Life before and after marriage ???

[elegion]

Marriage really does depend on the person you've decided to share your life with. You can either choose a person who'll respect you for who you are and will change along with you over time. Or you can live with a person who expects you to be a certain way all the time, and needs for you to live a certain way or else they'd feel threatened.

The best thing to do is to meet different women, get to know different people. A lot of the time people will show you what they're like at the very beginning. I dated both selfish women, controlling, and very rude women, I was in quite a few disasters. I also had the pleasure of meeting very sweet and giving women over the years and by the time I met my wife she was kind enough to show me what she was like at the very beginning. I ended up with an overly giving woman, a woman who was willing to sleep on the floor while I slept in a bed, a young woman who was living on psychiatric medications and slowly dying of multiple ailments. Saving her life through the years was the best thing that's ever happened to me.

[elegion]

I am not married now but l am not young too , i mean i am in life before marrige term and i am feeling myself independent now, i can go everywhere when l want but after marriage i cant be like that so i am afraid to be marry with someone.

You're afraid of getting into a relationship with a domineering control freak, which is something that I was afraid of too when I was around your age. When I was younger I would say, "I don't want to live with a woman like my mom! I'm tired of living with women."

But truthfully...
Tell them your current habits and if any of your habits are not conducive for a child then, don't have children in the beginning or at all. I personally didn't want a woman who was with me for a particular reason or to gain something from me like children or money and leave once she got it, I needed an investment from her, dogged determination, pain and anguish if it came down to it. The type of woman who could go through poverty with me, and come out winning on the other side. Life can be nasty and cruel and she has to be just as strong as you to fight through life, like a King and Queen.

[loaddebitcard]

Well, before marriage I was a typical guy with no serious plans on life, with no responsibility. After marriage I felt that now I have a person I need to care about. It's nice and hard at the same time. I became more serious, more responsible, wiser. It's a good experience although you'd better think twice before marrying.

[sana gull]

Before marriage is a romantic life. And after marriage married life is still very interesting but when the child is completely different. Life is a higher life, more of duty and responsibility, of the tireless efforts of the family and the happiness of the little ones. Great.

you are doing good because before marriage life will not be good enough as after the marriage because you will meet someone with whom you will spend all the life time and will depend on each other and also life partner plays an important role in life like partner will give you good advice and also many thing so for me life after marriage is good.

[Daniel91]

Marriage is such a piece of a sweet one who don't eat want to eat it and those who has eaten are repenting now
What you guys think is life easier before marriage or after the marriage.

Before marriage you are responsible only for yourself.
After marriage, you are responsible for whole your family, your wife and children.
It's obvious that life after marriage is more difficult but also such life gives much more joy and happiness

[xena2]

Marriage is such a piece of a sweet one who don't eat want to eat it and those who has eaten are repenting now
What you guys think is life easier before marriage or after the marriage.

Marriage before and after are far different.  Once married,  it is not only about oneself,  you have to consider also your partner. It is a promise that together you will be one.  That in everything you do your partner must be aware and has an opinion. Being married takes patience and knowledge of how to act together.

[moshiul13]

Before marriage life is lonely and tensionless . Another  side after marriage life is with happy and beautiful family.

[webelong]

Maybe its just the same.Before you get married you still have those ups and downs,petty quarrels,but still okay.But after marriage you are more legal and aggressive to do something.You have your own life together with your wife and the family you will build.

[ronandol198]

Sure, I like marriage. I have a good wife, caring for the family. The wife made me good food, washed clothes for my family and give birth to beautiful babies. When I am sad, my wife will confided in me. My wife and I will travel together, we together look at this beautiful world. that's great
I love marriage

[overnight03]

I'm not married yet, I'm still looking for a lover. I find life before marriage is boring, no one to share my feelings, whenever I am sad, I do not know who to talk . I think that life after marriage is great .

[mydreamforever]

Marriage is such a piece of a sweet one who don't eat want to eat it and those who has eaten are repenting now
What you guys think is life easier before marriage or after the marriage.

At present, I have a family, a beautiful wife and intelligent children. It was great for me, it really made me happy to talk about my family, I am sure that my marriage life was wonderful. I think marriage is better than celibacy .

[SteffCoins]

Lol. There is no life after marriage.

[SteffCoins]

Been married for 3 years, and have not lost any part of myself. I still live the old life I used to, hang out with my friends. It depends on how you perceive your relationship. You don't have to lose anything, in fact, you gain things through marriage.

[cr_liev]

I became better after I got married. And I discovered so many beautiful qualities of my spouse, too! I think when both partners look at one direction, they will self-develop and be even more happy every year. But when partners look at each other, in different directions or at one of the partners, they are destined to be unhappy

[hannahB4]

Life before marriage is the best when you have the whole time for yourself and worry less, but this doesn't stop one from marrying has everything in life have their pros and con

[deean_3one]

I dont know life after marriage because i'm single. Athough i'm single is very happy

[SugoiSenpai]

Marriage is such a piece of a sweet one who don't eat want to eat it and those who has eaten are repenting now
What you guys think is life easier before marriage or after the marriage.

Personally, I think life would be easier Before marriage, actually in short term happiness, not being married is what I prefer, imagine not having difficult responsibilities because of having a family. On the other hand not being married results in a cliche and sad life, being able to live without all the difficult responsibilities is nice and all but given the long term of my life I would probably go for after marriage. I would rather live with my family and watch my child grow old to be able be a successful person is much better than being a stereotype single guy without any goals ahead of Him.

[nhattori27]

I don't want to miss the joys of single-hood.That's why I think life before marriage is better.

[isolater52]

Before marriage life is lonely and tensionless . Another  side after marriage life is with happy and beautiful family.

I'm happy with my wife. I'm happy when I wish a good morning to my beloved, I'm happy to wake up with her in the morning.

[Moana]

Yes, there is life both before and after marriage. I am not so sure during marriage though, I didn't try.