What is your state on mind if your son stole your money to gamble?

[Cryptomultiplier]

Any good parent would have been angry, but they would also be concerned. The parent should worry about the childs state of mind, when he had to steal from his parents and questions should be answered... on why he did that.

They should determine if the child are addicted to gambling and if he is, then their main concern must be to get help for their son, not on how they will get the money back.  

Usually, when parents detect such behaviors in their early stage, they can easily cure and prevent such kind of addiction from happening where they end up stealing their parent's money just to fund their bad habits. Prevention is better than cure and when they always monitor their children's activities, it would not end up this way because they can prevent it. But when they loosely let them do whatever they want, then the problem will occur in the future which will be hard for them to stop especially when their kids are already teens.

Stealing isn't good enough for many teens that's why they indulge and see it as a means to an end mostly when the reason for stealing is so as to make more money.
For teens who grew up with their parents not being aware of thier initial stealing nature, it becomes hard for the parents to stop them from doing so when they are much older and have access to their parents wealth stash.

Parents should endeavor to keep monies st safe distance to limit their children from stealing from them and also try as much to pay attention to their warfare and circle of friends, mostly in whatever activities they get involved in.

In the case of stealing to gamble, it becomes important to let these children stay on their own so as to assume some form of responsibility that would in the end cause them to think how to make money genuinely rather than gamble away the little they have because of greed of the hope of getting rich quickly.

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[Fredomago]

If I were the child's mother, of course I would be very angry because he dared to act unexpectedly and was very reckless in stealing and gambling, even if he won a lot of money, I would still discipline the child.

The common reaction after realizing what your child did, I go to that fact that being a parent and having that guilt that you held responsible to whatever your kids are doing, they might start to steal from you and to whoever reside inside your house but  after that what's next the child can do? No matter what might be the outcome, there should be good disciplinary action to take.

Then, after you should start watching your child and start guiding them if you feel that what you are doing is ain't enough to straight their path, it's your obligation to adjust and to try all the possible ways to enlighten them to quit away from gambling, there's no good implication as they think that it's a good venue to quickly earn decent money.

[ethereumhunter]

If I were the child's mother, of course I would be very angry because he dared to act unexpectedly and was very reckless in stealing and gambling, even if he won a lot of money, I would still discipline the child.

The common reaction after realizing what your child did, I go to that fact that being a parent and having that guilt that you held responsible to whatever your kids are doing, they might start to steal from you and to whoever reside inside your house but  after that what's next the child can do? No matter what might be the outcome, there should be good disciplinary action to take.

Then, after you should start watching your child and start guiding them if you feel that what you are doing is ain't enough to straight their path, it's your obligation to adjust and to try all the possible ways to enlighten them to quit away from gambling, there's no good implication as they think that it's a good venue to quickly earn decent money.

It is our child who has stolen our money so we must be able to educate him better. We need to use a different approach to make him aware and show about what he did wrong thing and he won't do it again. He can ask for money from us as his parents so he doesn't have to steal money because if they do it until they are adults, they can be caught by the police and jailed. That will make difficult for them because when they are imprisoned, they will face a harsh reality that they have never seen and never imagined before. We need to straighten them so that they don't take the wrong path again and they can realize that stealing is a mistake and a bad act. Disciplining our children who have stolen is necessary to have a deterrent effect on them so they don't repeat the action again.

[Hirose UK]

If I were the child's mother, of course I would be very angry because he dared to act unexpectedly and was very reckless in stealing and gambling, even if he won a lot of money, I would still discipline the child.

It is necessary to figure out why the child stole the money, and this is very important, because there may be two reasons:
1) the child does not have enough money to be on the same level as his peers, and he just does not want to be an outsider.
2) the child is a bully and he is attracted to such actions. In this case, you need to understand more specifically and correct the moral principles of the child.

I believe that theft often occurs for the first reason.

Differences in levels in group of children will indeed have various influences on psychology and of course child who has the lowest level will try to have similarities with his friends because there is desire to get the same attention too.
There is lot of different treatment in group of children, if there is one who is at lower level, he or she will receive less good treatment and will be more likely to be pushed aside and ostracized.
Things like this are actually very unfortunate because they have caused various bad impacts that affect child psychology, but after all, we as parents can't do much other than fulfill what they need.

