What is your state on mind if your son stole your money to gamble?

[Awaklara]

It is very sad because if your child becomes addicted to gambling and loses his wealth. Although in the present generation it is nothing because there are many things happening around us which we know very little because it is a shameful act. All I understand is to get your child out of the gambling side and give him a chance to love because the longer he stays on the gambling side the more addicted he will become. So it should be decided as soon as possible. Although there were some ways to get addicted to gambling such as: his friends and people around him. So first of all, you have to leave with them, only then you can avoid this and father's money will not be wasted.

This is clearly due to the lack of understanding given by parents to their children regarding gambling and its risks. a child who still has no income is forced to earn money from gambling, that is something bad.
the role of parents should be encouraged for such situations. Keeping away from gambling may not be easy, but parents must provide reasonable explanations to build better thinking in children towards gambling. so they can decide for themselves whether gambling is good for them or not.
improve our relationship with children. then everything will be fine.

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[Dewi Aries]

It is very sad because if your child becomes addicted to gambling and loses his wealth. Although in the present generation it is nothing because there are many things happening around us which we know very little because it is a shameful act. All I understand is to get your child out of the gambling side and give him a chance to love because the longer he stays on the gambling side the more addicted he will become. So it should be decided as soon as possible. Although there were some ways to get addicted to gambling such as: his friends and people around him. So first of all, you have to leave with them, only then you can avoid this and father's money will not be wasted.

This is clearly due to the lack of understanding given by parents to their children regarding gambling and its risks. a child who still has no income is forced to earn money from gambling, that is something bad.
the role of parents should be encouraged for such situations. Keeping away from gambling may not be easy, but parents must provide reasonable explanations to build better thinking in children towards gambling. so they can decide for themselves whether gambling is good for them or not.
improve our relationship with children. then everything will be fine.

But I think that parents will not give their children any understanding of gambling, because that way has the possibility or potential for a child to eventually feel curious about what gambling really is, and what is more appropriate is that it is better to limit a child in terms of his daily activities whether it is limiting from environmental association and in terms of using smart phones connected to the internet network. However, what is more advisable is to keep a child away from places that have the potential and bad influence on a child's personality.

And I think giving the right understanding to a child should only be done when they are already involved in gambling without the knowledge of their parents, but if they basically haven't touched gambling at all then I don't think you need to give an understanding of the dangers of gambling because obviously a child has a high curiosity and such a situation can make them even curious, and that means it's better to apply a lot of restrictions as a preventive measure as I suggested above in terms of limiting the environment and internet use.

[redsun114]

If I were the child's mother, of course I would be very angry because he dared to act unexpectedly and was very reckless in stealing and gambling, even if he won a lot of money, I would still discipline the child.

It should never be about winning or losing the money that has been stolen but it is all about the fact that he stole money and that too for something which he shouldn't be doing at that age which is concerning for parents if their child is doing two bad things at once. So any good and responsible parent or parents would school and discipline their children if they catch them doing something like this so that they don't repeat it in the future.

By schooling and disciplining the children I don't mean to beat them up badly that they get injured or have a broken arm or leg, but it is about finding a way to tell them what they have done is something very bad and that way shouldn't just involve love and affection because that wouldn't be effective at all.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

It is very sad because if your child becomes addicted to gambling and loses his wealth. Although in the present generation it is nothing because there are many things happening around us which we know very little because it is a shameful act. All I understand is to get your child out of the gambling side and give him a chance to love because the longer he stays on the gambling side the more addicted he will become. So it should be decided as soon as possible. Although there were some ways to get addicted to gambling such as: his friends and people around him. So first of all, you have to leave with them, only then you can avoid this and father's money will not be wasted.

This is clearly due to the lack of understanding given by parents to their children regarding gambling and its risks. a child who still has no income is forced to earn money from gambling, that is something bad.
the role of parents should be encouraged for such situations. Keeping away from gambling may not be easy, but parents must provide reasonable explanations to build better thinking in children towards gambling. so they can decide for themselves whether gambling is good for them or not.
improve our relationship with children. then everything will be fine.

