It’s unlikely that anyone besides you will be happy with your winnings.

[boltz]

Never tell anyone when you hit a ticket even if the winning is 1$ because people tend to wish you bad luck by instinct and that's why it's better to keep your betting tickets for yourself alongside the winning ones and losing ones. Also , I've noticed that if you go on a public chat where people are gambling , the amount of flames and bad words you get for actually tell who you bet on it's enormous and I will never ever go on public chats where gamblers are cursing each other just because they have different outcomes for a certain game.

[uneng]

Such envy feeling actually is quite easy to solve. Using winnings, buy everyone a drink and they would be your best friends. People are really fallen for something free. I have proved that to myself many times. If you are in a bad relationship with hardly known person or expect a talk, buy him a coffee, spend 5 bucks and you will be amazed how such cheap investment changes attitude.

I'm surprised about what you wrote, and if you think buying them things will change the mind of an envious friend, then you are kidding. Well, this may be true for some people who do not envy the person but just want to partake in the winning no matter how little. It is now good to show kind gestures to such people with good hearts, though it is not mandatory as you owe no one anything, it's your winning, so it's your choice. But when envy is now included, then it becomes a different issues that is so problematic. Envious people do not get pacified easily, they are not just happy about your success and not about you depriving them of something.

They hate and will always wish they were in your position, so do you think that buying drinks for such people will make that go? Then you are not being sincere here, they actually don't like you smile no matter what you do. However, if you sense the calibre of people around you are showing that kind of trait, the best thing is to be discrete in what you do. Not letting them know when you win or smile could be the only solution here, or else, they could be dangerous unspeakably at times.

Hmm, that is an interesting approach @TopTort777 had! He looks very pragmatic thinking on instant results and consequences from the other side. I can't say he is wrong or that the concept doesn't work. It indeed can bring some desired results (on short run), but I can't say the person is going to like, love or respect him on long run, because to pay a drink or a coffee is an ephemerous thing with an ephemerous effect, what means he will keep having to do this constantly to maintain the "friendship" with this person.

If he stops paying stuff for the person, the previous negative feelings will immediately come back regards him, probably even worst, as the individual will somehow feel in an abstinence emotional stage. It's like cutting the allowance of someone you have been supporting for several months in a row.

So from a genuine and fraternal point of view, I see no reason in conditioning a person who dislike you like that. To condition someone to like you through material gifts doesn't look a good idea, unless you are also materially interested on something this person can provide you on short term as well. Don't expect any loyal friendship or sentimentalism, anyway...

[jcojci]

Never tell anyone when you hit a ticket even if the winning is 1$ because people tend to wish you bad luck by instinct and that's why it's better to keep your betting tickets for yourself alongside the winning ones and losing ones. Also , I've noticed that if you go on a public chat where people are gambling , the amount of flames and bad words you get for actually tell who you bet on it's enormous and I will never ever go on public chats where gamblers are cursing each other just because they have different outcomes for a certain game.

I agree with you because by hiding it from others, they won't know anything. Even if we win, they won't come up to us and pretend to congratulate us. When we lose, they also won't ridicule us with unkind words. That will allow us to stay calm without having to think about what they will say to us. Often the response in public will make us feel like we look bad even though we are just gambling for fun. Most of them don't know how we treat gambling so they feel they can say a lot of bad things about us.

[Jody.Drummer]

I believe that scenarios like this happen in gambling where other people including those closest to us such as fellow gamblers who are not happy with the winnings we managed to get where maybe in front of you they can smile but when behind you usually they tell bad things about you to others or could even slander you with something that is not true.

Another thing is, doesn't everyone need money or does that mean money is everything? Of course everyone wants it, meaning you can shut them up by sharing some of the money from your winnings and saying "you can also be lucky like me next time", so if for example you want to tell people, especially some of your friends about the winnings that you managed to get then after that you better give them at least a small amount of your winnings to avoid criticism or ridicule due to jealousy arising from them, but there is still another way that you might be able to take if you don't want to share the results of the winnings at all, namely by not telling anyone, especially your friends about the winnings that you managed to get.

