Gambling addiction causes loss

[asyakashi]

you have done your best for him, but he doesn't listen to you, he can't forget his defeat and tries to take revenge, and that will bring him down into misery, we can't act with things like this only his own self-awareness can change it

[carlfebz2]

I had a friend in the gambling circle,he was gambler addicted person over a year.I had advised him many times,but he is not ready to accept my advice in the gambling.Apart from gambling,my friend accept my advice without any hesitation.When I had a time on weekend,I get a chance to meet him in personal.I had some question about his gambling addiction,but the sad part is he is not accepted his gambling addiction towards the gambling site.

He said that he had nearly 64k dollars as a loss in the gambling site.In order to recover that 64k dollars,he keeps on betting from all his economic resources.I had advice him to use only 20 percentage of salary to get away from entire gambling loss.But he is now repeating the same 100 percentage of income from weekly,biweekly and monthly.So he was in the big loan problem.Still he is arranging funds from loan to play gambling,because he think that the recovery was possible at the place where he lost his money.What will be your suggestion for my friend to recover from the gambling addiction.

If he wont listen then its his choice and this is something that you cant do since we do have our own will on making decisions in life.If he do take up that path then let him be. You have done your part and you arent that lacking on making advises and cautions as a friend. So there's no way that you'd be blamed on this one. There are people who do really just that simply make out those realizations but its already late.
The damage has already been done, they wont really be able to stop not until that they do have fund into their pocket and on the time that you are taking up some loans to gamble then this is where
things becomes even more worst. Addiction could really cause up not only losses but huge damage into your life when it comes to finances and other things specially if you do already compromised your life savings
on which we know that it could affect your family on this kind of decision or taking.

[salad daging]

By concluding your opinion just now, it is true that people who are addicted to gambling are not completely deterred by the impact of the addiction they experience, in fact one day they will definitely repeat the same thing, namely gambling excessively. Basically, someone who is seriously addicted will find it very difficult to get out of this wrong behavior because their mind is dominated by negative things about gambling.

They will only realize for a moment and then after that they will forget the previous advice again, so gambling addiction must be taken to a psychologist because he will know how to overcome addiction slowly because if we ourselves give advice it is usually rarely heard, especially if we are a gambling player even though it is just for fun.

They will consider us the same, so now I never advise others because their addiction will realize itself and feel it, but most importantly we ourselves do not forget about it and must know that gambling is for pleasure not profit.

[usekevin]

Yes is does. Addiction means you will play every day at almost 24/7. Which also means there's a nonstop money spending. House edge will be the lost of a gambling addict. We cannot win against it.
You win 100 today and then 120 will be taken from you tomorrow. You just lost 20 percent of your capital and then it goes on and on.

The addiction cause the gamblers to find the funds for every day game,the gamblers will get their mind change to the gambling.The biggest mistake do by the gamblers was playing the gambling with loans,most of the gamblers use to do this.The gambling was based on the probability of wins based on the luck.So why the gamblers taking the risk of luck in the loan money.If they really want to get away from gambling addiction he better stop playing the gambling with the loan money.Because they get into big loan money when they fail to make a luck in game.

Some gamblers don't understand this but do analyze why you are not winning in the long run?
You get a winning streak and then suddenly you are in a losing streak and maybe more. We must learn when to check out. If we win enough, call it a day, enjoy the profits, and maybe spend the time with your family using that money. I know it's easy to tell but difficult to do but it is a must.

The gambler who started their play as the beginner will face the loss,it’s not their fault.The biggest fact behind this was the game itself should be learned by the gamblers.Every game had their strategy,So the gambler should learn the game and build a own strategy in the gambling.The gambler should get the game stop after he made a big win.Many gamblers doesn’t follow this way of gambling,they will gamble till he made the big winning or the entire money in the wallet was get into zero.They should learn to stop after making a good win.

[RockBell]

It's difficult to advise people who are addicted to gambling because people who are addicted to gambling don't need advice from anyone if they have no intention of stopping. Those who lose money on gambling sites and are still able to gamble will continue to do so until they can get back the money they have lost so far, even if you tell them that there is no point or if they suffer further losses, this unacceptable by gambling addicts because they believe that one day their money will come back again if they keep trying without stopping.