But in context like this it is not about levels to be equal but it has become part of gambling, he steals money to gamble and clearly this has much worse impact so it really has to be handled well.
If there is no good and firm attitude then it is possible that similar things could happen in the future, if they only steal money from us and their parents then we can still accept it, but if this becomes theft activity in another place or another person then the problem could be different.
There will be laws that regulate it and there are even bad sentiments among society and theft is one of the things that is really considered bad.

[Dewi Aries]

The common reaction after realizing what your child did, I go to that fact that being a parent and having that guilt that you held responsible to whatever your kids are doing, they might start to steal from you and to whoever reside inside your house but  after that what's next the child can do? No matter what might be the outcome, there should be good disciplinary action to take.

Then, after you should start watching your child and start guiding them if you feel that what you are doing is ain't enough to straight their path, it's your obligation to adjust and to try all the possible ways to enlighten them to quit away from gambling, there's no good implication as they think that it's a good venue to quickly earn decent money.

It is our child who has stolen our money so we must be able to educate him better. We need to use a different approach to make him aware and show about what he did wrong thing and he won't do it again. He can ask for money from us as his parents so he doesn't have to steal money because if they do it until they are adults, they can be caught by the police and jailed. That will make difficult for them because when they are imprisoned, they will face a harsh reality that they have never seen and never imagined before. We need to straighten them so that they don't take the wrong path again and they can realize that stealing is a mistake and a bad act. Disciplining our children who have stolen is necessary to have a deterrent effect on them so they don't repeat the action again.

True, because no matter how bad a child's personality is, it is still entirely our responsibility as parents and only we can change and direct it in a better direction, however you or we must be able to change it in any way that seems reasonable and influential enough, but if in the end they still do the same action in the sense of stealing, it means that there is a mistake that you did in terms of educating them. But on the other hand I think we should be able to educate and change them because usually parents have enough formulas to overcome some personality problems that a child has. On the other hand, the fear and the thing to worry about is when they are adults, because obviously if it is not changed immediately from now on then most likely they will be bolder to do crazier and worse actions when they grow up and their actions will not only harm them but also their closest family.

[Belarge]

If I were the child's mother, of course I would be very angry because he dared to act unexpectedly and was very reckless in stealing and gambling, even if he won a lot of money, I would still discipline the child.

We exists for what exactly? and what's the meaning of our lives if we can't provide for our loved ones and our basic needs? We just keep striving daily because there's no such thing consider as luck, rather we should be able to thank GOD for his mercy and grace upon our lives. A child under our control can easily get spoilt, due to the open world he can found himself, he's still a child and quickly learn every solid things he encounter. Discipline a child that fetch you millions? I will only caution him but I'll not raise a rod because everyone make mistakes in the system.

[Quidat]

If I were the child's mother, of course I would be very angry because he dared to act unexpectedly and was very reckless in stealing and gambling, even if he won a lot of money, I would still discipline the child.

We exists for what exactly? and what's the meaning of our lives if we can't provide for our loved ones and our basic needs? We just keep striving daily because there's no such thing consider as luck, rather we should be able to thank GOD for his mercy and grace upon our lives. A child under our control can easily get spoilt, due to the open world he can found himself, he's still a child and quickly learn every solid things he encounter. Discipline a child that fetch you millions? I will only caution him but I'll not raise a rod because everyone make mistakes in the system.

You cant really be able to tell that they wont really be raising a rod into their own child. We do know that each parent would really be that different when it comes to disciplining their kids on which there are ones who are really that too lenient but there are ones who are really that too strict on which on the senses that they would really be having that kind of actions which it is really that
pertaining about being slap out with something to make them learn about the things that they have done was totally wrong. Yes, its not always the solution but there's nothing we can do
if there would really be parents such as this on having this type of disciplining their kids. Its their own way and there's nothing we can do about it.

[ethereumhunter]

True, because no matter how bad a child's personality is, it is still entirely our responsibility as parents and only we can change and direct it in a better direction, however you or we must be able to change it in any way that seems reasonable and influential enough, but if in the end they still do the same action in the sense of stealing, it means that there is a mistake that you did in terms of educating them. But on the other hand I think we should be able to educate and change them because usually parents have enough formulas to overcome some personality problems that a child has. On the other hand, the fear and the thing to worry about is when they are adults, because obviously if it is not changed immediately from now on then most likely they will be bolder to do crazier and worse actions when they grow up and their actions will not only harm them but also their closest family.

