stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky

[Iroh]

It’s pretty simple. When one wins a good sum of money, it’s solely due to his skills and prowess in gambling but when there is a loss or series of losses, it’s “gambling” that’s the cause of it. Very quick to claim all the glory when the outcome is positively in your favor and quicker to absolve oneself of any fault or responsibility when the outcome isn’t what was hoped for and turns out negative.

People have and probably would still blame everything and everyone else but themselves for their own actions and failures. Admittedly, no one likes to fail or lose.. but it’s life. There are wins and losses for literally everyone and the sooner one owns up to his mistakes and failures, it would be easier to learn from it and move on.

[coin-investor]

 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

So many gamblers are doing this I know a lot in my neighborhood who blame almost everything, even the weather or the black cat that walks in front of them, this is just their reason so they will not blame themselves so they can go back to gambling, they don't want to blame themselves because if they do that people will question them on why they continue gambling when they will just blame themselves when they lose.
So most of the time they blame the casino like they are being cheated or the casinos are not being fair, they are so self-righteous that they believe that they did the right thing so they cannot lose.

We have so many gamblers who are poor bettors and then blame the casinos for losing a lot of money, some of them even open a scam accusation just to make it appear that the casinos are at fault, when in fact their being a poor bettors or manipulating the rules are what cause their losses or being banned.

[masulum]

So many gamblers are doing this I know a lot in my neighborhood who blame almost everything, even the weather or the black cat that walks in front of them, this is just their reason so they will not blame themselves so they can go back to gambling, they don't want to blame themselves because if they do that people will question them on why they continue gambling when they will just blame themselves when they lose.
So most of the time they blame the casino like they are being cheated or the casinos are not being fair, they are so self-righteous that they believe that they did the right thing so they cannot lose.

We have so many gamblers who are poor bettors and then blame the casinos for losing a lot of money, some of them even open a scam accusation just to make it appear that the casinos are at fault, when in fact their being a poor bettors or manipulating the rules are what cause their losses or being banned.

That means he is just a gambler who hopes to get a 100% win. He forgot that even if he traded or have a business, he could lose all his money. Either way carries the same risk but not as high as on gambling. Blaming the casinos is childish. It is better for person like that to stay away from gambling, because gambling is not a business that can give their players a 100% guaranteed of their money without even losing 0.1%. If he accuses the casino of committing a scam, then he must have a real evidence that companies fraud caused the player to lose. As long as the system has standards according to the license provided, then even if the player loses within 1 month of gambling every day, there is no reason to blame the casino or accuse them of cheating. It could be that he already had the chance to win, but because he was greedy, he lost completely because he didn't want to stop playing.

[Youngkhngdiddy]

That means he is just a gambler who hopes to get a 100% win. He forgot that even if he traded or have a business, he could lose all his money. Either way carries the same risk but not as high as on gambling. Blaming the casinos is childish. It is better for person like that to stay away from gambling, because gambling is not a business that can give their players a 100% guaranteed of their money without even losing 0.1%. If he accuses the casino of committing a scam, then he must have a real evidence that companies fraud caused the player to lose. As long as the system has standards according to the license provided, then even if the player loses within 1 month of gambling every day, there is no reason to blame the casino or accuse them of cheating. It could be that he already had the chance to win, but because he was greedy, he lost completely because he didn't want to stop playing.

Any gambler who stakes his money on an upcoming event with the idea of making 100% return is a joke to me, no doubts that miracles still happen and one could be very lucky atimes, but it's not something that happens very often, it's very rare and happens to 1 in 10 persons, In the world of gambling, loss is bound to even punters that sometimes makes huge profits from it also secure heavy losses atimes, but try to bring up new strategies to win again. That's why as a gambler, one ought to be very strategic, a gambler without skills or strategies is like a farmer going to the farm without his tools.
 I believe that the casino sites and gambling platforms have their license to operate their business online and off and every gambler especially online have come  across the terms and conditions of the platform and even agreed to it sometimes upon registration, so i wonder why same person would say gambling is a scam because they're not benefiting from it or blame the Casino when they lose out of greed.

[Findingnemo]

On the other hand you have a pretty good approach to gambling by only putting small amounts into your involvement and I would probably say that you are one of the more responsible gamblers, you have also said that even if the results don't match it won't upset you and you will be fine. However, this approach is more advisable than being aggressive, because with a healthy approach like responsible gamblers, it will make you more calm in every situation especially if you lose at the end of the session.