You don't need to bother trying to think of a way for your friend to recover because he himself has no intention or determination to stop, no matter how much you want to stop him. If he doesn't want to stop then he will keep doing it because he gambles using his own salary, unless he is giving other people trouble, maybe you can force him to stop and take him to a professional center treat people who are addicted to gambling because only they can handle it.

They won't even listen to you because they will feel you don't want them to make money, and they don't know that you are only looking after them and does that are addicts don't listen and they will make sure they lead there self to destruction, I don't think have seen any addict that has achieved any tangible thing in life because that greed has entered them and all they want is more money, and there problem usually starts when they have there first win, and I agree with you, they don't need advice what some of them need is help because they don't have control over there self again, when they are desperate all they are concern about is how they will win and to everybody surprise they will continue to lose. and even when they decide to stop it is not easy because there mind is always on that money, and that is why they a therapist to help them in sections before they can be reclaimed.

[South Park]

By concluding your opinion just now, it is true that people who are addicted to gambling are not completely deterred by the impact of the addiction they experience, in fact one day they will definitely repeat the same thing, namely gambling excessively. Basically, someone who is seriously addicted will find it very difficult to get out of this wrong behavior because their mind is dominated by negative things about gambling.

They will only realize for a moment and then after that they will forget the previous advice again, so gambling addiction must be taken to a psychologist because he will know how to overcome addiction slowly because if we ourselves give advice it is usually rarely heard, especially if we are a gambling player even though it is just for fun.

They will consider us the same, so now I never advise others because their addiction will realize itself and feel it, but most importantly we ourselves do not forget about it and must know that gambling is for pleasure not profit.

It is not that they will forget your advice, what happens is that if they are still in denial about their condition they will simply ignore your advice as they think you do not know what you are talking about, however once they go through that realization they may still gamble as their impulse to do it is stronger than their desire to stop, and this behavior is what makes an addiction so difficult to get over it, since even if a person could remain away from it for years, they could always suffer a moment of weakness and go back to their old ways.

[zuzie]

Gambling addicts will of course be deterred when they continuously lose in the bets they play, but they will not stop there, of course they will look for various ways so that they can play their bets because if they can't get money to gamble, of course will do things that will disturb other people and the most important thing for them is just gambling and not thinking about anything other than that.

The understanding you convey applies to all gambling addicts, maybe they will not feel deterred every time they experience repeated losses, but they will become more aggressive in gambling to get back the money they lost. Even an addict, if he has been addicted for a long time, if he is unable to gamble even once, there will be feelings of anxiety in his heart. The reason is, habits and customs like that are very difficult to eliminate, even in various ways.

[Zigabel]

It is not that they will forget your advice, what happens is that if they are still in denial about their condition they will simply ignore your advice as they think you do not know what you are talking about, however once they go through that realization they may still gamble as their impulse to do it is stronger than their desire to stop, and this behavior is what makes an addiction so difficult to get over it, since even if a person could remain away from it for years, they could always suffer a moment of weakness and go back to their old ways.

It's very common with most addicted gamblers especially those still at early addiction stage to think that they are not addicted and any advice given them at that point is almost unnecessary so the would rather ignore such advice when given. They would think they are still in control and know how best to handle their situations until it's probably out of hand and it's now beyond what they can control they would then accept to be advised as they will also seek help too but sometimes it may be too late as only professional help can do the magic they may be seeking at that time. Sometimes it's good to allow them learn the hard way so that they will not get into it some other time..

Don't wait to get to the point of addiction before you will accept to regulate your habit or better still become responsible with your habit, if you choose to rather wait till that point, you will suffer much more than you can imagine because you didn't pay attention to it earlier.

[irhact]

The understanding you convey applies to all gambling addicts, maybe they will not feel deterred every time they experience repeated losses, but they will become more aggressive in gambling to get back the money they lost. Even an addict, if he has been addicted for a long time, if he is unable to gamble even once, there will be feelings of anxiety in his heart. The reason is, habits and customs like that are very difficult to eliminate, even in various ways.

