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Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

Do you think they're still true friends knowing that they involved your parents? Wake up dude! I also have bully friends but they never involved my family in such things because its too personal.

True friends will not bluff, do not let yourself be lowered, you have pride then become a great person without degrading and disturbing others.

If that is a joke then accept the joke unless you also dont give a joke about them. Bullying is just normal for a close friends but one the bullying becomes severe then you should decide as soon as possible before it gets worse

It is worse right now. This happens to me everyday but I kept ignoring them by just laughing but the real thing is it hurts so much that they don't even know.

Are you being emotionally hurt or are they also trying to hurt you physically as well? Then i guess you should have to isolate your self and separate from them. You know what mate if you are living in those persons that doesnt make you feel happy and contented at life then you should find another one. I also has a few friends in my  circle because i only choose the ones that are best for me but it also doesnt mean that i wont be interacting with them

I don't really even know it right now, I kept on thinking what should I do now. Another thing is they are my group mates on thesis.

Tell you're friends how you feel about their behavior, maybe they don't see it.
Real friends will stop with their bullying when you tell them.
Otherwise, I'm sorry to say this but you should find new friends.

You need new friends. Real friends back each other Up, they do not bully each other. An occasional burn is normal, but when it gets personal and it hurts it is for sure not a thing among friends. Hey do not think twice about getting new friends, it should be a goal of yours. To meet as many people as you can.  I am sure that you will meet far better people down the road.

Emotionally hurt only, I feel happy with them but not that contented. Thanks for your advice, I will think of it.

I will try telling them. Thanks mate

Well i have an idea why not try to confront them that you are being emotionally hurt and tries to ask them if they can stop it. If they dont then move on but if they do fhen they really are your true friends because they dont understand your feelings

Good luck buddy!
I hope they will understand you.

1st I thought you were underage (mentioned parents) then I seen thesis so I hope you really mean thesis as in college?

The poster above gave you true advice.  Friends don't hurt friends.  But, it's best to let them know how you feel.  IF it stops great.  IF not yeah those aren't your friends and cut out while you can.

I have 1000 acquaintances, but only a few I call friends. Sorry you felt so bad to post this.  Good luck with sorting this out and maybe finding new friends  :D as well as your thesis!

Very Good to see that you are reaching out. You do realize that a lot of the biggest men in history were bullied in some way. Remove these chump from your life and keep on pushing thru!

They are your so called true friends right? So you must know if they are joking or if they mean it. If they are just joking and it hurts your feelings, since they are your true friends you can tell them to stop. Tell them the truth. But if you think they mean it, then its for you to decide whether you let them doing it to you or let the friendship over.

Well I used to bully my friends through jokes but never really involves their parents .
As a friend they should know their limits and they should really think about their jokes I mean yeah I bully some of my friends but I think it is a different kind of things, I mean even the ones that I used to joke is also laughing about it and it doesn't really hurt him because he also knows that it is just a joke.

It is good to know your limits. But why bully at all? That is my question. I was never bullied or bullied others, but so my little brother being bullied and it hurted more that fi I was bullied myself

True friends don't do those things, there's a difference between jokes and bullying. Just tell them to stop, tell them you don't like how they're being to you (I don't know if you already did that but you need to tell to them how you are feeling). If they are your "true friends" they'll understand and stop being jerks. If not, well surprise they're not true friends at all... Not so difficult to realize when people understimate you lol unless you think you deserve that (but believe me, no one does)

They are not your friends, just stop talking to them, get new friends.

How can you ever consider him a friend? I think the problem starts with you, you better analyze things better and take a wise decision.

You need some milk if you're crying over this.

In my opinion, this is just normal hmm just be strong and take the risk too, don't let yourself be the dog of your group. Unleash your strength and do the same. But im not encouraging you to be the bad guy, im just saying that don't be a weak person. If you think, they are your true friends then open up, if they understand you and stop it they are your true friends but if they continue that, i think you must find your real friends.

PS: Know their limits

Have you ever tried to fight, maybe you have never tried for fear, sometimes violence is not necessary in violent opponents, they are so because they are immature and feel themselves the greatest, when they are coward if one on one. Stay patient.

Sometimes having a friend makes the bully away, but in some cases the bully is one will be your true friend, like my experience i have a classmate who bullied me all the time but when exam he always talking to me until we became friend until 5years and counting.

Bro I want you to remember this one thing. REAL FRIENDS DON'T HURT YOU FOR NO REASON. So if you thing that what they are doing to you doesn't make sense then leave them immediately, they are not your real friends. Back in my day, when someone bullies me I always fight back. If they hurt you, hurt them back harder.

If you think you can't handle them, seek help from your parents. Your parents will know how to handle it properly.

I strongly agree with what you said. Having a new friend will take care of your problem. Look for a new and real friend who will be there by your side to protect you. Real friends protect each other. Make a lot of new friends so that no one can dare mess with you anymore.

I agree, so his bones will get stronger so that it won't break when he beats them all up

Bullying has been a great problem not just here in my country but in the whole world. I am sadden whenever I heard or read a news regarding bullying and how young people are involved in doing it. Aside from physical bullying, what I think is more depressing is the cyber bullying because it has this effect on you that you will think always that people all over the world will talk about you and will start to bully you. That's why there are some cases that cyber bullied people tend to commit suicide and does facebook live while doing it.

You need to talk to them about what you don't like and what you want them to avoid doing. If they say or do things that you don't like you need to let them know that they are doing so, as they may not be realizing that themselves. Furthermore, if even after you tell them that you do not like what they are doing seriously they still keep doing it, perhaps they aren't as true friends you thought they might have been. Time to start looking for others once more.

Some people change, others don't.

In our generation the definition of true friendship has been changed. Before, true friends has been described who always at your side continually support you no matter what and they are not saying bad things to you but if you observed our generation now we can describe a true friend whose been there to bully you but still they love you and it is there way ton showing they're love to you. I myself also experience that kind of bully but when I face failures in life they've been there to support me to continue my dreams in life. They are my true friends. True friends telling the truth even it hurts with your part.

As what others have said, they are not your friends. Why aren't you fighting back? Back in the days, when I was like 6-7 years old, I was also bullied. But you know what? I fight back they are verbally abusing me, but I fight back physically. Those bullies stop. HaHaHa. But there are still some who will try and attempted to bully me, but they will get the same response from me. So from then on, bullies are afraid of me, because they will always got a black eye or bleeding nose from me, I fuck them hard, really hard. Funny thing is when we grow up, some of them become my best friends.

I think you should get rid of them. Because true friend will not do that specially involving your parents and hurt your feelings. Tell them to stop, if not then If I were you, I'm going to fight back with my fist and tell them to back off.

Sometimes these relationships evidence that the relationships go beyond friendship. If OP girl then maybe this is the case. In any case, you have language and you have to decide this issue. No one will help you.

A true friend will never hurt their fried and even throw a below the belt words. I think you are the one who keep on hanging out with them while they are throwing you away from them. You deserve better and their is a lot of possible good friends out there. Don't stay on the situation that always give you a bad effect.

how exactly are you still friends with these people? making fun of each other is one thing and bullying are two different things. if you really believe them to be lightly kidding around, and that they are good friends, then they'll understand your feelings.
bitter reality newsflash- they probably don't give a damn about your emotions. Bullies are shallow cowardly creatures who put on a tough act, mostly without actual substance, who are best ignored and cut out from one's life

You need to find a better way to feed their deficient ego and insecurities  ;D

They are not your friends if they mess up with your family men, get rid of those jackass and if they ever mess with your parents again get them teeths out!

If they are truly your friends they  won't bully you rather they would fight for you. True friends are like family who protect each other against any adversary. They are loyal beyond any length and won't do anything to hurt each other. What they are, are just acquaintances and nothing more because they put their feelings of pleasure above your feeling of pain. Don't also forget, nobody is irreplaceable in anyone's life.

I just want to know how old you are ?
If you still under 15+ I think it's still very normal Because we know it is just a joke of fellow youngsters .
but if you But if you are a teenager You should be able to take courage to fight

bullying is a big problem among youngster, if they are your true friends, you should tell them honestly how you feel.

If they're bullying you, how are you still calling them friends? How long have you known them? Have they always been this with you?

Coz from what I saw, at least on the first page, you are either a bit sensitive or they really are abusive. Talk to them about this. If they're true friends, they will change how they treat you. If not, then be prepared to dump them.

It is normal to get silly sometimes when you are with your friends and bullying is part of it but to involved your parents and your love ones is a different story. If they are your true friends then I think they should be sensitive enough that you are hurt and below the belt. Tell your friends the truth about how you feel with they are you doing to you if they are real then they will stop and apologies but if they will keep doing it then better look for another set of friends.

Getting silly and bullying are two different things. Is it really normal when you are with your friends?
If you talk about something and make a joke to make fun of a friend or point out his mistake it's joking around, completely normal at times, but if you constantly talk about him like he's the worst kind and make fun of him on every occasion, that's bullying. I'd have to see how they're treating OP to know how serious it is, but if my friends were making me feel like shit all the time, I'd stop seeing them.

I think those friends that you said is not a true friend because true friends dont bully each other they are the ones helping each other to become a better person. Although there is a lot of teasing but it will not extend to the point that they will involve family matters such as parents. So better forget about them because they are not real friends.

if they are really your peeps, you can tell them how you feel about them teasing you. you can always find more friends dude; if these friends are false, they werent really your friends in the first place. i dont believe in bringing peoples relations into teasing, this is how you get shot in some Black circles. Ya'll should have limits on what you can joke on; once you do that, everything else is fair game :)

and teasing is a two way street. if they say some biting shit, bite back ;) if they bitch up, they were hypocrites. dont dish if you cant take; thats bro code thats time tested (im assuming you are a bro).

also, fuck those dudes. chase some hot tail. all that bro shit goes out the window when females come into play :D

if they were truly your friends then you shouldn't even have reached here...
LEAVE THEM!!!!

