It’s unlikely that anyone besides you will be happy with your winnings.

[TopTort777]

Such envy feeling actually is quite easy to solve. Using winnings, buy everyone a drink and they would be your best friends. People are really fallen for something free. I have proved that to myself many times. If you are in a bad relationship with hardly known person or expect a talk, buy him a coffee, spend 5 bucks and you will be amazed how such cheap investment changes attitude.

[Dewi Aries]

Such envy feeling actually is quite easy to solve. Using winnings, buy everyone a drink and they would be your best friends. People are really fallen for something free. I have proved that to myself many times. If you are in a bad relationship with hardly known person or expect a talk, buy him a coffee, spend 5 bucks and you will be amazed how such cheap investment changes attitude.

True, the fact is that with money you can change everything or overcome any problem including changing this feeling to sympathy, and this will really happen when you are able to understand about the situation and circumstances, or that means you have to understand that they want something from you and not just pride because you won, they don't need something that can only be heard, but they also need something to taste.

This means that if you're bragging to people about something like gambling where you're really lucky and you've won a big win then you should at least give them a share, not a big share but at least give them some money from the winnings that they can enjoy, like you said which might be buying them a free cup of coffee, and with this then I think everything will still be fine, but if the scenario is that you're just bragging about the winnings without giving them any share then this is “something else”.

[swogerino]

Such envy feeling actually is quite easy to solve. Using winnings, buy everyone a drink and they would be your best friends. People are really fallen for something free. I have proved that to myself many times. If you are in a bad relationship with hardly known person or expect a talk, buy him a coffee, spend 5 bucks and you will be amazed how such cheap investment changes attitude.

I have also experienced this first hand in the Stake casino chat.Someone asked me there if I were winning big and I told them it was the worse session of my life right now and they told me we wish you win mate,I told them if I win I will tip you all,if I win an over x2500 told them and I won x2423 at that time and send everyone 1 dollar in total about 8 dollars as they were something like 8 persons and they were very happy for my winning,they told after,we wish you to win at least x10000 multiplier so you can send us 5 tip and I of course agreed,the only problem was I never hit an x10000 at that day  .

[SatoPrincess]

People are self centered, they would not care as much if you win a game if they know you’re not sharing a piece of the pie with them. Anyone who is set to benefit from your winnings will definitely be happy when you win your bets because they know they are getting tips from you. I see that happen in my country, we have a culture of tipping people around you when you win bets. If you’re a frequent customer of a particular casino, it’s expected that when next you show after cashout you will buy drinks for other gamblers or tip them.

[TopTort777]

Such envy feeling actually is quite easy to solve. Using winnings, buy everyone a drink and they would be your best friends. People are really fallen for something free. I have proved that to myself many times. If you are in a bad relationship with hardly known person or expect a talk, buy him a coffee, spend 5 bucks and you will be amazed how such cheap investment changes attitude.

True, the fact is that with money you can change everything or overcome any problem including changing this feeling to sympathy, and this will really happen when you are able to understand about the situation and circumstances, or that means you have to understand that they want something from you and not just pride because you won, they don't need something that can only be heard, but they also need something to taste.

This means that if you're bragging to people about something like gambling where you're really lucky and you've won a big win then you should at least give them a share, not a big share but at least give them some money from the winnings that they can enjoy, like you said which might be buying them a free cup of coffee, and with this then I think everything will still be fine, but if the scenario is that you're just bragging about the winnings without giving them any share then this is “something else”.

I understood that topic was not about bragging at all. People are just envy for other persons success. I notice many times, that when you achieve something difficult, something big, or win big, people always think that you are just a lucky mfker. Rarely they see all the work done by you before final result. But when you give them a little share of your reward, treat them with something free of charge, or just say "yes I am lucky, but get what, I believe you are going to catch your luck soon also", completely changes attitude.

[LUCKMCFLY]

I understood that topic was not about bragging at all. People are just envy for other persons success. I notice many times, that when you achieve something difficult, something big, or win big, people always think that you are just a lucky mfker. Rarely they see all the work done by you before final result. But when you give them a little share of your reward, treat them with something free of charge, or just say "yes I am lucky, but get what, I believe you are going to catch your luck soon also", completely changes attitude.

