Sympathetic gamblers looses itself

[LUCKMCFLY]

I have seen some facial expression gamblers that I am emotionally touched about and feels they have loosed more than they can handle and feels they deserves an condolence winning. While I empathic with him his amount of lost, I am then to consoling myself that someone on here has lost more than I do.

This is exactly how some gamblers runs out of gambling budgets and goes bankrupt because they fails to figure what their net worth or incomes value is.

They are basically to believe one who lost $20 has lost more to them who looses $10.

Everyone who gambles has a budget or limit to his expenses on gambling, once you breakout of that threshold, it becomes a problem.
The challenge is that loads of people have no idea that they have a budget, simply because you have $1000 in your bank account doesn't mean that the allowable amount for gambling is $1000. The ignorance of this simple knowledge has been the bedrock of the whole concept behind irresponsible gambling graduated into bankruptcy

Even the concept of a budget is foreign to most people since they do not save any money at all from their monthly pay, it is because this is so common that governments eventually created their pension systems as otherwise most people will literally have to work all their lives.

However a person that used a budget and stick to it will soon find themselves with a nice amount of savings, which can later be used to invest and increase their wealth.

In the case that these things happen, it is because we have seen that there are many ways to manage money, so it is always better to consider what we are willing to lose in money, if in any of the cases we make a possible balance to lose, Suppose you have 100usd to lose in a single game session, that's perfect, it seems excellent to me, because later if in the final case of losing you have to assume what was lost and now, if we deposit after that we are doing everything wrong, we are breaking our own rules, and that is what problems are generated, I have always seen that when a person breaks their own rules everything goes wrong, and that is something that we must avoid because if we break our own rules, as we can do? Well, losing more money, and that is what should be avoided, we in the game must be intelligent, not get carried away by emotions and be beaten.

In a casino, as in everything in life, consider that you have to have an order for everything, because every time we do an activity the only way for everything to turn out well is that there is an order but there is nothing else, I believe that many people when they enter a casino have plans that are not close to reality, they think a lot about what they can win but not what they can lose, and that is something that we must always consider, because it is stepping on land, it is not build castles in the air and not get excited about anything, then you have to see things for the reality of what they imply, and as I have said on many occasions, the most important thing and what must be taken care of is money, without money we cannot do nothing, for that reason we must always do the best for ourselves, take care of the money, allocate the money that we are willing to lose and always play seeking to win without losing control, not putting in extra money so as not to get into trouble, it is very ugly to be left without money and less than money that we already have committed.

[Hirose UK]

The compassionate gambler loses themselves this is right because there are many gamblers who become so addicted that they can't stop themselves knowing the harmful side of it so at some point they lose everything and live a life of despair. It is foolish to control your emotions in gambling and expect to win even if you suffer losses. Also they keep running after the victory no one can give the exact news of when the victory will be here. People with gambling addiction often overthink gambling they can constantly plan their next gambling session. Therefore if the probability of losing is high it is better to proceed with rest for a few days in which case the probability of losing gamblers will be reduced a lot.

This is true and has been experienced by many gamblers who lose control of themselves in gambling, so they experience despair in gambling and end up losing a lot of money, especially if they chase their winnings. Those who know that there are gamblers who have lost a lot do feel sadness and sympathize with the gambler, but if the gambler doesn't try to change what he has done, people won't care anymore. They will allow gamblers who don't want to wake themselves up from their gambling addiction so that people will only look at them until the gambler asks them for help. That is why gamblers who have lost a few dollars should immediately take a break for a few days so that they can recover their emotions and relieve their tension after receiving everything they have experienced from gambling.

