Gambling by financial dependents.

[Dewi Aries]

On the other hand I really don't know the reason but I also never had lessons in school about finance or financial management or some good steps to earn money, whereas of course it is a good thing to teach a child about some things about money so that they can really have a good point of view so that they are able to appreciate the value of money and know about the value of money in life, on the other hand everyone needs money and everyone spends time in their work to earn money because this is the only thing that can keep sustaining all the needs so that we can stay alive.

Money is indeed very valuable and everyone wants it, and let's connect this context with gambling, as we know that casinos provide or give everyone the opportunity to win provided that they must be really lucky, and with the opportunity to win where money is the object of victory, this is clearly the main reason why people are involved in gambling, the hope of getting "money" in gambling is the main reason why people are attracted to gambling, they think that by gambling they will be able to get a lot of money to improve their lives, but the situation reverses when they have tried it where you are even poorer, this is the danger if you do not have a rational point of view on gambling.

I am not a person who always seeks to have a lot of money or to get rich by playing, that does not suit me because I know what my different abilities are, and I am irresponsible, because playing for the sake of playing just to make more money is not something that has anything to do with it, the Money has to be made by working at it, but in a casino it is not something that is seen as a job that gives monthly or daily income, the risk of lime being taken is not something and you should not and cannot do something like that because the results that will have are very bad.

The people who have tried such risky things, because unfortunately they have lost everything they have, a clear example was when the pandemic began, things were very difficult for many people who quit their jobs, many were unemployed, and that was the most easy? So play and see what you could do to increase your money, some were lucky, but others nothing.

Yes everyone needs money in their life to be able to fulfill all the needs of life and on the other hand gambling is not a place that can give you a lot of money, I understand there are opportunities to win but that doesn't mean you can always win because winning will only happen occasionally when you are really lucky and nothing more than that, the point is there is absolutely no consistency in terms of winning and this is a strong reason why gambling cannot be used as a place to earn and added with the possibility of risks that can occur at any time which will clearly lose your money.

On the other hand, yes that's right, the pandemic situation seems to be a situation where the population of people who turn to gambling increases because of the reduction in labor implemented by several companies making people unemployed while on the other hand the needs cannot be tolerated and this situation makes them try to justify all means to get money and one of them may be gambling, but the fact is that instead of earning what happens is the opposite they actually suffer more.

[Ojima-ojo]

Initially it will be very difficult to talk him out of it, because at his age he is so eager to explore, to me what am going to do, is to try as much as possible to let him have no access to spare money, because I already know that if there is spare money on him, it will be channelled to gambling, and When someone cannot fund his gambling habit, and he puts it on another person's shoulder just as this, it will be as if your the one gambling and that alone is an added financial pressure on you, so you guys should do all your best to make that kid understand why gambling is bad for him at his age.

At the adolescent stage, children are eager to put more pressure on things that interest them or even influence them and this used to be a big issue for the family because at that age, they need to pay more attention to what they do and try as much as possible correct them at every point in time, because a lot of them tend to take actions that are way too dangerous for their age and because of that energy they tend to take too much risk.


Although I will not blame the boy entirely likewise I won't blame the mother for having failed in her parental role and at some point taking the whole blame and result of the child's actions because that act is as a result of environmental influence on the child.

[Weawant]

Every parent will certainly give their children an understanding that gambling is not a good thing to do because if they are addicted to gambling, of course they will make many other mistakes because they cannot have an income and it will be very difficult to stop if they are addicted.
If children who are still in school are gambling and their parents do not tell their children about the dangers of gambling then this will be very bad because when they are still in school when they gamble, of course they don't have money because they haven't worked and their learning process at school is also disrupted. because they will be busy gambling and never think about their learning activities at school.

It's sad that some children are not convinced not to venture into certain things by mare telling them how irresponsible it is to venture into such a thing or how it could affect them personally so with such people,  they would want to have an experience first then probably learn from it before they will listen to any form of advice that may follow.

I don't think some kids will even let you know if they are already involved in such a habit, it's just best to advice them and for those who are involved already, seek professional help for them so they will be assisted to drop such habit early enough before it becomes something more terrible on them. If they are assisted professionally to drop the habit, they may no longer have that challenge academically.

[arimamib]

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It's sad that some children are not convinced not to venture into certain things by mare telling them how irresponsible it is to venture into such a thing or how it could affect them personally so with such people,  they would want to have an experience first then probably learn from it before they will listen to any form of advice that may follow.

I don't think some kids will even let you know if they are already involved in such a habit, it's just best to advice them and for those who are involved already, seek professional help for them so they will be assisted to drop such habit early enough before it becomes something more terrible on them. If they are assisted professionally to drop the habit, they may no longer have that challenge academically.

