Social experiments in the world of gambling

[Debonaire217]

Being lost in gambling will not be a reason for us to ask help especially if we are asking for funds to play again. We should always bear the consequence if we lose and try our lack next time. IT is a matter of pride to play with our own money instead of asking people to give us and to save us from our own losses.

[Naida_BR]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I would give psychological support of course.
If he asks me for money in order to keep gambling I would never do it because this would feed his addiction more and it will not help him at all.

[Mumbeeptind1963]

That's a great sign of addiction if he takes that money back into gambling. What he needs is a financial advisor to talk him out of his gambling addiction. I would also for an excuse not to help him out because he won't use the money in an appropriate way.

Quite right if you set yourself a target and play and have a self discipline then you would be out once you win that amount and would not be a playing . This will help you to as you can fulfill other needs or pay off your debts if any taken from this money .

I will not give him money, because he is not at his stable mindset and and in good condition. I will give him some advices rather than money, Im sure he has still have a money, he needed an advisor, I am myself experiencing some problems in losses too, but I know how to control myself and have a control in gambling, we need to control our money and our emotion as well, if you will give him money, it will only makes him more addicted.

[peter0425]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I would give psychological support of course.
If he asks me for money in order to keep gambling I would never do it because this would feed his addiction more and it will not help him at all.

and you will only feeding his stupidity giving him another amount to play,if we really wanted to help that person?we must teach him how to keep away fropm gambling and learn what he got from the past.

playing again will only worsen the situation and will keep him on the same track forever in which very wrong and not tolerable.

so either advice him,or just leave him alone for his own recovery and realization.

[AicecreaME]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Never in a situation , I would help a stranger with money to support his gambling habits but if it is anything except finances , I would be happy to put forth my opinion and exerience to help him with the same .

If we help a stranger with our money to support his habit of gambling, then we will not have a chance to get the money back. We don't have to help him if he will use that money to gamble because that will not help him to solve his problem. But if he needs money to buy food, then yes, we can help him because it's about humanity.

And that is the tricky part, if someone is asking for money, let's just say he is asking for it to buy some food, but the truth is he will not use it to buy some food, instead he is going to use it to play gambling, that is why for me when I'm helping someone, I'm not giving money, I'm asking them what they need and I buy it to give it to them, mostly it is food and clothing, I am not going to give money or anything materials that won't help them to be honest.

[Webetcoins]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I would give psychological support of course.
If he asks me for money in order to keep gambling I would never do it because this would feed his addiction more and it will not help him at all.

and you will only feeding his stupidity giving him another amount to play,if we really wanted to help that person?we must teach him how to keep away fropm gambling and learn what he got from the past.

playing again will only worsen the situation and will keep him on the same track forever in which very wrong and not tolerable.

so either advice him,or just leave him alone for his own recovery and realization.

It is true .A person who has suffered from some serious loss in the past via gambling must not be offered more money to try his luck again. This is because it will only add up to his distress as he will try his best to win this time. And winning with such a mental instability is not possible most of the time. Gambling must not take over one’s nerves. It should only be limited to be a source of fun.

[Colt81]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If someone ask a help for me after he suffers from losing a huge amount of money. I think it would depends because if he will ask money just for him to gamble i would rather not help him because he will just be push himself to gamble even more again. But if he ask money to help him to financial problem i would only lend him a few money and watch him goes, so i could know if he will really use it for good.

[passwordnow]

If someone ask a help for me after he suffers from losing a huge amount of money. I think it would depends because if he will ask money just for him to gamble i would rather not help him because he will just be push himself to gamble even more again. But if he ask money to help him to financial problem i would only lend him a few money and watch him goes, so i could know if he will really use it for good.

I think that's the case too and what if I'm also in the same situation but not having a problem in gambling but real life financial problem. I can help him in some manner but if it's the money, no can do. You sure to lend him even if you don't know him? I think it wouldn't be lend anymore but that would be your good will to help him so that he have something to start with. Well, only few people will do that unless you really have something to offer and you're okay with the amount you're giving him.

