Being nice always bring disrespect.

[Emeraldo]

I agree being nice brings disrespect as consequence on most situations in this modern world. The dark side inside human beings is flourishing and becoming dominant these days, while the bright side is being suppressed.

But if you stop being a nice person, you are going to do exactly what the dark side wants you to do, so you will become one of those fools: just another asshole in this modern wicked world to cause pain to your fellow human beings.

People misunderstand politeness with weakness, and that is why they try abusing a polite individual. Just be proud of being a nice individual. Give others the benefit of the doubt. But as soon as you identify they are taking advantage of your politeness, impose limits, get away and maintain only essential necessary contact.

Relationships must be reciprocal, healthy and uplifting. If you see they are being abusive, toxic and harmful, stand for yourself and don't go further. Respect yourself in first place.

Being nice sometimes is good but most times it's disastrous and bring disrespect,some people due to good upbringing are nice because it was instill in them from child.while most people that disrespect people is due to hatred,anger and unstable state of mind.also being nice to people doesn't mean they will not disrespect you.just do what does not trouble your conscience .
 

There is no need to keep toxic people around you because they could be the source of disappointment to you and make you feel very sad about your personal joy. We all need to have a personal joy that will keep us cool whenever we find ourselves in problem.
Most people that disrespect others are really having mental issues which could have been due to the problem they might have had in the past that had led to their prolong issues with other problems.

[Antona]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Being nice is a good thing but being nice without boundaries can be dangerous for the most of us.
some people take kindness for weakness and exploit it. true kindness includes self respect clear limits and knowing when to involve the law. You can be kind and still protect yourself.

[GiftedMAN]

There is no need to keep toxic people around you because they could be the source of disappointment to you and make you feel very sad about your personal joy. We all need to have a personal joy that will keep us cool whenever we find ourselves in problem.
Most people that disrespect others are really having mental issues which could have been due to the problem they might have had in the past that had led to their prolong issues with other problems.

Your happiness comes first before any other thing in life if you have a toxic person around you, you have no business keeping the person because they will destroy your mental health with their toxic life. Anyone who does not give you peace whenever they are around you there's no reason you should move get closer to them cause they act like saddest who rejoice then they see you in pains, if they have past issues that has affected them they should go take care of it and don't cause others pains.

[Emeraldo]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Being overly nice can bring disrespect but I don't believe that being nice always will always bring disrespect . The outcome of your attitude towards people is dependent on who the person is not every one will pay back your niceness with disrespect, there will always be people who will reciprocate your kindness with kindness too but some will return your kindness with disrespect and cruelty as if you had problems with them even before you met them. People's attitude and response towards your kindness should not affect your attitude towards people.

[ramencoin]

From my personal experience, people do not care much about "nice" people and here's why I think that is.

- Either they believe the person being nice is being disingenuous
- They are bitter and do not want to be reminded they are so

Either way, you shouldn't allow that to change who you are. If you're genuinely being nice to people, then you shouldn't expect anything in return. That doesn't mean you have to tolerate disrespect either.

[DYOR+BTC]

For the fact that you tried and it failed is never enough reasons to quit trying as what we wish to get from others we should also do same to others because we can't get what we don't give. The simple principle of life is, what you want from others we should also do it to the people we meet as that is the only key to a better life. Never believe because we did not what we wish for in the first place we should stop helping as nature pays when one never expected it will be. I still cannot forget what happened during when things where moving perfectly well for me, there was a guy living I the same house with me that had nothing, each time I come back I make sure I give him something to eat without knowing tomorrow has something better for him. After my job stopped I never expected to see the same person in the company I went to look for job not even as an ordinary staff but decision makers of the company and at last things where very easy for me on meeting him.

[Solodoski]

Your happiness comes first before any other thing in life if you have a toxic person around you, you have no business keeping the person because they will destroy your mental health with their toxic life. Anyone who does not give you peace whenever they are around you there's no reason you should move get closer to them cause they act like saddest who rejoice then they see you in pains, if they have past issues that has affected them they should go take care of it and don't cause others pains.

We only Ive once, we should not live the life to please others rather to please ourselves. Do what makes you happy, prioritize security, and what makes you feel comfortable. Don't also, inconvenience yourself for anyone because no one will come to your rescue when there is challenges. Always have a back up plan for any plan you make. Life is not fair, what we plan to do will can be destroyed if we share it to people who don't want to see our success. And these people are ready to stop you from becoming who you plan to be. Look around you, they are everywhere.

