Life with a Gambler - Solution!

[Hiltohen]

Once you become an addicted gambler it is almost a guaranteed thing that you will lose your job or lose your family soon afterwards. The key consist to never become addicted by following simple gambling guidelines you can find many of these guidelines in many different websites accessible to all by just doing a google search.

Being a strong person mentally is a necessary step in order to not become addicted nor to gambling nor to anything else, like drugs, alcohol etc.

If somebody can control their emotion then chances are that they can break this circle and come out of it. For that one needs to have a discipline in life which can sort out many things and they would not be losing much money and family as well.

One person out of thousands is able to break this circle out and live a happy life even being in gambling. Mostly, we do listen such complaints and even observe this physically that people come in this world just for fun and entertained seeking but their end is alarming. They don’t come out as same innocent bodies that went in there. Their mind becomes victim of this greed.

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[henmark]

I don't think gambling should be called a addiction it's not something bad or horrible as it's always is portrayed. Not all our alike, not even our fingers are the same size, each one finds a different passion which keeps him sane so I would call it a passion, i believe each person is sane enough to decide for himself, and so I feel each one can make his own choice without being subject to humiliation.

Only people who do not have a future will consider gambling as an interesting thing. The fact that gambling is a bad thing and has no benefits. As people who want a much better future, we must try to leave the gambling game in the fastest possible time.

Indeed, for me, gambling is a worse way to earn a profit and to have fun as well because how will you suppose to be entertained if you are frustrated from losing isn't? And how you can say that is one of the ways to have income if you are always loosing? There's a low chance for you to win in this way, and if you won then I can say that you were lucky enough. But don't get used to it because every time you play the more you come to your worst scenario.

Gambling is really not a good way to earn money because no matter how many times you would win you will end up losing. It depends to the person if he/she enjoys gambling because there are still people who don't get frustrated in losing in gambling because they are already rich.

No matter the situation, you should never consider gambling as a good way to earn. Probably people tried gambling because they never know where to start. I'm talking about people who have not yet understand how to earn bitcoin etc. Probably the rich are the ones who really enjoy it but sadly, they are the ones who easily get addicted. Don't you think so too?

This is a delimit that we don’t want to leave this gambling thing. Most of the times when people think they must earn money and need some good earning source, instead of joining bitcoin world, they mostly prefer gambling. Why this is so? Because they are greedy. Their greed took over all their mind capabilities and assign it to go for such easy earning money source.

[nydiacaskey01]

Do you have the same problem at home?

I don't have this problem yet at home. I don't consider myself as a gambling addict because I play occasionally and I do it privately, not where other people can see me playing. I don't even allow my kids to be open or exposed on this kind of games yet. Not until they can earn their own money for themselves. My spouse somewhat knows that I play, but I assured her that the money that I am using is not part of our household budget.

[tailwate07]

I don't think gambling should be called a addiction it's not something bad or horrible as it's always is portrayed. Not all our alike, not even our fingers are the same size, each one finds a different passion which keeps him sane so I would call it a passion, i believe each person is sane enough to decide for himself, and so I feel each one can make his own choice without being subject to humiliation.

Only people who do not have a future will consider gambling as an interesting thing. The fact that gambling is a bad thing and has no benefits. As people who want a much better future, we must try to leave the gambling game in the fastest possible time.

Indeed, for me, gambling is a worse way to earn a profit and to have fun as well because how will you suppose to be entertained if you are frustrated from losing isn't? And how you can say that is one of the ways to have income if you are always loosing? There's a low chance for you to win in this way, and if you won then I can say that you were lucky enough. But don't get used to it because every time you play the more you come to your worst scenario.

Gambling is really not a good way to earn money because no matter how many times you would win you will end up losing. It depends to the person if he/she enjoys gambling because there are still people who don't get frustrated in losing in gambling because they are already rich.

No matter the situation, you should never consider gambling as a good way to earn. Probably people tried gambling because they never know where to start. I'm talking about people who have not yet understand how to earn bitcoin etc. Probably the rich are the ones who really enjoy it but sadly, they are the ones who easily get addicted. Don't you think so too?

