stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky

[Sandra_hakeem]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.

what you described over there is more like running a legitimate business...the differences between your illustration on gambling at the receivers's end (the casino owners) is actually wider than being at the giver's end (addicted gamblers)...
I'm still gonna say there's nothing wrong with having them complain - most gambling site don't even give a fuck how much you deposited/ how much you've lost so far.. all they're after is their cuts at the end which makes the whole thing very creepy to anyone that sees the insight.

Sandra 🧑‍🦰

[dothebeats]

People always love to shift the blame whenever possible. A lot of gamblers don't want to take responsibility and accountability for losing their money, hence they will look for ways to take the blame somewhere else. I never once blamed anyone when I lost money in the casino or in sports betting sites. I know it's my fault for playing at that time and there's no one responsible for my own loss but me.

These people should not be allowed to hold other people's money IMO. They will only make lots of financial mistakes and they will never take accountability when shit hits the fan.

[Hispo]

People gambling others things and people but themselves. It is nothing new and it is exclusive to gambling, by the way. I believe it has happened to all of us, we try to deflect the blame other way when we feel we have been wronged and when we feel we have done nothing wrong for us to suffer such consequences. In the case of gambling is common, because it is an activity which directly involves money.
The most common way for people to deflect the blame when they lose money in the casino is to alledge the game is rigged against them, which could be possible if they play in a shady/scam casino, but those kind of point of view are dismantled when the game is either other source or probably fair.
If anyone gambles and after losing throws a temper tantrum on the casino or their bad luck, perhaps that person is not supposed to gamble in the first place. Though, throwing a temper tantrum and venting are different from each other, immature adults and toddlers throw temper tantrums, adults and mature young adults vent from time to time to keep their mental health in check.

[sunsilk]

That is true every time when ever we do gambling we always have to keep one things in our head and mind that gambling is all about luck it fully depend on luck whether you will won or whether you will face losses. So if we lose the gamble then we should take it easy, And we have to agree with that losing are also the part of gambling so before doing gambling we have to set our mind on that way.

Yeah, take it easy when we gamble and when we lose too. That's one hard thing to absorb when we're gambling and if the amount is higher. It is making us hard to accept that fact when we're losing because that feeling sucks.

IMHO, blaming has been a culture for most when they are disappointed wants to find no fault to themselves. If someone has that attitude then he/she has to change for the better.

Learn to accept the losses and never blame the casino or anyone that you've been losing money because before you gamble, they didn't even pursue you and it's a personal decision to bet.

[Nwada001]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

There is one thing that I have understood about some people: they don't like to take the blame for their mistakes; they just want to send the blame somewhere else, and all those things or people should be held responsible for their own actions. That way, they feel better.
 
And many new gamblers believe that because it works for their friend or relative, it must also work for them that same way, which is far from how gambling works, and anytime they place their bet and it goes against their prediction, they start sending blame to the basin rather than themselves. Such people are not ready to start gambling in the first place because their mind is not prepared for what it comes with.

[Accardo]

"Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

Firstly, gambling is not an investment. It's a game where you will lose and win. Investment is you putting your money in places/items that can make your money continue to make money. And you can't say you invest in gambling games.

Secondly, you say they should have considered the consequences. Some gamblers I know think they can make money from gambling and get rich quickly. Get rich instantly. They are willing to spend their money just to bet in the hope of getting the jackpot. So in my opinion most gamblers don't understand and can think carefully about what they are doing.

The gamblers who look to make huge money via gambling may end up blaming the casino for not providing them enough wins. Players are having a hard time trying to get the type of money they seek while gambling, instead of going for the fun, they're completely taken away by the joy of other winners around them. They forget that while gambling could be hard to win, people win every day, but listening to their stories you'd notice they've been losing as well. Hence, players who think that they could win, like any other gambler they've set their eyes on who won some money, may be lying to himself. Because that's not true. He could end up finding it difficult to accept the fault is from his end than he thinks of the casino. Gamblers have a lot to learn, which wouldn't get achieved easily, the player has to experience thicks and thins for his thoughts to balance while gambling. Such that whenever, he doesn't win, it won't cross his mind to blame the casino.