If they're bullying you to the extent that you can't take it then they're not your true friends. Well, I sometimes bully my friends but I also consider how they feel. I think you should let them know that you're not having fun when they're bullying you and that they're over doing it. If they'll not stop well you should walk away from them.

If you can't take their jokes seriously you should let them know. I sometimes do that to my friends, but if they don't like my jokes then I stop. How will they stop if they think what they're doing is just okay for you. Let them be aware of how you feel. If they still don't stop, then that means they don't see you as their friend.

If you are a true friend of them you should get along with them and just laugh it out then after their finish it's your turn to bully them. Cause showing that your easily to get hurt makes them want to bully to you even more you need to fight back and show them you are strong that they dont want to bully you no more. This world is to cruel and you will live the most of your life in pain and suffering, you might not survive in this world if you're weak and innocent learn to fight and be strong. Im sure they will stop when you fight back and not cry like a baby.

I think if bullying reached the point that they are insulting not you but also your parents, it should be addressed to your leader or whoever is in charge of guidance. It is an abuse. I think there is anti-bullying law today.
It can affect the bullied person's self confidence and the psychological effect is not good.
If a person is strong enough to handle and accept it, then there is no problem.
But for a child, it is not good.
You cannot just told them to stop bullying, they will just laugh at you.
Report them, its abuse.

i believe in some country there was a law for bullying,and included a crime,bullying sometime is good for people,they need bullying to create their self defence,so they will more confident in future if they passes all bullying phase. but i also think that not all people or child have good self defence,some of they need help to out from bullying,i think the best way is said this to your parents or close friends and fa,ily to help solve this problem.

They are not your true friend, if they are really your true friend they are the ones who will protect you from bullying and not to start bullied you.
If they are really your friends they are the ones who will protect you and not to get hurt.
If they are your friends they will love you, and if they love you, they will not bully you.

It's normal for friends to bully their friends, but if you think that what they're doing is too much, I think it's better if you tell them. I think they're doing it for fun and they think that you're also enjoying it. You should just let them know that you're not happy with what they're doing. Let your friends know.

Bullying is really a fundamental thing that should be frown at and fought together by the friends of the victim and not that the friends will be the one perpetuating the such unacceptable acts in the case of OP and I cannot agree any less with others that have concluded that they are really not your friends and someone who has faced such scenerio before, I tell you, you can live without them just start maintaining your distance gradually from them and start building your self confidence and before you know it, you are totally free from them.

if you tell them how you feel and they continue to do it or don't see the problem, get yourself some new buddies. i've got no tolerance for allowing people into my life who pull stuff like that.

Bullying is one of them. Who would have thought, there are people who are willing to end his life because of bully. Terrible is not it? But do not worry, all problems always have a solution, as well as with bullying ..

Bullying problem is a serious problem. Maybe he/she really bullied by his/her friends. It's worse to be bullied by your own friends. It's hurts more because they are the one you trusted.

It is part of society that you have to deal with. Well, friends actually making fun on each other but if it's too much you should try to find a new friends. If you don't want to leave them. Atleast try to fight back by screwing them too. Make fun of them like what they are doing on you.

Honestly I'm not yet bullied but some of my friends already experienced it and I'm the one who guilty about them because I did not do anything to protect them. Even me, I'm afraid of being bully. I feel that I'm not their friends because if they got being bullied by someone, I just stared at them. The only thing that I can help to my friends is to provide them comfort and give them advice so that they have still their self confidence.

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Yeah, they are a lot of people that is better than your friends, if they are really your friends, there are not going to bully you instead they are the ones that will push you to the top and not to pull you down.

True friends dont bully eachother. It's time that you sever your ties with them and look for other peers that wont do the same as they did to you. If you want, you can confront them about the issue, address your teacher about the problem or transfer to another school. bullying is a serious problem and can worsen if not given immediate action. Its a fight or flight situation and it all depends on your decision.

It's normal for friends to bully their friends but if it's too much it's not okay. If they're your real friend they shouldn't be over doing it to the extent that you're hurting. There's a lot of people out there you can find other friends. Tell them how you feel about what they are doing and from there, you should decide whether if they're worth keeping or not.

Why would you want to get rid of your true friends even if they are bullies, thy best choice of action is to advise them to stop bullying other people which is not a very nice thing to do, most victims of bullying end up taking their own lives which is not good at all.

Tell them to stop what they are doing. True friends don't bully their friends. You can find other friends, there's a lot of people around you.

To if they are really your true friends I don't believe they will insult you and your parents. But you need to let them know that if it is a play they should stop it, for you are not comfortable with such play and that henceforth you will not take it likely with any of them. With such warning they will adjust the and manner they talk to you and about your parents.

Don't feed the bull and take some actions.

It's normal to have banters with friends that can be touchy sometimes but if it's on a regular basis that they put you down, then it could be something else. Are you sure they are your friends? I've seen setups like this before, a group of friends that have someone lower the hierarchy tagging along as some sort of errand boy.

Friendship is between equals, if they treat you like shit, maybe you shouldn't be friends with them after all. Talk to them first though, and tell them the way they are treating you hurts your feelings. If it doesn't stop, then leave them. Better to be friendless than be a bunch of jerks' doormat.

How that may happen?If someone is bullying you is not your friend,and a friend of you is not to bully in you.Inform your parents,your teacher,or someone you can trust and try not to be afraid.These kind of people exploit people that are be afraid and in the reality they may be afraid and shaked down from other people.

I feel you men if you think they are your true friend I say no. I will tell you this TRUE FRIENDS WILL KNOW THERE BOUNDARIES limition on joking. Please tell them/talk with them to stop dont be afraid to tell to or rather yet if you dont want to talk to them about your issue with them find another group of friends. My friends today they may joke but they know when to stop and know when they are hurting feelings of another that why I love them I may have only 1 friend that is really close I treat him as brother and same as with girl friends.

Tip. Dont be silent speak for they will stop or find another group of friends

You notice that I have 2 options will lets say thats how a 2 different person would do and its up to you if you will do my opinion.

If they involve your parents, or you are the only guy they bully, you must consider the possibility of them not being true friends. Also, I am guessing that you are a young folk. I had bullies at your age, not my friends though. What I did to get rid of the is get to a gym and build a body. Bullies will bully you only if you appear weaker than them. Working out will eliminate that and make your confidence and toughness rise. You will also make you look tougher thus it will be easier for you to talk back.

Also have you tried it? I mean talking back? If your friends are real friends and you address your issues to them about you not being ok with that, they will stop. If they have not, you might consider getting new friends.

First of all you need to wake up as they are not your true friends. You should boycott them and need to Move On.

True friends would be sensitive enough about what jokes to break. They should be aware that they're already hurting your feelings. I don't think any true friend would do that to someone they also consider as their friend. I think you have to rethink if they really are your friends at all. Bullies need to be talked to. If you can't directly to them about it or they won't listen to you, i think it would be better if you ask for assistance from family members or people who can do something.

How can you still friends with if they still bully you?
I used to have friends like that too - well bullying or teasing in friendship is normal but if their bullying affects your personal emotions this has to stop.
Don't be afraid to show them that you are hurting and get mad. If they're even your true friends they will understand.

My advise to you is to be strong. Don't let them do that to you. Tell what you want to say to them when they're bullying you. It's ok to be angry or upset, its a natural response to unpleasant situation. Just choose the words that will not upset them but instead enlighten them from what they're doing. If you can't do that then seek people who will truly help you those whom you truly trust. Tell them what's been going on with you and let them do what you can't do

In my opinion a true friend will not intentionally bullying his friend. True friend is a friend who can always put himself in whatever circumstances his friend, share the joy or sorrow.
I never agree on bullying someone, because of the many bad effects of bullying, which result in the psychological collapse of the victim to the worst can lead to suicide.

The kids that are bullied are showing themselves as weak. in the future, try acting tough and with the current situation just show them some teeth and fight them back. Just standing and taking it all will make them bully you even more because they know you won't be fighting back.

You call that true friends? If that so, then its a serious matter by involving your parents. I think it would be good if you talk to them and be strong to say that "we are all friends, and friends just joke around not totally bully someone like me". and ask them if they got a problem with you, and see if you still wants to be friends with them

Same as you It also happen in my childhood days, almost every day my friends bully me even though I am not doing anything to them. Telling them to stop doing it is not that easy instead they are happy doing it. Try to not talk to them then maybe they will realize that they are doing a wrong thing. True friends are supposed to be the one who are not hurts your feelings. Sometimes crying is not bad at all but make sure that after it you already move on and face the reality that friends are easy to find but true friends can’t.

Nowadays bully is one of the reason why many teenagers did not want to attend in their school anymore. Because they are afraid of being bullied by their classmates. Instead of going to school, they will just stay in their room and they want to be lonely. That is the effect of being bullied. That issue is the real problem and the case of it is continuously rising up.

,just to tell you the truth, true friends or your bestfriends actually knows a lot about you, if that bullying is already hurting you tell them the truth, you can't ignore them and besides you can't remove them from your life just tell them about how you feel. There is no one else that can do that aside from you, aside from that they are your friends so i am sure they will understand and acknowledge your feelings. Even if you are friends you still have some self respect

bully are not your friends your judgment of friends is wrong make stupid and honest friends

I remember my friend when I'm in the middle school. He learned how to fight back to the one who bullied him. Since then he is not being bullied again. This kind of issue is bothering to the society now because it has a lot of negative effects specially to the teenagers. They will have insufficient self confidence because of it.

