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October 28, 2016, 03:41:56 AM
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when you are in desperate need of money, you have a problem about money, and to solve the problem you need to look for the money and that is a hard task to do. I have been in the situation many times and I thank God because he is guiding me every time I have a money problem, my relatives really help me a lot in times of trouble.
I am happy for you to have a good relative that actually understand and solve your finacial problems in time of need, not everybody that has relative who can understand and solve their problems,as for you, you are lucky enough.
And not all people in desperate need of money are also willing to approach their relatives, some keep their price even if a very desperate times as they do not want to have a debt of gratitude.
and I have saw some people around me that they sometimes come to very desperate need of money but they do not ask from their relatives because they may know that they will not help or there maybe some other reason beside that. But I have noticed that those people who are rich do not care for their poor relatives and definitely because of that the poor do not dare to ask them.
My friend is that sort of person, he first when gets salary really burns it with gambling and eating pizzas and all, and when there are yet 10 days left and money in hand is just around 20$ they get desperate and lol he been giving us so many treats we often help him, but hey he never asks his family, not sure yet why.

It sounds like your friend needs some money management counseling.  As long as his friends keep helping him at the end of the period, they're enabling him to keep being irresponsible.  When it comes down to it, all those treats he's sharing with everybody are actually being paid for by the group because it's coming out of their pocket in the end.
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October 28, 2016, 05:10:38 AM
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when you are in desperate need of money, you have a problem about money, and to solve the problem you need to look for the money and that is a hard task to do. I have been in the situation many times and I thank God because he is guiding me every time I have a money problem, my relatives really help me a lot in times of trouble.
I am happy for you to have a good relative that actually understand and solve your finacial problems in time of need, not everybody that has relative who can understand and solve their problems,as for you, you are lucky enough.
And not all people in desperate need of money are also willing to approach their relatives, some keep their price even if a very desperate times as they do not want to have a debt of gratitude.
and I have saw some people around me that they sometimes come to very desperate need of money but they do not ask from their relatives because they may know that they will not help or there maybe some other reason beside that. But I have noticed that those people who are rich do not care for their poor relatives and definitely because of that the poor do not dare to ask them.
My friend is that sort of person, he first when gets salary really burns it with gambling and eating pizzas and all, and when there are yet 10 days left and money in hand is just around 20$ they get desperate and lol he been giving us so many treats we often help him, but hey he never asks his family, not sure yet why.

It sounds like your friend needs some money management counseling.  As long as his friends keep helping him at the end of the period, they're enabling him to keep being irresponsible.  When it comes down to it, all those treats he's sharing with everybody are actually being paid for by the group because it's coming out of their pocket in the end.
Do not tolerate that kind of behavior of your friend, you do have to teach him a lesson also that not all the time you are there for him. He needs to know how valuable money is and we are not only living today, we still have tomorrow to use our money for our needs to survive.

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October 28, 2016, 05:37:02 AM
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when you are in desperate need of money, you have a problem about money, and to solve the problem you need to look for the money and that is a hard task to do. I have been in the situation many times and I thank God because he is guiding me every time I have a money problem, my relatives really help me a lot in times of trouble.
I am happy for you to have a good relative that actually understand and solve your finacial problems in time of need, not everybody that has relative who can understand and solve their problems,as for you, you are lucky enough.
And not all people in desperate need of money are also willing to approach their relatives, some keep their price even if a very desperate times as they do not want to have a debt of gratitude.
and I have saw some people around me that they sometimes come to very desperate need of money but they do not ask from their relatives because they may know that they will not help or there maybe some other reason beside that. But I have noticed that those people who are rich do not care for their poor relatives and definitely because of that the poor do not dare to ask them.
My friend is that sort of person, he first when gets salary really burns it with gambling and eating pizzas and all, and when there are yet 10 days left and money in hand is just around 20$ they get desperate and lol he been giving us so many treats we often help him, but hey he never asks his family, not sure yet why.

