keep pleasures without incomes aside and Chase after profits

[AVE5]

Based on the statement from OP, he isn't financially stable, and he is very concerned about the income he is holding for his life. In such a situation, his wife isn't understanding him. This shouldn't happen, because he has been doing all this for the betterment of his family and not for his own. She should understand what he's trying to convey. When we're much into the crypto market, we should also know that market changes could happen anytime in any direction. Keeping that in mind, he should spend a little on pleasure, because if he ignores the anniversary celebration a few times, citing the market, then she might feel bad. Things need to be done in a way that shouldn't affect both their plans and expectations.

I didn't actually bring this thread up here expecting everyone to have an opinion that'd convey with my action of postponing my marriage anniversary because most of us have our different views just as different opinions of forum users has be raised on this particular ground. But I can say you're at the point to understand actions @n0ne.
Something everyone needed to ask was "if not for the market change, would I still had have the thought of postponing this event"? And the clarity response is yes because before the approach of that remarkable day, there had been an alarming inflation in my country which the economy system isn't adorable as usual.

So I had to cut cost my engaging to the opportunity with an exploration potentials so I we as a family can stand a chance to beat the economy situation. In a norms we're supposed to spend our money based on the current status and considering our financial sources of income. Honestly I'd had still have the money invested on other means with the potentials to yield more more but I was open minded sighting that Investing it on bitcoin would be much comfortable for me while I strives on alternative sources while life goes one and I also make counts of profits to my holding.

I had such impetus with the believe that opportunity to make money might come and such opportunities might not be made available again but wedding anniversaries would always come time after times.

[batang_bitcoin]

Being successful is not that easy and requires a lot of dedication. It's great that you are participating from the recent bull run and are able to fully provide for your family. Unfortunately there are enough people who didn't have enough free capital to invest in crypto currencies during the last bear market, or didn't know enough about it invest larger sums of money. We should be understanding and trying to help our friends as much as possible. This doesn't mean that we need to spend a lot of money supporting our friends, already small things can make a big difference. Being open with your friend about how you invest your money is good. It shows that you think about longterm goals and are planning for the future. Helping our friends to get a similar mindset is already a huge change and will lead to long term profits as well.

While there were people that have done nothing during the bear market. I have seen a lot of investors that have prepared themselves for this upcoming bull run. Anyone who's able to prepare for it to come and have invested properly despite it's risky, they will see how the market will turn their lives better. It doesn't have to be that much, as long as you're consistent and you've been doing it at the timeframe that you set, you're all good.

So I had to cut cost my engaging to the opportunity with an exploration potentials so I we as a family can stand a chance to beat the economy situation. In a norms we're supposed to spend our money based on the current status and considering our financial sources of income. Honestly I'd had still have the money invested on other means with the potentials to yield more more but I was open minded sighting that Investing it on bitcoin would be much comfortable for me while I strives on alternative sources while life goes one and I also make counts of profits to my holding.

I understand that with your most memorable day and you have to do some cost cutting but if I'm on it, I don't think that I can do it.

[Youngkhngdiddy]

Being successful is not that easy and requires a lot of dedication. It's great that you are participating from the recent bull run and are able to fully provide for your family. Unfortunately there are enough people who didn't have enough free capital to invest in crypto currencies during the last bear market, or didn't know enough about it invest larger sums of money. We should be understanding and trying to help our friends as much as possible. This doesn't mean that we need to spend a lot of money supporting our friends, already small things can make a big difference. Being open with your friend about how you invest your money is good. It shows that you think about longterm goals and are planning for the future. Helping our friends to get a similar mindset is already a huge change and will lead to long term profits as well.

