stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky

[danherbias07]

I get that losing money gambling can be frustrating.  Believe me, I've been there.  But blaming the dealer or saying things like it's that machine's fault is just making excuses.  At the end of the day, gambling is gambling - you win some, you lose some.  Thats the nature of it and 

I'm not trying to lecture.  I just think getting angry and making accusations won't improve your chances or mentality.  Having a level head is important.  Freaking out makes it all less fun anyway.  It's best to just accept the losses in stride.

Stay sane out there, folks!

No one is happy to lose money; by all means, it's understandable to be upset. However, there's a thin line between taking responsibility for your actions and your own mistakes and blaming other people or a casino for your misfortunes. Gambling is usually a triggering event or an excuse for a problematic behavior. Lack of self-control is the actual issue, not gambling itself; it can occur in any kind of behavior that can become addictive and thus harmful, such as alcohol or compulsive purchasing. Not being able to control how much you spend or how much you drink is your issue, not someone else's, but one you cause yourself.

I agree with that. We must be responsible for our own actions and losing means we took the risk. If there's anyone who is at fault, it will be us.
We made the choice and we can also choose not to gamble so we won't lose anything but if we did take the other path, we must be ready for the consequences. And gambling sites are not a charity to just give away the money we gambled, there will be a fight first and that's to analyze things first before making a bet.
Pointing the finger at gambling sites will not help, hell even their customer service won't help us if we lose our money through gambling because it's all in terms.
This ain't like a console game where we could just save our progress and then load again is we made a mistake. Once the money is lost, we cannot do anything about it. The only option is to just win it back by playing more. But the risk will still be there that we might lose it all.

[moneystery]

The gambler should response to the gambling site with more responsibilities.Because the money using in the gambling site are real,So we can’t get emotional after the loss.Some new gamblers will get some sad because of the money loss in the initial stage.But later they understand the fact the gambling site are also give some good profit if your statistics for the betting was good one.The gamblers who ready to play the gambling without any emotional touch can able to make some good money in the same gambling site.

The luck was the key for the gambling along with the strategy for the game.If the gamblers play the gambling without any luck means it may leads to a loss of money at the end.So play the game with the luck to earn more form the gambling site.

i actually think that it's okay for a gambler to get emotional if they lose, we don't need to be naive that we are like that sometimes. however, the most important thing is that gamblers don't get too emotional when they are emotional, so that it makes them think irrationally and end up gambling recklessly. gamblers should be able to calm themselves down first and gamble when they have gathered their composure again, then they can gamble again.

[Rabata]

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And this is why they do mess up their lives because of those kind of false hopes on which this is something that should really be stopped mid-way.It would really be just that a normal reaction for someone who do have those kind of blaming time on the time that they would be losing money on which they cant just accept it on how its been possible but we do know that people do really have that kind of behavior on which it couldnt really be stopped. This is why it would be better that we should really just that ignore on whatever behavior that they would really be having.It is really
just that there are those people who cant really just that able to accept themselves as losers.

They should be able to stop blaming gambling and choose to introspect on what they have done so that they can know that it was their fault. No one is to blame, especially since it was their money that was consciously used for gambling. But because they are greedy and want more money, they end up gambling excessively, which results in them experiencing total defeat, so they can easily blame it on gambling. Even though it is their own fault for not paying attention to the use of their money, we can't remind them because they won't want to listen to our advice.

People who blame others after losing a bet of gambling know that there is no way to get their money by blaming. But some gamblers habitually do these things. They think that losing bet and  blame others and maybe their loss is not because of their own failure but because of others. And this act they probably console themselves. But a gambler should never such blame. He takes his own risk with his own money and neither gives nor accepts the share of winning or defeat. A gambler should understand these things well before gambling.

[maydna]

Of course that is true because there is nothing that can be used as an excuse to beat the casino, everything is clearly the fault of the gamblers themselves, the casino has made an announcement when you first enter that this is a gamble that risks your money which on the other hand there is absolutely no certainty or guarantee whatsoever for you to win at the end of the session, and if you still blame other parties for what you experience especially the adverse effects of the amount of loss then obviously I will call you a gambler who has absolutely no responsibility or you are a loser who wants to win but does not want to lose. So before you gamble then you should really consider and ask yourself whether or not you are ready for all the possibilities that are very likely to occur, not only the chances of winning but you also need to think about what if you lose money and if you are not ready to lose money then obviously your best decision is not to gamble.