If they are your true friends they will not bully you too much. They would know their limitation.Friends make fun of each other but not in the sense that they will hurt each others feelings. If they will say mean things or bad things about they, they should do it with love, thinking of how you will accept it. They should still consider your feelings.

Here's the thing they can't bully you if you didn't give them a sh*t to bully you. You get what i mean? They are bullying you and CONSTANTLY bullying you because YOU LET THEM. You give them permission to do so.

Piece of advice, talk to them. Maybe they are just insensitive individuals who like to pick on someone who they know they can.
If they cant stop doing it, PLS LEAVE THEM! They are not worth your time and self anyway. Give yourself respect at least. Thing that they dont have in their self. I hate bullies I really do.

I think that they aren't really your friends , because the best friend will never hurt you or hurt your family , you should leave them from the fact that they have bullying you

You need to fight for yourselves. And make no mistake. Bullies can never be your friends. You need to think about the long term impact these people are going to have on your life and you need to take steps to avoid them.

If I were you I would use my fist to teach them, you should think about the real friends will not be so to you, they do not respect you and your parents, as soon as possible away from them.

I hope I'm not missing anything important by not reading the whole thread.

This could be an opportunety to toughen up. Bullies target people who tend to not fight back. Even if someone is weak but still fights back even for a double loss the bullies lose interest.

If they make fun of you they are likely insecure themselves. Find out what they are insecure about in life and call them out on that. Make labels for these people when you refer to them in conversations with other people, by calling them "that liar" or "metrosexual loser" or "that loser who has to bully people" like how Donald Trump used labels for his opponents during the election. Then they probably won't want to talk to you at all after that but that's not a bad thing.

Friends do bully each other in a way that they don't hurt each others feelings. A real friend knows when to stop, and knows how to apologize if they said something that aren't that good.

Try to fight back, there's nothing wrong if you want to defend your pride and family. Step up, so that your so called true friends set limitations in terms of teasing you or something. If you don't do anything about it, this same scenario could occur again but this time it is much worse. Getting rid of a friend is really hard, but if it is for your own good then leave that group. It's not your loss actually, since that type of group you have right now will hinder you to grow as a person. If you leave now, more doors will open in front of you. More opportunities will come and that decision my friend would let your mind and soul be free from hatred, anger and self pity.

Don't let them to break you down! Have courage to stand and fight for yourself!

In our childhood days, most of us were bullied like me when I'm in my grade school. Straight grade one (1) to grade six (6) almost everyday i got bully. Sometimes i think i want to quit studying so i will be bully and i will not see those bully persons everyday. But no I dont give up I just show them that I am ignoring them and i don't care to what they say because I think this is the only way I can do maybe you try it. If you ignore them they will get tired of bullying you then they will stop.
You say they are your true friends? But they include your parents?
ARE THEY REALLY YOUR TRUE FRIENDS ? WHAT MAKES THEM YOUR TRUE FRIENDS IF THEY INCLUDE YOUR PARENTS? It is normal that your TRUE FRIENDS bully you but they should not include your parents.

Talk to them personally and tell them what you really feels inside. It's hard to work on a group project if you have discomfort or hard feelings to other members. Conflicts may exist in your decision making regarding to your thesis because the decision is not unanimous. In order to prevent that from happening, you should open up with them, tell them everything, ask them what they want and what they really after. If they stop it then its okay, but if they ignore everything you say then its time for you to decide whether to stick with them or ask your professor to let you join other group. Good luck bro!

Tell your friends that you're not feeling good with what they're doing. True friends treat each other nice. It's ok to joke around sometimes but if it's too much and you're hurting someone it should be stopped. I'm sure you can find more friends, done hold on to someone who doesn't treat you well.

Ask yourself first if your friends are your truly friend because if they are your friend they will help you and support you in everything that you do.If you want to get rid or escape to your friend because they are bullying you call for help like, teachers, family or your sister or brothers, there is also an act of anti bullying which can warned your friend to stop bullying you.

Well i guess if they are truly you friends, if you talk to them and tell them that they are hurting your feelings they will stop. If they do not do that... well than they are not your friends at all. In that case say bye to them, and find other people who will be your true friends. I guess that it sounds hard to find good friends and it is, but it is not impossible. Good luck.

Your true friends will not harm you verbally or physically, if you still think that they are your friends then go and talk with them, if they dont listen, leave them find a new friends, a friend that gave a bad influence to you is not worth to be called as friend, if you keep on going be friend with them it is going to affect your psychology and your mental health and also your self esteem

Actually the one who can bully you that hard are your true friends.  Better if you will tell then that they were bullying or their jokes were too much for you.  You should not be ashamed of telling them your feelings a you said they were your true friends.  Be true to them or set boundaries.  Talking or making fun with family is absolutely unpleasant.

If they are your true friends they will include your parents nor family with their bullying.
They are not true friends if they are hurting you, report it to your school principal for proper action.
And if they want some counselling too.

In fact the problem of bully is a problem that means severe in the community even some who have died because of this problem. Who do this bully actually should also know what if they are in bully condition just like the people they bully ;) ;) ;)

In some kind of friendship, involving personal life is just normal for them that's how deep the relationship they have. But in your situation, when they involved your parents in bullying you and you became emotional only means that your relationship with them is not too strong in order to outdo what they have done. They are not true friend to you are as you to them. You should ask them first what the problem is before posting it in this forum. And now you can call it even.

Good friends are natural bullies, but hurting your feelings do not make them a friend of yours especially involving your parents. What you do is tell first to your parents. Parents should always know what their son or daughter is going through. This situations should always end up in stoinger relationship with our parents. Your life will be more fruitful rather than going with friends that is talking nonsense just to laugh at someone else.

Rather than parents, I would suggest him/her to contact the other relatives, such as cousins or uncles. They will be a bit more open to discuss the real issues involved. There is nothing wrong in telling this to the parents, but decide whether you want to get them alarmed or not.

At the first line I thought it was just bullying like joking around sarcastically the normal trashtalking  but since they involve your parents I think its alarming. They are not your true if that so, but just one more chance try to jam with them understand and if it doesn't work try to  not get close or friends with them.

If you think they are your really true friends, talk to them and release your problem with them. I'm not favor to your friends but talking to them is the only solution in your problem. Explain that you didn't want they do you and to parents. They will understand and realize they are wrong.

You gotta find better friends if you think you're 'true' friends are people who are bullies and making you cry. First, friends don't make friends cry. That's not cool, enjoyable, healthy or something that happens in a normal life. Stand up for yourself man! :) You got this!

,might as well you just wanted ti get bullied then continue, but those people who you called "friends" are toxic. They are not considering the feeling of their bullied friend, and the worst is that, they are including the parents of the bullied one, so do you think it is still healthy for you to say on that situation? Well i guess not..

They are not your true friends. If they are your true friends they woudnt make you feel that way and they even involved your parents.True friends respect each others love ones especially your parents.To get rid of them is to fight back and get out of their circle. Just think that the best or true friends are yet come.

Yeah. If that's what they're doing to you, that's probably gonna get worse. Well unless you learn how to fight for yourself  and teach those bullies that they're bullying the wrong guy. Sometimes these people need to be put in their proper places since they may very well be doing this to others also.

Bullies are a huge part of growing up you'll see many of them the best thing to do is when he calls you a name try to turn it around into something funny. Don't let anything he says get to you. If you show him you're bothered by it he'll keep it up. With fights, don't go there. In a fight, if he throws the first punch immediately tell a teacher, if you punch back you're going to get in trouble, self-defense or not. I was called names, spat on, cursed at even shoved into a wall, bullies bully to feel better about themselves. If possible try to be his friend.

Do not think that they bully you and have even invaded your parents are your true friends. They do not even deserve to be called friends. I've gotten bully, and I'm really getting bully all the way until I really do not care about what they do to me. I used to fight, I used to get angry, but they're getting crazy, until I'm tired, I let them bully me as much as they want. My silence also made them silent.

I totally agree with you.  When they are trying to mock you or bully you and as if they are making fun of you because they think they are perfect it is better to be silent.  If you will become silent and stop fighting back the tendency is they will be ashamed of themselves.  That is what I am doing right now everytime one of my officemate who I really don't like say things that I am not.  I just keep quiet and then she will stop.  I want to fight back but we are not of the same level.

My younger sister bullied by her friends years ago. But rather to tell them to our parents she tell it to me and to my older sister. Your sister or brother knows what to do. In fact they are our real bestfriend. So let your sister or brother take care of your so called true friends.

If they are your friends then pour your heart out to them. If they understand then they fit the title, if they don't then you are better off without them.

If they were your true friends then you wouldnt even need to be posting such thread....
My advise to you is to directly say to them that you do not want the bullying they do to you especially ones that involves your parents...
If they still do not stop after this, then i think its time to let them go...
Why would you cling on to someone whom you dislike its attitudes?

A true friend never hurt a friend, so I guess they are not your true friend, I've been there before, so I guess all you need to do is fight back and show them you are not the guy to mess up with. I'm sure they will stop.

this really a big problem of child or teens. and the children now is more bully then my generation . they are not scared of people bigger than them. a you can you 13 years old know are drinking alcohol or using illegal drugs and same time  if don`t have money they rob other people. for me  government should have a law that more hairdryer than that we have now.

As I read the earlier post, i found that you are doing thesis, and if all of the advice to you is stay away from them, fight back and others, then i guarantee you that you, together with your group-mates will fail your thesis, the best way for you to get through is let out your side, try telling them whats bothering you, tell them that they should limit their jokes, and not to make fun of your parents. If they are your true friends then they will understand, if not for the best with regards to your thesis, act professional, don't change your attitude towards them, talk to them if necessary and if you are bullied again, the first thing to do is IGNORE them, let them know that they will not hurt you anymore, act tough but not to the extent that it will lead to fighting. Always remember thesis is much more important than your friends (so-called). On the other hand, find new better friends. One more thing, try playing with them by being sarcastic when they are making fun out of you. If they are your only friends, and you can't leave them then learn how to pass the topic to others. When they are making fun out of you try to redirect the topic to someone else.