Parents duties and responsibilities is not easy in educating their children because parents responsible to their children when their children grow up. Parents should follow their children and find a way to besides them and bring their children to the right way. We can tell them about the right and wrong thing and if they make mistakes, we can give a little punishment to them as a reminder. We don't have to be strict to them as that can make their children rebel and don't like what their parents say. With always remind them about the things they do and treat them as a friend, our children will not trying to do something that can harm themselves and will not do anything bad. While the children are still not mature, parents can teach and give good education to them so they will always remember what their parents suggest. If we can responsible to our child, we will see they grow up without doing something bad or harm themselves.

[Kelvinid]

True, because no matter how bad a child's personality is, it is still entirely our responsibility as parents and only we can change and direct it in a better direction, however you or we must be able to change it in any way that seems reasonable and influential enough, but if in the end they still do the same action in the sense of stealing, it means that there is a mistake that you did in terms of educating them. But on the other hand I think we should be able to educate and change them because usually parents have enough formulas to overcome some personality problems that a child has. On the other hand, the fear and the thing to worry about is when they are adults, because obviously if it is not changed immediately from now on then most likely they will be bolder to do crazier and worse actions when they grow up and their actions will not only harm them but also their closest family.

Parents duties and responsibilities is not easy in educating their children because parents responsible to their children when their children grow up. Parents should follow their children and find a way to besides them and bring their children to the right way. We can tell them about the right and wrong thing and if they make mistakes, we can give a little punishment to them as a reminder. We don't have to be strict to them as that can make their children rebel and don't like what their parents say. With always remind them about the things they do and treat them as a friend, our children will not trying to do something that can harm themselves and will not do anything bad. While the children are still not mature, parents can teach and give good education to them so they will always remember what their parents suggest. If we can responsible to our child, we will see they grow up without doing something bad or harm themselves.

Perhaps, there is no hard in educating our kids if we care about their future. Indeed, it is the responsibility of the parents and it is their duty for their kids not to fall into gambling addiction. If they let this happen and reconsider them because they are just a kid and do not yet know that was wrong, it is the same as teaching them to commit more mistakes. And that is not an act of being responsible parents nor an act of teaching them to be a good parent in the future. It should not be tolerated or else, it will put into their mind that it is okay to do it again.

[slapper]

True, because no matter how bad a child's personality is, it is still entirely our responsibility as parents and only we can change and direct it in a better direction, however you or we must be able to change it in any way that seems reasonable and influential enough, but if in the end they still do the same action in the sense of stealing, it means that there is a mistake that you did in terms of educating them. But on the other hand I think we should be able to educate and change them because usually parents have enough formulas to overcome some personality problems that a child has. On the other hand, the fear and the thing to worry about is when they are adults, because obviously if it is not changed immediately from now on then most likely they will be bolder to do crazier and worse actions when they grow up and their actions will not only harm them but also their closest family.

Parents duties and responsibilities is not easy in educating their children because parents responsible to their children when their children grow up. Parents should follow their children and find a way to besides them and bring their children to the right way. We can tell them about the right and wrong thing and if they make mistakes, we can give a little punishment to them as a reminder. We don't have to be strict to them as that can make their children rebel and don't like what their parents say. With always remind them about the things they do and treat them as a friend, our children will not trying to do something that can harm themselves and will not do anything bad. While the children are still not mature, parents can teach and give good education to them so they will always remember what their parents suggest. If we can responsible to our child, we will see they grow up without doing something bad or harm themselves.

Though polite, your approach lacks human complexity. Just words of right and wrong won't shape kids. Individuals want boundaries and independence. Communication is important, but so is knowing that each child sees the world differently. Teaching accountability relies on discipline, not punishment. Large differences exist between the two. Punishment responds; discipline teaches. Are we to support them? Absolutely. Also, we must prepare kids for the fact that the world won't always be kind. They need resilience, not reminders

And parent-child friendship? A wonderful ambition, but friendship and parenthood aren't always compatible. Our responsibility is direction, safety, and sometimes being the figure they despise, only to realize our lessons as they grow

[Taskford]

True, because no matter how bad a child's personality is, it is still entirely our responsibility as parents and only we can change and direct it in a better direction, however you or we must be able to change it in any way that seems reasonable and influential enough, but if in the end they still do the same action in the sense of stealing, it means that there is a mistake that you did in terms of educating them. But on the other hand I think we should be able to educate and change them because usually parents have enough formulas to overcome some personality problems that a child has. On the other hand, the fear and the thing to worry about is when they are adults, because obviously if it is not changed immediately from now on then most likely they will be bolder to do crazier and worse actions when they grow up and their actions will not only harm them but also their closest family.