This is what responsible gambling and it has been said over a million times from different members in different words but the concept is the same, you can decide what will happen in the future which makes gambling more unpredictable and amusing. Knowing our limits is very important thing in our limit that also applies to gambling and never chase loss because someone won while doing it.

[pawanjain]

 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

So many gamblers are doing this I know a lot in my neighborhood who blame almost everything, even the weather or the black cat that walks in front of them, this is just their reason so they will not blame themselves so they can go back to gambling, they don't want to blame themselves because if they do that people will question them on why they continue gambling when they will just blame themselves when they lose.
So most of the time they blame the casino like they are being cheated or the casinos are not being fair, they are so self-righteous that they believe that they did the right thing so they cannot lose.

We have so many gamblers who are poor bettors and then blame the casinos for losing a lot of money, some of them even open a scam accusation just to make it appear that the casinos are at fault, when in fact their being a poor bettors or manipulating the rules are what cause their losses or being banned.

We can see such people almost everywhere who do no accept their mistakes and instead blame others for it.
They don't even want to listen what the other is saying and complete blames the other for it.
It's better to stay away from such people because them understand is like digging your own grave.

[Doan9269]

It’s pretty simple. When one wins a good sum of money, it’s solely due to his skills and prowess in gambling but when there is a loss or series of losses, it’s “gambling” that’s the cause of it. Very quick to claim all the glory when the outcome is positively in your favor and quicker to absolve oneself of any fault or responsibility when the outcome isn’t what was hoped for and turns out negative.

We will alwa finds a means of resulting every of our gambling ugly experience on something being responsible for that around us, but forgetting that we also contributed to the highest percentage of them all, gambling is not what we should always expect a winning game without having the both side of it's experience, we should also blame the mistakes we do which have contributed to the failure we have in each gambling attempt we make.

[GideonGono]

Those gambler just need to accept the fact that they loss, no need to blame or find a reason why they loss.
If they couldn't accept it then it is better for them to just stop on gambling because they couldn't accept the fact that they aren't always going to win on it.
They are blaming others because they couldn't accept their loss and wants to make it easier for them to cope up with it.
Instead of blaming just grow up no need to find reason, cause in the first place when they gamble they should already be aware that they could lose, and they already accepted the risk in gambling their money.

[oktana]

It’s pretty simple. When one wins a good sum of money, it’s solely due to his skills and prowess in gambling but when there is a loss or series of losses, it’s “gambling” that’s the cause of it. Very quick to claim all the glory when the outcome is positively in your favor and quicker to absolve oneself of any fault or responsibility when the outcome isn’t what was hoped for and turns out negative.

We will alwa finds a means of resulting every of our gambling ugly experience on something being responsible for that around us, but forgetting that we also contributed to the highest percentage of them all, gambling is not what we should always expect a winning game without having the both side of it's experience, we should also blame the mistakes we do which have contributed to the failure we have in each gambling attempt we make.

This is true. In fact this makes sense as we see some gamblers exert their frustration on people around them. Any little thing they are all aggressive on you. So when they lose, they can’t take the blame, they have to take it off their shoulders and put it on someone or something else. Just like how many people cuss and blame sports players when they didn’t score a goal leading to their money being lost.

[borovichok]

It’s pretty simple. When one wins a good sum of money, it’s solely due to his skills and prowess in gambling but when there is a loss or series of losses, it’s “gambling” that’s the cause of it. Very quick to claim all the glory when the outcome is positively in your favor and quicker to absolve oneself of any fault or responsibility when the outcome isn’t what was hoped for and turns out negative.

This is the human nature. Humans are so good at blaming their misfortune on a factor but tend to give accolades to themselves for fortunes. This is not different in gambling. When a gambler wins he is happy and then channels the winning to self-effort and when he is on a losing trek he tends to transfer blame to gambling.

In my opinion, such a gambler is immature. It is high time people understand that gambling is like a mountain. It is always there and it is you who go to the mountain because mountains don`t move. Thus, whatever happens to a gambler should solely be blamed on the gambler and not gambling. If you have self-control, you will not have a problem gambling but when you lack control you will have problem gambling. So, this is about the gambler and not the gambling. Apportioning blame has never solved a problem. So, instead of blaming your misfortune on gambling gamble wisely.

[Dewi Aries]

On the other hand you have a pretty good approach to gambling by only putting small amounts into your involvement and I would probably say that you are one of the more responsible gamblers, you have also said that even if the results don't match it won't upset you and you will be fine. However, this approach is more advisable than being aggressive, because with a healthy approach like responsible gamblers, it will make you more calm in every situation especially if you lose at the end of the session.