Nice friend you have, he probably doesn't want to take from people he loves/likes the most, in this case his family. But then isn't that what friends are for?  Grin Also you said he does give back sometimes, he takes some and gives some, so it's all good. Personally I never ask anyone for help, not friends, not family.
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October 28, 2016, 05:42:35 AM
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when you are in desperate need of money, you have a problem about money, and to solve the problem you need to look for the money and that is a hard task to do. I have been in the situation many times and I thank God because he is guiding me every time I have a money problem, my relatives really help me a lot in times of trouble.
I am happy for you to have a good relative that actually understand and solve your finacial problems in time of need, not everybody that has relative who can understand and solve their problems,as for you, you are lucky enough.
And not all people in desperate need of money are also willing to approach their relatives, some keep their price even if a very desperate times as they do not want to have a debt of gratitude.
and I have saw some people around me that they sometimes come to very desperate need of money but they do not ask from their relatives because they may know that they will not help or there maybe some other reason beside that. But I have noticed that those people who are rich do not care for their poor relatives and definitely because of that the poor do not dare to ask them.
My friend is that sort of person, he first when gets salary really burns it with gambling and eating pizzas and all, and when there are yet 10 days left and money in hand is just around 20$ they get desperate and lol he been giving us so many treats we often help him, but hey he never asks his family, not sure yet why.

Nice friend you have, he probably doesn't want to take from people he loves/likes the most, in this case his family. But then isn't that what friends are for?  Grin Also you said he does give back sometimes, he takes some and gives some, so it's all good. Personally I never ask anyone for help, not friends, not family.

There are really friends  who  would not  like to  put  you  up  into more trouble if they  lend you  some  money without interest then  its a good thing  because you have a good friend  which  could able  to  understand you  on your current situation  but   be sure  to  give  back  when  hes on the same situation later  on.  Give  and take  would be a  good  values though.

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October 28, 2016, 05:52:22 AM
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when you are in desperate need of money, you have a problem about money, and to solve the problem you need to look for the money and that is a hard task to do. I have been in the situation many times and I thank God because he is guiding me every time I have a money problem, my relatives really help me a lot in times of trouble.
I am happy for you to have a good relative that actually understand and solve your finacial problems in time of need, not everybody that has relative who can understand and solve their problems,as for you, you are lucky enough.
And not all people in desperate need of money are also willing to approach their relatives, some keep their price even if a very desperate times as they do not want to have a debt of gratitude.
and I have saw some people around me that they sometimes come to very desperate need of money but they do not ask from their relatives because they may know that they will not help or there maybe some other reason beside that. But I have noticed that those people who are rich do not care for their poor relatives and definitely because of that the poor do not dare to ask them.
My friend is that sort of person, he first when gets salary really burns it with gambling and eating pizzas and all, and when there are yet 10 days left and money in hand is just around 20$ they get desperate and lol he been giving us so many treats we often help him, but hey he never asks his family, not sure yet why.

It sounds like your friend needs some money management counseling.  As long as his friends keep helping him at the end of the period, they're enabling him to keep being irresponsible.  When it comes down to it, all those treats he's sharing with everybody are actually being paid for by the group because it's coming out of their pocket in the end.
Do not tolerate that kind of behavior of your friend, you do have to teach him a lesson also that not all the time you are there for him. He needs to know how valuable money is and we are not only living today, we still have tomorrow to use our money for our needs to survive.

There's no problem if you get your salary and you keep on eating pizzas and betting in gambling, what just his friend need is proper money management.

Even though I admit that I am that type of person, I don't usually ask my friends to help me out just for my financial needs.

I am burn too much money easily but I am responsible to keep some savings.