Parents duties and responsibilities is not easy in educating their children because parents responsible to their children when their children grow up. Parents should follow their children and find a way to besides them and bring their children to the right way. We can tell them about the right and wrong thing and if they make mistakes, we can give a little punishment to them as a reminder. We don't have to be strict to them as that can make their children rebel and don't like what their parents say. With always remind them about the things they do and treat them as a friend, our children will not trying to do something that can harm themselves and will not do anything bad. While the children are still not mature, parents can teach and give good education to them so they will always remember what their parents suggest. If we can responsible to our child, we will see they grow up without doing something bad or harm themselves.

Perhaps, there is no hard in educating our kids if we care about their future. Indeed, it is the responsibility of the parents and it is their duty for their kids not to fall into gambling addiction. If they let this happen and reconsider them because they are just a kid and do not yet know that was wrong, it is the same as teaching them to commit more mistakes. And that is not an act of being responsible parents nor an act of teaching them to be a good parent in the future. It should not be tolerated or else, it will put into their mind that it is okay to do it again.

Its our responsibility to make them understand that what they have done is not good to them since they already commit crime for stealing money from someone or to us. And this attitude should be corrected since they might go to more worse situation if they can't correct their bad action they've done.

I know this is hard for both parties but parents need to take charge on this situation so that they can guide well their parents into good future also they can decide what is bad and right for them.

This should not tolerated its because if they let their children do this then there's a huge chance that in future they regret their decisions not to stop their children on their past bad activities done.

[LUCKMCFLY]

True, because no matter how bad a child's personality is, it is still entirely our responsibility as parents and only we can change and direct it in a better direction, however you or we must be able to change it in any way that seems reasonable and influential enough, but if in the end they still do the same action in the sense of stealing, it means that there is a mistake that you did in terms of educating them. But on the other hand I think we should be able to educate and change them because usually parents have enough formulas to overcome some personality problems that a child has. On the other hand, the fear and the thing to worry about is when they are adults, because obviously if it is not changed immediately from now on then most likely they will be bolder to do crazier and worse actions when they grow up and their actions will not only harm them but also their closest family.

Parents duties and responsibilities is not easy in educating their children because parents responsible to their children when their children grow up. Parents should follow their children and find a way to besides them and bring their children to the right way. We can tell them about the right and wrong thing and if they make mistakes, we can give a little punishment to them as a reminder. We don't have to be strict to them as that can make their children rebel and don't like what their parents say. With always remind them about the things they do and treat them as a friend, our children will not trying to do something that can harm themselves and will not do anything bad. While the children are still not mature, parents can teach and give good education to them so they will always remember what their parents suggest. If we can responsible to our child, we will see they grow up without doing something bad or harm themselves.

Though polite, your approach lacks human complexity. Just words of right and wrong won't shape kids. Individuals want boundaries and independence. Communication is important, but so is knowing that each child sees the world differently. Teaching accountability relies on discipline, not punishment. Large differences exist between the two. Punishment responds; discipline teaches. Are we to support them? Absolutely. Also, we must prepare kids for the fact that the world won't always be kind. They need resilience, not reminders

And parent-child friendship? A wonderful ambition, but friendship and parenthood aren't always compatible. Our responsibility is direction, safety, and sometimes being the figure they despise, only to realize our lessons as they grow

There can be a lot of responsibility among parents who sometimes raise their children with many freedoms, it is something that we should not have so much supremacy, because freedom is sometimes confused with debauchery, in this order of ideas, we as for When it comes to the education and training of a child, there is no guide , there are Many factors that affect their personality, the personality of the parents, depending on the father and mother, the child is their reflection, and that is something we all see. but to be honest Things can vary, if a child in full formation does not correct himself with these types of acts, that is Something that will anchor him and carry him to do it when he grows up, then we can be Very good parents but there are Children They have to reprimand them , not just to reach out and hit them but to talk to them, to punish them , because that is Necessary, so they learn that there are certain limits in life.