This discussions around parents and their gambling children always sounds very vague to me, owning to the fact that this days, most parents don't even know anything, or usually don't know anything about their children getting themselves involved in gambling, most especially; teenagers who have friends in schools and around their homes, and most of the time, it's completely impossible to (as a parent) know what your child is up to when ever he or she leaves your sight, and as a matter of fact, it is completely impossible to keep tabs on your child for 24 hours a day and 7 days a week, completely impossible.

So, for me, the only way I sometimes blame parents is in their failure to ask their children how they come about the money they are sometimes spending, so as to know the source and possibly take the necessary actions when the source of the fund is from something the parent don't for the child, this is where most parents miss it completely.

[iBaba]

This is clearly due to the lack of understanding given by parents to their children regarding gambling and its risks. a child who still has no income is forced to earn money from gambling, that is something bad.
the role of parents should be encouraged for such situations. Keeping away from gambling may not be easy, but parents must provide reasonable explanations to build better thinking in children towards gambling. so they can decide for themselves whether gambling is good for them or not.
improve our relationship with children. then everything will be fine.

For me, how I react to this situation depends on whether he's still a toddler or an adult. If he's still a toddler, I will definitely discipline him firmly to make him understand the seriousness of stealing. I will emphasize that gambling is absolutely off-limits for him, and I'll address whatever influenced him to steal and gamble, ensuring he learns his lesson that very day.

But if he's an adult, I can't physically discipline him. Instead, I might choose to impose a punishment, such as withholding pocket money equivalent to what he took from me. As a child, stealing from your parents is unacceptable, regardless of gender. I will then take the opportunity to educate him on the harmful effects of gambling, as it can lead to addiction and jeopardize his future.

Lastly, I will examine our relationship because children often resort to stealing from their parents due to a lack of closeness or communication. I will strive to strengthen our bond and communication, and I will  also inquire about his friends to understand his social circle better. Such behavior may stem from peer influence, so I will work to address any negative influences from his peers.

[cabron]

It is very sad because if your child becomes addicted to gambling and loses his wealth. Although in the present generation it is nothing because there are many things happening around us which we know very little because it is a shameful act. All I understand is to get your child out of the gambling side and give him a chance to love because the longer he stays on the gambling side the more addicted he will become. So it should be decided as soon as possible. Although there were some ways to get addicted to gambling such as: his friends and people around him. So first of all, you have to leave with them, only then you can avoid this and father's money will not be wasted.

This is clearly due to the lack of understanding given by parents to their children regarding gambling and its risks. a child who still has no income is forced to earn money from gambling, that is something bad.
the role of parents should be encouraged for such situations. Keeping away from gambling may not be easy, but parents must provide reasonable explanations to build better thinking in children towards gambling. so they can decide for themselves whether gambling is good for them or not.
improve our relationship with children. then everything will be fine.

This discussions around parents and their gambling children always sounds very vague to me, owning to the fact that this days, most parents don't even know anything, or usually don't know anything about their children getting themselves involved in gambling, most especially; teenagers who have friends in schools and around their homes, and most of the time, it's completely impossible to (as a parent) know what your child is up to when ever he or she leaves your sight, and as a matter of fact, it is completely impossible to keep tabs on your child for 24 hours a day and 7 days a week, completely impossible.

So, for me, the only way I sometimes blame parents is in their failure to ask their children how they come about the money they are sometimes spending, so as to know the source and possibly take the necessary actions when the source of the fund is from something the parent don't for the child, this is where most parents miss it completely.

A mother usually knows what their kids are doing and how the way her kids think that's why when the mother has a gut feeling, it's usually along with her suspicions base on what the kid had previously done. Maybe fathers don't have all the knowledge but when you have a kid, you always want to how he's doing and what he thinks.

