Will you stop gamble if your girl friend insists ?

[D ltr]

Everyone cares more or less about their girlfriend. So if they say something that is taken seriously. But as I do not consider gambling as a profession or a means of income, I will try to convince her that it is a part of my entertainment. I think anyone will be able to understand it.

but unfortunately almost 50% of women hate gamblers, and don't accept any reason with which it's gambling, sometimes I often say that women who like shopping and men who gamble are the same hobbies that can't be denied

[inanilujimi]

It's difficult to change someone's habits, what else has been done for a long time, even I who already have a wife, to be honest, she can't stop me from gambling, we have to give her understanding even though it's wrong, but I can control which money to gamble and for other needs.

[serjent05]

Believe it or not, in this era when their boyfriends have become players or gambling addicts, their girlfriends can become players too in the end. Therefore, cases like yours will not always happen to other people as well so we cannot conclude that a boyfriend will be able to change your lifestyle as a gambler. Also, it depends on their personality because to change someone is not going to be easy, but if there is something he finds in someone he loves then it is possible that they will change because of a love so great that they are willing to stop gambling.

Not if the nature of the girl is conservative and is more inclined to live according to his spiritual belief.  So it depends on what kind of personality our girlfriend has.  I agree that a girlfriend has a huge influence on the guy so most of the time guys listen to the advice of their girlfriends.  But as I stated earlier, as long as the girl isn't my wife, I always have reservations about my self-decisions.

Everyone cares more or less about their girlfriend. So if they say something that is taken seriously. But as I do not consider gambling as a profession or a means of income, I will try to convince her that it is a part of my entertainment. I think anyone will be able to understand it.

but unfortunately almost 50% of women hate gamblers, and don't accept any reason with which it's gambling, sometimes I often say that women who like shopping and men who gamble are the same hobbies that can't be denied

True that most women hate uncertainties so they hate gambling.  And gambling and shopping are two different things.  Shopping can give us guaranteed goods when we spend our money but gambling won't.

[Quidat]

I'm sure when our couple has insisted that we stop gambling, then in fact maybe we spend too much time, focus, and money on gambling. While the results are not much. Sometimes our partner insists because it reminds us to know the limits of gambling. Or because of certain beliefs if gambling is good or bad. It doesn't matter, if this is indeed the case then it can be taken into consideration. I'm sure they do that because they care about us.

They wont really make those words if they havent seen something wrong which most of the time where people do go beyond their limits then it is really
just normal that our loved ones will really be having that reaction and would be telling that we should stop but there are some who do make out some selfish
decisions just because they dont just like that you are spending some time on other things and would want that you should really be just focusing on them. 

[rahmad2nd]

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

Hobby problems are complex problems, especially gambling games. although there are many people who stop gambling because of their partner, however cases like this are complicated cases, a person's personality will be difficult to change even though there is pressure or encouragement from loved ones, especially partners.

not everyone will follow what his girlfriend says, even though the reprimand is for his own good, most of them will play hidden gambling without their partner knowing, things like this are common things that usually happen even there are many couples who like gambling as a lifestyle.

[Lordhermes]

I'm sure when our couple has insisted that we stop gambling, then in fact maybe we spend too much time, focus, and money on gambling. While the results are not much. Sometimes our partner insists because it reminds us to know the limits of gambling. Or because of certain beliefs if gambling is good or bad. It doesn't matter, if this is indeed the case then it can be taken into consideration. I'm sure they do that because they care about us.

You are correct,because I think the only reason why your girlfriend will want us to stop gambling and will insist you should stop is because you don't win,and you continue to waste money that does not return, that is the only reason why she would want you to gamble.But if you are a regular winner,or when you win,you win big,I believe she won't have a problem with you gambling.

[BobK71]

not everyone will follow what his girlfriend says, even though the reprimand is for his own good, most of them will play hidden gambling without their partner knowing, things like this are common things that usually happen even there are many couples who like gambling as a lifestyle.

This is true, I saw a friend who was very engrossed in gambling. After knowing the matter of his girlfriend about gambling, she told him to give up it, but after a few days later his girlfriend left him but he could not leave the gambling. There may be many gamblers who make false promise to satisfy his girlfriend but later they always try to hiding their gambling.

[Rockstarguy]

I don't think it is right for a girl friend to try to stop her mam from playing gambling.  What a girl friend is supposed to do is to advise her man if only the gambling lifestyle is affecting the man negatively,  if the man is addicted,  then the girl has right to advise her man to reduce the habit of of playing gambling to avoid excess lose of money in playing gambling.

[wheelz1200]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

Depends not all stories are the same.  If you just lost your entire savings and she says to stop is way different than just meeting her and you play 50-100 dollars and she tells you to stop.  The first instance yeah if you wanted to stay with her then yep need to stop.  In the second instance nah, if you like playing every now and again maybe that chick ain't the right one for you.

[crzy]

I don't think it is right for a girl friend to try to stop her mam from playing gambling.  What a girl friend is supposed to do is to advise her man if only the gambling lifestyle is affecting the man negatively,  if the man is addicted,  then the girl has right to advise her man to reduce the habit of of playing gambling to avoid excess lose of money in playing gambling.

