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I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

Always remember that not everyone is smiling and talking good things in front of you is happy for you and what you achieve. That's one of the biggest things I've learned in the reality of life, it's better to keep everything to yourself because it's hard to know who you can really trust, Sometimes it's who you're closest to, they're the ones who say something behind your back and they make an issue with your every move. When it comes to your income, that's why we have what we call confidentiality, don't ever disclose to anyone, not even your relatives how much your income really is and of course what are your other sources of income to avoid envy, especially when money is involved, it is inevitable to have an issue about that.

People say that gamblers prefer the tell people about their winnings but not telling people about their losses. I am different because I tell people about my losses and not about my winnings. The only person that I can tell about my winnings is a gambler like me that we many times gambling together and selecting games together. Telling people about your winning is not what I can also tell someone to do because not all people around you like your success.

But we should not forget that gambling is a game of risk and likely losses will be what that will happen instead of winnings.

I don't think anyone is gonna whistle about their gambling winnings to everyone unless it's a life changing money or that news is gonna give some benefits like financially or in other forms. Also it's better to keep us surrounded by like minded people so we can avoid most of those differences still conflicts may occur but as said winning life changing money from gambling is rare occurrence so I don't think we need to worry about that much.

Happiness lasts for a really short time frame. Why do we have to care about other people's opinions? I never tell other people about my gambling winnings, because they will think "He's a gambler, he wins today, but he might lose everything tomorrow" so people start looking at you in a different way. The best decision is to keep your gambling activity a secret from your social circle.
I don't think that even I am happy with my gambling winnings. Maybe it's because my gambling winnings are small most of the time, and I also have the feeling that I won't be happy for more than 10 seconds even if I win 100K dollars. Happiness(or the dopamine boost in your brain) lasts for several seconds(or maybe minutes).

No one is supposed to know about your gambling activities unless you disclose it to them, gambling is doable online today, who will neighbors or work colleagues hear about it? Whenever I win some money I don't tell anyone, it's the same when I lose some money too, it's gambling, and no one should know.

The fear of judgment as a gambler, the fear of discouragement from people, this is why I don't disclose my plan to anyone, I got to know that I am better at making life decisions than most people who are living close to me, this is why I see no need to carry anyone along with my plans and decisions.

You shouldn't care about what others think, in fact, it's safer to keep good news to yourself only, either in gambling or others, even those who you think are genuinely happy for your success could have a different mind towards your achievement, in my own path, no one is really really happy about my success, they only pretend to be.

Not that "others" should be happy really, nor do I believe that it's the posters goal in the first place. I believe it's just something they want to brag about. Bluntly speaking, to satisfy their ego since, well, who doesn't want to in most cases really. Might vary but most people who'd want to share have that kind of emotion deep down. Similar as to how some people just can't help but brag that they won a life-changing amount. They know it's risky but hey, they want to stroke their ego.

Maybe if it was the idea that "I won" instead of "I got X amount" when the message was sent, it'd be a lot better and less of an ego stroke. But most of the time it's former than the latter that people want to share and is actually shared.

I wouldn't say they weren't happy with the win we got, because I don't have any evidence on which to base me on saying that.
I might tell you more about how I feel with the big wins that other people get. I'm not a hypocrite that I sometimes feel jealous of them because they managed to get a big win while I didn't. This seems like a very natural thing that we can feel because we also definitely want to get a big win like them. The problem is when we try to follow in their footsteps, for example, the money we allocated for gambling today to reach the limit, then we see our friends win large amounts. After that we think about following in their footsteps and playing again even though our money has run out, well this is something we shouldn't do.
On the other hand, I also sometimes feel happy when my friend gets a big win, because usually I also enjoy the treat my friend does. However, I think this also depends on our emotional state at that time, because what I feel has an impact on the response we give when we see someone win a big win.

In the business scene, this kinds of things always happen. The competition is always high and when you are more successful than your competitors, some of them will develop hatred for you or make you their enemy. In the gambling scene, the attitude will also be practice by some people who are always envious of their friends wining, again it can even make the friend to gamble with emotion just to make sure they become lucky and win like their friends did. This is the reason why I don't tell my friends about my wining all the time.

You said it yourself. Your close ones will be happy. What else do you need?


Why should I care about those who will receive the news about my victories with envy? "unnecessary reminder of their failure"? What are you talking about, mate?

Anyone can envy winnings even close friends especially if the friend is in secret competition with you. This is predicated on the fact that we cannot rule out an enemy disguised as a friend from our circle. I have an experience in the past. I had a winning and some of my friends expected me to distribute the winning among them but I didn't do this and they picked offense. Instead of being happy with me for the win, they became angry and one of them abused me directly.

From my experience, even though winning is good and all that a gambler craves for but then it is capable of tearing friends apart. It is important to note here that surprisingly, most of the time strangers seem to be happy for your win than even a friend. A stranger wants to win like you whereas a friend is concerned about benefitting from the win and when they don't benefit, winning in gambling becomes a nightmare.

You are correct the people we think or thought are happy with us are not happy because they equate it to themselves whereby enviness is employed that is why in our African way you see them going all manner of places to hinder one's progress due to envinness that's why we must learned to remind hidden and disengage ourselves from all victorious discussion with most people especially people we suspect that they aren't happy with us even though they claimed to be but not as much.

What kills people quickly is close relative whom we think are happy with us but deep down into their hearts they envies someone that is why I easily disassociate myself with someone who is eager to know my source of income how much i receive over the time being. Although friendship is good but there should be some restrictions to what we share with them especially close relatives because the enviness could be much and sometimes people you turned out to assist or helps easily turned out to be your enemy because they have this mindsets that you are making progress more than them so the best is to separate yourself from them and be saved.

Mostly I find it irrelevant if someone would be happy for my winnings or not and I don't feel bad or envy towards others own too so it's not a thign to care about or have crossed mind before.

Anyone that is angry about your winning would only be cause he maybe didn't win too or didn't pick and if he is close because you didn't share.

Yes basically I'm the only one that should be happy about my winning cause I toke the risk alone and I don't usually disclose this to anyone.

Yeah, I guess sometimes people might feel a little jealous if you succeed and they don't.  But you know what? Sharing those wins with your friends and fam can actually be pretty freaking awesome! Giving your buddies high fives, taking your partner out for a nice dinner to celebrate - that stuff is fun!

The thing is, real friends should be pumped for you when good stuff happens even if they aren't so lucky themselves.  And most co-workers will probably give you a sincere congrats or something, even if they don't really care that much. As for hiding your accomplishments? Nah.  That just creates distance between you and loved ones.  Can you imagine not telling the important people in your life when cool things happen? No thanks! Id rather share the news and spread the happiness.

Your generalization that  friendships end after one person becomes very rich is not totally true. I am not saying that it doesn't happen, what I am saying is that there are different levels of friendships and friendships that end in this circumstance wasn't genuine in the first place.

One thing that characterizes us as humans is that we are a sharing specie. We want to share everything, therefore there should be a balance in what one shares about their finances. I do not think that sharing my story of a win with friends should be a problem because I keep my circle small and I know that they are people that would be genuinely heppy for me and not feel like I want to outshine them or make remind them of their "failure". We support our friends not tear them down.

Indeed, there will always be people who don't like seeing other people who are more successful than them both in gambling and in other things and when they see other people being able to win at their gambling there will be people who are jealous of what other people get, of course we don't we have to think about this and if they don't like seeing what we have got, of course we don't have to be surrounded by people like that and it will be even better when we win, we don't need to think about people like that and choose to Not telling other people when we win a bet will of course make us freer to enjoy the victory we have got and we don't have to share it with people who are jealous of what we got.

It's why you need to adopt this quotes "Work in silent, celebrate in private".

Neighbors, friends, colleagues are just bullshits, the only one person that wants see you better than him and become happy when you success is your dad, no one else. It's why when you want to celebrate your achievement, celebrate it with your family, you could bring your friend, but make sure it's your best friend among your best friends.

People see gamblers is a poor, but if you're very kind, they will see you like a successful gambler and keep asking about the way you can make money on there.

I agree, many people may feel jealous or envious when they hear you won, especially if they are struggling financially. This can lead to negative gossip or even hostility. Sharing this information can lead to many different reactions from those around you, and not everyone will be happy or supportive. You have the right to decide whether to share or keep your betting winnings a secret. No one is forcing you to do anything, you should also note that sports betting can lead to many risks, including losing money. So only bet with money you can afford to lose.

Exactly, it's better to keep our wins to ourselves, if you ever loss and discuss it with your friends, family or anyone else they will have this feeling telling you that you're making big mistakes by Lossing to casinos. it if you tell them that you win it will make them feel like they aren't trying.

Sometimes it's a motivation to work more hard on themselves if it's in other part of business but when it comes to gambling it's not a motivation because it could lead to hate because gambling is a luck based and if it doesn't work for them like it did for you then it turns to envy or hates.

I have this experience recently with a friend, or my course mate who usually visit my house, when me and other guys discusses how much we are expecting from our hustle he gets a bad feeling and from then i noticed he has withdrawn friendship with us since his not making such money, i felt instead feeling jealous why not join us, it only takes time to learn this skills but he rather leave than learn.

So I have learnt my lesson that never to discuss my wins with people especially when they aren't wining too.

Winning is truly complete happiness, it gives satisfaction, pleasure and also sense of pride for the achievements that have been achieved even though it is in gambling.
I agree that not all the people around us can feel the same happiness when we win.
Most of those who take part feel happy only because they are given certain amount of money from winnings, not because of true gesture of solidarity from friendship or brotherhood, this is normal thing and happens very often.
Worse yet, some people may have feelings of jealousy and dislike for the achievements we have achieved, which can give rise to negative thoughts and trigger bad things such as divisions in friendships.

What you are saying is all really happening and is not taboo matter because in social life not everyone can really behave well towards each other.
But I myself don't seem to care about things like this, if they don't like it then just let it be because we don't harm them and vice versa they don't harm us.
Getting good and sympathetic attitude from everyone regarding gambling activities is not easy so it is better to care about our own interests rather than thinking about those who may only have envy and dislike towards us.

Rarely is the pleasure that others get and celebrate the interlocutor wholeheartedly apart from just a glance and a word of appreciation. there are just a handful of people who are so nice when they get money or as a place to rest from what they get. it is a common thing so vice versa when you lose and run out of money then the situation will turn so drastically, no matter how much you contribute to them. approached like a king and avoided like never knowing at all.

It's better to keep your achievements a secret because people who are sincere to you don't need that and people who don't like you will talk about you behind your back, no matter how good you are you will still be talked about. Winning in a game is a constant so keep your winnings a secret just like you're losing, it's better to keep your money intact and have fun.

Rather than causing trouble with others, it is better to hide our wins so that we don't have to feel uncomfortable with them. There are people who are happy with our win, but there are also people who are not happy with it.
They will feel jealous and not happy to see us win. That is a normal attitude shown by other people when they are not happy with the win obtained by someone else.
By hiding the win we get, no one will be unhappy with us and we can enjoy the win. We can choose anyone who is allowed to know about the win so that it will not cause any problems.

I would say that this may be perceived differently in different societies and nations, but it often happens exactly as you described. In my environment, exactly the same thing would happen; I even once observed that one of my friends became rich and stopped communicating with the others. The reason is that common topics and problems for conversation disappear. Because a rich person will have the problem of which car to choose, and the one who did not win will have the question of how to feed his family and whether there will be enough for clothes. Over time, the distance will grow further between them until it becomes too far and they stop communicating. To be honest, I don’t see anything supernatural here, this is completely normal for me because I understand a lot. But for many this comes as a surprise and surprise.

It is not only just about gambling, people can get envious of others for many reasons, and that is just life; and people can also be genuinely happy for your success, this is how things work in the world. If you think it is good to share your winnings with your family and friends, then you can go ahead and do it, but don't be forced to do it if you don't think it is a good idea. I do not like to share personal things with people that i am not so close to, just as i like to keep my BTC holdings to myself and i don't talk about it in public.

I guess you are referring to jealousy which is prevalent in life and many people are actually caught up in it without even knowing it. Some that do know that they have the tendency to be jealous of the success of others try to control it while some are unable to control hence it becomes a problem for them. Of a truth when you see your fellow gambler win, you will surely wish it were you, to me this is normal and understandable because everyone loves to win. The important thing there is knowing where to draw the line so that such desires does not manifest in a negative light that people will begin to notice that you are not happy for the winnings of others.

I can relate to this because I experienced this personally the first time I good news about me being hired from prestigious company to my so called friend. I thought they will be happy but they slowly ignores me and cut to our social group just because I’m doing good in my life even though I’m not boasting it.

After experiencing this, I never share any bits of information about myself that will show my finances since people will never happy on someone success if they are not part of it most importantly if they are not doing well.

I’m only sharing my gambling profit with my wife alone since I always gave her my profit whenever I’m winning big time. My wife is the only person I consider as friend now since everyone envy my success. This makes me happy and contented silently without anyone bothering me about help for finances since I stop reaching out since ages.  :D

Depends on your relationship with such people. For me. I see no reason telling anyone aside my family members about any winning I get in real life. Alot of persons plays to be your friends and pretend behind your back. These people I call the back stabbers, jealous friends and any name you can call them.
As a gambler, it doesn't really matter who is Happy or not about your winnings. When we gamble, we spend our own funds and not that of others so weather someone is happy or sad doesn't really matter to me as a person so long you join me to celebrate this winning. It's fine for someone to be jealous about others but wrong when you go behind their backs to gossip about them.

That's what has to be hidden when other people or my friends don't need to know about our winnings at gambling, fortunately I never have many friends who know that I actively gamble, so they only know that I'm busy working and hanging out with my family like other ordinary people, after all why do we have to share information about our winnings with other people, whether through social media or other things, it could be that other people are not happy or have experienced a lot of losses, which makes them even more annoyed when they see us win big.

It's good to be a closed person, for me only my wife knows that I gamble and that's what I do at home, not outside, even though there are several of my friends who gamble too, but I often tell them that I'm not an active gambler, sometimes we even play in casinos. online is the same, only they never know the username I use to gamble, it's true that whatever winnings I get won't make other people happy, so I try to cover it up as much as possible so they never know the winnings I get. just enjoy it with your own family when you get a big win and don't need to be too visible to other people because they will think I got the bonus money from my job, not from gambling.   ;D

Your only concern by sharing your win is being jealous sometimes results to more envy acts by someone since it’s a human nature to become envy to someone success. Sharing your win will not benefit you while you are just making others feel jealous.

There’s no benefit on doing that so I personally don’t preferred doing it if I don’t have something to gain on doing it. I personally have a bad experience on doing it because I once become subjected to criticism for sharing my gambling win just because I didn’t share profit with them. But just like what you said, it’s not their money so I don’t have any remorse feelings for not sharing it with them.

You are trying to create unnecessary enemies for yourself the moment you decide to tell people, even those around you about your success, either in this gambling space or not.

Evil people will think less of you if you look like someone who isn't doing so well, it's why I don't change my ways and habit after I made millions in crypto, but people do make mistakes by using their own mouths to call out for trouble, don't do this, it's not safe.

Keep Every good news to yourself and tell them about your bad news, there is a big advantage to doing this, they won't care about you and that's your goal, so that you can have fewer enemies to deal with and also you will be able to concentrate on your own life.

People like hearing bad news about you more than good news, they will be more comfortable and relaxed, it's what enemies of progress do.

I also want to say something else, but it is still related to what you tell others about winning or tell others about losing. Is there anyone here who is the same as me, when you win big in betting but the happy effect is fleeting. It's like the wind blows and then returns to a normal mood. Some of my friends, for example, last week made a big profit in soccer betting plus he was also lucky in slots. A week later, the excitement disappeared suddenly, as if he had not won at gambling.

We of course withdrew the winnings but 2 or 3 days later put it back into the bet and lost completely.

More harm than good comes from sharing gambling wins, because people close to the gambler will believe that it's free money that the gambler didn't work for, therefore they're entitled to a share of it, and if that doesn't happen, he might be seen as an ungenerous person. But the gambler don't have a choice when it's a very huge win, because the gambling company will want to advertise the winner, so that people will see that they're reputable, in that case the identity of the winner will be made public, then everybody that he knows will feel entitled for a share of it. People who are not known by the winner will just envy and move on.

The advantage outweighs the disadvantages if you keep your winnings to yourself, people will not envy you relatives will not flock to borrow money from you, and you will have peace of mind because of envy.
I have two experiences both when I won huge money and everybody in my work and my neighborhood, It is depressing many friends are borrowing money some without even returning, others hold a drinking spree and I took all the cost.
The second time I won I did not mention it to anyone and I had peace of mind I could do whatever I wanted with the money, and there were no quarrels or enemies, sometimes it's better to be secretive.

That is when you tell them.If you play online you most likely have a nickname like I use in the casinos where I play and my two biggest wins one x9833 and one x11339 multiplier have been posted only here in this forum and no one from my main circle,friends or relatives know a deep sh*t about me winning.I have not even told my wife,I told her that I won some extra money from a project at work and she bought it,she knows I gamble but I always tell her that it is just for fun and I keep losing in continuity,I tell her I only gamble 10-15 dollars when in reality it is much more but she does not understand crypto well.So it all depends on us if we want our friends to know or not.

If you are a type of person who do get jealous on someones success then you would really be trying out to keep some distance or even befriended just because you do hate them up with their success or being lucky.

Even if we dont speak about gambling huge wins but also in other success ways that you do have in life on which you do have that huge money advantage among to them then for sure
they wouldnt really be happy for you but instead they would really be creating that kind of gap that even you wasnt really that expecting for it to happen because of the money you have got.
This is indeed fact reality on which you wouldnt really be able to know if people around you would really be that actually happy of your success or really just that jealous.

So better watch out because there are ones who are really that trying to stir things up just to see you to go down.

Totally agree into this one on which it do even happens on me that even with your relatives do really just looks that they are just fine but you would be able to listen or hear up on other peoples mouths that your relatives had been telling something bad about you or having those curse or bad wishes that you will go down soon which it do really sucks and i do agree into the thing you have said that not all people around you would really be happy on the achievement that you do get in life. How much more if they've seen that you have won up on lotto or big jackpots that talking about millions of dollars?
I do agree into your point that they would really be wishing you bad luck into your further dealings.  ;D

I agrre with you OP, some people will be angry at your victory, and wished that they were be one that won such huge amount due to envy. In life, we will always have people that will not want to see any good thing happening to us, especially when our financial situation changes for good. They will frown, and might even go about saying all sort of things just to tarnish your image.