[ProsperBTC001]

Some persons  naturally don't have respect for people. This set of persons lack respect and they can be ungrateful,  I will say it's just there bad character And sometimes it depends on how you carry yourself around them, setting boundaries and having limit will gives standard. I know one of my aunty that is very generous and kind to everyone she  come across with, she always assist and make you comfortable in anyway she can, that the  end the good ones always appreciate and respect her but some ungrateful ones  ignores and also disrespect her but since it's n her nature to be nice  she didn't stop. Don't expect too much from people cause they can disappoint anytime.just be yourself.

[GeorgeJohn]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society.

To be nice is good, but some people you're been nice to, seems it as opportunity or privilege to take advantages of the people that is nice to them...so my advice is that, be nice to people, but do not let them to know your secret and also your sources of income, because if they know the source, you used and help them, most of them will start be disrespectful to you...be nice to people whom you choose to be nice to, and dont allow them to know your secret

[Franklyn-wood]

Being nice to people is a healthy relationship in the society and it should be respected of anyone being nice but at sometimes,  some people don't deserve to be nice with them because they will not appreciate it. At times they takes advantage of the people being nice to them and the society sometimes too don't deserve to be nice with because you will be used as a tool just to scale through and when they have achieved their selfish interests, they would trash you and even criticize you after your helpful delegation of them.

All you have said is the truth. Life have thought so many people lessons in the opposite direction, that have made them not to be nice to people again because of the way they where treated the last time they decide to be nice to someone or to some group of people.
I personally have been with a customer some years back, who narrates how she extended a helping hand to one of her nabour an aged woman who was sick and she gave her some supports. After that incident this old woman wouldn't stop asking her for help, she became tire and started avoiding her.

[uneng]

The times we are living don't ask for nice guys. They ask for suspicious guys who are skeptical about other people's intentions. It's not about being skeptical about everything, but about human nature. That is a must in order to protect yourself from external threats.

I'm not saying it's the right approach to adopt in every scenarios, but the right approach to adapt yourself to what the current times are asking for regards survival and self-protection. In other times, in other scenarios where the world were under the effect of more benevolent zeitgeists, then to be a nice guy could be the ideal.

But once humans start showing the worst face of their inner beings, you have to treat them accordingly, so you don't succumb. That is exactly what is happening in the world right now: liars, manipulators and charlatans everywhere, in power positions, ruling the world into total moral relativism, with the consent of the masses, who also display behaviors of the same kind in daily life.

If you aren't one of them, it's a mistake to try being nice to them.

[IjawMan]

You could also say that being mean attracts other mean people and may get you into fights.

Someone once said that you shouldn't mistake kindness for weakness. I try to be kind but I have a one mistake rule. If I know you and you borrow something from me, a tool, money, whatever, I will give it to you, but if you fuck me over by not giving it back, or take your time, making me come asking for it, you're not going to get anything next time you come asking.

Be kind guys because that helps you find real friends. I've met a couple fine men over the years, people I'd trust with keys to my house if needed, people with whom I'd leave a kid. If I were mean and disrespectful all the time I'd be alone for sure.

Being mean or kind does not have influence on making a difference on who mostly comes out way, whether bad or good people.

Some people are naturally wicked and not that they choose to be wicked by the attitude and character of people around them.

I suggest that people should not give into the extraction of others and let that affect how they live their lives thereafter. You changing from kind to cruel on adds to the number of bad guys I'm the world.

[GiftedMAN]

Being mean or kind does not have influence on making a difference on who mostly comes out way, whether bad or good people.

Some people are naturally wicked and not that they choose to be wicked by the attitude and character of people around them.

I suggest that people should not give into the extraction of others and let that affect how they live their lives thereafter. You changing from kind to cruel on adds to the number of bad guys I'm the world.

Are people naturally wicked? what could be the reason why they come out wicked I don't think people are born wicked but something must has happened that triggered them to become very wicked no man will decide to be seen as a wicked person unless such person has sealed his conscience to the point of not having human feelings again.

The way of life of another person should not affect your way of life unless you decide to make that your problem, different individuals with their way of life and people should learn to accept people the way they are and not judge them by their look.

[BADecker]

Well, a condemned man is almost always given a top-notch meal by his executioners, right before they execute him.

[IjawMan]

Being mean or kind does not have influence on making a difference on who mostly comes out way, whether bad or good people.