  There is always this sign of relief you get when everyone in your circle is made, it brings this satisfaction and joy seeing all your family and friends win, it simply makes one life easy especially if they are friends you’ve had from way back. Assuming you fell up, maybe you had a bad day at the market and you lost a lot of money. You wouldn’t have to worry or sell off any property. If y’all got each others back then gathering up a little something for you wouldn’t cost a dime for your friends. So you see that true friendship are really healthy, not just for your mental health but also your financial health too. I am fortunate to have experienced the taste of good friendships, friendships that are willing to go extreme for you regardless of the circumstances and conditions at the moment, all they want is the best for you.
  Also, one can attain to richness faster with good friends. Because good friends build together, they cry and smile together. This is why they commonly say be careful with your circle, be in the circle of greatness and not in the circle of too much talks with less work. If I’m in the position to show my friends how to bake bread, I will gladly show them the ingredients and the process of how to so that they can bake own their own. I know a lot of people will want to you to be careful with you friends but trust me when I say they will be signs and red flags if you are in the wrong circle of friends, it is either we are to blind to see the red flags or too carried away. Good and healthy friendship still exist and a lot of young people are exiling themselves building something great together. So tell me why can’t you ?

[Oasisman]

Being successful is not that easy and requires a lot of dedication. It's great that you are participating from the recent bull run and are able to fully provide for your family. Unfortunately there are enough people who didn't have enough free capital to invest in crypto currencies during the last bear market, or didn't know enough about it invest larger sums of money. We should be understanding and trying to help our friends as much as possible. This doesn't mean that we need to spend a lot of money supporting our friends, already small things can make a big difference. Being open with your friend about how you invest your money is good. It shows that you think about longterm goals and are planning for the future. Helping our friends to get a similar mindset is already a huge change and will lead to long term profits as well.

While there were people that have done nothing during the bear market. I have seen a lot of investors that have prepared themselves for this upcoming bull run. Anyone who's able to prepare for it to come and have invested properly despite it's risky, they will see how the market will turn their lives better. It doesn't have to be that much, as long as you're consistent and you've been doing it at the timeframe that you set, you're all good.

Those people who have made themselves ready for the bullrun to come again, we will never see any post about them because they are all now settled and is only waiting to take the profit of their patience and consistency in accumulating more and more fractions of bitcoin just before the next halving.
I don't think people who have less income but still was able to have bitcoin somehow, will have to stick for the reasoning that they didn't get enough profit in the bullrun because they only have a small bag. Well, there were a lot of opportunities to DCA everytime bitcoin had a sharp correction before. These people doesn't only know how to effectively DCA and save money everything they can to make a purchase during sharp declines. 
A lot of people have not really learned from the last 3 bitcoin halving and the potential high profit in the post halving.

[Haunebu]

You are being quite disrespectful towards your wife if I may say so op. Wedding celebrations usually happen once in a lifetime which is why it's perfectly understandable as to why she is pissed about your decision.

Both of you should have discussed and taken a mutual decision instead of deciding on your own. This sort of stuff creates cracks in a relationship.

[Rockstarguy]

You are being quite disrespectful towards your wife if I may say so op. Wedding celebrations usually happen once in a lifetime which is why it's perfectly understandable as to why she is pissed about your decision.

Both of you should have discussed and taken a mutual decision instead of deciding on your own. This sort of stuff creates cracks in a relationship.

Hodling Bitcoin should not be a reason for op to take decision to put his marriage on hold except he is trying to make a big ceremony for the marriage that will make him to spend a lot. I don't really the kind of marriage they want, I think it would have be best if he calls his partner and they discuss and he explains things to his partner concerning his hodling in bitcoin, then they plan for a simple marriage thst will not cause them much.

If the partner still insist for a big ceremony I thnk it is not a good idea because as couples it is important to have good savings before going into marriage. If the partner is not okay with a marriage that they can afford while they invest, then it is not the fault of the man putting marriage on hold because married life is difficult when their is no money and no investment,  it can be frustrating.  I think they need good planing before going into marriage to gain good financial ground.