Bullying is a serious problem and I consider it as a Crime, even thou they are bullying in mental or physical, they are not Helping Earth.

are they really your real friends? because if they are true friends then they will never bully you, and do not need to involve your parents.
true friends are friends in happiness and sorrow, sharing also help each other.
better to leave your friends, to temporarily do not hang out with them until they realize that you are a friend they need as a true friend not as friends who can be treated casually, try to open your heart to others, maybe there will be friends which is really good and sincere for you.

I think that the OP is alright now. He made that post more than two months back, and ever since he has made so many other posts here in the forum. Anyway, I felt bad when I first read the post. But I am happy now that he is back on track.

My advice in you situation is, don't  be affected on what they say because like what you've said they were your true friends and that also a way to make your friends and all of you happy. But, don't let them bullying you always, proved them that your not the plebeian person that your strong enough.

True friends only bully each other but with limitations but yout friends bully you like you almist cruwd and involve your parent? They are not true friends. They deserve a slap on their face

I'm sure that you are a teenager so your friends will not be permanent in your life. That's why do not be upset and write them off. It is pretty obvious that you will find true friends in the future.

It is difficult to find a way out of such a difficult situation. Maybe you need to ask the police for help?

Physically? Or they just trash talked you? Make them see that you're not affected on them because all of that is just a word and they don't get something on that. If it is physically, them proved them that your strong and if they are your friend, they don't do that to you.

Get rid of them, they are not a true friends. True friends will make fun of you but not bully to the point that you cried and involve your parents is below the belt. Theres a lot to be friends with, get rid of them

if they are your true friends then bullied me it is fine but involving my parents is different . Im sure if u do the same to them they will also be mad if they want to be respected then they must respect me first . If they dont to be annoyed they need to stop annoying others .

He/She is right. Teasing and Bullying is different, maybe others has the same concept with it. Teasing is normal with your circle of friends. But when teasing get severe, when your family and personal informations are involved that degrades you as a person. Kindly tell it to your Guidance that you experience bullying or else you will comr to the point of suicidal attempt. No to bullying!

I was a victim of bullying myself, during my school days. I made a mistake then. I tolerated the bullying for so long, and never complained about it to anyone. That was a wrong decision. Bullying should not be tolerated under no circumstances. The matter must be taken up with the teachers, and if necessary to the law enforcement authorities.

Issue about bullying is really a continuous increasing problem. It has a large effect in a person who is being bullied. It will either lost his/her self confidence or he/she will also be a bully for the sake of not being bullied.

Well, true friends kinda tell you plenty of harsh things, but I believe that the true friends which you are talking about, the ones who are bullying you right now, might not be treating you as one. No true friend would just go around bullying you and saying bad things about your family. If Im not mistaken, you are the only one who treats your friendship as true.

I think they are not your true friends. True friends should be true to you but not to the point that they will shame you or bully you. True friends are loving and always seeks to build up one another. I pray that all will be well with you and you'll be blessed with TRUE friends. I think you should confront those people and tell them how you feel about this.

bullying should not be tolerated even to various ages. This is not a good practice since it caused someone's esteem dragged down. It could lead to demotivation to anyone who has been a victim of bullying. We really need to have a law preventing bullying to anyone.

Bullying has been a problem that has plagued the world on the recent years that it has shown prevalence on youth. WHile it os common on all of the countries it is still dominating countries where social cliques and a stigma on other races are there. The best way to prevent this is to confront them not by physicality but being able to face them or to seek help when needed and not to cope it in your heart.

Getting involve with parents is another story . thats not good bro

True friends are not the ones who would let you cry in the first place or the ones who hurt your feelings. Get rid of them now or you'll suffer more in the long run, and you should know who your real true friends. They are not your loss, but you are their loss instead.

Just look at the positive side. Everytime that you get bullied just think that you're not the one that they were pertaining about which is true I think. If the case is verbal abuse but if the case is physical abuse or bully. Then, leave them. They don't deserve you as their friend or maybe they are nit your true friends. You are better than what they think about. Chin up and face life.

Yeah its better to just turn around and spend time with people who can help you grow as a person instead of people bringing you down. It also needs to be addressed so that these bullies won't do it to othera also. Find someone who can help you out like a counsellor or simply tell your family about it so you can arrive at a solution to this together

Bullying someone can lead to depression, this is very common on schools. Bullying can cause serious psychological effects on the subject and some are not able to take it they get to the point of taking their own life.

They aren't your true friends if they pick on you like you're a nobody. Severe your ties with them and go make friends with others who actually treats you with respect and decency. Other kids have no right to step on you. Leave that friendship and repect yourself, man.

If they are really your friends, they don't get to the point on bullying you involving your family. Just a matter of fact, true friends having jokes and jamming with you but not too much. Maybe yes they can bully you the way how you're having fun with but not at the point to mention your family. If they say such things in your family and you know that it doesn't true, ignore them or correct them out. off limits jokes is not that fun as we expected.

Billy the Kid wasn't a bully. Sure, he killed a lot of people in gun fights. But kids are of the goat family, not the cow family like bulls are.

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Real friends will not treat their friends the way they are treating you and to bring your mother into it  so just too low, I suggest you distance yourself from such people because all that they bring is negativity to your life.

The problem stands at both parties. Well majority of the problem is that they bully continually does the action for his/her own satisfaction without probable and jusifiable cause. However, the problem also arises simply because the bully has a repeated opportunity to conduct the bullying; address the problem, talk with them, if it won't work, then have a fight, after that you will be greater friends.

True friends know when you are okay with their joke and stop when you are no longer comfortable. A true friend should also know how to respect differences and not go overboard to cause you pain. Tell them how you really feel, if they listen then they should stop, but if not, then go look for other potential friends.

If you are bullied,  don't take it to yourself only. Let your parents know. Help yourself,  get up and let them know that being bullied is not good. Tell the elders and be strong enough to face the aftermath.

Ifnthey're your true friends, you don't have to tell them what you feel and they themselves would know if what they're doing is already overboard. These aren't your true friends. These people are probably using you for their convenience and pride. Don't let anyone do that to you and stand up for yourself.

Friends who like to bullying and involve parents of course they are not good friends to be with and can not be our true friend. If they are true friends they will respect our parents and make good friends for us in the likes or sorrows

If they dont feel like hurt you otherwise you dont have the gut to tell them to stop that annoying bully
It means you're not really friends

I've been bullied when I was in elementary school, once I stood up, They stopped bullying me
But if the bully if your friend, I cant suggest you anything than for you to be honest with them about what you feel

My reply wouldn't be any different. Find out if your 'true friends' are joking or not. If they are really bullying you, then you have to stand up against them. Besides, what is the point of hanging out with them if they want to bully you?  They can't be your true friends. I'd avoid them if I were you.

Friends that hurt you are not friends. They are people who you choose to put in your life because you have made it seem that they are the only ones here and you settled for them. what you should do is to leave and know that true friends are out there and not bullies.

I think you should get some professional help from the adults around you, such as a teacher, guidance councilor, or even your principal. This is a serious matter because it can lead to depression or trauma. Also, you have to talk to your parents.

Are they worth it? I mean true friends really? As far as I'm concern true friends are the one who you can rely with and will not hurt you physically and emotionally. What you can do? Leave them and find another friends. Don't be afraid that no one will accept you, It's much better than to stay with a group of people in which they don't really think about you at all or they just wanted you to be part of them for personal interest only. If you don't want to leave then it's your loss actually not them but make sure that if they do that again better step up and fight back.

A little advice, stand up to them. Tell them that they are not gladdening anymore, that they are invading your personal life. And if they can't deal with that, leave them. They are not considered your friends if you feel trapped inside and bullied. They are just toying you, have another group of friends who can understand you for who you are, don't hesitate to find new friends. Tell your old friends the truth and that they are immature for bullying you.You have the right to protect your dignity as a person.

The impact of bullying was very diverse ranging from very mild impact such as the fear of coming to school, school performance dropped to very severe, suicide for example

I think everyone has been their I mean everyone got their time when they were bullied,
But if you really consider them as a friend and you think that it is just part of the jokes you should tell them that it is not really good ,
You should be true to them.

If they bully you until you cry, then they're not your friends at all. Get rid of them by standing up to them and telling them to stop and you've had enough. Leave them and never go back. True friends would support you and not break you. They're not worth your time nor effort.

That’s too bad if you’re true friends bully you’re parents. Tell them that’s too hurt to heared bad words against to your parents. They are not deserve to be your friends if they always bully you and especially your parents.

Indeed it is a different story if your so called friends make harsh words agaisnt your parents.  It is totally foul.  I bet you should tell them to stop doing that to your parents and it really hurts for you.  Real friends know and should know their limits.

Sorry that you being bully! But to be honest ! I think your the one who think they are your real friend , Because a real friend don’t like to see there friend craying! A real friend never want to hurt you! My advise find a real friend that value your friendship! Not to those friend that want you to be there toy to make there self happy!!!

What hurts you is what you take in and think about; if you ignore them you won't be hurt. Try talking to them since you say they are your friends. If they are truly your friends they will stop after realizing how it hurts you. If they don't then find better friends who will respect your opinion.

Talk to them if you are hurt, please. Don't make your heart break even more.
If they don't understand, leave them. Stay away from anything that cause trouble in your life.

That's why you find a lot of happy people living out in the wilderness, all alone, or with a small family.

