Do u guys need girly advice? : )

[fabiola!]

A couple of guys on here have asked me for advice to do with girls, since I'm a girl myself. I'm happy to help u guys out if u need some advice from a girl's perspective just ask : ) x

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[samaricanin]

Please 

[fabiola!]

Please 

Sure, how can I help?

[chogath]

whats the first steps to lead into a conversation despite her having a bf.

[fabiola!]

whats the first steps to lead into a conversation despite her having a bf.

She's got a boyfriend...mmm...in that case approach her "as a friend", any excuse will do i.e. offer help with something or ask her to recommend a movie or music or whatever. Get close to her as a friend and take that opportunity to show her why you're a great guy (without being too obvious). If you're lucky, sooner or later her relationship will go thru a rough patch. If the guy is great I'm afraid you don't stand a chance. But if the guy is a jerk, well, she'll be single again soon, which is great news for you!

[MichaelBliss]

A couple of guys on here have asked me for advice to do with girls, since I'm a girl myself. I'm happy to help u guys out if u need some advice from a girl's perspective just ask : ) x

Usually girls don't make such a point of "since I'm a girl myself".   But there *have* been many guys posing as girls, bringing up that they are "a girl", as part of their scams.

Why would you want to bring to everyone's attention that you're a girl.  Like you did here.  And here:

Hii!
Just wondering if there are any fellow girls on here who are into Bitcoin mining, trading, etc. It seems it's mainly guys. We are roughly 50% of the population of this planet yet I can't find any girls who are into Bitcoins, anywhere.

To lonely nerds, "a girl" might be a big deal, but I don't know any females who are so hung up on and feel the need to advertise that they are female.

Watch out guys!

[fabiola!]

A couple of guys on here have asked me for advice to do with girls, since I'm a girl myself. I'm happy to help u guys out if u need some advice from a girl's perspective just ask : ) x

Usually girls don't make such a point of "since I'm a girl myself".   But there *have* been many guys posing as girls, bringing up that they are "a girl", as part of their scams.

Why would you want to bring to everyone's attention that you're a girl.  Like you did here.  And here:

Hii!
Just wondering if there are any fellow girls on here who are into Bitcoin mining, trading, etc. It seems it's mainly guys. We are roughly 50% of the population of this planet yet I can't find any girls who are into Bitcoins, anywhere.

To lonely nerds, "a girl" might be a big deal, but I don't know any females who are so hung up on and feel the need to advertise that they are female.

Watch out guys!

It was relevant to the post, both times. I've also started like 10 other posts without mentioning I'm a girl, cause it wasn't relevant.
I'm not a "lonely nerd", I'm a girl, and some of my best friends are "nerds" so a bit more respect pls.

[samaricanin]

She's bored and wants to chat 

[MichaelBliss]

A couple of guys on here have asked me for advice to do with girls, since I'm a girl myself. I'm happy to help u guys out if u need some advice from a girl's perspective just ask : ) x

Usually girls don't make such a point of "since I'm a girl myself".   But there *have* been many guys posing as girls, bringing up that they are "a girl", as part of their scams.

Why would you want to bring to everyone's attention that you're a girl.  Like you did here.  And here:

Hii!
Just wondering if there are any fellow girls on here who are into Bitcoin mining, trading, etc. It seems it's mainly guys. We are roughly 50% of the population of this planet yet I can't find any girls who are into Bitcoins, anywhere.

To lonely nerds, "a girl" might be a big deal, but I don't know any females who are so hung up on and feel the need to advertise that they are female.

Watch out guys!

It was relevant to the post, both times. I've also started like 10 other posts without mentioning I'm a girl, cause it wasn't relevant.
I'm not a "lonely nerd", I'm a girl, and some of my best friends are "nerds" so a bit more respect pls.

Why is it important or relevant on Bitcointalk that you "are a girl".     Are you a child? (Adults don't tend to call themselves "girls", rather "women").  I also don't know any "girls" who feel the need to continuously say "I am a girl".   Why do that?  Why not be a human and an equal?

[ibminer]

Whether its a girl or not, he/she is doing it because they think it distinguishes themselves over other aliases on this forum and makes them more unique and stand out to others. If she is a girl, she's got control issues but is lonely (.....stop being so controlling). If she's a man, he's a scam artist or potentially someone seeking to join the shemales of the world.

There is my analysis. It's a shot in the dark, but I'd lean more towards:



    

[YanTheMan]

Yes.  Why do you want so much attention??

[MichaelBliss]

Whether its a girl or not, he/she is doing it because they think it distinguishes themselves over other aliases on this forum and makes them more unique and stand out to others. If she is a girl, she's got control issues but is lonely (.....stop being so controlling). If she's a man, he's a scam artist or potentially someone seeking to join the shemales of the world.

There is my analysis. It's a shot in the dark, but I'd lean more towards:



    

She's pretty!

[fabiola!]

Why is it important or relevant on Bitcointalk that you "are a girl".     Are you a child? (Adults don't tend to call themselves "girls", rather "women").  I also don't know any "girls" who feel the need to continuously say "I am a girl".   Why do that?  Why not be a human and an equal?