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October 28, 2016, 06:10:33 AM
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when you are in desperate need of money, you have a problem about money, and to solve the problem you need to look for the money and that is a hard task to do. I have been in the situation many times and I thank God because he is guiding me every time I have a money problem, my relatives really help me a lot in times of trouble.
I am happy for you to have a good relative that actually understand and solve your finacial problems in time of need, not everybody that has relative who can understand and solve their problems,as for you, you are lucky enough.
And not all people in desperate need of money are also willing to approach their relatives, some keep their price even if a very desperate times as they do not want to have a debt of gratitude.
and I have saw some people around me that they sometimes come to very desperate need of money but they do not ask from their relatives because they may know that they will not help or there maybe some other reason beside that. But I have noticed that those people who are rich do not care for their poor relatives and definitely because of that the poor do not dare to ask them.
My friend is that sort of person, he first when gets salary really burns it with gambling and eating pizzas and all, and when there are yet 10 days left and money in hand is just around 20$ they get desperate and lol he been giving us so many treats we often help him, but hey he never asks his family, not sure yet why.

It sounds like your friend needs some money management counseling.  As long as his friends keep helping him at the end of the period, they're enabling him to keep being irresponsible.  When it comes down to it, all those treats he's sharing with everybody are actually being paid for by the group because it's coming out of their pocket in the end.
Do not tolerate that kind of behavior of your friend, you do have to teach him a lesson also that not all the time you are there for him. He needs to know how valuable money is and we are not only living today, we still have tomorrow to use our money for our needs to survive.

There's no problem if you get your salary and you keep on eating pizzas and betting in gambling, what just his friend need is proper money management.

Even though I admit that I am that type of person, I don't usually ask my friends to help me out just for my financial needs.

I am burn too much money easily but I am responsible to keep some savings.
The fact that we are unique individual, there are really people who are like that existing on earth, and since you are the friend and you care for your friend, you should not tolerate it and tell him to be more responsible,, what if he has a family already.. Would be more problem for him then??

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October 30, 2016, 10:25:10 AM
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I think I would try to sell goods and services to get the money. One possibility is to sell things that are no longer needed. But the best thing to do is to prevent this, it's always important to have savings for such situations.

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October 31, 2016, 01:32:14 PM
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I think I would try to sell goods and services to get the money. One possibility is to sell things that are no longer needed. But the best thing to do is to prevent this, it's always important to have savings for such situations.
Do all the possible options because you need money under the situation, and your main objective only is to make money and you should do all possible ways just to get into your objective. Even how hard it is but if you are committed in doing it you can.

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October 31, 2016, 02:13:11 PM
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I don't have money right now, so I'm willing to work in social media posting, translation, create a landing page, make a pretty html/css formulary. Anything that I can because I'm really desperate for the money  Undecided
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October 31, 2016, 05:01:23 PM
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If you were in desperate need for money / Bitcoins, what would you do? How to get it, earn it, whatw are your solutions and experiences? I wonder what people are ready to do when money is the problem.
For other people Maybe scamming  is the only way to get bitcoins in times you need bitcoin in fast way. I dont think someone will give you if your begging for it.
It sure seems like their have been a lot of scammers and hackers around this circle.  We're plagued with them.  Would be interesting to see an estimate on how much has been made off with.

I think there are more than million of dollars had been scammed by small time scammers here in the forum.  Not included the big time scamer like the zenminer and other mining company.  Reminds me of Josh boasting of having floor of 20 USD for XPY.  Though i admit i profited from that trades, because of its high volatility that time.

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October 31, 2016, 05:18:23 PM
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I don't have money right now, so I'm willing to work in social media posting, translation, create a landing page, make a pretty html/css formulary. Anything that I can because I'm really desperate for the money  Undecided