[oktana]

Regarding this, what I’ll say is that if you want to blame gambling then it’s best to stay clear from it. However, if you want to keep gambling then embrace the good and the bad; stop turning your back and blaming gambling when it goes wrong but praise it when it goes right. If it ruined your life, why don’t you stay clear once and for all. But no, they go back, and when they win they’ll forget they accused it of ruining their life.

[chaser15]

Blaming gambling whenever someone is unlucky? I don't think that's the right point. These people who fall on gambling didn't blame gambling for why they became like that. Instead, they blame themselves for getting into it and not accepting the fact that gambling is a win-win situation.

But actually, that's a good thing that these guys fall. Without that bad experience, they will never realize what they're doing is worse. Fortunately, some people were able to survive being the worst gamblers and now living a happy life outside of gambling. On the other hand, unfortunately, not all people can be like that.

[Casdinyard]

There's this thing called, Fundamental Attribution Error or FAE, which is a normal human phenomena where it's shown that humans will blame everything else first before they blame themselves. I personally don't know the history of why this phenomena came to be and I'm not about to school you about its origins. But this plays a large part as to why people who gamble, revenge gamble.

They'd find ways to find fault against other people, sometimes even mock them amidst their sufferings. You see someone who's pissing himself in the slot machine from playing too much, you immediately think of him as a lowlife bastard who threw his shit away for moments of gratification and a false promise of millions of dollars. But when a similar thing happens to you, you find ways to excuse yourself out of the equation. Funny yeah?

This is how the normal human being's brain work every time they are put in a circumstance, gambling just brings it up a notch. A gambler who has no control over his emotions and psyche will start and continue to blame other factors for his losses but himself. In his head he knew he played his cards right, there's no room for mistake on his end, and everything else that went wrong was not within his realm of control. This is simply false and a massive cause for why people find themselves revenge gambling. They just simply couldn't make it in their minds that the fault was theirs and so they'd continue gambling.

[robelneo]

Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.

How I wish you were correct but the fact is there are many losers and few winners, you're using the word some on your post as if there's an equal number of winners and losers when it's not, gambling is black or bad for people who made the wrong intention on the platform like trying to make money out of it and blame people and the platform on the platform

I believe that before one decide life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

You could do that but when you're in front of the gaming table or gambling interface it's different all your ideas and choices go out of the window all you can think of are the games and potential profit that you're going to make, in gambling experience is the best experience until you experienced the bad things about gambling or you've seen an example coming from persons who are dear to you, that's when realization come.

[klidex]

Gambling is not completely wrong in this case because it depends on those who use their gambling irresponsibly. When someone's life is ruined because of gambling, it must be because he has become addicted and is unable to stop it, making it uncontrollable and increasingly making him bankrupt and experiencing significant losses. big. I understand what you mean about linking investment with gambling because investment does not run smoothly producing profits, there are profits and losses, sometimes we experience losses and sometimes losses, but if we patiently wait for a long period of time the money we invest will double, which is different from gambling if If you lose, your money will be lost. It takes patience to recover your losses and it is not certain that your money will be returned.

It is true that before we make a decision to gamble we should consider the risks first because that is what will determine whether a gambling journey is disciplined or not because if we don't think about the risks it will end in continuous losses and ultimately ruin your life.

[boty]

Regarding this, what I’ll say is that if you want to blame gambling then it’s best to stay clear from it. However, if you want to keep gambling then embrace the good and the bad; stop turning your back and blaming gambling when it goes wrong but praise it when it goes right. If it ruined your life, why don’t you stay clear once and for all. But no, they go back, and when they win they’ll forget they accused it of ruining their life.