We will not be able to beat the casinos because we know that the casinos are the ones running the business. We can only try to gamble moderately with self-control and restrictions so that we don't exceed what we can afford. When we lose a certain amount of money, we will not blame the casino because that is the risk of gambling, and we should have understood it when we started gambling. To avoid losing a lot, we must always control ourselves when gambling and limit our time and money so that when we lose, we don't lose a lot of money. Many people have misunderstood this, so they still make mistakes like that, so they will only blame the casino even though it is their own fault. With the awareness that we must be able to limit our gambling games, we still try not to exceed the limits and only use gambling as entertainment and nothing more. If we can be responsible gamblers, we can enjoy gambling as entertainment and can avoid the problems that other gamblers have faced.

Yes the better a gambler gets over losses the better he can manage his emotions. Naturally when people make losses they always look for something or someone worth blaming.  Just like there is a causation to every gambling loss so people tend to want to have a cause to blame when they lose but the fact is it is not a proper practice.
As a gambler one should learn to manage the emotional stress that comes with either loss or wins as both if not properly managed can affect a gambler negatively. When some persons win they can become over excited and end up making wrong decisions.

That's why a gambler must have good self-control to control his emotions when he loses. He will not try to recover from that loss because he is already thinking about what further risks he will accept. He does not want to lose more money, which will not help him recover his losses. The gambler also won't blame the casino when he loses, so he will just gamble in moderation because, for him, gambling is just entertainment that doesn't need to be played too often. When gambling, a person must always be able to control his emotional stress so that it does not increase, too high, and only self-control can control his emotions so that they do not increase.

People who blame others after losing a bet of gambling know that there is no way to get their money by blaming. But some gamblers habitually do these things. They think that losing bet and  blame others and maybe their loss is not because of their own failure but because of others. And this act they probably console themselves. But a gambler should never such blame. He takes his own risk with his own money and neither gives nor accepts the share of winning or defeat. A gambler should understand these things well before gambling.

If it is to entertain themselves, they should not come to gambling because it will be a waste if they lose. They will keep blaming the casino while the casino won't respond, and even if they say that in the chatbox at the casino, maybe the admin will immediately block their account because they have made a fuss at the casino. Such people do not need to gamble, and it is better to use other activities besides gambling so that they do not need to blame other people or the casino. They should be aware of the risks of gambling so that they can always try to limit the amount they lose.

[Dewi Aries]

Of course that is true because there is nothing that can be used as an excuse to beat the casino, everything is clearly the fault of the gamblers themselves, the casino has made an announcement when you first enter that this is a gamble that risks your money which on the other hand there is absolutely no certainty or guarantee whatsoever for you to win at the end of the session, and if you still blame other parties for what you experience especially the adverse effects of the amount of loss then obviously I will call you a gambler who has absolutely no responsibility or you are a loser who wants to win but does not want to lose. So before you gamble then you should really consider and ask yourself whether or not you are ready for all the possibilities that are very likely to occur, not only the chances of winning but you also need to think about what if you lose money and if you are not ready to lose money then obviously your best decision is not to gamble.

We will not be able to beat the casinos because we know that the casinos are the ones running the business. We can only try to gamble moderately with self-control and restrictions so that we don't exceed what we can afford. When we lose a certain amount of money, we will not blame the casino because that is the risk of gambling, and we should have understood it when we started gambling. To avoid losing a lot, we must always control ourselves when gambling and limit our time and money so that when we lose, we don't lose a lot of money. Many people have misunderstood this, so they still make mistakes like that, so they will only blame the casino even though it is their own fault. With the awareness that we must be able to limit our gambling games, we still try not to exceed the limits and only use gambling as entertainment and nothing more. If we can be responsible gamblers, we can enjoy gambling as entertainment and can avoid the problems that other gamblers have faced.

However, gambling is nothing more than a probability activity or a chance activity which means that obviously you will be able to win when you are "lucky" no matter how skillful you are. The possibility of losing cannot be completely avoided because gambling is a risky activity and that is the risk that anyone can lose any amount of money and anyone can win or double the amount of money, but everything there is nothing more than a "possibility" which means you may lose or you may win, you cannot know when you can win but losing is a definite risk because this is a business for casinos which means you really have to have good luck if you want to win but the problem is that anyone can never know when he can get lucky.

Therefore gambling is really based on the right understanding because this activity involves a huge risk that can lose you any amount of money in an instant. On the other hand many people are involved in gambling but there are some of them who feel fine without experiencing significant impact while others are those who are trapped in many problems due to gambling and that means there is something wrong that you apply to your gambling activities, looking at the examples of many people and then doing self-introspection to recognize the location of the error is what you must do when you are in such a situation rather than blaming the innocent party.