It is the same thing that applies in any kind of way that you use towards victory. This is why I love keeping my win a secret so that nobody will know if I win or not. I have a friend that won big, and decided to change his environment to a different place, because of envious people around him. On the other hand, I still have someone living around my neighborhood that won big, and didn't tell anyone that he won big. It is the bet shop attendant that allowed one or two people to know, and these people went ahead to broadcast his win,. Left for him alone, nobody win know. This is why our win should not be exposed to people that will not benefit from it.

It's a common occurrence that often happens and I've even experienced it myself when I get a big win, people around me and friends often come to my house to discuss and joke together, but after I don't have anything, they leave and when I get another win, they come again, but I refuse to give something and they actually feel angry as if they are jealous of what I got and talk about my bad things to other people.

and I have also seen a case on another topic about 2 men gambling together and one of them got a big win and gave him instant wealth but unfortunately his friend was forgotten and it was as if he didn't know him at all.
this is a very bad example and indeed the right choice is always to hide gambling activities and any activities related to money so that we are safe from bad things like that and what I don't like the most is when a friend comes to borrow money to gamble knowing that we will win big but refusing to give loans they cut off friendships and that is very ridiculous.

I don’t think other people will understand the joy of winning for you
Same with talking about videogames with someone that doesn’t play or giving value to a collectible. If you own something that has special value for you but it’s not fungible it will be hard to “translate” this value for someone else specially if they don’t have the context

Now I have a question, what about users who congratulate other users' winning? are they a fake person too? :P

1. Mom won 50,000$ in Lottery (https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5487155.0)
2. I just woke up and saw wins in my gambling app  (https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5488089.0)
3. Gambling still pays regardless of our losses (https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5486990.0)

You can't really judge someone who act nice are fake to you, they might be just a neutral (not happy or jealous), but do you think it's good to show your true reaction to your friends?

Your friends: Dude! do you know what? I won $500,000 from gambling!
You: Oh yeah, okay.

Your friends must be think you either have no empathy or don't like to hear his achievement, when actually you're just being neutral and didn't say anything bad or good.

That's why you shouldn't be telling about your financial situation to anyone. It is not their business.

If some of those people show interest in you suddenly, it is because they learned about your winnings/profits etc. These people aren't really interested in you. They are interested in your money which means they want a piece of them your profits. They are like sharks that smelled blood in the ocean. Once they take the smell of money, they'll keep piling up around you.

Like you said some of those people will get even angry because you are rich now and they are not. At least they are not trying to take advantage of your wealth unlike the parasites I mentioned above. I prefer these angry people over the blood smelling sharks any day.

That is the reason why we should not tell everyone for our success in everything we do especially in gambling because we do not know how they will react. Some might be happy for us and some are not and it's natural so we should be aware of that. We should prioritize our safety instead of letting everyone know the real thing. If you don't want to take the risks stay low key. Don't make yourself a target.

Nothing bad with the message of winning, it just depends on how would an individual will recieve and give meaning into it, and that indeed includes the tendency of others to take it nevatively. Envy, cheating related accusatuons, selfishness and the likes are the ones which are most common to people who are toxic, hearing that something big happened to someone not themselves. These things aren't normal; being toxic will never be a normal behavior. We should learn to let people enjoy things especially those which makes a betterment for their lives. Of course there will be ideologies and desires for same thing to happen for you but that will never be an excuse to spread toxicity just because you did not benefit from it. Wait for your turn and know how to clap for other's happiness.
We are free to do so. Why should we adjust with other's toxicity? Some people find joy telling other people what's something that made their day or life better, that could be their means of celebration and there's nothing wrong with it. We just have to pick the ones we would share our best moments with to somehow avoid things which are unwanted. Well yes it would still be an adjustment but at least you would still be able to do what will make you happy, which is in this instance, sharing the joy of winning from gambling. It could be a double edged sword also; there are tendencies that you could drag someone into gambling which will simply expose themselves with risk and even addiction by any chance. So better be careful still, at all times.

Joy of victory, an apparently personal accomplishment, yet how lonely! Victories should be hidden from jealousy and apathy, you say. Bad news: winning is frequently a solo experience. Why? The world doesn't celebrate others' wins unless they get a piece of the pie. Very harsh, but all too common. Friends and coworkers sharing your excitement is a fantasy. Despite their congrats, people often compare and dissatisfy. Indeed, it's not their fault. Humans naturally compare themselves to others. And when one rises too fast? Friendships strain and break

Success is elusive in sports betting, trade, and life, as you noted. Quick falls from grace make one ponder if momentary triumphs were worth the isolation. How to fix this? Humility? Secrecy? Perhaps. More significantly, reassessing our values. Joy should not be exchanged for public favor but enjoyed privately or among people who wish us good

Anyone who would feel depressed about your winning, maybe a freind or your partner is a selfish person. We should be always happy whenever a gambling freind wins and we dont win. It doesnt have to be us all the time. I know how many times i have predicted some games and i did not end up betting if. But i gave it to my freinds and colleague of which they end up wining and i did not. Yeah it is painful but i have to be happy for them.

I think we are also the best example of it.

Since when did we really become genuinely happy for another guy who won his bet? I don't think so. We say "Congratulations." "You are lucky!" and many positive things and yet, I don't think those are for real.
Deep inside we also want the same result as that guy who won his bet which is why we gamble more. Being envious of their success is a natural thing in my opinion because that's how we are as humans. I've seen guys who show their envy without any shame but I do think that's better than those friends that will keep it from you and then backstab you someday when you become a failure and spend all that money.

Anyway, I believe what you said is true. No one will be happy for us but only those who will benefit from the money that we win. Our kids or our wife, or maybe our parents who will also receive a part of that money.

As humans, you will always wish that they are the lucky ones but this is not always the case. There is always envy and competition in the life of everyone. But we have to control it as much as possible because it could lead to something more unhealthy. Some people can be very envious that they can harm someone because of jealousy. But we have to control ourselves not to take it too far. I always celebrate with people who win and gamble because we have a culture that states that if you celebrate other people's victory you will be attracting your own.

However, I think OP is correct that we shouldn't share our win with everyone because not everyone will be happy with our victory. There are family members and friends who shouldn't know that you won in gambling.

This is true with many things in life, we often have a much more grandiose vision and depiction of our own success, because it directly affects us. Your close friends and family will only ever see residual benefits of you were to have great success, although your partner and kids may very well feel great benefits from it too. However great successes like these can often, even accidentally, lead to unnecessary bragging - which is bound to breed envy and jealousy, which can turn be very destructive forces in a relationship.

well, I agree with you, a few years ago society was made up of humble people where even when another person x won some prize, friends, family and even neighbors were very happy to see that person x won some prize and They congratulated themselves sincerely, even if that person x didn't give anything to their neighbors, relatives and family. it was normal to see a family giving food to those people who didn't have a home or food, years ago people had more love and concern for other people, marriages were made for love and equal sharing of goods and they were lasting marriages, but as technology started to evolve very quickly and people started to focus a lot on money

getting to the point where we see money being valued more than feelings, nowadays most women want houses with rich men, nowadays rich guys can sleep with most women, just see the horrors of this on Instagram in that many women started posting photos with little clothing to attract the attention of the rich. Nowadays, football players, F1 drivers, famous boxers, NBA players and many other rich athletes, when they have parties at their mansions, they invite famous women from Instagram and they have sex with them and give them money and the next day they leave and they are as if nothing had happened. When a person wins a lot of money in gambling games, that person will become the target of many women who will want their money.

and when all her money runs out, those women will abandon him and even though he sees them after many years, they pretend they don't know him, because he will be poor. It's hard to admit that our society is made up of perverse people, capable of pretending that they are happy with someone else's victory when inside their heads, they are filled with hatred and thinking about revenge. That's why I think people shouldn't show off their earnings all over the internet and shouldn't show off to their family, friends and neighbors because the chances are that many people will approach him pretending to love him while they just like his money. It's very big that this happens, unfortunately

It is not a lie that things like this happen. Some friends are envious of their friend who have won bet especially if it is very huge and they themselves have not won that much. The envy is well expressed if the friend has not won a bet to a reasonable amount or even at all. It is always like a thing of comparison between what the friend won and what they have won too. But it should be understandable that some people envy your progress while some like it. So we just have to be careful to determine those who are happy with us and those who are friend and enemy. However, it is not advisable that you expose your winnings to everyone, it is better that they may know you have a winning but you can keep the value of your winning away from them except you are a streamer.


Sure, some people may make you feel they are happy with your winning but they are not really happy with it in secret.

I think you are the only one who will enjoy the winnings. The other ones who will feel the real joy are the ones who are dependent upon you like your wife, your children and those who live in your home (to whom you are responsible for taking care of). The rest of the people will not be so happy. The good ones may feel a bit of joy seeing other happy but most of the people will feel jealous and they may be feeling bad inner self but apparently show you that they are happy.


The is the real example of jealousy as most of people would not like the other person to grow and become rich. They want only themselves to be the ones making money and if they see or know that other people are making money and are happy, they become extremely jealous and sad. Some may even become depressed on knowing that the others have been doing good in life and gambling of course.

It's lucky if everyone has principles like you, I admit that I like these principles, and I'm happy when friends or other people win. However, this principle only applies to those who gamble for fun, not to those who purely seek profit from gambling, because these two things are very contradictory.

For some people, they can easily share a number of winnings with their friends which can be used as initial capital, and quite a few people also hide it for various reasons, are reluctant to share and it could be because their environment is not a healthy way of thinking. Indeed, in almost all activities, there are types of people who find it trouble to see other people happy, and who enjoy seeing other people having difficulties.

On the other hand, it all comes back to each individual, everyone has their own principles. If I am in a lucky position when gambling, I will willingly share a little of the winnings with the people closest to me, and will treat them to food.

Basically, an individual will feel happy when he is satisfied with what he gets. and where a gambler's pleasure lies is when he gets a win, but that pleasure will disappear when a person tries to compare the results of the victory he obtained with the results of wins obtained by other people. So in other words, a gambler will never feel happy if he continues to feel jealous and always compares what he gets with what other people get. and unfortunately, this often gives rise to an ambition to continue gambling or place a bet, just to show that he is superior compared to other people. but instead of getting a victory that was greater than that obtained by other people, this actually led him to an even greater loss.

And so that this doesn't happen to us, be grateful for whatever small victory we get, because perhaps the small victory we achieve is a dream for those who continuously experience losses. Just keep gambling appropriately, and don't compare the wins you get with other people's wins.

True, I think this kind of situation really happens, meaning that not everyone will be happy when they see a win that they managed to get in any amount, as you said here that most likely they will be in indifference to the win that was achieved by others or especially some of their fellow gamblers, especially if you brag too much to others about the win that you managed to get. It will only cause a gap, and maybe they just smile but their reaction is actually different from what is in their hearts and minds.

But it's a different story if you just share some of your winnings with others, which they will definitely respond positively to even though you might be bragging about your winnings, and that means it's all about the money, or money is in control. But overall I would agree with what the OP said that the bottom line is that it's better to hide information about your winnings from others, because sometimes this can lead to problems when some of them ask for a share of the winnings but you don't want to give it to them.

I am a very reserved person, I do not see the need announcing my gambling win to anyone,  of what use will such information be to them?

Again, for security reasons, it is not adviceable to announce your gambling win or how much you've won, such announcements can attract lots of people who genuinely love you and those who will be bitter about your win, including thieves who would greedily want to have all you've won for yourself. You will become a target to many.

Avoid telling people you've got money on you and you will be free from lots of troubles. Many gamblers today cannot give account of what they used their gambling earnings to do because whenever they win, there will always be fake irresponsible friends around to ensure they squander the money until nothing is left.

Some gamblers also have an interesting aspect of human behavior and the dynamics of sharing winnings from gambling. They are generous and willingly share their winnings with friends. They use it as initial capital for further activities or simply as a gesture of goodwill. But there are also people who choose not to share their winnings due to past experiences or a lack of trust in their environment. It's not easy to be a nice person when money involved.

Sharing winnings or not can be influenced by the environment where there is a healthy attitude towards sharing and generosity that makes people may be more inclined to share their winnings. In environments where there is a lack of trust or a scarcity mindset, people may be more reluctant to share. It's true that in almost all activities, there are individuals who find pleasure in others' misfortune or struggle to see others happy. This aspect of human nature can influence the sharing behavior of individuals, because some may feel threatened by others' success. It's a complex interplay of individual values and social dynamics that shape sharing behavior in such situations.

It does not only apply to gambling, actually, it also applies to anything which could be related to money: investments, savings, jobs, interests, banking, trading... One should never disclose one's positive situation to other without having a very good reason to do so beyond bragging about it. If anything, I would say one is only supposed to trust such information to one's closest family members who one could completely trust, no nobody else.
The sad reality is that there is a lot of bad people out there in the world, who could allow envy and bad thought to take over them, making them to try to steal your money or assets from you, one example of this is the simple Bitcoin 5$ Wrench attack. Though, in the same way someone could use a wrench to steal your satoshis, they could also do the same to take gold bards, silver coins, cash, your new Iphone you just bragged about, etc.

In societies where safety and economical equality are not a warranty by the state, one is better to play smarter and never to talk about money.
It does not manner how much you have, if you appear to be broke no one will to after you.

Take Vitalik Buterin as an example, he is a billionaire and still he dresses with a simple shirt and shorts all the time.  

A human being's nature makes him greedy wanting to always own things and be the best at everything. When someone works hard and succeeds in his life especially financially, others gets jealous, some could take that person's success as an example and would try to do the same and be inspired, others who are lazy would just envy him and hate him for that.

So yes not everyone can be happy for another's wins except for maybe very close family members who would be happy that someone of them could make that amount of money for them to maybe rely on. I think that the only people who could be happy for your winnings genuinely are your parents because they love unconditionally.

It is always best to not talk a lot about your winnings and success to others to not jinx it or maybe to avoid the evil eye. Wise people know how to surround themselves with individuals they can trust and keep their circle small.

First off, winning is great. You're right - it often reveals others' actual selves. The issue is facts, not analogies. First rule of business, sports betting, and trading: not everyone will be happy when you win. And why? Basically, envy. Honest joy from victory? A personal matter. Those closest to us who gain directly from our accomplishment will be ecstatic. But neighbors, coworkers, that coffee shop man you barely talk to? Ignore it. Their indifference or envy is predictable and pitiful. This is human nature and a sign that you're doing well.

You're right regarding friendships. Wealth, especially sudden wealth, tests relationships. Were your "friends" truly pals if they cant handle your success? In sports betting and trading, where fortunes can change in an instant, caution is key. Finally, one should believe in oneself and enjoy triumph with people who matter. Please let the rest observe and wonder. Their problem, not yours. Keep winning, be great, and let the chips fall.

I think you should not share your financial information with anyone except the most trusted people. Because I believe in one thing that those who are your friends now, maybe they can be also your enemies tomorrow and then it will be easy for them to harm you if they know these things about you. Moreover, I also believe that if one person wins or earns more than the other person, jealousy can be created between those persons, and nothing good can ever be expected from that.
To put it more simply, let me give one more example, currently crypto currency is illegal in my country, there are many news that those who earn cryptocurrency are arrested by the police. And the fact that they are associated with cryptocurrency is informed by the people around them to the police so that they can take money from him by blackmail. This happened in our country a few days ago, a freelancer's 5 bitcoins were taken by a police member through blackmail.
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This really depends on how you take gamble. If you gamble for fun, you may discuss your loss and winnings with friends or neighbors as in this case little money is likely to be involved. Anyone that takes gambling as part of his/her side hustle should do things secretly. This is because they will see you as irresponsible if you tell them the amount you lose to gambling. And this group of people will be the one that will keep envy you when you talk about your winnings without minding how much you have lose before you win. It better to keep your winnings with yourself especially when you gamble as your side hustle.

The only gambler that will waste their gambling winning to people are those gamblers that newly join gambling and they have never experience much losses from gambling because, those gamblers that have experienced huge amount of money from gambling will not let people to know about their winning.

Well, if your friends  have share their winning with your show that the day you will win in your gambling, you will surely share with them so that they will be happy with you because they take you as their friends that is why they shared their winning with you in the past.

I don't like talking about gambling with my offline friends because it's not important, but I have several close friends who also gamble. We often share our wins and share tip if we win. It was something fun and I never told anyone else about gambling except in my close circle of friends and on forum. So it's okay for us to share our gambling winnings as long as we know who we are sharing the winnings with.

Gamblers' winnings also usually don't last long and will run out again in gambling, like a cycle that spins endlessly and no one really gets rich from gambling because most people will spend more money than they get money.

Sharing it with your close friends is more than enough. You don't need to brag it to anyone else. You would find out also that it will be a burden if a lot more people know about your lifestyle. You don't need to explain to anybody, if you don't owe from anybody.


He will learn his lessons on his own ways. Because once he is on the losing side, he will see if those people are still on his side or not. More then likely, they will just avoid him if he has nothing to give to them. That's the harsh reality of life. If they are not getting anymore from you, they will just ignore you.

I agree with OP, although it greatly depends on the friends that you have. I know people who are genuinely happy for you when you have money, but I also know people who envy and I have that feeling myself when I see that someone got a lot of money without having to break a sweat. I'm a successful investor (not a very successful gambler, unfortunately) so I know how people look at things that I bought. They usually ask how much this or that costed and I'm honest so I tell them and their eyes widen, like they're thinking "oh, he's got too much money so he's spending this much, when he could get a cheaper replacement...
People have to be in a similar situation to be happy for each other, or really close. For instance, when my friend win money, they throw a party, want to celebrate the win with friends. Like I said, it depends on your character.

It depends on what kind of people are around you.  We should not generalize people since each person is unique.  Not because people around you are jealous of your success in winning the jackpot, the people around me would feel the same.

There are true friends and decent people that are happy with the success of others while there are people who are greedy and wicked and they only want to experience the winnings by themselves.  

When it comes to winnings or financial gain, I agree with you that we should hide it from other people because they has nothing to do with our gains and it is not our obligation to inform them.  It is better to be low profile, this way we can avoid uncertainties and other people's ill-intention and keep ourselves safe.

This is deep if I must say, but at the same time, it is not particularly true as some would sincerely rejoice with you, while some will pretend and the last set would plainly show you that they do not care. For this, you should not come to a conclusion due to one or two of these categories. Among these three categories, I prefer the first and the last, after all, they both show their real attitude towards what is happening, unlike the second category which is so ugly and could kill someone in disguise. This is why you have to study the environment you are in, just as we are expected to behave like Romans in Rome and do otherwise elsewhere.

