the hope that you can multiply what you have. In fact, it is the debt that will probably double because of this. because after all, financial management is very important, when someone dares to use money that is very important to them to gamble, it means that their thinking is very narrow and their financial management is very bad. Whether the story is true or not, regardless of all that, don't make betting your absolute hope of making more money.

[Latviand]

I also feel sorry for the lady but life goes on. If she called off the wedding, life goes on.

But I want to ask a question. The lady only called off the wedding and continue with the man or she also broke up with the man? The finance may not be a gambler but just want to try his luck, but that is stupidity.

I have seen something like this before but I did not know who contributed the money. Men like some risky. Some of them were luck but some were not lucky.

These kind of men aren't just risky but also plain stupid, it's your money for the wedding and I don't think that there's anything you can spend it on besides the wedding itself. One thing that's clear here is that the woman has dodged a bullet if she did called off the wedding and broke up with the guy because there's no bigger sin than destroying what the love of your life has been dreaming of which for most women is a grandiose wedding. This is such a disaster for both the couple and the people involved in the wedding, definitely a story worth sharing to other people about the dangers of gambling.

[sana54210]

i know how important weddings are to women and for the fact that she herself joined the man in saving, and even contributed about 60% of the entire funds they managed to save, shows or showed how committed she was to see that their wedding takes place, but unfortunately, the man gambled the money away, what could be more heart breaking than this?

To be fair this depends on the personality and more about like how the relationship would go on. If he is a gambler that will go on to gamble and take these type of risks all the time during the marriage as well then yeah I think calling off the wedding is fine, that woman shouldn't marry this man. But, if this is a rare situation and he couldn't find any other way to help and normally do not gamble all that much at all, then it was a stupid mistake derived from wanting to do something nice, and that is of course a stupid move there is no doubt about that but at least it's a decent act.

I think that is an important thing and should make the difference, in that case some form of argument would be more than enough for them to go on. The difference is that, once in a year is fine, but doing it constantly means rest of your life would be like that, and no person should marry another person that would be making mistakes like this at all times constantly.

[Die_empty]

This was the right signal for that woman, i would say this was something good because if she got married to a man like that it would be the biggest mistake in her life. So, with this, she lost part of the money for the wedding, but was a cheap price to pay, other way that guy could gamble the house or the cars in the future.

I really feel bad for her, is one of those scenarios where the gambling vice is bigger than love and trust.

You are absolutely correct. If he could use money saved for marriage to gamble then he can do more stupid acts. I have read the news of someone selling his child without the wife's consent because of money. The girl should rethink if she can really spend the rest of her life with him because he might cause more trouble in the future.

It could also be that it is just a mistake and he has never acted in such a stupid manner in the past. I have never invested in a Ponzi scheme but there are times when family members or friends will keep convincing and persuading you to put in your money. If you are not careful, you might consider putting in a big amount. Maybe this man was convinced that he would win if he staked the money. I hope he has learned his lesson and will consider gambling responsibly in the future. Nevertheless, it is up to her to take the decision.

[Gozie51]

I really feel bad for her, is one of those scenarios where the gambling vice is bigger than love and trust.

Surely he has broken any trust that was suppose to be built in that relationship and no matter what happens incase she goes on with the marriage, it will need a greater conviction to believe in him anymore. I can imagine she having such huge money and the thought of giving it to him for keep, that will be a big temptation for her.

Anyway, talking about leaving the relationship or having a future together, you will be surprised the man will reconvinced her again, there are some guys good at such convinction where there is existing love, just like they love convers multitude of sin.

[moneystery]

it's quite sad to see this woman how she saved her money to get married but in the end the money was spent by her future husband. this case teaches us that sometimes trusting people with our money is not good because they could betray our trust and never gamble with other people's money, savings for education, health, or other important things.

and also if someone thinks that they can double their savings or money that is very important to them through gambling, that is a very stupid thing because they will not be able to double it, on the contrary, they will lose all the money they have and this has been experienced by many people. gambling is not a way out, people should understand that doubling their savings is not by gambling but by increasing their income or borrowing other people's money if they have to. thats the only way.

[Z390]

I think the lady already knew that this man is a gambler? That's the first red flag, as this man is a desperate gambler who thinks only for himself, if they can both gather money together and he went behind her back to make this stupid decision then he can't be trusted, assuming this man is the only one planning the wedding on his own with his money and this happened its better, but your woman also saved part of the money for the wedding? That's pure wickedness.