On a global level things will always be like this, there are people who are always envious and do not give the necessary value to the triumphs they have, they always try to disqualify and in their mind they think that that person does not deserve that, so those are for my people apart of envious and somewhat traumatized narcissists, because there is nothing good about a person like that, there is a lot of Hypocrisy in people , there is in the forum, they are capable of selling even their souls, one day they must correct it, correct it, I have read that when people has those kinds of feelings, it can even cause cancer, because those feelings become something very black and bad, and the body receives it, and the way to get rid of it is with those diseases. That's why we always have to be normal people without bad things. feelings, we have to be aware of doing things well, without pretensions or Anything.

[Dewi Aries]

True, the fact is that with money you can change everything or overcome any problem including changing this feeling to sympathy, and this will really happen when you are able to understand about the situation and circumstances, or that means you have to understand that they want something from you and not just pride because you won, they don't need something that can only be heard, but they also need something to taste.

This means that if you're bragging to people about something like gambling where you're really lucky and you've won a big win then you should at least give them a share, not a big share but at least give them some money from the winnings that they can enjoy, like you said which might be buying them a free cup of coffee, and with this then I think everything will still be fine, but if the scenario is that you're just bragging about the winnings without giving them any share then this is “something else”.

I understood that topic was not about bragging at all. People are just envy for other persons success. I notice many times, that when you achieve something difficult, something big, or win big, people always think that you are just a lucky mfker. Rarely they see all the work done by you before final result. But when you give them a little share of your reward, treat them with something free of charge, or just say "yes I am lucky, but get what, I believe you are going to catch your luck soon also", completely changes attitude.

Envious feelings can arise in any context or event but the point is that envious feelings will arise when they see that other people are superior to themselves, although yes I understand that not everyone is like that because there will always be some people who sympathize and say "congratulations" without any envy by showing a sincere smile. Another thing is that I agree with you that it is rare for people to see what we have done to achieve this success, most likely they will assume that we are nothing more than being lucky when behind the scenes we have done a lot of struggle to achieve this success.

If we were talking about gambling then yes I would agree that a big win is nothing more than a lucky situation that comes at the right time, but even though luck is a law of nature that comes purely and can happen even if you don't do anything that can support your goals still in the end there are always people who are quite jealous, and as we discussed earlier that one of the best ways to maintain or create better social relations with those who know about our victory then there is nothing wrong with sharing some of our winnings, it doesn't need to be too big, at least so that they can sympathize.

[Minecache]

People are self centered, they would not care as much if you win a game if they know you’re not sharing a piece of the pie with them. Anyone who is set to benefit from your winnings will definitely be happy when you win your bets because they know they are getting tips from you. I see that happen in my country, we have a culture of tipping people around you when you win bets. If you’re a frequent customer of a particular casino, it’s expected that when next you show after cashout you will buy drinks for other gamblers or tip them.

In fact the people you play with will never be happy with your victory. A blackjack table or Baccarat table or poker table is a very sensitive place. A momentary distraction here can do you great harm. That's why you have to be very careful during the game. If you are addicted to laughter, you will never finish the game as a winner. And the truth is that if you don't win, you get nothing but disappointment.

I agree with you that people who don't participate in the game you can call them audience, can flatter you for tips. Whoever wins it is flattered by the people around to get some tips or treats. Here they are not actually happy with your victory, just as they will flatter you if you win today, they will start flattering someone else if they win.

[erep]

People are self centered, they would not care as much if you win a game if they know you’re not sharing a piece of the pie with them. Anyone who is set to benefit from your winnings will definitely be happy when you win your bets because they know they are getting tips from you. I see that happen in my country, we have a culture of tipping people around you when you win bets. If you’re a frequent customer of a particular casino, it’s expected that when next you show after cashout you will buy drinks for other gamblers or tip them.

If we share winnings or tips with other people then they will be happy every time you have won a bet, but believe that some of them are not happy with your winnings if they find out you have won a bet or jackpot, they only approach you to get free food and they will borrow money because they know you have won the bet.

I am the type of gambler who hides my gambling activities from anyone because I don't want all my activities to be known to the public, gambling is private and they have no right to know whether I have won or lost. But usually if I win I will take them to a restaurant but they don't know that I paid the bill from the winnings from gambling.

[Zoomic]

People are self centered, they would not care as much if you win a game if they know you’re not sharing a piece of the pie with them. Anyone who is set to benefit from your winnings will definitely be happy when you win your bets because they know they are getting tips from you. I see that happen in my country, we have a culture of tipping people around you when you win bets. If you’re a frequent customer of a particular casino, it’s expected that when next you show after cashout you will buy drinks for other gamblers or tip them.