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Bullying is one of the common problem of the society nowadays. Some people loses their hopes because of bullying. The only way to get rid of it is to believe in yourself and by ignouring them. Love your self more than anybody could and rise above every circumstances.

Though i have never been bullied before and i don't know how it feels but i am not a fan of bullying at all especially when the victims takes their own lives, If anyone is supposed to die, then its the bullies.I recently saw a video of a man beating some Children who were bullying his Child and i applaud him for that, that's what am going to do when that happens to my kid.

Say no to bullying, because most of the victim is so weak what if they kill themself? We cant  do anything, instead of bullying them why cant we just help them to gid rid of this, we dont know what they will going to do with theself if we go bullying them.

If you are getting friends with the bullies just not to be their new subject, then you are wrong. Beimg with them corrupts you as "bad company corrupts good character". Also, you are getting yourself exposed to them more and when you are alone with your group, they have no one to pick on thus they bully you instead. Leave those friemds and create new ones.

this is a pretty serious matter, it needs to be analyzed why they do it, first of all self-introspection are you often like that ?, what are they doing that for? how maturity thinking and mindset should be in the fox, this may be a bit of a case of that problem, and you become a victim, many thousands of victims in the world in bully regenerate to the younger generation and make their mindset joking like this, there are many ways to joke without having to bully , that's the analysis when joking

No they took his dummy off him ..

Don't get affected if it's not true and your friends must know how you feel. Speak to them kindly and honestly on how you feel. How can you say that they're your true friends they might be insecure to you that's why they bully you. Just a piece of advice, analyze and reflect if they are true friends or else stay away from them.

I dont know why bullying appears. I dont underatand those people who love to hurt their fellow man. Why on earth there is bullying. We must learned to fight for our own to stop that bully friends and buly people around us.

I've read some articles about bullying problems. I've read that the best solution will always be to tell your family and principal about it. There is no one that will help you better than your family. Or you can directly talk to them to tell them what you truly feel.

Just tell them the truth about it and if they are really your friends they will stop it,
Most of the time I also bully my friends but I know my limits if it's just a joke it should just be a joke .

People who are abused by their peers are at risk for mental health problems, such as low self-esteem, stress, depression, or anxiety. They may also think about suicide more. Bullies are at risk for problems, too. Bullying is violence, and it often leads to more violent behavior as the bully grows up

If they are really your friends, then I suggest you humble your self and don't fight back, as long as they don't feel that they are inferior to you, they will not stop on bullying you. Don't fight and submit to them, accept all the harsh words they will say to you and agree to it. It is hard to bully those who are so kind and agrees to you the most. If you do that, maybe in the end their are the one who will stand up for you if you face problems. They are your friends any way.

If they are your true friends and if you really treat them as they are, you should tell them to stop the bullying. If they stopped and show that they care about you, then you can consider them as your true friends. 

I'm working with facts here. Fact one they're bullies, fact two they're your "true" friends, fact three they hurt your feelings. Now if you really want to get rid of them then just go right up and say it to their faces that you don't want to hang out with them anymore. I would advise you to just again, straight up talk to them and tell them that you were offended and would like them to apologise to you. Whatever your decision is, the best way is to just talk to them.

This is the result of the lack of discipline in our education, the existence of bully, because their existence is not as society in general.
We need to be merciful to them, helping them in socializing is certainly very necessary in overcoming this problems.

If they are your true friends it's not bullying because true friends always make a abnormal things on you to show there loves to you. Below the belt words is given with your true friends.

Yes, if your friend bully you too much and you are affected by it, then maybe its time to tell him or her to stop. If he or she is your real friend, he will not harm you, instead he or she is the one who will stand up on your bullies and gonna protect you from them. Real friends always have your back, like wise, you always have their back if necessary. True friends do not abandon each other,

Bullying is one of the major crisis  experienced  by the most minor age in today's era. It may lead to depression if not totally manage. Minor age is the one who experienced this kind of problem. They have the weak foundation of thinking, that's why the school is the second place after our family to cultivate, educate and advise the student or the minor age. We must teach everyone to believe in their self and uphold and boost each and everyone confidence.

This is the right thing to do. A true friend will understand you, he or she will not let you suffer, he should be the one comforting you in the times of hardship. Finding true friends in one of the greatest achievements you can do, because true friends cost more than gold, true friendship is rare.

Talk with them. Tell them its getting personal and you are offended.

Bully problem.
 Bullying is one of the most problem in the society, organization, and school that must be prioritized to be solved. Because whenever they get bullied their self esteem get lowered, it can be caused depression and lead to suicidal crime.

fught back ! never let them take you down!  they are keeping you at your level because you never talk back ! if they fight you once you did ! well you altready won the battle but try to make the next battle win too so they will be burned !

Bullying is just a normalfor a close friendsThats what you called true friends. Me i was always being bully with my bestfriend. But it ok for me because sometimes its just joke only but if did you feel hurt. Confront your friend. ask him/her What is wrong with you ? Tell him whats your side.

True friends never bully instead they were there to defend you and help you and they will not let your parents involved in petty issue, its takes courage for someone to confront and tell  them that its not right.

or better tell them that they are already stepping on the line, cause you know sometimes because of excitement we get to say somethings we don't really think of if it will hurt the feelings of the people we are joking with.

How you react is a part of growth. Maturity is seen through your actions. Time to stand up for yourself. Speak up!

if they bully you, they are not your friends. Ditch them. If they are playing with you thats a different story, but if you actually feel bullied then leave them.

Bullying has become a matter of concern today, the one you call the friend is bullying you, and how you can call them good friends? you should tell them to stop  or you stop your relationship with them by yourself, cut all connection to them.

That's right. Don't let yourself be the victim. Life is too short to waste it on being someone's punching bag.
If your friends are crossing the line first tell them about it, then stop hanging out with them. Usually the bullies are people you don't like and don't hang out with. They just bully you every time they see you in random situations/places. It's much easier when those are your friends because you at least will have a chance to talk to them and make them aware they're hurting you.

I had the same experience wayback my elementary days. Those are the things that made me a stronger person now. I was just ignoring them before but when I lose my temper I faced them and told them that they don't have a right to treat me that way. I stand firm and face them and counquered my fear. Since then , they stopped bullying me.

You need to talk them as u mention they are your friends i think you can tell them the truth that you are hurt for those what they told you. I think they will understand you if you talk to them.

In every place in the earth the word BULLY exist it is where the weak one is been harass by the strong one there many types of bully CYBER,Physical also in Verbal bully is a prone problem in each country but were thankful because now bully is a crime where bully will be in prison for a year

How can you say that there are your true friends? Leave them and don't worry because you will find better than them and you are going to hurt yourself if you still let them close to you.

You should be open to them of your feelings because if they are really your friends then they will listen to you and they will change their way of treating you but if not then i suggest that you find other friends that will treat you right.

Its just like a normal act now adays. I have so many friends and i can tell some of theme are always bullying me but i can always depend my self and i can fight. Because its easy for me i know what i can do . Dont let your self be the victim.

Yup. Learn to foght for yourself. Don't give them reason to think they can bully you. Usually one act of defiance can stop bullying so show them you won't stand for any of their antics anymore.

the first step you should do please let me know if you do not like the attitude of your friend, and you have to fight by saying well ok .. do not you just sit there

The word "Bully" is not categorized under GOOD. It is an unpleasant act that is not pleasing to anyone. So, if you have bully friends, i'm sorry to say that you don't have pleasant friends. Tell them how their act affects you negatively and if they are your true friends, they will make amend. Otherwise, get yourself non-bully friends.

My advice is you should confront them as early as possible. The longer you let them do that to you. The harder their belief will get. The belief that what they are doing to you is practically normal and there is nothing wrong with it.

Hello love, you must talk to your friends. Ask them if that's the way they express their love to you and tell them you are offended if it is. If they're really your friends they would understand but if they are taking you for granted they will most likely ignore and tease tf outta you.

Agreed. Because you do not fight them or go against them they think they are doing the right thing. They don't realise that they are massively hurting you.

Be strong enough to face your fears. No one has a right to hurt you. If you just let them do such thing to you, they will just do it over and over again. You must do something about it. Tell your parents or you can also talk to them and let them know that they are hurting you through the words they say. Just do the right thing and be strong.

True friends will never do that.I hope you will realize that. True frienda will respect you and your parents. I think you were treating them as friends because you think that they are the only people around you.Try to explore more,find friends who will respect you as a person,friends that will make you happy and will never make you cry.
And BTW, don't let them do that you. No one deserves to be treated that way.There are times that you need to fight back to protect yourself from these predators.

Why don't you try to talk to them first? Let them know that what they are doing is hurting you so bad. If they do it again , then you must do an action about to. If it's too much then you must end it up. Tell it to your parents so that you'll have them to solve it. Too much bullying might cause you depression and it's a bad thing for you.

Maybe you can try and turn the table around, try trashtalking them too and involve their family, they will realize that its a bad thing that they involve your parents in bullying you, bully them back and real friends will understand that and they will never do that again.

in that case they are not your true friends. don't let them do that to you. open up with them how you feel when they bullied you. if they continue to bully you it is the time that you need to sacrifice your friendship.

A true friend is a person who is always there when we are in a state of happy and difficult. People who always provide constructive advice and criticism when we do things that are not good. If you feel that your friends are very annoying and want to involve parents, my advice should you tell everything you feel honestly to your parents. Your parents will definitely have the best solution for you and your friend.

If you are 15 years old you are excused - this like this happen to teens. If you are older you have to wake up. In both cases, there are not really your friends. You still have to find your true friends.