[Zadicar]

Never tell anyone when you hit a ticket even if the winning is 1$ because people tend to wish you bad luck by instinct and that's why it's better to keep your betting tickets for yourself alongside the winning ones and losing ones. Also , I've noticed that if you go on a public chat where people are gambling , the amount of flames and bad words you get for actually tell who you bet on it's enormous and I will never ever go on public chats where gamblers are cursing each other just because they have different outcomes for a certain game.

No one would really be liking to see you winning and its true that there would really be having that kind of cursing or wishing you bad luck into your next gambling dealing on which its true that not all would really be happy into your winnings. It would really be best that you should really be that making yourself that lowkey so that you wont really be ending up on having that kind of problem specially if you are a type of person on whose really that sensitive with other peoples words and comments. Its better to make yourself that be silent on whatever things that you are currently experience. Dont make yourself that too boastful when it comes to the things that you have obtained because you would really be making other people to be that having those negative impressions towards you. This is why you should really be contented on what you
are really that getting.

[adpinbr]

We need to understand that everyone intention is to make money and must of them if they don’t have what they are looking for it makes them feel so bad and they don’t know when they start being envy and feeling bad so the must important thing is to do the right things and congratulations the person and I don’t see any point of being greedy

[Julien_Olynpic]

Never tell anyone when you hit a ticket even if the winning is 1$ because people tend to wish you bad luck by instinct and that's why it's better to keep your betting tickets for yourself alongside the winning ones and losing ones. Also , I've noticed that if you go on a public chat where people are gambling , the amount of flames and bad words you get for actually tell who you bet on it's enormous and I will never ever go on public chats where gamblers are cursing each other just because they have different outcomes for a certain game.

Yes, it's funny, but it's true: people in general don't want you to win and want you to lose. This is an interesting topic, perhaps it even deserves a separate topic - I’m talking about the fact that winning changes the behavior of other people. There is a famous study conducted by Dutch psychologists. They studied the financial behavior of neighbors of people who won the lottery. The neighbors' behavior changed significantly after this event. We don't know the subtle mechanisms of this behavior, but we need to keep it in mind.

[Su-asa]

We need to understand that everyone intention is to make money and must of them if they don’t have what they are looking for it makes them feel so bad and they don’t know when they start being envy and feeling bad so the must important thing is to do the right things and congratulations the person and I don’t see any point of being greedy

That's correct, when you are in a gambling shop and someone's close to you is losing and you are winning, the person might not be happy because he's losing and you are winning. It's more dangerous if the person is not your friend and he's not talking to you but just looking at you quietly. However to be on a safe side you that's winning should play a careful role so that you don't get into trouble with the person who's losing. But IMO I don't think that's losing should be a reason for someone to be sad against his fellow gambling neighbors, it's a lucky based game, so if you are lucky and the next neighbor is not, he should be able to know that as today is jot for him tomorrow might be.

[junder]

We need to understand that everyone intention is to make money and must of them if they don’t have what they are looking for it makes them feel so bad and they don’t know when they start being envy and feeling bad so the must important thing is to do the right things and congratulations the person and I don’t see any point of being greedy

The majority of gamblers of course have their goal to make money by gambling, but this might be a problem that can cause them difficulties. with wins that are difficult to obtain, while that desire continues to haunt them so they continue to gamble. and apart from that we have to be able to look at the surrounding environment, if the surrounding environment has a bad view of gambling then even the winnings resulting from gambling might make them give a bad response. Also, even though in our environment, for example, a lot of people gamble, when we win and other people know, it could make them jealous of the win they have gotten, because even those who gamble definitely want to win.

