stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky

[kotajikikox]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

actually it is not only gambling that they are blaming instead everything that they can point fingers is to be blamed , that is how immature most gamblers in the world they cannot just accept the fact that they are stupid loser who tries multiplying their money but when they did not succeed they will blame everyone/everything.

[Betwrong]

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After all gambling is a profit-making activity that stands behind the word "chance or possibility" which means you can be in one of the outcomes at the end of the session between winning or losing, and also gambling is an activity that is always at risk which means however you can never avoid losing and if you lose then it is normal because gambling is not an activity to make money but nothing more than an activity to have fun when you have boring free time. Simply put if you lose it means you are unlucky or vice versa, therefore the act of blaming others for the losses we experience is ridiculous.

Right, if you to blame something for your losses, then blame you luck, blame the stars or whatever, but don't blame other people. It's actually bad for your mental health, blaming the others. You will become unstable and it can affect your day to day life in negative way.

[TopTort777]

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After all gambling is a profit-making activity that stands behind the word "chance or possibility" which means you can be in one of the outcomes at the end of the session between winning or losing, and also gambling is an activity that is always at risk which means however you can never avoid losing and if you lose then it is normal because gambling is not an activity to make money but nothing more than an activity to have fun when you have boring free time. Simply put if you lose it means you are unlucky or vice versa, therefore the act of blaming others for the losses we experience is ridiculous.

Right, if you to blame something for your losses, then blame you luck, blame the stars or whatever, but don't blame other people. It's actually bad for your mental health, blaming the others. You will become unstable and it can affect your day to day life in negative way.

Can I blame your nickname ? I lose only when I place wrong bets, bet wrong, Betwrong

People were always blaming others and will continue to do that because a person must have huge balls to admit that he was wrong. Besides, people are mentally focus on the win only. Losing is not an option, and when they lose, there must be a reason for that. Reason in someone or something, but not in themselves. Futhermore, people are lazy to think about consequences that lead to a loss. Easier  and quicker is to blame, then to think.

[Rampagoe004]

I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

It should be like that. But as you know, most gamblers never really think about the consequences that will happen to them when gambling. I agree with the OP that there are some gamblers who can win at gambling and open a business. But look how many gamblers there are like that? How many gamblers think carefully and understand the risks when gambling? I have several friends who are in debt and destroying themselves because of their gambling addiction. But I also have friends who are wise gamblers who gamble just for fun. Unfortunately, I don't have any friends who are successful from gambling and can open a business.

[Webetcoins]

Its just the attitude of people is so harsh towards their acceptance on their loses since they usually find people to blame and they didn't take the full accountability on the action they done. That's why its hard to celebrate a win together with this people who have this attitude since when they lose they point the blame on us around them since they maybe say that he's out of focus because we are disturbance on his side. I encounter a lot of people like this that's why I usually avoid them.

We should not really blame people towards what we experience since at the end we are the one who held accountable on all actions we do.

Well, that's what happened all along. They easily blame other people for what they get from gambling. They say that this is because other people do not agree with them.

We will not be able to change their attitude like that. They will just be like that and will continue to blame the people around them if they lose. Just leave them like that and we should avoid them. I also avoid people like that just because I don't want to be blamed by them.

They should immediately realize what they are doing. Otherwise, they will lose out on what they do. No one would want to be around them if only to be blamed.

If all they got is a loss, yeah but if it's a win, I don't think it is called blaming but more like thanking them because they think they are responsible for their win but there are some who don't act like that. Each people has their own rights and some people are not into gambling, so they can't just force these people to agree with them if they ask them.

There might still be a chance for these blamer gambler to change, most especially if we talk about their problem and suggest them things that they can do about it. They need a help, so we should not avoid them even though it can be hard for us at first, if we are not used to being blamed.

[Betwrong]

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Can I blame your nickname ? I lose only when I place wrong bets, bet wrong, Betwrong

People were always blaming others and will continue to do that because a person must have huge balls to admit that he was wrong. Besides, people are mentally focus on the win only. Losing is not an option, and when they lose, there must be a reason for that. Reason in someone or something, but not in themselves. Futhermore, people are lazy to think about consequences that lead to a loss. Easier  and quicker is to blame, then to think.

