Being nice always bring disrespect.

[Charcol]

I think good behavior and honesty are not a problem, but rather the problem of losing or not protecting your rights while being infinitely good. Good behavior is not a weakness. We want you all to behave well. But with good behavior, you have to be aware of yourself and have self-respect. You have to be aware of those who want to take advantage of good behavior. It is not that everyone in society will take advantage of good behavior. Rather, good behavior will highlight your characteristics in society.

[Supreme Donvic]

There is a saying in my village that says that do not be too cold and do not be too hot always be in the middle so you can always jump to anyone you wish to at any time, there's no problem in being nice being nice is a very good thing because it's we return to you also but if you observe that people wants to take you for granted stop being nice immediately and conscious them if you do that you will see they will start respecting you don't allow anyone to take your niceness for granted a lot of people usually do it they take people that are nice for granted that is why I say don't be too cold and don't be too hot always been in the middle so you can jump into being cold or hot at any time base on the situation.

[Queen uloma]

am not saying that respecting or being nice to people is bad but in our society today, most times people misuse that opportunity. Just because someone is nice, respectful, Calm, and helpful people start taking the person for granted, which is very bad that is why people has stopped showing kindness in this our society like before. One thing I love myself for is that, I always set boundaries so that people won’t use my kindness for granted, and I have learnt not to trust people for my own peace of mind to avoid unnecessary drama. If you want to show kindness to  people apply wisdom. You don’t need to say yes, sometimes learn how to say no, and learn to walk away.