[len01]

If it is to entertain themselves, they should not come to gambling because it will be a waste if they lose. They will keep blaming the casino while the casino won't respond, and even if they say that in the chatbox at the casino, maybe the admin will immediately block their account because they have made a fuss at the casino. Such people do not need to gamble, and it is better to use other activities besides gambling so that they do not need to blame other people or the casino. They should be aware of the risks of gambling so that they can always try to limit the amount they lose.

there is nothing wrong if someone wants to seek entertainment in gambling as long as they know all the risks and are willing to accept these risks and most importantly know how to avoid bad risks.
gambling is just a way of having fun with a little luxury like paying for your place to play the games you like and on the one hand, if a gambler already knows all that, there should be no need to blame anyone when he loses because that is a risk when he is unlucky.
blaming the gambling party is just a very silly attempt when we buy pleasure from what has been provided but when we lose we blame the casino and for me that is very silly.

[Lanatsa]

If it is to entertain themselves, they should not come to gambling because it will be a waste if they lose. They will keep blaming the casino while the casino won't respond, and even if they say that in the chatbox at the casino, maybe the admin will immediately block their account because they have made a fuss at the casino. Such people do not need to gamble, and it is better to use other activities besides gambling so that they do not need to blame other people or the casino. They should be aware of the risks of gambling so that they can always try to limit the amount they lose.

there is nothing wrong if someone wants to seek entertainment in gambling as long as they know all the risks and are willing to accept these risks and most importantly know how to avoid bad risks.
gambling is just a way of having fun with a little luxury like paying for your place to play the games you like and on the one hand, if a gambler already knows all that, there should be no need to blame anyone when he loses because that is a risk when he is unlucky.
blaming the gambling party is just a very silly attempt when we buy pleasure from what has been provided but when we lose we blame the casino and for me that is very silly.

It all matters about acceptance and something that do talks about realistic approach towards gambling then there should really be no problems on which it would
really be that a common thing that people would be thinking about becoming that rich with gambling on the sense that it could give out that kind of probability on hitting up those higher
chances or odds that will really be possibly that bring you up into a situation or condition that you might be getting rich. Yes, its possible but its not something that too easy to hit on,
odds or chance are close to impossible and this is why it would be better that you should be not delusional on that aspect.

When you do lose then its a common behavior for most people who do really love on pointing out the blame into something whether into the site itself or into those people
around or to those who had been recommending on doing so. This is why it would be best that you should really be that having that self control on time such as this.

[irhact]

People who blame others after losing a bet of gambling know that there is no way to get their money by blaming. But some gamblers habitually do these things. They think that losing bet and  blame others and maybe their loss is not because of their own failure but because of others. And this act they probably console themselves. But a gambler should never such blame. He takes his own risk with his own money and neither gives nor accepts the share of winning or defeat. A gambler should understand these things well before gambling.

Some individuals are used to blaming others when they lose as they don't want to take responsibility for their actions. They blame others so they won't feel guilty about what happened that made them to lose money when gambling. Blaming others for your losses is a waste of time, when you blame them the money won't come back and they won't give you back the money and also since you didn't accept the responsibility, you won't learn from that mistake.

If you want to stop losing when gambling then you first have to stop blaming other individuals when you lose your bets. You also should start budgeting your games so you don't over spend when gambling or over gamble from playing too many games and if you were to lose you won't have to lose too many amounts of money that you'll start looking for other individuals to blame so you don't feel guilty.

[dezoel]

Winning and losing can happen when you gamble. Although some have made money, others have been ruined. Personal accountability and making well-informed choices are very important. Nevertheless, addiction and hurt are real issues that need to be addressed by society and need support systems. Knowing both the pros and cons of gaming is very important.

If you are not new in gambling you already know this but there are just gamblers who are bitter about losing. All what they want is to win and earn more money but it's not possible. We need to lose too sometimes so that others can also win. That's a healthy gambling community.

Those who are ruined by gambling are addicted to it. I feel sorry for them but it's not yet the end as long as they are willing to change their situation. If we are playing a game of luck, it's okay if we a aren't making a well-informed choice but we need it or such plan in order to quit on the casino immediately once we achieved our desired winning, so that it won't be returned to the casino anymore.

[Slow death]

today in my country I read a news that said that a young man was sent to withdraw money from the bank, his parents told him to withdraw 200$ (I converted my country's money into American dollars and gave 200$), the son raised the 200$ and he disappeared, he has been missing for 3 days, when his parents reported him missing and the police started investigating, they managed to discover something shocking, the young man took the 200$ and went to play aviator which is a gambling, the parents told the police that that money was to pay their son's school bills, at this moment the son is still missing. It is not known whether he is alive or not. but this is not the first case in my country, in the last 3 months there have been more than 10 cases of suicide involving an aviator game

due to the many cases of suicide involving the aviator game, the police in my country blamed the aviator game, but this is a serious mistake, the aviator game is not to blame, the aviator game does not think, it does not act for itself . and just a computer program. but the police in my country blamed the aviator game, strangely enough, most of the suicide cases involving the aviator game are police officers in my country who borrowed money, played aviator, wrote a letter saying things and committed suicide. So the police in my country, instead of investigating these cases further, just decided to blame the game. By this I mean that people often blame others because they don't want to admit that it's their fault.