When they are bullying you, I think they are jealousy of something that involve to your attitude or what, But bullying has an adverse effects on our lives, because your problem may be affecting you and they are adding to the problems you are taking,so you may not be able to cope with your problem due to bullying, otherwise you may be able to commit suicide.

do you think that true friend will bully each others ?
of course not.
you can't say that they your friends if they bully you.
my suggestion.
you need to talk heart to heart with them. don't just be silent and let them do it as always.
if they really your friend, they will stop it.
but if they can't receive it, you can see. and you can think by your self, do they true friends ?
if they still do it, you need to do something ruder, you can tell police and collect all evidences.
or if you are man. you can fight him if you have brave.

Bullying is very alarming now a days because it can be depression attack for the one who were bullied. And also it can lower your self esteem and motivation to your goals. Set space to those who bullied you they are not your real friends. Show them what you got and be frank to them to say it is not good to bully.

Every day thousands of teens wake up afraid to go to school. Bullying is a problem that affects millions of students, and it has everyone worried, not just the kids on its receiving end. Yet because parents, teachers, and other adults don't always see it, they may not understand how extreme bullying can get.

I think the only way you can stop their bully without involved with your parents is fight them, improve your kung-fu skills :). Show them that you're not easily be bullied from others.

The most important thing in life is to know your intrinsic value. You are valuable, no matter what anyone else says. Why? Because you should value yourself, even if no one else does. If you stick to your guns on this, and keep believing in your own worth, you will prevail over public perception.

Since this is bitcointalk, let's use the example of bitcoin. For many years, almost everyone on this planet thought bitcoin was trash. As time went on, despite all the opposition, the naysayers, the detractors, the haters, the sabotageurs, bitcoin stuck to its guns. And now, people are forced to recognize its value, if only begrudgingly. One day, when cryptocurrency has changed the world, no one will dare question the value of crypto. And society will turn on those who do.

Stick to your guns, believe in yourself, and in the end, you will prevail.

The one who bully may encounter some serious problems too that is why they bully others to feel that they lessen the burden in their own self. And he just want to boost his/her self confident through bullying. Or he/she is jealous to what you achieve. For the one that bully you help him/her to realize that bullying is a kind of abuse.

Friends and real friends to be more specific would never do anything willingly to break you or to bulky you. Especially when it involves family they should know what is too far and what is so much more than a joke and this is a prroof of their folly

Let's look on the other side, do you bully them too? Or do you bully yourself more? What kind of bullying do you receive whether it is verbal, physical or social you must stop them. And once in a while look at yourself too and think about what true friends mean.

 Are you sure that they are you're true friends ?? It seems like not and they involved your parents also ?? hay !!what kind or friends are they

I think the OP doesn't want to involved his parents to the bully problem, he wants to solve it by himself.

Don't act like it's fine because as you say they are your true friends. Defend yourself as well as your parents. Stand up and stop being a victim of bullying.

Bully friends are never you true friends. To some extent, real friends may tease you at times and may prod you emotionally; but, if it comes to a point that it bothers you too much or it breaks you emotionally or physically, then leave them, they are not worth.

You think to low of yourself. You need to start getting rid of toxic people, even if you become along in life. With that kind of thinking, you won't be enjoying an adult life.

The true friends will never bully you, especially as it involves to your family. I think you need to reconsider those friends

I agree with the guys saying that real friendship doesn't bully, take an step off, and dissapear from your life these " friends "

Bullying can cause life-long negative psychological effects on a victim of a bully. A victim will often suffer through the abuse because he is ashamed or he doesn't believe that change will happen if he tells. He also may fear retaliation. A victim of a bully can end up fearful of others and may be unable to cope socially. A victim may become withdrawn and his school work may begin to suffer. A victim may turn around and bully someone he determines to be weaker, thus perpetuating the problem.

the problem of the bully has a problem with their home or simply intentionally they bully. that depends on whether they want both but not correct if you revile you like people maybe not easy if that's what they please you in class or at least any that area or village you are painful it they mock you . we're all equal God have looked so hopefully there is a bully in the world

You just gotta stand up kid ;)
I wasn't that much o a wimp when I was young, but now I can safely assume that I exhume a somewhat powerful vibe, you gotta learn that.
Don't let anyone make fun of you. Love yourself as much as you can, you're the only one that will do that.

do you still need them? Maybe the joke is too far
Be aware gan is not the perfect friend in this world  8)

If he's your real friend and your parents are mocked maybe he's just kidding. and you take it too seriously. But if he is outrageous, he is not your true friend.
No need to reply, because if you reply will increase the length of the problem.
The solution is simple, just ignore friends like that.

Two of the main reasons people are bullied are because of appearance and social status. Bullies pick on the people they think don't fit in, maybe because of how they look, how they act (for example, kids who are shy and withdrawn), their race or religion, or because the bullies think their target may be gay or lesbian.Some bullies attack their targets physically, which can mean anything from shoving or tripping to punching or hitting, or even sexual assault. Others use psychological control or verbal insults to put themselves in charge. For example, people in popular groups or cliques often bully people they categorize as different by excluding them or gossiping about them (psychological bullying). They may also taunt or tease their targets (verbal bullying).Verbal bullying can also involve cyberbullying sending cruel texts, messages, or posting insults about a person on Facebook or other social sites.

Bullying is the problem facing by our teenagers nowadays. It should stop because a lot of teenagers suffers depression. There's this time that they just wanted to die rather than living in a society full of judgemental people.

That is way beyond the line. True friends love each other and never hurt each other. True friends support each other and also cate for each other. If they are bullying you, then just dump them already and find really true friends.

I understand true friends can be a bully sometimes but maybe not like this one to the point you're about to cry and your parents got involved. Start questioning yourself if your so called "true friends" are really what they are called to be. Or maybe you can start speaking out and let your voice be heard by your friends. It doesn't hurt to stand up to yourself once in a while. If your friends are telling you something about you that is negative and their way of telling it is somehow turning them into a bully, then you should also try to listen if what they're saying is helpful. If you got hurt by the truth then face it and do something about it for your own good.

true friends will not do that.
they are not the people who will help us.
the meaning of a friend is when we get into trouble and he is there to help us
 

Do not be embarrassed by your situation, and do not hesitate to let someone know what’s going on. Go to a teacher, a counselor, or your parents, and explain the situation. Once you inform someone else, you’re no longer alone in dealing with it.

leave them, true friends will never vilify their friends. they will beside you when you're happy but when you are in trouble they will leave you. look for a true friend I'm sure you'll find it someday

If they get you hurt most of the time, try to talk to them in a very serious manner and told them that you are not happy anymore the way they treat you makes your life miserable. If they really a true frieds as you have said, they will understand you and understand your feelings.

i think those friends of yours are not real. true friends will bully you in a good way o i rather say that real friends will kidding about everything but not about your personal things especially your family. Bro if you are being hurt by your friends and they make you cry its not your friend. This is my only opinion its up to you if you will follow it. Hope it will help

Being bullied is quite hard. For you not to be bullied show them that you are not weak. First is from the way you look. They will observe you.If they know that you are weak,they will bully you.People who bully chose their victims.

I think real friends are friends that will tell you if there is something bad about you and they will take it as a joke, but if you feell that it's way below the belt you must stand for yourself.

I am once the most bullied in my group because of my look but I learned to change myself for the better and today they no longer bully me. I proved to them that I am way better than them.

Take this opportunity as a challenge in your life. Never allow them to down you. My advise is that be your self first. Be proud on who and what you are. The first enemy is your self. Believe in your self that you are great and you can overcome all your problem. Boost your self and install concrete confidence in your heart and mind. If you believe in your self that you can conquer all, no matter what they say it will not affect you at all.

Bully is one common problem in school, in workplace in our house sometimes, the seemingly superior boss over those who are weak and coward they intimidate him/her and ask or demand to do something for them and if not given they were to take the consequences of not obeying, what are we to do in this situation? We have to be rational, we have to think  is it reasonable? is it worth? what will I benefit on it, If none of these bring good things to you then do not do it. just be yourself and stand on your right.

And you won't run out of real friends. You probably just need to move away from these people that aren't helping you grow so you can find your true friends. Anyone who downs you doesn't deserve your time and attention

People who bullies you constantly are not true friends. Real friends will not say or let you feel things that are not comfortable for you unless if it necessary. True friends know how to respect.

you need to have the strength to let go and not let into your life those people who make you weak...it's often very difficult to do, but without that you will not move on and develop...it's like the ballast that pulls you down

They are not your true friends. They already involve your family. Leave them, there are more nice people than them. You will met someone who will not bully you. They will make you happy in different way.

They are not your true friends if they habitually hurt your feelings. True friends believe in you and they are always there to support you. I think the best way for you to solve your problems is to get rid of your so called friends and find new ones that will lift your spirit up instead of bullying you. Simply ignore them and make excuses not to be with them and they’ll probably leave you alone. If they start hurting you physically because you ignore them, that’s no longer bullying, that’s battery and assault; wherein you should inform the authority instead.

The only way out of your problem is to talk. Talk to your friends about your feelings, how you feel when they bully You. If they are real friends they would understand, else there are many more people in this world to make friends, my friend.

why ? they are your true friends ? Why did they bully you ? and they involved  your parents?
I think they aren't your true friends , you should get rid of them if you aren't happy

Bullying is a natural behavior that promotes pack survival. Either man up and don't be an easy target for bullying or go search for another pack where there will be some easier targets.

They are not your friends. Just ignore them and tell it to your parents. Have someone watch your back always and find REAL friends. No one deserves to be bullied.

are you sure that they are your true friends? I suggest you to find another friends. I think this is the best idea for you

True friends are not gonna hurt you bro, i think you're misunderstanding about what is "true friends" . Just mess up with their parents and fuck them up.