Personally, I do detect those fake circles and I know how to deal with them. For me, no matter how much you hide it, it is just like a flame, it will come out somehow, so one would know how to go about it from there. Nonetheless, I am a private person, but this is just my personality and not that I will now be hiding my true self and winnings because of someone's attitude, damn them, I just do not care. If you know, you know, and if you sincerely appreciate me, fine, and if not, I DO NOT CARE. I will never play a different character for anyone, but thankfully, my private nature is even letting people know little or nothing about me.

This should not really be a surprise to anyone, earning a high amount of money, regardless of how this was done, is always subject to envy, even from those that you love the most, since in their minds you are just another person like them, so the fact that you can reach such success indicates that they were wrong on their assessment, and this can create in many people feelings of inferiority as a great deal of them use money as a way to asses the value of a person.

Except when necessary it's often not a very good idea to show off your winnings to everyone because not everyone deserves to know you are a gambler and even know you win and make money gambling because not all of them will really be happy with your wins as they would wish they had been the ones with such wins or even wished you lost so they just get that satisfaction that you are in misery, so it's very important you guard your information and know who should know about it and who shouldn't because it's not necessary for them to ever know about it as it will not do them much good enough rather will be putting yourself at an unnecessary risk which could be avoided by keep such information away from them.

Gambling generally isn't what most persons want to be associated with due to the moral stigma attached and so when they see gamblers make money nod gambling they easily become envious and not wanting to be genuinely happy except for fellow gamblers who understands the struggle.

Not just close friends, but close friends who you know are mature. Not all close friends are mature enough to know that having a sense of entitlement is bad.

Whenever you win a very huge amount of money, it is often advised that you do not tell everyone because telling people can jeopardize your safety. My suggestion will be to take a mini vacation to another place so you can stay away and think of the best way to spend the money wisely without being under the influence of friends and family members who may want to put you under pressure to spend recklessly.

I don't see it this way.  When one of my family or friends wins something big I am genuinely happy for them.  Generally speaking anything that makes them happy in life should make you happy no?  I mean not over the top or as happy as it makes the person themselves but why wouldn't ypu be happy for them.  Yeah I agree if in a casino and someone you don't know wins big I don't think much is to be expected in terms of being happy for that person. 

My relationship with certain people determines if I share news of a windfall.  I only tell my family if I come into money.  With others, I stay vague if the subject arises.  Or I deflect.  Life teaches caution about money matters.  I've learned that the hard way.  Why invite envy or begging?  My priority is protecting my peace of mind.

First thing first,  people don't like a good things and sometimes some of them go as far as showing it off in their faces,  because of envy and jealousy they tend never to celebrate another man winning even though if it doesn't affect their own winning or well being at some point.

Many of them have made players not to even celebrate when they win,  they rather keep their good news to themselves and will not mention it since most people don't like to hear good things from others.

What people know,  they destroy so for that many have formed the belief system that if they tell others about the good news,  it will only attract enemies to them so silence becomes the best option.

I completely agree, seeing news about the dangers(some of which are life threatening) that can happen to someone who has won substantial amount of money because people know about their winnings, it is not worth risking your safety to let everyone know(sometimes even the people that you know or close to you) about your winnings.

Even with my own family i dont really tend to share out when it comes to neither money making or winning, how much more on losing on which it would really be that a common approach
or reaction that they would be having that they would really be having that negative views in towards on what you are doing specially when dealing up with gambling.

I do agree into those sentiments above that whenever you do experience lavish or extreme luck in life on where even your relatives would be coming into a point that
they would really be having that kind of different treatment if ever we do speak about that kind of jealousy that they are really that feeling inside.
Its cant really be avoided and something that cant really be new on which they would be always having that kind of impressions.

And definitely, those that are not your friends when you have no money, will suddenly become your friends now when you have big earnings from crypto. People come close to you when you can be beneficial for them, and leave suddenly when you are at loss. This is why it’s a lot better to keep on your own whatever your achievement or huge earnings that you luckily have. Not all the people around you will be happy for your success, in fact they really want to pull you down so that they won’t get envy after all.

With your example given, instead of people around him should be helping him to secure his bitcoins but because of envy, they even put this person’s earnings into danger. So that’s how envy and jealousy affect the minds of people. The fallback of those successful people will definitely become their silent success.

Gamblers need a prudent approach to managing a windfall from gambling winnings, because there would be potential safety concerns and the pressure from friends and family. It allows for privacy, thoughtful planning, and protection against external pressures. Those enable the gamblers to make informed and responsible decisions about their newfound wealth.

Keeping reality of a significant gambling win private can indeed help safeguard the safety. Broadcasting the win may attract unwanted attention, including from people with nefarious intentions. Stepping away from the excitement of the win allows for clear-headed thinking about how to best utilize the money. It provides an opportunity to consider long-term goals, financial planning, and responsible spending rather than succumbing to impulsive decisions. Being away from friends and family who may exert pressure to spend recklessly can help prevent hasty or unwise financial decisions. External influences that may lead to excessive spending.

What you said is true. And for that reason, I don't think gamblers should hide their winnings from everyone. They just should know to who to share such news, that is, to share it with friends like you, who would feel happy for their winnings. Of course it doesn't make sense to spread to the wind every good thing which happens in your life, especially if it's related to a financial matter, because most people won't care about it and will even envy you for that, but at same time it doesn't mean we should close ourselves inside an untouchable dome where no one can enter and be part of it.

What I observe is that many jackpot winners commited the mistake of trusting people who weren't their friends, and ended taking these people to their houses and treating them as family's members. In the end, they were betrayed by these people and even murdered in some cases where they married women who were interested only on their wealth. These sad stories make people suspicious of each other, so they tend to not trust anyone, because if someone is approaching, it's interpreted as this person wants to take advantage of them somehow... However, even though it's a defensive mechanism people develop, it turns society into an hostile environment where every kinds of relationships become inconstant and uncertain.

And this is very normal in life on having that kind of people around you when you do have the money but on the time that you dont have something that they would benefit then they would really be just leaving you in the air and this is something very casual. This is where you would really be able to see on whose people would really be that on your side or true friends or into those people who are opportunist when you do still have the money. This is why it would really be that best that you should really know on when to avoid those type of people. This is why it would really be better that you should not really let your winnings or earnings
be known by other people because instead they would be happy for you they would rather be doing the opposite and they would be even asking for some free money or bonus that they do expect that they
can get from you. lol

I don't know where you even got the idea they ever would be happy for you in the first place? Especially if you get rich by winning? This is why people advice you to not ever tell anyone if you won the lottery, or what ever you won. And biggest reason for not telling is: No one needs to know. You might want to tell people, but ask yourself why you even want that.

People will envy you, that's right. One proof of that is this myth that keeps on living, that most lottery winners end up being broke and miserable in the end. There are no stats that would back this up, and while some people might mess their lives by drinking etc, not everyone obviously will do that. Those negative stories keep living though, because people love to read about them. They are kind on confirmation bias, as majority wants lottery winners to suffer, they see those stories as comforting because they aren't ever goingt to win.

But people around you can be very envious, not everyone but enough of them are a good reason not to tell around about your money. Especially when they think you didn't "earn" the money, but only were lucky. You see this envy with people's attitude towards crypto rich as well. Actually even more with those.

Some of your friends will avoid you. Some because of envy, some because they are extra careful and don't want you think that they are only with you because of money. For some reason people don't seem to do that when you have earned your money slowly with work. At least none of the rich that i know (i know few people that got rich and one of them quickly with cryptos).

And i don't know what common topics and common interests are you talking about, but i never lost them with my friends. All being rich brought to them was financial security and peace of mind because they don't need to live from hand to mouth anymore. And few other obvious perks as well.

In your case, yes, you didn't feel envy, but if you are the one who wins, will your other family members or relatives feel the same way? I dont know but I believe in money is the root cause of evil we have seen a lot of news and stories that tackle about family members or relatives being in dispute just because of money, worst there are related crimes that the suspect is arelative or family members, that's why even if you are winning in life even not in gambling but in your career, its better to be lowkey, because being lowkey will give you a piece of mind where no other relatives will nag you for money or ask for money just because you are being successful, being quite about your fortune will be much better than flexing and knowing that someone might be being envy of you, choose, being lowkey and have a quite life while enjoying your achivements or flexing but there are many people judging your or nagging you for money.

I completely don't care if someone is happy or sad about my win.
I like to help those who want to make bets but I'm not interested in other people's judgement.
obviously never let "all" of your gaming habits be known. I never talk about gambling with people that doesn't gamble.

Well that's a good decision, Do not ever tell something related to gambling to other people who doesn't participate in any gambling activities because we all know that there will be a judgement coming from them. since I have a habit of being easily bothered by what other people say about me, I try not to talk too much to other people so that I don't receive any comments that I don't like, but I accept constructive criticism.

You are on point mate. Whenever there is success there is enviness. Not only in gambling wining but also to whatever that brings you money. The aspect you said people who depends on you will be happy, I disagree with you. An enermy might not necessarily be a neighbour but the people you feed or eat with are even your worst enermy. How sure are you that they are not jealous of you because you feed them instead of them feeding you? Life is full of decietfulness where your best friend will be your worst enermy and your worst enermy being your best friend. You should even be more careful with your family members because the more you take them too close and tell them your secret the more envious they become and may further eliminate you. So let's be care how will reveal our secret in moments of jubilation, because moment of happiness or jubilation gives rise to self implications, by revealing your secret.

Returned to each other, whatever we do, those who don't like us don't care, even if we are happy, they will still feel that we are the worst person for them and maybe you could say that they are we arrogant, there are even those who pray for our ugliness, but for people who like us with us, they will be happy to see us being successful or having good luck because they also think that it is our hard work, but it is not impossible if they are also happy because they have a specific purpose and want some share of we winnings, whether it is just asking for a treat. eating or drinking, actually this is not a problem if you only ask like that, but if they start asking for quite a large share or even borrow money then this is a problem.

Sometimes money can make friendships or families break up because usually it also causes serious feuds. It would be better if we won but there is no need to tell anyone or only family knows because if many people know as I said at the beginning the sentence above, those who hate will still hate, those who are happy will remain happy and also no one will come just to take advantage of the results of our victory. Especially if only ourselves or our family knows then we can enjoy it more freely without thinking about the feelings of other people who don't like us.

There's a way to know someone's true personality, just tell them a fake secret, tell your small achievement, and act like you're broke.

If you tell someone your fake secret, let's wait for few days or months, does other of your friends know about your secret?
Tell him your small achievement, will he demands his share?
Tell him if you're broke, will he give his money instead of bullshit motivation?

Yeah, if you talk about gambling with them, they will said it's not good for you, religions forbid it, better to give your extra money to hopeless people etc.

If you experience victory in any case, you should not tell it to your friends or other people around you, because in my opinion someone's thoughts and views are not the same in assessing the victory you have achieved. Moreover, the resulting victory is very large, it will definitely give rise to feelings of hatred or envy towards other people, therefore it is better to just keep quiet and enjoy the results you have obtained from this victory. This problem is certainly not the first time I have seen it, many people have experienced something similar. So the point is, never talk about anything to people around you, because some people, there are also those who understand your profession in this victory and there are also those who don't understand your profession. In my opinion, there are still many other people's views and assessments of victory, because according to them the word victory contains elements of a negative impression, so many people think it is bad for someone who is jealous of this.

It's common for gamblers to make public about their wining to fellow gamblers as the feeling excites them to share as a way to keep hope alive to others that their own winning could be closer. But no matter how excited we gamblers get about our win it is not all winning we get that we make public especially when it's a 6 figures win above, you could invited unnecessary troubles and hate to yourself.

Even when we choose to keep the amount won secret and just let our the news of just a winning made there are some curious people that will want to dig in to know the actual amount won. So if a gambler don't want to make the amount of money they won to be known then they shouldn't make the winning public at all.

That's why people tell to remain low profile when you've been winning such amounts. It could be small for you but to your friends upon knowing so, they're going to suck out each cent that they can to you. I am not telling that all of them are the same but most likely many of them are.

If you've won some gambling money, you don't have to brag about it. I know that the pride is there and not everyone wins some money as they gamble.

But control yourself too and don't be too public with your winnings or else, you have to face the consequences upon doing so.

Low profile as it should be on which it would really be that better that you would really minding about those people around that they wont really be happy on the things that you have achieved.
There would really be always that has something to say and they wont really be that happy on what are the things that you are currently experiencing specially if they have seen that you are better than them.If ever you have won something big or something that it is lifechanging then it would be always best that you should really be staying up low key.

Dont tend to flex it out because they would really be that get angry on the time that you would be doing it.Why? they would really be simply getting jealous and this is something
that you would really be able to feel out or even hear those negative words.

This is really how it works, I know people from my circle and they have absolutely no idea how gambling works. But they buy lottery tickets and constantly tell me that a friend won a lot of money in the lottery, it really happened. But I know that this friend bought a lot of tickets before and lost, and we also don’t know how much he lost after that, which could be several times higher than this winnings in subsequent years of active play. It turns out that a friend’s win became an excellent advertisement for many and they began to buy a lot of the same lottery tickets, hoping to win just like him. I think that behind this lies simply the envy of the others, they think that victory has come very close to them, but this is deceptive. Luck chooses any person completely at random and does not become closer as my envious environment thinks. I can't convince them of this in any way, they don't even want to listen to me, so I stopped explaining it.

Such situations will always be around us. especially if you publish the big win you just got. and that can be bad for other people who may not like you that much.
We should as much as possible remain silent and not publicize our gambling wins or losses. that's the best, play alone and enjoy yourself. We use our own money and we bear the risk ourselves. there is no need to share it with other people which could complicate our situation.

The majority of people who view gambling as a bad thing, therefore anything related to gambling will most likely be viewed badly, even with the big winnings obtained at gambling. And it's true that you said that everyone's view is different, it is very appropriate that the victory shown to others can make other people jealous and if they can't control themselves in my opinion it can trigger conflict. I agree with you that it's better to keep it a secret and enjoy it, even if we show our friends who are both gamblers maybe it will make our friends jealous and they can do crazy things like being more obsessed with gambling of course it's not a good thing, because with obsession with gambling it will only make finances a mess, or drain the pocket.

The winnings obtained from things that are indeed positive and official things such as soccer matches or others are no problem to celebrate in my opinion, because appreciating yourself is only natural, but if with the winnings obtained at gambling in my opinion there is no need to share, as you said at the beginning it is better to keep it or be silent and enjoy it, it is a safe way.

Winning in gambling is not something worth bragging you just never know the feelings of other people around you, some people are watching to win so they can at least have a share of your earnings they expect you to share a portion of your earnings and if you fail to share a portion of your earnings they spread negative things about you.
I experienced that myself I never knew a friend was waiting for a share of my winnings when I could not give a portion because I also badly needed money and I was shocked to learn that he was spreading lies behind my back, from then on I just kept my winning to myself, it's safe and you have a peace of mine.

You're right: envy is predictable like the sunrise. Why shouldn't you celebrate your wins? Be winning the lottery, crypto, or cash, the achievement is yours. You shouldnt share your success out of envy? Thats weak. Winners like myself demonstrate whats possible.

Not all lottery winners are destitute and miserable - thats media bias. Love it, eat it. However, success is about mindset and relationships, not just money. Share your success with confidence. If they leave, they were never your pals.

Smart wealth management is crucial. Create additional opportunities for yourself and others. That keeps you on top. What about envy? Give them cake. Building an empire and making an impact are more important. Stand tall, be proud, and never apologise for success. Its lonely up there, but the view is amazing.

When they didn't take benefit from us, that's how they react from the disappointment and rejection that they've taken from us. It's funny to think that there are people and friends of us which we think got our backs but little did we know that they're doing it differently and attacking us from behind telling lies to the other people just because we didn't able to give some pennies to them. Having that attitude means that they can sell their souls to the enemies without having to think of it.

It is better to keep our winnings to ourselves. That's also a bad experience that we don't want to happen again when the people whom we trusted and we think as our friends are the ones that don't do good when we're not around. Just imagine what people can do because of money and even if you explain to them that you can't give everything to them because you need all of it, they'd feel disappointed with that as if you've got an obligation to them but in reality, there's no need for us to be obliged to give any money on them whether we win big amounts with our bets because we are on our own. And if we lose, are they also there for us to take back those losses or have that moment of sadness? I don't think so.

In response to the op, I will completely and absolutely agree with all that he or she has said, based on the fact that I also have seen a very clear example of such envy manifest practically, not with me, but with someone in my working place few years ago.

This dude called himself a lotto forcaster, and this means that, he's able to predict atleast 2 to 3 to 4 numbers that will in a Lotto game correctly, a co-worker meet him and requested for a numbers that will play the next, the co-worker particular requested for what we refer to as 2-sure for over, the forecaster dude gave the co-worker 13 - 16, meanwhile he himself played 12-17, as luck may have it, the 13 - 16 he gave the co-worker played, and his 12 - 17 didn't, instead of this guy to at least, be happy for the co-worker who won, and the 20 to 30 percent of the profit he would get, this dude literally ran mad with anger in the company premises, he's girlfriend tried to calm him down but he slapped her and walked out of the company, he was later sacked because of that display.

For me, I usually do tell people that I won a bet, but I do well to not mention the amount, though the amount usually is always small, but then, I usually do not tell people the amount I won, whether it be big or small, and this is referring to my online friends though.
People who are around me physically even till now do not know that I gamble, even my own family, this is a secret I've managed to keep for years now, and will continue to keep it, thank goodness for online casinos that have made it possible for me to place bets right in the comfort of my room without having to step out.

Never mind that they are happy about the gambling win that I won, to be honest, personally, if possible, they/friends, neighbors and so on, never know what else I gambled on until they know I won.

Currently, gambling is often done online, it is easy to cover up the winnings we achieve, we can gamble behind closed doors, plus the accounts that operate on online gambling sites are not real names, aka pseudonyms, so for me them knowing we win backfires on us, except gambling at a physical casino house, winning at an online casino is slim to friends knowing we win.

Flexing is no longer a thing when it's all about peace of mind and the amount of money that you've won. As many won't be happy with your achievement, it's just best to remain silent and enjoy what you've got.

You don't have to be showy with all those stuff that you have won and brag it on the public. Lowering your profile is the new flex onto this day because you have to value your peace.