I've also experienced it where my friend and I gambled at the same time and with different final results, where he won while I didn't, there I did feel annoyed, but there was nothing that could be done other than accepting the reality. Even if we keep thinking about winning, it won't be able to change the situation, maybe it will only encourage us to continue gambling. and with the result that is no longer strange is defeat, when friends or other people win, don't assume we can experience the same thing, because in my opinion winning at gambling is based on luck and each person's luck is of course different.

[Jody.Drummer]

Never tell anyone when you hit a ticket even if the winning is 1$ because people tend to wish you bad luck by instinct and that's why it's better to keep your betting tickets for yourself alongside the winning ones and losing ones. Also , I've noticed that if you go on a public chat where people are gambling , the amount of flames and bad words you get for actually tell who you bet on it's enormous and I will never ever go on public chats where gamblers are cursing each other just because they have different outcomes for a certain game.

Yes, it's funny, but it's true: people in general don't want you to win and want you to lose. This is an interesting topic, perhaps it even deserves a separate topic - I’m talking about the fact that winning changes the behavior of other people. There is a famous study conducted by Dutch psychologists. They studied the financial behavior of neighbors of people who won the lottery. The neighbors' behavior changed significantly after this event. We don't know the subtle mechanisms of this behavior, but we need to keep it in mind.

Honestly I don't know why this kind of thing can happen, but honestly I also admit that scenarios like this really happen in real life and not just about winning in gambling, which is where the point is that there are some people who are really not happy with whatever we get and if there is absolutely no connection between you and that person regarding something you get then maybe we can conclude that they are someone who is jealous of what we get.

Another thing I think is a fact that money can change everything including the behavior of people, and I think it is because of the arrogant nature of some people who think that they are far superior to others, and I think it is not uncommon for us to find people who experience changes in behavior when they have a lot of money that they get from various things including winnings in their gambling involvement, although not everyone is like this but the fact is that there are always some people who experience such changes when they have a lot of money.

[jossiel]

We need to understand that everyone intention is to make money and must of them if they don’t have what they are looking for it makes them feel so bad and they don’t know when they start being envy and feeling bad so the must important thing is to do the right things and congratulations the person and I don’t see any point of being greedy

Envy is everywhere and it is sad if it's on the skin of those people that are jealous of others winning in their lives.

Even in gambling, you can't avoid looking at those situations where people don't like to see you win whether with your bet or with your life.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

We need to understand that everyone intention is to make money and must of them if they don’t have what they are looking for it makes them feel so bad and they don’t know when they start being envy and feeling bad so the must important thing is to do the right things and congratulations the person and I don’t see any point of being greedy

Envy is everywhere and it is sad if it's on the skin of those people that are jealous of others winning in their lives.

Even in gambling, you can't avoid looking at those situations where people don't like to see you win whether with your bet or with your life.

Envy and jealousy are threat that are both in man naturally, we all have this threat in us, but what happens is that, many of us learn to control it and put it behind us those who fail to gain control over this threat are the ones who instead of being happy for you winning, they get jealous and envious instead, and one thing about envy and jealousy is that, it can't really be hidden, a person who is jealous can try as much as possible to hide it, but their eyes will always give such person away.

Personally, I feel it's better to always keep our winnings to ourselves, and only share it with people who don't know us, and we also do not know, like on this forum and any other online platform out there, people who don't know you in person are more likely to not jealous or envy you when you share your winning with them,  than compared to those who are really close and sometimes, does things together with you and so on.

[decodx]

Envy and jealousy are threat that are both in man naturally, we all have this threat in us, but what happens is that, many of us learn to control it and put it behind us those who fail to gain control over this threat are the ones who instead of being happy for you winning, they get jealous and envious instead, and one thing about envy and jealousy is that, it can't really be hidden, a person who is jealous can try as much as possible to hide it, but their eyes will always give such person away.

Personally, I feel it's better to always keep our winnings to ourselves, and only share it with people who don't know us, and we also do not know, like on this forum and any other online platform out there, people who don't know you in person are more likely to not jealous or envy you when you share your winning with them,  than compared to those who are really close and sometimes, does things together with you and so on.