This feeling of sympathy is only feeling that might occur to those gamblers who have not really become crazy addicts because when there are gambling addicts who are really crazy, let alone feelings of sympathy, there will be no thoughts of helping either.
Only the gambler himself can change it and only the gambler himself must care about the problems he experiences due to losses and bad impacts and it is not other people who feel it but himself, sometimes people don't think about it this way.
Gambling addiction is very serious problem and even now there is no truly effective way to cure it and perhaps there are many ways that have been suggested by most people, including myself but that is no guarantee.
But in my opinion, the most effective way to control gambling addiction is when gambling addict has lost all the valuable things he has as result of gambling, this will cause regret and disappointment until he finally decides to reduce the intensity of his gambling.
Bad experiences are the greatest teacher for someone to change for the better, it doesn't matter if he feels deep regret, it doesn't matter if he loses all his money and wealth, but after that he comes to his senses and tries to recover like normal person.
Indeed, prevention is better than cure, but gambler who is truly addicted will not be able to do it, what they need is an event that can stress their mental state and mind so they can recover quickly.

[wiss19]

a very common condition that often occurs in any gambler when wherever he is, he says gambling is just for entertainment but always feels annoyed and frustrated chasing his losses

People or gamblers who say they gamble just for entertainment and then become frustrated after losing and chasing their losses are big liars because someone who gambles just for fun would never become frustrated after losing or chasing their losses. After all, only a gambler to earn money from gambling will have these things in them and people who gamble just for fun and entertainment barely have such feelings or act this way at all.

If I were to gamble only to entertain myself, have some fun, and enjoy my time when I have some, I would never feel bad if I lost as long as I got entertained and enjoyed the time I spent in the casino. But, if I'm gambling to earn money, and my only aim is to gain more money with my money, I will surely get frustrated or angry after I lose, and I will chase my losses as well.

[Docnaster]

I have seen some facial expression gamblers that I am emotionally touched about and feels they have loosed more than they can handle and feels they deserves an condolence winning. While I empathic with him his amount of lost, I am then to consoling myself that someone on here has lost more than I do.

This is exactly how some gamblers runs out of gambling budgets and goes bankrupt because they fails to figure what their net worth or incomes value is.

They are basically to believe one who lost $20 has lost more to them who looses $10.

That is a very wrong way to see things. And funny enough that is how some gamblers approaches the matter. Do will not consider how much they earn and how much the person they are looking upto earns. There speedy conclusion is always, he is my fellow man, he has lost $2k and still alive, is it this $200 that I lost that will kill me. They will not even consider of the person they are looking upto earns much more higher than they do. They will also not consider if the person has recently won big and decided to return some portion of their winnings to the casino.

If is high time we stopped comparing ourselves to others and focus on ourselves and our budget and take gambling as fun. Emotions differs and the mind to bear losses differ too. Someone who earns $100 daily can be able to lose $10k and still remain strong while someone that earns $200 daily will be devastated if he loses $2k

[piebeyb]

a very common condition that often occurs in any gambler when wherever he is, he says gambling is just for entertainment but always feels annoyed and frustrated chasing his losses

People or gamblers who say they gamble just for entertainment and then become frustrated after losing and chasing their losses are big liars because someone who gambles just for fun would never become frustrated after losing or chasing their losses. After all, only a gambler to earn money from gambling will have these things in them and people who gamble just for fun and entertainment barely have such feelings or act this way at all.

If I were to gamble only to entertain myself, have some fun, and enjoy my time when I have some, I would never feel bad if I lost as long as I got entertained and enjoyed the time I spent in the casino. But, if I'm gambling to earn money, and my only aim is to gain more money with my money, I will surely get frustrated or angry after I lose, and I will chase my losses as well.

What makes a gambler start to get emotional when gambling? if it's not for money or they don't get what they want, for example winning, then don't intend to gamble to make money because it will make us emotional and try to recover from losses if we don't really achieve our goals, the point is, don't ever hope for more from gambling than just for fun, just for entertainment.

If that is done I think everyone will not start to feel emotional just because they experience defeat, there are many gamblers who really don't understand losing so they consider it something disappointing even though it is part of gambling which until now people have always considered winning and Wealth is the most important part of gambling because actually losing is also a part that must be realized too.