As it should be but we do know that there are type of people who do really love to flex and this is something that they cant really be able to avoid just because its their behavior in the first place.
This is why we've seen that too much flexing could really be that result into some potential safety hazard specially into your life. If you arent that mindful about your safety then it would really be that
something that you would really be normally be doing it and this is something which it isnt really that recommended after all.

Be low key and dont tend to share up. The greatest flex is on the time that they've seen you riding with your own car and living with a nice big house.
You wont really be needing to be verbal because this is where things turns out to be a mess if you do tend to boast up on something
that you have won or something like that.

Not everyone would be happy about success, some would be jealous of it.
It is not just in gambling but in general, there would always be different point of view when they see successful stories, some would take it as an inspiration, and others would take it as bragging.

It is normal to see people sad when you are winning. Success is enviable since it doesn’t happen overnight. Most people who are also hoping to be successful will become envious when you get there before them. Sometimes, I wonder why a friend should envy his friend for winning then I realize that naturally, everyone wants to be ahead. When a friend wins, he might become ahead financially and bad friends will be angry because they desire to be ahead of everyone in the circle. No wonder, Hobbes noted that man is inherently evil. This evil built-in man explains why people envy others when they become successful.

I have great friends. It is our tradition to assist others when either of us has a winning, We sit out, eat and drink together and then the person who has the winning will give a cash gift to everyone and this practice has made the friendship stronger.

Its very possible that you win and some are not happy about it, there could be many reasons to why they may have such feelings but we can take the reason that many of them have also been doing the same overtime and never been privileged to make the kind of win we had, secondly, we don't really have to announce ourself to the world that we make a win in such a big manner because for no reason some may be jealous of that or expect a share from such.

This is why you don't expose your financial standings to everybody. Humans are naturally competitive and these days are becoming evil. There are countless news of close relatives and friends misbehaving because of envy. People always want to be the first to achieve financial stability, so envy could become the case if they see another person achieving what they aspired to get. Your position is valid that we should see other people's wins as an inspiration and it should also give us hope that we could be lucky with our bets one day. I have also learned over the years that everybody has their lucky days, mine might be tomorrow therefore there is no need to envy someone who won today.    

Even if we do say that this isnt really just that for this kind of purpose but also for the purpose on having that private life and specially on the money that you are holding or earning.Doesnt matter on which source it would be coming from as long you are earning money then this is something that should really be that private and something that cant be shared up even with your closest friend or relative. You are really that basically making yourself putting up on danger if you are a type of person whose really that loving on being boastful when it comes to your money then i wont be shocked nor surprised that one day you have been abducted or making that tons of haters because of such behavior.

We do know that when it comes to money then people would really be that become different and this is why it would be always better and best that you should really know on how to keep
things in private specially in talks about money because once you do make yourself that too showy with your money then tons of potential problems
that you are really that creating into your life.

You can't expect that people will be happy with what you get, because the fact is that most people around you will be unhappy or jealous of what you get. Even worse, the people you feel are friendly towards you or you consider to be the closest to you will be jealous of your victory. So to avoid this, it's better to keep your winnings to yourself and only share them with people you really trust, such as your siblings or parents or close friends. At least they are much better compared to everyone else.

of course that will happen. If indeed we have friends who both like gambling, then talking about gambling is a normal thing, and when one of the friends wins, it is not strange if it becomes a topic of discussion, of course there will be various kinds of responses, perhaps for other people. Those who can't accept it, our friends will be annoyed why they themselves didn't win, but other people did. This is normal, it's true what you said, everyone of course wants to be ahead, especially when it comes to money.

In my opinion, a friend who is jealous of another friend's winnings is normal, because if they are both gambling, it means they will show off and tell each other about the gambling they have done, including the final results. In my opinion, there are many negative views regarding gambling. , and it's possible that if they show it to other people there might be some people who think it's a bad thing, even though it's a victory.

It's true, that's why it's best to keep it to yourself, or better share or celebrate with your family in private. People tend to get jealous when you achieve something that they didn't. They often feel like they are being stepped on and question their own luck. Crab mentality or evil eye is very common in my country, that's why you should never share everything with everyone, especially on social media.

We can't expect other people to be happy with what we get in any way, because in my opinion the only people who can be happy with what we get are ourselves and people who really love us, while other people usually say they are happy with what we do. only get it in their mouths, but in their hearts there is a little jealousy. Actually, things like this are very normal, because I personally sometimes feel jealous when someone gets a big win and I think other people will also feel the same as what we feel.
We can enjoy the victory ourselves, actually telling or showing our victory to others has no benefit either. In fact, usually when they know we have won a large amount of gambling we have to treat them. And if we just tell the story without sharing the victory, I think that's necessary. Because in my environment this applies, whoever wins at gambling will treat us, even though it may not be a large amount, but that is a form of our friendship. In my opinion, that's what makes friendship even more pronounced.

Especially when you are not even bragging at all, such is life, you keep your head down like a poor servant, they will still say that you are showing off.

What really got them is the success, they failed their entire life to achieve something even a bit close to yours, what do you expect?

I am planning to use my BTC ROI to do something big in my home town, but the fear of people who are poor is my main reason why I stay back, yet poor people will be saying that the rich are the wicked ones, this is why I always tell them to wait till they are also rich, they will see something that they have failed to see all their lives before.

People who are lacking are the greatest enemies of those who are becoming successful, they will hate and they will probably not care to hurt you for becoming successful, this is what I am currently seeing around me, like I can just end up moving to another country in the end.

Sharing good successful stories to those who are already successful is way more safer than sharing such news to those who are poor and are still struggling.

That's something that happens a lot in real life when there is someone whose life changes quite drastically and becomes better, not everyone who knows that person will like what they experience because people are often filled with envy, especially if a better life is obtained as a result of winning at gambling, but will anyone who succeeds in winning at gambling indulgence about their winnings so that many people will know about it? I think not, unless what is won is a fantastic amount that is difficult to hide because its value is able to buy many luxury things such as cars and houses, so people around will start to wonder where the money comes from and news will start to spread, if you find people who are jealous to you for winning big, just ignore it because you won't be able to stop people jealous of you.

Inspiration is gotten from evidences of winnings. We can continue to brag and at the end of the day, there's no better chances than watching ourselves exploring successfully in the system. Winnings doesn't come easy as predicted, we can continue to build ourselves to sits in the top rankings but for our friends, I don't have much to say because everyone have the basis of fueling up their minds. I know it's not safe but everyone have a risks to take in life. Every human is different and they have what's keeping them going in the system.

Sharing your victories with others doesn't always mean you receive bad things like you said. Agree that most unfamiliar people out there, including our friends, are a little jealous of our success. That's just natural psychology, no one likes others to be better or richer than them, even we ourselves are like that sometimes. However, life would be tasteless and lacking in trust if we were always silent and didn't share anything with those around us, right? The fact that we win money or succeed in something is not a bad thing, we should share it in moderation and in my personal opinion, we should not mention clearly how much money we won because it easily causes a comparison mentality in the listener. Besides, whether they are jealous or happy with our success also depends on the personality of the person you share it with. Not everyone is jealous, some of my friends are also very willing to hear me share my successes, and they are really happy for me for that.

The enemies within are worse than those outside, my advice is we need to be more cautious about those around us than those who are living outside, no one will be happy about your achievement and your success than your mother and father, hate can come from your own brothers and sisters.

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I have a sister who is always not on good terms with me, she always talks down on me, saying many bad things, I left the family home because of her, and I rented an apartment elsewhere when I started making a good amount of money, she will still talk some shits behind my back to my eldest brother, and now that I look even richer she is now trying to feel among, I blocked her off and she started talking about me to outsiders even more.

There was a time when those outsiders would come to me and ask what I did wrong to my sister for saying so many bad things about me, if she said those words to evil people I could be a target, so I moved away even farther, this is part of the story of my life.

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It's for your own good if you don't share your winnings or success with anyone, you will be safer than running your mouth, even to your blood.

Seeing the success of others can make many jealous and many find it inspiring. Such behaviour is also common among gamblers. Everyone loves to hear a gambler happiness when he wins big. Then other gamblers also tried in their hearts, if they could win like that gambler, then he too would be very happy. Not only that, because of jealousy, some gamblers increase the amount of their bets to a large extent. I saw a friend of mine who greatly increased his gambling odds after watching others gamble and subsequently lost his bankroll. Not everyone has the same luck in betting. Being inspired by the bets of others and influencing gambling can lead to worse as opposed to better.

Even for a gambler, they can still judge you sometimes or if it's already on their nature to judge every person that they came across with, but we shouldn't ever take them seriously if we think they are wrong and we are right.

It's only going to be hard at first on your case because of your condition in which you get annoyed easily but you'll soon get used to it if you will try to calm your self down. I know because I'm like this before. I realized that in this world we are living, they won't be totally prevented no matter how shut our mouths are. Another thing that helps is to think and realized that you are much better than those people that hates you.

It is undoubtedly naive to think that others might be happy for your winnings other than your family members, and among family members, it's your parents who will be truly happy from their heart, some siblings would also envy you or feel that you now have become more dear to the parents and their worth might be lost after you have won a significant amount of money and you are now wealthy.

I believe such things are personal and private, and we don't share personal things and we keep them private. So it's better that a gambler don't share such things with others but instead keep it to themselves whether it's about wins or losses, both are your own business and no one else needs to know.

and because of this, it's better for you to keep your winnings for yourself rather than share them with other people, because you won't know what other people will think and what they will do to you, they might think badly or what's worse is that they intend to rob you of the money you get. just be quiet and humble about your victory and don't need to talk too much about it to other people because you won't get anything by telling people the news of your victory.

Jealousy is always one of the qualities that need to be limited in a person, but this life has such distinctions, a person who has enough will not understand the difficult feelings of a person who has not achieved those things and the pinnacle of this jealousy is to learn the way others succeed but it's funny how life seems to predestine losers to be like that. Gambling is only enough and easy for those who can afford it, those who carry in their minds a jealousy and desire for a life like others, it turns them into victims, timing and luck are not consistent between each person

Its something common that we see people get gealous of us when badging an achievement, some may show it while some may manage not to express that on thier face, same way we may also be founf being jealous about other peoples achievenments, this is natural, but when we do and never aim to covet that whichthey had nor harm them, then we are not at fault, instead, sme will go extra miles to see that they do some funny shows behind to hurt those with achievements.

I find it confusing that people are sharing their gambling winnings with other people. This is just a fruit of envy waiting to be ripen especially if you share this with people who are struggling financially. I mean, there is nothing wrong in sharing your winnings but you must also read the room and the situation if it calls for such act. Not to mention, you also endanger yourself on your security and safety as there will be people who might commit illegal acts out of desperation for money.


Personally, winning something in gambling is not an achievement that should be bragged about. The game itself is risky and the rewards are just too high for the average person to feel tempted and to try gambling.

I believe that these things must be said as they are, with the name they deserve and must be called correctly, it is not jealousy, it is envy, and the world is full of that, although I think differently, if a person is successful in the game it is To say, if they always win in a casino that is something that first makes me happy and second I admire it, then rather those types of people are very lucky, very talented so in view of these things I can say that the majority of players lose in the casino, and it is normal, it should not be seen as something bad that happens to people, because that is the system in a casino, those who always win are outside the usual or normal probability, the Statistics that always show the Most of these values are very low for players who always win. So that type of person when he shares his stories, we as players have to learn.

The winnings of most people in a casino are less than the losses, which is why casino players are almost always dissatisfied with what they win, because you never have a positive balance greater than the negative balance, and that is something that perhaps if Someone comes and Says that they always do well,  it can cause annoyance and envy.

I have a plain mind with everyone and I want good for everyone, but if anyone wants bad for me, it's their own cup of tea, my good nature will bring Karma to such people and they will suffer the bad fate they want or plan for me. That's the way I think and more reason why I always want the good of others so that I will not be guilty of the same. Naturally, I do my thing my way and I do not care about what others say or view about it, and what helped me more is that I am a private person, so it's only a very small circle of people that know when I flourish and I am such that I do not squander money even if I have it plenty.

You can see that I do not intimidate and people will not even know when I win in gambling since I mostly gamble online which is private enough. About 99.95% of my gambling is online and I am not the type that is lousy and not be able to control himself when he wins. Needless to say, I do not even win as big as some win because I concentrate on sports betting for my big bettings since it is the aspect of gambling that I wager higher money to bet. But consistency is the key to my approach and not winning 20 times of the risked amount as many other people aim. This makes my winning to be small but almost consistent, and it can never attract attention to me this way since it is not such a huge money like winning a big Jackpot.

Notwithstanding, if my almost-consist winning is now your headache, then you will continue to suffer the headache even as I continue to try my best to win more.

Most people will not want to do that these days, people are naturally inclined to share the good things that happen to them as they cannot help but to want to share the news with everyone that knows them, however now that we have social media this tendency has become even more marked, and if you were to suggest such a thing people will look at you as if you were crazy, as not sharing such winnings will deny them to get the attention and likes they want.

First of all winning is something that brings joy to you as a person that won but in our society, now, so many people don’t like hearing good news from others, because of  of wickedness and it also make them remember their losses and how they are frustrated after they have lost so many gains at the past so each time they hear about winning from someone beside them or close to them it make them feel bad it make them think but they might be happy with you at the moment if they leave there, they start thinking about a lot and it’s may even cause and jealousy so sometimes it may be advisable to keep your winning to yourself not to escalate it to avoid more issues and problem, sometimes a life-changing winning shouldn’t be silent it Has to be escalated That is the way of life.

Jealousy will not bring any good to a person who possesses it because it only brings him or harm because he/she can't be happy for the other's achievement and they spend their time thinking to get that blessings from other and sometimes they even do the worse things to get those blessings from others just like what happened a few days ago in the news where they killed their relatives just because she has $100k+ with her and they wanted to get it from her. this is the reality of the matter, when it comes to money you won't get any real person to protect you unless their loyalty cannot be budged with money.

The discrepancy between winnings and losses is a common phenomenon in the world of gambling. The imbalance between wins and losses can lead to feelings of dissatisfaction or frustration among players, because they may perceive their gambling experiences as more financially draining than rewarding. Hearing claims of winnings from others can evoke feelings of annoyance or envy, especially if their own experiences have been less favorable.

Some gamblers may experience occasional wins, but it's not uncommon that gamblers face more losses than gains in their gambling endeavors. This is why realistic expectations and acknowledge the inherent risks involved are important. Maintaining a balanced perspective and exercising responsible gambling practices can mitigate the negative effects of losses and enjoy the recreational aspects of gambling without succumbing to disillusionment or envy.

Envy is an inborn human behavior. The challenge is how to overcome it since not all of us are good in managing it, that some may end up planning a negative attack just to put that certain person down. While this can be happening normally, but we can always avoid or lessen this type of emotion if we just keep our achievements to ourselves only. No need to flex them or post them in social media as we all know majority of the people will never be happy with that.

Most especially if we are talking about gambling winnings. Aside that people will suddenly recognize you as a relative or friend so they can start borrowing you, you will also be a target of stealing or scamming. Know that while we are in joy, some are in grief and are feeling hopeless and depressed. So we should also try to be sensitive to their feelings, as our happiness can never be other’s happiness. Hence, keep the good news to yourself and your family circle.

Yes, as one late billionaire said, envy is one of the few human vices that will not bring you any benefit. On the other hand, envy, especially white envy, can motivate a person to achieve some kind of achievement. Inspired by the achievements of another person, we ourselves strive to achieve the same thing. For example, when someone gets rich by investing in Bitcoin, it creates jealousy and motivates other people to look into investing and learn about Bitcoin. If someone wins in gambling, then it creates motivation for those people who are jealous to study gambling.

there is nothing good about being jealous because a lot can happen in a person's mind when it is influenced by envy. There are other people who are inspired and really motivated when they see other people rise in life but based on what I see around me, there are more people who have bad things to say when they see the good things happening in our lives, crab mentality? people will never lose that kind of attitude.

Well, isn't this a very common situation that occurs in the midst of social life? whatever form it takes, no matter gambling, we will never be able to please everyone. on the contrary, so do we. when we win, I, you, we, will be happy and happy about it. in fact, as you said. the people closest to us will be affected by the victory we get, especially if it is a big win. or, let's say a jackpot. People who take part are those closest to them, for example family, friends or fellow gamblers. but at the same time, there will be things that are the opposite. Some of them don't care at all about winning or the bets we win. There will be those who are naive like you said, there will be those who mock and even a few will be jealous if you, I, we, get the jackpot. a common situation that occurs, especially those involving gambling.

As you said in this thread, you have described a series of situations that occur in our lives. It's business, commerce and gambling which is very vulnerable to situations like the one you said. Not infrequently, we, you, hide the wins we get. especially, if no one knows about it. The reasons are varied, there are those who don't want to share, there are those who don't want to become a topic of conversation among people around them and all other reasons are the underlying factors. the worst and worst thing for me is, a person becomes depressed comparing his gambling with other people. The desire to win the jackpot never comes, while on the other hand friends, close friends, and those closest to them are lucky with their bets. Well, for me this is the most dangerous situation if you don't have awareness and self-control. So, like I said at the beginning. me, you, us, it will never be possible to make everyone happy and vice versa.

Again I read an opinion similar to OP's. Why do you say that? What damned environment you are living in that you think that way? People normally feel happy about someone's wins or good lucks. I mean total strangers, not relatives or close friends, just random people. Most of them are able to enjoy someone's happiness.

Casino does not create money themselves. Gamblers win money is someone else lost money. As minimum those people will be unhappy with your win. Also one gamblers win influences on a probability of other gamblers to get proper combination, cards or simply to win. I mean if someone hit jackpot, other gambler can not hit jackpot in next bet. And as usually, as people are greedy and envy others, only close friends and family would be happy for your winnings.

On this situation, shows that before someone that's close to you will not be happy for your winning it unless the person doesn't like the way you have been spend money on gamble, yes you might win but the person will also not be happy about it because he believes that you have lost more of your money on bets.
Sometimes when you have gambled and you lose much money on bet you might not be happy even when you win, now think of others that cares about you, how would dey feel. Some times people don't have to depend on you before they care about your financial status or the way you spend money. If you are around those kind of person I think you should better cut off from them because they don't care how you are making your money and they don't also care how you spend it for all they care is just give them money.

Not all the time do you need to show too much information to other people like this winning in gambling. You don't know what other people think of you, let's say you are thinking of them as a friends but are they in the times you are down with your losses? also once they know you have money, some of them seek help or assistance from you and if you didnt forgive them possibly it will cause or root of your problem to each other or have a conflict with your relationship. Just settle those to the people who you think truly there is when you have or don't have anything.