That is the complexity of influencing behavior, especially in young people. Indeed, for some children and teenagers, merely being told about the potential negative consequences of certain actions may not be sufficient to dissuade them from engaging in risky behaviors. There's a natural curiosity and desire for firsthand experience that can overshadow verbal warnings. The stigma or fear of judgment associated with admitting involvement in problematic behaviors can prevent some youth from seeking help or confiding in adults.

The reluctance to disclose their struggles further complicates the situation that makes it challenging for parents, teachers, and caregivers to provide appropriate support and intervention. Early intervention not only mitigates the immediate consequences of risky behaviors but also contributes to long-term academic, social, and personal success. You are absolutely right that proactive measures, such as offering guidance and advice, are essential in preventing risky behaviors from taking root.

[Iroh]

I think he needs to stop the gambling game because his Mum now is firefighting the future and knows what's best for him,but if like he said he's gambling from his weekly or monthly stipends given to him by the family,then it's a Good one but he should be discipline with that.
But paradventure he wasn't given any money for the week,what will become of him.this is where it leads us to what the Mum is afraid of with the fact that he will start stealing and sourcing for how he will meet up his gambling game.
What I advice is that the earlier he stop the better for him so he won't end up regretting his whole life for taking such decisions and besides he he's still a student depending on family.

He definitely needs to stop gambling. I think someone, financially dependent on someone else shouldn’t indulge themselves in certain activities that would involve spending money periodically.
Being dependent on someone else for money, it’s safe to say that the money gotten isn’t reliable as it could be stopped by whoever it is that does the giving at any time. And a scenario where the dependent is sadly, already hooked on gambling and the source suddenly stops giving. The dependent could likely be easily influenced into other criminal vices in a bid to get money.

He should work and earn his own money if he wants to enjoy activities that involves spending money.

[ethereumhunter]

Still, financial education can include positive messages about gambling. Odds and informed selections are essential in personal economics and life. This includes teaching moderation and its risks. The line is thin, yet it may teach if walked properly.

Parents should teach their children to make sensible choices and understand their implications. Our entire view of financial management, including gambling's pros and cons, helps them develop a success toolset. Developing a cautious, adventurous attitude ready to face future problems is key.

Indeed, parents can provide financial education to their children so that they can know about finances at an early age and can make them learn about managing their finances. Usually, parents will teach their children to save so that the saving habit can continue until they grow up and get married and teach it to their children, too.

By teaching them the many things they need, parents can hope that their children can live their lives without causing serious problems that could affect their lives. As long as children can maintain their interactions with their friends and choose good friends, they will not be affected by the bad influences of other friends. With the provisions provided by their parents, these children can develop well and live their lives well.

So, that the basic education and understanding that should be given to children from the time they become adults.
By providing good education about finances and several things related to useful activities in the future, you can build mature character.
I see that not many children are able to have an education, understanding or education about all the things that I have mentioned before so I think that it is very unfortunate that this happens in the current era because in an increasingly advanced and developing era we must also have future generation that is ready for everything in adulthood.
Personally, as father, I will always prioritize direct education and from the time my child reaches adulthood, I will introduce him to business, investment and good money management.
I gambler but I don't want my child to do the same thing his father did in gambling, I want the best for my children.

And the most important thing is to give children an understanding that they should not borrow for anything unless it is really urgent or important.
Loans may be very helpful but they must be based on the right things and are truly useful because borrowing money carelessly without any very important needs can lead to habit of borrowing.
This is an education that is no less important.

Such education should be started when children are still young so that they can learn it properly and remember it. By getting a good and correct education from their parents, they will know what they can and cannot do. They will also know what will have good and bad consequences for their lives, so they will not try to do things their parents have not taught them, even though they can learn from other places. But if they learn from other places, they can adapt themselves well and receive the lessons well because they have already received the basic lessons from their parents. Hence, they only need to adapt them to the situations and conditions that exist for them. Not many children can get an education or understand everything you mentioned before because each parent is busy working and does not supervise their children properly. Their children finally find out about something from their friends which could negatively influence their lives.

Giving children an understanding not to borrow money for anything is unnecessary unless they have urgent needs that must be met. Children will also understand well that they must be able to provide benefits to the people around them and not those who create difficulties for the people around them. This way, children will know how to behave with their environment and themselves.