Why can't he just gamble with a certain amount or why not just risk his own part of the money that he saved? Why use all the entire money? Forget love for a second, this is a reckless man who don't care about others, I am also a risk taker and I don't like putting people in a bad condition or shape, I prefer risking my all for myself, and be ready to face the result but bringing someone down with me? Never!

If I can meet this man I have two things to say to him, I will describe how selfish he his to him and also tell him that he is better off without the lady because he doesn't deserve her, how can you use such money to gamble when you know it's possible you lose it? Such man can do anything, she deserves someone better.

[klidex]

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Even though i don't know this young lady in question personally, i felt true pity for her after coming across and reading her confession, i know how important weddings are to women and for the fact that she herself joined the man in saving, and even contributed about 60% of the entire funds they managed to save, shows or showed how committed she was to see that their wedding takes place, but unfortunately, the man gambled the money away, what could be more heart breaking than this?

This case has happened a lot in real life and I feel sorry for people who experience bad luck like that, gambling is actually not bad, it depends on someone using it responsibly or not, sometimes someone thinks that gambling can multiply money but in reality the more we bet the more We waste a lot of money in vain and honestly what this man did was a stupid thing to spend so much money just to bet on gambling especially when he used the proceeds from his shared savings before doing that he couldn't think about the impact that would happen?? I really feel sorry for the woman, she trusted her partner to hold onto her savings, but it turns out the man used it for gambling. It's really heartbreaking. It would be better if the woman not only canceled her marriage but also broke off the relationship with the man because if the woman continues the relationship that This will have a bad impact in the future, someone who is addicted to gambling will find difficult to stop.

[Saisher]

Now I consider this a grave betrayal of trust, a wedding is essential for a woman, and for a guy to spend the money for their wedding is very difficult for a woman to accept, the lady should choose to cool off the wedding, it seems the man love the casino more than he loved the woman that he is going to marry.

The lady did not deserve the man there are many men that are better than this guy I'm sure he will find a better guy, and her life will be in a big misery if she decides to continue with the wedding.
You cannot build a relationship if one is betraying one's trust.

[TopTort777]

Now I consider this a grave betrayal of trust, a wedding is essential for a woman, and for a guy to spend the money for their wedding is very difficult for a woman to accept, the lady should choose to cool off the wedding, it seems the man love the casino more than he loved the woman that he is going to marry.

The lady did not deserve the man there are many men that are better than this guy I'm sure he will find a better guy, and her life will be in a big misery if she decides to continue with the wedding.
You cannot build a relationship if one is betraying one's trust.

Are you married? This scenario is a perfect example of what a man would get when he gets married Did you read the first post or whole story? If not, here is what you should pay attention to: they were saving money together, he has used part of it and she is now disappointed. Did you get it? What was her is her, what was his now is their In fact, either this is not a full story, but so far it wasnt mentioned that he has lost those money. The chick just cant handle the fact that her future husband used their money without permission or saying. Imagine the guy uses the money  and doubles them. Would she also start to complain, if he makes their wedding double times better?

To everyone - either we find a full story, or stop fantasizing how the story ends. The guy just used money to gamble. It wasnt mentioned if he won or lose. Be more optimistic than pessimistic. 

[Taskford]

I really feel bad for her, is one of those scenarios where the gambling vice is bigger than love and trust.

Surely he has broken any trust that was suppose to be built in that relationship and no matter what happens incase she goes on with the marriage, it will need a greater conviction to believe in him anymore. I can imagine she having such huge money and the thought of giving it to him for keep, that will be a big temptation for her.

Anyway, talking about leaving the relationship or having a future together, you will be surprised the man will reconvinced her again, there are some guys good at such convinction where there is existing love, just like they love convers multitude of sin.

The action made of groom is so immature and shouldn't be tolerated so that it cannot harm more. Since if She easily forgive what his groom done for sure that there would be a worst thing to happen since guilt feeling will be taken out since the man knows that he's fiancee would just forgive him even if he commit a sin on their relationship. So I guess its better for the girl to go away and decide to cool off to see if his soon to be husband is really worth for his trust and also if there's a changes will happen after that incident and also she decide to cancel everything about him.

Yeah we can expect the man will ask for forgiveness and win her heart again but he need to learn a valuable lesson since what he does is really a big mistake and he need to fix his attitude upon dealing with critical things.

[Rabata]

It's really a heartbreaking incident because if a person spends long time saving money  and that earned money is wasted within minutes by gambling then it will be a sad story for everyone. It was no fault of the woman that she didn't even know that her husband was a gambler. I will not blame the gambling platform but the gambler should have known that this money was not meant for gambling. There is a picture in many places where a husband sells a lot of his personal life to manage his gambling money. A gambler needs to know what kind of money to use. If the awareness of gamblers is not increased, such incidents will continue to happen.