Obviously the mother of that son must feel bad , for that son to have made that Decision , what happened? What was it that mother lacked to do things better with that son? Only she knows, but since he is a minor, well, if he has to Repeat it, as long as he does not become aware that this is not done, that this is something that cannot be done, he will continue to do it and it will continue to bring headaches for him. that mother, then you have to give her a good punishment, what I would do is put her to work until she pays me the money she stole from me With that, she learns that the money you get is through work, and all work is hard and that money What you earn is by the Sweat of your brow, that's just what I would do, and with that you are given a choice in life.

[Shamm]

My friends aunty called him on the call while we were conversing today, and  she was complaining about how her son has withdrawn #20,000 approximately $15 from her account through mobile transfer to play bet and he lost it all.
She complained bitterly and pitifully because she struggled to safe such amount of money.

Now, the mum is calling on everyone she could to intervene, discipline the child and force him to provide the money in any means he can without the concern of how he could refund the money.

Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

Actually gambling is good cause it will become a stress relief but if it gonna make sense once a person stole Money from their family to gamble. Like what other said it's gonna still okay if our son involve in gambling if they didn't make bad things to fullfil their wants. Cause if that happen that they stole money from their parents then that's not a good thing. They are addicted and for sure it will become worst once it will not resolve. Cause not just only stole they so but in the future selling some of their properties.

[Dewi Aries]

True, because no matter how bad a child's personality is, it is still entirely our responsibility as parents and only we can change and direct it in a better direction, however you or we must be able to change it in any way that seems reasonable and influential enough, but if in the end they still do the same action in the sense of stealing, it means that there is a mistake that you did in terms of educating them. But on the other hand I think we should be able to educate and change them because usually parents have enough formulas to overcome some personality problems that a child has. On the other hand, the fear and the thing to worry about is when they are adults, because obviously if it is not changed immediately from now on then most likely they will be bolder to do crazier and worse actions when they grow up and their actions will not only harm them but also their closest family.

Parents duties and responsibilities is not easy in educating their children because parents responsible to their children when their children grow up. Parents should follow their children and find a way to besides them and bring their children to the right way. We can tell them about the right and wrong thing and if they make mistakes, we can give a little punishment to them as a reminder. We don't have to be strict to them as that can make their children rebel and don't like what their parents say. With always remind them about the things they do and treat them as a friend, our children will not trying to do something that can harm themselves and will not do anything bad. While the children are still not mature, parents can teach and give good education to them so they will always remember what their parents suggest. If we can responsible to our child, we will see they grow up without doing something bad or harm themselves.

As difficult as it is in terms of educating children, it is still the obligation and full responsibility of both parents regardless of the situation and no matter how bad your child's personality is, basically there are children who are easy to advise and there are children who are stubborn and cannot be directed, I understand this matter but for this problem I think parents are fully familiar with the personality of their children and I am sure that parents will definitely have the right formula to overcome problems like this with the aim of changing and directing them in a better direction.

If indeed they can still be advised slowly then maybe it's not too difficult but there are also children who are very hard to and that means you need firmness in terms of advising them and also like you said that there must be actions taken by parents at least to bully them and maybe with some other punishments that can make them deterrent and promise to change. I understand that a stubborn and sensitive child may rebel but isn't this an effective way to do it if basically the advice slowly and gently still cannot traumatize them? Sure, but on the other hand I don't think it will be that difficult and complicated to direct a child who is still underage because they are still living with their parents or meaning that they are still dependent on their parents so there are many situations together that have the potential to facilitate and accelerate the process of changing a child.

[carlfebz2]

My friends aunty called him on the call while we were conversing today, and  she was complaining about how her son has withdrawn #20,000 approximately $15 from her account through mobile transfer to play bet and he lost it all.
She complained bitterly and pitifully because she struggled to safe such amount of money.

Now, the mum is calling on everyone she could to intervene, discipline the child and force him to provide the money in any means he can without the concern of how he could refund the money.

Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

Actually gambling is good cause it will become a stress relief but if it gonna make sense once a person stole Money from their family to gamble. Like what other said it's gonna still okay if our son involve in gambling if they didn't make bad things to fullfil their wants. Cause if that happen that they stole money from their parents then that's not a good thing. They are addicted and for sure it will become worst once it will not resolve. Cause not just only stole they so but in the future selling some of their properties.