[slapper]

The compassionate gambler loses themselves this is right because there are many gamblers who become so addicted that they can't stop themselves knowing the harmful side of it so at some point they lose everything and live a life of despair. It is foolish to control your emotions in gambling and expect to win even if you suffer losses. Also they keep running after the victory no one can give the exact news of when the victory will be here. People with gambling addiction often overthink gambling they can constantly plan their next gambling session. Therefore if the probability of losing is high it is better to proceed with rest for a few days in which case the probability of losing gamblers will be reduced a lot.

This is true and has been experienced by many gamblers who lose control of themselves in gambling, so they experience despair in gambling and end up losing a lot of money, especially if they chase their winnings. Those who know that there are gamblers who have lost a lot do feel sadness and sympathize with the gambler, but if the gambler doesn't try to change what he has done, people won't care anymore. They will allow gamblers who don't want to wake themselves up from their gambling addiction so that people will only look at them until the gambler asks them for help. That is why gamblers who have lost a few dollars should immediately take a break for a few days so that they can recover their emotions and relieve their tension after receiving everything they have experienced from gambling.

This feeling of sympathy is only feeling that might occur to those gamblers who have not really become crazy addicts because when there are gambling addicts who are really crazy, let alone feelings of sympathy, there will be no thoughts of helping either.
Only the gambler himself can change it and only the gambler himself must care about the problems he experiences due to losses and bad impacts and it is not other people who feel it but himself, sometimes people don't think about it this way.
Gambling addiction is very serious problem and even now there is no truly effective way to cure it and perhaps there are many ways that have been suggested by most people, including myself but that is no guarantee.
But in my opinion, the most effective way to control gambling addiction is when gambling addict has lost all the valuable things he has as result of gambling, this will cause regret and disappointment until he finally decides to reduce the intensity of his gambling.
Bad experiences are the greatest teacher for someone to change for the better, it doesn't matter if he feels deep regret, it doesn't matter if he loses all his money and wealth, but after that he comes to his senses and tries to recover like normal person.
Indeed, prevention is better than cure, but gambler who is truly addicted will not be able to do it, what they need is an event that can stress their mental state and mind so they can recover quickly.

Many see rock bottom as a wake-up call that inspires transformation. Classic story of loss and self-realization. Human psychology is complex, but life and addiction professionals must acknowledge it. Cant losing everything lead to a hazardous spiral of sorrow rather than enlightenment for some? Addiction is a crafty beast that tricks the mind into thinking the next wager would fix everything. This desperate mindset can be self-destructive.

For us, proactive intervention can save the day. Not waiting for the gambler to lose everything, but supporting them while they're on the brink. Support groups, therapy, and medication can be crucial. The gambler must desire to change, but shouldnt we aid them before they fall? Empower them to spot the problem early and provide them the tools and support to act. This makes recovery a therapeutic journey, not just a loss.

[Unbunplease]

What makes a gambler start to get emotional when gambling? if it's not for money or they don't get what they want, for example winning, then don't intend to gamble to make money because it will make us emotional and try to recover from losses if we don't really achieve our goals, the point is, don't ever hope for more from gambling than just for fun, just for entertainment.

If that is done I think everyone will not start to feel emotional just because they experience defeat, there are many gamblers who really don't understand losing so they consider it something disappointing even though it is part of gambling which until now people have always considered winning and Wealth is the most important part of gambling because actually losing is also a part that must be realized too.

The emotions derived from playing a game are not always dependent on winning and losing. People are most often trying to get a nervous release or feel a rush of andrealin. A person just wants to somehow diversify his gray everyday life and break out of routine. Even in such a very risky way

[cafter]

If is high time we stopped comparing ourselves to others and focus on ourselves and our budget and take gambling as fun. Emotions differs and the mind to bear losses differ too. Someone who earns $100 daily can be able to lose $10k and still remain strong while someone that earns $200 daily will be devastated if he loses $2k

I think you example is not right or you have done some mistakes here. But this is true that we should not compare ourselves to someone else. specially in case of money,
Maybe they have a business which earns them hundred, thousands daily so they will not think day and night about 10k loss but, normal people like us who do some jobs.
and earn a fraction salary of that businessman and lost 10k. i will be huge and people can even kill themselve or be in a huge debt and think about it day and night.