[Westinhome]

today in my country I read a news that said that a young man was sent to withdraw money from the bank, his parents told him to withdraw 200$ (I converted my country's money into American dollars and gave 200$), the son raised the 200$ and he disappeared, he has been missing for 3 days, when his parents reported him missing and the police started investigating, they managed to discover something shocking, the young man took the 200$ and went to play aviator which is a gambling, the parents told the police that that money was to pay their son's school bills, at this moment the son is still missing. It is not known whether he is alive or not. but this is not the first case in my country, in the last 3 months there have been more than 10 cases of suicide involving an aviator game

due to the many cases of suicide involving the aviator game, the police in my country blamed the aviator game, but this is a serious mistake, the aviator game is not to blame, the aviator game does not think, it does not act for itself . and just a computer program. but the police in my country blamed the aviator game, strangely enough, most of the suicide cases involving the aviator game are police officers in my country who borrowed money, played aviator, wrote a letter saying things and committed suicide. So the police in my country, instead of investigating these cases further, just decided to blame the game. By this I mean that people often blame others because they don't want to admit that it's their fault.

It’s was shocking to hear this news,because the missing person is the kid.So anything can be happened,because after the loss they may get into the suicide because of the fear.But some ransom also the cause for the missing,we should wait and find the result of the investigation.The money 200$ is not the big money,but by the kids was involved in the Aviator game.They can be followed by some criminal to kidnapping the kids for the ransom.The suicide cause is they had used the school fee to play the Aviator game,the loss is not the wrong one.But the kids committing because of the fear with their parents and their parents reaction for the loss.

[SeriouslyGiveaway]

Anyone who comes to gambling wants to make money from it, regardless of whether it is for entertainment or taking it as a serious job. To participate in a certain game or job, we must understand the rules of the game or the skills related to it. I think gambling is like any other type of job out there, which also requires the necessary skills to get good results. Many people say that this is just a game of red and black, based mainly on luck, it is true that most gambling games are 50/50 but what makes the winners better than the losers is the way they control their emotion, and that is also a skill you need to learn.
Therefore, if you have not determined from the beginning what you need to have, losing is natural, you cannot blame anyone, it is like being fired for not doing a good job. The number of winners in gambling is like the number of rich people in this world, it is small and not for the majority, that is natural and that is the fairness of life.

[Betwrong]

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No matter what you do you will never be able to increase the winning percentage to a more "likely" one because the casino has everything organized behind the scenes, and that means you will only be able to win when you are really lucky, or your winnings depend on how lucky you are at the time of the session if you are involved in a purely lucky type of betting.

I agree with almost everything you say, but, please, don't  say "behind the scenes". It creates an impression that gambling sites are doing something shady, while in fact they don't even need to be dishonest to make their profits. They provide services and take a fee in the form of the house edge, and they doing it openly; no need for cheating, actually.

[Lida93]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.

What irks me more about these seta of people that throws tantrums about how their lives has been ruined and bastardized by gambling is that even in that series of complains they are still into gambling they haven't quit. And I wonder, who is actually ruining who. Because from how I see It it is the person that is actually ruining his life in this one.

It is natural that we quit from any activity, business or relationship that is not favouring us but whereby we still settle in and dishing blames out we are mainly acting stupid because the blame game won't bring any resounding solution but quiting will not only bring you solution but with a peace of mind too.  If you must gamble, then gamble responsibly.

[angrybirdy]

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No matter what you do you will never be able to increase the winning percentage to a more "likely" one because the casino has everything organized behind the scenes, and that means you will only be able to win when you are really lucky, or your winnings depend on how lucky you are at the time of the session if you are involved in a purely lucky type of betting.

I agree with almost everything you say, but, please, don't  say "behind the scenes". It creates an impression that gambling sites are doing something shady, while in fact they don't even need to be dishonest to make their profits. They provide services and take a fee in the form of the house edge, and they doing it openly; no need for cheating, actually.

Actually you have a point but we can't even say if they are really honest with their customers, because there are instances that if you observe, it seems like there is fraud going on, especially the slot machines in a casino house. I'm not sure if it's really just bad luck but it's surprising if every day you play, there are only losses and no wins. Wouldn't you be surprised if that happened to you?

