Where you live dictates your life

[Royal Cap]

Yes indeed everyone has their own control, we can determine what our lives are like by not caring about the surrounding environment. In my own neighborhood, there are many adult women who work in factories because it is difficult to find a more decent job so the last choice is to work in a factory but with my sister she refused to do that because she thought she could get another job that was more decent or comfortable, as a result now she is an affiliate whose daily income is quite large and even beats her husband's salary when compared to the month.

Sometimes what we call self control is actually the result of opportunity. Your sister tried but she may have had an opportunity that not everyone else has. Many people in the same situation can't take risks even if they want to, because they are afraid that if they fail, their family won't survive, So I think not only desire, but also time, opportunity and mental preparation play a big role.

[Hewlet]

Yes indeed everyone has their own control, we can determine what our lives are like by not caring about the surrounding environment. In my own neighborhood, there are many adult women who work in factories because it is difficult to find a more decent job so the last choice is to work in a factory but with my sister she refused to do that because she thought she could get another job that was more decent or comfortable, as a result now she is an affiliate whose daily income is quite large and even beats her husband's salary when compared to the month.

Sometimes what we call self control is actually the result of opportunity. Your sister tried but she may have had an opportunity that not everyone else has. Many people in the same situation can't take risks even if they want to, because they are afraid that if they fail, their family won't survive, So I think not only desire, but also time, opportunity and mental preparation play a big role.

I mean, we can not judge others based on what played out with the decision of a single person. if you are resident in an area that has an industry that is thriving well, chances are high that anyone that is resident in such an environment will will want to build his or her career around that sector. with that, deciding to go into something different from the conventional thing every one is doing might mean an higher risk and so anyone that is taking that level of risk should be someone that is ready push above the ordinary.

As much as where you leave has influence on you, you have the final say in what becomes of your life per time because you have been given free will by the creator of the world to determine what direction your life should be headed.

[Roseline492]

Yes indeed everyone has their own control, we can determine what our lives are like by not caring about the surrounding environment. In my own neighborhood, there are many adult women who work in factories because it is difficult to find a more decent job so the last choice is to work in a factory but with my sister she refused to do that because she thought she could get another job that was more decent or comfortable, as a result now she is an affiliate whose daily income is quite large and even beats her husband's salary when compared to the month.

Living within the surrounding doesn't mean is what determines everybody within there because opportunity come from preparation, someone must actually say what they want to with determination regardless of the surrounding because I could use your sister case of study to illustrate what it could be because if she had joined everyone who thought they cannot go above the factory she might have not gotten the courage to leave there. So actually were a person stay doesn't dictate but it only influence the person because of people living around to discourage and implore the person to all manner of things.

[silpersurfer]

It is true that the environment has a significant influence on our lives and future, but I think this all comes back to ourselves, as you said, we can't choose where we were born and we also can't blame God for why we were born in a less than ideal environment. I think when we have strong life principles, no matter how bad the environment around us, it won't affect our lives and future hopes. We see that beautiful lotus flowers emerge from mud, and a proverb says that fish in the ocean don't become salty, even if they live in a salty place. In other words, when these principles live within us and in every step we take, then no matter how bad the environment, it won't affect us. Try to think positively and think positively about God, perhaps we were born in that less than ideal environment, even if we're not a prophet, perhaps we were destined to be able to improve that environment. A pearl is still a pearl, even if it's in dirty soil.

[Cheema02]

Yes indeed everyone has their own control, we can determine what our lives are like by not caring about the surrounding environment. In my own neighborhood, there are many adult women who work in factories because it is difficult to find a more decent job so the last choice is to work in a factory but with my sister she refused to do that because she thought she could get another job that was more decent or comfortable, as a result now she is an affiliate whose daily income is quite large and even beats her husband's salary when compared to the month.

Your point highlights the importantance of mindset for successful outcomes in life. As we know the environment around us shows our personality but it doesn't shows our potential and no one can pridect our future according our circle. As we seen many people choose to work in factories as source of income and this way is acceptable because its common resource of earning around the world but your sister choose a different track she wants to get job in a field where her skills actually interpret and obviously its the most comfortable source of income for because its meets according to her desires and skills. And through this way earns even more than her husband because he don't pick the way which is easily available but he find the way which actually according to her skills wher he could work more potentially. So the learning point is that we should believe in our qualities and find the best way which meets our abilities and trying to something new.

[junder]

Sometimes what we call self control is actually the result of opportunity. Your sister tried but she may have had an opportunity that not everyone else has. Many people in the same situation can't take risks even if they want to, because they are afraid that if they fail, their family won't survive, So I think not only desire, but also time, opportunity and mental preparation play a big role.

And I conclude that if we have a belief that has a positive goal or can lead to something better, then it is not wrong to do it, even if it is said to be risky, it is not a bad thing. That is what I conclude from my sister's case.

But in this case, of course, what you have lost is true. Mental strength is indeed quite important and plays a significant role, because achieving results that can make us sufficiently satisfied is certainly not easy. There will be obstacles that arise, and this is where mental strength is tested.

[abhiseshakana]

Sometimes what we call self control is actually the result of opportunity. Your sister tried but she may have had an opportunity that not everyone else has. Many people in the same situation can't take risks even if they want to, because they are afraid that if they fail, their family won't survive, So I think not only desire, but also time, opportunity and mental preparation play a big role.

And I conclude that if we have a belief that has a positive goal or can lead to something better, then it is not wrong to do it, even if it is said to be risky, it is not a bad thing. That is what I conclude from my sister's case.

But in this case, of course, what you have lost is true. Mental strength is indeed quite important and plays a significant role, because achieving results that can make us sufficiently satisfied is certainly not easy. There will be obstacles that arise, and this is where mental strength is tested.

I think in your sister case, we can conclude that environment only present collection of probability such as job opportunity, wages, living cost, education & health access, sucurity and social guarantee, the result from processing opportunity choice is depend on each personal character. But what we often forget, environtment give big influence on how we describe "a normal life", how we define success & fail, pressure tolerance level and decision making pattern. Example, in consumtive environtment, debt is something normal, overshopping is previledge not showing bad financial literacy. Strong personal character and internal system can protect us from environment bad influence, system mean good habit not temporary motivation, when we have good habit, we have our own value and not normalize something bad in our environment common practice. Not all local norm is healthy and not all social habit, we must follow. Its mean we have control in our life without avoid our environment.

[atookz]

I support the fact that the location of a person plays a significant role in life, including employment or welfare. To take an example, an environment where there are job creation opportunities does give a lot of development opportunity. However, it is not the only aspect that defines the life of a person. The cost of living, education and social support is also another factor that can be considered to be many. The reason is that you can still decide where to go in life even in places with little opportunities provided you are motivated, skilled and putting efforts by yourself. The environment and the individual working hard is still the combination of success in life but the choice of place to live remains important.