Gambling can never be good source of money. It is even not good source of entertainment as well. Mostly we read here people start their career in gambling just when they came here for entertainment seeking purposes. But later, their greed start triggering, and they get to know about other wasteful methods of earning. They start it, risk their tenure and then definitely lose at the end.

[hulla]

I see most of the gamblers getting rich in mid way and as fast as they won and sudden fall will be back to the market buddy.

The saying "easy get, easy to lose" fits so well when it comes to this situation.
Gambling addicts usually gets addicted to the part where they can earn "easy" money if they could just win but what they don't realize is that they lose more through the process.
Unless, that is if he's a very lucky guy whose odds are always in his favor.

“Hard Work Is The Only Shortcut To Success"
Gambling addicts should be thought on how to make their lives more productive.

Yes, the success ones don't work hard for ones won't know the worth of it cause it will be spend in a lavish way with that aside. In my opinion I believe what usually cause gamble addiction in most gamblers is the "easy and fast to get" thought and gambling with the money ones can't afford to loose and the only way to stop gambling addiction is to first  admit having a problem and wanting help as OP said and also desist from things that connected ones to gambling all time.

[Symphonized]

I don't think gambling should be called a addiction it's not something bad or horrible as it's always is portrayed. Not all our alike, not even our fingers are the same size, each one finds a different passion which keeps him sane so I would call it a passion, i believe each person is sane enough to decide for himself, and so I feel each one can make his own choice without being subject to humiliation.

Only people who do not have a future will consider gambling as an interesting thing. The fact that gambling is a bad thing and has no benefits. As people who want a much better future, we must try to leave the gambling game in the fastest possible time.

So you're saying that you can't get a better future from gambling? That's just ridiculous and your statement is false.
Doug Polk is a gambler, and he still has a future as gambler and meanwhile streaming and meanwhile trading cryptos.
So where your statement steps into him?

[Turst1974]

Once you become an addicted gambler it is almost a guaranteed thing that you will lose your job or lose your family soon afterwards. The key consist to never become addicted by following simple gambling guidelines you can find many of these guidelines in many different websites accessible to all by just doing a google search.

Being a strong person mentally is a necessary step in order to not become addicted nor to gambling nor to anything else, like drugs, alcohol etc.

If somebody can control their emotion then chances are that they can break this circle and come out of it. For that one needs to have a discipline in life which can sort out many things and they would not be losing much money and family as well.

I heard it is so hard to get rid of gambling addiction. I've seen people spending all their money in gambling. Alcohol and drugs fuels the situation as they lose control of their emotions. In India gambling is illegal however, there are lot of people who are addicted to gambling.

That is really true. I have my own experience about it, I already lost a lot of money in gambling, after losing money for every time I decided to stop play gambling anymore. But unfortunately I still cannot overcome my addiction and still continue to play gambling.

[AMNA NAZ]

I don't think gambling should be called a addiction it's not something bad or horrible as it's always is portrayed. Not all our alike, not even our fingers are the same size, each one finds a different passion which keeps him sane so I would call it a passion, i believe each person is sane enough to decide for himself, and so I feel each one can make his own choice without being subject to humiliation.

Only people who do not have a future will consider gambling as an interesting thing. The fact that gambling is a bad thing and has no benefits. As people who want a much better future, we must try to leave the gambling game in the fastest possible time.

So you're saying that you can't get a better future from gambling? That's just ridiculous and your statement is false.
Doug Polk is a gambler, and he still has a future as gambler and meanwhile streaming and meanwhile trading cryptos.
So where your statement steps into him?

these are exceptional cases i think, but as a whole i do not think that most of the gamblers are too much successful in gambling. I do not think that there is any better future for most of the gambler.

[bitcoinveda]

I don't think gambling should be called a addiction it's not something bad or horrible as it's always is portrayed. Not all our alike, not even our fingers are the same size, each one finds a different passion which keeps him sane so I would call it a passion, i believe each person is sane enough to decide for himself, and so I feel each one can make his own choice without being subject to humiliation.

Only people who do not have a future will consider gambling as an interesting thing. The fact that gambling is a bad thing and has no benefits. As people who want a much better future, we must try to leave the gambling game in the fastest possible time.

