Social experiments in the world of gambling

[Shamerkhan]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

[SyGambler]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

make it more clear , like he is asking for money as a help or asking for help to stop gambling ?
when it comes to money I won't lend a gambler who lost all his bankroll  , if he was cautious enough he wouldn't lose his own money at first place which means most likely he will bust your money too 

if he asking for help to quit then that should involve professional therapy not just some chats with friends , chatting with friends can help sometimes but it's much better to seek professional help

[milewilda]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

What help would he ask? He cant expect for any financial support on this place for sure but he would get some support when it comes to good advises and tips on how he would able to solve his current problem with gambling.Gambling is just a matter of win or lose and if he lost up big time then he should deal with it because before playing gambling
you should know always the risk behind.Dont play if you cant handle out the stress or frustration on losing big.

[sunsilk]

Asking for help to return his losses? I doubt it that there will be willing to help him that way but if it's about the suggestions, opinions and tips there will be a wave of help for that guy.

Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Coming to that point of asking help because of my mistake? in some ways but not that much because if I loss and I know that I'm the cause of it, I'm accepting the fact that I've lost because it's gambling.

[Duzter]

It happens and no one will intend to help, because the mistake done is after understanding the true risk of gambling. Myself too is a victim, and I haven't asked for help with unknown persons. I've requested help from friends without revealing my failure on gambling. Also I've requested the support team of the casinos. Friends have helped me, and I'm repaying little by little.

[Sanitough]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I think I've already seen some members here begging money because they loss in gambling but they were criticized instead.
This is not a good place to bet as its against the forum rules, if they loss, just accept the loss and be a man.

In the first place, we all know that we might loss in gambling so being responsible is very important, never go beyond the limit and that's it.
For me, I would rather donate my money to charity than to people begging help because they loss in gambling, I don't want to tolerate that wrong action, I will let them realize their mistake and find ways to solve the problem.

[Wexnident]

Bro if its money, never ever EVER help a gambler in terms of it. If it's advise or just a simple talk about what happened, I'm all in. Its a lot of fun with that kind of talk. Plus, we all know how most gamblers are in terms of money. Just like what other comments have said, be a man, buckle up, and take the loss. Geez, it ain't the end of the world for you to collapse so much with a loss in gambling.

[maydna]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

No, I won't help him because he will be back to gambling again and again. I don't want to get trouble by giving help to him because once I give him the money, he will still play gambling.

Fortunately, I never have experienced like that because from my first time in gambling until now, I don't use big money to play gambling. Even though if I calculate the money that I have been used in gambling, it's not too big. Besides that, if I get lost a few times, I always think about to stop gambling and close the browser, so I don't think about my loss.

[leowonderful]

I'm willing to help and talk to people I know if they're down for any sort of reason including gambling, but I also agree that at some point some sort of professional help is appropriate, though venting or talking to others can be the remedy for smaller problems including medium-sized losses in gambling. I've never personally experienced large losses in gambling because I don't gamble a whole lot compared to many others in here, but I have know those who have, and sometimes the issue's something you can't really tackle yourself.

[robelneo]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I don't think I can loan him, because this will just push him to gamble more, but if it's an emergency I can give him a loan but if it's because he lost from gambling I don't think I can even if I have a fund, he should learn his lesson not to lose big amount of money and then loan, people should have control on how they gamble and how much money they can allocate.

[Text]

I can only offer is advice. I will help him through realization. He should just accept and move on cause he can never bring back what already lost. If he wants to bet again, I want him to take note next time that gamble only what he can afford to lose. I think such a big loss is enough to teach him a lesson. If he doesn't want to suffer again, then don't commit the same mistake, he'll just look like a fool if he do so.

[AliMan]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I don't think I can loan him, because this will just push him to gamble more, but if it's an emergency I can give him a loan but if it's because he lost from gambling I don't think I can even if I have a fund, he should learn his lesson not to lose big amount of money and then loan, people should have control on how they gamble and how much money they can allocate.

That's not an appropriate way of helping a person just for a reason that he lost money due to gambling. Maybe I will be more generous to anybody with a truthfulness in their heart while they felt the agony of pain while having problems. To give examples like your loved ones whose in the worst situations like hospitalization bills and funds for medical treatment is the first priority. Loaning for a purpose of gambling entertainment for whatever consideration it is, I can only give money for food and nothing else beyond.

[judeafante]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I will not also lend him if he loses his money from gambling this is to teach him that people will not save him if he does not control his gambling, it's like pushing him to gamble more if we are going to lend, even if he is a good payer I don't think I can give him a loan.

[bering]

If the help which asking by him is not to return his money from gambling or only just to motivate him to forget his losses then i might be will help him but before gambling people should be realize the risk that if lost then obviously he will lost all of his money and if the people cannot accept it then gambling isn't part from them and don't ever try to gamble if people fear to lost

[aioc]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I only lend to people who are in needs or in an emergency, I am not a loan shark to give him a loan if he wants to sustain his gambling habit he better go to a loan shark, I don't want to contribute to his downfall, because that's going to happen to people who loan just to gamble.

[iamaruf]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Maybe no one will help you.Because It's your fault. And you know gambling is risky then why you played? If you win 1btc.you are not going to share your money right? Then when you,why people will help you?
Actually i have few reserved fund to play and if i lose those amount i don’t play that day.         

[plr]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Even if he is a close friend I would have to say no, I don't want to help him to continue gambling, lending him to gamble means you are ok to see him ruining his life to gambling, it's a difference if you are lending money in an emergency situation than lending him for gambling, even if he is giving a high interest.

[acroman08]

No, why would I help someone who is old enough to make his own decision. it is for the best to let him experience the consequences of his own action.
I will only help if the person is asking for advice on how to quit gambling although I may not be the best person to give advice I will still try to
give what I think the action to take when trying to quit gambling.

[mu_enrico]

Helping doesn't mean to lend/give him money for whatever reason. If he admits about his sickness, then I might help him to get the necessary treatment.

The more complicated scenario is when his family is also in trouble and desperately needs money to buy food or pay for school tuition fees. In this case, I would lend/give some money to his wife, but not to him.

Any better solution?

[carlisle1]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

this is your first post yet talking about favor?nice try mate lol.

you did not even clarify what kind of Help are we talking here,if this is financial or technical?


if this is for strategy then you should mention what kind of game first because gamblers has their own expertise

but if this is about financial?then stop it because no fool that will give you a hand when the main reason is to gamble .