[dezoel]

Life is not always the same, when one thinks about someone who is an adult and still lives with parents, they should consider why as well. Everyone keeps instantly thinking about lazy people, but maybe they have some issues? I haven't been with my parents since 18, so I do not know many reasons, but I have seen others who do, and that could very well be very difficult to move out for some people who have issues, this is why it could be very tough thing to deal with.

I hope that people could learn more before they judge. Gambling during that period does seem nasty, but unless they are hurting family money, then they could do it small by small, those people deserve happiness as well, and maybe a little bit freedom, they may need it more than we do.

[Silberman]

Some think that giving early lessons about money to children is a bad idea, but I think it is indispensable, whether we like it or not money rules our life, so if you do not have it you spend a great deal of time thinking on ways to obtain it, but if you have it then you think on ways to keep it, and people need to learn from a young age that they need to use their money in the most effective way possible, and it is obvious that someone that does not have their own income should not gamble at all.

On the other hand I really don't know the reason but I also never had lessons in school about finance or financial management or some good steps to earn money, whereas of course it is a good thing to teach a child about some things about money so that they can really have a good point of view so that they are able to appreciate the value of money and know about the value of money in life, on the other hand everyone needs money and everyone spends time in their work to earn money because this is the only thing that can keep sustaining all the needs so that we can stay alive.

Money is indeed very valuable and everyone wants it, and let's connect this context with gambling, as we know that casinos provide or give everyone the opportunity to win provided that they must be really lucky, and with the opportunity to win where money is the object of victory, this is clearly the main reason why people are involved in gambling, the hope of getting "money" in gambling is the main reason why people are attracted to gambling, they think that by gambling they will be able to get a lot of money to improve their lives, but the situation reverses when they have tried it where you are even poorer, this is the danger if you do not have a rational point of view on gambling.

For a long time my theory about why schools do not teach anything about money, even if most people will have to work for decades or even their whole lives, is because if people knew more about how things work then they will look for alternatives, just take a look at us, the people on this forum are by far the most literate people when it comes to money I know, and because of it we have decided to use and invest in bitcoin, an asset that benefits us but that runs contrary to the interests of the governments, if people all over the world suddenly knew more about how their fiat works, I am sure there will be many people that will diminish how much they use it on the spot.

[the rise]

I agree with what his mother said, he has to stop gambling, for financial reasons, if he is already established in his life that is fine, maybe now he is a responsible gambler but in a different situation such as he doesn't have any more money he will too much hope of winning at gambling causes him to no longer be a responsible gambler

[carlfebz2]

Some think that giving early lessons about money to children is a bad idea, but I think it is indispensable, whether we like it or not money rules our life, so if you do not have it you spend a great deal of time thinking on ways to obtain it, but if you have it then you think on ways to keep it, and people need to learn from a young age that they need to use their money in the most effective way possible, and it is obvious that someone that does not have their own income should not gamble at all.

On the other hand I really don't know the reason but I also never had lessons in school about finance or financial management or some good steps to earn money, whereas of course it is a good thing to teach a child about some things about money so that they can really have a good point of view so that they are able to appreciate the value of money and know about the value of money in life, on the other hand everyone needs money and everyone spends time in their work to earn money because this is the only thing that can keep sustaining all the needs so that we can stay alive.

Money is indeed very valuable and everyone wants it, and let's connect this context with gambling, as we know that casinos provide or give everyone the opportunity to win provided that they must be really lucky, and with the opportunity to win where money is the object of victory, this is clearly the main reason why people are involved in gambling, the hope of getting "money" in gambling is the main reason why people are attracted to gambling, they think that by gambling they will be able to get a lot of money to improve their lives, but the situation reverses when they have tried it where you are even poorer, this is the danger if you do not have a rational point of view on gambling.

For a long time my theory about why schools do not teach anything about money, even if most people will have to work for decades or even their whole lives, is because if people knew more about how things work then they will look for alternatives, just take a look at us, the people on this forum are by far the most literate people when it comes to money I know, and because of it we have decided to use and invest in bitcoin, an asset that benefits us but that runs contrary to the interests of the governments, if people all over the world suddenly knew more about how their fiat works, I am sure there will be many people that will diminish how much they use it on the spot.

You wont really be able to progress if you wont really be that making yourself wise when it comes to decisions then you wont really be having that kind of upgrade into your life. You would really be just remain still on having that 8-5 job and would really be that depending or basing up your living with.Whereas, to those people who had been able to find other ways then they are the ones who would really be having an advantage.
Come to think that you are just earning just that right and have decided on making some engagement with gambling then you are really just that basically making things even more worst.
This is why it would really be best that you should really know on how to divide your finances and spending up on something whether it would really be that worth to take up such step or not.