Haha, isn't it true?  Envy rears its ugly head even when you least expect it.  Like when you scoop a sweet pot playing cards and your bud across the table makes a face that looks like he sniffed spoiled milk!

Can't deny it, some folks struggle to handle watching others succeed.  Though that misery loves company mindset? Pretty whack way to move through life if you ask me and  real ones cheer their people's wins, even if they secretly wishing for a little luck themselves.

Guess that's why you get folks suggesting to keep the winnings on the down low, particularly around inner circles.  I see where they coming from.  A little mystery can go a long way.

[klidex]

I agree with you because by hiding it from others, they won't know anything. Even if we win, they won't come up to us and pretend to congratulate us. When we lose, they also won't ridicule us with unkind words. That will allow us to stay calm without having to think about what they will say to us. Often the response in public will make us feel like we look bad even though we are just gambling for fun. Most of them don't know how we treat gambling so they feel they can say a lot of bad things about us.

That's a good idea when your heart wants to be calm without any disturbance, it's better to hide it from other people, even your family. If we win, we can tell our family if we win and share the happiness, but if we lose, it's enough for you to know that your family doesn't need to. I know that if you lose because it will make you depressed with what your family says which might point to our mistakes. I still believe that my family if I experience victory they will be happy but if friends or other people find out I'm not sure in their hearts they will feel of jealous. We a person also don't know what's in someone's mind, usually there are always bad thoughts if they feel unlucky in their life.

We don't know about someone's heart if we are experiencing pleasure, people who have a jealous nature will wish us bad things even though we are good to them because usually the nature of people who don't want to lose always want to compete with us. Therefore it is better to hide our wins from other people to avoid prayers for people who are jealous and we can enjoy a peaceful life and enjoy our pleasures so that people who don't like us don't know about our success.

[hyudien]

Envy is everywhere and it is sad if it's on the skin of those people that are jealous of others winning in their lives.

Even in gambling, you can't avoid looking at those situations where people don't like to see you win whether with your bet or with your life.

with the goal of many gamblers being to make money, there is a possibility that feelings of envy will arise when we see our own friends win while we ourselves cannot win, but when this happens it is best not to be careless by doing things that can trigger arguments, just accept it the defeat that occurs and just accept the victory that our friend gets, because everyone's luck is different, maybe now our friend wins, but in the coming day, who knows, there will be luck for us so we can get a win that might be bigger.
Moreover, if we envy the wins that our own friends or other people have achieved, in my opinion there will be no point either. Jealousy is not only about gambling, but when we have the nature of not wanting anyone to be above us, in life. it can happen every day. It's the same with gambling, when our friends win but we don't, feelings of jealousy can arise because we ourselves can't see that other people are above us.

[FanEagle]

I feel like my wife would be, because if I win anything big, lets be honest and say that she is the one that actually won it lol. That's how gambling world of a married man goes, we end up seeing how our loss is actually our loss and we are the ones that lost the money, but if we ever end up winning then it is THEIR win, and not ours .

It is fine though, a glimpse of her smile is worth every bet and every win, seeing her be that happy when I win makes my day and that is why I enjoy it when something good happens. Doesn't mean that I am going to keep gambling forever, or maybe I would even hide some wins to pay some debts, which is quite often these days unfortunately, but still I end up sharing some of the wins so she can be happy about it.

[danherbias07]

Never tell anyone when you hit a ticket even if the winning is 1$ because people tend to wish you bad luck by instinct and that's why it's better to keep your betting tickets for yourself alongside the winning ones and losing ones. Also , I've noticed that if you go on a public chat where people are gambling , the amount of flames and bad words you get for actually tell who you bet on it's enormous and I will never ever go on public chats where gamblers are cursing each other just because they have different outcomes for a certain game.