If a father can do that, and he has a greater influence on the kid and the kid looks up to his dad like a hero, the dad will be able to prevent future disasters like a kid gambling so early in his life.

[South Park]

This discussions around parents and their gambling children always sounds very vague to me, owning to the fact that this days, most parents don't even know anything, or usually don't know anything about their children getting themselves involved in gambling, most especially; teenagers who have friends in schools and around their homes, and most of the time, it's completely impossible to (as a parent) know what your child is up to when ever he or she leaves your sight, and as a matter of fact, it is completely impossible to keep tabs on your child for 24 hours a day and 7 days a week, completely impossible.

So, for me, the only way I sometimes blame parents is in their failure to ask their children how they come about the money they are sometimes spending, so as to know the source and possibly take the necessary actions when the source of the fund is from something the parent don't for the child, this is where most parents miss it completely.

Parents may have had great influence on the past, but now as soon as a kid grabs a smartphone and begins to look for things on their own, the influence of the parents diminish significantly, as now kids have a source of information and entertainment that is with them anytime they want, something that even the most dedicated parent is unable to do as they have many other things to worry about, so unless the parents directly or indirectly introduced gambling to their kids, I do not think we can blame them if their kids begins to do this at an early age.

[Quidat]

This discussions around parents and their gambling children always sounds very vague to me, owning to the fact that this days, most parents don't even know anything, or usually don't know anything about their children getting themselves involved in gambling, most especially; teenagers who have friends in schools and around their homes, and most of the time, it's completely impossible to (as a parent) know what your child is up to when ever he or she leaves your sight, and as a matter of fact, it is completely impossible to keep tabs on your child for 24 hours a day and 7 days a week, completely impossible.

So, for me, the only way I sometimes blame parents is in their failure to ask their children how they come about the money they are sometimes spending, so as to know the source and possibly take the necessary actions when the source of the fund is from something the parent don't for the child, this is where most parents miss it completely.

Parents may have had great influence on the past, but now as soon as a kid grabs a smartphone and begins to look for things on their own, the influence of the parents diminish significantly, as now kids have a source of information and entertainment that is with them anytime they want, something that even the most dedicated parent is unable to do as they have many other things to worry about, so unless the parents directly or indirectly introduced gambling to their kids, I do not think we can blame them if their kids begins to do this at an early age.

Not only just that limited to gambling but also into other things as well on which it could really be potentially be influenced out and this is something that cant really be avoided because of todays
era or days on which technology is so advanced or simply with the easy access then its unavoidable for your kids to see those things without you knowing. This is why parenting do becomes even more challenging. This is why it would really be better that you should really be telling them about those dangers and risks so that on the time that they would be able to see it online
then they would really be already know on how to adjust and act accordingly. Somewhat its not really that guaranteed but at least as a parent you've been able to do your part.

[CryptSafe]

It sounds absurd. Stealing his mother's money is a sign of disrespect to her coupled that she went through a whole lot to get that money. Who knows If that was the last money she kept for the house use that he stole from her account? Possibly that boy must be an addicted gambler to start with because this act of his speaks of more volumes than what they could imagine. He should be properly punished for that irresponsible act and made to undergo rehab to get himself free from addiction.

[Sandra_hakeem]

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Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

YES!!!
 No matter how much he won at the end, I'll still question him about how he got to pull off with that stunt... Always learn to call a spade by it name..  If not, that'll always give him the impression that whenever he steals from your bank or wallet, he always gonna havw justifications for that... There's actually an attitude you'll condone today and it becomes a problem for you tomorrow... Always advice your children no matter how lucky they might be on their way doing crippy things.

Sandra 🧑‍🦰

[South Park]

Parents may have had great influence on the past, but now as soon as a kid grabs a smartphone and begins to look for things on their own, the influence of the parents diminish significantly, as now kids have a source of information and entertainment that is with them anytime they want, something that even the most dedicated parent is unable to do as they have many other things to worry about, so unless the parents directly or indirectly introduced gambling to their kids, I do not think we can blame them if their kids begins to do this at an early age.