I agree with your assumption, basically everyone's thoughts are different, even though winning is a good thing because it is money earned with a certain amount, but if other people don't like gambling then it is likely that other people will think badly about winnings. obtained in gambling. Indeed, money is very sensitive in my opinion, all relationships can become chaotic because of money, because as far as I know there are three things that can destroy a relationship, including wealth, throne and women.
just like what you said, friendships can fall apart if they have previous problems, like when we are not okay usually our friends stay away and when we have money then friends can come closer and even worse can claim to be brothers which is very annoying . In my opinion, if from the start the relationship with a friend was not good or not good then it would be better to hide the victory obtained, because what you said is true rather than unwanted conflict occurring. Unless we have our own grudges, that's our own right.

When some are even complaining to the gambling platforms not to announce them to the world on any possible high winning they realized, some will instead be happy about this because they want others to see how =lucky they are and how rich they are probably becoming through the winning, Its nit that we shouldn't go into celebration whenever we make win on huge amount, but we must do that with total care and avoid any public interference upon the gambling wining we earn for safety purpose.

I agree with you. I also don't like it when my wins are made public. I have several accounts on gambling sites with different names. And I only told a few names to the people closest to me. But I wasn't really open about my gambling. I think it is my responsibility as a gambler. I mean it is my privacy and when I gamble then let all the losses and profits be something that only I know. I never told anyone about my victory. If they find out by checking my account then that is their choice. I thought it would be safer. Because I've hit the jackpot and I'm comfortable with no one knowing.

Never tell anyone about your money, whether that money comes from gambling or work or anything else. There is always only one reaction: envy. If you think about it, you would be doing them (and obviously, yourself) a favor by not telling them.

It's just human nature. Not much we can do.

In the world we will always come across people who are very envious in the world, in every ecosystem there is one, in fact here in the forum there are plenty of these types of people and who are quite toxic where they look for even the slightest mistake to throw you the blame. , there is that in the world in everything, so just as there are people who are , whose percentage is very high, there are also people who are always the opposite and like to help because in reality they like it and they don't do it to climb, There are also some here in the forum, very few in truth but there are some, this same thing happens in these things that are about winning and losing, in particular when I see that someone in the forum wins in a casino or really does something that make a difference because he took a large part of the money, that makes me happy, because a happy person in the world is a possibility unless there are people who want to do harm to others, a happy person will never persist in harming someone, Unless he is a person who always does bad things and is happy with that, the truth is something very shady.

I suggest not making that as a big deal. Who the hell cares for what others think about our winnings or earnings? Why should we adjust? As long as we know to ourselves that we are not stepping on other people, it's just a normal approach for anyone to be happy with achievement. If these winners want to show their victories either to brag or just simply because they are happy, let them do what they want.

It's not our fault if someone got into a worse situation just because they found out how much we earned, how much we won etc. In the first place, where should we put ourselves? I'm not the type of person who brags about something, either achievement, money-related things, etc. But I can't control if that will be exposed to the public because I have friends who know me personally and also have their respective social circles.


Blame themselves for having that kind of feeling. Again, it's not our fault and we don't need to adjust for them.

I want you to know this, any person that is not happy for your winning doesnt deserve to be your friend, even a fellow gambler that is not close to you can be happy when you win because they feel you are winning back the money the casino has taken from them. What is even friends when we can't be happy for each other when we get something. I have seen gamblers send money to fellow gambler when they win big amount of money because they know how it works, you don't win games everyday of your life, so when others win the days you don't, they will also show you love.


However, I think that gamblers need to keep some winning private, that your friends might not be your main problem, but casual people around you can rub you when you don't expect them. It's even better to use online casino so that when you win big amount, transaction will only be flowing between casino wallet to your personal wallet or from your casino wallet to your bank account, always good to maintain some privacy you know.

The world is filled with jealousy. And what hurts most is that many times, it is jealousy from the people around us. It is mostly the people who claim that they are happy for you that actually hate and envy you. They’ll pray you something goes wrong just so you can stay at the same level with them.
We should try to make better friends who are out for success and are happy to see growth because many friends don’t like to see their buddy grow but will like to grow without their buddy. What’s worse is that you can’t even tell who because there’s always pretense.

The point is that people will be happy to see the winnings you have won when they get a share of the winnings you have won. We have to admit that money is everything in life which means everyone wants and needs money and when you give some of your winnings to people Others, especially some of your friends, will smile or even praise you with words that make you proud or feel great about yourself because you managed to win.

But on the other hand, if for example you just show off your winnings without giving any share to other people who hear about your winnings then maybe they will be two-faced, or what this means is that in front of you they are smiling but behind your back they are talking about you to other people which leads to the topic Negative talk, such as speaking ill of you. Therefore, I think you have to reconsider everything, simply put, if you don't want to share some of your winnings with other people, especially people who hear the story of your victory, then it's better not to say anything to them or that is, it's better to hide all the information. about your winnings, unless you want to share them, because sometimes even this small thing can cause problems in friendships.

It will be hard to know if others are truly happy with your winnings or not. How others will feel about your winning depend a lot on how your character is, that is if you use your gains to oppress others or you add value to their lives through your achievement. I have friends who share in any good thing that happens to me. If I win something big from gambling, part of those money will somehow end up with them especially if they have pressing needs. Also we are friends and we do hangout on weekends, if I win, at least bills will be on me in one of those outings. So you see, they really do not have much choices in calling my winning their winning as well.

Yes, we don't knows what others feel about our winnings. They can shows their happiness in fronts of us but they feel jealous in behinds of us. If they are our close friends or family, they will happy with what we gets, especially if that is about something that gives us advantages. They will show their happiness to us without jealous because they realize that getting the advantage will depends to each people. If we can have people like that, we are the lucky person because we have an honest people around us that will express their feeling honestly. We will treat them as our best friends or best family member and our relationships will become tights and nothing can separate us. We will not doing something that can harm our relationships because we don't want to lose one of them in our relationships.

It's not easy to find those kind of people who will end up as your friends. I myself have just a low amount of trusted friends, they have been with me through thick and thin, that's all I could say. Even now, I know those people would not just leave me behind if something goes south.
But, we still have to be sensible about what we will share. If it's a big win, then just share it with the family who will understand you and will be the ones who will benefit from your win. Sharing it on social media would just mean boasting it and we have to be ready with the consequences of what we do.
Next to that sharing could be people attacking you or those who will try to borrow money from you because they've seen that you have some to spare.
Those are the normal things that will happen which is why avoiding those will be the first thing that we must do. Don't be the spark on why they envy you and then blame them for being jealous about it.

Can be different for each individuals as there's no absolute behavior for each people, some people you can definitely talk about when it comes to wins and losses, some you really don't want to be doing that because you know them as a person. There's also the irony that sometimes you tell it to your loved ones and they're the one that will betray you for the money and when you tell it to your friend, they're the one's that don't envy what you've won and would even celebrate with you so yes, there's no absolute. The only thing that's absolute is probably the fact that it's up to you who you're sharing that story of your winnings because at the end of the day, you'd want to share that because it's the healthiest thing that you can do since it helps your confidence and self-esteem.

Exactly! It's sad because whoever else you think will be happy for those who have achieved in Life, they are also the ones who can say a lot of negative praise behind your back, been there done that, so I chose now to be all on my own and never tell even a small details about my achievements in life especially in my career. Not generalizing but majority are our relatives, so some say it's better to share with other people who are not even part of our family but we know that they are the one who's truly genuine happy with what you have.

This is why it would really be that important that you should really be making yourself that lowkey and never intend to boast up if ever you do win up some significant amount because you do know that there are people who would really be getting jealous with your winnings or status on which it would really be that a common thing that they would rather be giving out those kind of curses or bad words towards you that you do get a sickness or
something that makes you down on which it is really that sad. I can say this basing up on real experience too that even with your relatives they would really be having this kind of jealousy on which it might really be that resulting for you to have that kind of treatment or relationships been that destroyed because of envy. This is why it would really be better that you should be silent on whatever money you are earning
so that you would be able to avoid these kind of conflicts in between relatives or even with your friends or whomever you have around.

I have that experience too that even your friends would really having that kind of distance on which you dont even know on whats the actual reason and you have just that known that they are already that having those kind of gaps on which  you dont know on what happened. There are really that people who cant really just that accept on the success of others on which same as you said that if they cant be able to
get in equal on what you do have then this is where things becomes that absurd on which they would be having those kind of behavior on which this is really indeed common. Even sharing up with
your source of income and sees up that you are earning way more than them then this is where those words would be coming up on which its obviously that shows jealousy.

That was your opinion as I share my winnings with my close friends, family, and relatives but of course, that will depend on the amount. It was not being generous to others but just thinking about why we can't treat other people if we win. It depends on us and the circle of your friends, family relationships, etc.

Well, we can take that point that some of the people around us may not be happy about our winnings but it doesn't mean we have to get angry with them. Instead, we have to open our minds and think that not all people will appreciate the achievements we get, some will hate it. We can ignore them instead and enjoy those people who treated us well.

Don't expect to see as many people knowing about your success because not all of them will be happy with you even though they may not express such on their faces, but it's something withing their minds that they are dealing and battling with, some of them had made same trial on what turn to our own success on countless times and couldn't made it up to any success, instead they keep losing repeatedly, how do we expect such a person to be interested in seeing us happy all through with our own success, that is why some don't like announcing theirselves to the public whenever they make it an opportunity in winning.

In life, we have friends that are much more like a brother to us than our own biological brother. This is because that friend is always happy on your success, amd encourages you to do more. He is not envious of you but instead he is looking for a way to make sure that you grow financially. Such people are good, and I can share my win with them, because my happiness is also their happiness.

On the other hand, there are people that are not happy seeing us around, and everything that we do irritates them because they are envious of our lifestyle. It is better to keep everything secret about yourself from such people, and never allow them to know how you get money. We need to know the kind of people that we share our success stories with, to prevent you from being their target.

I think we should be happy when others are winning if we want to win too. We shouldn't envy others when they win as we're not yet winning, every individual has a time therefore we shouldn't be unhappy as our time hasn't come but celebrate with those winning. Not everyone will be happy with you when you're winning therefore it's not everyone that's supposed to be aware of how your lite is going. Hide things from some set of individual so you don't cut your happiness short.

If I win a big amount from lottery or gambling, I won't tell anyone but live in silence as when you start telling others they'll feel entitled to your money and be asking you for financial assistance that they won't oyat back. You can't tell them no as you have already told them about the money that you won therefore you'll start giving out free money and it will become a habit and you'll misuse the money that you won.

Certainly not everyone would celebrate at your success hence the need to know the difference between actual friends and others that you regularly come in contact with. True friends won’t envy your success, rather they’ll rejoice and be happy with your success.
You’re sure to have people who, out of envy, would generate some unpleasant feelings and emotions. That’s only natural. Such people who would have negative feelings aren’t your friends and shouldn’t be privy to information concerning your and your finances.

It’s always lovely to share your joy and happiness with friends and family. We’ve just got to identify the actual friends from all the people we know.

No one share in your pains when you lose so why then should we pay attention to anyone if they are happy or not when we make the winnings, this is real life and we need to man up to whatever come along the way while we gamble, regardless wether or not the other man feel your excitement or is jealous of your winning it doesn't add or take anything from the fact that you already won and that is the most important thing.



Best to remain private with our gambling activities reason why I preferred the online casinos to the physical casinos because with online casinos, one can gamble in privacy and no one will know when and how much you win per time.

This is life certainly,the percentage of people happy for your success and victory are just few up to like a 5% and the rest will be hiding an envy heart on a fake smiling face just to show they are happy as well  but they ain't happy.so like wise it's for you to know who you share your victory with,I had this experience of telling my friend's about my success but less did I know they are not happy for me but rather jealous and that thing I'm celebrating for won't even last.so I had to learn this from an elderly that one's successful life is guaranteed by the people is surrounded with and if they take it in a Good fate it sure will stay and vice versa.

So that what's how I had to change my own rules of disposing whatsoever or any good news with. My friends or colleagues so I know where the problem is coming from,so one-day I didn't do that I observe that 2 of them came to me and said don't you win again and all of those mockery talks but I smiled in me and that's how I came out of such.

I will cut ties with such friends and stop telling them about my gambling successes if I see that they are jealous of my winnings from gambling bets. This will help me avoid being planned bad against.

This time around, whatever people do for money, be it gambling or anything else, they need to exercise caution. A friend who observes your winning streak can make you feel envious if they think you're luckier than them at gambling. They won't know that you won because you were able to carefully consider each wager before taking home those fortunate winnings.

It's difficult to judge someone else's happiness based solely on wins or losses. However, you highlight a fascinating truth:  gambling victories can trigger a rollercoaster of emotions, including envy. It's natural to feel a pang of jealousy when a friend hits a jackpot while you walk away empty-handed.  Imagine two athletes – one wins the gold medal, the other finishes just off the podium.  The silver medalist might feel a flicker of envy, but it doesn't diminish the gold medalist's achievement.

The problem arises when envy translates into reckless behavior.  Following your friend's "footsteps" by exceeding your gambling budget to chase a similar win is a dangerous path.  It's like a gambler throwing good money after bad, fueled by envy rather than sound strategy. However, there's another side to the coin.  Celebrating your friend's windfall, especially if it translates into treats or shared experiences, demonstrates genuine happiness for their success.  Imagine a group of friends celebrating a teammate's victory – individual joy intertwined with collective pride.

That's true, because we definitely have ordinary friends and friends who can be said to be friends. I myself have a friend who I consider to be my best friend. When I win, he feels the pleasure and also feels the victory that I get, and when gambling ends in defeat, we both just laugh out loud because we don't want it to be a burden, so we do our best. Maybe try to lighten the mood in our own way. Also, money is sensitive, there was an incident that I experienced where when I didn't have money, my friends who usually came to my garage to hang out changed, they rarely came, not even just to make small talk, apart from my best friend. which can truly be said to have always existed.

and when I have their money coming back of course I won't let it happen, I also teach them a lesson so that they realize not to be friends with me when I'm just there. Not because I'm cruel, but I think sometimes people like this should be taught a lesson. This is a little out of the discussion but there is a connection.

Winning in gambling brings a surge of emotions: satisfaction, pleasure, and even a sense of accomplishment, even if it's not through traditional means.  Imagine a mountain climber reaching the summit – the elation goes beyond just conquering the physical challenge.

The social implications of gambling wins are fascinating.  You acknowledge that not everyone shares your happiness.  Some might celebrate simply for the financial gain, lacking the genuine camaraderie of true friends.  This highlights the potential disconnect between winning and fostering strong social bonds.

Even worse, envy and jealousy can rear their ugly heads.  A friend's victory might trigger negativity, leading to social friction.  Imagine two artists – one wins a prestigious award, while the other feels resentment.  This is a harsh reality of human nature.

Well, maybe because it shows that winning is possible? When I constantly lose in a game and I see someone else wins in it, I think "Good! At least the game is not rigged like thought. People can win at it." Of course, there's a possibility of thinking like "It wasn't just someone, it was their man, and he won because of that. The game is still rigged for everyone else." But is it possible to live thinking that way? I don't think so.

We cant really be able to tell on who among with our friends are the ones who would stay up loyal and to those who are really just that good when you do have the money and when things
becomes that too far gapped when it comes to money or financial status then this is where you would really be making yourself that see on who would really be the one will really be sticking
and the ones wouldnt. This is why it would really be best that you should really be knowing on how to make things secret on which there are really indeed things which arent really that intended
for you to share up because exposing too much information or the things thats happening into your life might really be something that could be used against you in the future.
Privacy would really be still that important.

Yes you are looking at the other side of this but it is true and we can conclude that something that always fails for us can actually work for others, I am talking about the same game which in the end we will be able to assume as you say that the game is not rigged but we are the ones who are far from being lucky so it is difficult to get a win like what others have managed to get.

In the event that you've got a lot of time on your hands, you're going to want to make sure that you've got a good understanding of what you're doing, and you're going to want to make sure that you've got a good understanding of what you're doing. Always thinking that other people are more successful than us is something that should not be thought about too much, because after all this is gambling which is always about winning and losing and simply if for example you always end the session with a loss then that means you are always unlucky, and obviously in my opinion it is better for you to just stop if for example the situation is always like that.

Actually it is human nature that he cannot tolerate the success of others and are not happy with the things they have so they always follow others. It is common that friends will be feel jealous of each other if their status are not similar and because of money many people have forget their friendship.

Most of the people don't gamble but when they see that his friends is a part of gambling and is earning money then he starts to gamble too. But i think that money is not everything so we should not forget our friendship just for money and if we Hurt someone for money then we should not forget that one day such amount will be finished then what will we do.

it depends  on the amount you win will determine if people will envy you or not . The higher the amount you've won, the more you should keep it to yourself.

The same people that will criticized you hit you didn't win will be the same that when envy you so you see why it's important to keep your losses or winning to yourself. People generally that act positively when someone that's close to them is doing better than them and even your fellow gamblers won't be too Happy with you if you've been regular with your win while they're not. I will always prefer you to do all your gambling at the comfort of your home and keep every wining to yourself. If you're engaging in a gambling act that requires you to physically visit the location, then you try as much as possible to be discipline enough not to share all your gambling history with random people you see in the environment.

Sometimes human can be very difficult,  it is even not necessary to tell people or let them know when you win gambling., winning should be secret for many reasons.  People have been Rubbed  and attacked for letting people know about their gambling win. Gambling win needs to be secret because I don't see any reason why one needs to announce their victory in gambling.  Keeping some things as secrets will really for safety and avoiding drama from some people.  It is not a new thing that in life people don't even want to see you win because some people thinks life is all about competition.

The thing is that winning should be secret but sometimes the joy of it doesn't allow the gambler to keep it a secret. But outside that winning of bet is something that should be confidential and not disclose to everyone except for some specific people that are good with you because I know it's almost impossible to not tell anyone about the win that you have gotten or receive from gambling.

It's hard to keep the nerve of a cheerful win alone. In a world where envy and competition can sometimes overshadow genuine happiness for others, discretion can indeed be a wise choice. There is a valid concern about safety and avoiding unwanted attention or potential risks associated with revealing big win in gambling. Telling people about a big win may inadvertently invite unwanted solicitations or even harm from people who may see an opportunity to exploit the situation.

