It’s unlikely that anyone besides you will be happy with your winnings.

[johnsaributua]

Rarely is the pleasure that others get and celebrate the interlocutor wholeheartedly apart from just a glance and a word of appreciation. there are just a handful of people who are so nice when they get money or as a place to rest from what they get. it is a common thing so vice versa when you lose and run out of money then the situation will turn so drastically, no matter how much you contribute to them. approached like a king and avoided like never knowing at all.

It's better to keep your achievements a secret because people who are sincere to you don't need that and people who don't like you will talk about you behind your back, no matter how good you are you will still be talked about. Winning in a game is a constant so keep your winnings a secret just like you're losing, it's better to keep your money intact and have fun.

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[traderethereum]

Rather than causing trouble with others, it is better to hide our wins so that we don't have to feel uncomfortable with them. There are people who are happy with our win, but there are also people who are not happy with it.
They will feel jealous and not happy to see us win. That is a normal attitude shown by other people when they are not happy with the win obtained by someone else.
By hiding the win we get, no one will be unhappy with us and we can enjoy the win. We can choose anyone who is allowed to know about the win so that it will not cause any problems.

[sompitonov]

I would say that this may be perceived differently in different societies and nations, but it often happens exactly as you described. In my environment, exactly the same thing would happen; I even once observed that one of my friends became rich and stopped communicating with the others. The reason is that common topics and problems for conversation disappear. Because a rich person will have the problem of which car to choose, and the one who did not win will have the question of how to feed his family and whether there will be enough for clothes. Over time, the distance will grow further between them until it becomes too far and they stop communicating. To be honest, I don’t see anything supernatural here, this is completely normal for me because I understand a lot. But for many this comes as a surprise and surprise.

[Z-tight]

It is not only just about gambling, people can get envious of others for many reasons, and that is just life; and people can also be genuinely happy for your success, this is how things work in the world. If you think it is good to share your winnings with your family and friends, then you can go ahead and do it, but don't be forced to do it if you don't think it is a good idea. I do not like to share personal things with people that i am not so close to, just as i like to keep my BTC holdings to myself and i don't talk about it in public.

[adultcrypto]

I guess you are referring to jealousy which is prevalent in life and many people are actually caught up in it without even knowing it. Some that do know that they have the tendency to be jealous of the success of others try to control it while some are unable to control hence it becomes a problem for them. Of a truth when you see your fellow gambler win, you will surely wish it were you, to me this is normal and understandable because everyone loves to win. The important thing there is knowing where to draw the line so that such desires does not manifest in a negative light that people will begin to notice that you are not happy for the winnings of others.

[Coin_trader]

I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

I can relate to this because I experienced this personally the first time I good news about me being hired from prestigious company to my so called friend. I thought they will be happy but they slowly ignores me and cut to our social group just because I’m doing good in my life even though I’m not boasting it.

After experiencing this, I never share any bits of information about myself that will show my finances since people will never happy on someone success if they are not part of it most importantly if they are not doing well.

I’m only sharing my gambling profit with my wife alone since I always gave her my profit whenever I’m winning big time. My wife is the only person I consider as friend now since everyone envy my success. This makes me happy and contented silently without anyone bothering me about help for finances since I stop reaching out since ages.  

[Hatchy]

Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

Depends on your relationship with such people. For me. I see no reason telling anyone aside my family members about any winning I get in real life. Alot of persons plays to be your friends and pretend behind your back. These people I call the back stabbers, jealous friends and any name you can call them.
As a gambler, it doesn't really matter who is Happy or not about your winnings. When we gamble, we spend our own funds and not that of others so weather someone is happy or sad doesn't really matter to me as a person so long you join me to celebrate this winning. It's fine for someone to be jealous about others but wrong when you go behind their backs to gossip about them.

[piebeyb]

That's what has to be hidden when other people or my friends don't need to know about our winnings at gambling, fortunately I never have many friends who know that I actively gamble, so they only know that I'm busy working and hanging out with my family like other ordinary people, after all why do we have to share information about our winnings with other people, whether through social media or other things, it could be that other people are not happy or have experienced a lot of losses, which makes them even more annoyed when they see us win big.

