It’s unlikely that anyone besides you will be happy with your winnings.

[Julien_Olynpic]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

[angrybirdy]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

Always remember that not everyone is smiling and talking good things in front of you is happy for you and what you achieve. That's one of the biggest things I've learned in the reality of life, it's better to keep everything to yourself because it's hard to know who you can really trust, Sometimes it's who you're closest to, they're the ones who say something behind your back and they make an issue with your every move. When it comes to your income, that's why we have what we call confidentiality, don't ever disclose to anyone, not even your relatives how much your income really is and of course what are your other sources of income to avoid envy, especially when money is involved, it is inevitable to have an issue about that.

[Oshosondy]

People say that gamblers prefer the tell people about their winnings but not telling people about their losses. I am different because I tell people about my losses and not about my winnings. The only person that I can tell about my winnings is a gambler like me that we many times gambling together and selecting games together. Telling people about your winning is not what I can also tell someone to do because not all people around you like your success.

But we should not forget that gambling is a game of risk and likely losses will be what that will happen instead of winnings.

[jrrsparkles]

I don't think anyone is gonna whistle about their gambling winnings to everyone unless it's a life changing money or that news is gonna give some benefits like financially or in other forms. Also it's better to keep us surrounded by like minded people so we can avoid most of those differences still conflicts may occur but as said winning life changing money from gambling is rare occurrence so I don't think we need to worry about that much.

[davis196]

Happiness lasts for a really short time frame. Why do we have to care about other people's opinions? I never tell other people about my gambling winnings, because they will think "He's a gambler, he wins today, but he might lose everything tomorrow" so people start looking at you in a different way. The best decision is to keep your gambling activity a secret from your social circle.
I don't think that even I am happy with my gambling winnings. Maybe it's because my gambling winnings are small most of the time, and I also have the feeling that I won't be happy for more than 10 seconds even if I win 100K dollars. Happiness(or the dopamine boost in your brain) lasts for several seconds(or maybe minutes).

[Crypt0Gore]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, and work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, and common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

No one is supposed to know about your gambling activities unless you disclose it to them, gambling is doable online today, who will neighbors or work colleagues hear about it? Whenever I win some money I don't tell anyone, it's the same when I lose some money too, it's gambling, and no one should know.

The fear of judgment as a gambler, the fear of discouragement from people, this is why I don't disclose my plan to anyone, I got to know that I am better at making life decisions than most people who are living close to me, this is why I see no need to carry anyone along with my plans and decisions.

You shouldn't care about what others think, in fact, it's safer to keep good news to yourself only, either in gambling or others, even those who you think are genuinely happy for your success could have a different mind towards your achievement, in my own path, no one is really really happy about my success, they only pretend to be.

[Wexnident]

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Not that "others" should be happy really, nor do I believe that it's the posters goal in the first place. I believe it's just something they want to brag about. Bluntly speaking, to satisfy their ego since, well, who doesn't want to in most cases really. Might vary but most people who'd want to share have that kind of emotion deep down. Similar as to how some people just can't help but brag that they won a life-changing amount. They know it's risky but hey, they want to stroke their ego.

Maybe if it was the idea that "I won" instead of "I got X amount" when the message was sent, it'd be a lot better and less of an ego stroke. But most of the time it's former than the latter that people want to share and is actually shared.

[hyudien]

I wouldn't say they weren't happy with the win we got, because I don't have any evidence on which to base me on saying that.
I might tell you more about how I feel with the big wins that other people get. I'm not a hypocrite that I sometimes feel jealous of them because they managed to get a big win while I didn't. This seems like a very natural thing that we can feel because we also definitely want to get a big win like them. The problem is when we try to follow in their footsteps, for example, the money we allocated for gambling today to reach the limit, then we see our friends win large amounts. After that we think about following in their footsteps and playing again even though our money has run out, well this is something we shouldn't do.
On the other hand, I also sometimes feel happy when my friend gets a big win, because usually I also enjoy the treat my friend does. However, I think this also depends on our emotional state at that time, because what I feel has an impact on the response we give when we see someone win a big win.

[Mrbluntzy]

In the business scene, this kinds of things always happen. The competition is always high and when you are more successful than your competitors, some of them will develop hatred for you or make you their enemy. In the gambling scene, the attitude will also be practice by some people who are always envious of their friends wining, again it can even make the friend to gamble with emotion just to make sure they become lucky and win like their friends did. This is the reason why I don't tell my friends about my wining all the time.

[Betwrong]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings.

You said it yourself. Your close ones will be happy. What else do you need?

But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

Why should I care about those who will receive the news about my victories with envy? "unnecessary reminder of their failure"? What are you talking about, mate?

[borovichok]

Anyone can envy winnings even close friends especially if the friend is in secret competition with you. This is predicated on the fact that we cannot rule out an enemy disguised as a friend from our circle. I have an experience in the past. I had a winning and some of my friends expected me to distribute the winning among them but I didn't do this and they picked offense. Instead of being happy with me for the win, they became angry and one of them abused me directly.

From my experience, even though winning is good and all that a gambler craves for but then it is capable of tearing friends apart. It is important to note here that surprisingly, most of the time strangers seem to be happy for your win than even a friend. A stranger wants to win like you whereas a friend is concerned about benefitting from the win and when they don't benefit, winning in gambling becomes a nightmare.