It was relevant to those two topics. Look at my signature, there's no mention. Look at my other topics, no mention.
I don't know where u r from, but here in the UK everyone who is either a teen, in their 20s or even early 30s is referred to as a girl (or bird) unless they dress super maturely, are married or have kids, which then sort of puts them into a grown "woman" category I guess.

[MichaelBliss]

It was relevant to those two topics.

You started both topics, both topics were about you're being "a girl".  WTF?

[fabiola!]

Whether its a girl or not, he/she is doing it because they think it distinguishes themselves over other aliases on this forum and makes them more unique and stand out to others. If she is a girl, she's got control issues but is lonely (.....stop being so controlling). If she's a man, he's a scam artist or potentially someone seeking to join the shemales of the world.

There is my analysis. It's a shot in the dark, but I'd lean more towards:



    

Lol, gotta laugh at this. But you're wrong. I was just trying to help out some fellow bitcoiners with girly advice, the same way some of them helped me when I needed technical advice. I'm not lonely, or bored.
If you don't need advice and your life is perfect I'm happy for you, but there are some guys here who appreciate it and have asked me to help them, so yeah. Why not?

[fabiola!]

It was relevant to those two topics.

You started both topics, both topics were about you're being "a girl".  WTF?

Yes, I also started a bunch of other topics where I don't mention it at all. What's your point?

[MichaelBliss]

It was relevant to those two topics.

You started both topics, both topics were about you're being "a girl".  WTF?

Yes, I also started a bunch of other topics where I don't mention it at all. What's your point?

That you're making a circular argument.  You excuse going on about being female by saying "it was relevant to both posts", which is meaningless since you started both posts...about you being a female.  Why call so much attention to "being a girl?"

[Splatters]

I always start with "how much"!





IJK

[hilariousandco]

A couple of guys on here have asked me for advice to do with girls, since I'm a girl myself. I'm happy to help u guys out if u need some advice from a girl's perspective just ask : ) x

Usually girls don't make such a point of "since I'm a girl myself".   But there *have* been many guys posing as girls, bringing up that they are "a girl", as part of their scams.

Why would you want to bring to everyone's attention that you're a girl.  Like you did here.

Yeah, this has been explained to her him several times, but I guess s/he's just going to disregard the advice and carry on with the facade and telling every one s/he's a girl at at every available opportunity  . It's too blatant to be believable.

[Sumerian]

Maybe she added gender to the topic because it was a big deal in her previous topic about girls. Maybe she is just trying to contribute to the forum.

Aside from the whole scam prt of this topic. Don't trust anyone.

[fabiola!]

Maybe she added gender to the topic because it was a big deal in her previous topic about girls. Maybe she is just trying to contribute to the forum.

Aside from the whole scam prt of this topic. Don't trust anyone.

Exactly. Thank you, you are one of the few reasonable guys on here.

[MichaelBliss]

How much?

[fabiola!]

A couple of guys on here have asked me for advice to do with girls, since I'm a girl myself. I'm happy to help u guys out if u need some advice from a girl's perspective just ask : ) x

Usually girls don't make such a point of "since I'm a girl myself".   But there *have* been many guys posing as girls, bringing up that they are "a girl", as part of their scams.

Why would you want to bring to everyone's attention that you're a girl.  Like you did here.

Yeah, this has been explained to her him several times, but I guess s/he's just going to disregard the advice and carry on with the facade and telling every one s/he's a girl at at every available opportunity  . It's too blatant to be believable.

How am I too blatant? You mean I act too much like a girl...guess what, it's because I'm a girl!!
Also, you're wrong, I do not mention I'm a girl at every opportunity, read my other posts and you will see, tons of them.

[fabiola!]

How much?

Shut up, why the Bob Marley pic anyway? You seem way to uptight to be the kind of guy who listens to Marley

[nsimmons]

Rule 1, never take girl advice from a girl.

Source, 20 years experience.

[lepirate]

Rule 1, never take girl advice from a girl.

Source, 20 years experience.

Rule 2, never trust anyone one the internet.
Source: Internet.

No but seriously, that's a kinda sexist thing to say.

[nsimmons]

Rule 1, never take girl advice from a girl.

Source, 20 years experience.

Rule 2, never trust anyone one the internet.
Source: Internet.

No but seriously, that's a kinda sexist thing to say.

It's not sexist if its the truth, how old are you? I've been dealing with girls and women since the early 90's.
Taking advice from a mature 30+ woman about a serious relationship is completely different than advice for a 20year old girl.

[hilariousandco]

How am I too blatant? You mean I act too much like a girl...guess what, it's because I'm a girl!!
Also, you're wrong, I do not mention I'm a girl at every opportunity, read my other posts and you will see, tons of them.

Yes, when people come on here and act too much like what they think girls act like it's too blatant!!! <--- look overuse of exclamation marks - I'm a girl too!!! I already explained previously in your Beginners thread why your behaviour seems very suspicious. And I didn't say you do it every post but at every available opportunity. If there's a thread on What's your favourite alcoholic drink you'd probably say it's "Pink Champaign, because I'm a girl". The constant reinforcement along with other tell-tale signs just always rings alarm bells. I really dont think anybody cares about your gender as much as you seem to do.

[lepirate]

Rule 1, never take girl advice from a girl.

Source, 20 years experience.

Rule 2, never trust anyone one the internet.
Source: Internet.

No but seriously, that's a kinda sexist thing to say.