Keeping such wins confidential can help maintain personal safety and security. Each gambler must assess their own circumstances and make decisions accordingly. People may not know that a win is sometimes a cover for many previous losses, they want the win to be shared as celebration. While celebrating success is natural, safeguarding oneself and loved ones from potential risks often takes precedence.

the joy of winning can make challenging to keep that information to yourself, but you're right that it's important to be selective about who you share that information with. Telling the wrong person can put you at risk of being targeted by criminals. When deciding who to share your gambling winnings with, consider who you can trust and who has your best interests at heart.
 It generally advisable to avoid revealing this information with strangers or persons you do not know well. Instead, consider sharing this information with trusted friends or family members. Check whether the individual you're sharing this information with has a gambling addiction. If this is the case, you should avoid discussing this knowledge with them since they may be tempted to ask for money or gambling tips.

People beside you may not be happy when you are a winner on any gamble and gather a good amount of money not only that but also when you have a good amount of money no one will be happy hence the people beside you will be unhappy and will think why I won't have such money.

Right. Sharing your wins on social media isn’t just about the boasting. We should think about the kind of people it would attract. Asides being careful security wise, we should know that money will attract the wrong set of people, it always does. Most people are only friends because there’s a share of money for them when you win. But if you eventually don’t have all that money, they’ll deny you like they’ve never seen you before.

you're so right about that fake friends thing!  I'll admit, when something good happens and I'm all excited, I think about posting it online.  But then I hesitate.  I mean sure it feels nice to share stuff, and okay, maybe its a little bragging and  still, do I really want people hitting me up who only care about the success not me?

I guess I could just text a few close people to tell them the news.  The ones who've been there through ups and downs already.  They'd actually appreciate it, not just want something outta me.

For me I don’t even tell anyone. There’s a big streamer that was asked on tv how much he makes in a month and he said he wouldn’t tell because he doesn’t want people to treat him differently. And TBH, if people see you have money, there’s this weird kindness that everyone has. So, I really stick with what he did; I don’t tell anyone about anything. There are even people who have interest because they may know you don’t have money now but they see potential so they just hold on to that. So make types of people. And that’s why it’s advised to not trust anyone at all.

Sometimes our expression by winning on a casino table cannot be hidden. maybe after to going home and bringing money, when on the road going back home we have to meet friends or relationships and can't hide our joy, so they know we won something big, so things like this just happen, and our friend asking for a treat when we look our face is look happy. but it all depends on you, if you want, you can invite him to enjoy your winning together just the way it is.

Being envy with what you have is normal things to other people since they can't have what you made, the best thing is to keep quite about your winning don't even tell it to your family, just provide for them, since if you told them they will expect and ask for more, and worse they also get jealous, this is true, work in silent is the best way to do it.

Mostly when it concerns winnings from gambling or betting and it's huge that one may find it hard to contain it, it is likely anyone besides one at that moment of the winnings is jealous, envious or is already thinking something genuinely evil.
Please still endeavor to be more private with such winnings. If one finds himself in a public place and the winnings is just an open secret, still, it's better to act more matured and cool about it rather than jump on tables and tell just about anyone wanting to know the cause of your excitement.

It's better not all eyes be on you, else same people will laugh loudest about the source, and be first to piss you off when the winnings either finishes or maybe wrongly invested.

That is what we called insecurity and greedy to not become happy in others success because I have experienced that same thing way back when others are talking behind me after winning the grand prize in our office Christmas event (motorcycle actually) instead of them being happy for me yet opposite that they felt.

this is the reason why we must hide our success to others , not caring if they will be motivated or not? but yeah they don't  deserve our success .

Happiness in gambling profits, yeah, that is individual happiness. Most will not understand the risk that you took and they are like succubus that will suck you dry from your profits whenever they saw how much you win. So the best thing to do is just keep it a secret from everyone unless you have a family to take care of. Share it with them of course because you will be spending it with them.
Others will say they are happy but I doubt it will be from the bottom of their hearts, most will feel envy and as a winner you don't want to be urging people to do the same as they might blame you in the future.

There might be cases of other being happy for your gambling win, yet it's better to hide your victories anyway. Gambling victory is about luck and it won't favor you everytime. Unless you use the gambling win to generate passive income, it won't last long. It's a known fact that people are reckless on spending gambling wins. Moreso if it's others. So, it's better to not talk about it and use it the way you want. Maybe pay loans, buy a real estate or a car. Even the people who are your nearest might not appreciate knowing you are gambling for money. Trading too is not much different but traders are supposed to be making better financial decisions.

That's right, with money issues all people's attitudes can be seen. Honestly, I myself am very annoyed with friends who come just because they need it or when I have enough money. it's the same as getting into gambling, I've experienced bad things myself, when I didn't have money I really wanted to gamble and took action to borrow money from my friends there no one helped because money is sensitive and in fact it is It was a stupid act too, but the good thing was that a big win came to me, so I didn't hesitate to show off the win I got to my friends who I had previously applied for a loan to them but no one had given me a loan, in the end they found out and they came to the garage where I hung out and what was disgusting was that they acted so well in front of me, some even claimed to be brothers, this was very annoying for me.

I actually don't want other people to know about my own gambling activities, including the winnings I get at gambling. Indeed, I keep it a secret from some people, including my friends, but occasionally I show off the winnings I get at gambling to my friends, which makes them annoying. and I think that's the right action in my opinion to serve a shameless friend.  ;D

I don't see any reason why you need to show off because that's a way to destroy your relationship with them. In this world you need to be connected with people as much as you can because you can use them for your own benefit. There's no real friends in this world, that's why you need to win every friends and make sure you're get what you want.

Don't blame your friends don't want to help you when you need and only come when you're successful, make sure you're not one of them before judge like that.

It's natural for human being to feel jealous when they see that another person got something they are struggling for all their life so easy, imagine someone that has been gambling for some years and has been mixing strategies to get some grand audit win and all of a sudden someone who started less than a year won $1M, no matter how you tried to keep it, you will be happy for him and the same time jealous because you would wish you were the one that has such opportunity but of course, we have people that will never be happy for you, they would wish it happen to them and they can do anything to make you lose that money you have earn.

If you don't have the stomach to controls a lot of things around you, if you win a big amount of money from gambling, it's better you keep it to yourself and not even your family. As long as the money is legit and has a source, even if you buy a whip that get attention of anyone, it's not in your place to tell them you won something big, the world is full of evil people.

I think one of the reasons that is very likely in the mindset of someone who shows off his winnings to others especially some of his friends is because they want others to think that they are great so that they can get a big win like that which is where such recognition will be able to make you feel good because you get praise for what you have got but actually for others it doesn't really matter especially if for example your friends are one of the people who really understand that the victory that you managed to get is nothing more than mere luck which everyone can also if for example they managed to be in a lucky situation.

And sometimes yes it's true as you said that bragging about winning in gambling might destroy relationships, although it's not significant or not a big deal but sometimes there are always people who don't like the superiority of others which can make them limit socialization with you, and on the other hand yes I think it's a fact that it's difficult for us to really get real friends who are usually two-faced where in front of you they praise you but behind you they vilify you to others, most of them always dive while drinking water.

People get jealous. I've seen the best struggle, especially when you're crushing it. I know it's hard. You sometimes feel horrible for the other person, sometimes like the world's rigged. Life's a gamble. Some win, some lose. This is how it is.

My tips on making it huge. You win by remaining silent. Not hiding, but defending yourself. Not everyone wants your success. Believe me, the world is full of vultures. Play intelligently. Win big? Best real estate is a classic investment. Trump guarantees it. Winning is about playing the long game better than everyone else, not simply the money.

Actually, I also don't want my friendship to be destroyed, but I have my own way of dealing with shameless friends who only come when I have money, whereas when I'm in trouble all my friends are somewhere. I show off my victory to my friends so that they know that I have money, even though it's not important, I feel annoyed with myself, and that feeling of irritation is caused by those who are shameless by only coming when they need it or when I have money.

I say this because I'm not like what they do, indeed I feel there are one to three friends like that in my environment. Also, it's not just me who says they are like that, other people also think the same, and when I hear statements from other people who share the same opinion as me regarding my shameless friend, even though I don't know who he is. I am increasingly convinced that people like that have a bad name every time they hang out because I also think that is their nature that is difficult to change.

It is only enviness that will make someone not to be happy with others success, happiness for others success also attracts success to you so I see no reason why some people feel unhappy when others makes an achievement in life simply because they feel the person might be better than them after the success. This kind of behaviour have made so many people go to extent of being diabolical by joining occultic groups and witchcraft just because they don't want anyone close to them to be more successful than them. It is really very bad for someone to become unhappy over others breakthrough that is why it is important for people to be careful when they make an achievement in life because not every body is completely happy that you are becoming successful.

People who looks our winning will not always happy because they don't wants to see we win on gambling or they have another intention to us. We will difficult to find out people who will support our winning because among all people who we knows, there must be people who will envy with our success in the gambling. We will needs to be careful when we wants to share our winning to them and only selecting people who really close to us so they will support us no matter what we got. We already see this behavior happens in around us because people doesn't have the same perception about what other people gets. Many people jealous with what other people gets so they used the other ways to fall down that person. We must be careful if we meet this people and not to close to them to avoids many problems that can happens to us. We can be friend to them but we still have to be careful and not to open what we have to them so they don't envy.

Ultimately, our success or our failure is no one else’s business, there are many people that for some reason or another are not going to like who you are, and nothing will make them happier than to know that you are doing badly on your life for some reason or another, and if you were to reveal that you are doing great, they may even try to find ways to give you trouble, and since most of the time those people remain hidden and you do not know who they are, it is clear the best course of action is to remain silent when things in your life are going exactly as you want.

But people would really be glad if someone sees you that you have failed and they would get pissed off on the time that they have seen you that you are making huge money and overtaken them
in terms of financial condition or status on which we know that once envy would really be kicking in then this is where you would really be having those kind of bad impressions towards that certain person and doesnt matter whether if its your relatives or someone in connection with because we know that people doesnt really like on seeing your success but of course except to some people but majority would really be having on that kind of behavior. This is why it would really be better that you should really be keeping silent on whatever you've been doing specially on making money.

It is very true, some people can let their happiness and emotions overflow - getting carried away with telling stories about their own success. Like any time in life, you just need to read the room and the situation, sometimes it can be appropriate to share these stories. In general you would be wise to keep your winnings private and you don't even need to tell people where you're earning money. It can break down relationships, as people can start to look at you different or try to leech off you, when they should be earning their own way through life. It's why many lottery winners actually end up living a sadder life than you might expect and often the official advice they are given is to keep anonymous.

Some people are just very naive. And they believe that they need to share their successes with others so that they can share in their joy. By the way, this is implicitly imposed in various shows. There, the presenters are very picturesquely happy about the successes of the players, although in their hearts, I think, they deeply do not care. Likewise, I don’t quite understand why people boast about their successes on Instagram. The social network Instagram itself was created in order to boast in front of other people. This is how people satisfy their psychological complexes.

There are some people who love to share their winnings in order to motivate others to achieve the same.For example when I hit the x11339 multiplier I knew that beside me no one would care much yet I shared that win and bet id in the slot 101 thread here in order to give an incentive to people thinking slots are rigged,to tell them they really are not and not to boast my victory to share the joy with others,you said it yourself everyone deep down is jealous for your achievements.

I just want to say right away that nothing can fail for us always. There's no such thing in this universe. If we want to achieve something, we must try and try until we achieve it.


Again, no one is always unlucky. Every person will be lucky one day. And now we come to our balance management. Don't bet a lot at a time, because we must live to see that lucky day.

But that is different, you revealed that you got that amazing win in a forum in which most people care about their privacy, so even if you revealed that information about yourself, no one knows your name or where you live, however those sharing those stories in social media, do this from their main account, so not only they are exposing themselves to all kind of envy from their closed ones, they are also exposing themselves to criminals that could see such post and think of them as good targets to rob.

It's true that for everyone victory one makes in life, not everybody will be happy for our success, and as such the earlier we learn to appreciate those who acknowledge our success, while we ignore those who never wishes to see us process, the more better we will live a happier life, which is why most times I always tell never never to announce their success too early because you never know who hates to see you process, but taking people by surprise should be our number tactics, most especially in our gambling industry if we are lucky enough to win a huge sum of money. Because personally, if I manage to win a million dollars today, I bet you nobody won't know I won such amount, not until they happen to see me live an improved lifestyle. Hence, keeping secrets to ourselves most times is the best strategy to avoiding problems in life.

amWe don't have to always disclose our winnings to the public especially telling people to about how far we have made it in life. There are bad people everywhere even our best friend might be out closest enemy and we need to eat h out so that we are not used for scape goat.
Gambling is fun usually especially when we are making profits from betting. It is also important for us to study ourselves and know the kind of people that are around us. Just imagine when plenty people are playing bets and you are the only that is winning, this could cause suspicious behavior and people might keep thinking maybe you are using black magic to play the game. This might attract enemies that could fight us and want to deal with us.

On online then i wont see any risks though because no matter how boastful you are with your winnings, there's no way that they could really be able to know you.Therefore, there's nothing that they can do about
asking money or would really be having those bad intents on you.Whereas, this is something opposite if we do speak about on real life conditions or situations on which you would really be making yourself that
too impulsive and showy when it comes into your winnings. Its true that not all or everyone would really be happy on what you have won specially if its a significant one.

The ones whom you've thought that its a good person might really be having that bad views in regarding with your recent win and this is something that could really happen on someone.
This is why it would really be better that you should really be keeping it as a secret and there's no harm on doing it. It is really just that sometimes we are really that too impulsive on
things that we are currently experiencing.

It's complicated but some people are born that way, they just can't keep things to themselves even if they are private only to boast about themselves and how good their lives are while in reality, they are full of sh*t, and even a mediocre life is better than theirs. Some of them would do such things out of insecurity or maybe to show someone else that they have a better life than them, however, all of these are useless things and thought processes.

I have always hated people who do such things, I don't even like it if they share their success stories because they barely do it to motivate others but they do it to gain attention and to make others jealous of what they have achieved which is disgusting. It's not for everyone, I know there are good people as well, but sharing your success stories with others don't make any sense to me.

I think the happiness of gambling should be self-happiness as the sorrow of gambling is self-sorrow/unhappiness. When anyone loses on gambling no one supports the gamblers so when win why happiness should be shared? The more important thing is it will increase unhappiness to the nearest persons.

You’ve got a point, OP. Sharing big wins can be tricky, but I believe it’s all about how we share our successes. My approach? Celebrate with those who genuinely support you, and use your wins as a chance to create positive moments together. It’s less about the win itself and more about keeping those good vibes flowing. Keeping it positive and inclusive, that’s the key.

The worst part is that now the world is full of people like that, as in their quest to get more likes and become more known online, people are willing to share all kind of details that on the past they would not have shared with anyone, and this trend will not change on the short term, as with an increased use of social media, the more comfortable people will feel with increasing the amount of details they share about their private lives, which will bring them more likes, creating a vicious circle.

Everyone who's happy when you win wants to share the success, that's one truth of life, so I don't really know what you're talking about lol, did you have friends? family good?

Kiddings aside, the point I'm trying to make is that people within your circle will always be happy for you when you win, and depending on just how close you are to them it also means they share your failures and disappointments as well, in the case of gambling, it's extremely evident, you get yourself a jackpot earning you a couple thousand dollars in just a sitting, you post it on facebook or you let your closest friends know about it and for sure some of them might congratulate you but all of them will certainly ask if you could bring them out for a treat, and even if you think this is just one-sided and exploitative it further drives my notion that people will be happy with you and possibly for you when you're winning.

Stop thinking out here like everyone's trying to get you, you're not the Top G or whatever, people will always be happy for you especially if you've shared moments with them, the notion that no one's gonna be happy when you win is so skewed and fucking cringe in my opinion lol.

Everyone would really be happy if you have that kind of behavior or treatment on the time that you would really be winning up big on which you would really be sharing some tips or amounts
into those people who are around whether your family,close friends,relatives etc... but since we do know that not all would really be that be generous enough or someone who do consider out on sharing
a portion of those winnings and this is why when those people sees around and doesnt really get something or some sort of bonus then this is the time that they would really be making those reactions or saying up those words.

This is the main reason on why i wont really be tending to share up or love to shows up on what im really that dealing with and specially on the money that i do earn or obtain.
Its true that not all would really be happy for you but rather they would really be envious on the things that they are currently seeing on you. So it would really be that a personal
choice whether you would really be sharing up or keeping it private asmuch as possible.

I personally am very happy when someone from the forum wins a lot of money in a casino, and unlike many, I want them to continue winning, because that is the good thing about this, it is always good for people to win, and it should always happen, not having anything of envy or resentment if someone wins and we don't, the person who wins will probably fix many things that he needs in his life, he will help his family, many things, we don't know how many, but it is a blessing when that happens because people can assume that things would begin to improve, many of us struggle with problems on a daily basis, I believe that we all carry many problems and blessed are those who do not have so many problems to solve, but the majority We all carry so many problems in life that when there is a type of Gain like this is a great relief, money helps solve many problems...

I agree with you. When you lose at gambling, people will insult you. At least they will mock you for your defeat. And when they win they will ask for a share of your happiness. Doesn't that sound funny, right? Yes, that's what actually happened. Therefore, it is important to keep your gambling hobby a secret. But if people already know it's important to refuse to share your happiness with other people, because they don't help anything when you lose. Except for people who trust and love you.

Many people might be happy like you when anyone on the forum becomes the winner. But the maximum of the community thinks why I can't earn money like the winner and they can't be unhappy as they don't know you personally. If they knew you personally then they must have been unhappy for the winning you.

In the event that you've got a lot of time on your hands, you're going to want to make sure that you've got a good idea of what you're going to be doing. And yes what you said is a fact that when we win then usually people will steal our attention, they come like they care too much about us which is actually their goal is to ask for a share of our victory.

Basically, if you don't mind sharing some of the winnings with those who ask, especially your friends then yes, there is no need to keep it a secret, no problem, but if for example you absolutely do not want to share the results of the victory with others then obviously the solution is to never tell anyone about any winnings, because usually things like this can damage friendships.

When we see people who are not happy with our achievements in a forum, it has become a normal thing. Indeed, life must be full of competition, but still show good character, because not all evil must be repaid with evil. Being kinder will keep our lives calm. Like what you are doing here, Bro Shasan, often gives loans to people without knowing the person and also not knowing whether they have evil intentions or not. What is clear is that we must continue to do good to people, which is enough to us, then they will judge ourselves.