For me, true friends bully each other. BUT, you should consider the feelings the one you are bullying. Before you speak, think.
Me and my friends we're always bullying each other, and we say sorry if we've said offensive words, because a true friend knows how to accept mistakes and he/she knows how keep friendship.
If they are really your TRUE FRIENDS you have to tell them about what you feel everytime they've said offensive words. You have to be true to yourself, they will understand you because they are your TRUE FRIENDS.

Bullying is onenof the biggest problem that we are facing today. You can see it everywhere starting from school, offices and especially on social media. Bullying can make someone’slif miserable. Most of the people bully soneone that they see doong wrong on social media without even knowing the story behind it. It’s loke being judged withoit justification.

If they are truly a good friend they would'nt bullied you and never try to involved your family.Try to stop them and tell them what you feel everytime they bully you.If they still continue their wrong doings then distance yourself from these "friends" and try to interact with some other friends or find a new friend that will not hurt your feelings.

Those who bully you are not your true friends. Open your eyes, defend not only yourself but your parents too. They are not the one who will help you in need but still your family.

...this habit has never been a huge problem outside of he fact it's annoying that he destroys the kids toys since he never swallows them.this time was a little different.the next couple days he started...

Talk to your friends and tell them what you feel everytime they bullied you.If they dont stop after talking to them then it's the right time for you to look for better friend because if they are your true friends they will undestand how you feel.If they dont stop and continue bullying you and to the point hat they involved your family then stop hanging out with your friends.

Bullying is no good especially to the young ones mostly to students this is the worst thing that are ever happening to the society it cause pain and hurt to the bullied one.so maybe the government has to warn and give punishment who ever commits this

The problem for this would be for the victims who are too afraid to fight back.. not just by fighting physically but outsmarting this bullies, you can tell it to the officials in your school or tell it to someone who you trust most, dont be afraid to them.

 Have you ever bullied or been bullied? If you have bullied or been bullied then you should know how bullying feels like. Bullying is very negative and creates major problems for our society. Nothing good comes out of bullying. It could very well change or ruin a person's life. In fact, it does ruin many people's lives. Kids can be mentally scarred if they are teased often. Even worse, they could be killed or fatally injured if the bullying gets extreme. There are many causes for bullying which must be taken care of before bullying can be stopped. T.V. violence, families in poverty, and mis-teachings are just several of the many serious causes for bullying. Bullying must be stopped or prevented no matter how long it will take, it is a deeply concerning matter.

Are you being emotionally hurt or are they also trying to hurt you physically as well? Then i guess you should have to isolate your self and separate from them.

Try to find excuses to spend less time with them, and you'll grow apart eventually

What do you mean about the "true friends" that hurt you ? bully you ? and involve with your parents? They're enemy not friends.

True friends ? are you sure ? Why do they bully you? If they are your true friends , they will never do that .

Because you allow! Therefore, the right solution is change your self. Never allow them. Boost your confidence and be matured to face them. You have to put to your self that no matter what they say will not affect you nor your family. Know your self and go beyond your limit without hurting others. If you believe in your self, no matter how negative they criticize you and judge you is just a like garbage that you always ignore.

For me you couldn't really consider them as your true friends if they don't know their limit,
I have plenty of friends and we like to fool around when we are together but we also know are limits on our jokes.

If my friends bullies me I do'nt really show them that I feel hurt and I dont show them that i'm affected and I just ignored them and seems I not affected with their actions but not the same feelung when they involved ly family.I will talk to them and tell them that their joke are not funny anymore and  I will tell them that everytime they involve my parents are not easy for me to accept their joke and if they still repeated the same thing again  then they are not my friend..better not  hang to them anymore and find new friends that are better.

Yeah that's right, do you think they're true friends if your parents are also involved, because if they're  true friends they should know they hurt you and their true friends are happy when they are with them.

How old are you lad. I tghink you should be seeking some parental advice if you are young but matured enough stand up to then and dont be intimated by their body sizes. Bullies understand only one language and that is aggression. The moment you let them understand you can also behave the same way they do then they stop preying on you

I agree, my son also bullied by his cousin, they are just 5 years old and his cousin already know how to bully my son, he always wants my son to get hurt or to get irritated, or I think get angry and feel lose. That is always happening every time that they are playing.

We are all victims of bullying why? Because we allow them to influence and ruin our life. My only advise is that be your self. We must accept first our weaknesses and strength so that we able to handle what ever judgment and critic they strike to us. At the end of the day, no matter what they say to us will be just like music that will not hurt and affect us. Just smile and always think positive.

When you are always bullying of your friend you need to be strong to overcome your being self pitty.. And make a decition.. Tell your friend that you are hurting by her/him.

Bullying happens everywhere, whether in any country, both in society and social media. I think the most happening in social media. Many of these behaviors seem an inevitable part of growing up. But the studies of bullying have called that assumption into question. Public has started to take bullying seriously, and beyond the statistics, this increased awareness can be traced largely to one event. Report to police if this still happen.

I don't believe they are a true friends of yours. If that is true they will not do that to you to the point that your getting hurt and they involve your parents. For me that's an insult. Better to stay away from them.

They're not your true friends ,because if their your true friends they will not hurt your feelings they know how bad their voice out on their their mouth that they can hurt. I think you need to talk with them with sincere to tell them how they hurt your feelings when they're bullying you even it's a just a joke. And if didn't still stop doing that on you just don't mind them even they're your friend because they are not. A true friend.

They are not your friends if they don't know what you truly feel.LEAVE THEM.Don't treat them like a precious gem when they don't treat you like one. A friend wont let you down whe  they know you're already down...

If that's the case, they are not really your true friends. You better find new ones because
your bully friends are taking you for granted and simply tormenting you. That's not fun and
your better off hanging around with new set of people who respects you.

Do not care still be yourself, stay strong and be a wise person, I think the best revenge is silence.

Friends that bully you to the extent you are hurt your feelings got hurt is not friendship. There are friendships that you tease each other but to the extend that your hurting and you are being backstabbed is not friendship. Find a new circle of friends even though its hard.

It is worse right now.  Bullying is just a normal for a close friends ...but one of the bullying becomes severe then you should decide as soon as possible it gets worse.....

Bullying is a problem everyone knows there many kinds of bullying cyber,physical and etc.Bullying can make people deeprest though they keeping it inside some people commit suicide because of bullying.

People who lock of attention. They are those people who love polish. Even I also experience the polish of my classmate. But i fought, not complemented again repeated to polish to . Because if i was not going against them continue the polish to . Them as those who enjoy polishing them to be afraid, and to dare bully people, that they may fear and to get all their desires.

Be aggressive every time they start bullying you. Show them that you won't tolerate that kind of nonsense. Don't show weakness because that's what they thrive on. Don't get depressed because of a few idiots.

If they are your 'true friends', they never make your feeling get hurt, bullying you or interfere your parents. True friends always help you whenever you need help, always besides you, makes you happy/ smile and always support you to be the best.
If they are not like that, i think they just take advantages from you.
Although they just want take jokes, i think bullying not allowed. Bullying is a violence, so there are so many disadvantages of bullying. Bullying must removed in this world.

There's a way to get rid of the bully of friends, just do some research and watch videos onlime to handle bullying it will help a lot to you and grow you to become a better person.

Just don't mind those people who bully you, they're just jealous on what you have.

First thing, they are not your true friends. If they were they wouldn't be doing this to you.
Second, you should go up to them tell them how you feel, if still they persist, you should smack the biggest of them in the balls while he is alone maybe at night so he doesn't see you. Then beat the shit out of him, because that's what he deserves.

Nicely said,  a real friends know how to respect each other even though they fool around or teasing each other. Before,  I also had this kind of friends where they were sarcastic and throwing a joke from each other that will turn into personal but they will make up after a few moments, realizing their wrong deeds.

True friends never dies sometimes it is better than your brother and sister. True friends bully each other just have fun to make everybody happy. Be strong and try to adopt the chemistry with your friends.

Bully today is a big problem they are abused by their peers it can caused depression, self esteem, anxiety it can affect their health. More people think to suicide . It comes to true friend he/she accept of what you are! from the right and wrong support you all the time.

If they are your true friends, they shouldn't bully you to the extent that you are hurting. It's normal too bully friends at some time. However, if they are really your friends, they should consider how you feel. You should tell them that you are not happy with what they are doing. True friends don't hurt each other and they care and protect one another.

well, how can you call them real friends when you call them "bully"?

Bullying is a common thing during my teenage  days but I must say that  I overcome it by means of looking more independent and by not seeking any help from others, living like you are alone and be with your friends  who is more sensitive with others feelings.

They're are not your truly friends, because true friend will never hurts their friends.maybe it's a joke but he hurting you.true friends are like a sister who protect each other.

Sometimes we think that if we hurt Anyone we say When we trample People before you laugh Make sure you also enjoy him In jokes but does not mean to be happy, he In your joke Is not he hurt sometimes He just does it for riding On your trip But, he's convinced, he's going to say something to you but I do not want you to go back to them all. ???

Bullying affect a person to be depress and end up to death because they didn't easily accept the cursing in them and they can't handle the situation because they think on many things

We all know that bullying hurts us inside and out, and so, don't make fun of another. Talk to your friends heart to heart, be honest and let them know what you felt every time that they are bullying you. If you really a true friend to them then they will understand you and won't bully you anymore.

What you have posted is just plain BS. True friends never bully each other. I have a lot many friends, and none of them have ever bullied me. And if they bully me even once, then our friendship will cease to exist. But then, please don't confuse bullying with harmless taunting and mocking for fun.

Bullying is one form of violence perpetrated by one or a group of people deliberately repeatedly performing negative actions aimed at hurting, degrading, or enforcing the dignity of others.