It's not sexist if its the truth, how old are you? I've been dealing with girls and women since the early 90's.
Taking advice from a mature 30+ woman about a serious relationship is completely different than advice for a 20year old girl.

A lot younger than you, however, saying "never take advice from a girl" is basically saying "girls can't give good advice".
Some people give good advice, some give bad, gender doesn't matter.
Always do what seems to work for you, and take advice from people that you really think is really trustworthy.

[(oYo)]

[fabiola!]

How am I too blatant? You mean I act too much like a girl...guess what, it's because I'm a girl!!
Also, you're wrong, I do not mention I'm a girl at every opportunity, read my other posts and you will see, tons of them.

Yes, when people come on here and act too much like what they think girls act like it's too blatant!!! <--- look overuse of exclamation marks - I'm a girl too!!! I already explained previously in your Beginners thread why your behaviour seems very suspicious. And I didn't say you do it every post but at every available opportunity. If there's a thread on What's your favourite alcoholic drink you'd probably say it's "Pink Champaign, because I'm a girl". The constant reinforcement along with other tell-tale signs just always rings alarm bells. I really dont think anybody cares about your gender as much as you seem to do.

Well I'm sorry that im not butch enough for you, sorry I don't blend in and my msgs come across too girly on here, but what do u expect!!! lol. I just can't win with guys like you. Boo.

[hilariousandco]

I'm not a guy, did you not notice the three!!! exclamation marks I used before and the female-stated gender in my profile ? 

[Omikifuse]

Rule 1, never take girl advice from a girl.

Source, 20 years experience.

It is a corollary from rule 0: never trust anyone's advices and always takes into account the possibility they are trying to deceive you, wether counsicous or unconsciously.

Anything coming from a girl about girl behaviors will be biased in the source.

[kuusj98]

I got some man to man tips:
If your friend has a girlfriend, and you like her too, just try too keep close contact with both of them. She may notice you are more fitting to her than your friend, I did this and it seems too be working out.
If you met her before her boyfriend, and you kept close contact, you are more likely to attract her than if you meet her after she got a boyfriend.

Just some, for the most of you, useless tips but I thought of sharing my methods anyway.
Also, don't begin about sex immediatly, it will end bad in 9/10 cases

[lepirate]

Also, don't begin about sex immediatly, it will end bad in 9/10 cases

Worse, 199/200 cases!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ira9A7wSW3M

[Lethn]

Also, don't begin about sex immediatly, it will end bad in 9/10 cases

Worse, 199/200 cases!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ira9A7wSW3M

And that ladies and gentlemen is the honest reason of why I'm still single and not that fucking bothered about it Seriously though, trying to hit on girls especially on your own is fucking terrifying lets be honest and we don't get any thanks for having the balls to.

Also, let me pass along my own advice to people just starting out.... Never EVER say that one girl is the prettiest in a group.......


EVER!

Oh and don't bother trying to compliment them on their looks, they'll just think your bullshitting them or hate you.

[fabiola!]

I'm not a guy, did you not notice the three!!! exclamation marks I used before and the female-stated gender in my profile ? 

You're not a girl, not in a million years. Girls stick up for each other. If you were a girl you wouldn't be giving me such a hard time. The only exception would be if you're jealous of my looks, which you cannot be since you haven't seen my pic.
My conclusion, you're a guy, quite an annoying one in fact : )

[fabiola!]

@kusjj98 and lethn
That's pretty spot on, great advice actually, I'm glad you joined this thread x

[hilariousandco]

I'm not a guy, did you not notice the three!!! exclamation marks I used before and the female-stated gender in my profile ? 

You're not a girl, not in a million years. Girls stick up for each other. If you were a girl you wouldn't be giving me such a hard time. The only exception would be if you're jealous of my looks, which you cannot be since you haven't seen my pic.
My conclusion, you're a guy, quite an annoying one in fact : )

But you're probably not a girl either, and there you go with those stereotypes and mass generalisations again. Girls like pink and flowers too, right? (well, probably not the ones who are into bitcoin).

[vokain]

whats the first steps to lead into a conversation despite her having a bf.

She's got a boyfriend...mmm...in that case approach her "as a friend", any excuse will do i.e. offer help with something or ask her to recommend a movie or music or whatever. Get close to her as a friend and take that opportunity to show her why you're a great guy (without being too obvious). If you're lucky, sooner or later her relationship will go thru a rough patch. If the guy is great I'm afraid you don't stand a chance. But if the guy is a jerk, well, she'll be single again soon, which is great news for you!

thank you

now, what about the girl who just got out of a relationship? (friends told me when I brought up how I couldn't help but notice this person one day)

[r3wt]

[fabiola!]

I'm not a guy, did you not notice the three!!! exclamation marks I used before and the female-stated gender in my profile ? 

You're not a girl, not in a million years. Girls stick up for each other. If you were a girl you wouldn't be giving me such a hard time. The only exception would be if you're jealous of my looks, which you cannot be since you haven't seen my pic.
My conclusion, you're a guy, quite an annoying one in fact : )

But you're probably not a girl either, and there you go with those stereotypes and mass generalisations again. Girls like pink and flowers too, right? (well, probably not the ones who are into bitcoin).

