It’s unlikely that anyone besides you will be happy with your winnings.

[Assface16678]

I don't see it this way.  When one of my family or friends wins something big I am genuinely happy for them.  Generally speaking anything that makes them happy in life should make you happy no?  I mean not over the top or as happy as it makes the person themselves but why wouldn't ypu be happy for them.  Yeah I agree if in a casino and someone you don't know wins big I don't think much is to be expected in terms of being happy for that person. 

In your case, yes, you didn't feel envy, but if you are the one who wins, will your other family members or relatives feel the same way? I dont know but I believe in money is the root cause of evil we have seen a lot of news and stories that tackle about family members or relatives being in dispute just because of money, worst there are related crimes that the suspect is arelative or family members, that's why even if you are winning in life even not in gambling but in your career, its better to be lowkey, because being lowkey will give you a piece of mind where no other relatives will nag you for money or ask for money just because you are being successful, being quite about your fortune will be much better than flexing and knowing that someone might be being envy of you, choose, being lowkey and have a quite life while enjoying your achivements or flexing but there are many people judging your or nagging you for money.

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[bitbollo]

I completely don't care if someone is happy or sad about my win.
I like to help those who want to make bets but I'm not interested in other people's judgement.
obviously never let "all" of your gaming habits be known. I never talk about gambling with people that doesn't gamble.

[angrybirdy]

I completely don't care if someone is happy or sad about my win.
I like to help those who want to make bets but I'm not interested in other people's judgement.
obviously never let "all" of your gaming habits be known. I never talk about gambling with people that doesn't gamble.

Well that's a good decision, Do not ever tell something related to gambling to other people who doesn't participate in any gambling activities because we all know that there will be a judgement coming from them. since I have a habit of being easily bothered by what other people say about me, I try not to talk too much to other people so that I don't receive any comments that I don't like, but I accept constructive criticism.

[Pi-network314159]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

You are on point mate. Whenever there is success there is enviness. Not only in gambling wining but also to whatever that brings you money. The aspect you said people who depends on you will be happy, I disagree with you. An enermy might not necessarily be a neighbour but the people you feed or eat with are even your worst enermy. How sure are you that they are not jealous of you because you feed them instead of them feeding you? Life is full of decietfulness where your best friend will be your worst enermy and your worst enermy being your best friend. You should even be more careful with your family members because the more you take them too close and tell them your secret the more envious they become and may further eliminate you. So let's be care how will reveal our secret in moments of jubilation, because moment of happiness or jubilation gives rise to self implications, by revealing your secret.

[klidex]

Returned to each other, whatever we do, those who don't like us don't care, even if we are happy, they will still feel that we are the worst person for them and maybe you could say that they are we arrogant, there are even those who pray for our ugliness, but for people who like us with us, they will be happy to see us being successful or having good luck because they also think that it is our hard work, but it is not impossible if they are also happy because they have a specific purpose and want some share of we winnings, whether it is just asking for a treat. eating or drinking, actually this is not a problem if you only ask like that, but if they start asking for quite a large share or even borrow money then this is a problem.

Sometimes money can make friendships or families break up because usually it also causes serious feuds. It would be better if we won but there is no need to tell anyone or only family knows because if many people know as I said at the beginning the sentence above, those who hate will still hate, those who are happy will remain happy and also no one will come just to take advantage of the results of our victory. Especially if only ourselves or our family knows then we can enjoy it more freely without thinking about the feelings of other people who don't like us.

[Jawhead999]

You are on point mate. Whenever there is success there is enviness. Not only in gambling wining but also to whatever that brings you money. The aspect you said people who depends on you will be happy, I disagree with you. An enermy might not necessarily be a neighbour but the people you feed or eat with are even your worst enermy. How sure are you that they are not jealous of you because you feed them instead of them feeding you? Life is full of decietfulness where your best friend will be your worst enermy and your worst enermy being your best friend. You should even be more careful with your family members because the more you take them too close and tell them your secret the more envious they become and may further eliminate you. So let's be care how will reveal our secret in moments of jubilation, because moment of happiness or jubilation gives rise to self implications, by revealing your secret.

There's a way to know someone's true personality, just tell them a fake secret, tell your small achievement, and act like you're broke.

