Will you stop gamble if your girl friend insists ?

[Cryptomultiplier]

I had a similar discussion some days back with my colleague. He was insisting that as guys we should be more tolerant of the ladies. Great point I replied, it's a woman's world, but giving them or their say too much credence makes a man look stupid in some way. For her to have a problem with you gambling and try to stop you from gambling activities, simply means you as a guy stopped giving her the attention she demands. Or it could mean also that you are simply no good at it because of the losses you made which she has witnessed.
To gamble under discretion, or to gamble when she or you are not in the same place is always a great idea unless you are indeed terrible at it, therefore it is wise to learn to get better or stop. Respect her feelings by being discreet about what she detests.

[inthelongrun]

At present, I say I am struggling with my finances. But I still continue gambling, although with certain limitations. Gambling is part of my life and I understand how it works. Now if my girlfriend would asks me to stop gambling, I prefer to convince her first that it is not affecting my daily life and I'm doing it minimally. I might listen and comply if her reasoning to stop gambling is logical but if it's based on certain beliefs then most likely I will not stop gambling.   

[dataispower]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

Some people who are the real gambler's who are gambling addictive do not listen to anybody because they know quite well that gambling is the major source of boosting finance so they are I cannot see the reason why a girlfriend can make a gambler to quit from gambling. On my own I understand that gambling is a choice hooch is easily to be revised if the gambler happened to see that there is no good outcome or positive something that is coming out for each daily and weekly gambling gambler can withdraw by seeking the advice of her girlfriend. And secondarily the only gambler who can obtain the advice of the girlfriends by withdrawing from gambling is a gambler that starts it during the togetherness of it's girlfriend

[fzkto]

I would certainly listen to a girlfriend if she started telling me that I have a problem with gambling. Because only people close to you can really care about you. Still, I wouldn't completely eliminate gambling from my life because it could lead to my girlfriend starting to manipulate me for other reasons. You have to be able to agree with other people's opinions, but always have your own point of view on things.

[dataispower]

I would certainly listen to a girlfriend if she started telling me that I have a problem with gambling. Because only people close to you can really care about you. Still, I wouldn't completely eliminate gambling from my life because it could lead to my girlfriend starting to manipulate me for other reasons. You have to be able to agree with other people's opinions, but always have your own point of view on things.

Some girls in their own way of understanding might gambling as what is not cultured from their own way of view. Not knowing from another way round that gambling can be helping hands to quit from poverty except it is a girl that I have a job for me to join if I am jobless before I can totally get out of gambling. My people said that woman foresee the future of a man. But in gambling two things are involved because it's neither you land for the wining or losing and it's a game of no assurance.

[qwertyup23]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

This depends if the actual intention of my girlfriend is for the greater and common good.

Normally, people follow their girlfriends due to the lack of control over the relationship- men sometimes blindly follow their girlfriends without even asking the reason why. Though this may be the case, if the intention of your girlfriend is for the well-being of your future, then you must consider her side and reason. But, if your girlfriend wants you to stop gambling due to "personal reasons" that she will not even disclose, then it is up to your discretion if you want to follow her or not.

[hahay]

Believe it or not, in this era when their boyfriends have become players or gambling addicts, their girlfriends can become players too in the end. Therefore, cases like yours will not always happen to other people as well so we cannot conclude that a boyfriend will be able to change your lifestyle as a gambler. Also, it depends on their personality because to change someone is not going to be easy, but if there is something he finds in someone he loves then it is possible that they will change because of a love so great that they are willing to stop gambling.

[JoyMarsha]

It's never gonna be an easy task, stop gambling because your girlfriend told you to. I have severally seen a situation whereby a guy promised his girlfriend that he was going to stop gambling immediately but end up gambling the next day. What those that have promised their girlfriend that they will stop gambling end up playing it at their back without their girlfriend knowing.
Gambling addiction is very hard to stop by mere words without being monitored

[darkangel11]

I would, if I knew she's not just throwing these requests around like stop gambling, stop smoking, stop playing computer games, stop going out with your friends. If she asked very little of me and the only thing that bothered her was gambling, I'd give her that. I'm not addicted and I'd be able to live without it. It's not an important part of my life. Being in a relationship and having a family is much more important.

[fzkto]

I would certainly listen to a girlfriend if she started telling me that I have a problem with gambling. Because only people close to you can really care about you. Still, I wouldn't completely eliminate gambling from my life because it could lead to my girlfriend starting to manipulate me for other reasons. You have to be able to agree with other people's opinions, but always have your own point of view on things.

Some girls in their own way of understanding might gambling as what is not cultured from their own way of view. Not knowing from another way round that gambling can be helping hands to quit from poverty except it is a girl that I have a job for me to join if I am jobless before I can totally get out of gambling. My people said that woman foresee the future of a man. But in gambling two things are involved because it's neither you land for the wining or losing and it's a game of no assurance.

It seems to me that a woman cannot foresee anything. Especially a man's future, because everyone creates his own future. Your wife, mother or girlfriend can tell you things that others may not know. If you start having problems, you can't hide them from the people closest to you. Another question is whether you will listen to their advice.

[Gozie51]

I'd give her that. I'm not addicted and I'd be able to live without it. It's not an important part of my life. Being in a relationship and having a family is much more important.

Someone not addicted like you won't find it difficult to do that but an addict won't have to succumb to her pressure like that. If the addict love and cherish the girl, he can agree to stop it in public but will go back in private to keep gambling and take out all the traces of being caught by the girlfriend. This is typical of any bad habit. A chronic addict don't stop that kind of behaviour just because of the treat of a woman. What can stop such behaviour is severe health challenges that won't allow the addict freely doing that.