I am a girl. For real. And I like pink and flowers, yes. But here I am, in a Bitcoin forum, because I'm into Btc as well. This reminds me of when I tell ppl I love golf and surfing, and they automatically ask if I'm a lesbian, Lolz, stereotypes.

[fabiola!]

whats the first steps to lead into a conversation despite her having a bf.

She's got a boyfriend...mmm...in that case approach her "as a friend", any excuse will do i.e. offer help with something or ask her to recommend a movie or music or whatever. Get close to her as a friend and take that opportunity to show her why you're a great guy (without being too obvious). If you're lucky, sooner or later her relationship will go thru a rough patch. If the guy is great I'm afraid you don't stand a chance. But if the guy is a jerk, well, she'll be single again soon, which is great news for you!

thank you

now, what about the girl who just got out of a relationship? (friends told me when I brought up how I couldn't help but notice this person one day)

Give her time! Don't hit on her straight away, act like a friend not like a "guy", she probably hates her ex and all guys right now (especially if he was a jerk or cheated etc) , so tread carefully for a bit!

[vokain]

A good thing that we all have all the time in the world. thank you fabs! hope you have the greatest lunar eclipse tonight

[gordoh]

There is an easy way to settle this.

If u girls really are girls, why don't you post a picture of yourselves holding a sign that says #Bitcointalk with todays date. Then nobody will question your gender any further. Alternatively you could avoid mentioning your gender and then nobody would care if you were male or female. Just my 2 cents.

[fabiola!]

There is an easy way to settle this.

If u girls really are girls, why don't you post a picture of yourselves holding a sign that says #Bitcointalk with todays date. Then nobody will question your gender any further. Alternatively you could avoid mentioning your gender and then nobody would care if you were male or female. Just my 2 cents.

Signs like that can be bought on fiver and delivered within minutes, just saying.

[fabiola!]

A good thing that we all have all the time in the world. thank you fabs! hope you have the greatest lunar eclipse tonight

You're a bit of a Sherlock, I like you.
Lunar eclipse...? When tonight?

[b!z]

A good thing that we all have all the time in the world. thank you fabs! hope you have the greatest lunar eclipse tonight

*tips le fedora*

[fabiola!]

A good thing that we all have all the time in the world. thank you fabs! hope you have the greatest lunar eclipse tonight

*tips le fedora*

Guys who are into fedoras= winning!

[cooldgamer]

There is absolutely no chance OP is a chick...  2 threads in a row bragging about being female

[beaknuke]

So your into Surfing then, do you go to Croyde or Newquay?

[b!z]

Do you know how to lock threads?

[(oYo)]

SHOCKINGLY STUPID ADVICE: How Cosmopolitan Magazine is misleading a generation of young women

[Omikifuse]

How can I convince hot women to menage with me?

[fabiola!]

So your into Surfing then, do you go to Croyde or Newquay?

Never been to croyde, Newquay is brill.

[beaknuke]

So your into Surfing then, do you go to Croyde or Newquay?

Never been to croyde, Newquay is brill.

Only been to Newquay once, I did try the waves but wasn't my thing, very lively night scene!  Croyde is local to me... so gonna presume u have a black flag where I have a green one

[gentlemand]

Croyde suffers from severe overcrowding and dodgy currents in my experience. I'm a Saunton man. Super spacious but not that fashionable.

[fabiola!]

Croyde suffers from severe overcrowding and dodgy currents in my experience. I'm a Saunton man. Super spacious but not that fashionable.

Never heard of the place

[fabiola!]

So your into Surfing then, do you go to Croyde or Newquay?

Never been to croyde, Newquay is brill.

Only been to Newquay once, I did try the waves but wasn't my thing, very lively night scene!  Croyde is local to me... so gonna presume u have a black flag where I have a green one

Why wasn't it your thing?

[bitkilo]

I have had 3 serious relationships, last one lasted over 6 years so not shy or inexperienced but always met though friends.
Getting older now and not going out with friends as much anymore, so have to find another way to meet that special someone.

My questions is if i am walking down the shops and see a beautiful girl i would love to talk with, eyes meet and all the usual signs, then what to say?
I imagine this would differ between different cultures and races also.
 
How would you like to be approached?

[Pichita]

hahahaha rlly?

[bitkilo]

There was some american dickhead in Australia recently that was giving classes on how to pick up girls and he was serious about his ways working, things like grabbing the girl around throat and forcing a kiss from them, would any girls here really want that, i doubt it! 

To SamedamnBTC, You slept with this girl 2 times naked and no sex! Are you sure you like girls? Seriously 2 times, come on.
Although i am happy to hear if she said no you listened, too many guys don't listen and give the rest of us guys bad names.

[b!z]

To SamedamnBTC, You slept with this girl 2 times naked and no sex! Are you sure you like girls? Seriously 2 times, come on.
Although i am happy to hear if she said no you listened, too many guys don't listen and give the rest of us guys bad names.

We made out and grabbed eachother both times, first time we both was too drunk, the second time she refused since I was traveling away for 2 month,  the day after.

I came to a conclusion that she like to tease boys, as she did tease my friend also(the time I showed no interest in her) But what I dont get, why contacting me if she is not interested? Just to feel better about herself?

The last time we spoke, I was really douch to here, because I was sick of here "playing" me, but she still contacted me. I even deleted here on FB and she added me back....