When stealing is already that starting because of such gambling addiction then this is where things turns out to be shit and if it happens that your kid/children did make out such mistake then you would definitely be
scolding them for real on which it would really be just that a normal since its never been good on stealing out no matter what reason you do have whether due to gambling addiction or whatever it would be.
If you are a parent then it would be normal that you would really be having those kind of emotions or feelings of getting angry.Who would be the one wont really be on having such thing?
You would be needing to correct into those wrong things that had been done which it would be a normal act for a parent like us. We do know on whats good and whats bad, so are they.

[junder]

Any good parent would have been angry, but they would also be concerned. The parent should worry about the childs state of mind, when he had to steal from his parents and questions should be answered... on why he did that.

They should determine if the child are addicted to gambling and if he is, then their main concern must be to get help for their son, not on how they will get the money back.  

Usually, when parents detect such behaviors in their early stage, they can easily cure and prevent such kind of addiction from happening where they end up stealing their parent's money just to fund their bad habits. Prevention is better than cure and when they always monitor their children's activities, it would not end up this way because they can prevent it. But when they loosely let them do whatever they want, then the problem will occur in the future which will be hard for them to stop especially when their kids are already teens.

Stealing isn't good enough for many teens that's why they indulge and see it as a means to an end mostly when the reason for stealing is so as to make more money.
For teens who grew up with their parents not being aware of thier initial stealing nature, it becomes hard for the parents to stop them from doing so when they are much older and have access to their parents wealth stash.

Parents should endeavor to keep monies st safe distance to limit their children from stealing from them and also try as much to pay attention to their warfare and circle of friends, mostly in whatever activities they get involved in.

In the case of stealing to gamble, it becomes important to let these children stay on their own so as to assume some form of responsibility that would in the end cause them to think how to make money genuinely rather than gamble away the little they have because of greed of the hope of getting rich quickly.

Even though stealing for the reason of making money is still not a good action. but if they have the courage to do this it is very likely that they are already addicted to the point of daring to do something like this, and what I'm afraid of is that if they are not caught stealing their parents' money they will continue like this if the gambling they do only ends in loss and that is certain. gambling will most likely only end in defeat, therefore there is a chance that they will continue to carry out these bad actions, and what is worse is that perhaps they will become more daring, to steal other people's money or goods that could possibly be sold to make money.

Parental attention and supervision must still be carried out even though their children are adults, because in my opinion when they are adults it doesn't mean they are free from parental supervision. Even though they are adults and have the right to choose their path in life, of course parents do not want their children to have the wrong life, therefore parental attention and supervision must still be carried out even though their children are adults.
It's true what you said, they should be able to feel the difficulty of making money in the world. Moreover, when you are an adult, you should have your own job and income.

[OgNasty]

Stealing to gamble has got to be one of the worst things you'd want to see from your kid.  It shows that they have a lot to learn.  I could see how as a parent you would be extremely angry and want to punish the kid, but you really need to see this as a teachable moment.  Maybe he doesn't realize the penalties for stealing and that it could ruin his chances of completing his goals in the future.  Maybe he doesn't realize that gambling is for entertainment and you're spending money to gamble, not to get more back.  I'd have that kid sitting in a room learning statistics until he came to the realization of how stupid what he did was.

[Weawant]

We exists for what exactly? and what's the meaning of our lives if we can't provide for our loved ones and our basic needs? We just keep striving daily because there's no such thing consider as luck, rather we should be able to thank GOD for his mercy and grace upon our lives. A child under our control can easily get spoilt, due to the open world he can found himself, he's still a child and quickly learn every solid things he encounter. Discipline a child that fetch you millions? I will only caution him but I'll not raise a rod because everyone make mistakes in the system.

I don't want to think that you are sounding too religious but some how it's appearing as such to me but then I'm going to look beyond that to say that luck is actually real and we could get lucky some days just like they will say grace is unmerited favour so does luck too come sometimes you can tell you actually didn't deserve but you got lucky so luck it's actually real and does affect how we we are affected by things.

Sometimes children can be really mysterious with their ways because you may be thinking they are actually under your watch and control well enough but then it will be actually really sad to later get to know that even under your watch they would still have their ways around things and before you could realize it, that which you were avoiding will still happen and you can do almost nothing about it because it's done already, but then our reactions to such things when they happen matters a lot because it will be a determinant to if such will happen again and what could possibly be done, there are certificate reactions we would give to such and we can be sure it wouldn't happen again and there's another that we give and the child will device more Smart ways of getting away with that which they want to do.

