I have heard from some around that if you actually need help you should not try to overdress or dress in a manner that looks like you do not need help so that people who can actually help you financially or with opportunities do not believe that you do not need your help based on you are good looking and put together already, but I am of the opinion that you should actually dress properly so that you would be approachable or be able to approach individuals who are in a position to be able to help you and they would help you probably without looking down on you. What is your opinion on this, still dressing up when you need help or dressing like the help you need?
I would start by saying, we all need help and the kind of help we attract might be largely based on how we present ourselves out there.
Of course, you might dress in a certain way that makes it look as though, you are all put together and doing just fine while in the real sense, you need some tending and aids.
There is a way you would dress and seeing how you are not so put together, some truly compassionate individual might be moved to give you a hand.
However, it is important to note that, the way you present might attract the kind of help that you might not actually need, by that I mean a more temporal solution to a permanent problem. You don’t get your issues solved that way but then, you can be well put together and do what’s actually needed by seeking the help, other with some qualities that you are deserving of a chance and wouldn’t waste it once aided.
That’s a much more better way than trying to look like the situation. No point rubbing it in everyone else’s faces, it doesn’t sound about right.