[Justin999]

Personally i don't recommend gambling in such little age. your Nephew still needs to grow his mentality level more to handle the gambling. for that, he needs time. And after that, he may enjoy his gambling but gambling is like a drug, it makes many people addicted in it who were aged enough but fail to control themselves. and your nephew is still a Younger boy in comparison of such people. i don't think he stolen anything. Your relative just set in mind that, gamblers are bad, they can steel things and that's why she suspecting him. But its true that, he won't be able to the weight of gambling and maybe it drives him to involved unusual activity for practice his gambling. So better to restart when he will eligible for it

[wallet4bitcoin]

Life is not always the same, when one thinks about someone who is an adult and still lives with parents, they should consider why as well. Everyone keeps instantly thinking about lazy people, but maybe they have some issues? I haven't been with my parents since 18, so I do not know many reasons, but I have seen others who do, and that could very well be very difficult to move out for some people who have issues, this is why it could be very tough thing to deal with.

I hope that people could learn more before they judge. Gambling during that period does seem nasty, but unless they are hurting family money, then they could do it small by small, those people deserve happiness as well, and maybe a little bit freedom, they may need it more than we do.

As much as your point sounds rational and reasonable, I do not entirely agree with it. There are a million alternative engagements that can sponsor happiness and gambling isn't the only option.

The singular fact that they are dependents deprives them of a whole lot, although the lot doesn't include their entirely happiness options, but they should be reasonable. Gambling by default drains more than it rewards, at least that is what a gambler must know, and such mentality is no good for a dependent.

[rodskee]

A family member reported to me that her eighteen years old son has started gambling. She is not worried that he is gaming but her problem is that he is a student that solely depends on her for everything he needs. Her fear is also that her son might start stealing from her if he has no access to the money he needs to gamble. My relative has even started suspecting that some money she feels was misplaced might have been stolen by her son.

She is not as close mother to her son because if does for sure there is no problem that this to arise , Our children will
respect and follow everything we says as long as they are believing and respecting us so what happened to that?

I spoke to my nephew and he told me that he has never stolen from his mother to gamble. And he gambles with only his savings from his weekly stipend he receives from the family. And he won't gamble if he has no savings to do that. From my observation, he is a responsible gambler that is just enjoying the game and making a little money occasionally. The gambling age in my country is 18+, but his mother is insisting that he must stop. What will be your advice for this young boy?

who are you to say that he is responsible gambler just because he say so?

you are not even with Him when he is outside the house and not even with Him while in gambling.

children nowadays are becoming liar when it comes to their vises , and being a  student and not self supporting?
he must not be in gambling for the first time.

[Asuspawer09]

A family member reported to me that her eighteen years old son has started gambling. She is not worried that he is gaming but her problem is that he is a student that solely depends on her for everything he needs. Her fear is also that her son might start stealing from her if he has no access to the money he needs to gamble. My relative has even started suspecting that some money she feels was misplaced might have been stolen by her son.

I spoke to my nephew and he told me that he has never stolen from his mother to gamble. And he gambles with only his savings from his weekly stipend he receives from the family. And he won't gamble if he has no savings to do that. From my observation, he is a responsible gambler that is just enjoying the game and making a little money occasionally. The gambling age in my country is 18+, but his mother is insisting that he must stop. What will be your advice for this young boy?

I mean if he is a responsible gambler there was no actual need for you to stop your boy, but for some people for sure gambling has a bad image due to its possible effects because we already see what a gambling addict could do so there is always a fear that it could also happen to you as well if you continue to gamble, I would agree to the mother that the gambling must be stopped early and stop doing to already even though he is a responsible one, it's better to prevent it anything else. For sure it is probably his entertainment, but it's probably better if he's not going to be attached to gambling at all right?

I also read some research where it is more likely to develop some kind of disorder early if your kids is going to be exposed to gambling, especially at an early age, so probably they probably going to get addicted in the future if they are going to be exposed on an early age also they don't really have money yet to sustain there gambling if your going to think about it, it might lead to theft if he lose control on his gambling he might stole some of the money of his parents, Im not saying it is going to happened but it is possible.

[dansus021]

A family member reported to me that her eighteen years old son has started gambling. She is not worried that he is gaming but her problem is that he is a student that solely depends on her for everything he needs. Her fear is also that her son might start stealing from her if he has no access to the money he needs to gamble. My relative has even started suspecting that some money she feels was misplaced might have been stolen by her son.

I spoke to my nephew and he told me that he has never stolen from his mother to gamble. And he gambles with only his savings from his weekly stipend he receives from the family. And he won't gamble if he has no savings to do that. From my observation, he is a responsible gambler that is just enjoying the game and making a little money occasionally. The gambling age in my country is 18+, but his mother is insisting that he must stop. What will be your advice for this young boy?