Not only just that limited to gambling but also into other things as well on which it could really be potentially be influenced out and this is something that cant really be avoided because of todays
era or days on which technology is so advanced or simply with the easy access then its unavoidable for your kids to see those things without you knowing. This is why parenting do becomes even more challenging. This is why it would really be better that you should really be telling them about those dangers and risks so that on the time that they would be able to see it online
then they would really be already know on how to adjust and act accordingly. Somewhat its not really that guaranteed but at least as a parent you've been able to do your part.

Without a doubt the role of the parents has changed with the introduction of all of these new technologies, but their role as guides remain, however a guide can only suggest a path of action, but it is up to the kids to listen to that advice or not, so if their kids decide to not listen then we cannot blame the parents, which did their job in order to try to make their kids avoid that dangerous path, and instead we must blame the kids which purposely took a path they knew it was dangerous.

[Ever-young]

Parents may have had great influence on the past, but now as soon as a kid grabs a smartphone and begins to look for things on their own, the influence of the parents diminish significantly, as now kids have a source of information and entertainment that is with them anytime they want, something that even the most dedicated parent is unable to do as they have many other things to worry about, so unless the parents directly or indirectly introduced gambling to their kids, I do not think we can blame them if their kids begins to do this at an early age.

Not only just that limited to gambling but also into other things as well on which it could really be potentially be influenced out and this is something that cant really be avoided because of todays
era or days on which technology is so advanced or simply with the easy access then its unavoidable for your kids to see those things without you knowing. This is why parenting do becomes even more challenging. This is why it would really be better that you should really be telling them about those dangers and risks so that on the time that they would be able to see it online
then they would really be already know on how to adjust and act accordingly. Somewhat its not really that guaranteed but at least as a parent you've been able to do your part.

Without a doubt the role of the parents has changed with the introduction of all of these new technologies, but their role as guides remain, however a guide can only suggest a path of action, but it is up to the kids to listen to that advice or not, so if their kids decide to not listen then we cannot blame the parents, which did their job in order to try to make their kids avoid that dangerous path, and instead we must blame the kids which purposely took a path they knew it was dangerous.

Every child is unique, with their own personality, hobbies, and values. As a result, it is critical that parents remain open-minded and tailor their approach to their child's specific needs. It is not always easy to do, but it is critical to realize that children have choice and are capable of making their own decisions, even if they do them incorrectly.

[Quidat]

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Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

YES!!!
 No matter how much he won at the end, I'll still question him about how he got to pull off with that stunt... Always learn to call a spade by it name..  If not, that'll always give him the impression that whenever he steals from your bank or wallet, he always gonna havw justifications for that... There's actually an attitude you'll condone today and it becomes a problem for you tomorrow... Always advice your children no matter how lucky they might be on their way doing crippy things.

Sandra 🧑‍🦰

Winning the game or gambling isnt an excuse or valid reason for you as a parent wont really be that tending to scold and discipline your child. Stealing is stealing and it doesnt matter
whether its small or not.Its not something that should really be tolerated and as a parent then it would really be just that wise that you should be disciplining them on the time that they would really be
committing out those mistakes on which it is really just that right for a parent to do so. Dont get that be easing out on such situation just because he turns out to be a winner.

On the time that you wont really be tending to control up your son on what he had done, then dont get surprised that one day that they would really be potentially or likely
become that theifs on the time that they dont have anymore money for them to gamble on. This is why it would really be always best that you should really know
on what you should gonna do as a parent. Parenting does gives out that impact into someone.