This is what responsible gambling and it has been said over a million times from different members in different words but the concept is the same, you can decide what will happen in the future which makes gambling more unpredictable and amusing. Knowing our limits is very important thing in our limit that also applies to gambling and never chase loss because someone won while doing it.

It's not uncommon to find or hear some people who say and suggest something that does seem reasonable, the difference in the way of delivery does not matter because we can also know that all suggestions and ideas lead to good goals which in fact can make gamblers safer and calmer in their gambling activities as I said earlier and however this is a better approach that must be taken if you are one of the gamblers who are quite active in your gambling activities.

As we know that gambling can always trigger things that we never expected before, especially in terms of bad effects, the many temptations there make gamblers almost carried away because they cannot maintain their consciousness, actually I think all of this is a choice, because there is enough evidence that we can make as examples and considerations, such as the bad effects experienced by addicts in real life. and I'm sure all gamblers don't want to be carried away by the flow because they can't maintain their consciousness, And I'm sure all gamblers don't want to experience the same thing and so it's very clear that there is no other way to do it other than having a good approach like you said with control and some other limits and maybe I would add that don't put any expectations on winning because the randomness that exists in gambling does not allow it to always be realized.

[qwertyup23]

It’s pretty simple. When one wins a good sum of money, it’s solely due to his skills and prowess in gambling but when there is a loss or series of losses, it’s “gambling” that’s the cause of it. Very quick to claim all the glory when the outcome is positively in your favor and quicker to absolve oneself of any fault or responsibility when the outcome isn’t what was hoped for and turns out negative.

I agree with your statement.

People tend to be one-sided when it comes to winning and losing. Like what you just mentioned, whenever we fin, we always focus on ourselves too much to the point that we tend to discredit the efforts of others even if they contributed on why we won on the first place. Then if a person loses, they tend to blame others since they cannot accept the fact that they lost due to their efforts.

In conclusion, it is always easy to look for a scapegoat than to accept our shortcomings. It is so much easy to blame others rather than to accept our mistakes and this is primarily the reason on why we blame others on the mistake that we made.

[CryptoHeadlineNews]

The blame-game is natural, and one which can never be totally eradicated entirely inasmuch as gambling is concerned, since it has to do with people losing something of value, most especially of such money had been budgeted for a different item altogether, and you ended up losing it to gambling without any alternative of getting the money back.
Moreover, blame-game could be of certain degrees, that is, a scenario whereby someone could blame himself and never gambles anymore, or someone could blame himself, learn from his mistakes and move on, e.t.c.. Hence, the lever at which the blame-game works differs from one individual to another.

[Quidat]

It’s pretty simple. When one wins a good sum of money, it’s solely due to his skills and prowess in gambling but when there is a loss or series of losses, it’s “gambling” that’s the cause of it. Very quick to claim all the glory when the outcome is positively in your favor and quicker to absolve oneself of any fault or responsibility when the outcome isn’t what was hoped for and turns out negative.

This is the human nature. Humans are so good at blaming their misfortune on a factor but tend to give accolades to themselves for fortunes. This is not different in gambling. When a gambler wins he is happy and then channels the winning to self-effort and when he is on a losing trek he tends to transfer blame to gambling.

In my opinion, such a gambler is immature. It is high time people understand that gambling is like a mountain. It is always there and it is you who go to the mountain because mountains don`t move. Thus, whatever happens to a gambler should solely be blamed on the gambler and not gambling. If you have self-control, you will not have a problem gambling but when you lack control you will have problem gambling. So, this is about the gambler and not the gambling. Apportioning blame has never solved a problem. So, instead of blaming your misfortune on gambling gamble wisely.

Agree on what you have said, we would really be always loving on trying out to blame out on whatever we do able to see whether the site or other people on the unfortunate condition that we do able to
experience on which it isnt really that a shocking behavior for most gamblers. In the end, you would really be the only one who would really be that suffering on what the actions you had made.
If you dont have that kind of self control and discipline towards gambling then you are really that putting yourself on such trouble.  Gambling should really be just that for fun and not on stressing up yourself because once you do find yourself that having that kind of situation then this isnt really for entertainment anymore but rather you are really that desperate on making money
and on the time that outcomes are really that different on what you are expecting then this is where blaming time begins.

[Hanadawa]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.

You are right. Those who win may get some benefits and can open a business from the winning money. But those who lose and become addicted will ruin their lives and those of their families. Granted it's a balance but what I know is that more gamblers lose and become addicted than gamblers who play the game just as a game.