I don't know the situation as well as you do, but probably. Don't bother with her if she does not care for any sort of relationship with you.

[bitkilo]

To SamedamnBTC, You slept with this girl 2 times naked and no sex! Are you sure you like girls? Seriously 2 times, come on.
Although i am happy to hear if she said no you listened, too many guys don't listen and give the rest of us guys bad names.

We made out and grabbed eachother both times, first time we both was too drunk, the second time she refused since I was traveling away for 2 month,  the day after.

I came to a conclusion that she like to tease boys, as she did tease my friend also(the time I showed no interest in her) But what I dont get, why contacting me if she is not interested? Just to feel better about herself?

The last time we spoke, I was really douch to here, because I was sick of here "playing" me, but she still contacted me. I even deleted here on FB and she added me back....

All girls tease and flirt with us blokes, they know that if they good looking they have the power to do that you just have to play along.
You deleated her on FB, oh now your pulling out the big guns.  

[b!z]

I have had 3 serious relationships, last one lasted over 6 years so not shy or inexperienced but always met though friends.
Getting older now and not going out with friends as much anymore, so have to find another way to meet that special someone.

My questions is if i am walking down the shops and see a beautiful girl i would love to talk with, eyes meet and all the usual signs, then what to say?
I imagine this would differ between different cultures and races also.
 
How would you like to be approached?

http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html (thanks phillipsjk for posting this in a different thread)

[bitkilo]

Anyone in need of a girlfriend could always go back to this thread, lol  
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=852645.msg9495726#msg9495726
But it will cost you!

[b!z]

Anyone in need of a girlfriend could always go back to this thread, lol 
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=852645.msg9495726#msg9495726
But it will cost you!

LOL that thread is hilarious!

[fabiola!]

I have had 3 serious relationships, last one lasted over 6 years so not shy or inexperienced but always met though friends.
Getting older now and not going out with friends as much anymore, so have to find another way to meet that special someone.

My questions is if i am walking down the shops and see a beautiful girl i would love to talk with, eyes meet and all the usual signs, then what to say?
I imagine this would differ between different cultures and races also.
 
How would you like to be approached?

If eyes meet and you get a positive sort of vibe from her, you need to TALK TO HER  or you will regret it later now, what to say....well I had all sorts of goofy guys come up to me pretending to be a tourist asking for directions, even pretending to speak English badly and all sorts, but that won't work in the long run if she likes you and you two go on a date, can't keep pretending forever. So you need to be honest. Just say excuse me and then ask her something, the sweetest approach I got this year was a guy asking me which flowers were the nicest cause he was buying some for his gran that afternoon, that would work on ANY girl. Also, if you're buying anything at the time like a present for your sister or whatever, ask her for advice, just a friendly and polite "excuse me" and then you got a conversation going my friend

[b!z]

I have had 3 serious relationships, last one lasted over 6 years so not shy or inexperienced but always met though friends.
Getting older now and not going out with friends as much anymore, so have to find another way to meet that special someone.

My questions is if i am walking down the shops and see a beautiful girl i would love to talk with, eyes meet and all the usual signs, then what to say?
I imagine this would differ between different cultures and races also.
 
How would you like to be approached?

If eyes meet and you get a positive sort of vibe from her, you need to TALK TO HER  or you will regret it later now, what to say....well I had all sorts of goofy guys come up to me pretending to be a tourist asking for directions, even pretending to speak English badly and all sorts, but that won't work in the long run if she likes you and you two go on a date, can't keep pretending forever. So you need to be honest. Just say excuse me and then ask her something, the sweetest approach I got this year was a guy asking me which flowers were the nicest cause he was buying some for his gran that afternoon, that would work on ANY girl. Also, if you're buying anything at the time like a present for your sister or whatever, ask her for advice, just a friendly and polite "excuse me" and then you got a conversation going my friend

Excuse me, I need some advice for my gran. Do you know how to close this thread?

Thanks! 

[bitkilo]

I have had 3 serious relationships, last one lasted over 6 years so not shy or inexperienced but always met though friends.
Getting older now and not going out with friends as much anymore, so have to find another way to meet that special someone.

My questions is if i am walking down the shops and see a beautiful girl i would love to talk with, eyes meet and all the usual signs, then what to say?
I imagine this would differ between different cultures and races also.
 
How would you like to be approached?

If eyes meet and you get a positive sort of vibe from her, you need to TALK TO HER  or you will regret it later now, what to say....well I had all sorts of goofy guys come up to me pretending to be a tourist asking for directions, even pretending to speak English badly and all sorts, but that won't work in the long run if she likes you and you two go on a date, can't keep pretending forever. So you need to be honest. Just say excuse me and then ask her something, the sweetest approach I got this year was a guy asking me which flowers were the nicest cause he was buying some for his gran that afternoon, that would work on ANY girl. Also, if you're buying anything at the time like a present for your sister or whatever, ask her for advice, just a friendly and polite "excuse me" and then you got a conversation going my friend

That is all good, i don't normally have any trouble striking up a conversation with someone i want to talk with, what i should have said is what is the best time to drop in the line " can i have your phone number" into the conversation?

 

[bitkilo]

Excuse me, I need some advice for my gran. Do you know how to close this thread?