[passwordnow]

I guess what goes around comes around. That time when I was younger, I did took my parents money and did every shit that I can when I was a kid so this is to be expected that my kid will also the same thing to me. But I will not tolerate that, I won't say that it's okay because I did the same thing when I was younger. Because if I do, the state of mind of my kid will think that it's okay to redo it and much worse a bigger amount might be taken and that can process more addiction to his mind as he keep growing because pops has got money.

That's what we should avoid and we need to discipline our kids so that they're not going to tolerate such wrong actions from themselves and also to anyone that they know as they encounter some of it in the future. We can be tolerant but with specific actions like this, we can't just tolerate it and say that never do it again. There has to be some punishments that I have to make but it goes to play a part depending on how tough the punishment and the mistake of my kid does.

[salad daging]

It is very sad because if your child becomes addicted to gambling and loses his wealth. Although in the present generation it is nothing because there are many things happening around us which we know very little because it is a shameful act. All I understand is to get your child out of the gambling side and give him a chance to love because the longer he stays on the gambling side the more addicted he will become. So it should be decided as soon as possible. Although there were some ways to get addicted to gambling such as: his friends and people around him. So first of all, you have to leave with them, only then you can avoid this and father's money will not be wasted.

This is clearly due to the lack of understanding given by parents to their children regarding gambling and its risks. a child who still has no income is forced to earn money from gambling, that is something bad.
the role of parents should be encouraged for such situations. Keeping away from gambling may not be easy, but parents must provide reasonable explanations to build better thinking in children towards gambling. so they can decide for themselves whether gambling is good for them or not.
improve our relationship with children. then everything will be fine.

In the end, this will not be separated from parents because if they can guide well, the possibility of things like this can still be minimized.

Indeed, what children do is a mistake that even this becomes a double mistake where apart from gambling they also commit theft in order to fulfill their desires in gambling but in this case the parents are also the ones who are affected because there must be several reasons that make the child like this.

Some conditions that occur are when the child is too liberated so that they can do anything without checking first from parents who do not really supervise properly which makes this uncontrollable. In addition, another possibility is when the parents show too much of their activities in gambling which makes the child get used to this which makes the situation a little worse because of the addictive effect it has. This should be something to watch out for lest something like this happens to other parents because it is obviously very troublesome.

[LDL]

Gambling is already a bad habit, but if someone steals money and participates in gambling, it becomes even worse. If that bad thing happens to one's own child, then the matter looks worse and becomes a humiliating matter. But I think in this case there is a lack of proper education for that child because in academic education he must not have been informed about the serious crime of stealing. Or even if he was informed about the theft, he might not have taken the knowledge because he was a good student and would never have taken his father's pocket money or participated in the Jura by stealing. But one thing is more important that if the child was taught proper education and manners as a guardian then surely he would not have done such a bad thing like stealing.

[Kristiyana]

It is very sad because if your child becomes addicted to gambling and loses his wealth. Although in the present generation it is nothing because there are many things happening around us which we know very little because it is a shameful act. All I understand is to get your child out of the gambling side and give him a chance to love because the longer he stays on the gambling side the more addicted he will become. So it should be decided as soon as possible. Although there were some ways to get addicted to gambling such as: his friends and people around him. So first of all, you have to leave with them, only then you can avoid this and father's money will not be wasted.

This is clearly due to the lack of understanding given by parents to their children regarding gambling and its risks. a child who still has no income is forced to earn money from gambling, that is something bad.
the role of parents should be encouraged for such situations. Keeping away from gambling may not be easy, but parents must provide reasonable explanations to build better thinking in children towards gambling. so they can decide for themselves whether gambling is good for them or not.
improve our relationship with children. then everything will be fine.

In the end, this will not be separated from parents because if they can guide well, the possibility of things like this can still be minimized.

Indeed, what children do is a mistake that even this becomes a double mistake where apart from gambling they also commit theft in order to fulfill their desires in gambling but in this case the parents are also the ones who are affected because there must be several reasons that make the child like this.