It'll be very difficult for a gambling addicts to quit gambling, they don't see it like they're doing anything wrong. They think that they're doing the right thing and gambling as every other individual is gambling this is why it's difficult for them to stop being addicted to gambling. Getting addicted to gambling means you'll be gambling very often and when you're gambling regularly you'll also increase your chances of losing more games therefore always gambling shouldn't be a habit.

Losing is a part of gambling therefore when you're gambling above the average individual you should expect more losses. To avoid addiction, avoid chasing after your losses. Chasing losses are some of the reasons why gamblers become addicted as you'll always have losses to chase after and doing that will make you to keep losing. Gambling should be done for entertainment and not for money.

[michellee]

The understanding you convey applies to all gambling addicts, maybe they will not feel deterred every time they experience repeated losses, but they will become more aggressive in gambling to get back the money they lost. Even an addict, if he has been addicted for a long time, if he is unable to gamble even once, there will be feelings of anxiety in his heart. The reason is, habits and customs like that are very difficult to eliminate, even in various ways.

It'll be very difficult for a gambling addicts to quit gambling, they don't see it like they're doing anything wrong. They think that they're doing the right thing and gambling as every other individual is gambling this is why it's difficult for them to stop being addicted to gambling. Getting addicted to gambling means you'll be gambling very often and when you're gambling regularly you'll also increase your chances of losing more games therefore always gambling shouldn't be a habit.

Losing is a part of gambling therefore when you're gambling above the average individual you should expect more losses. To avoid addiction, avoid chasing after your losses. Chasing losses are some of the reasons why gamblers become addicted as you'll always have losses to chase after and doing that will make you to keep losing. Gambling should be done for entertainment and not for money.

A gambling addicts needs to have a strong mind to quit gambling but first, they must to realize that they already addicted to gambling, and that is a problem for them. Stopping gambling means they need to leave gambling no matter if that is hard for them because they already saw what happen to them. They must have doing many thing to quit gambling including having a strong mind and realizing that they made a mistake.

They can reducing their gambling activity and start doing other things to distract their minds not thinking about gambling. The more they can do, the more their chance to distract their mind from gambling. No matter it is difficult, they will try to quit gambling because they do not want becoming deeper in their addiction.

They know that the only chance for them to cure their addiction is by keep trying to limiting their time and not return to the gambling. By doing many things that is not related to gambling can help them to stay away from gambling until they can really cure their gambling addiction.

[harapan]

I had a friend in the gambling circle,he was gambler addicted person over a year.I had advised him many times,but he is not ready to accept my advice in the gambling.Apart from gambling,my friend accept my advice without any hesitation.When I had a time on weekend,I get a chance to meet him in personal.I had some question about his gambling addiction,but the sad part is he is not accepted his gambling addiction towards the gambling site.

He said that he had nearly 64k dollars as a loss in the gambling site.In order to recover that 64k dollars,he keeps on betting from all his economic resources.I had advice him to use only 20 percentage of salary to get away from entire gambling loss.But he is now repeating the same 100 percentage of income from weekly,biweekly and monthly.So he was in the big loan problem.Still he is arranging funds from loan to play gambling,because he think that the recovery was possible at the place where he lost his money.What will be your suggestion for my friend to recover from the gambling addiction.

As it may seem now the end product for Gambling addiction is a total loss,but the one's involved will not accept that fate,moreso when you open up to let them know the do's and don't regarding this game,they won't accept it but they will rather feel your trying to deprive them of their right and decisions.
Sometimes when I watch some gamblers act this way,and I must have talked to them in an advice and they're acting in such a way not to adhere,then I just allow them play to their satisfaction and by so some of them will realize the content of what they are creating.

I had a fight too with my friend on this, trying to persuade him to not take such decisions but he wouldn't listen and I let him be but when the mystery unfold,he came begging me but what would I do as at that moment, definitely nothing.
They are addicted and it's controlling their wellbeing, behavior and all of that but they think it's the other way round.

