I found out some very bad news in the family

[pekv2]

Note: This is not a gratitude/donation thread.

I was just notified.

He is 7 y/o. When my nephew had his tumor, and had it removed it. The tumor has caused a disease in him, Violent tendencies. He has gone after his brother with a butcher knife, scissors, choking the dogs and killing hamsters. He has had a legal evaluation. He is having another one in 3 months, and if it is the same or worse, he his gonna be put into an mental institution.

This is fucked up at the most. I am furious and sad that I cannot do a goshdamn thing about it.

[AndrewBUD]

No drugs available?

[pekv2]

No drugs available?

Hmm, I don't know, I will mention this to my sister and see what she has to say about if they had mentioned anything about medicine, I have a theory though, if we lived in cali, I bet small amounts of cannabis would benefit, but by permission of a doctor and parent "my sister". I want to take him into my care, I believe I can help but I have family members living with me and they are afraid he will burn the house down or even worse, I am up a lot, I barely sleep except when I do my partially part time job. I'm waiting to talk to my sister about the entire situation, I will argue to get my nephew here. Fuk mental institutions, especially for a 7 y/o child. There is no way I will accept this nor will I go down with my tail between my legs. But what is screwed up, it's in the hands of the state now as it has already been reported, I wanted him her for three months to try to better him. By doing lots and lots of outside activity, wear him tired, keep him busy etc, do my best. That's my blood, and I will not allow it and could not stand to see it happen.

I have no trust in a mental institution, especially for a 7 y/o child.

[AndrewBUD]

I don't have trust in any "institution"


Weed seems to offer a lot of help in some cases.. Poor kids mind is probably going a million miles a minute... 

[pekv2]

I don't have trust in any "institution"


Weed seems to offer a lot of help in some cases.. Poor kids mind is probably going a million miles a minute...  

Note: I consider it as Cannabis in this case because he would not be smoking it but by digesting the cannabinoids, in a liquid form.

Edit:
Imo, everyone needs to step in their voting actions against the govt to legalize Cannabis. I've done my part many times already and still do.

[pekv2]

We "my family and I" need to take it one day at a time. But I will update this thread with any new news about the situation.

[pekv2]

I don't have trust in any "institution"


Poor kids mind is probably going a million miles a minute... 

I also, fully agree with you. In both cases but with plus more besides his mind going million miles a minute.

[AndrewBUD]

Well you could do marijuana oil capsules with some sort of Fat to go along with it...

[pekv2]

Well you could do marijuana oil capsules with some sort of Fat to go along with it...

Yea, thing is, neither of us live in cali/Colorado, this is one of the reasons I have so much hatred over the US govt, they have more stupidity than I do.

[AndrewBUD]

It's not illegal unless you get caught

[pekv2]

It's not illegal unless you get caught

nah. not worth it, they will be taking blood samples then she would have both kids removed from her arms, that's why I stated approved by a doctor and her in cali/colorado and then the state/federal cannot do a damn thing about it. But yea. Won't happen cuz it's "illegal" in her state and mine.

[AndrewBUD]

Yeah the laws on marijuana are a bit of a joke..... They have all these "people killing" drugs and their putting this much focus on a harmless plant.....

[pekv2]

Yeah the laws on marijuana are a bit of a joke..... They have all these "people killing" drugs and their putting this much focus on a harmless plant.....

Agreed. Ridiculous. Cannabis does help too many ways to list actually. It's the greed of the govt's income, coming from pharmaceutical company's, that's the stupidity behind the govt. But they ignore to see the how much income they may have come in by legalizing. In the end, ppl/kids suffer like my nephew.

First time I seen my nephew in a few months was little bit after his brain surgery, man, I could not let him go out of my arms. lol

[AndrewBUD]

That's tough.... I could imagine... My son has been in and out of the hospital a few times in his life..... about a year ago he was diagnosed type 1 diabetic..... he'll be two in August....

[Bitcoin Oz]

Maybe silk road coud help you ?

This situation really sucks and I know as a parent what your nephew's parents would be going through. Is there any chance they would move to california ?

[AndrewBUD]

^ I don't think it's the getting the "meds" part.. It's the whole stigma with it being "illegal"

[pekv2]

Maybe silk road coud help you ?

This situation really sucks and I know as a parent what your nephew's parents would be going through. Is there any chance they would move to california ?

I was hoping that name would not pop up in here. Sorry, I will ignore any suggestions about sr in this thread.

Yes, as much as it is, with her back deteriorating, the tumor when she found out, then the brain surgery, and now the violent tendencies, it is putting a beating on her mind. I've got a few friends calling her and chatting with her as she moved away from her home state, for support.

I doubt it, her fiancee is locked into a contract for truck driving atm for I believe two years. And where they live, he, her fiancee, has family where they are. I don't know if he'd approve but i would not be happy if he disproved if she wanted to move, but more than likely, I've known the guy since 1997 or 96, he's cool as hell, he would approve because it's care for the child.

It is, it's a very horrible situation. I don't know how she does it 24/7 around the clock ever since her back started to deteriorate upto now.
 But they say, women are far more stronger than men, in the mind. I think above proves it.

[pekv2]

That's tough.... I could imagine... My son has been in and out of the hospital a few times in his life..... about a year ago he was diagnosed type 1 diabetic..... he'll be two in August....

Oh omy. That's just terrible, man. How is he doing now? Kicking it out? < meaning doing ok.

[Clipse]

Just to pitch in here with a suggestion.

There is mental instituations and treatment facilities.

Mental instituations -> STAY AWAY, FAR AWAY. (usually government run)

Treatment Facilities -> Can actually be his best possible option, very expensive in most cases. (usually privately run)

If her son's case is terminal then I would suggest simply moving him to wherever he can get the best care since no facility would at all help him however if his case isnt terminal and can improve or even get cured then at all cost you should consult whatever top rated Treatment facility you can get him to.

I know it allways seem better and in most case is better, to keep a "sick" person under your wing but in some cases its actually way worse specially at a young age do take that route. Not all medical practices dealing with the mentally ill is out to turn them into "Frankensteins love child" and there is many privately run treatment facilities who do care about the patient and try their best to improve their conditions so they can live a full adult life eventually.

[pekv2]

Just to pitch in here with a suggestion.

There is mental instituations and treatment facilities.

Mental instituations -> STAY AWAY, FAR AWAY. (usually government run)

Treatment Facilities -> Can actually be his best possible option, very expensive in most cases. (usually privately run)

If her son's case is terminal then I would suggest simply moving him to wherever he can get the best care since no facility would at all help him however if his case isnt terminal and can improve or even get cured then at all cost you should consult whatever top rated Treatment facility you can get him to.

I know it allways seem better and in most case is better, to keep a "sick" person under your wing but in some cases its actually way worse specially at a young age do take that route. Not all medical practices dealing with the mentally ill is out to turn them into "Frankensteins love child" and there is many privately run treatment facilities who do care about the patient and try their best to improve their conditions so they can live a full adult life eventually.

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