It's good to be a closed person, for me only my wife knows that I gamble and that's what I do at home, not outside, even though there are several of my friends who gamble too, but I often tell them that I'm not an active gambler, sometimes we even play in casinos. online is the same, only they never know the username I use to gamble, it's true that whatever winnings I get won't make other people happy, so I try to cover it up as much as possible so they never know the winnings I get. just enjoy it with your own family when you get a big win and don't need to be too visible to other people because they will think I got the bonus money from my job, not from gambling.   

[Eternad]

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As a gambler, it doesn't really matter who is Happy or not about your winnings. When we gamble, we spend our own funds and not that of others so weather someone is happy or sad doesn't really matter to me as a person so long you join me to celebrate this winning. It's fine for someone to be jealous about others but wrong when you go behind their backs to gossip about them.

Your only concern by sharing your win is being jealous sometimes results to more envy acts by someone since it’s a human nature to become envy to someone success. Sharing your win will not benefit you while you are just making others feel jealous.

There’s no benefit on doing that so I personally don’t preferred doing it if I don’t have something to gain on doing it. I personally have a bad experience on doing it because I once become subjected to criticism for sharing my gambling win just because I didn’t share profit with them. But just like what you said, it’s not their money so I don’t have any remorse feelings for not sharing it with them.

[Outhue]

You are trying to create unnecessary enemies for yourself the moment you decide to tell people, even those around you about your success, either in this gambling space or not.

Evil people will think less of you if you look like someone who isn't doing so well, it's why I don't change my ways and habit after I made millions in crypto, but people do make mistakes by using their own mouths to call out for trouble, don't do this, it's not safe.

Keep Every good news to yourself and tell them about your bad news, there is a big advantage to doing this, they won't care about you and that's your goal, so that you can have fewer enemies to deal with and also you will be able to concentrate on your own life.

People like hearing bad news about you more than good news, they will be more comfortable and relaxed, it's what enemies of progress do.

[bitLeap]

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Not that "others" should be happy really, nor do I believe that it's the posters goal in the first place. I believe it's just something they want to brag about. Bluntly speaking, to satisfy their ego since, well, who doesn't want to in most cases really. Might vary but most people who'd want to share have that kind of emotion deep down. Similar as to how some people just can't help but brag that they won a life-changing amount. They know it's risky but hey, they want to stroke their ego.

Maybe if it was the idea that "I won" instead of "I got X amount" when the message was sent, it'd be a lot better and less of an ego stroke. But most of the time it's former than the latter that people want to share and is actually shared.

I also want to say something else, but it is still related to what you tell others about winning or tell others about losing. Is there anyone here who is the same as me, when you win big in betting but the happy effect is fleeting. It's like the wind blows and then returns to a normal mood. Some of my friends, for example, last week made a big profit in soccer betting plus he was also lucky in slots. A week later, the excitement disappeared suddenly, as if he had not won at gambling.

We of course withdrew the winnings but 2 or 3 days later put it back into the bet and lost completely.

[Kelward]

More harm than good comes from sharing gambling wins, because people close to the gambler will believe that it's free money that the gambler didn't work for, therefore they're entitled to a share of it, and if that doesn't happen, he might be seen as an ungenerous person. But the gambler don't have a choice when it's a very huge win, because the gambling company will want to advertise the winner, so that people will see that they're reputable, in that case the identity of the winner will be made public, then everybody that he knows will feel entitled for a share of it. People who are not known by the winner will just envy and move on.

[aioc]

....... But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

The advantage outweighs the disadvantages if you keep your winnings to yourself, people will not envy you relatives will not flock to borrow money from you, and you will have peace of mind because of envy.
I have two experiences both when I won huge money and everybody in my work and my neighborhood, It is depressing many friends are borrowing money some without even returning, others hold a drinking spree and I took all the cost.
The second time I won I did not mention it to anyone and I had peace of mind I could do whatever I wanted with the money, and there were no quarrels or enemies, sometimes it's better to be secretive.

[swogerino]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

That is when you tell them.If you play online you most likely have a nickname like I use in the casinos where I play and my two biggest wins one x9833 and one x11339 multiplier have been posted only here in this forum and no one from my main circle,friends or relatives know a deep sh*t about me winning.I have not even told my wife,I told her that I won some extra money from a project at work and she bought it,she knows I gamble but I always tell her that it is just for fun and I keep losing in continuity,I tell her I only gamble 10-15 dollars when in reality it is much more but she does not understand crypto well.So it all depends on us if we want our friends to know or not.