[Adbitco]

You are correct the people we think or thought are happy with us are not happy because they equate it to themselves whereby enviness is employed that is why in our African way you see them going all manner of places to hinder one's progress due to envinness that's why we must learned to remind hidden and disengage ourselves from all victorious discussion with most people especially people we suspect that they aren't happy with us even though they claimed to be but not as much.

What kills people quickly is close relative whom we think are happy with us but deep down into their hearts they envies someone that is why I easily disassociate myself with someone who is eager to know my source of income how much i receive over the time being. Although friendship is good but there should be some restrictions to what we share with them especially close relatives because the enviness could be much and sometimes people you turned out to assist or helps easily turned out to be your enemy because they have this mindsets that you are making progress more than them so the best is to separate yourself from them and be saved.

[teamsherry]

Mostly I find it irrelevant if someone would be happy for my winnings or not and I don't feel bad or envy towards others own too so it's not a thign to care about or have crossed mind before.

Anyone that is angry about your winning would only be cause he maybe didn't win too or didn't pick and if he is close because you didn't share.

Yes basically I'm the only one that should be happy about my winning cause I toke the risk alone and I don't usually disclose this to anyone.

[Marvelman]

Yeah, I guess sometimes people might feel a little jealous if you succeed and they don't.  But you know what? Sharing those wins with your friends and fam can actually be pretty freaking awesome! Giving your buddies high fives, taking your partner out for a nice dinner to celebrate - that stuff is fun!

The thing is, real friends should be pumped for you when good stuff happens even if they aren't so lucky themselves.  And most co-workers will probably give you a sincere congrats or something, even if they don't really care that much. As for hiding your accomplishments? Nah.  That just creates distance between you and loved ones.  Can you imagine not telling the important people in your life when cool things happen? No thanks! Id rather share the news and spread the happiness.

[Davidvictorson]

Your generalization that  friendships end after one person becomes very rich is not totally true. I am not saying that it doesn't happen, what I am saying is that there are different levels of friendships and friendships that end in this circumstance wasn't genuine in the first place.

One thing that characterizes us as humans is that we are a sharing specie. We want to share everything, therefore there should be a balance in what one shares about their finances. I do not think that sharing my story of a win with friends should be a problem because I keep my circle small and I know that they are people that would be genuinely heppy for me and not feel like I want to outshine them or make remind them of their "failure". We support our friends not tear them down.

[Solosanz]

It's why you need to adopt this quotes "Work in silent, celebrate in private".

Neighbors, friends, colleagues are just bullshits, the only one person that wants see you better than him and become happy when you success is your dad, no one else. It's why when you want to celebrate your achievement, celebrate it with your family, you could bring your friend, but make sure it's your best friend among your best friends.

People see gamblers is a poor, but if you're very kind, they will see you like a successful gambler and keep asking about the way you can make money on there.

[bluebit25]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

I agree, many people may feel jealous or envious when they hear you won, especially if they are struggling financially. This can lead to negative gossip or even hostility. Sharing this information can lead to many different reactions from those around you, and not everyone will be happy or supportive. You have the right to decide whether to share or keep your betting winnings a secret. No one is forcing you to do anything, you should also note that sports betting can lead to many risks, including losing money. So only bet with money you can afford to lose.

[Churchillvv]

Exactly, it's better to keep our wins to ourselves, if you ever loss and discuss it with your friends, family or anyone else they will have this feeling telling you that you're making big mistakes by Lossing to casinos. it if you tell them that you win it will make them feel like they aren't trying.

Sometimes it's a motivation to work more hard on themselves if it's in other part of business but when it comes to gambling it's not a motivation because it could lead to hate because gambling is a luck based and if it doesn't work for them like it did for you then it turns to envy or hates.

I have this experience recently with a friend, or my course mate who usually visit my house, when me and other guys discusses how much we are expecting from our hustle he gets a bad feeling and from then i noticed he has withdrawn friendship with us since his not making such money, i felt instead feeling jealous why not join us, it only takes time to learn this skills but he rather leave than learn.

So I have learnt my lesson that never to discuss my wins with people especially when they aren't wining too.

[Hirose UK]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

Winning is truly complete happiness, it gives satisfaction, pleasure and also sense of pride for the achievements that have been achieved even though it is in gambling.
I agree that not all the people around us can feel the same happiness when we win.
Most of those who take part feel happy only because they are given certain amount of money from winnings, not because of true gesture of solidarity from friendship or brotherhood, this is normal thing and happens very often.
Worse yet, some people may have feelings of jealousy and dislike for the achievements we have achieved, which can give rise to negative thoughts and trigger bad things such as divisions in friendships.

What you are saying is all really happening and is not taboo matter because in social life not everyone can really behave well towards each other.
But I myself don't seem to care about things like this, if they don't like it then just let it be because we don't harm them and vice versa they don't harm us.
Getting good and sympathetic attitude from everyone regarding gambling activities is not easy so it is better to care about our own interests rather than thinking about those who may only have envy and dislike towards us.

[johnsaributua]

Rarely is the pleasure that others get and celebrate the interlocutor wholeheartedly apart from just a glance and a word of appreciation. there are just a handful of people who are so nice when they get money or as a place to rest from what they get. it is a common thing so vice versa when you lose and run out of money then the situation will turn so drastically, no matter how much you contribute to them. approached like a king and avoided like never knowing at all.

It's better to keep your achievements a secret because people who are sincere to you don't need that and people who don't like you will talk about you behind your back, no matter how good you are you will still be talked about. Winning in a game is a constant so keep your winnings a secret just like you're losing, it's better to keep your money intact and have fun.