Will you stop gamble if your girl friend insists ?

[swogerino]

It depends,usually not much people care about their girlfriend,she is the girlfriend and not the wife.Most people,the ones who are not addicted tend to obey to the wife as they do not want to risk a divorce or the family to go in ruin because of the gambling that they may like to do.

If you are addicted then most likely you do not really care nor for your girlfriend and nor for your wife,addiction make people lose their sense of the reality that they are surrounded by and a lot of times people have lost families because of gambling addiction.I have one colleague at my work who did,he says to me that she could not have children but I know it is not of that but because of gambling addiction that he has.

[iv4n]

It is completely about my decision. I mean gambling or not gambling is what I personally do. My girlfriend can warn me about it but that's the most she can do. I won't let my own girlfriend make decisions about my life cause I know I am the one that will make most accurate decisions about my own  life. On the other hand too much gambling can be issue so its better to give ear to your girlfriend and at least pause it for some time, for your own health.

I think that's the right way of thinking... if someone gambles too much and it's causing them problems, then that person should think and listen to the advice of a close person, in this case, a girlfriend!

But if a girl just wants to change her boyfriend to suit her, then that guy needs to work on his character! A man should be able to make his own decisions about the things he likes to do, and how will he do them... I have a wife and I still gamble, sometimes when we are alone in the evenings she even watches me and I give her to choose which games/slot we will play!

[robelneo]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

If you're like that obeying what your girlfriend tells you then prepare to be under her when you get married, there's always a line on what you can obey from her recommendations, if it something that is harmful to you or will hinder you to have a strong relationship then yeah I will obey but not because she insists but because its the right thing to do.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling   Will you Stop  

I don't think I will, I am not a compulsive gambler and if he wants more time for us he can ask me, not to the point that she will insist that I should stop.

[michellee]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

If a person gambles a lot, I don't think he will stop gambling or even if he stops gambling, he will gamble again after he is not with his girlfriend. Unless he and his girlfriend live together, there's a good chance he'll quit and leave gambling for good. But it will depend on how often he gambles because if he only gambles once in a while, I don't think quitting gambling won't be too difficult. But if he gambles a lot and many people ask him to stop but he doesn't, then when his girlfriend tells him to stop, he won't stop either.

[bitzizzix]

My boyfriend used to strictly forbid me to gamble and fight a lot because I gamble a lot, and have broken up a few times but came back again.
It's not that I didn't love him because I was still gambling at the time and I thought if I married him I wouldn't be going anywhere or I would come back and be a wife, and it proved.
I assured him I would definitely quit because I knew gambling was bad, and after I had one child I finally quit and that was my promise. Because I realized that gambling would be more accepting of losing than winning, and nowadays I only gamble occasionally when I have free time and without my wife knowing.
After all family is everything and I didn't stop completely and just didn't want to be an active gambler.

[Issa56]

I think before my girlfriend will ask me to stop doing something, am sure their will be a reason for that, then I will listen to the reason why she asked me to stop gambling, if she is having a good reason then I will try to stop, but we all know is not really easy to stop gambling most especially if the person is addicted to gambling.
Actually I will try my possible best to stop gambling if she insist that I should stop, since am not really addicted to gambling but am sure it will be difficult for some people to stop and some won't even listen to her.

[Baofeng]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

If she became your girlfriend, for sure she should know that you are into gambling right? But in any case she didn't know, then it's going to be a big problem. Because there could be girls that might be demanding in a good way, I mean maybe she just want to get out of it even if you are not an addicted gambler. Or maybe it's just a matter of compromise, you can talk to her, explain everything and maybe you can make an agreement or something, instead of your relationship suffering.

[dothebeats]

This is an obvious yes for me. This is why I don't engage myself in romantic relationships because I know for a fact that a lot of my activities will be restricted by my partner when the time comes. I'm better off doing things alone and living alone as it gives me the freedom that I need to do what I need and want to do. Also, everyone should realize that once you are in a relationship, most of your activities will be questioned by your partner. Though if your partner is mature enough to realize that you are not destroying your life with gambling, and permits you to still do it, I'd say that I'd still go ahead and waste my time (and money) in a casino every Saturday.

[el kaka22]

"Insists" is the keyword here. Depends on what we are talking about, if there is a problem that hurts our relationship or myself then I would definitely try to stop it. It is always more important to have a loving relationship with someone over gambling, maybe something else could be more preferable and you would want your girlfriend to understand that, like I do play games a lot on my computer and ask her to understand this, and she is fine with it.