[zuzie]

The understanding you convey applies to all gambling addicts, maybe they will not feel deterred every time they experience repeated losses, but they will become more aggressive in gambling to get back the money they lost. Even an addict, if he has been addicted for a long time, if he is unable to gamble even once, there will be feelings of anxiety in his heart. The reason is, habits and customs like that are very difficult to eliminate, even in various ways.

It'll be very difficult for a gambling addicts to quit gambling, they don't see it like they're doing anything wrong. They think that they're doing the right thing and gambling as every other individual is gambling this is why it's difficult for them to stop being addicted to gambling. Getting addicted to gambling means you'll be gambling very often and when you're gambling regularly you'll also increase your chances of losing more games therefore always gambling shouldn't be a habit.

Losing is a part of gambling therefore when you're gambling above the average individual you should expect more losses. To avoid addiction, avoid chasing after your losses. Chasing losses are some of the reasons why gamblers become addicted as you'll always have losses to chase after and doing that will make you to keep losing. Gambling should be done for entertainment and not for money.

What you say is very true, that a gambling addict does not seem to feel that his behavior is the beginning of problems for him. because their unnatural habit of gambling excessively will cause them to lose more money and far from losses.
And we as gamblers must be able to accept that in gambling we will definitely be faced with defeats and wins and we must be prepared to bear the risks that will occur.

[Promocodeudo]

Trying to recover loses in gambling made many people to lose much in gambling, as a good gambler your mindset should be that every loss incurred in gambling should be by gone, chasing after such loss will endanger your finances and leading you to be a chronic gambler, some gamblers understands that gambling is not a sure thing so if you are trying to recover your loss how is that possible, how will you think that recovering such is achievable, their are situations you will encounter as a person you will just let go because there nothing you can do about it unless you have decided to lose more, even though you win, you will not still get your while capital back so why concentrate on give a break if possible.

[blckhawk]

Don't correlate that because I do believe that even if you're not addicted or you're just a casual gambler, you will still experience losses and it just so happens that when you're addicted, you're experiencing more losses compared to a casual gambler that will still be able to stop when they want to. In a sense, gambling addiction does cause other kinds of losses too like losing your friends, your mind, your family and your will to live so in a way, gambling addiction does take more from you compared to casual gamblers.

[Heartilly]

I had a fight too with my friend on this, trying to persuade him to not take such decisions but he wouldn't listen and I let him be but when the mystery unfold,he came begging me but what would I do as at that moment, definitely nothing.
They are addicted and it's controlling their wellbeing, behavior and all of that but they think it's the other way round.

When you as a friend think that you have already done your very best to help that person cope with his gambling addiction, then still nothing good happened, it's better to consider reaching that person's family and close relatives. These addicted people now need to be forcefully watched by their families and if necessary, put them into a gambling rehabilitation center where they can be taken properly for good.

We should not give up until we are able to save our friends who are currently drowning in gambling addiction. They won't seek help for that addiction problem as they don't know how to think properly that's why instead, we who are in the right mind, must help them.

[rodskee]

I had a friend in the gambling circle,he was gambler addicted person over a year.I had advised him many times,but he is not ready to accept my advice in the gambling.Apart from gambling,my friend accept my advice without any hesitation.When I had a time on weekend,I get a chance to meet him in personal.I had some question about his gambling addiction,but the sad part is he is not accepted his gambling addiction towards the gambling site.

He said that he had nearly 64k dollars as a loss in the gambling site.In order to recover that 64k dollars,he keeps on betting from all his economic resources.I had advice him to use only 20 percentage of salary to get away from entire gambling loss.But he is now repeating the same 100 percentage of income from weekly,biweekly and monthly.So he was in the big loan problem.Still he is arranging funds from loan to play gambling,because he think that the recovery was possible at the place where he lost his money.What will be your suggestion for my friend to recover from the gambling addiction.

You have clearly said that he is not ready to listen to your advise so what are you calling here mate?
not unless you don't understand what does that mean then maybe you are allow to continue advising him but I
believe its given that he will never listen and not for the time being.