[summonerrk]

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The desire to blame another person for our failures is a normal reaction of our psyche. More precisely, this is the reaction of people with a weak personality, those who did not draw conclusions and did not reflect during their lives. We are the only ones responsible for all the decisions in our lives, and everyone should understand this. For example, if a friend said that you need to bet on a certain number, and then it did not fall out, you should not blame him. After all, we make the final decision ourselves - whether to place a bet or not.

[Hirose UK]

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I agree with almost everything you say, but, please, don't  say "behind the scenes". It creates an impression that gambling sites are doing something shady, while in fact they don't even need to be dishonest to make their profits. They provide services and take a fee in the form of the house edge, and they doing it openly; no need for cheating, actually.

But can't the winning percentage be increased, as in sports betting by predicting using knowledge, skills and experience, so clearly this is an effort to increase the chances of winning.
Moreover, this is only an increase, not guarantee, so that anyone who is gambling will be able to increase their chances of winning depending on how each gambler thinks and their abilities, except in casino games such as slots or roulette, then obviously it is pure luck.
Not all gamblers are stupid and not all gamblers are always just gambling carelessly.

But regarding everything that has been arranged behind the scenes, it is actually not arranged behind the scenes, but in the casino, everything has program that has been designed in secret or in secret.
I believe the way casinos work is random where gambler chances of winning can never beat the casino itself as place that provides variety of games and bets.
Casinos do not cheat but they do business and make money, if gamblers are wise and have responsible mindset they will be able to accept all this even though their only chance of gambling is losing.

[Zigabel]

i actually think that it's okay for a gambler to get emotional if they lose, we don't need to be naive that we are like that sometimes. however, the most important thing is that gamblers don't get too emotional when they are emotional, so that it makes them think irrationally and end up gambling recklessly. gamblers should be able to calm themselves down first and gamble when they have gathered their composure again, then they can gamble again.

It's actually fine to really get emotional when you loose a game but then it's also not healthy when you allow it linger enough to get a greater part of you, that will make you start thinking in unhealthy directions and want to do things that are not good for your gambling habit, and may likely cost you some money such that if you are not disciplined enough you may actually get bankrupt from the extra money you will be further spending gambling. After every loss the gambler should learn to further control their selves not to be too disturbed by how much they have lost already but to making sure they.

Don't gamble out of emotions as it will not help you at all become good gambler rather it makes you continually gamble recklessly and to your own detriment and never getting to stay profitable gambling .

[Kelvinid]

Well, I hate blaming because as we gamble, it means that we know what we are doing and we are old enough to think if I have to put my bets or not. In fact, we are not forced to do that but we are willing to do that which means, we are already about this and whatever the results are, it seems to be accepted.

Besides, this is gambling and we're not too lucky every day. That is why blaming is not the right thing to do because winning is not just the only expected results but losses as well. Instead of blaming others, better to blame ourselves as we are the ones who decide this.

[milewilda]

i actually think that it's okay for a gambler to get emotional if they lose, we don't need to be naive that we are like that sometimes. however, the most important thing is that gamblers don't get too emotional when they are emotional, so that it makes them think irrationally and end up gambling recklessly. gamblers should be able to calm themselves down first and gamble when they have gathered their composure again, then they can gamble again.

It's actually fine to really get emotional when you loose a game but then it's also not healthy when you allow it linger enough to get a greater part of you, that will make you start thinking in unhealthy directions and want to do things that are not good for your gambling habit, and may likely cost you some money such that if you are not disciplined enough you may actually get bankrupt from the extra money you will be further spending gambling. After every loss the gambler should learn to further control their selves not to be too disturbed by how much they have lost already but to making sure they.

Don't gamble out of emotions as it will not help you at all become good gambler rather it makes you continually gamble recklessly and to your own detriment and never getting to stay profitable gambling .

It doesnt really make any sense if you are really that trying out to make yourself that pointing out fingers on the losses that you are currently experiencing. It is really that a very common human being behavior
on which you are trying out to make yourself getting comforted with those loses that you do have or simply with those frustrations.Its a common defense mechanisms that you would really be setting up into your mind
and this is why you would really be having those blaming time into those people who are really that getting involved with gambling or someone whose attached you into.

On the time that you do play gambling then it would really be just that right that you should really be that wary about on the things that  you are getting involved into. You wont really be that making yourself
that too much impulsive if you are really just that realistic on the things that you are getting involved with. Sometimes too much expectation or being that too optimistic would really be
leading up with these kind of assumptions that later on would turn out to be disappointments if things havent met.