should i tell my wife when i win or just keep it quiet?

[r_victory]

When you're married, there's no longer "mine," but "ours," so why would you hide something like that? When you win, you both win, and when you lose, she loses too, so it's normal for her to be happy or nervous, depending on the outcome. Even if you don't say anything, if she asks, are you going to lie?

[nimogsm]

Well I don't really know what to suggest right now since you said that your wife is only interested in the wining and not the loss, though I don't really know how you feel about her but if you're this type that don't like hiding things from your partner what you will do is to tell her only when you win as for the loss you can keep it to yourself since she don't like hearing that but she's supposed to understand that wining does not come all the time, or maybe she doesn't have a clue about how gambling works which is why she's acting that way.

If you explain to your wife that gambling is a hobby or just a way to relax and that it doesn't affect the family budget, then it won't cause any problems at all. But if you get into debt and problems, then no one will like it. There should be dialogue in everything, and that way you can find a compromise. If you make a decision on your own, in most cases it will end in trouble.

[Victorybit1]

it is not right to keep such activities hidden from your spouse, if you make some profits from gambling it is very important that you should let them know about it. marriage is just beyond a man and a woman coming together it has a lot to do with partnership. if she doesn't understand what gambling is all about and how winnings don't come everytime it might be difficult to explain but you have to, it's important

[shasan]

Everyone has their own thoughts and decisions about what their partner can and cannot know, so I personally can't say "I agree/disagree" or "you're right/wrong."

If I personally, when I decided to get married, we both agreed to be open with each other, to make decisions involving both parties, and to have no privacy because it's all for our own good.

Especially regarding gambling, which could one day affect my mood, finances, and financial management, I have to tell my wife so she understands and can monitor me to prevent stress or addiction.

You are correct that everyone has privacy and everyone has his/her own opinion but it is open discussion forum and evryone here posting based on his/her life not based on others. But for me and my friends whom I know best way is not to share with our partner as it may happen something oppose at the bad timing.