Start your services here by opening a thread in Services section and offer your skills if you really have some technical skills that you feel worth getting paid for, if anyone in the community likes your work you will earn quite a good amount in bitcoin completing any project with your skills.
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November 01, 2016, 06:40:08 AM
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True, professional person who is having a descent job can easily get the money if he really needs it especially in times of "money shortage" he can
ask someone to help him out unlike to those who are unemployed maybe there will be a small chance to get and ask for money to someone especially if you are
a stranger it will be hard for you have it in terms of borrowing/ loaning online.
But for me since I am not yet experiencing that so far, I better look for descent job in real world and side-lines online so that I will never come up for desperation
and ask for someone for help and never come up to the point that I have to take some loan to a strangers.
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November 02, 2016, 04:38:03 PM
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I don't have money right now, so I'm willing to work in social media posting, translation, create a landing page, make a pretty html/css formulary. Anything that I can because I'm really desperate for the money  Undecided
The need for money is a lot of crap for the poor man. Although most people there appears to be making for themselves a trap into which he falls. But money is always needed, you can just start to save more carefully, but there are still priorities, ie looking at that need money.
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November 02, 2016, 04:42:36 PM
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when you are in desperate need of money, you have a problem about money, and to solve the problem you need to look for the money and that is a hard task to do. I have been in the situation many times and I thank God because he is guiding me every time I have a money problem, my relatives really help me a lot in times of trouble.
I am happy for you to have a good relative that actually understand and solve your finacial problems in time of need, not everybody that has relative who can understand and solve their problems,as for you, you are lucky enough.
And not all people in desperate need of money are also willing to approach their relatives, some keep their price even if a very desperate times as they do not want to have a debt of gratitude.
and I have saw some people around me that they sometimes come to very desperate need of money but they do not ask from their relatives because they may know that they will not help or there maybe some other reason beside that. But I have noticed that those people who are rich do not care for their poor relatives and definitely because of that the poor do not dare to ask them.
My friend is that sort of person, he first when gets salary really burns it with gambling and eating pizzas and all, and when there are yet 10 days left and money in hand is just around 20$ they get desperate and lol he been giving us so many treats we often help him, but hey he never asks his family, not sure yet why.

It sounds like your friend needs some money management counseling.  As long as his friends keep helping him at the end of the period, they're enabling him to keep being irresponsible.  When it comes down to it, all those treats he's sharing with everybody are actually being paid for by the group because it's coming out of their pocket in the end.
Do not tolerate that kind of behavior of your friend, you do have to teach him a lesson also that not all the time you are there for him. He needs to know how valuable money is and we are not only living today, we still have tomorrow to use our money for our needs to survive.

There's no problem if you get your salary and you keep on eating pizzas and betting in gambling, what just his friend need is proper money management.

Even though I admit that I am that type of person, I don't usually ask my friends to help me out just for my financial needs.

I am burn too much money easily but I am responsible to keep some savings.

That's the problem with the world, people don't think their money is actually their TIME

So you spend hours and hours a week to earn X and waste X in few minutes with bs and well, the bs manufactures apreciate this "logic"

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November 02, 2016, 05:37:42 PM
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In a world of crisis, people are poorer. Humanity is faced with many problems and especially disease. And each person individually can not cope with this or that grief. But if you need to borrow money only on credit or borrow from relatives.
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November 02, 2016, 05:49:14 PM
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In a world of crisis, people are poorer. Humanity is faced with many problems and especially disease. And each person individually can not cope with this or that grief. But if you need to borrow money only on credit or borrow from relatives.

Borrowing money from someone stranger or to some authority would probably increase your burdens in that situation as you are already in tension because of the reason you need money and then if you borrow and you don't be able to pay them back on time then they will create problems for you, so borrowing from close ones is recommended in such situations.
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November 02, 2016, 06:32:42 PM
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In a world of crisis, people are poorer. Humanity is faced with many problems and especially disease. And each person individually can not cope with this or that grief. But if you need to borrow money only on credit or borrow from relatives.