If we share winnings or tips with other people then they will be happy every time you have won a bet, but believe that some of them are not happy with your winnings if they find out you have won a bet or jackpot, they only approach you to get free food and they will borrow money because they know you have won the bet.

I am the type of gambler who hides my gambling activities from anyone because I don't want all my activities to be known to the public, gambling is private and they have no right to know whether I have won or lost. But usually if I win I will take them to a restaurant but they don't know that I paid the bill from the winnings from gambling.

Must people be entitled to other people's money? If others become happy with you simply because they know they will be getting some benefits too from your gambling win, then they are simply being fake, no genuine happiness. If as a gambler I find myself in such an environment with lots of entitled people around, I would rather not disclose my gambling activity with anyone. Giving should be done out of freewill and not because others are entitled to my money.

A lot of gamblers complain that they don't often put their money won from gambling into good use and cannot give account of what they used their money for. In most cases, it is as a result of trying to satisfy and impress entitled fake friends who come around once they know there is something available for them. Truthfully, not all will be genuinely happy for you when you hit a jackpot.

[Juse14]

It all depends on the type of gambling we are playing, whether it is blackjack, rummy or domino gaple and for example you are playing with your friend who when playing is your opponent. So, even if they are your friends, they will never be happy about the victory you got.

It's different when you play slots, when you play with your friends, and among them you are the only one who wins, then other people will feel happy about the win you get. Feel happy because there is someone they can borrow or ask for money from, so they can continue betting and go back to looking for lucky scatterers. And this is the reason why, personally, I very rarely play gambling together with my friends, but that doesn't mean I don't want to share the winnings and fun, it's just that when they win, they hide somewhere.

[Bravut]

It all depends on the type of gambling we are playing, whether it is blackjack, rummy or domino gaple and for example you are playing with your friend who when playing is your opponent. So, even if they are your friends, they will never be happy about the victory you got.

It's different when you play slots, when you play with your friends, and among them you are the only one who wins, then other people will feel happy about the win you get. Feel happy because there is someone they can borrow or ask for money from, so they can continue betting and go back to looking for lucky scatterers. And this is the reason why, personally, I very rarely play gambling together with my friends, but that doesn't mean I don't want to share the winnings and fun, it's just that when they win, they hide somewhere.

Wether being your opponent or not, we can't really be sure about there feelings, towards your winnings. We just have to look out for wolves in sheep clothing who claim to be our friend not just during gambling. If we don't trust the people surrounding us, we learn to keep our successes to ourselves. Making them unaware of our winnings, and sort out means to cut off from such people once you notice any bit of hatred, jealousy or envy.

[dunfida]

People are self centered, they would not care as much if you win a game if they know you’re not sharing a piece of the pie with them. Anyone who is set to benefit from your winnings will definitely be happy when you win your bets because they know they are getting tips from you. I see that happen in my country, we have a culture of tipping people around you when you win bets. If you’re a frequent customer of a particular casino, it’s expected that when next you show after cashout you will buy drinks for other gamblers or tip them.

If we share winnings or tips with other people then they will be happy every time you have won a bet, but believe that some of them are not happy with your winnings if they find out you have won a bet or jackpot, they only approach you to get free food and they will borrow money because they know you have won the bet.

I am the type of gambler who hides my gambling activities from anyone because I don't want all my activities to be known to the public, gambling is private and they have no right to know whether I have won or lost. But usually if I win I will take them to a restaurant but they don't know that I paid the bill from the winnings from gambling.

Must people be entitled to other people's money? If others become happy with you simply because they know they will be getting some benefits too from your gambling win, then they are simply being fake, no genuine happiness. If as a gambler I find myself in such an environment with lots of entitled people around, I would rather not disclose my gambling activity with anyone. Giving should be done out of freewill and not because others are entitled to my money.

A lot of gamblers complain that they don't often put their money won from gambling into good use and cannot give account of what they used their money for. In most cases, it is as a result of trying to satisfy and impress entitled fake friends who come around once they know there is something available for them. Truthfully, not all will be genuinely happy for you when you hit a jackpot.

And this is why it would really be better that you should really be that keeping yourself that silent rather than on making yourself that too tactful when it comes to the winning that you had been able to experience.
Its true that even with our relatives or close ones arent that anytime be happy for us which they would really be just that taking up some advantage on you on where they do really shows that they are happy for you
but actually theyre not. It is really just that on the money that they do matter and really been that thinking off with.