[ethereumhunter]

Perhaps, there is no hard in educating our kids if we care about their future. Indeed, it is the responsibility of the parents and it is their duty for their kids not to fall into gambling addiction. If they let this happen and reconsider them because they are just a kid and do not yet know that was wrong, it is the same as teaching them to commit more mistakes. And that is not an act of being responsible parents nor an act of teaching them to be a good parent in the future. It should not be tolerated or else, it will put into their mind that it is okay to do it again.

There should be no difficulty in educating their children but we know that the era is changed and many things also changed which make parents needs to adjust their way to educate their kids. The responsibiliti of the parents become hard especially if their kids familiar using internet which many parents now is hard to adapt to more advanced technology. They let their kids use the internet free and will become a problem for their kids because their parents not guiding them while using their devices. Parents can't teach their kids because parents needs to learn many things to understand what they want to tell to their kids. If their parents can supervise their children and provide good education, their children will not do things that could have a bad impact on their children.

Though polite, your approach lacks human complexity. Just words of right and wrong won't shape kids. Individuals want boundaries and independence. Communication is important, but so is knowing that each child sees the world differently. Teaching accountability relies on discipline, not punishment. Large differences exist between the two. Punishment responds; discipline teaches. Are we to support them? Absolutely. Also, we must prepare kids for the fact that the world won't always be kind. They need resilience, not reminders

And parent-child friendship? A wonderful ambition, but friendship and parenthood aren't always compatible. Our responsibility is direction, safety, and sometimes being the figure they despise, only to realize our lessons as they grow

We need to use different approach for our kids because of everything is change and they will confuse to understand what we want. We want to give something that can protect them from doing bad things but we can't explain it to them and that can make misunderstanding between us. We must support them as they are our kids but we also needs to adapt the situation around us so we can teach many things to them and they can understand it better.

Parent-child friendship is a good idea that can implemented by parents so they can getting close to their kids. If their kids realize that their parents is always besides them, no matter how busy their parents, their kids will not search for the other people to get the lesson. Kids will see that they can ask all things to their parents and will consider that their parents is their hero.

As difficult as it is in terms of educating children, it is still the obligation and full responsibility of both parents regardless of the situation and no matter how bad your child's personality is, basically there are children who are easy to advise and there are children who are stubborn and cannot be directed, I understand this matter but for this problem I think parents are fully familiar with the personality of their children and I am sure that parents will definitely have the right formula to overcome problems like this with the aim of changing and directing them in a better direction.

If indeed they can still be advised slowly then maybe it's not too difficult but there are also children who are very hard to and that means you need firmness in terms of advising them and also like you said that there must be actions taken by parents at least to bully them and maybe with some other punishments that can make them deterrent and promise to change. I understand that a stubborn and sensitive child may rebel but isn't this an effective way to do it if basically the advice slowly and gently still cannot traumatize them? Sure, but on the other hand I don't think it will be that difficult and complicated to direct a child who is still underage because they are still living with their parents or meaning that they are still dependent on their parents so there are many situations together that have the potential to facilitate and accelerate the process of changing a child.

That is why parents needs learn many things  to educate children, especially with the emerging of the technology that make children knows many things from the internet. Parents that can't adapt the technology will feel difficult to educate their children because their children smarter than them and don't want to listen their parents. It is why parents need to be close to their children so their children can be easy to advise and not just push their children to become what their parents want. This is what I see from some parents to their children but their children can't accept it and become rebel.

Parents need to use different things to close to them and realize that their children is not the same as the other children. One child will be different with the other child so parents need to use different approaches to know what their children want. Yes, parents can give punishment to their children but don't get wrong because this punishment is just make them realize what their mistake and parents needs to explain to them and show the mistake and how they can fix the mistake. That will not give traumatic experience to their children because parents can explain with softly and their reason to do that is for their children's good. Sooner or later, their children will realize what their parents wants and will follow it without any objection.

[Dr. Strange]

It is very sad because if your child becomes addicted to gambling and loses his wealth. Although in the present generation it is nothing because there are many things happening around us which we know very little because it is a shameful act. All I understand is to get your child out of the gambling side and give him a chance to love because the longer he stays on the gambling side the more addicted he will become. So it should be decided as soon as possible. Although there were some ways to get addicted to gambling such as: his friends and people around him. So first of all, you have to leave with them, only then you can avoid this and father's money will not be wasted.