So you're saying that you can't get a better future from gambling? That's just ridiculous and your statement is false.
Doug Polk is a gambler, and he still has a future as gambler and meanwhile streaming and meanwhile trading cryptos.
So where your statement steps into him?

Don't compare with the single person my friend there are many people who lose their money while gambling. If you compare with the looser where will the Doug Polk will stand, in gambling most of the people will lose their money in a short period of time.

[just_Alice]

No, I didn't face such problems at home, one member of my family does gamble (more than me, everyday for hours), but I don't consider this as a problem and I don't think people should go so crazy about gambling addiction. It's not a problem while this doesn't harm or bring discomfort to others, including the gambler himself, like spending too much money or time on it, or thinking about casinos too much so that hinder normal living. I think it's unfair to blame gamblers for spending too much time and money on playing, if one can afford it, why not? We all have addictions, like social networks, internet, some like computer games and don't forget about the wives that complain about their husbands gambling addiction, but don't consider their shopping, plastic surgeries or abundant beauty salon visits as an addiction.

[MinerHQ]

So you're saying that you can't get a better future from gambling? That's just ridiculous and your statement is false.

Definitely yes. You can't depend on gambling earnings because most of these games are depends on your luck even though some of them increase winning chances based on some calculations.

Doug Polk is a gambler, and he still has a future as gambler

This kind of thinking mostly lead to gambling addiction. I do agree some people might have made a huge money in gambling by luck but compared to losses this percentage is very less. So one should know how much they need to spend on these risky games to check their luck instead of going after it for an easy money.

[Caladonian]

So you're saying that you can't get a better future from gambling? That's just ridiculous and your statement is false.

Definitely yes. You can't depend on gambling earnings because most of these games are depends on your luck even though some of them increase winning chances based on some calculations.

Doug Polk is a gambler, and he still has a future as gambler

This kind of thinking mostly lead to gambling addiction. I do agree some people might have made a huge money in gambling by luck but compared to losses this percentage is very less. So one should know how much they need to spend on these risky games to check their luck instead of going after it for an easy money.

In general, yes the percentage of those lucky gamblers who able to gain decent money from their winnings is far lesser than those who keeps losing because of their addictions, engaging with this activity can ruined your life you need to find strategy that will work and will combined with your luck in order to win, and we knew that there's always the other side where you might stress yourself for being upsets of defeat.

[Janation]

I don't think gambling should be called a addiction it's not something bad or horrible as it's always is portrayed. Not all our alike, not even our fingers are the same size, each one finds a different passion which keeps him sane so I would call it a passion, i believe each person is sane enough to decide for himself, and so I feel each one can make his own choice without being subject to humiliation.

Only people who do not have a future will consider gambling as an interesting thing. The fact that gambling is a bad thing and has no benefits. As people who want a much better future, we must try to leave the gambling game in the fastest possible time.

So you're saying that you can't get a better future from gambling? That's just ridiculous and your statement is false.
Doug Polk is a gambler, and he still has a future as gambler and meanwhile streaming and meanwhile trading cryptos.
So where your statement steps into him?

these are exceptional cases i think, but as a whole i do not think that most of the gamblers are too much successful in gambling. I do not think that there is any better future for most of the gambler.

It will all depends on what you want to do with your life. Most of the gamblers hope for a great win that will predict their future but the thing is that their gambling activities is the one that will bring them down.

Though they are all hoping to be rich via gambling, not all of them want to be the one who bets  in the casino some of them wants to have their own casino where he earns money that maybe he can use himself to gamble.

[Aikidoka]

I, once, made a thread and I said that if you want to quit gambling, you should quit yourself. What I meant by "Yourself" is that you should be the exact opposite of yourself. If you are a gambler, then you should not be a gambler. It is quite too philosophical to fathom. But it really helps if you truly know yourself. Added to that, every addiction has a cure. If you cannot cure yourself, then how can you cure others? How can you sit down with your loved ones and listen to their problems without advising them?

[Dodoymabs]

I, once, made a thread and I said that if you want to quit gambling, you should quit yourself. What I meant by "Yourself" is that you should be the exact opposite of yourself. If you are a gambler, then you should not be a gambler. It is quite too philosophical to fathom. But it really helps if you truly know yourself. Added to that, every addiction has a cure. If you cannot cure yourself, then how can you cure others? How can you sit down with your loved ones and listen to their problems without advising them?