If you tell someone your fake secret, let's wait for few days or months, does other of your friends know about your secret?
Tell him your small achievement, will he demands his share?
Tell him if you're broke, will he give his money instead of bullshit motivation?

I never talk about gambling with people that doesn't gamble.

Yeah, if you talk about gambling with them, they will said it's not good for you, religions forbid it, better to give your extra money to hopeless people etc.

[Warkop]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

If you experience victory in any case, you should not tell it to your friends or other people around you, because in my opinion someone's thoughts and views are not the same in assessing the victory you have achieved. Moreover, the resulting victory is very large, it will definitely give rise to feelings of hatred or envy towards other people, therefore it is better to just keep quiet and enjoy the results you have obtained from this victory. This problem is certainly not the first time I have seen it, many people have experienced something similar. So the point is, never talk about anything to people around you, because some people, there are also those who understand your profession in this victory and there are also those who don't understand your profession. In my opinion, there are still many other people's views and assessments of victory, because according to them the word victory contains elements of a negative impression, so many people think it is bad for someone who is jealous of this.

[Lida93]

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Not that "others" should be happy really, nor do I believe that it's the posters goal in the first place. I believe it's just something they want to brag about. Bluntly speaking, to satisfy their ego since, well, who doesn't want to in most cases really. Might vary but most people who'd want to share have that kind of emotion deep down. Similar as to how some people just can't help but brag that they won a life-changing amount. They know it's risky but hey, they want to stroke their ego.

Maybe if it was the idea that "I won" instead of "I got X amount" when the message was sent, it'd be a lot better and less of an ego stroke. But most of the time it's former than the latter that people want to share and is actually shared.

It's common for gamblers to make public about their wining to fellow gamblers as the feeling excites them to share as a way to keep hope alive to others that their own winning could be closer. But no matter how excited we gamblers get about our win it is not all winning we get that we make public especially when it's a 6 figures win above, you could invited unnecessary troubles and hate to yourself.

Even when we choose to keep the amount won secret and just let our the news of just a winning made there are some curious people that will want to dig in to know the actual amount won. So if a gambler don't want to make the amount of money they won to be known then they shouldn't make the winning public at all.

[livingfree]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

That's why people tell to remain low profile when you've been winning such amounts. It could be small for you but to your friends upon knowing so, they're going to suck out each cent that they can to you. I am not telling that all of them are the same but most likely many of them are.

If you've won some gambling money, you don't have to brag about it. I know that the pride is there and not everyone wins some money as they gamble.

But control yourself too and don't be too public with your winnings or else, you have to face the consequences upon doing so.

[Quidat]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

That's why people tell to remain low profile when you've been winning such amounts. It could be small for you but to your friends upon knowing so, they're going to suck out each cent that they can to you. I am not telling that all of them are the same but most likely many of them are.

If you've won some gambling money, you don't have to brag about it. I know that the pride is there and not everyone wins some money as they gamble.

But control yourself too and don't be too public with your winnings or else, you have to face the consequences upon doing so.

Low profile as it should be on which it would really be that better that you would really minding about those people around that they wont really be happy on the things that you have achieved.
There would really be always that has something to say and they wont really be that happy on what are the things that you are currently experiencing specially if they have seen that you are better than them.If ever you have won something big or something that it is lifechanging then it would be always best that you should really be staying up low key.

Dont tend to flex it out because they would really be that get angry on the time that you would be doing it.Why? they would really be simply getting jealous and this is something
that you would really be able to feel out or even hear those negative words.

[hedgeh0g]

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Not that "others" should be happy really, nor do I believe that it's the posters goal in the first place. I believe it's just something they want to brag about. Bluntly speaking, to satisfy their ego since, well, who doesn't want to in most cases really. Might vary but most people who'd want to share have that kind of emotion deep down. Similar as to how some people just can't help but brag that they won a life-changing amount. They know it's risky but hey, they want to stroke their ego.

Maybe if it was the idea that "I won" instead of "I got X amount" when the message was sent, it'd be a lot better and less of an ego stroke. But most of the time it's former than the latter that people want to share and is actually shared.

It's common for gamblers to make public about their wining to fellow gamblers as the feeling excites them to share as a way to keep hope alive to others that their own winning could be closer. But no matter how excited we gamblers get about our win it is not all winning we get that we make public especially when it's a 6 figures win above, you could invited unnecessary troubles and hate to yourself.