[stomachgrowls]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

If you are a type of person who do get jealous on someones success then you would really be trying out to keep some distance or even befriended just because you do hate them up with their success or being lucky.

Even if we dont speak about gambling huge wins but also in other success ways that you do have in life on which you do have that huge money advantage among to them then for sure
they wouldnt really be happy for you but instead they would really be creating that kind of gap that even you wasnt really that expecting for it to happen because of the money you have got.
This is indeed fact reality on which you wouldnt really be able to know if people around you would really be that actually happy of your success or really just that jealous.

So better watch out because there are ones who are really that trying to stir things up just to see you to go down.

[Oilacris]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

If you are a type of person who do get jealous on someones success then you would really be trying out to keep some distance or even befriended just because you do hate them up with their success or being lucky.

Even if we dont speak about gambling huge wins but also in other success ways that you do have in life on which you do have that huge money advantage among to them then for sure
they wouldnt really be happy for you but instead they would really be creating that kind of gap that even you wasnt really that expecting for it to happen because of the money you have got.
This is indeed fact reality on which you wouldnt really be able to know if people around you would really be that actually happy of your success or really just that jealous.

So better watch out because there are ones who are really that trying to stir things up just to see you to go down.

Totally agree into this one on which it do even happens on me that even with your relatives do really just looks that they are just fine but you would be able to listen or hear up on other peoples mouths that your relatives had been telling something bad about you or having those curse or bad wishes that you will go down soon which it do really sucks and i do agree into the thing you have said that not all people around you would really be happy on the achievement that you do get in life. How much more if they've seen that you have won up on lotto or big jackpots that talking about millions of dollars?
I do agree into your point that they would really be wishing you bad luck into your further dealings. 

[Frankolala]

I agrre with you OP, some people will be angry at your victory, and wished that they were be one that won such huge amount due to envy. In life, we will always have people that will not want to see any good thing happening to us, especially when our financial situation changes for good. They will frown, and might even go about saying all sort of things just to tarnish your image.

It is the same thing that applies in any kind of way that you use towards victory. This is why I love keeping my win a secret so that nobody will know if I win or not. I have a friend that won big, and decided to change his environment to a different place, because of envious people around him. On the other hand, I still have someone living around my neighborhood that won big, and didn't tell anyone that he won big. It is the bet shop attendant that allowed one or two people to know, and these people went ahead to broadcast his win,. Left for him alone, nobody win know. This is why our win should not be exposed to people that will not benefit from it.

[len01]

It's a common occurrence that often happens and I've even experienced it myself when I get a big win, people around me and friends often come to my house to discuss and joke together, but after I don't have anything, they leave and when I get another win, they come again, but I refuse to give something and they actually feel angry as if they are jealous of what I got and talk about my bad things to other people.

and I have also seen a case on another topic about 2 men gambling together and one of them got a big win and gave him instant wealth but unfortunately his friend was forgotten and it was as if he didn't know him at all.
this is a very bad example and indeed the right choice is always to hide gambling activities and any activities related to money so that we are safe from bad things like that and what I don't like the most is when a friend comes to borrow money to gamble knowing that we will win big but refusing to give loans they cut off friendships and that is very ridiculous.

[Lucasgabd]

I don’t think other people will understand the joy of winning for you
Same with talking about videogames with someone that doesn’t play or giving value to a collectible. If you own something that has special value for you but it’s not fungible it will be hard to “translate” this value for someone else specially if they don’t have the context

[Jawhead999]

Now I have a question, what about users who congratulate other users' winning? are they a fake person too?

1. Mom won 50,000$ in Lottery
2. I just woke up and saw wins in my gambling app
3. Gambling still pays regardless of our losses

You can't really judge someone who act nice are fake to you, they might be just a neutral (not happy or jealous), but do you think it's good to show your true reaction to your friends?

Your friends: Dude! do you know what? I won $500,000 from gambling!
You: Oh yeah, okay.

Your friends must be think you either have no empathy or don't like to hear his achievement, when actually you're just being neutral and didn't say anything bad or good.