It would really be that better that you should really be keeping yourself lowkey or in silent when you do win up something significant on which we know that when it comes to this matter
it would really be that something a huge possible problem whenever you do see that your relatives and other important people or known ones will really be something
that bad intentions out of your.

[EarnOnVictor]

Such envy feeling actually is quite easy to solve. Using winnings, buy everyone a drink and they would be your best friends. People are really fallen for something free. I have proved that to myself many times. If you are in a bad relationship with hardly known person or expect a talk, buy him a coffee, spend 5 bucks and you will be amazed how such cheap investment changes attitude.

I'm surprised about what you wrote, and if you think buying them things will change the mind of an envious friend, then you are kidding. Well, this may be true for some people who do not envy the person but just want to partake in the winning no matter how little. It is now good to show kind gestures to such people with good hearts, though it is not mandatory as you owe no one anything, it's your winning, so it's your choice. But when envy is now included, then it becomes a different issues that is so problematic. Envious people do not get pacified easily, they are not just happy about your success and not about you depriving them of something.

They hate and will always wish they were in your position, so do you think that buying drinks for such people will make that go? Then you are not being sincere here, they actually don't like you smile no matter what you do. However, if you sense the calibre of people around you are showing that kind of trait, the best thing is to be discrete in what you do. Not letting them know when you win or smile could be the only solution here, or else, they could be dangerous unspeakably at times.

[TopTort777]

Such envy feeling actually is quite easy to solve. Using winnings, buy everyone a drink and they would be your best friends. People are really fallen for something free. I have proved that to myself many times. If you are in a bad relationship with hardly known person or expect a talk, buy him a coffee, spend 5 bucks and you will be amazed how such cheap investment changes attitude.

I'm surprised about what you wrote, and if you think buying them things will change the mind of an envious friend, then you are kidding. Well, this may be true for some people who do not envy the person but just want to partake in the winning no matter how little. It is now good to show kind gestures to such people with good hearts, though it is not mandatory as you owe no one anything, it's your winning, so it's your choice. But when envy is now included, then it becomes a different issues that is so problematic. Envious people do not get pacified easily, they are not just happy about your success and not about you depriving them of something.

They hate and will always wish they were in your position, so do you think that buying drinks for such people will make that go? Then you are not being sincere here, they actually don't like you smile no matter what you do. However, if you sense the calibre of people around you are showing that kind of trait, the best thing is to be discrete in what you do. Not letting them know when you win or smile could be the only solution here, or else, they could be dangerous unspeakably at times.

Maybe I simply good at negotiations Dunno, somehow I have managed to solve most of life problems with little expenses. Maybe I am just lucky. Maybe I am surrounded with right people. But I had experience when people were jealous for my success, maybe they have thoughts to rob me, or to do harm. A little gift, a little share, a little attention to them always helped me to "get out dry from water". Maybe I am raised with idea to share. If win a million, I would definitely not going to share all of it with those who are around, but definitely going to make them a little happier. Or, maybe I havent been in a situation when people really envy me.

[South Park]

And this is why it would really be better that you should really be that keeping yourself that silent rather than on making yourself that too tactful when it comes to the winning that you had been able to experience.
Its true that even with our relatives or close ones arent that anytime be happy for us which they would really be just that taking up some advantage on you on where they do really shows that they are happy for you
but actually theyre not. It is really just that on the money that they do matter and really been that thinking off with.

It would really be that better that you should really be keeping yourself lowkey or in silent when you do win up something significant on which we know that when it comes to this matter
it would really be that something a huge possible problem whenever you do see that your relatives and other important people or known ones will really be something
that bad intentions out of your.

Those that win the lottery often share stories about their family members and what were their reactions about it and it is often not pretty, since they will ask them for loans and then never pay them, as they think that since they just won that money by luck and they have more of it then they can afford for them to not pay back, or sometimes they just assume that money as their own and if the winner does not buy them everything they want, they just steal the money or get angry at not getting their way.

[danherbias07]

Maybe I simply good at negotiations Dunno, somehow I have managed to solve most of life problems with little expenses. Maybe I am just lucky. Maybe I am surrounded with right people. But I had experience when people were jealous for my success, maybe they have thoughts to rob me, or to do harm. A little gift, a little share, a little attention to them always helped me to "get out dry from water". Maybe I am raised with idea to share. If win a million, I would definitely not going to share all of it with those who are around, but definitely going to make them a little happier. Or, maybe I havent been in a situation when people really envy me.

