What is the constraint of long-distance / LDR connection? In addition to miss, bored also be one thing that makes the relationship of couples who are running LDR so tenuous.
LDR should not be an obstacle in running a healthy and romantic relationship. In fact, distance can encourage us to be more creative in keeping our fire of fire stay alive.
Let's see tips on how to maintain the romance of your long-distance / LDR relationship!
1. Quality, not Quantity
When undergoing a long distance relationship, your moments to communicate with each other may be reduced. But that does not mean you have to force the intensity and frequency of your communication. If forced so, that there is even more stale right
Instead of getting too much, it's better to have a special time for you to chat, whether through chat or phone. Well, use that time as best you can, by telling you any interesting events you want to tell each other.
2. Use photos
Sure deh, there will be time you and your partner confused what to say. At times like that, remember the saying that "A picture is worth a thousand words". Today's technology makes it easier for us to share the things we see with the people we care about. Try, start a photo of interesting things that you meet in your daily life and send it to your partner to be the story material.
3. Play the game together
Many lho small games that you can play both though you are apart distance. Check out some of the things we collect below:
- Scrabble
- Chess
4. Learn more honest and open
If your time for communication is limited, but you can not open communication, right?
So some say that LDR is good for you and coaches to be more honest and open to each other, because the limitations of distance and time between you will encourage you to make more appreciate the time you have for communication. So, your communication will be more effective and meaningful, deh!
5. Last: Of each expectation & mutual compromise
Not necessarily all the above tips suitable for every couple, because the nature and character of different (not everyone likes to play games too, right?)
However, what is important for each partner is to share their expectations and needs when the LDR, and both reach an agreement what should be done by each while living it. Maybe your partner needs frequent communication? Okay no problem, provided you can still fulfill it. Or maybe you are somewhat difficult to make a story about your daily life? Nothing, maybe your partner can be more proactive in bringing your chat.
The essence of any relationship is good communication, with or without being separated by distance. If you are / will undergo a long-distance relationship / LDR, do not forget to build a good communication between you and your partner, yes!