Even when we choose to keep the amount won secret and just let our the news of just a winning made there are some curious people that will want to dig in to know the actual amount won. So if a gambler don't want to make the amount of money they won to be known then they shouldn't make the winning public at all.

This is really how it works, I know people from my circle and they have absolutely no idea how gambling works. But they buy lottery tickets and constantly tell me that a friend won a lot of money in the lottery, it really happened. But I know that this friend bought a lot of tickets before and lost, and we also don’t know how much he lost after that, which could be several times higher than this winnings in subsequent years of active play. It turns out that a friend’s win became an excellent advertisement for many and they began to buy a lot of the same lottery tickets, hoping to win just like him. I think that behind this lies simply the envy of the others, they think that victory has come very close to them, but this is deceptive. Luck chooses any person completely at random and does not become closer as my envious environment thinks. I can't convince them of this in any way, they don't even want to listen to me, so I stopped explaining it.

[Awaklara]

Low profile as it should be on which it would really be that better that you would really minding about those people around that they wont really be happy on the things that you have achieved.
There would really be always that has something to say and they wont really be that happy on what are the things that you are currently experiencing specially if they have seen that you are better than them.

Such situations will always be around us. especially if you publish the big win you just got. and that can be bad for other people who may not like you that much.
We should as much as possible remain silent and not publicize our gambling wins or losses. that's the best, play alone and enjoy yourself. We use our own money and we bear the risk ourselves. there is no need to share it with other people which could complicate our situation.

[junder]

If you experience victory in any case, you should not tell it to your friends or other people around you, because in my opinion someone's thoughts and views are not the same in assessing the victory you have achieved. Moreover, the resulting victory is very large, it will definitely give rise to feelings of hatred or envy towards other people, therefore it is better to just keep quiet and enjoy the results you have obtained from this victory. This problem is certainly not the first time I have seen it, many people have experienced something similar. So the point is, never talk about anything to people around you, because some people, there are also those who understand your profession in this victory and there are also those who don't understand your profession. In my opinion, there are still many other people's views and assessments of victory, because according to them the word victory contains elements of a negative impression, so many people think it is bad for someone who is jealous of this.

The majority of people who view gambling as a bad thing, therefore anything related to gambling will most likely be viewed badly, even with the big winnings obtained at gambling. And it's true that you said that everyone's view is different, it is very appropriate that the victory shown to others can make other people jealous and if they can't control themselves in my opinion it can trigger conflict. I agree with you that it's better to keep it a secret and enjoy it, even if we show our friends who are both gamblers maybe it will make our friends jealous and they can do crazy things like being more obsessed with gambling of course it's not a good thing, because with obsession with gambling it will only make finances a mess, or drain the pocket.

The winnings obtained from things that are indeed positive and official things such as soccer matches or others are no problem to celebrate in my opinion, because appreciating yourself is only natural, but if with the winnings obtained at gambling in my opinion there is no need to share, as you said at the beginning it is better to keep it or be silent and enjoy it, it is a safe way.

[robelneo]

Low profile as it should be on which it would really be that better that you would really minding about those people around that they wont really be happy on the things that you have achieved.
There would really be always that has something to say and they wont really be that happy on what are the things that you are currently experiencing specially if they have seen that you are better than them.

Such situations will always be around us. especially if you publish the big win you just got. and that can be bad for other people who may not like you that much.
We should as much as possible remain silent and not publicize our gambling wins or losses. that's the best, play alone and enjoy yourself. We use our own money and we bear the risk ourselves. there is no need to share it with other people which could complicate our situation.

Winning in gambling is not something worth bragging you just never know the feelings of other people around you, some people are watching to win so they can at least have a share of your earnings they expect you to share a portion of your earnings and if you fail to share a portion of your earnings they spread negative things about you.
I experienced that myself I never knew a friend was waiting for a share of my winnings when I could not give a portion because I also badly needed money and I was shocked to learn that he was spreading lies behind my back, from then on I just kept my winning to myself, it's safe and you have a peace of mine.