Thanks!  

OP may not even a female because we are yet to see proof but still fun to know what someone else ideas are on picking up

[fabiola!]

Fabiola, I have one;

She liked me first, I showed zero interest(was not interested at that time) then she started hitting on my friend, I suddenly begin to get interest in here. Now she is not interested in me, but keep contacting me from time to time(dont know why, as I have told here, im not a friendzone guy)

What can I do to spark the interest again. Or should I consider other options and forget this one? Mainly because there is already problems before any thing have startd.

BTW; We have slept together two times, naked, without having sex(she didnt want to)

Yep, I'm familiar with this sort of situation. It's pretty simple, if she liked you once, interest CAN be sparked once again, ALWAYS Now, the best way to find out is to make her jealous and see what happens. But instead of going out of your way making plans to make her jealous, just take it easy and go out!! Like, have fun, hook up with other girls, thus making her jealous in the process, if she comes back WIN, if she doesn't still WIN cause maybe you get to meet someone even better in the process. My advice is never stay at home crying over a girl, it never works.

[igl00]

girls never use ! in nick name.

[fabiola!]

I have had 3 serious relationships, last one lasted over 6 years so not shy or inexperienced but always met though friends.
Getting older now and not going out with friends as much anymore, so have to find another way to meet that special someone.

My questions is if i am walking down the shops and see a beautiful girl i would love to talk with, eyes meet and all the usual signs, then what to say?
I imagine this would differ between different cultures and races also.
 
How would you like to be approached?

If eyes meet and you get a positive sort of vibe from her, you need to TALK TO HER  or you will regret it later now, what to say....well I had all sorts of goofy guys come up to me pretending to be a tourist asking for directions, even pretending to speak English badly and all sorts, but that won't work in the long run if she likes you and you two go on a date, can't keep pretending forever. So you need to be honest. Just say excuse me and then ask her something, the sweetest approach I got this year was a guy asking me which flowers were the nicest cause he was buying some for his gran that afternoon, that would work on ANY girl. Also, if you're buying anything at the time like a present for your sister or whatever, ask her for advice, just a friendly and polite "excuse me" and then you got a conversation going my friend

That is all good, i don't normally have any trouble striking up a conversation with someone i want to talk with, what i should have said is what is the best time to drop in the line " can i have your phone number" into the conversation?

 

Well, if she gives you a good vibe and she's basically doing you a favour by recommending flowers or presents or whatever it is that you asked, and you honestly feel like she's giving you a vibe, then it's the easiest thing to just say things like "thanks so much, you're an absolute angel, my sister is gonna love this, you have great taste (compliments compliments), and then ask her if she would like to go for coffee sometime, I once literally had a guy shout "I NEED YOU IN MY LIFE" at me after 5 minutes of meeting me, haha, it works cause it's adorable and humble.

[bitkilo]

Thanks so much, you're an absolute angel and so helpful, I need you in my life,
Can i have your number? lol
So the guy that said he needed you in his life, are you still in his life?

[fabiola!]

girls never use ! in nick name.

Are you still playing the Sherlock game? I'm a girl, a lot of guys on here know I am and can vouch for me, but there's no need, this forum's foundation should be based on trust methinks

[fabiola!]

Thanks so much, you're an absolute angel and so helpful, I need you in my life,
Can i have your number? lol
So the guy that said he needed you in his life, are you still in his life?

no need for my number since we are already talking on here and yes he is but sadly he lives in America.

[bitkilo]

Thanks so much, you're an absolute angel and so helpful, I need you in my life,
Can i have your number? lol
So the guy that said he needed you in his life, are you still in his life?

no need for my number since we are already talking on here and yes he is but sadly he lives in America.

Ha, thats the same answer some girls will give on the street, no need for my number we can just talk here, lol
UK girls do have a sexy voice though.
I think internet dating is the way of today, everybody is too busy to meet as they go about there day, people only want to meet and hook up when they have the time to.
Soon someone will come out with smart dating contracts that can be implemented in the blockchain.
Good business idea using smart contracts for pre-nups before marriage.

[fabiola!]

Thanks so much, you're an absolute angel and so helpful, I need you in my life,
Can i have your number? lol
So the guy that said he needed you in his life, are you still in his life?

no need for my number since we are already talking on here and yes he is but sadly he lives in America.

Ha, thats the same answer some girls will give on the street, no need for my number we can just talk here, lol
UK girls do have a sexy voice though.
I think internet dating is the way of today, everybody is too busy to meet as they go about there day, people only want to meet and hook up when they have the time to.
Soon someone will come out with smart dating contracts that can be implemented in the blockchain.
Good business idea using smart contracts for pre-nups before marriage.

yes, you're right, online dating is probably the easiest way for a lot of ppl, but did you watch catfish? :S

[bitkilo]

Watch catfish? What are you talking about?

[smalltimer]

will there be pictures of breasts?

[b!z]

girls never use ! in nick name.

[citation needed]

[Slark]

Watch catfish? What are you talking about?

You do not know what catfish is? It is a MTV show about people dating online. You can watch it on youtube.

[bitkilo]

Watch catfish? What are you talking about?

You do not know what catfish is? It is a MTV show about people dating online. You can watch it on youtube.