[len01]

a very common condition that often occurs in any gambler when wherever he is, he says gambling is just for entertainment but always feels annoyed and frustrated chasing his losses

People or gamblers who say they gamble just for entertainment and then become frustrated after losing and chasing their losses are big liars because someone who gambles just for fun would never become frustrated after losing or chasing their losses. After all, only a gambler to earn money from gambling will have these things in them and people who gamble just for fun and entertainment barely have such feelings or act this way at all.

If I were to gamble only to entertain myself, have some fun, and enjoy my time when I have some, I would never feel bad if I lost as long as I got entertained and enjoyed the time I spent in the casino. But, if I'm gambling to earn money, and my only aim is to gain more money with my money, I will surely get frustrated or angry after I lose, and I will chase my losses as well.

but actually it doesn't matter if you lose, feeling annoyed or angry, that's a normal condition, but the concept of our mind that must be changed is that you only think of gambling as really like a game that entertains you in your free time and if you expect to win, that's also very normal, but the mindset We must be strengthened again by thinking that this is just a game.
so whatever happens, if we have a strong mindset not to think of gambling as a place to make money, we will definitely get used to losing, maybe we will be angry but we won't have the mind to chase after this loss.
With this, we will not be called liars when we say I gamble just for fun because we have strong evidence of our betting transactions which are always under control with low stakes, small budgets and never make deposits while we dont have free time.

but as I said before, it is possible that there will be a lot of gamblers who lie about this case because they just dont want to be considered careless gamblers so they brag that they are just looking for entertainment in gambling, even though they always make mistakes beyond their limits and do it too often, even I once saw 2 people and one person said that if he always wins he can always control his gambling but when his friend wants to see his transaction history he doesn't want to tell his friend and changes the conversation.
this means that it turns out that there are a lot of gamblers like this because they only cover up their bad behavior.

[danherbias07]

If is high time we stopped comparing ourselves to others and focus on ourselves and our budget and take gambling as fun. Emotions differs and the mind to bear losses differ too. Someone who earns $100 daily can be able to lose $10k and still remain strong while someone that earns $200 daily will be devastated if he loses $2k

I think you example is not right or you have done some mistakes here. But this is true that we should not compare ourselves to someone else. specially in case of money,
Maybe they have a business which earns them hundred, thousands daily so they will not think day and night about 10k loss but, normal people like us who do some jobs.
and earn a fraction salary of that businessman and lost 10k. i will be huge and people can even kill themselve or be in a huge debt and think about it day and night.

To make it short, any amount of loss can affect a stressful environment because that is money earned the hard way and yet lost quickly in gambling. To those who cannot handle this, they might as well quit gambling. In my opinion, a gambler should know the risk that he taking even if he will be betting small amounts. There are those who cannot afford the numbers that were mentioned and yet they can still feel the stress if they $1 - $5 just because they feel like they are cheated.
For me, both those who earned good and earned small will have the same emotion when they lose in gambling so the bankroll must be carefully checked, and try to be aware of how much an individual can afford to lose. It's a strategy to avoid stress and for a person to still have a good night's sleep even if all those funds are gone.
Also, accepting that the house always wins is better. That way, you will be happier when you win and it's easy to swallow it when you lose. I've been playing a lot of casino games in the past month and all I can say is the winning chance is way lower than we expect.

[Suzume]

Don't do gamble emotionally because emotion is the main enemy when you gambling. Emotion force you to do over gamble when you are in loss that decision is totally wrong. Expats and maximum gambler do that when they faces losses for that time they stop doing gambling. That's the best way to not faces extra more losses. If your emotion highly work then stop gambling for this time and do relax and play again after some time in cold mind.

[bluebit25]

The general sentiment is that we all want favorable results for ourselves, but sometimes dissatisfaction makes us more confused, and with gambling this appears more often, I can speculate that partly The fault lies with the players themselves in their lack of understanding of what we are exposed to, and also in part with the attraction of the opportunity to make money through gambling. The way I feel happy with gambling may be the same or different from many people who don't care about profit/winning, so I know for sure that this game only brings joy even if I lose a lot let's look at the experience of gambling. Because of my life interacting with gambling addicts, I have also partly learned from them that uncontrolled use of money is a big risk.