Addiction is a very strong word which is also a very hard to disconnect. Finding the cure about addiction seems to be hard to find because I think only discipline is the proper solution to solve the problem.

[FlightyPouch]

I don't think gambling should be called a addiction it's not something bad or horrible as it's always is portrayed. Not all our alike, not even our fingers are the same size, each one finds a different passion which keeps him sane so I would call it a passion, i believe each person is sane enough to decide for himself, and so I feel each one can make his own choice without being subject to humiliation.

Only people who do not have a future will consider gambling as an interesting thing. The fact that gambling is a bad thing and has no benefits. As people who want a much better future, we must try to leave the gambling game in the fastest possible time.

So you're saying that you can't get a better future from gambling? That's just ridiculous and your statement is false.
Doug Polk is a gambler, and he still has a future as gambler and meanwhile streaming and meanwhile trading cryptos.
So where your statement steps into him?

these are exceptional cases i think, but as a whole i do not think that most of the gamblers are too much successful in gambling. I do not think that there is any better future for most of the gambler.

That is certain. Gamblers don't ensure a win every time they sit on a gambling table, they do experience a lot of times that they had lost and regretted that they did gamble. I gamble sometimes but I am not a gambler, I know that myself the reason I don't understand most of the gamblers view on their gambling activities but I do know that they have a goal on their gambling activities the reason they are pushing hard to win. I guess having your own gambling place is the best solution for you to have a great future in the gambling industry.

[iMark]

I see most of the gamblers getting rich in mid way and as fast as they won and sudden fall will be back to the market buddy.

The saying "easy get, easy to lose" fits so well when it comes to this situation.
Gambling addicts usually gets addicted to the part where they can earn "easy" money if they could just win but what they don't realize is that they lose more through the process.
Unless, that is if he's a very lucky guy whose odds are always in his favor.

“Hard Work Is The Only Shortcut To Success"
Gambling addicts should be thought on how to make their lives more productive.

Yeah thats what addicts say, they say that gambling can give a lot of money quickly and even many player use gambling
as their main income. it's true what you say that just working hard is the key to success not by risking your money using luck.

[wxa7115]

I haven’t got that problem at home but an acquaintance I know used to spend too much in slot machines and the solution was self-will and leaving all kind of gambling forever, the same way for an alcoholic the solution relies on self-will and not drinking a drop more for the rest of their lives. Just one drop leads to the same old self-destructive pattern, the same way as just one bet.

I don’t agree with it being called a “hidden disease”. There might not be physical signs or symptoms but someone with a real problem spends too much and that’s clear symptom of a behavioral problem and they cannot hide it for long.

Unfortunately a friend had the same problem with a member of his family, casinos are very attractive places and it can be very fun to spend a night there but there are people completely unable to control their impulses and then they become addicted to gambling, the problem is like most addicts at first they do not recognize they are addicted and try to deny it, my friend told me that his family member only recognized she was a addicted once she lost her family and almost all her possessions.

So the only possible solution for a person like that is to never gamble again, it does not matter if the bet is small in a casino or if it is a low stakes poker game with friends, a person like that should never gamble under any circumstances.

[SushiMonster]

Solutions to this problem vary per person. It may or may not have the same effect as to the other but it never hurts to try. I think one of the most effective solutions is to invest on a new hobby (that does not relate or is a far different category to gambling). Once you’ve invested in that, you’ll be able to spend more time to that hobby and to yourself. Little you’d know, you no longer find yourself gambling.

[krishnaverma]

Solutions to this problem vary per person. It may or may not have the same effect as to the other but it never hurts to try. I think one of the most effective solutions is to invest on a new hobby (that does not relate or is a far different category to gambling). Once you’ve invested in that, you’ll be able to spend more time to that hobby and to yourself. Little you’d know, you no longer find yourself gambling.

Yes, there are different solutions for different people like :

1) If a bachelor has got addicted to gambling, he should find a partner. He will be busy spending time with the partner and thus have less time for gambling.

2) If a student is getting addicted to gambling, he should be made to go for things he likes more like gaming to keep his mind occupied.