Nah never seen it, dont watch heaps of tv anymore but i like 'If you are the one' a chinese dating show that can be pretty funny, i will watch that when i see it on. Have you seen it?

[moneybat]

Girly advice from a male or a female?  there is a big difference imho.

[HeroCat]

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola  

[fabiola!]

girls never use ! in nick name.

[citation needed]

Haha, you've been on Wikipedia way too long.

[fabiola!]

Girly advice from a male or a female?  there is a big difference imho.

Female

[fabiola!]

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola  

Hey hey! making coffee it's not even hard, come on!

[b!z]

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola 

What's your definition of good coffee?

>inb4 starbucks

[fabiola!]

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola 

What's your definition of good coffee?

>inb4 starbucks

He's talking about those Italian metal coffee makers that go on top of a stove like.

[b!z]

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola 

What's your definition of good coffee?

>inb4 starbucks

He's talking about those Italian metal coffee makers that go on top of a stove like.

How do you know?

[fabiola!]

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola 

What's your definition of good coffee?

>inb4 starbucks

He's talking about those Italian metal coffee makers that go on top of a stove like.

How do you know?

I know too many coffee snobs haha

[b!z]

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola 

What's your definition of good coffee?

>inb4 starbucks

He's talking about those Italian metal coffee makers that go on top of a stove like.

How do you know?

I know too many coffee snobs haha

favorite coffee?

[fabiola!]

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola 

What's your definition of good coffee?

>inb4 starbucks

He's talking about those Italian metal coffee makers that go on top of a stove like.

How do you know?

I know too many coffee snobs haha

favorite coffee?

Cappuccino, yours?
Aren't we breaking the rules going off topic?

[b!z]

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola 

What's your definition of good coffee?

>inb4 starbucks

He's talking about those Italian metal coffee makers that go on top of a stove like.

How do you know?

I know too many coffee snobs haha

favorite coffee?

Cappuccino, yours?
Aren't we breaking the rules going off topic?

opinion discarded

straight espresso > all

[fabiola!]

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola 

What's your definition of good coffee?

>inb4 starbucks

He's talking about those Italian metal coffee makers that go on top of a stove like.

How do you know?

I know too many coffee snobs haha

favorite coffee?

Cappuccino, yours?
Aren't we breaking the rules going off topic?

opinion discarded

straight espresso > all

Espresso is awful and bitter, have you considered drinking something sweeter once in a while? It may help

[(oYo)]

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola 

What's your definition of good coffee?

>inb4 starbucks

He's talking about those Italian metal coffee makers that go on top of a stove like.

How do you know?

I know too many coffee snobs haha

favorite coffee?

Cappuccino, yours?
Aren't we breaking the rules going off topic?

opinion discarded

straight espresso > all

Espresso is awful and bitter, have you considered drinking something sweeter once in a while? It may help

Ya, but what a buzz you get off doing 6 espresso shots! 

[fabiola!]

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola 

What's your definition of good coffee?

>inb4 starbucks

He's talking about those Italian metal coffee makers that go on top of a stove like.

How do you know?

I know too many coffee snobs haha

favorite coffee?

Cappuccino, yours?
Aren't we breaking the rules going off topic?

opinion discarded

straight espresso > all

Espresso is awful and bitter, have you considered drinking something sweeter once in a while? It may help

Ya, but what a buzz you get off doing 6 espresso shots! 

Really? I've never done that, not sure if I wanna give it a go.

[bitkilo]

Come on fabiola, i thought this was ment to be a sorta how to get a root guide for some of the poor loners here.
Why dont you post instructions for the quickest way from conversation to bed from a girls point of view.

[b!z]

Come on fabiola, i thought this was ment to be a sorta how to get a root guide for some of the poor loners here.
Why dont you post instructions for the quickest way from conversation to bed from a girls point of view.

Go read a self-help book or something.

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola 

What's your definition of good coffee?

>inb4 starbucks

He's talking about those Italian metal coffee makers that go on top of a stove like.

How do you know?

I know too many coffee snobs haha

favorite coffee?

Cappuccino, yours?
Aren't we breaking the rules going off topic?

opinion discarded

straight espresso > all

Espresso is awful and bitter, have you considered drinking something sweeter once in a while? It may help

Ya, but what a buzz you get off doing 6 espresso shots! 

Really? I've never done that, not sure if I wanna give it a go.

Keep drinking your sugar-laden Starbucks "coffee" then.

[saddambitcoin]

Drip coffee actually contains more caffeine by volume because it has more time in contact with the ground beans. Espresso is only pulled for like 20-30 seconds but under high pressure, whereas drip coffee is like 3 minutes. No doubt they will both get you jacked but it is a negligible difference between drinking many espresso shots vs cups of drip coffee.

Wtf am i talking about ?

[b!z]

Drip coffee actually contains more caffeine by volume because it has more time in contact with the ground beans. Espresso is only pulled for like 20-30 seconds but under high pressure, whereas drip coffee is like 3 minutes. No doubt they will both get you jacked but it is a negligible difference between drinking many espresso shots vs cups of drip coffee.

Wtf am i talking about ?

What's your favorite type of coffee?

[(oYo)]

Come on fabiola, i thought this was ment to be a sorta how to get a root guide for some of the poor loners here.
Why dont you post instructions for the quickest way from conversation to bed from a girls point of view.