Don't correlate that because I do believe that even if you're not addicted or you're just a casual gambler, you will still experience losses and it just so happens that when you're addicted, you're experiencing more losses compared to a casual gambler that will still be able to stop when they want to. In a sense, gambling addiction does cause other kinds of losses too like losing your friends, your mind, your family and your will to live so in a way, gambling addiction does take more from you compared to casual gamblers.

Maybe what he meant is Loss of everything , because addiction will not only bring Losses in money
but sometimes even your family and own life will be at loss.

[danherbias07]

Trying to recover loses in gambling made many people to lose much in gambling, as a good gambler your mindset should be that every loss incurred in gambling should be by gone, chasing after such loss will endanger your finances and leading you to be a chronic gambler, some gamblers understands that gambling is not a sure thing so if you are trying to recover your loss how is that possible, how will you think that recovering such is achievable, their are situations you will encounter as a person you will just let go because there nothing you can do about it unless you have decided to lose more, even though you win, you will not still get your while capital back so why concentrate on give a break if possible.

I agree. Consider what is loss already gone. If we can get used to it then we might become better gamblers. It's going to be a hard task because that's how we react normally, emotions will always be there to test us if we are going to want to chase our losses.
Even professional gamblers will do the same even if they have all the experience in the world. When a gambler loses, it grows his impatience to get the money back and that leads to increasing the bet amount which I doubt is a wise decision.
Regarding the addiction, that is next to it. If we keep on trying to get our revenge because of the piled-up losses, we won't be successful but it will be the gambling platforms that will be taking more profits because of our clouded mind decision.
Before, I experienced something where the money just went back and forth in Plinko for almost a day, but it took everything afterward without any hesitation. We are not playing against players here, it's the system we are up against in casino games and I don't think there's a way to trick it.
Those losses will definitely pile up in the long run and we have to be wise whenever we get a lucky chance.

[348Judah]

you have done your best for him, but he doesn't listen to you, he can't forget his defeat and tries to take revenge, and that will bring him down into misery, we can't act with things like this only his own self-awareness can change it

Its more better sometimes to let go than chasing after losses, we are instead going to keep on falling for the same mistakes over time, we are to gamble and never feels bad on what it could have caused us financially because it's not a means of making money, instead we needed that money to be able to enjoy gambling, we should deal with our addiction while it's still at the earlier stage than when things already got out of hands.

[2Pizza410000BTC]

I had a friend in the gambling circle,he was gambler addicted person over a year.I had advised him many times,but he is not ready to accept my advice in the gambling.Apart from gambling,my friend accept my advice without any hesitation.When I had a time on weekend,I get a chance to meet him in personal.I had some question about his gambling addiction,but the sad part is he is not accepted his gambling addiction towards the gambling site.

He said that he had nearly 64k dollars as a loss in the gambling site.In order to recover that 64k dollars,he keeps on betting from all his economic resources.I had advice him to use only 20 percentage of salary to get away from entire gambling loss.But he is now repeating the same 100 percentage of income from weekly,biweekly and monthly.So he was in the big loan problem.Still he is arranging funds from loan to play gambling,because he think that the recovery was possible at the place where he lost his money.What will be your suggestion for my friend to recover from the gambling addiction.

Gambling is a very serious addiction that can destroy the life of the addict. To get your friend back from gambling addiction, you must be friendly with him. If you can be friendly with him and give him something nice, maybe he will slowly wean himself away from gambling. He should be treated in such a friendly manner that he would easily forget about his lost money. Whenever a person falls under the illusion of lost betting money, he gets addicted to gambling. This is exactly what happened to your friend. Your friend got addicted to gambling to recover his lost money.

[Mr. Magkaisa]

you have done your best for him, but he doesn't listen to you, he can't forget his defeat and tries to take revenge, and that will bring him down into misery, we can't act with things like this only his own self-awareness can change it

       -   It's really hard when an addicted gambler's mind is closed because they are deaf to the reminders of friends who really care about them; even relatives or their own spouses themselves don't listen anymore.

So when it comes to gambling addiction, it does not really have any good effects on itself. It seems like there is a right time for them to understand or realize that they need to change, or something like that. So what can change them is no one else but themselves.