Same thing on stopping your boyfriend from gambling because your girlfriend will not stop you if she saw nothing but the good side when you gamble. Too much gambling is not good, don’t wait for someone to stop you playing because that is the moment you already addict in gambling, listen to your love ones and your family, they just want the best for you.

[DoublerHunter]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

^This depends on you at the first place, sometimes we did not see a bad effect on those things that we usually do. If it is relevant to financial matters and it will affect it, probably your girlfriend see this situation while you are not because you blindly follow your urge in gambling. Sometimes listening to them for your own good is worth it. But if you gamble moderately and if you see that you can manage everything, then there is no reason your girlfriend will stop you in that case. Be responsible gamblers and nothing will stop you.

[ChiBitCTy]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

Someone popped up in the collectibles board once selling a cryptocurrency coin, and saying they were doing so because their girlfriend didn’t like the fact that he was “in to bitcoin/cryptocurrency”. We all told him he should get rid of her lol. That’s a bit different of a situation though. If the girlfriend doesn’t like the gambling because of it being a problem, then I understand, but if not, she likely needs to mind her own business.

[Tumanggor]

fortunately, until now, my girlfriend doesn't know I play gambling but if I get caught with her, I will say yes to stop but still play with a small capital behind her

even when I was still being financed by my parents, they couldn't make me stop gambling, especially now that I've made my own money so no one can stop me even my girlfriend even though I have to play secretly

[serjent05]

fortunately, until now, my girlfriend doesn't know I play gambling but if I get caught with her, I will say yes to stop but still play with a small capital behind her

even when I was still being financed by my parents, they couldn't make me stop gambling, especially now that I've made my own money so no one can stop me even my girlfriend even though I have to play secretly

I just hope you can moderate your gambling activities and is gambling responsibly.  it would be hard for you if you fell into a gambling addiction.  Though I would say have fun doing what you like, but it isn't nice to cheat on our girlfriend when you promised not to play gambling but play behind her back.  Once she knew about it, she will definitely get mad.

[blockman]

fortunately, until now, my girlfriend doesn't know I play gambling but if I get caught with her, I will say yes to stop but still play with a small capital behind her

even when I was still being financed by my parents, they couldn't make me stop gambling, especially now that I've made my own money so no one can stop me even my girlfriend even though I have to play secretly

Take it easy.
If your parents can't stop you and likely your girlfriend won't be. You still need to do it moderately as you're trying to hide it from them. Honestly, there's no need to hide if it's your own money that you're using for spending. Just tell them that you are unstoppable so that they won't even give a try to stop you.

[goinmerry]

Our girlfriend should not interrupt nor decide for us if we want to gamble or not. Why should we follow up on their request? Because of love? Nah.

If they just stop you without any reason, then ignore them.

If they stop you because you are now turning worst, then that's reasonable.

[lienfaye]

I think it depends on the situation. If the girlfriend is a wife material that you'd like to spend your life with and she's just concern, lets say you're overdoing it to the point you spend so much money in gambling and you dont have time for her then I will listen. Otherwise, I will continue to play because we have our own reason why we play and it doesnt mean you are already addicted, for some of us its for entertainment. But always consider the people around you especially if it is for your own welfare.

[trendcoin]

My betting habit is a private matter that concerns only me. I don't like other people talking about it... We need to be more understanding about such matters so that we can establish better relationships with the people around us. If we put pressure on each other about matters that don't concern us, our good relationships can be ruined.

[D ltr]

Believe it or not, in this era when their boyfriends have become players or gambling addicts, their girlfriends can become players too in the end. Therefore, cases like yours will not always happen to other people as well so we cannot conclude that a boyfriend will be able to change your lifestyle as a gambler. Also, it depends on their personality because to change someone is not going to be easy, but if there is something he finds in someone he loves then it is possible that they will change because of a love so great that they are willing to stop gambling.

Not if the nature of the girl is conservative and is more inclined to live according to his spiritual belief.  So it depends on what kind of personality our girlfriend has.  I agree that a girlfriend has a huge influence on the guy so most of the time guys listen to the advice of their girlfriends.  But as I stated earlier, as long as the girl isn't my wife, I always have reservations about my self-decisions.

Everyone cares more or less about their girlfriend. So if they say something that is taken seriously. But as I do not consider gambling as a profession or a means of income, I will try to convince her that it is a part of my entertainment. I think anyone will be able to understand it.

but unfortunately almost 50% of women hate gamblers, and don't accept any reason with which it's gambling, sometimes I often say that women who like shopping and men who gamble are the same hobbies that can't be denied

True that most women hate uncertainties so they hate gambling.  And gambling and shopping are two different things.  Shopping can give us guaranteed goods when we spend our money but gambling won't.

shopping does get things but it's the same as spending money sometimes the women shop because their eyes are hungry and get home the things they don't use,

[TribalBob]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

a girlfiriend and will later become our partner I will follow him because our partner will definitely give the best for us, if it is not detrimental and is constructive for the sake of the future for both of us I will obey because in a relationship there must be mutual understanding and calculation for the impact possible