That bullying is a recurring attack physically, psychologically, socially, or verbally, performed in positions of forces that are situationalally defined for their own benefit or satisfaction. Bullying is an early form of aggressive behavior that is rough behavior. can be physical, psychic, through words, or a combination of all three. It can be done by groups or individuals. The offender takes advantage of others he sees as vulnerable. his actions can be mocked names, victims are harassed or alienated and can harm the victim.

They are not your friends if they bully you below the belt. If they’re your friend they will know their limitations.

haizz, your story is sad. I will give you some tips. I think your relationship with you and your friend is really very bad, so something is wrong. If in the past you have done something wrong with them, apologize them. They do not want to forgive themselves, let them ignore them and live their own lives. If they continue to harass you, please do not protest against them with violence, that's really not the case. Tell your parents, or your teacher (if you are a student), to address this. good luck man.

The problem now of teenage life is bully. We can teach our children in home that bully is bad impact to others. Why we get friends to others. Why we give love to others instead of bully to others. We must give respect to everyone so we got a better living in this world.

I totally agree with your opinion. because a true friend will never make his friend until a deep hurt, let alone to cry. the more severe it is to bring the parents into our personal problems. I have many friends who are ignorant but they never get over it. so I totally agree with your opinion. in addition to me, I think you should do something so that parents do not fall prey to you.

They're not your friends. Let them know how you feel every time they bullied you especially with your parents involved for me that's too much. Or try to ignore and avoid them if they wouldn't stop.

Bullying can affect so many lives discrimination to others like nationality,sex / gender , skin and culture so for me if you experiencing this kind of bullying you must ignore them on what they keep saying and time will they will be tired of bullying to you just be understand those people who bully is an attention seeker they are lack of love and manners of their family .So you should keep things in mind that you are unique and know your worth .

In my opinion they are not your true friends because if they you're true friends they did not involve your parents or your family . Yes my friends and I bullyed each other but never getting involved the one thay we've love. True friends keeps for a lifetimes. They are the one who tell you whats wrong with you even it will hurt, youre hurting because your friends  will know or will be senstive enough to your feeling.

How can they be your true friends if they are insensitive? The problem starts at you as you are letting them to do that to you, you are a person whos afraid to be alone and thinking that you cant have new friends and you are locking your self to them,well come on, stop them and make them feel you wanna fight for  your rights! STOP them by starting at respecting yourself.

We don't need to do some revenge that is not good, karma is everywhere so maybe take it to karma and let them be. It is their choice to bully you but you need to have a strong personallity and strong mind, don't let them to get you down prove them that you are wrong.

I feel you, I was into that situations too.
I was raised like a good boy that is avoiding fights and all that sort of things. That was my parents' mistake.
I was a PC nerd. Now I trained myself well and not going to stop. I'm visiting box section, learning and forcing myself to be solid in the critical situations. I'm still weak and cowardy sometimes but trying all my best to turn myself into a man, not a nerd boy.
The first one thing to learn if you're namby-pamby: learn to say "no". Not only if somebody orders you to do something you don't like but also in a variant if you don't like somebody's behavior and have to tell him that. Fight this fear.

Bullying must be stopped simultaneously. The act of bullying will adversely affect a person in any age group. bully action will cause shame to depression to someone in bully. then the bully should be stopped.

playful joking is alright (whether this is throwing insults at one another.. just normal as kids, especially when growing up together)... but when things are getting too much and it becomes an emotional strain on yourself, then you can really determine whether they are true friends or not..  it really shows their true colours if they show no empathy to your emotional well-being..

seems like it has been happening for some time..

if you have asked them to stop on multiple occasions, yet they continue, drop them... they are not good for you and for your general well-being.. true friends are there for one another.

there are PLENTY of people in this world, don't resort yourself to those who don't care.. waste of time and you have better things to do and other things more important to care for in your life! you can make new friends very fast, move cities, get a new job and find your ground :) don't get stuck with these guys.. whoever they are.

It is really hard how to handle bully people, specially if they are your friends yet they treated you so bad like they are bullying you already. Well, if that's the case then stay away from them as much as possible. But if they didn't stop even if you are already distant. Then fight. They won't stop until you didn't fight back.

for me, that's not a true friends, because if they are your true friends they will support you, not to hurt your feelings. A true friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else. so the best way for that is avoid any contact of them or leave them alone. 

Bully nowadays can be considered as a disease in our community. Bullying is very rampant in school but it is also happening in our own home. Siblings bullied each other and it really affects the self esteem and confidence of the victim. This bullying should be addressed seriously and let us be sensitive and considerate enough of the feelings of others especially of our younger generation.

Seems  you are tortured emotionally about their bullying which is not really good. It could result depression. Better to leave your friends before its too late. They are not a true friends.

If they constantly bully you till the point of crying, don't think they are your true friends. What you need is to see your school counselor and to also get new friends who won't do stuff like that to you.

yes i agree for that...Ttue friends will not bluff because if you bluff people then maybe they cant trust you by next time.so be yourself not to bully anyone.dont put you down your self in lowered because of that only bluffing someone...So you wont get bully problem.

Nowadays bully classmates,friends  are not good anymore sometime they hurt someone feelings. I'am a bully person but  i never involved their parents or family.

That is somehow a problem with close friends. Sometimes they joke without taking any consideration about the feelings of the other. But if they really are your true friends then they should know how to respect you and your family. If they cannot, then they are not real friends. Stay away.

Those kind of friends are not true friends , if they bullied you and even involves your parents that is a different story to tell. Bullying is one of the problems of people , in school , or in private sector in the society. If you want to get rid of your bully friends , better not to get close to them and leave them behind , ignore them. There will be a karma to them in return.

It is a real or perceived imbalance of power with the more powerful person attack on the less powerful ones due to lack of respect for them. Bully comes in different forms; it can be physical, verbal or psychological. The unbelievable thing with bully is that both the bullies and the victims face consequences at one point or the other. According to American Medical Association and other research centers, bully victims often suffer from low self-esteem, reduced academic performance(for school pupils) and, in extreme cases, committing suicide seems to be their option. Studies also have found that the bullies at the long run are more likely to be incarcerated.

It's clear that they aren't respecting him. I agree with many here who have said that if they were true friends, they wouldn't bully him. There's no point in wasting your life trying to get people to respect you that don't respect anybody. Those are not good quality friends. They can't even really be friends with each other, because they never know when one many turn. I recently watch the Netflix series 13 Reasons. You can see that people often spend time with people they don't actually like, just to "look cool" in front of other people. You can see the same thing in the 2017 movie Wonder.

Friends? Are you sure about that? Do they usually joke with each other like that or are they only do that to you? I would consider talking to them and clearing some stuff up, maybe they don't know what you feel, make sure you let them know if they are really your friends.

This is not something that a true friend should do, especially this kind of people that involving friends’ families. I want to say stay away from these people, wake up Bro.

Talk with them. Tell them its getting personal and you are offended.

Bullying, a form of violence committed by one or a group of people intentionally carrying out actions that are negative in a repeated manner whose purpose is to harm, demean, or bring down the pride of others >:( :-X

if they were truly your friends then you shouldn't even have reached here...
LEAVE THEM!!!!

How that may happen?If someone is bullying you is not your friend,and a friend of you is not to bully in you.Inform your parents,your teacher,or someone you can trust and try not to be afraid.These kind of people exploit people that are be afraid and in the reality they may be afraid and shaked down from other people.

Oppression is a crime in my opinion. You can't allow it, report it to your parents so you get help to solve the bullying problem. There are so many children who become depressed because of this action

True Friends will not bully you.
Because bullying is one of most worst Things in the world..
A few time ago, I have been bullied in WAG,so I against them back and got out from.that WAG.
I will nit let anyone Bully me

Why can you think of him as your true friend ?, in my opinion he is a friend who is not good, in other words a friend who only uses you, he will be good when you are happy, and will oppress when you are in a difficult situation.

It's a pity that the behavior of your true friends, friends who should be a place for us to share in various things in life, friends who should help us when we experience difficulties, but instead oppress you to cry.
my advice is that you stay away from them and find new friends who can understand your condition and can take care of your feelings

why u still calling them your 'true friend/s' if they bully u? you know what go find another circle of friends you can find much better to them. And if they don't stop report them

how much you don't need to care about them. that is a thing that happens very often in today's age of friendship. think positively of you to those who bully you so they change better :)

You should never call a bully your friend. I i know many friends do bully each other sometimes, but if it is a one-direction thing all the time, it's time you stopped that kind of "friendship". Better, find new friends than suffer with this thing

sometimes these relationships proof that the relationships cross past friendship. If OP girl then perhaps that is the case. anyhow, you have got language and you have to decide this issue. nobody will help you.

How can they be your friends if they let themsleves do this with you and involve your parents. And if you let it once, it happens again-so just be tough and give them a lesson, such behavior is embarassing

If your friend bully you too much and you are affected by it, then maybe its time to tell him or her to stop.

Start doing workout, stop being shy, try to defend yourself - this will show them that you are not a robot who can be used as they want.

I find your first statement really unsettling. How can your bullies be your true friends? I know friends especially children intentionally get on each other's nerves. But I think in a situation where you feel you're being bullied, the case is already totally different. Bullying is a really disturbing social vice. No one should tolerate it or hang out around people that make them feel emotionally upset. News came in recently of a 9-yr old who committed suicide because he was being bullied for being a gay. So, these are extremes this issue might reach. As a matter of fact, the only solution is standing up for your own self.

1) Don't share topic speech contents.
2) Know there weakness and play.

Dear, just leave them. u don't need them, those who will bully u won't be your true friend   :)

Instead of crying, stand up and respond to those who bullied you. You're weak just making them want to bully you. Be brave to respond or report to the police if you are threatened.

What's stopping you from just walking away from them?
Tell him the friendship is over and leave in silence.