And that's why those who gave tips at an online gambling site are mostly praised. That's free money and everyone will say good things to you. But at the end of the day, I still feel like it's wasted money because I don't believe there's such a thing as good karma in gambling. You give tips but it doesn't mean you will get lucky again in your next roll, that's a foolish thing to think of.

But when it's your neighbors who know your habit and then you suddenly say that you won or you just want someone else to listen to you boast about how much you won, then give them drinks and they will listen to you all night as long the beers keep on coming. Boasting will not be real unless you prove it, give them something and they will finally realize that it's true. 

[Miles2006]

It all depends on the type of gambling we are playing, whether it is blackjack, rummy or domino gaple and for example you are playing with your friend who when playing is your opponent. So, even if they are your friends, they will never be happy about the victory you got.

It's different when you play slots, when you play with your friends, and among them you are the only one who wins, then other people will feel happy about the win you get. Feel happy because there is someone they can borrow or ask for money from, so they can continue betting and go back to looking for lucky scatterers. And this is the reason why, personally, I very rarely play gambling together with my friends, but that doesn't mean I don't want to share the winnings and fun, it's just that when they win, they hide somewhere.

Wether being your opponent or not, we can't really be sure about there feelings, towards your winnings. We just have to look out for wolves in sheep clothing who claim to be our friend not just during gambling. If we don't trust the people surrounding us, we learn to keep our successes to ourselves. Making them unaware of our winnings, and sort out means to cut off from such people once you notice any bit of hatred, jealousy or envy.

This is exactly what came to my mind when I read the topic, not just gambling because they’re other big wins aside gambling wins, if we must identify this kind of people around us we must stay away. This is just an act of jealousy nothing else, people can be so bitterly minded whenever their friends share good news, the funny part is people like this smile at your front and frown at your back, I got similar experience earlier this year, I understand the fact op used gambling win as an example because gambling win don’t come so easy and sometimes you try and try along the line you get to win huge not everyone will feel happy about a person win.

[boltz]

Never tell anyone when you hit a ticket even if the winning is 1$ because people tend to wish you bad luck by instinct and that's why it's better to keep your betting tickets for yourself alongside the winning ones and losing ones. Also , I've noticed that if you go on a public chat where people are gambling , the amount of flames and bad words you get for actually tell who you bet on it's enormous and I will never ever go on public chats where gamblers are cursing each other just because they have different outcomes for a certain game.

[uneng]

Such envy feeling actually is quite easy to solve. Using winnings, buy everyone a drink and they would be your best friends. People are really fallen for something free. I have proved that to myself many times. If you are in a bad relationship with hardly known person or expect a talk, buy him a coffee, spend 5 bucks and you will be amazed how such cheap investment changes attitude.

I'm surprised about what you wrote, and if you think buying them things will change the mind of an envious friend, then you are kidding. Well, this may be true for some people who do not envy the person but just want to partake in the winning no matter how little. It is now good to show kind gestures to such people with good hearts, though it is not mandatory as you owe no one anything, it's your winning, so it's your choice. But when envy is now included, then it becomes a different issues that is so problematic. Envious people do not get pacified easily, they are not just happy about your success and not about you depriving them of something.

They hate and will always wish they were in your position, so do you think that buying drinks for such people will make that go? Then you are not being sincere here, they actually don't like you smile no matter what you do. However, if you sense the calibre of people around you are showing that kind of trait, the best thing is to be discrete in what you do. Not letting them know when you win or smile could be the only solution here, or else, they could be dangerous unspeakably at times.

Hmm, that is an interesting approach @TopTort777 had! He looks very pragmatic thinking on instant results and consequences from the other side. I can't say he is wrong or that the concept doesn't work. It indeed can bring some desired results (on short run), but I can't say the person is going to like, love or respect him on long run, because to pay a drink or a coffee is an ephemerous thing with an ephemerous effect, what means he will keep having to do this constantly to maintain the "friendship" with this person.

If he stops paying stuff for the person, the previous negative feelings will immediately come back regards him, probably even worst, as the individual will somehow feel in an abstinence emotional stage. It's like cutting the allowance of someone you have been supporting for several months in a row.

So from a genuine and fraternal point of view, I see no reason in conditioning a person who dislike you like that. To condition someone to like you through material gifts doesn't look a good idea, unless you are also materially interested on something this person can provide you on short term as well. Don't expect any loyal friendship or sentimentalism, anyway...