Well, whether they are happy or not, won't affect your winnings, right? So it doesn't matter what people are thinking about your winnings, so long you know where you stand. But yes, you can always do good to other people but make sure that you also assess them from what they are showing to the public. At least, don't trust people right away.


I can very well agree with you here. When you are on the losing side, no one will bother to console you or help you. But when you are winning, expect that people will surround you, but of course, that is, more then likely, to get some tip from you. Nothing else.

The truth of the matter is, if its about those or some persons who hate us on forum like this, because of our achievements, then it's possibly nothing to really worry about, since...
1. This persons don't know you physically, and neither do they have any of your personal information or data they could use to identify you with physically.
2. Both of you live very far away from each other, possibly in different countries, so, that hate it envy will only remain on the forum and never will the person have the opportunity of showing you same hate or envy physically.

But on the other hand, when somebody you are in physical connection with hate you, possibly to due envy that you are doing better than them, then consider your life at risk, because the heart of men is desperately wicked, this person may go length and breath to harm you, by planning all sort of evil against you, just to take you out of this world..
This is why it's important for us to always keep our winnings to ourselves alone, and by winnings, I don't mean winnings from gambling alone, but winnings in general.

Yeah! it does not and you guys need to take heed of it since those people might come to you and look for you once they know you get some huge win. This has happened before on one of my friends when he beat everybody in pool games and when he got one, he was followed behind and they beat him until he gave up all his winnings. Almost all of those people are greedy they also want to get such huge amounts of money for themselves, so you better be careful not to taunt them and you need to close every opportunity for them to get it from you. Thankfully, someone caught them after they had done such terrible things and he got his revenge swiftly after that.

Well, you are right about that, I think that each person does their good part, provides a help service, that is also a way of helping, in fact it is a very brave way of helping, not everyone does it, you can say that there are people that they are like that because they like it and they understand that the real reason why we are in the world is to help, be happy and have benefits, I say Something, if we act well, and do good things, it is impossible for things to go wrong for us life, and if something goes wrong I am sure that a way will be found to move things forward, there is no other way, this is something that not many understand, that is why the fact that others win in some way should bring us joy, and From what I said before, these people will be able to alleviate many problems.

Maybe I would say that they are bad people who always take other people's rights by using force or even harming them, and usually events like this are most likely to happen when you bet in a physical casino where they see you directly get a lot of winnings. So maybe this is one of the reasons why there are some people who prefer to gamble secretly like gambling in online casinos where you can do it wherever you want and whenever you have time.

But sometimes it cannot be denied that there are always people who know about your winnings, so it's better not to tell anyone especially your friends when you get a win, because in some cases they will usually come to you to ask for a share of your winnings, and if you bet in a physical casino then yes never make others offended by your words and also don't brag too much about your winnings because it is very possible that people who feel unhappy with their defeat maybe they will follow you and rob all your money.

I appreciate your thinking. It is right that it is not a fact what other thinks and what they will do. Whether they are happy or unhappy. Though many people become happy with our winnings I love those people who felt happy with our happiest moments and felt sorrow when we are at a loss.

Everyone hates you, everyone loves you.
You can't really determine who loves you or not, and also taking into consideration who loves you or not is wate of time. We just need to be cautious and set boundaries as human.

Wether or not you share your winnings those who will hate on you will keep hating, it doesn't change anything. So keep your heads up and work careless about haters or envious beings and guide yourself against letting thing slip.

Although I disagree with you about hiding your winnings because I agree with the idea of hiding the fact that you are gambling at all, I agree with you regarding the attitudes of people who may take an indifferent position when you express your joy in collecting profits from betting. There are two types of people to whom you can tell about these successes: close ones (family and friends) who do not gamble and see gambling as a harmful activity and a waste of time. They will be surprised that you violated their expectations and won, but they will be indifferent because in this way they will be forced to change their principled position. By rejecting gambling as an activity, even if it is merely entertainment. Or fellow gamblers who will envy your winnings and wish they were in your place.

I support the idea of completely hiding your activity and avoiding any unpleasant reactionss from some people.

I believe people do this for two main reasons: they must be heavily needy for attention, or they must be making profit through exposing their lives virtually.  This trend started with vloggers sharing daily videos about their routines and personal lives on the internet, creating huge fanbases which surpassed the mark of million subscribers and generated a high income for these content creators through adsense. Others saw on it an opportunity to generate income as well, and so far it has been a constant phenomeon on the internet repeated by people from the most different niches.

However, in order to obtain success, these individuals have to start from zero, posting details, informations and news regards their lives which may sound tempting and eliciting for the audience. Then we have these people sharing prints of their big winnings at casinos, so the audience will develop a sudden interest for that person, as they might imagine he knows a strategy or secret which once shared, would also help the fans to win more often as well at casinos.

It would be naivety from us to think everyone sharing their records on the internet are doing this without any ulterior motives at all, just like it would be naivety to think everyone would be happy with our personal winnings and achievements in life.

A good point, still the majority of those that try to earn money by becoming an influencer fails, but the internet does not forget, anything that is uploaded to it has been kept as a backup somewhere by a series of companies, and even the few people that watched or read that content can also keep a copy for themselves, so once a person makes that kind of confession online about how much money they have earned through gambling, there is not really a way to take it back.

Those who are dependent on me  I am talking about my family and all the other members of the family including parents and wives are dependent on me and if they love me then they will be happy with my happiness and sad with my sadness. When I win it will surely be fun for them if they accept gambling. But if they don't accept gambling then it's a different matter. Assuming my family accepts my gambling then if I win money by gambling I am sure every member of my family will be very happy and if I lose a lot of money they will be very sad. I know about my family, friends they may claim to be happy but they may not be happy but I am sure about my family that they are happy with my win.

That would make sense, however there are a lot of people out there with crab mentality, in which if they do not have something then no one else should have it either, and if you are capable to reach some level of success beyond what they can achieve, they will say and even do things to bring you back to your previous state, so when sharing those kind of positive news with your family, you need to make sure they are not that kind of people or you may eventually face some issues with them.

Those who are dependent on you (your parents, children, wife/husband) they usually happy with your happiness and become unhappy when e in any trouble. But the factor changes when you are out of dependant. Those who are not dependent on you can't be happy with you and can't be unhappy with you.

Crab mentality is something that turns out to be normal in society nowadays on which whether you do know or not a certain individual they would really be having those kind of perceptions that you dont really deserve on having that kind of life specially if they've seen that they you do make some big money or something like that. There are people who are really that easily get jealous on which it comes into a point that
they dont own something specially on having money and seeing someone do get that kind of success then they wouldnt really be happy but instead they would really be having that opposite on which its not really
that shocking anymore. As for those winnings then there would really be people who would really be not that happy and would rather be they will be doing things that you didnt expect that they could do into you.

Better to make yourself keep silent and would really be that tending to hide or being low key and doesnt really need to make some flexing because you dont know on who are
the ones whose happy into your success.

Your family will always love you for who you are even though you don't have anything but trust it's natural for human being to feel jealous when their met, friends and brothers makes something life changing while they have nothing, it's nature but the way we react to such is different from a person to person, a mature person might feel jealous but wouldn't show that to you and will follow you to celebrate if you want to do it like that.

However, I just think that it's not everything you tell people, particularly when money is involved so you don't trigger their feelings, is better you live them in the dark and do your things and if they found out and ask you, you can tell them but it's not a must that you tell people everything, it's your privacy and you can do your things your away without involving anyone, that's even the best way you avoid enemies.

People who exhibit the crab mentality you described are often very unhappy. In my view, there should be a healthy form of envy that motivates us to achieve more. When you see someone succeed, it's wonderful to share in their joy it not only brings positive emotions to both you and them, but it can also inspire you to reach similar heights. Ideally, envy should fuel development rather than lead to degradation


I fully support your view. In fact, people who feel resentful when others are doing well should reflect on their own lives. On my mind, it's natural to share in someone's joy and to offer support when someone down.

 

Yes, it is the nature of envy and jealousy where they don't like it when they see other people having something more than them and honestly I have often found things like this in a family environment with neighbors where when they buy something, whether it's a vehicle or whatever. So usually the neighbors don't like what they have and then not long after that the neighbors also buy the same thing because they don't want to lose out. On the other hand, a scenario like this can happen anywhere or means in various environments, not only with other people but with family members, this kind of thing can also happen, but usually I see this kind of thing happening more often between friends or neighbors. In my opinion, this is something other than gambling and there is really no way to overcome it, it is impossible if you always have to act invisible because there will always be people who are jealous, but if for example we talk about gambling where for example you are successful When we achieve victory, it is clearly better for us to hide the news of our victory from other people, especially friends, because, as is the main point of this discussion, what is feared is that they will not be able to accept the success achieved by other people.

I think your direct family which is your wife/husband and your children and your parents shouldn't be included in this discussion because they are people who would never be happy if you fail in anything in life, and this is not only about times when you are in good books of them, but these people would care for you and will always pray and hope that you get success in everything you do in life even if you are not close to them for some reason in the present time.

The topic and the discussion are about general people, and those can be your friends, relatives, or any other people who you know and may share your achievements and winnings with. I have also not included siblings in the above category because I feel in some cases, even your siblings might not be happy with everything you achieve as there can be envy, jealousy, and a lot of things.

 You're right, only an individual who's stingy would have such mentality, sometimes aside your family other people who are not directly close to you would get happy about it, cause they'll see that as a motivation to develop new skills and make better predictions to win like you. Also imagine an individual is the bread winner of a family and won a huge amount of money from gambling, does the person expects his family or friends to be sad about it?

 Okay let's say he was poor and won a fortune does the gambler expect his wife and kids or even  close relatives not to be happy about it, the answer is no, growig up as a kid, my dad wasn't a gambler but if he were and won a jackpot I especially would've been so happy because as his favourite child I'll be quit sure he'll get me good toys if I make good grades in school that period. Well some people would want to hide their victories from their relatives or so to avoid giving out loans or spending unnecessarily.

Yes, only those who are dependent on you will enjoy your winnings and they are the ones who will be really happy for you. These are those people who will become sad too because your winning and losing depends upon how they can live their lives. No other person like your best friends or relatives can have the same feelings as your family members.


No matter how close you have friends, they won't be 100% sincere with you and at some point, they will start to feel jealous of your winnings.
As a matter of fact, it would be best for us not to tell about our every win to our close friends or the person we think are near to us (except our family members).
People will only feel jealous of you no matter how much you are close with them.

Well, in this order of ideas there are always people who don't like it when someone does well, it is something that is very obvious, but I tell you one thing, if you are doing things well, you should continue doing it, and, always You will do well, it is something that has a lot of logic , there will be Envious people who will always seek or want to see people badly, but as long as you are doing things well for your family, I believe that God Heavenly Father will always bless you, whether in the game or in any work activity that you do, then you just have to trust that things will turn out well, is what I can say about this, the profits of a casino when they are spent on Something that is really Needed , well, it is very worth it.

this is so true, If you think that you're doing well in life, just continue doing it and trust yourself, don't mind what other people say, their opinion will not help you to grow, always remember that those people who doesn't have anything good to say are those who envy you real hard and they are the one who will push you not to become a better person. based on my own experience, sometimes the one we trusted and closest people in our life are the one who will betray and sayng bad things behind your back.

I try not to tell my relatives or friends about my gambling winnings/losses, as I don't think it makes any sense. I can win $200 today and lose that money during the next gambling session.

If we talk about this habit of other gamblers, I'm sure that most of them tell only about wins, missing a rather important fact - losses. And this can affect the misconception of the probability of winning in gambling.

Many people have their reasons not to allow others to see their gambling results but I must say that I respect the angle at which you brought your point, it's not the same as the ones I've been reading so far. You have a good point though because you never knew what they could cause to your psychology, some people can be so intimidating. Although we do not have the same personality, and for this, we can't react the same way, nevertheless, if you are bold enough and believe in yourself in such a way that no one can ridicule you with theirs, either their own have true or false claims, you will continue to do your thing whether they know or not and keep on shinning.

It's not that you are not winning at all, but only that you might win today and lose tomorrow, you are not so consistent, but this is never a big deal. Regardless, you should work more on yourselves in the aspect of gambling better and also manage your gambling portfolio so that huge losses will not be persistent anymore to the extent that it will cheaply erase the winning you had that was supposed to make you happy and increase your boldness.

The thing is you won't know when they are happy with you or not but for sure, we should be very mindful with those whom we really feel are happy with us because those happiness are bunches of enviness, therefore we should be mindful with those whom we share our winning with because some of them may go out there to plan against someone when they noticed one made a life change winning. For this types of winning we should keep those we calls friends in the dark to avoid some certain attack we may not know where it's coming from, even though those in family I mean our dependent can still go as far as harming us. For instance, I have also red here about a man kidnapping her granddaughter (this is also a family member as well) so we should be mindful with family's as they can do undo.

Everyone feelings will always be different, even if they are close friends or relatives, because we can never know for sure what they really think about us.
Those people who are very close to us will probably be very happy when they see us win because of course they will also enjoy it as if we invited them to go have fun or eat together.
But it is also possible that they will actually have happy feelings if we experience defeat, someone who looks good will never guarantee that they will also be good with us under certain conditions.

Now this is the right statement, those behind us may have emotional feelings and be jealous of whatever achievements we have achieved.
Sometimes this is also the reason why every gambling result and activity is often hidden from anyone, including close friends or relatives.
It better to keep it for yourself and whatever results get, don't need to show it to anyone.

If those people just envied you then it would not matter much, but the worst part about crab mentality is that those people find others like themselves and they try to make use of every single means they have at their disposal to make someone else fail, so if for example you obtained great profits with your bitcoin, those people try to push for bitcoin to be made illegal or at least make the government to tax you greatly in order to redistribute some of the wealth you obtained, which is ridiculous as you are the one that took all the risks, and yet they want most of the profits to go back to them in the form of services offered by the government.

Maybe someday there will come a day when such people are rare or nonexistent, and such behavior will be universally viewed by society as unacceptable. After all it’s natural to take joy in someone else’s success. Sharing in someones joy makes you feel good too. At the very least it’s a pleasant experience and it often inspires you to reach the same level of success or even surpass it.

If you have a good sense, you will know it. It also depend on the people but he already explained it there. According on my experience, there are still people that we don't personally know or don't depend on us but are still happy for what we achieved and then there are also people that we know or depend on us but can't be happy for us.

There are also people who are only good at faking it and we may not detect it, so it's better to not judge easily only by these expressions. I also saw that thread about a man/grandpa who kidnapped his grand daughter but I think this is a different story anymore. The man is already addicted and he needs money, so he thinks he can get a ransom amount once he do the said act.

In my opinion, it depends on the other person who is meant in this context, if for example they are one of the people who is dependent on us, such as they are one of our family members, then I think it is very likely that they will be happy with the victory that we managed to get, especially in large amounts. But if, for example, the object is someone else who knows about your win, such as your friend or anyone else, then honestly I can't guarantee that they will really be happy with the results of your win.

From several cases that I have seen, usually announcing your winnings to other people can cause problems, especially if you tell this to a gambler who is experiencing a losing streak, it cannot be denied that there may be feelings of envy about the double-faced scenario in the future. they smile at you but when behind your back they speak ill of you, or they could also claim or ask for a share of the winnings that you managed to get, like it or not you have to share some of it with them if you don't want problems of estrangement in your social relations with other people. the.

It is unfortunate when these things happen, but more efforts cannot be made so that better things can be generated, what happens is that envy is something serious, many people will always generate it because they have those feelings, because they do not accept that others It's going well, and the worst thing about it all is that, betrayal, when there are betrayals things tend to be that way, I personally have always said that when we are doing our things and we have to do something else and make profits sometimes we do it. It's better not to control it, not to say much, because "no one likes to see pretty eyes on other people's faces" so this is something that most people want is to win for themselves, not for others.

But isn't that natural attitude for every human being, they will always have feelings of envy and negative thoughts towards some people around them who can achieve much better achievements.
Indeed, the best step is to ignore or forget whatever other people say or do because what they do may not necessarily be beneficial for ourselves.
With every successful achievement there are always losses and difficulties that must be overcome, those people who are full of displeasure or full of feelings of envy will not be able to understand every journey we take.
Especially if this is related to gambling which is clearly full of risks or bad impacts, so in conclusion whatever we get in gambling must be able to be put to good use without caring about what other people say.

Such envy feeling actually is quite easy to solve. Using winnings, buy everyone a drink and they would be your best friends. People are really fallen for something free. I have proved that to myself many times. If you are in a bad relationship with hardly known person or expect a talk, buy him a coffee, spend 5 bucks and you will be amazed how such cheap investment changes attitude.

True, the fact is that with money you can change everything or overcome any problem including changing this feeling to sympathy, and this will really happen when you are able to understand about the situation and circumstances, or that means you have to understand that they want something from you and not just pride because you won, they don't need something that can only be heard, but they also need something to taste.

This means that if you're bragging to people about something like gambling where you're really lucky and you've won a big win then you should at least give them a share, not a big share but at least give them some money from the winnings that they can enjoy, like you said which might be buying them a free cup of coffee, and with this then I think everything will still be fine, but if the scenario is that you're just bragging about the winnings without giving them any share then this is “something else”.

I have also experienced this first hand in the Stake casino chat.Someone asked me there if I were winning big and I told them it was the worse session of my life right now and they told me we wish you win mate,I told them if I win I will tip you all,if I win an over x2500 told them and I won x2423 at that time and send everyone 1 dollar in total about 8 dollars as they were something like 8 persons and they were very happy for my winning,they told after,we wish you to win at least x10000 multiplier so you can send us 5 tip and I of course agreed,the only problem was I never hit an x10000 at that day  ;D.

People are self centered, they would not care as much if you win a game if they know you’re not sharing a piece of the pie with them. Anyone who is set to benefit from your winnings will definitely be happy when you win your bets because they know they are getting tips from you. I see that happen in my country, we have a culture of tipping people around you when you win bets. If you’re a frequent customer of a particular casino, it’s expected that when next you show after cashout you will buy drinks for other gamblers or tip them.

I understood that topic was not about bragging at all. People are just envy for other persons success. I notice many times, that when you achieve something difficult, something big, or win big, people always think that you are just a lucky mfker. Rarely they see all the work done by you before final result. But when you give them a little share of your reward, treat them with something free of charge, or just say "yes I am lucky, but get what, I believe you are going to catch your luck soon also", completely changes attitude.