[Blitzboy]

I would like to discuss this topic, the joy of victory. Much has been written about this, but nevertheless it will always be relevant. Many players naively believe that someone other than themselves should be happy about their winnings. I don't think so. Of course, those closest to you who directly or indirectly depend on your money will be happy about your winnings. But neighbors, friends, work colleagues, at best (at best!) will receive the news of your victories with indifference, and at worst, with envy. I know that many friends and acquaintances get depressed when they find out how much you have earned. For them, it will be an unnecessary reminder of their failure. Often friendships end after one person becomes very rich. People lose common topics for communication, common interests disappear. Of course, things are different in sports betting and trading than in business. Here success is less stable and a person can often fall back into poverty more quickly. But it’s still better to hide your victories from others. I've seen many clear examples.

I don't know where you even got the idea they ever would be happy for you in the first place? Especially if you get rich by winning? This is why people advice you to not ever tell anyone if you won the lottery, or what ever you won. And biggest reason for not telling is: No one needs to know. You might want to tell people, but ask yourself why you even want that.

People will envy you, that's right. One proof of that is this myth that keeps on living, that most lottery winners end up being broke and miserable in the end. There are no stats that would back this up, and while some people might mess their lives by drinking etc, not everyone obviously will do that. Those negative stories keep living though, because people love to read about them. They are kind on confirmation bias, as majority wants lottery winners to suffer, they see those stories as comforting because they aren't ever goingt to win.

But people around you can be very envious, not everyone but enough of them are a good reason not to tell around about your money. Especially when they think you didn't "earn" the money, but only were lucky. You see this envy with people's attitude towards crypto rich as well. Actually even more with those.

Some of your friends will avoid you. Some because of envy, some because they are extra careful and don't want you think that they are only with you because of money. For some reason people don't seem to do that when you have earned your money slowly with work. At least none of the rich that i know (i know few people that got rich and one of them quickly with cryptos).

And i don't know what common topics and common interests are you talking about, but i never lost them with my friends. All being rich brought to them was financial security and peace of mind because they don't need to live from hand to mouth anymore. And few other obvious perks as well.

You're right: envy is predictable like the sunrise. Why shouldn't you celebrate your wins? Be winning the lottery, crypto, or cash, the achievement is yours. You shouldnt share your success out of envy? Thats weak. Winners like myself demonstrate whats possible.

Not all lottery winners are destitute and miserable - thats media bias. Love it, eat it. However, success is about mindset and relationships, not just money. Share your success with confidence. If they leave, they were never your pals.

Smart wealth management is crucial. Create additional opportunities for yourself and others. That keeps you on top. What about envy? Give them cake. Building an empire and making an impact are more important. Stand tall, be proud, and never apologise for success. Its lonely up there, but the view is amazing.

[passwordnow]

I experienced that myself I never knew a friend was waiting for a share of my winnings when I could not give a portion because I also badly needed money and I was shocked to learn that he was spreading lies behind my back

When they didn't take benefit from us, that's how they react from the disappointment and rejection that they've taken from us. It's funny to think that there are people and friends of us which we think got our backs but little did we know that they're doing it differently and attacking us from behind telling lies to the other people just because we didn't able to give some pennies to them. Having that attitude means that they can sell their souls to the enemies without having to think of it.

from then on I just kept my winning to myself, it's safe and you have a peace of mine.

It is better to keep our winnings to ourselves. That's also a bad experience that we don't want to happen again when the people whom we trusted and we think as our friends are the ones that don't do good when we're not around. Just imagine what people can do because of money and even if you explain to them that you can't give everything to them because you need all of it, they'd feel disappointed with that as if you've got an obligation to them but in reality, there's no need for us to be obliged to give any money on them whether we win big amounts with our bets because we are on our own. And if we lose, are they also there for us to take back those losses or have that moment of sadness? I don't think so.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

In response to the op, I will completely and absolutely agree with all that he or she has said, based on the fact that I also have seen a very clear example of such envy manifest practically, not with me, but with someone in my working place few years ago.

This dude called himself a lotto forcaster, and this means that, he's able to predict atleast 2 to 3 to 4 numbers that will in a Lotto game correctly, a co-worker meet him and requested for a numbers that will play the next, the co-worker particular requested for what we refer to as 2-sure for over, the forecaster dude gave the co-worker 13 - 16, meanwhile he himself played 12-17, as luck may have it, the 13 - 16 he gave the co-worker played, and his 12 - 17 didn't, instead of this guy to at least, be happy for the co-worker who won, and the 20 to 30 percent of the profit he would get, this dude literally ran mad with anger in the company premises, he's girlfriend tried to calm him down but he slapped her and walked out of the company, he was later sacked because of that display.