Yes, that's right, if we want to blame gambling when we make our own mistakes, it would be better if we didn't gamble, because in gambling it really plays a big role in the luck that gamblers will get to be able to win their bets, every gambler certainly regrets the mistakes they make so they lose. in their bets and regret what they did but still go back to gambling to try their luck in winning the bet they played and they forget what they got yesterday.

[Onyeeze]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

It's obvious that in gambling you don't need to blame anyone for whatever they missed in their gambling and it's obvious that gambling is lucky game and its not mean that in all points you will be unlucky it's obvious that sometimes you have to unlucky in gambling and if we should equate this, it's obvious we have to be unlucky almost everytime in gambling, when you cross check gambling you will notice that gambling is like a game of light and dark and the occurrence of dark always be higher than the one of light..so this reference will make you to understand that benefiting in gambling is rall and its obvious that the statistics of someone being unlucky is higher someone be lucky in gambling activities

[0t3p0t]

Another example in this scenario is about a gun. People blaming guns killing people but what they don't really understand is that people killing people. Gambling and guns don't have this brain thing that manipulate humans to do something stupid. We have to act responsibly so we won't end up playing this blame game.

[Porfirii]

First of all, gambling has nothing to do with investments. Gambling is a game, an expensive hobby, and like with many other hobbies, you have to keep your sanity and enjoy it in moderation. It is not all black, but not all white either.

If you want money to start your own business, you should work hard for it instead of only relying on luck. Maybe this way you learn something valuable in the meantime, and make some extra money to gamble without the pressure of having to win at all cost in order to get the fulfilling life you and your family deserve.

  I am aware that gambling is just a mere speculation of event and nothing is certain but then same thing applies to investing, the level of uncertainty in investing is inevitable and cannot be overlooked, just like any investment gambling involves profit and loss, it might not be an investment plan for the bettor but it definitely is for the casinos and online gambling site owners. So you can see how similar they all are. The context of the post is not to make people rely on gambling after all we all know that gambling is mainly for the fun and shouldn’t be used as a major source of income.
   Being a source of income for the casino owners makes it an investment for that person. Also it is not new that gambling as really help a lot of people to gather up capital to start a new business for themselves, with right strategy and discipline anybody can achieve success in gambling.  Gambling is a game of chance, and hence the theory of probability and chance calculations apply in full measure. Moreover, those who depend on gambling to either become rich or to make a livelihood are basically who are lazy and don't wish to work . Easy money makes one greedy also. I have seen several people lose everything after they won the first round..out of sheer greed to win more. Life has an element of luck in it, but is not totally based on luck.
  

Yes, almost no investment is risk-free, but they usually offer, ceteris paribus, a reasonable expectation of gain. We cannot say the same about gambling, where you have to beat odds that are against you by definition.

And saying that it is an investment for the casino owners, well, what can I say? you're right, but it has nothing to do with the topic you started and we are discussing here, which is focused on the gambler's perspective.

[harapan]

Those are immature behaviour of people/gamblers who doesn't want to attest their responsibilities when gambling. These are same people who always regrets their moves and blaming others is their defense mechanism to make them feel good after gambling. This also happens when emotions controls your moves and decisions. In simple terms, these are behaviour of problematic gambler.

If you fail you fail,if you win you win,I don't know why the blames will be put  into the gambling.its a game of fun and if you don't love what you do,you let go of it.its just like a game of chess and ludo that people play for fun and to make it look more attractive they stake money so the winner goes home with it,that how all of this casinos started and then they grow bigger by the day

So if any gambler thinks for his failure he can put the blames on gambling then his making a huge mistake and by doing so,he is  spoiling the name of gambling. Yes,it's all about decision making and when you know very well you can meet up to the gambling standard and doctrines then why venture into it.

[Juse14]

Whether gambling is dangerous or not depends on how each person reacts to it and the circumstances in which they engage in it. There is a large number of people who consider gambling as a way to gain financial gain, a belief that drives them to impulsive actions that lead to a loss of self-control and frequent mistakes in their betting choices.