And hence the nickname. Always assume are betting wrong, be ready for that, be ready to lose your bet. Enjoy the game, not the potential win. And then maybe, if Lady Luck will smile at you, you can win. But don't count on that.

It is a truth universally acknowledged, that blaming others for our losses is a bad practice. We all know that, but we forget about it sometimes.

[angrybirdy]

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Can I blame your nickname ? I lose only when I place wrong bets, bet wrong, Betwrong

People were always blaming others and will continue to do that because a person must have huge balls to admit that he was wrong. Besides, people are mentally focus on the win only. Losing is not an option, and when they lose, there must be a reason for that. Reason in someone or something, but not in themselves. Futhermore, people are lazy to think about consequences that lead to a loss. Easier  and quicker is to blame, then to think.

And hence the nickname. Always assume are betting wrong, be ready for that, be ready to lose your bet. Enjoy the game, not the potential win. And then maybe, if Lady Luck will smile at you, you can win. But don't count on that.

It is a truth universally acknowledged, that blaming others for our losses is a bad practice. We all know that, but we forget about it sometimes.

Blaming others is not a good practice of being a gambler, you need to be accountable on your own deeds because no one force you to do that in the first place. Blaming others while you already know that you were the one who failed and you were the one who didn't follow your own rules, you became rash in your actions without knowing what the consequences would be is just a reflection of being an irresponsible gambler for me, you can't admit to yourself the mistakes you made.

[lixer]

Its just the attitude of people is so harsh towards their acceptance on their loses since they usually find people to blame and they didn't take the full accountability on the action they done. That's why its hard to celebrate a win together with this people who have this attitude since when they lose they point the blame on us around them since they maybe say that he's out of focus because we are disturbance on his side. I encounter a lot of people like this that's why I usually avoid them.

We should not really blame people towards what we experience since at the end we are the one who held accountable on all actions we do.

That is basically human nature, not everyone is like that of course but there are many people who are like that of course. This is why I believe that we should be careful with what we are doing, and try to not hurt anyone else.

The most common one is towards casinos, most people think that they were scammed because the casino is rigged, but the reality is that casinos ARE rigged, with house edge, a legal way that they let you know before you even start gambling. That house edge literally means you will lose, and people are still shocked that they lose, what did they expected? In the end, let them say whatever they want to say when they lose, there is really nothing to do and we should be considering this as normal.

[arimamib]

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And hence the nickname. Always assume are betting wrong, be ready for that, be ready to lose your bet. Enjoy the game, not the potential win. And then maybe, if Lady Luck will smile at you, you can win. But don't count on that.

It is a truth universally acknowledged, that blaming others for our losses is a bad practice. We all know that, but we forget about it sometimes.

Blaming others is not a good practice of being a gambler, you need to be accountable on your own deeds because no one force you to do that in the first place. Blaming others while you already know that you were the one who failed and you were the one who didn't follow your own rules, you became rash in your actions without knowing what the consequences would be is just a reflection of being an irresponsible gambler for me, you can't admit to yourself the mistakes you made.

Gambling is a big risky activity that need big mentality to take responsibility for the actions. Engaging in gambling is conscious choices. Blaming others takes away from that ownership of choice and prevents learning from mistakes. Responsible gamblers analyze their actions that have opportunity to identify what went wrong and how to avoid it next time. Recognizing mistakes is a sign of strength, not weakness. It allows you to adjust your behavior and make better choices in the future.

Gambling can be tough, but you're in control. Taking responsibility for actions is a powerful tool to have a right mindset on how to have good experience in gambling. Gamblers need to apply some strategies to stick on limits of money and time. Having excuse and blaming others are anxiety that could keep haunting in mind. that is not a healthy situation to have.

[betswift]

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And hence the nickname. Always assume are betting wrong, be ready for that, be ready to lose your bet. Enjoy the game, not the potential win. And then maybe, if Lady Luck will smile at you, you can win. But don't count on that.

It is a truth universally acknowledged, that blaming others for our losses is a bad practice. We all know that, but we forget about it sometimes.