Dude if her son starts to gamble she better tell the dark side of the Gambling world   I don't try to scare everyone but addiction is growing especially after the player is won from it of course an age could be an indicator that a person is growing up but emotionally things can be different.

Especially in this case the son still needs the money from their parent even tho the son said he can control the gambling habit but there is one or two moment he cant control it

[Volimack]

This young man is young and many good things await him while gambling is bad for him. Now addicted to gambling he will not be able to establish himself in life. I agree with his parent's advice that his suspicions may later be correct. There is no guarantee that the responsible gambler will be able to control himself later. He never became a responsible gambler at the time he started gambling.

[KiaKia]

This have happened around me, and I have been called to intervene in few cases like this, here is what I have noticed to be most accurate about young gamblers.

1. When money is missing at home and a gambler is withing the mist of his people, there is a big chances that he is responsible for the money that was missing.

2. They will never come to light that they are the one stealing the money, unless you catch them in the act.

3. A young gambler who has no job and yet he keeps gambling, it's a alarming, you need to call on him and derive some truth from them..

They are always good at lying, and most I've seen are influenced by friend around them, funny thing is their academy will be poor in school, the first thing to do is get in touch with the teachers in school, many things could be revealed.

[Silberman]

This young man is young and many good things await him while gambling is bad for him. Now addicted to gambling he will not be able to establish himself in life. I agree with his parent's advice that his suspicions may later be correct. There is no guarantee that the responsible gambler will be able to control himself later. He never became a responsible gambler at the time he started gambling.

It is also worrying that he has started so young, because there have been studies made on the past that shows that the people that use drugs as teenagers will have greater chances of abusing them once they become adults, and I do not see why such information should not apply to gambling too, so if this person does not change their ways and do so as soon as possible, it is entirely possible they will become addicted to gambling and then their problems will compound even further.

[Zigabel]

Personally i don't recommend gambling in such little age. your Nephew still needs to grow his mentality level more to handle the gambling. for that, he needs time. And after that, he may enjoy his gambling but gambling is like a drug, it makes many people addicted in it who were aged enough but fail to control themselves. and your nephew is still a Younger boy in comparison of such people. i don't think he stolen anything. Your relative just set in mind that, gamblers are bad, they can steel things and that's why she suspecting him. But its true that, he won't be able to the weight of gambling and maybe it drives him to involved unusual activity for practice his gambling. So better to restart when he will eligible for it

There's usually a regulations that takes care of age when it has to do with gambling and so violation of such regulations it self is not good, underaged people are usually Restricted from gambling because the casinos are aware of the possible dangers such can pose to the individual and the society at Large and then going to violate such only means that such person would have to bear the risk that comes with whatever they experience gambling against the required age, that's why it's good to as much as possible try to guide and keep these children away from such so they don't get exposed to the dangers out there.

Gambling below the recommended age should always be discouraged and don't let these children get to know the possible benefits that could come with gambling so they don't get lured into it and then have to suffer in the nearest future.

[rozak]

Personally i don't recommend gambling in such little age. your Nephew still needs to grow his mentality level more to handle the gambling. for that, he needs time. And after that, he may enjoy his gambling but gambling is like a drug, it makes many people addicted in it who were aged enough but fail to control themselves. and your nephew is still a Younger boy in comparison of such people. i don't think he stolen anything. Your relative just set in mind that, gamblers are bad, they can steel things and that's why she suspecting him. But its true that, he won't be able to the weight of gambling and maybe it drives him to involved unusual activity for practice his gambling. So better to restart when he will eligible for it

There's usually a regulations that takes care of age when it has to do with gambling and so violation of such regulations it self is not good, underaged people are usually Restricted from gambling because the casinos are aware of the possible dangers such can pose to the individual and the society at Large and then going to violate such only means that such person would have to bear the risk that comes with whatever they experience gambling against the required age, that's why it's good to as much as possible try to guide and keep these children away from such so they don't get exposed to the dangers out there.

Gambling below the recommended age should always be discouraged and don't let these children get to know the possible benefits that could come with gambling so they don't get lured into it and then have to suffer in the nearest future.

the problem is the ease of access currently. children who access gambling tend to play with small capital and if it is an online casino that does not require KYC, then as long as the gambler does not make large withdrawals the account will not be suspected of requiring data verification.
Children are now closer to technology. we cannot limit them. what we can provide is an understanding of the positives and negatives of gambling. so they will know the risks if they are still interested in gambling.