[|MINER|]

Don't do gamble emotionally because emotion is the main enemy when you gambling. Emotion force you to do over gamble when you are in loss that decision is totally wrong. Expats and maximum gambler do that when they faces losses for that time they stop doing gambling. That's the best way to not faces extra more losses. If your emotion highly work then stop gambling for this time and do relax and play again after some time in cold mind.

You are right. When one gambler will go for gambling in most cases he will face issues with the emotions. But if the gambler cannot tackle it then it is natural that he will face loss Or his losses will increase. If you gamble with emotions, you will make wrong decisions to win again and again, and in the end it will be seen that the amount of loss is much higher. So I think always should avoid emotion in these cases and go into a strategy.

[cozytrade]

You are right. When one gambler will go for gambling in most cases he will face issues with the emotions. But if the gambler cannot tackle it then it is natural that he will face loss Or his losses will increase. If you gamble with emotions, you will make wrong decisions to win again and again, and in the end it will be seen that the amount of loss is much higher. So I think always should avoid emotion in these cases and go into a strategy.

The more you can control your emotions while gambling, the more likely you are to win at gambling. I think gambling can be done if you have the right strategy to win. If a person can't control his emotions while gambling, he will never win at gambling.  I don't think you can. In order to win gambling, you must have a good experience with gambling and also have good luck. Gambling is easy as well as difficult gambling can make a person completely destitute and many people have become big people through this gambling.

[kamvreto]

You are right. When one gambler will go for gambling in most cases he will face issues with the emotions. But if the gambler cannot tackle it then it is natural that he will face loss Or his losses will increase. If you gamble with emotions, you will make wrong decisions to win again and again, and in the end it will be seen that the amount of loss is much higher. So I think always should avoid emotion in these cases and go into a strategy.

The more you can control your emotions while gambling, the more likely you are to win at gambling. I think gambling can be done if you have the right strategy to win. If a person can't control his emotions while gambling, he will never win at gambling.  I don't think you can. In order to win gambling, you must have a good experience with gambling and also have good luck. Gambling is easy as well as difficult gambling can make a person completely destitute and many people have become big people through this gambling.

Not entirely true, because controlling emotions and using strategy only applies to gambling such as soccer betting. For slot gambling you only need luck and how to manage gambling funds well and not be greedy. Luck remains number one because all systems have been set in such a way that gambling can be won by those who are lucky. Nothing is certain, all gambling has its own system, except for sports gambling which depends on the players or clubs supported.

[Westinhome]

The more you can control your emotions while gambling, the more likely you are to win at gambling. I think gambling can be done if you have the right strategy to win. If a person can't control his emotions while gambling, he will never win at gambling.  I don't think you can. In order to win gambling, you must have a good experience with gambling and also have good luck. Gambling is easy as well as difficult gambling can make a person completely destitute and many people have become big people through this gambling.

The gambler should learn to control their emotions in the gambling site at the beginning stage.Because he can’t able to control the same emotions later days,So after the loss of few dollars will leads to the complete loss by the emotional game in the gambling site.The right strategy will give more winning to the gamblers with their experience in the gambling site.The professional gambler may get many chances to make win in the gambling site,the less experienced gamblers may face some losses at the beginning stage of gambling game.The new gamblers should consider it as the game which they get some knowledge by the loss and loss lessons will be unforgettable one.

[Quidat]

You are right. When one gambler will go for gambling in most cases he will face issues with the emotions. But if the gambler cannot tackle it then it is natural that he will face loss Or his losses will increase. If you gamble with emotions, you will make wrong decisions to win again and again, and in the end it will be seen that the amount of loss is much higher. So I think always should avoid emotion in these cases and go into a strategy.