[Bloodseekers]

Hodling Bitcoin should not be a reason for op to take decision to put his marriage on hold except he is trying to make a big ceremony for the marriage that will make him to spend a lot. I don't really the kind of marriage they want, I think it would have be best if he calls his partner and they discuss and he explains things to his partner concerning his hodling in bitcoin, then they plan for a simple marriage thst will not cause them much.

If the partner still insist for a big ceremony I thnk it is not a good idea because as couples it is important to have good savings before going into marriage. If the partner is not okay with a marriage that they can afford while they invest, then it is not the fault of the man putting marriage on hold because married life is difficult when their is no money and no investment,  it can be frustrating.  I think they need good planing before going into marriage to gain good financial ground.

A wedding doesn't require the big costs that we need unless they want a big celebration like you said, which requires a lot of money and they have to be able to prepare a lot of money to be able to hold their wedding and it would be better for both couples to discuss the event that will be held. they prepare by looking at the money they have and if their partner has Bitcoin that they will hold and the target has not been achieved, of course they can explain to their partner about this so that there is no misunderstanding by their partner.

That's right, holding a big wedding party is not a good choice if we still have little savings and choosing to prepare savings to be able to run a household life will certainly be better because there will be many needs that they will need when they are running their lives in the future and I agree with what you say, every couple who wants to get married, of course they have to have good planning for their wedding and prepare savings and investments for their future.

[Doan9269]

If you want to make fun and enjoy your pleasurable moments, then you must have spent time investing and making money, if anything that is taking your time and money is not profitable or a means of an investment to you in which you can as well fall back to as an asset in the future, then we need to desist from such because we are only wasting our time in them, we have to make sure that our time is being invested on something productive so that we can have something to fall back on during the time of rest.

[Fara Chan]

If you want to make fun and enjoy your pleasurable moments, then you must have spent time investing and making money, if anything that is taking your time and money is not profitable or a means of an investment to you in which you can as well fall back to as an asset in the future, then we need to desist from such because we are only wasting our time in them, we have to make sure that our time is being invested on something productive so that we can have something to fall back on during the time of rest.

What you say is almost the same as the principles that rich people have and what I mean by that is that rich people think when they want to do something that can cause them to sacrifice their time for something more valuable. Because with something more valuable, they can also get a reward that is worth it in the future or when they are no longer able to work as they are now. So it is very important to use the time we have on something productive for the sake of a more relaxed future so that we can enjoy the results with our own satisfaction.

[AnonBitCoiner]

First of all you both should understand each other and should help each other in every occasion because there is no friend better than a partners. If you are financially unstable then your wife should understand this thing because it is necessary to live your married life happily but it is not important to show this thing to a society.

You should explain this fact with great care to your wife and should say that instead of wasting money on celebration if you utilize this money in investment then very soon you will become financially stable and then your each dream will come true because in current age everything is possible with money.

[Furious 7]

If you want to make fun and enjoy your pleasurable moments, then you must have spent time investing and making money, if anything that is taking your time and money is not profitable or a means of an investment to you in which you can as well fall back to as an asset in the future, then we need to desist from such because we are only wasting our time in them, we have to make sure that our time is being invested on something productive so that we can have something to fall back on during the time of rest.

What you say is almost the same as the principles that rich people have and what I mean by that is that rich people think when they want to do something that can cause them to sacrifice their time for something more valuable. Because with something more valuable, they can also get a reward that is worth it in the future or when they are no longer able to work as they are now. So it is very important to use the time we have on something productive for the sake of a more relaxed future so that we can enjoy the results with our own satisfaction.

Yes, usually rich people have a different mindset from people in general, and it is this difference in thinking that makes them succeed in achieving their wealth or succeeding in achieving financial success in their lives, their thoughts are more directed to something further, or that means rich people think more about long-term benefits and benefits than momentary pleasures.

For the rich, time is the most valuable thing or it means that for them time is more valuable than money, which as we know that when we are able to make the best use of time it means that we will also be able to take advantage of every opportunity that comes where the goal is yes to gain benefits in any form, especially money.