[michellee]

If we help a stranger with our money to support his habit of gambling, then we will not have a chance to get the money back. We don't have to help him if he will use that money to gamble because that will not help him to solve his problem. But if he needs money to buy food, then yes, we can help him because it's about humanity.

And that is the tricky part, if someone is asking for money, let's just say he is asking for it to buy some food, but the truth is he will not use it to buy some food, instead he is going to use it to play gambling, that is why for me when I'm helping someone, I'm not giving money, I'm asking them what they need and I buy it to give it to them, mostly it is food and clothing, I am not going to give money or anything materials that won't help them to be honest.

We don't know if his reason to ask for money for gambling, but he says that with the money, he will buy some food. I think we don't know what he will do after we give that money. But maybe we can ask them first, and if they say that money will be used to buy food, we can ask him to buy that food, and we can pay for that food. That will prevent him from using that money for playing gambling, and I think that is the right solution for us to know what is his real reason to ask that money.

[swogerino]

If we help a stranger with our money to support his habit of gambling, then we will not have a chance to get the money back. We don't have to help him if he will use that money to gamble because that will not help him to solve his problem. But if he needs money to buy food, then yes, we can help him because it's about humanity.

And that is the tricky part, if someone is asking for money, let's just say he is asking for it to buy some food, but the truth is he will not use it to buy some food, instead he is going to use it to play gambling, that is why for me when I'm helping someone, I'm not giving money, I'm asking them what they need and I buy it to give it to them, mostly it is food and clothing, I am not going to give money or anything materials that won't help them to be honest.

We don't know if his reason to ask for money for gambling, but he says that with the money, he will buy some food. I think we don't know what he will do after we give that money. But maybe we can ask them first, and if they say that money will be used to buy food, we can ask him to buy that food, and we can pay for that food. That will prevent him from using that money for playing gambling, and I think that is the right solution for us to know what is his real reason to ask that money.

That would be a good idea but I think that an addicted gambler would do anything just like an addicted alcoholic.I know this at first hand,one time when I was coming out of church a person told me and many other people he just needed money to feed his families and I together with some others gave him each 5 Euros.We saw him soon after running at a bar and we learn next morning that he was drunk.I don’t trust strangers anymore from that day and never give them money even if they are telling the truth.

[rodskee]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

sure i will help him,if he can promise that he will not use the amount for another risk in gambling,and also if he can afford to stop gambling to start again for new life.

[Sahyadri]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I am confused if you mean to ask for financial help or some other kind of help. If it is financial help , then I am adamant of not trusting my money with someone else gambling skills. I dont think so I would ever help someome financially and support his gambling addiction . Coming to other types of help, I am open to help be it strategizing or anything about the gambling game itself.

[Debonaire217]

Here's the proper mindset, if we are to give money back to someone who lost that money, we'll just pushing him to let that money be lost again, for sure it will not help him so we should consider other ways such as providing betting advice and to help him earn and control his money to not be bet all in all in gambling.

[SummerBliss]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I have helped few of my close friends to cover their losses in gambling, some gave back the money and some did not but leaving all that aside : I feel I would be hesitant enough to help a stranger financially specially when it comes to supporting his gambling habit. Maybe if that person promises to get out of gambling after he gets the money, I might help him financially too just to get good karma. Never faced such a situation , so cant really say it with guarantee.

[Kasabus]

Here's the proper mindset, if we are to give money back to someone who lost that money, we'll just pushing him to let that money be lost again, for sure it will not help him so we should consider other ways such as providing betting advice and to help him earn and control his money to not be bet all in all in gambling.

It's okay if he will stop gambling after we give him money but most gamblers does not think and do like that, if they have some money, they will still gamble again thinking they can win back all their loses, it's kind of an unrealistic mindset that will only push their to a more disastrous life ahead.

if we are a true friend or if we really care, we won't tolerate, let them learn from their mistake.