[BitcoinAccepted]

I think the situation must have gotten very out of hand. If you gamble everything and have no money left, there is a chance that your girlfriend / wife wants to talk to you about it. But if you gamble every now and then and it doesn't cost much, then it becomes a different story. If you gamble a lot (eg poker) and you play profitably, then it becomes a different story and I think your girlfriend would like you to keep gambling so that Mrs. can keep shopping. However, enough relationships have broken down because men have wasted the entire wealth.

[darkangel11]

I'd give her that. I'm not addicted and I'd be able to live without it. It's not an important part of my life. Being in a relationship and having a family is much more important.

Someone not addicted like you won't find it difficult to do that but an addict won't have to succumb to her pressure like that. If the addict love and cherish the girl, he can agree to stop it in public but will go back in private to keep gambling and take out all the traces of being caught by the girlfriend. This is typical of any bad habit. A chronic addict don't stop that kind of behaviour just because of the treat of a woman. What can stop such behaviour is severe health challenges that won't allow the addict freely doing that.

What the eye doesn't see, the heart doesn't grieve over

If he keeps it down to a minimum and only gambles when he's alone and out of home, it's still better than doing it completely free and all the time, like an addict would.
Possibly they can work it out and at first he limits it to a day every week, then a day every month... With a little effort any change in behavior and habits is possible.

[Zilon]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

Sometimes it is best to listed to her. Although it depends on her reasons. If she can give me a reason to stop or she notices i am becoming gradually addicted i will gladly follow her advice. One thing i came to understand about a girl that loves you is that what ever affects you affects her so she tries hard not to see you in danger so you both don't get hurt at the same time.

Some times our families might not know more about us when we turn adults the closest to predicting our actions are our wives or girlfriend the reason listening to them is needed most times

[Ludmilla_rose1995]

At present, I say I am struggling with my finances. But I still continue gambling, although with certain limitations. Gambling is part of my life and I understand how it works. Now if my girlfriend would asks me to stop gambling, I prefer to convince her first that it is not affecting my daily life and I'm doing it minimally. I might listen and comply if her reasoning to stop gambling is logical but if it's based on certain beliefs then most likely I will not stop gambling.   

this is something that all men should do because our girlfriend shouldn't tell us to stop doing things that don't hurt her at all. I'm sure only 20% of men (especially gambling lovers) will quit when their girlfriend tells them to do that.

[coolcoinz]

Sure, I will and I would. I don't have a girlfriend anymore, but a wife and I try to do right by her. If She wanted me to quit something, she would've explained the reasons behind it. It wouldn't be an empty request, just as we don't make empty promises to each other.
Ultimately, you have to decide what's best for you and what's more important. It's like that every day when you have to make a decision. Do I keep drinking and spend the night at a friend's house, or do I stop, get sober for the rest of the evening, so I can drive home and help take care of my daughter. There comes a time when you have to man up and choose not only what's best for you, but for others.

[serjent05]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

Depends, if his motive is sincere and wanted me to quit for a good cause then I will listen to her, if not and just wanted to boss me around, then I can just ignore her.  She isn't my wife yet to have authority in my life.

At present, I say I am struggling with my finances. But I still continue gambling, although with certain limitations. Gambling is part of my life and I understand how it works. Now if my girlfriend would asks me to stop gambling, I prefer to convince her first that it is not affecting my daily life and I'm doing it minimally. I might listen and comply if her reasoning to stop gambling is logical but if it's based on certain beliefs then most likely I will not stop gambling.   

I think it is logical for your girlfriend to ask you to stop gambling because you are currently struggling with finances and yet find time and budget to spend on gambling activity.  It would be a waste of resources if you lose in your gambling session but of course, would be a blessing if you win.  But gambling result is uncertain and women don't like uncertainties.

[Lordhermes]

I think this gambling is a bad habbit,and most people want to stop but they are finding it difficult to stop it,bit when you have someone that is monitoring you that insists you stop it,it is more possible than when you decide it yourself,a d it is even more possible when someone that you love says you should stop it.Women have a lot good things they add to us when they love us.They tend to be our watchdog to check when we are going astray.But before one will be able to submit and be ready to stop gambling,it must have come from the person's mind too that he wants to stop gambling.It is good to have a woman who checks on us when we are going the wrong direction.

[Davidvictorson]

What do you mean by "insists you to stop gambling"? Like demand - in a domineering way? Well, I have never had any girl do this and most probably will not. I think this only happens either when the guy loses control over his gambling habits or the girl just wants him to give her more attention. The best way to make a person see reasons to quit gambling especially when they are addicted to it, is to explain how much their life would be better without it.

[fullhdpixel]

Maybe I would stop gambling if my boyfriend asked me to stop, especially if he didn't want to see me in trouble. Sometimes, we need to see how seriously he can help us quit and only someone who loves us will ask us to stop our bad habits because he cares about us. It takes an open mind to see if he wants to see us not gambling again and someone who cares will do anything to convince us that he loves us because he knows gambling can make us lose everything.

Boys are known to be more masculine than girls and they are the ones that is usually obeyed in a couple or a relationship. Another thing that supports it is that boys are financing their girls with money and they gave them other valuable items, so boy's have the rights to scold their girls if they are doing something wrong. You mentioned something about bad habits.

I guess your gambling habits aren't normal anymore like you are burning more money in the game? Now I know why your partner is concern with you. To me, I still let my partner play gambling because she still has a control of herself.