For me, I usually do tell people that I won a bet, but I do well to not mention the amount, though the amount usually is always small, but then, I usually do not tell people the amount I won, whether it be big or small, and this is referring to my online friends though.
People who are around me physically even till now do not know that I gamble, even my own family, this is a secret I've managed to keep for years now, and will continue to keep it, thank goodness for online casinos that have made it possible for me to place bets right in the comfort of my room without having to step out.

[YOSHIE]

It’s unlikely that anyone besides you will be happy with your winnings.

Never mind that they are happy about the gambling win that I won, to be honest, personally, if possible, they/friends, neighbors and so on, never know what else I gambled on until they know I won.

Currently, gambling is often done online, it is easy to cover up the winnings we achieve, we can gamble behind closed doors, plus the accounts that operate on online gambling sites are not real names, aka pseudonyms, so for me them knowing we win backfires on us, except gambling at a physical casino house, winning at an online casino is slim to friends knowing we win.

[livingfree]

That's why people tell to remain low profile when you've been winning such amounts. It could be small for you but to your friends upon knowing so, they're going to suck out each cent that they can to you. I am not telling that all of them are the same but most likely many of them are.

If you've won some gambling money, you don't have to brag about it. I know that the pride is there and not everyone wins some money as they gamble.

But control yourself too and don't be too public with your winnings or else, you have to face the consequences upon doing so.

Low profile as it should be on which it would really be that better that you would really minding about those people around that they wont really be happy on the things that you have achieved.
There would really be always that has something to say and they wont really be that happy on what are the things that you are currently experiencing specially if they have seen that you are better than them.If ever you have won something big or something that it is lifechanging then it would be always best that you should really be staying up low key.

Dont tend to flex it out because they would really be that get angry on the time that you would be doing it.Why? they would really be simply getting jealous and this is something
that you would really be able to feel out or even hear those negative words.

Flexing is no longer a thing when it's all about peace of mind and the amount of money that you've won. As many won't be happy with your achievement, it's just best to remain silent and enjoy what you've got.

You don't have to be showy with all those stuff that you have won and brag it on the public. Lowering your profile is the new flex onto this day because you have to value your peace.

[Quidat]

That's why people tell to remain low profile when you've been winning such amounts. It could be small for you but to your friends upon knowing so, they're going to suck out each cent that they can to you. I am not telling that all of them are the same but most likely many of them are.

If you've won some gambling money, you don't have to brag about it. I know that the pride is there and not everyone wins some money as they gamble.

But control yourself too and don't be too public with your winnings or else, you have to face the consequences upon doing so.

Low profile as it should be on which it would really be that better that you would really minding about those people around that they wont really be happy on the things that you have achieved.
There would really be always that has something to say and they wont really be that happy on what are the things that you are currently experiencing specially if they have seen that you are better than them.If ever you have won something big or something that it is lifechanging then it would be always best that you should really be staying up low key.

Dont tend to flex it out because they would really be that get angry on the time that you would be doing it.Why? they would really be simply getting jealous and this is something
that you would really be able to feel out or even hear those negative words.

Flexing is no longer a thing when it's all about peace of mind and the amount of money that you've won. As many won't be happy with your achievement, it's just best to remain silent and enjoy what you've got.

You don't have to be showy with all those stuff that you have won and brag it on the public. Lowering your profile is the new flex onto this day because you have to value your peace.

As it should be but we do know that there are type of people who do really love to flex and this is something that they cant really be able to avoid just because its their behavior in the first place.
This is why we've seen that too much flexing could really be that result into some potential safety hazard specially into your life. If you arent that mindful about your safety then it would really be that
something that you would really be normally be doing it and this is something which it isnt really that recommended after all.

Be low key and dont tend to share up. The greatest flex is on the time that they've seen you riding with your own car and living with a nice big house.
You wont really be needing to be verbal because this is where things turns out to be a mess if you do tend to boast up on something
that you have won or something like that.