If someone has a wrong understanding about gambling, it can lead to inappropriate actions in playing it. As a result, gambling can only result in financial setbacks and other detrimental consequences. Therefore, it is important for us to always remember that gambling functions as a means of entertainment and is done for fun. In addition, we must be skilled at distinguishing between things that are important and things that are just entertainment. In this case, engaging in gambling does not guarantee status as a paramount endeavor.

[Dewi Aries]

On the other hand, yes, you have explained the scenario that if we push too hard to win, it means that there will be a lot of trials and the lack of certainty in gambling will make us experience more losses than wins because it is impossible to get lucky. streak. Therefore, becoming a responsible gambler is more recommended. You can become a responsible gambler if you are basically able to understand the real concept of how gambling works.

Theoretically, on an average one can have fewer wins than their lose but it just depends on the luck factor of an individual but myself who is know what amount of luck I had when I attempt to change the fortune of life with something little, it just ended up as nothing and I am okay with it because I didn't expect it to happen, I just wish if it happen then I would be happy but even when it didn't I have nothing to lose cause I did what will be the most expected outcome.

It's always just about luck that will lead you to the expected results as well as the amount of winnings you get, and I understand that anyone can win in gambling even with large amounts, but the problem is that there is absolutely no certainty that can guarantee you a win in every session because as you said above that it only depends on luck and this is what makes there is no consistency in the winnings from gambling which makes losses more frequent than wins when you make more attempts.

On the other hand you have a pretty good approach to gambling by only putting small amounts into your involvement and I would probably say that you are one of the more responsible gamblers, you have also said that even if the results don't match it won't upset you and you will be fine. However, this approach is more advisable than being aggressive, because with a healthy approach like responsible gamblers, it will make you more calm in every situation especially if you lose at the end of the session.

[ethereumhunter]

If you fail you fail,if you win you win,I don't know why the blames will be put  into the gambling.its a game of fun and if you don't love what you do,you let go of it.its just like a game of chess and ludo that people play for fun and to make it look more attractive they stake money so the winner goes home with it,that how all of this casinos started and then they grow bigger by the day

So if any gambler thinks for his failure he can put the blames on gambling then his making a huge mistake and by doing so,he is  spoiling the name of gambling. Yes,it's all about decision making and when you know very well you can meet up to the gambling standard and doctrines then why venture into it.

That's why someone needs to know that when he loses a lot of money from gambling, it is because of his own fault and there is no need to complain about gambling. No one forced him to gamble using a lot of money and no one told him to gamble for a long time. These people really need to realize that gambling should only be for fun and not for making money. With such awareness, they will not want to gamble for long and will always limit their gambling activities.

A person who blames gambling for causing him major losses needs to see a specialist so he can realize that it was his own fault. He needs to change his mindset so he won't think of blaming gambling. With this awareness, he will know that playing gambling for too long and using a lot of money can result in big losses. He will try to reduce his gambling activities rather than experience as many losses as before so that he will not blame gambling anymore.

[rozak]

Whether gambling is dangerous or not depends on how each person reacts to it and the circumstances in which they engage in it. There is a large number of people who consider gambling as a way to gain financial gain, a belief that drives them to impulsive actions that lead to a loss of self-control and frequent mistakes in their betting choices.

If someone has a wrong understanding about gambling, it can lead to inappropriate actions in playing it. As a result, gambling can only result in financial setbacks and other detrimental consequences. Therefore, it is important for us to always remember that gambling functions as a means of entertainment and is done for fun. In addition, we must be skilled at distinguishing between things that are important and things that are just entertainment. In this case, engaging in gambling does not guarantee status as a paramount endeavor.

We might be able to provide advice to novice gamblers regarding the actual understanding of gambling. it may save some gamblers from falling into negative gambling. but not for novice gamblers who know gambling themselves. for example from social media advertisements or spam messages in social media groups.
Gambling casinos advertise huge signup bonuses. deposit bonus. even such advertisements assure maximum winnings. That's how novice gamblers first fall into the perception that gambling is a game for financial gain.