On a global level things will always be like this, there are people who are always envious and do not give the necessary value to the triumphs they have, they always try to disqualify and in their mind they think that that person does not deserve that, so those are for my people apart of envious and somewhat traumatized narcissists, because there is nothing good about a person like that, there is a lot of Hypocrisy in people , there is in the forum, they are capable of selling even their souls, one day they must correct it, correct it, I have read that when people has those kinds of feelings, it can even cause cancer, because those feelings become something very black and bad, and the body receives it, and the way to get rid of it is with those diseases. That's why we always have to be normal people without bad things. feelings, we have to be aware of doing things well, without pretensions or Anything.

Envious feelings can arise in any context or event but the point is that envious feelings will arise when they see that other people are superior to themselves, although yes I understand that not everyone is like that because there will always be some people who sympathize and say "congratulations" without any envy by showing a sincere smile. Another thing is that I agree with you that it is rare for people to see what we have done to achieve this success, most likely they will assume that we are nothing more than being lucky when behind the scenes we have done a lot of struggle to achieve this success.

If we were talking about gambling then yes I would agree that a big win is nothing more than a lucky situation that comes at the right time, but even though luck is a law of nature that comes purely and can happen even if you don't do anything that can support your goals still in the end there are always people who are quite jealous, and as we discussed earlier that one of the best ways to maintain or create better social relations with those who know about our victory then there is nothing wrong with sharing some of our winnings, it doesn't need to be too big, at least so that they can sympathize.

In fact the people you play with will never be happy with your victory. A blackjack table or Baccarat table or poker table is a very sensitive place. A momentary distraction here can do you great harm. That's why you have to be very careful during the game. If you are addicted to laughter, you will never finish the game as a winner. And the truth is that if you don't win, you get nothing but disappointment.

I agree with you that people who don't participate in the game you can call them audience, can flatter you for tips. Whoever wins it is flattered by the people around to get some tips or treats. Here they are not actually happy with your victory, just as they will flatter you if you win today, they will start flattering someone else if they win.

If we share winnings or tips with other people then they will be happy every time you have won a bet, but believe that some of them are not happy with your winnings if they find out you have won a bet or jackpot, they only approach you to get free food and they will borrow money because they know you have won the bet.

I am the type of gambler who hides my gambling activities from anyone because I don't want all my activities to be known to the public, gambling is private and they have no right to know whether I have won or lost. But usually if I win I will take them to a restaurant but they don't know that I paid the bill from the winnings from gambling.

Must people be entitled to other people's money? If others become happy with you simply because they know they will be getting some benefits too from your gambling win, then they are simply being fake, no genuine happiness. If as a gambler I find myself in such an environment with lots of entitled people around, I would rather not disclose my gambling activity with anyone. Giving should be done out of freewill and not because others are entitled to my money.

A lot of gamblers complain that they don't often put their money won from gambling into good use and cannot give account of what they used their money for. In most cases, it is as a result of trying to satisfy and impress entitled fake friends who come around once they know there is something available for them. Truthfully, not all will be genuinely happy for you when you hit a jackpot.

It all depends on the type of gambling we are playing, whether it is blackjack, rummy or domino gaple and for example you are playing with your friend who when playing is your opponent. So, even if they are your friends, they will never be happy about the victory you got.

It's different when you play slots, when you play with your friends, and among them you are the only one who wins, then other people will feel happy about the win you get. Feel happy because there is someone they can borrow or ask for money from, so they can continue betting and go back to looking for lucky scatterers. And this is the reason why, personally, I very rarely play gambling together with my friends, but that doesn't mean I don't want to share the winnings and fun, it's just that when they win, they hide somewhere.

Wether being your opponent or not, we can't really be sure about there feelings, towards your winnings. We just have to look out for wolves in sheep clothing who claim to be our friend not just during gambling. If we don't trust the people surrounding us, we learn to keep our successes to ourselves. Making them unaware of our winnings, and sort out means to cut off from such people once you notice any bit of hatred, jealousy or envy.

And this is why it would really be better that you should really be that keeping yourself that silent rather than on making yourself that too tactful when it comes to the winning that you had been able to experience.
Its true that even with our relatives or close ones arent that anytime be happy for us which they would really be just that taking up some advantage on you on where they do really shows that they are happy for you
but actually theyre not. It is really just that on the money that they do matter and really been that thinking off with.

It would really be that better that you should really be keeping yourself lowkey or in silent when you do win up something significant on which we know that when it comes to this matter
it would really be that something a huge possible problem whenever you do see that your relatives and other important people or known ones will really be something
that bad intentions out of your.

I'm surprised about what you wrote, and if you think buying them things will change the mind of an envious friend, then you are kidding. Well, this may be true for some people who do not envy the person but just want to partake in the winning no matter how little. It is now good to show kind gestures to such people with good hearts, though it is not mandatory as you owe no one anything, it's your winning, so it's your choice. But when envy is now included, then it becomes a different issues that is so problematic. Envious people do not get pacified easily, they are not just happy about your success and not about you depriving them of something.

They hate and will always wish they were in your position, so do you think that buying drinks for such people will make that go? Then you are not being sincere here, they actually don't like you smile no matter what you do. However, if you sense the calibre of people around you are showing that kind of trait, the best thing is to be discrete in what you do. Not letting them know when you win or smile could be the only solution here, or else, they could be dangerous unspeakably at times.

Maybe I simply good at negotiations 8) Dunno, somehow I have managed to solve most of life problems with little expenses. Maybe I am just lucky. Maybe I am surrounded with right people. But I had experience when people were jealous for my success, maybe they have thoughts to rob me, or to do harm. A little gift, a little share, a little attention to them always helped me to "get out dry from water". Maybe I am raised with idea to share. If win a million, I would definitely not going to share all of it with those who are around, but definitely going to make them a little happier. Or, maybe I havent been in a situation when people really envy me.

Those that win the lottery often share stories about their family members and what were their reactions about it and it is often not pretty, since they will ask them for loans and then never pay them, as they think that since they just won that money by luck and they have more of it then they can afford for them to not pay back, or sometimes they just assume that money as their own and if the winner does not buy them everything they want, they just steal the money or get angry at not getting their way.

And that's why those who gave tips at an online gambling site are mostly praised. That's free money and everyone will say good things to you. But at the end of the day, I still feel like it's wasted money because I don't believe there's such a thing as good karma in gambling. You give tips but it doesn't mean you will get lucky again in your next roll, that's a foolish thing to think of.

But when it's your neighbors who know your habit and then you suddenly say that you won or you just want someone else to listen to you boast about how much you won, then give them drinks and they will listen to you all night as long the beers keep on coming. Boasting will not be real unless you prove it, give them something and they will finally realize that it's true.  :D

This is exactly what came to my mind when I read the topic, not just gambling because they’re other big wins aside gambling wins, if we must identify this kind of people around us we must stay away. This is just an act of jealousy nothing else, people can be so bitterly minded whenever their friends share good news, the funny part is people like this smile at your front and frown at your back, I got similar experience earlier this year, I understand the fact op used gambling win as an example because gambling win don’t come so easy and sometimes you try and try along the line you get to win huge not everyone will feel happy about a person win.

Never tell anyone when you hit a ticket even if the winning is 1$ because people tend to wish you bad luck by instinct and that's why it's better to keep your betting tickets for yourself alongside the winning ones and losing ones. Also , I've noticed that if you go on a public chat where people are gambling , the amount of flames and bad words you get for actually tell who you bet on it's enormous and I will never ever go on public chats where gamblers are cursing each other just because they have different outcomes for a certain game.

Hmm, that is an interesting approach @TopTort777 had! He looks very pragmatic thinking on instant results and consequences from the other side. I can't say he is wrong or that the concept doesn't work. It indeed can bring some desired results (on short run), but I can't say the person is going to like, love or respect him on long run, because to pay a drink or a coffee is an ephemerous thing with an ephemerous effect, what means he will keep having to do this constantly to maintain the "friendship" with this person.

If he stops paying stuff for the person, the previous negative feelings will immediately come back regards him, probably even worst, as the individual will somehow feel in an abstinence emotional stage. It's like cutting the allowance of someone you have been supporting for several months in a row.

So from a genuine and fraternal point of view, I see no reason in conditioning a person who dislike you like that. To condition someone to like you through material gifts doesn't look a good idea, unless you are also materially interested on something this person can provide you on short term as well. Don't expect any loyal friendship or sentimentalism, anyway...

I agree with you because by hiding it from others, they won't know anything. Even if we win, they won't come up to us and pretend to congratulate us. When we lose, they also won't ridicule us with unkind words. That will allow us to stay calm without having to think about what they will say to us. Often the response in public will make us feel like we look bad even though we are just gambling for fun. Most of them don't know how we treat gambling so they feel they can say a lot of bad things about us.

I believe that scenarios like this happen in gambling where other people including those closest to us such as fellow gamblers who are not happy with the winnings we managed to get where maybe in front of you they can smile but when behind you usually they tell bad things about you to others or could even slander you with something that is not true.

Another thing is, doesn't everyone need money or does that mean money is everything? Of course everyone wants it, meaning you can shut them up by sharing some of the money from your winnings and saying "you can also be lucky like me next time", so if for example you want to tell people, especially some of your friends about the winnings that you managed to get then after that you better give them at least a small amount of your winnings to avoid criticism or ridicule due to jealousy arising from them, but there is still another way that you might be able to take if you don't want to share the results of the winnings at all, namely by not telling anyone, especially your friends about the winnings that you managed to get.

No one would really be liking to see you winning and its true that there would really be having that kind of cursing or wishing you bad luck into your next gambling dealing on which its true that not all would really be happy into your winnings. It would really be best that you should really be that making yourself that lowkey so that you wont really be ending up on having that kind of problem specially if you are a type of person on whose really that sensitive with other peoples words and comments. Its better to make yourself that be silent on whatever things that you are currently experience. Dont make yourself that too boastful when it comes to the things that you have obtained because you would really be making other people to be that having those negative impressions towards you. This is why you should really be contented on what you
are really that getting.

We need to understand that everyone intention is to make money and must of them if they don’t have what they are looking for it makes them feel so bad and they don’t know when they start being envy and feeling bad so the must important thing is to do the right things and congratulations the person and I don’t see any point of being greedy

Yes, it's funny, but it's true: people in general don't want you to win and want you to lose. This is an interesting topic, perhaps it even deserves a separate topic - I’m talking about the fact that winning changes the behavior of other people. There is a famous study conducted by Dutch psychologists. They studied the financial behavior of neighbors of people who won the lottery. The neighbors' behavior changed significantly after this event. We don't know the subtle mechanisms of this behavior, but we need to keep it in mind.

That's correct, when you are in a gambling shop and someone's close to you is losing and you are winning, the person might not be happy because he's losing and you are winning. It's more dangerous if the person is not your friend and he's not talking to you but just looking at you quietly. However to be on a safe side you that's winning should play a careful role so that you don't get into trouble with the person who's losing. But IMO I don't think that's losing should be a reason for someone to be sad against his fellow gambling neighbors, it's a lucky based game, so if you are lucky and the next neighbor is not, he should be able to know that as today is jot for him tomorrow might be.

The majority of gamblers of course have their goal to make money by gambling, but this might be a problem that can cause them difficulties. with wins that are difficult to obtain, while that desire continues to haunt them so they continue to gamble. and apart from that we have to be able to look at the surrounding environment, if the surrounding environment has a bad view of gambling then even the winnings resulting from gambling might make them give a bad response. Also, even though in our environment, for example, a lot of people gamble, when we win and other people know, it could make them jealous of the win they have gotten, because even those who gamble definitely want to win.

I've also experienced it where my friend and I gambled at the same time and with different final results, where he won while I didn't, there I did feel annoyed, but there was nothing that could be done other than accepting the reality. Even if we keep thinking about winning, it won't be able to change the situation, maybe it will only encourage us to continue gambling. and with the result that is no longer strange is defeat, when friends or other people win, don't assume we can experience the same thing, because in my opinion winning at gambling is based on luck and each person's luck is of course different.

Honestly I don't know why this kind of thing can happen, but honestly I also admit that scenarios like this really happen in real life and not just about winning in gambling, which is where the point is that there are some people who are really not happy with whatever we get and if there is absolutely no connection between you and that person regarding something you get then maybe we can conclude that they are someone who is jealous of what we get.

Another thing I think is a fact that money can change everything including the behavior of people, and I think it is because of the arrogant nature of some people who think that they are far superior to others, and I think it is not uncommon for us to find people who experience changes in behavior when they have a lot of money that they get from various things including winnings in their gambling involvement, although not everyone is like this but the fact is that there are always some people who experience such changes when they have a lot of money.

Envy is everywhere and it is sad if it's on the skin of those people that are jealous of others winning in their lives.

Even in gambling, you can't avoid looking at those situations where people don't like to see you win whether with your bet or with your life.

Envy and jealousy are threat that are both in man naturally, we all have this threat in us, but what happens is that, many of us learn to control it and put it behind us those who fail to gain control over this threat are the ones who instead of being happy for you winning, they get jealous and envious instead, and one thing about envy and jealousy is that, it can't really be hidden, a person who is jealous can try as much as possible to hide it, but their eyes will always give such person away.

Personally, I feel it's better to always keep our winnings to ourselves, and only share it with people who don't know us, and we also do not know, like on this forum and any other online platform out there, people who don't know you in person are more likely to not jealous or envy you when you share your winning with them,  than compared to those who are really close and sometimes, does things together with you and so on.

Haha, isn't it true?  Envy rears its ugly head even when you least expect it.  Like when you scoop a sweet pot playing cards and your bud across the table makes a face that looks like he sniffed spoiled milk!

Can't deny it, some folks struggle to handle watching others succeed.  Though that misery loves company mindset? Pretty whack way to move through life if you ask me and  real ones cheer their people's wins, even if they secretly wishing for a little luck themselves.

Guess that's why you get folks suggesting to keep the winnings on the down low, particularly around inner circles.  I see where they coming from.  A little mystery can go a long way.

That's a good idea when your heart wants to be calm without any disturbance, it's better to hide it from other people, even your family. If we win, we can tell our family if we win and share the happiness, but if we lose, it's enough for you to know that your family doesn't need to. I know that if you lose because it will make you depressed with what your family says which might point to our mistakes. I still believe that my family if I experience victory they will be happy but if friends or other people find out I'm not sure in their hearts they will feel of jealous. We a person also don't know what's in someone's mind, usually there are always bad thoughts if they feel unlucky in their life.

We don't know about someone's heart if we are experiencing pleasure, people who have a jealous nature will wish us bad things even though we are good to them because usually the nature of people who don't want to lose always want to compete with us. Therefore it is better to hide our wins from other people to avoid prayers for people who are jealous and we can enjoy a peaceful life and enjoy our pleasures so that people who don't like us don't know about our success.

with the goal of many gamblers being to make money, there is a possibility that feelings of envy will arise when we see our own friends win while we ourselves cannot win, but when this happens it is best not to be careless by doing things that can trigger arguments, just accept it the defeat that occurs and just accept the victory that our friend gets, because everyone's luck is different, maybe now our friend wins, but in the coming day, who knows, there will be luck for us so we can get a win that might be bigger.
Moreover, if we envy the wins that our own friends or other people have achieved, in my opinion there will be no point either. Jealousy is not only about gambling, but when we have the nature of not wanting anyone to be above us, in life. it can happen every day. It's the same with gambling, when our friends win but we don't, feelings of jealousy can arise because we ourselves can't see that other people are above us.

I feel like my wife would be, because if I win anything big, lets be honest and say that she is the one that actually won it lol. That's how gambling world of a married man goes, we end up seeing how our loss is actually our loss and we are the ones that lost the money, but if we ever end up winning then it is THEIR win, and not ours :D.

It is fine though, a glimpse of her smile is worth every bet and every win, seeing her be that happy when I win makes my day and that is why I enjoy it when something good happens. Doesn't mean that I am going to keep gambling forever, or maybe I would even hide some wins to pay some debts, which is quite often these days unfortunately, but still I end up sharing some of the wins so she can be happy about it.

That's just sad if people would wish you that, that just means they are not true friends at all.
But I do agree, that whenever a winner comes out, there are people who do not wish you well on your next rounds because they feel like you are better than them which sometimes is unacceptable for other people.
Before, I was sharing my winning tickets in the chatbox but now I don't do it anymore. You can see some "Congratulations" messages but there are those who will put some heat against you. When that happened to me, I stopped sharing it. That way, I won't be stressed by whatever envious words they will say and it feels better for me.
It's true, never share it especially if it is a big multiplier, some gamblers are expecting you to rain money on them after that and there are beggars who would say bad words if you won't tip them anything.

An envious personality is incredibly common, so if there is a person that obtains something a person like that does not own, instead of being happy about them and their good fortune they hope such a thing never happened, and some of them may even take action, so a generous person that is actually happy about the good luck that came your way is very rare, and since an envious person may try to make it seem as if they are not jealous about your success, it is very difficult to distinguish the two, which is why keeping your success to yourself is a good option.

We don't knows if someone doesn't like to see us wins and they can do many things to us. That's why if we wins, we don't have to shows to many people to avoids that bad thing that can happens to us. Many relationships ruins because of simple thing like that so we must be careful if we wants to shares our wins to other people. We don't knows what will happens if we share it to many people because some people can do bad thing using other people hands or saying bad about us. Our neighbors can be bad if they don't like us winning and their smile can change into a bad smile that can harms us. If our neighbor can accept our wins and they shows their happiness, that will be good for us because they gives real expression. We must take care of ourselves and don't just shows our wins to all people we knows.

the world has become a place where people live in competition with each other, even when they are people from the same family, they are competing with each other and when one member of the family is rich and the other member of the family is poor, what we see a scenario in which the rich family member is giving orders to the poor family member. and this member of the family who is poor starts to get frustrated and will look for all possible means to earn a lot of money quickly so as not to be humiliated anymore and he will be the one to humiliate the member of the family who is rich. The problem with this is that the family member who is poor worsens his living and financial condition because he makes decisions based on emotions

as he cannot bear the pressure of being humiliated, so he looks for quick ways to earn money and loses what little he had. most of the time when very poor people manage to win the lottery and become rich, they tend to change the place they live in because they want to forget everything bad about the past that they went through in that place, they go and live in a new place to start a new life. And here in my country I have seen many cases of this type, I have come to understand that these people who, when they make a lot of money, move away, are right

It is true.

Jealousy and envy can't be hidden, you'd see these people that are acting strangely about something you do and when you're winning.

Their actions speak better than their words and that's why if there's someone that's jealous and has an envy on you, you have to avoid that guy.