But, gambling is a risk you take with your money and that is something she has a say in as well. But, if we are talking about insisting like it's fine but make it logical and not lose your house, then I would agree and gamble a small amount instead.

[rodskee]

first I want to ask myself if I am a bad gambler? because form this I will give way for Her insisting .

-- If I am an addicted gambler then of course She will be my Weapon to escape that addiction and this will also help me from saving our relationship .

-- If i am not a addict? if I am an occasional gambler? then the approach will be different and I will let her Understand that Gaming is just a Time killer and stress reliever and nothing more.

[Yaunfitda]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

It's different though, I mean the girl should understand his man and should not be in control here. And if that happens to me, then I will have to dump her if this is going to be an issue in our relationship because for sure she will continue to nag you and it will be not very healthy in your relationship. And besides, it's either she really love you that she will be open to everything, including your gambling habits.

[lobo13hf]

My GF can't be the reason for me to stop it but i may consider another factor such as if my GF was seeing me in a difficult position and i shall stop my addict. I think that if it will not become a strong reason to stop from gambling but if it was breaking the limit and then i must have stopped from doing it. He will not insist me if i was not doing something bad.

[behandsomebecool]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling   Will you Stop  

Lol, no, of course not. Giving up a hobby for someone else is a bad idea so you can easily lose yourself for the sake of someone's desires. I had a girlfriend who first demanded that I quit smoking, then wanted to give my dog to a shelter because she was allergic to wool...In the end, I broke up with the girl

[Mr.right85]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

The way you used OBEY in sentence 1 as at above makes it seem to me like the sort of compelled or expected obedience between a master and his or her slave. An obedience that is demanded and that's not how I feel it works in a relationship.
Maybe the lady is expected to always be submissive from my part of the world but in the end, it is simply a relation. A base for common understanding between 2 people who are fund of themselves.

As a girlfriend, you definitely would see your partner for a partner becuase what ever it is, you go through life together as a partner. Which ever stunt the other is facing, the weight of it is often shared in impact.
So, your girlfriend insisting that you stop gambling, could be there are some obvious negative reasons for which she has detected, detested and won't want to it to continue and that's very normal.

Best thing to do, get an understanding of her bases and try to limit your gambling habit.

[Cling18]

It depends on how gambling could affect our relationship. If I'm am an abusive gambler and spend most of my time in it without even noticing it, then I'll quit than to lose her. But if it's not harming us and I'm playing responsibly, I will not stop just because she wants me to stop. Things will depend on how we understand each other and how we value each other's feelings.

[jrrsparkles]

No, I am not going to stop anything which I like to do for anyone but I know my limits so if I starts to exceeds and that is the real concern then I will consider it and what is good for the situation will be done. And actually nobody should obey their GF unless they are living dependent on them so it varies from one to another and for me it is No.

[jakelyson]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

If it is my wife, then we would talk about it first before we make a decision on whether I should totally stop or just limit it. Every decision I make should involve her because we are already bound together for life. It will help the relationship if we are in sync.

But if it is just a girlfriend, I do not think I have to do everything she has to say. I would not stop gambling but I can consider limiting it for her. If she truly knows me, she knows that I am not an addict and have total control over my gambling habits. It is just a form of entertainment and she should understand that.

[CryptoHeadlineNews]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

We are meant to love our girlfriends, while likewise they respect us in return, and a man who loves his girlfriend will always give her a listening ear, because a lady will not ask her boyfriend to stop gambling if she hasn't noticed any strange behavior in him which she is unhappy with, and as a good boyfriend, the best option is to see reasons with her while she is insisting on you stopping to gamble, because relationship is all about understanding

[acroman08]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

depends on my partner's reason. I mean I am a casual gambler and have full control over how much funds I use when I gamble. gambling is also a way to unwind or entertain myself. overall I think I am safe from being addicted to gambling in fact I think my casual gambling helps me mentally(that's just me though I don't know what other feels).

[ethereumhunter]

Maybe I would stop gambling if my boyfriend asked me to stop, especially if he didn't want to see me in trouble. Sometimes, we need to see how seriously he can help us quit and only someone who loves us will ask us to stop our bad habits because he cares about us. It takes an open mind to see if he wants to see us not gambling again and someone who cares will do anything to convince us that he loves us because he knows gambling can make us lose everything.