Some conditions that occur are when the child is too liberated so that they can do anything without checking first from parents who do not really supervise properly which makes this uncontrollable. In addition, another possibility is when the parents show too much of their activities in gambling which makes the child get used to this which makes the situation a little worse because of the addictive effect it has. This should be something to watch out for lest something like this happens to other parents because it is obviously very troublesome.

That was the reason why under age are not meant to enter into any gambling hall ,because the more they keep going to that gambling hall that's the more they are learning,you know those children catch up so easily.probably they can decide to give it a try, from there dey keep trying over and over again. in the process of trying it becomes addiction,  if they don't have money for gamble they can decide to steal money from there parents,as a child they are not wise enough to know the implications.if I happens to be the father of that child he will be punished so that he won't grow up with that lifestyle either.

[Wakate]

It sounds absurd. Stealing his mother's money is a sign of disrespect to her coupled that she went through a whole lot to get that money. Who knows If that was the last money she kept for the house use that he stole from her account? Possibly that boy must be an addicted gambler to start with because this act of his speaks of more volumes than what they could imagine. He should be properly punished for that irresponsible act and made to undergo rehab to get himself free from addiction.

I would never support stealing even though the child was fortunate enough to use the money to bet and make huge profit from gambling. I know there are parents that would be happy about that but that is not in my own case. Stealing is absurd and we should not tolerate anything that looks similar to that. What if the opposite happened, what are we going to say? It is good we are very strict with the way we handles children because any lite tolerance, it could lead to something unbelievably to us. We need to be act like we are a full grown parent that knows what and how things ought to be.

[Miles2006]

Without a doubt the role of the parents has changed with the introduction of all of these new technologies, but their role as guides remain, however a guide can only suggest a path of action, but it is up to the kids to listen to that advice or not, so if their kids decide to not listen then we cannot blame the parents, which did their job in order to try to make their kids avoid that dangerous path, and instead we must blame the kids which purposely took a path they knew it was dangerous.

Every child is unique, with their own personality, hobbies, and values. As a result, it is critical that parents remain open-minded and tailor their approach to their child's specific needs. It is not always easy to do, but it is critical to realize that children have choice and are capable of making their own decisions, even if they do them incorrectly.

When a child starts gambling at a young age, people will always blame the parent of the child, when a child starts misbehaving people intend to blame the parent, this is obvious as parents we should train our child in a right manner, the mother in question should be blamed at some extend cause why will a little child develop the habit to steal money. Sometimes parents suffering from this situation tried all their best to take care of the child but the society nowadays seems different with the influence from peer pressure, social media etc. Social media nowadays can easily corrupt a child even with gambling habit.

[CryptSafe]

It sounds absurd. Stealing his mother's money is a sign of disrespect to her coupled that she went through a whole lot to get that money. Who knows If that was the last money she kept for the house use that he stole from her account? Possibly that boy must be an addicted gambler to start with because this act of his speaks of more volumes than what they could imagine. He should be properly punished for that irresponsible act and made to undergo rehab to get himself free from addiction.

I would never support stealing even though the child was fortunate enough to use the money to bet and make huge profit from gambling. I know there are parents that would be happy about that but that is not in my own case. Stealing is absurd and we should not tolerate anything that looks similar to that. What if the opposite happened, what are we going to say? It is good we are very strict with the way we handles children because any lite tolerance, it could lead to something unbelievably to us. We need to be act like we are a full grown parent that knows what and how things ought to be.

If it happened that the son won the  game, that can not erase the fact that he stole from his mother to win the game. Irrespective of the amount he won, it would soon finish and when it does he would still repeat the same act by stealing from his mother again.
I believe he knows nothing about life hence stealing from his mother was his resolve. I was wondering if he has no elder siblings that would instill discipline in him for perpetrating such act.

These days, children behave the way they like and go away with it without proper discipline. Just imagine his mother can not do anything but calling her brothers and sisters to come to her rescue. If she can not do her part as his mother by disciplining him first what does she expect others to do or say?