[dezoel]

Some people really need to understand that gambling is not a guaranteed way to double their money, gambling is accessible to every single person in the world, and if it was that easy to double your money through gambling, everyone would have been doing that again and again until they get ultra rich but that isn't how it works. Casinos are businesses and businesses don't make their customers earn money but they earn from their customers, that is how a business works and that is how they earn revenue.

So people need to stop using money that they have for something important in gambling only with the thought that they can double the money or at least earn something extra on top of it because that depends on your luck and you can't always be lucky and when there is extreme risk in it, why even make the attempt and risk losing the money that you actually need in your life?

I feel sorry for the lady, if the story is true. I know that people do make mistakes, but she needs to evaluate the guy a bit more before they go ahead in their lives just to make sure that he can actually provide for her in the future. I also believe that the financial status of the guy isn't good because he is a gambler and he probably uses most of his money it just like what he did with their savings.

[Docnaster]

It's really a heartbreaking incident because if a person spends long time saving money  and that earned money is wasted within minutes by gambling then it will be a sad story for everyone. It was no fault of the woman that she didn't even know that her husband was a gambler. I will not blame the gambling platform but the gambler should have known that this money was not meant for gambling. There is a picture in many places where a husband sells a lot of his personal life to manage his gambling money. A gambler needs to know what kind of money to use. If the awareness of gamblers is not increased, such incidents will continue to happen.

The current global economic crises is financially affecting more than 80% of the world population and it's made a lot of people to become financially sensitive and wise in other to survive the harsh economic situation. For two spouses to live together and fend for themselves and children as well, they'll have to be very wise in taking financial decisions and that's why I think any man that used money that was saved to finance wedding to gamble isn't mentally ready for marriage and should be avoided by at this time.
It's one thing to be a gambler but totally a different thing to gamble with almost everything and whoever that gambles with money that's not a disposal income isn't a matured enough for marriage.

[benalexis12]

Such an incident is heartbreaking, and it harms the woman. It appears that the male additionally demonstrated that he does not truly love the woman. I realize it's difficult for the girl, but she needs to go on and accept what happened to her.

That's exactly what it means: you gamble when you can't manage yourself in situations you can't handle. You should only risk with money that is excessively large, not with money that has been assigned. I feel terrible for the girl.

[Fortify]

  Hi guys and ladies, here comes a very sad and heart-breaking story (true life confession) of a young lady who was contributing money (saving money) together with her husband-to-be (fiancée) in preparation for their wedding. The story in quote ..

My fiancee and I have been making arrangements for wedding, we are both contributing (saving) money because i know about his financial condition, in fact, i will say that i have contributed to about 60% of the total money in our savings, just for him to use nearly all the 5 million naira (approximately $5000) we saved to play betting and when i asked him about it, he said he was trying not to put all the wedding burden on me, that he thought he would be able to double the money.

I am really speechless and confused, and i think it's best for me to call the wedding off, what will i even tell people that already know about our wedding plans? this is the most disgraceful thing that has ever happened to me.

Even though i don't know this young lady in question personally, i felt true pity for her after coming across and reading her confession, i know how important weddings are to women and for the fact that she herself joined the man in saving, and even contributed about 60% of the entire funds they managed to save, shows or showed how committed she was to see that their wedding takes place, but unfortunately, the man gambled the money away, what could be more heart breaking than this?

This is the reality for many addicts every single day and it's hard to have sympathy. If he had spent his half, that would have been acceptable - although his fiancee would likely have broken up with him if he did. However to spend the full sum is basically theft when somebody else has contributed towards the total. In this situation, depending on the country they reside in, then she could theoretically take him to court and they would be able to make a claim for the amount she contributed. There is no point in trying to decipher his actions any further, because there is nothing to be gained from it and it was never a reasonable position for him to enter. Sadly he has hurt not only himself but at least one other person by his selfish actions.

[Helena Yu]

it's quite sad to see this woman how she saved her money to get married but in the end the money was spent by her future husband. this case teaches us that sometimes trusting people with our money is not good because they could betray our trust and never gamble with other people's money, savings for education, health, or other important things.

So you mean we shouldn't trust our parents, family, wife/husband because they can betray our trust? not really sure if you've married or not, but I can't imagine when you've married, you still treat your wife as a stranger and not completely trust her.

It's already a risk if you want to have a relationship with other people, unless you're not want to marry anyone, you will 100% free and not disappointed with your spouse.