Borrowing money from someone stranger or to some authority would probably increase your burdens in that situation as you are already in tension because of the reason you need money and then if you borrow and you don't be able to pay them back on time then they will create problems for you, so borrowing from close ones is recommended in such situations.
The situations that are different, that's just a lot of money is needed in all situations of serious and almost nowhere to take them. If you want to cure cancer, that person is doomed, and if you buy a house, then it is possible as that to solve or to wait.
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when you are in desperate need of money, you have a problem about money, and to solve the problem you need to look for the money and that is a hard task to do. I have been in the situation many times and I thank God because he is guiding me every time I have a money problem, my relatives really help me a lot in times of trouble.
I am happy for you to have a good relative that actually understand and solve your finacial problems in time of need, not everybody that has relative who can understand and solve their problems,as for you, you are lucky enough.
And not all people in desperate need of money are also willing to approach their relatives, some keep their price even if a very desperate times as they do not want to have a debt of gratitude.
and I have saw some people around me that they sometimes come to very desperate need of money but they do not ask from their relatives because they may know that they will not help or there maybe some other reason beside that. But I have noticed that those people who are rich do not care for their poor relatives and definitely because of that the poor do not dare to ask them.
My friend is that sort of person, he first when gets salary really burns it with gambling and eating pizzas and all, and when there are yet 10 days left and money in hand is just around 20$ they get desperate and lol he been giving us so many treats we often help him, but hey he never asks his family, not sure yet why.

It sounds like your friend needs some money management counseling.  As long as his friends keep helping him at the end of the period, they're enabling him to keep being irresponsible.  When it comes down to it, all those treats he's sharing with everybody are actually being paid for by the group because it's coming out of their pocket in the end.
Correct, sometimes tough love is what is needed, sometimes you need to let a person fall as low as they can so they can realize the truth of how low they are, however one of the problems with that and the reason some people don’t like it, is that some people are unable to see the reality even when confronted with it.
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when you are in desperate need of money, you have a problem about money, and to solve the problem you need to look for the money and that is a hard task to do. I have been in the situation many times and I thank God because he is guiding me every time I have a money problem, my relatives really help me a lot in times of trouble.
I am happy for you to have a good relative that actually understand and solve your finacial problems in time of need, not everybody that has relative who can understand and solve their problems,as for you, you are lucky enough.
And not all people in desperate need of money are also willing to approach their relatives, some keep their price even if a very desperate times as they do not want to have a debt of gratitude.
and I have saw some people around me that they sometimes come to very desperate need of money but they do not ask from their relatives because they may know that they will not help or there maybe some other reason beside that. But I have noticed that those people who are rich do not care for their poor relatives and definitely because of that the poor do not dare to ask them.
My friend is that sort of person, he first when gets salary really burns it with gambling and eating pizzas and all, and when there are yet 10 days left and money in hand is just around 20$ they get desperate and lol he been giving us so many treats we often help him, but hey he never asks his family, not sure yet why.

It sounds like your friend needs some money management counseling.  As long as his friends keep helping him at the end of the period, they're enabling him to keep being irresponsible.  When it comes down to it, all those treats he's sharing with everybody are actually being paid for by the group because it's coming out of their pocket in the end.
Correct, sometimes tough love is what is needed, sometimes you need to let a person fall as low as they can so they can realize the truth of how low they are, however one of the problems with that and the reason some people don’t like it, is that some people are unable to see the reality even when confronted with it.
Well you have a point if you let them experience the hard and let them realize it they can change there beliefs so they can make their own good decision and instead of being irresponsible he will find a way to change it.. with his own..

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My friend is that sort of person, he first when gets salary really burns it with gambling and eating pizzas and all, and when there are yet 10 days left and money in hand is just around 20$ they get desperate and lol he been giving us so many treats we often help him, but hey he never asks his family, not sure yet why.

It sounds like your friend needs some money management counseling.  As long as his friends keep helping him at the end of the period, they're enabling him to keep being irresponsible.  When it comes down to it, all those treats he's sharing with everybody are actually being paid for by the group because it's coming out of their pocket in the end.
Correct, sometimes tough love is what is needed, sometimes you need to let a person fall as low as they can so they can realize the truth of how low they are, however one of the problems with that and the reason some people don’t like it, is that some people are unable to see the reality even when confronted with it.
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