That's just sad if people would wish you that, that just means they are not true friends at all.
But I do agree, that whenever a winner comes out, there are people who do not wish you well on your next rounds because they feel like you are better than them which sometimes is unacceptable for other people.
Before, I was sharing my winning tickets in the chatbox but now I don't do it anymore. You can see some "Congratulations" messages but there are those who will put some heat against you. When that happened to me, I stopped sharing it. That way, I won't be stressed by whatever envious words they will say and it feels better for me.
It's true, never share it especially if it is a big multiplier, some gamblers are expecting you to rain money on them after that and there are beggars who would say bad words if you won't tip them anything.

[South Park]

Envy and jealousy are threat that are both in man naturally, we all have this threat in us, but what happens is that, many of us learn to control it and put it behind us those who fail to gain control over this threat are the ones who instead of being happy for you winning, they get jealous and envious instead, and one thing about envy and jealousy is that, it can't really be hidden, a person who is jealous can try as much as possible to hide it, but their eyes will always give such person away.

Personally, I feel it's better to always keep our winnings to ourselves, and only share it with people who don't know us, and we also do not know, like on this forum and any other online platform out there, people who don't know you in person are more likely to not jealous or envy you when you share your winning with them,  than compared to those who are really close and sometimes, does things together with you and so on.

An envious personality is incredibly common, so if there is a person that obtains something a person like that does not own, instead of being happy about them and their good fortune they hope such a thing never happened, and some of them may even take action, so a generous person that is actually happy about the good luck that came your way is very rare, and since an envious person may try to make it seem as if they are not jealous about your success, it is very difficult to distinguish the two, which is why keeping your success to yourself is a good option.

[ethereumhunter]

We need to understand that everyone intention is to make money and must of them if they don’t have what they are looking for it makes them feel so bad and they don’t know when they start being envy and feeling bad so the must important thing is to do the right things and congratulations the person and I don’t see any point of being greedy

That's correct, when you are in a gambling shop and someone's close to you is losing and you are winning, the person might not be happy because he's losing and you are winning. It's more dangerous if the person is not your friend and he's not talking to you but just looking at you quietly. However to be on a safe side you that's winning should play a careful role so that you don't get into trouble with the person who's losing. But IMO I don't think that's losing should be a reason for someone to be sad against his fellow gambling neighbors, it's a lucky based game, so if you are lucky and the next neighbor is not, he should be able to know that as today is jot for him tomorrow might be.

We don't knows if someone doesn't like to see us wins and they can do many things to us. That's why if we wins, we don't have to shows to many people to avoids that bad thing that can happens to us. Many relationships ruins because of simple thing like that so we must be careful if we wants to shares our wins to other people. We don't knows what will happens if we share it to many people because some people can do bad thing using other people hands or saying bad about us. Our neighbors can be bad if they don't like us winning and their smile can change into a bad smile that can harms us. If our neighbor can accept our wins and they shows their happiness, that will be good for us because they gives real expression. We must take care of ourselves and don't just shows our wins to all people we knows.

[Slow death]

We need to understand that everyone intention is to make money and must of them if they don’t have what they are looking for it makes them feel so bad and they don’t know when they start being envy and feeling bad so the must important thing is to do the right things and congratulations the person and I don’t see any point of being greedy

the world has become a place where people live in competition with each other, even when they are people from the same family, they are competing with each other and when one member of the family is rich and the other member of the family is poor, what we see a scenario in which the rich family member is giving orders to the poor family member. and this member of the family who is poor starts to get frustrated and will look for all possible means to earn a lot of money quickly so as not to be humiliated anymore and he will be the one to humiliate the member of the family who is rich. The problem with this is that the family member who is poor worsens his living and financial condition because he makes decisions based on emotions

as he cannot bear the pressure of being humiliated, so he looks for quick ways to earn money and loses what little he had. most of the time when very poor people manage to win the lottery and become rich, they tend to change the place they live in because they want to forget everything bad about the past that they went through in that place, they go and live in a new place to start a new life. And here in my country I have seen many cases of this type, I have come to understand that these people who, when they make a lot of money, move away, are right