[Latviand]

I will help him/her in the right way instead of borrowing money again and let that person play again until that money you've lend will be lost, then I will choose to talk to that person and give a lecture. Maybe he/she will be angry at me, and if it does, then it is the sign that the person is fully addicted because he/she doesn't want to stop after losing a huge amount of money. And by lecturing, I will also advise that person, guide, and help to overcome the addiction and made him realize how addiction in gambling could severely affect its own life and maybe the people that important around that person.

[Savemore]

Here's the proper mindset, if we are to give money back to someone who lost that money, we'll just pushing him to let that money be lost again, for sure it will not help him so we should consider other ways such as providing betting advice and to help him earn and control his money to not be bet all in all in gambling.

It's okay if he will stop gambling after we give him money but most gamblers does not think and do like that, if they have some money, they will still gamble again thinking they can win back all their loses, it's kind of an unrealistic mindset that will only push their to a more disastrous life ahead.

if we are a true friend or if we really care, we won't tolerate, let them learn from their mistake.

That is right, they will only stop playing gambling until they get satisfied. They keep playing even though they keep experiencing losses, if they seek help where they will borrow money from me; I will ignore him immediately because I do not have guarantee that he will return the money that he will borrow to me. I will help a gambling addict to overcome his current problem but not financial problem, I can ehlp him to become a normal person who will stop gambling his money.

[michellee]

Here's the proper mindset, if we are to give money back to someone who lost that money, we'll just pushing him to let that money be lost again, for sure it will not help him so we should consider other ways such as providing betting advice and to help him earn and control his money to not be bet all in all in gambling.

It's okay if he will stop gambling after we give him money but most gamblers does not think and do like that, if they have some money, they will still gamble again thinking they can win back all their loses, it's kind of an unrealistic mindset that will only push their to a more disastrous life ahead.

if we are a true friend or if we really care, we won't tolerate, let them learn from their mistake.

That is right, they will only stop playing gambling until they get satisfied. They keep playing even though they keep experiencing losses, if they seek help where they will borrow money from me; I will ignore him immediately because I do not have guarantee that he will return the money that he will borrow to me. I will help a gambling addict to overcome his current problem but not financial problem, I can ehlp him to become a normal person who will stop gambling his money.

Even if he loses the money, he will search the other people so he can borrow the money again. He will do that over and over because he is addicted to gambling. That is sad because that person cannot hold or control himself in gambling, and that will only make him search for money for playing gambling. We cannot help him by giving the money because he will use that money to play gambling if we don't know.

[Faxmate]

Here's the proper mindset, if we are to give money back to someone who lost that money, we'll just pushing him to let that money be lost again, for sure it will not help him so we should consider other ways such as providing betting advice and to help him earn and control his money to not be bet all in all in gambling.

It's okay if he will stop gambling after we give him money but most gamblers does not think and do like that, if they have some money, they will still gamble again thinking they can win back all their loses, it's kind of an unrealistic mindset that will only push their to a more disastrous life ahead.

if we are a true friend or if we really care, we won't tolerate, let them learn from their mistake.

That is right, they will only stop playing gambling until they get satisfied. They keep playing even though they keep experiencing losses, if they seek help where they will borrow money from me; I will ignore him immediately because I do not have guarantee that he will return the money that he will borrow to me. I will help a gambling addict to overcome his current problem but not financial problem, I can ehlp him to become a normal person who will stop gambling his money.

Even if he loses the money, he will search the other people so he can borrow the money again. He will do that over and over because he is addicted to gambling. That is sad because that person cannot hold or control himself in gambling, and that will only make him search for money for playing gambling. We cannot help him by giving the money because he will use that money to play gambling if we don't know.

Yeah this is not good to get addicted in gambling infect we should try to avoid such habit but you can keep playing untill you think and see that you are winning but when you realize that you are loosing your money in gambling you should stop gambling so a gambler must have self control and don’t be emotional, don’t give money to addicted gambler.

[radjie]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

if the help you need wants to leave gambling and try to live a better life maybe I will give direction to be able to change your life so that you don't feel curious because you want to make up for the losses you experienced in gambling. but if the help you need is loan capital to be able to roll back, i won't give you the capital you need at all