It sucks, any advice?
Were any unjust means were used to get her in to the relationship that she is in? From my experience, I have learned that there may be a lot that you do not know of.
Exactly my thoughts. I'm just waiting for the buffalo in the field to show signs of weakness, and then I'll pounce.
They might end up getting married, despite him being very weak. Things have been going that way recently. Metrosexual types have become more attractive to women.
You're right on that last point. I try not to think about her but it is painful.
If it's painful it shows that your feelings for her are sincere.
Nope, it's not about sex at all. It's about her being adorable and me wanting to be around her all the time. I wish I could talk to her anytime I wanted, it realy sucks that I can't do that.
Good for you. She should value that. If the other guy isn't valuing the same thing in her, then you should have an advantage. But does our culture value what is just? Or are we Communist, where the weaker is made to be first?
I feel for your situation and I wish I could do something to help you. I think the most I can do is help you understand and possibly show you that what is happening is not your fault and you are really in the right, depending on the situation. If the other guy is better than you, then that's just life. If he mislead her in to the relationship, then it's different. You see where I'm going.
I have witnessed a lot of bad relationship form with girls that I knew growing up. Things may be more complicated than your realize. The old wisdom of doing this may no longer be sufficient in our "modern" world.
Can you post a picture of the guy and the girl? It would be helpful to our support department. I'm serious about the picture. If being sneaky is scary to you, remember that you need to be a man and not be afraid if you are to have a girl. You can block out the eyes if you wish.
What part of the world are you living in? This is also important to me.
I agree with the advice about continuing to keep in mind that there are others out there. Don't be afraid about having feelings for more than one girl at the same time. Despite what is taught about that in Western culture, it's not really wrong. The idea that it is wrong to have more than one wife is really a very recent teaching for most of the world.
Have you ever watched The Office? As much as I hate that show, you know how there is Pam and the guy who works in the warehouse and then the guy who works in the office who likes her more? Is your situation anything like that?
Give me
BTC40,000 and I can fix your problem with a 60% chance of success.
I hope things go well for you, but I don't want to encourage unfounded optimism.
Replies to other posting of the thread:Plenty of fish in the sea...
Not always.
Follow your heart, you'll know when you find your soulmate.
There's no such thing as a "soulmate". Dating websites like to push this false idea that there is this one and only one person out there for you. Sure there may only a fraction of a percent of women that would be acceptable for you, but there's no "soulmate".
Patience, most men are inherently stupid in their decisions,
Well this guy is asking for advice
I disagree. If you're crazy about her, it means you want her to enjoy herself. Having a boyfriend or two helps with that.
Get a prostitute and save the rest of the good women for men who aren't looking for a sex object to throw away after a short while.
[/quote]Be the bigger man.. whip out your donger and compare.[/quote]
Bigger isn't always better. I hate the sexually degenerate society we live in.
get her to fall in love with you.
It may be an uphill battle. A major change in strategy may be necessary, or realization that the opportunity for victory has gone by, and defeat must be accepted. It is foolish to fight a battle which you cannot win.
If you go onto the TOR network, you can find people offering anonymous services for bitcoin where they will "eliminate" your competition for you
Where did my 1000 BTC go... and all you can do is leave negative feedback lol
Also remember that "love" is a chemical process in our brain. If you can pull your higher level thoughts above the "primitive" programs running in your brain it will give you more power over your emotions. I recommend this video to learn a bit more about what is happening in your brain:
Don't listen to anyone who claims to have love completely figured out, especially someone who got published on a mainstream news source. Not even I have it figured out.
What kind of namby pamby crap are some of you feeding this guy? If you're an alpha male, show her and she'll come around... if you're not, then sulk back to your den and whimper about how unfair life is. Although, the fact that you're posting here asking for advice is probably indicative of which direction that's going to end up.
As I mentioned, the old ways of how things worked in the world are passing away. We have epidemic levels of sexual and emotional dysfunction in men. Sperm count in US and Western europe has gone down to 13% of normal in 50 years. Most have that happen in the last 20 of those years. And I haven't even mentioned the situation with women.