Blaming others is not a good practice of being a gambler, you need to be accountable on your own deeds because no one force you to do that in the first place. Blaming others while you already know that you were the one who failed and you were the one who didn't follow your own rules, you became rash in your actions without knowing what the consequences would be is just a reflection of being an irresponsible gambler for me, you can't admit to yourself the mistakes you made.

Gambling is a big risky activity that need big mentality to take responsibility for the actions. Engaging in gambling is conscious choices. Blaming others takes away from that ownership of choice and prevents learning from mistakes. Responsible gamblers analyze their actions that have opportunity to identify what went wrong and how to avoid it next time. Recognizing mistakes is a sign of strength, not weakness. It allows you to adjust your behavior and make better choices in the future.

Gambling can be tough, but you're in control. Taking responsibility for actions is a powerful tool to have a right mindset on how to have good experience in gambling. Gamblers need to apply some strategies to stick on limits of money and time. Having excuse and blaming others are anxiety that could keep haunting in mind. that is not a healthy situation to have.

Gambling is indeed a realm where personal responsibility and mindset play crucial roles. Acknowledging that each bet, win, or loss is a result of one’s own decisions is crucial. It’s easy to place blame elsewhere, but true growth and enjoyment in gambling come from owning our choices.
In essence, the journey to being a responsible gambler is about embracing accountability, learning from our experiences, and continuously striving to make informed, conscious choices. It’s a mindset that not only applies to gambling but to many aspects of life, fostering a sense of empowerment and resilience.

[TheUltraElite]

The choice to gamble is of the gambler itself. So anybody to blame in themselves. Now it is a common human defense mechanism to shift the blame on another person or object or concept. The moment a gambler realizes this, they will understand their mistake and stop gambling, which does not happen and they continue blaming others.

It is a vicious cycle and but it can be controlled right at the early stage with professional help. Luck does not come with superstition, it comes on its own and in gambling luck will only favor the casino and not the player.

[piebeyb]

The choice to gamble is of the gambler itself. So anybody to blame in themselves. Now it is a common human defense mechanism to shift the blame on another person or object or concept. The moment a gambler realizes this, they will understand their mistake and stop gambling, which does not happen and they continue blaming others.

It is a vicious cycle and but it can be controlled right at the early stage with professional help. Luck does not come with superstition, it comes on its own and in gambling luck will only favor the casino and not the player.

That's why every gambler must be responsible, which means being responsible for their decision to gamble, everyone has the choice to gamble or not, if they want to gamble they should understand all the risks because gambling is not only about winning but also the risk of losing too. That's why gamblers often make unnecessary mistakes when gambling because most of them don't understand the risks, they only know how to gamble and think they'll win, but when they lose they blame other people, not themselves.

Every gambler has the choice not to gamble and stop gambling because in life there is always a choice to choose one of them, following greedy behavior and being in a vicious circle are things that we are used to hearing about for gamblers, that's why every gambler must be able to control himself so that don't overdo it and get addicted to gambling, let alone making unnecessary mistakes, as a gambler you should also know that the dealer will always win and the gambler will always lose, that's something we've heard all along so don't gamble too much because the results are useless. , unless there is fun in it, the story will be different.

[knowngunman]

Can I blame your nickname ? I lose only when I place wrong bets, bet wrong, Betwrong

People were always blaming others and will continue to do that because a person must have huge balls to admit that he was wrong. Besides, people are mentally focus on the win only. Losing is not an option, and when they lose, there must be a reason for that. Reason in someone or something, but not in themselves. Futhermore, people are lazy to think about consequences that lead to a loss. Easier  and quicker is to blame, then to think.

Does blaming bring back the lost money? Absolutely no!

It's normal for humans to blame someone for their misfortunes not only in gambling but in every aspect of our lives. It's actually very hard for people to accept responsibility for their wrong decisions. Losing money makes some people to lose their mind as well since they are not gambling for fun and they end up blaming either the casinos or others around them for their loss. What they failed to understand is lose is usually accompanied with a bad luck as a result of bad decisions you made. I know every lose is due to one reason or another but you make the decision that lead to it and should take full responsibility. It's hard but we have to deal with it. We must learn to separate emotions from decision making processes because emotion is the number one reason for making irrational decisions.