Go read a self-help book or something.

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola 

What's your definition of good coffee?

>inb4 starbucks

He's talking about those Italian metal coffee makers that go on top of a stove like.

How do you know?

I know too many coffee snobs haha

favorite coffee?

Cappuccino, yours?
Aren't we breaking the rules going off topic?

opinion discarded

straight espresso > all

Espresso is awful and bitter, have you considered drinking something sweeter once in a while? It may help

Ya, but what a buzz you get off doing 6 espresso shots! 

Really? I've never done that, not sure if I wanna give it a go.

Keep drinking your sugar-laden Starbucks "coffee" then.

Tim Horton's started selling a "Dark Roast" coffee to compete with Starbucks. I went in and ordered one of their 'new burnt bean coffees'. She didn't even flinch. She knew exactly what I meant. The coffee was disgusting. Just like Starbucks. It'll probably do well.  

[saddambitcoin]

Drip coffee actually contains more caffeine by volume because it has more time in contact with the ground beans. Espresso is only pulled for like 20-30 seconds but under high pressure, whereas drip coffee is like 3 minutes. No doubt they will both get you jacked but it is a negligible difference between drinking many espresso shots vs cups of drip coffee.

Wtf am i talking about ?

What's your favorite type of coffee?

if i had to choose 1 origin to drink for the rest of my life: ethiopian yirgacheffe

for a special treat i enjoy a natural process coffee (the beans are dried with the fruit intact instead of being washed off normally). its so aromatic and fruity, more like tea than coffee.

that being said i also enjoy many coffees from south america, just depends on what is available from my local roaster.

[b!z]

Drip coffee actually contains more caffeine by volume because it has more time in contact with the ground beans. Espresso is only pulled for like 20-30 seconds but under high pressure, whereas drip coffee is like 3 minutes. No doubt they will both get you jacked but it is a negligible difference between drinking many espresso shots vs cups of drip coffee.

Wtf am i talking about ?

What's your favorite type of coffee?

if i had to choose 1 origin to drink for the rest of my life: ethiopian yirgacheffe

for a special treat i enjoy a natural process coffee (the beans are dried with the fruit intact instead of being washed off normally). its so aromatic and fruity, more like tea than coffee.

that being said i also enjoy many coffees from south america, just depends on what is available from my local roaster.

finally somebody with taste

[b!z]

Come on fabiola, i thought this was ment to be a sorta how to get a root guide for some of the poor loners here.
Why dont you post instructions for the quickest way from conversation to bed from a girls point of view.

Go read a self-help book or something.

Sometimes girls can give smart advices, but only sometimes. Just ask her how to make good coffee, and I am 97% sure she will not know, even may be Fabiola 

What's your definition of good coffee?

>inb4 starbucks

He's talking about those Italian metal coffee makers that go on top of a stove like.

How do you know?

I know too many coffee snobs haha

favorite coffee?

Cappuccino, yours?
Aren't we breaking the rules going off topic?

opinion discarded

straight espresso > all

Espresso is awful and bitter, have you considered drinking something sweeter once in a while? It may help

Ya, but what a buzz you get off doing 6 espresso shots! 

Really? I've never done that, not sure if I wanna give it a go.

Keep drinking your sugar-laden Starbucks "coffee" then.

Tim Horton's started selling a "Dark Roast" coffee to compete with Starbucks. I went in and ordered one of their 'new burnt bean coffees'. She didn't even flinch. She knew exactly what I meant. The coffee was disgusting. Just like Starbucks. It'll probably do well. 

lol yeah, their coffees taste really weird

[Slark]

One thing I want to say about girls: disregard females, acquire currency.

Also I do not like coffee. So lets not talk about it.

[b!z]

One thing I want to say about girls: disregard females, acquire currency.

Also I do not like coffee. So lets not talk about it.

Try a good coffee and you'll change your opinion

[fabiola!]

Drip coffee actually contains more caffeine by volume because it has more time in contact with the ground beans. Espresso is only pulled for like 20-30 seconds but under high pressure, whereas drip coffee is like 3 minutes. No doubt they will both get you jacked but it is a negligible difference between drinking many espresso shots vs cups of drip coffee.

Wtf am i talking about ?

What's your favorite type of coffee?

if i had to choose 1 origin to drink for the rest of my life: ethiopian yirgacheffe

for a special treat i enjoy a natural process coffee (the beans are dried with the fruit intact instead of being washed off normally). its so aromatic and fruity, more like tea than coffee.

that being said i also enjoy many coffees from south america, just depends on what is available from my local roaster.

finally somebody with taste

You guys have a "local roaster" ?? What??!

Ps. Saddambitcoin would you like me to recommend a tea that tastes a bit like coffee? You seem to like weird out-of-the-box delicacies. they have a square watermelon that tastes like banana in Japan, you may want to check that out, just ask your local square fruit grower, he will know!

[fabiola!]

Come on fabiola, i thought this was ment to be a sorta how to get a root guide for some of the poor loners here.
Why dont you post instructions for the quickest way from conversation to bed from a girls point of view.

There's no such thing. Every girl is different + depends on the situation, you need to narrow it down a bit. If you need help with a particular kind of girl in a particular situation it would be easier to help you.