Some people are naturally wicked and not that they choose to be wicked by the attitude and character of people around them.

I suggest that people should not give into the extraction of others and let that affect how they live their lives thereafter. You changing from kind to cruel on adds to the number of bad guys I'm the world.

Are people naturally wicked? what could be the reason why they come out wicked I don't think people are born wicked but something must has happened that triggered them to become very wicked no man will decide to be seen as a wicked person unless such person has sealed his conscience to the point of not having human feelings again.

The way of life of another person should not affect your way of life unless you decide to make that your problem, different individuals with their way of life and people should learn to accept people the way they are and not judge them by their look.

I'm convinced that some people are naturally wicked and had it locked in and quietly waiting there for some event or ugly experience to spark it out.

On the other hand other people's attitude can change you, want you to act wicked, cause they did similar to you in their time but if you do not have any form of wickedness inherently in you, you may not have the courage to be thoroughly wicked as another who has it  naturally pinned.

How else will people judge you if not by your actions? They have no knowledge of your past experience, as a result it is your present actions that will be mirrored in judging you, because it wrong or right.

[L E G E N D A R Y]

There is no need to keep toxic people around you because they could be the source of disappointment to you and make you feel very sad about your personal joy. We all need to have a personal joy that will keep us cool whenever we find ourselves in problem.
Most people that disrespect others are really having mental issues which could have been due to the problem they might have had in the past that had led to their prolong issues with other problems.

Focusing on making yourself happy should be your priority, because everyone has the right to behave the way they like, not minding if its going to hurt the other fellow or not and that shouldn't bother you, which you are not the reason for them to act that way, they owned the responsibility of their behaviour towards others. Which you are to be happy at all time and except everything and anything from people, but do what you know its right and good and don't pay back evil with evil.

[Aliciaworld]

Well, a condemned man is almost always given a top-notch meal by his executioners, right before they execute him.

I think being nice should be a way of life. You don't need to know a person's social status, educational background, age, size etc before being nice even if you are not reciprocated. Paying evil for evil is more like allowing the actions of others to determine who we are...more like puppets, I'm not saying that we shouldn't have boundaries or be fools but the way we react when those boundaries are crossed really matters. If you're treated bad because of your niceness, it shouldn't bother you as it helps you to know the people around you better and how they view you so you know how to relate with them.

[Rockstarguy]

Some persons  naturally don't have respect for people. This set of persons lack respect and they can be ungrateful,  I will say it's just there bad character And sometimes it depends on how you carry yourself around them, setting boundaries and having limit will gives standard. I know one of my aunty that is very generous and kind to everyone she  come across with, she always assist and make you comfortable in anyway she can, that the  end the good ones always appreciate and respect her but some ungrateful ones  ignores and also disrespect her but since it's n her nature to be nice  she didn't stop. Don't expect too much from people cause they can disappoint anytime.just be yourself.

Theur are some persons who dont really have respect and this is where the line of boundary should be drawn.  You can't choose not to nice because of people being rude . It is possible yo be nice and have rules which people must obey and this is the only wsy you can cause people to give respect. When you dont have ethics people will to disrespect you because people think being respected you mist have everything yo show for, like money , degree and others.

[JoyceBTC]

I know many people want to be nice to people in the society to have good behavior other people will like to have, but there are some people taking the advantage of being nice to people to disrespect nice people in the society. it has made some people not to be nice again to people in the society based on what they have experienced from those people who are nice from the society, they have been robby about their right and some have be cheated base on they are nice in anything they are doing in the society.

Being nice has made people to lose their lifes in the society, because they refused to allow law to involve in the issues. Can you share your experience being nice to people and what happen at the end.

Being overly nice can bring disrespect but I don't believe that being nice always will always bring disrespect . The outcome of your attitude towards people is dependent on who the person is not every one will pay back your niceness with disrespect, there will always be people who will reciprocate your kindness with kindness too but some will return your kindness with disrespect and cruelty as if you had problems with them even before you met them. People's attitude and response towards your kindness should not affect your attitude towards people.

That’s why we have what is called “boundary”, everyone should have a limit or boundary with people they are always nice to or people they call their friends because most people are bound to over step boundaries and it good you set the limit for them, so they try to understand they are overstepping or they shouldn’t overstep.
Too much of familiarity brings some certain disrespect. When someone is too nice, some people feel they are free to talk or treat you the way they like, without minding if it hurts you or not, that why setting boundaries is really important.