I think gambling is not the same as investing. In investing, you will be given assets that you can save and sell whenever you want. This is different from gambling where you risk your money on a game with the possibility that your money will double if you win or lose completely. So I think gambling is a game and not an investment at all.

[Kavelj22]

Luck is a part of every aspect of life, including gambling, and blaming oneself or others for not winning only increases the negative impact of losing. I think it is necessary to focus on responsible gambling practices, understand the odds, and treat gambling as a means of entertainment rather than a guaranteed source of financial gain. By taking a balanced approach to gambling, we can reduce the unnecessary blame and blame associated with it and create a healthier relationship with the activity.

Besides, some can find support and help from friends or relatives who share the same interest in responsible gambling. It is also preferable to search for reliable resources and information on how to play safely and identify signs of addiction and potential negative effects. And introducing and implementing the right financial management strategies can have a significant positive impact on your gambling experience. Good budget plans can help reduce the financial and emotional stress of gambling and promote self-control.

[Accardo]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.

You are right. Those who win may get some benefits and can open a business from the winning money. But those who lose and become addicted will ruin their lives and those of their families. Granted it's a balance but what I know is that more gamblers lose and become addicted than gamblers who play the game just as a game.

I think gambling is not the same as investing. In investing, you will be given assets that you can save and sell whenever you want. This is different from gambling where you risk your money on a game with the possibility that your money will double if you win or lose completely. So I think gambling is a game and not an investment at all.

Gambling has never been an investment. People only started looking at it as an investment due to the jackpot and huge wins it could provide to a gambler. In agreement to the general rumor that all the money a player has spent gambling, will be handed out to him as a jackpot. So, people easily spend money on gambling on such bases. And they don't regret losing, the only problem is that they are actually suffering pains than financial loss. Gamblers know that they'll win at some point. It gives them some bragging rights as a gambler. Seeing it that money shortage is the reason to the trouble or problem why gamblers blame their new habit inherited from gambling, could be argued. As not all are actually suffering from the problem. Gambling addicts don't always run out of money completely. They get worried over the amount of money spent on a single day because of gambling. Such shock in them can be choking them to an extent of raising an alarm. Which during his explanations to others would make it sound like gambling is the cause his trouble. But dip down he was only passing through the pain of spending high amount of money consistently.

[Hatchy]

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I don't think anyone is actually painting gambling here mate. Everyone has a personal experience with the gambling activities. Not everyone will make wins some will while some will loss. That's what balances the who thing. You can't just go ahead blaming gambling for ruing you life or causing you loss as it's just an activity that you personally decided to partake in. If we go around like that placing blames on gambling it shows more of irresponsibility.

What ever decisions we make as to when it comes to gambling is ours to bear that why it's said to gamble what you can afford to loss. If you put too much into gambling and expect to win double, you might end up losing all. While Gambling we should make sure to make the right choice to avoid situations where we start pointing fingers.

[kojektea]

of course what you say is true, some have fun and celebrate and some lose and suffer, in gambling it is a gathering place for rich and poor people, the rich tend to be more likely to win and they have a higher chance of winning than the rich, I say it because usually the rich don't really care about the bets they play while the poor are too afraid of risks, do you think this is fair?
it's fair if it's simpoor vs simpoor
rich people vs rich people

[Lorence.xD]

of course what you say is true, some have fun and celebrate and some lose and suffer, in gambling it is a gathering place for rich and poor people, the rich tend to be more likely to win and they have a higher chance of winning than the rich, I say it because usually the rich don't really care about the bets they play while the poor are too afraid of risks, do you think this is fair?
it's fair if it's simpoor vs simpoor
rich people vs rich people

Well, in a logical viewpoint, rich people has a higher tendency of winning than average to poor individuals. Why? bigger your bankroll means more chances of betting and more chances of winning. With poor gamblers or ones who don't have that much they will only be able to bet a few times depending on their winning percentage. This is not to limit things, many people who are financially deprived  managed to win and turn things towards their lives. We are not playing against other players tho' but rather with your chances of winning and bankroll management in order to be profitable in the long run. Poor gamblers or gamblers having nothing much if financial freedom would be normally has higher nervousness but that doesn't mean that they are afraid to risk 'coz if that's the case they won't be even in this activity we re having in the first place.

And with random blaming or transferring of frustrations to objects or surroundings, then that won't be valid except for the fat that it could be one's reason to cope up with negative emotions. It is also a safeguarding technique used by them to not hurt their ego that they have lost that much from this industry.