The more you can control your emotions while gambling, the more likely you are to win at gambling. I think gambling can be done if you have the right strategy to win. If a person can't control his emotions while gambling, he will never win at gambling.  I don't think you can. In order to win gambling, you must have a good experience with gambling and also have good luck. Gambling is easy as well as difficult gambling can make a person completely destitute and many people have become big people through this gambling.

Not entirely true, because controlling emotions and using strategy only applies to gambling such as soccer betting. For slot gambling you only need luck and how to manage gambling funds well and not be greedy. Luck remains number one because all systems have been set in such a way that gambling can be won by those who are lucky. Nothing is certain, all gambling has its own system, except for sports gambling which depends on the players or clubs supported.

When we do talk about gambling then it would really be pertaining about luck and doesnt matter whether you are really that dealing with luck based or strategic ones. It would really be that entirely be depending on how lucky you are on such session. Before you would be touching up gambling then you should really know on what are the risks involved with it because if not then you would really be likely to be that impulsive when it comes to this manner. People do usually making up realizations on the time that they would be experiencing hardships or issues and this is something
that we should really be avoiding in the first place. Dont wait up for yourself to experience struggles before you would really be quitting up gambling.

[passwordnow]

Don't do gamble emotionally because emotion is the main enemy when you gambling. Emotion force you to do over gamble when you are in loss that decision is totally wrong.

I think that in everything we do, when need to be mindful with our emotions. Because that's not going to do us good when we're too emotional and that's going to affect us with how we handle things. When we gamble and we're feeling emotional, you're not going to do well because your mental capacity is being held by your emotion instead of focusing into the strategies that you may have and your focus with the time that you're gambling. And that results with mistakes and losses for which becomes a common thing if we're not careful enough with our emotions.

Expats and maximum gambler do that when they faces losses for that time they stop doing gambling. That's the best way to not faces extra more losses. If your emotion highly work then stop gambling for this time and do relax and play again after some time in cold mind.

Not all stops when they experience losing. Most of us continues and no one's going to stop us when we're highly emotional and all we think is that we're not loser and we have to recover even a bit from the losses that we've made. Or by just having the feeling of being a loser, we can't just accept that lightly and that's how emotions are triggering and affecting us and you gotta know yourself better.

[rojan]

You are right. When one gambler will go for gambling in most cases he will face issues with the emotions. But if the gambler cannot tackle it then it is natural that he will face loss Or his losses will increase. If you gamble with emotions, you will make wrong decisions to win again and again, and in the end it will be seen that the amount of loss is much higher. So I think always should avoid emotion in these cases and go into a strategy.

While gambling we should follow some rules like gambling if we win a good amount of money then we should refrain from gambling and if we lose a large amount of money then we should refrain from gambling because then it will be difficult to control our emotions to lose.  There is a possibility of losing more money to recover the money, so then you should avoid gambling. You should avoid gambling with hasty decisions. If gambling can be played in this way, then it seems that there will be very little risk of losing money.

[Quidat]

You are right. When one gambler will go for gambling in most cases he will face issues with the emotions. But if the gambler cannot tackle it then it is natural that he will face loss Or his losses will increase. If you gamble with emotions, you will make wrong decisions to win again and again, and in the end it will be seen that the amount of loss is much higher. So I think always should avoid emotion in these cases and go into a strategy.

While gambling we should follow some rules like gambling if we win a good amount of money then we should refrain from gambling and if we lose a large amount of money then we should refrain from gambling because then it will be difficult to control our emotions to lose.  There is a possibility of losing more money to recover the money, so then you should avoid gambling. You should avoid gambling with hasty decisions. If gambling can be played in this way, then it seems that there will be very little risk of losing money.

Stopping while you are winning is the most hardest thing for you to do when you are in the middle of consecutive winning on which you would really be trying out to make yourself
to cherish out that luck that you are currently experience. It is really that too damn hard for you to resist out that greed on that particular time. There's no way that you could really be able
to control it out immediate because not all people would really be that disciplined enough when it comes to this. You wont really be that making yourself that getting addicted
if you are really just that having that good control but since not all would really be that mindful and sensible then this is where they do really mess up.