[entertheabyss]

The choice to gamble is of the gambler itself. So anybody to blame in themselves. Now it is a common human defense mechanism to shift the blame on another person or object or concept. The moment a gambler realizes this, they will understand their mistake and stop gambling, which does not happen and they continue blaming others.

It is a vicious cycle and but it can be controlled right at the early stage with professional help. Luck does not come with superstition, it comes on its own and in gambling luck will only favor the casino and not the player.

We become lucky and ready to have one of the flowing sites that generated huge earnings for us because we've been through a whole lot lately. We should always take to heart that there's only two solid outcomes that will be experienced each time we gamble, it's either you're on the winning team or losing end, that makes sense to everyone in the system. We gamble because we're after the money that comes our way and that's usually one of the terrible aspects of gambling.

[michellee]

If all they got is a loss, yeah but if it's a win, I don't think it is called blaming but more like thanking them because they think they are responsible for their win but there are some who don't act like that. Each people has their own rights and some people are not into gambling, so they can't just force these people to agree with them if they ask them.

There might still be a chance for these blamer gambler to change, most especially if we talk about their problem and suggest them things that they can do about it. They need a help, so we should not avoid them even though it can be hard for us at first, if we are not used to being blamed.

People who win will not blame others around them. But when they lose, they start blaming others and cannot accept their defeat. Some people still make that mistake.

If they still blame other people, they should immediately stop gambling. They will indirectly trigger arguments with other people. If they meet someone with a tough temper, they will immediately fight because that person doesn't want to be blamed for someone else's defeat.

That's why if we see people gambling, we don't need to get too close to them. We don't know what will happen next, so we have to look at the situation first to avoid any trouble.

[Blitzboy]

Can I blame your nickname ? I lose only when I place wrong bets, bet wrong, Betwrong

People were always blaming others and will continue to do that because a person must have huge balls to admit that he was wrong. Besides, people are mentally focus on the win only. Losing is not an option, and when they lose, there must be a reason for that. Reason in someone or something, but not in themselves. Futhermore, people are lazy to think about consequences that lead to a loss. Easier  and quicker is to blame, then to think.

Does blaming bring back the lost money? Absolutely no!

It's normal for humans to blame someone for their misfortunes not only in gambling but in every aspect of our lives. It's actually very hard for people to accept responsibility for their wrong decisions. Losing money makes some people to lose their mind as well since they are not gambling for fun and they end up blaming either the casinos or others around them for their loss. What they failed to understand is lose is usually accompanied with a bad luck as a result of bad decisions you made. I know every lose is due to one reason or another but you make the decision that lead to it and should take full responsibility. It's hard but we have to deal with it. We must learn to separate emotions from decision making processes because emotion is the number one reason for making irrational decisions.

Blaming others won't get the money back, right? People naturally escape accountability when things go wrong. As emotions run high in gambling, the blame game intensifies. Losing is almost always due to choices, often bad ones. I know it hurts, but that's life.

Emotions cloud judgment. It's life, not gambling. Accepting their orders? A disaster risk.  The finest gamblers and people learn from their mistakes. No complaints. Players take risks, but the brightest bet wisely. They set limits, experience the thrill, then leave when done. You win at the tables and in life by playing that way, my friends.

[AnonBitCoiner]

Right, if you to blame something for your losses, then blame you luck, blame the stars or whatever, but don't blame other people. It's actually bad for your mental health, blaming the others. You will become unstable and it can affect your day to day life in negative way.

I think no one should blame gambling because everyone knows that gambling is risky and due to gambling many people are lossing their money therefore it is necessary that don't step towards risky or useless fields that waste your whole money but never give you profit and satisfaction.

People know everything but they don't accept their fault and put all blame on the field but I think that gambling does not force you to loss your money but its you that don't think positively and just work according to your greed.

[Frankolala]

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After all gambling is a profit-making activity that stands behind the word "chance or possibility" which means you can be in one of the outcomes at the end of the session between winning or losing, and also gambling is an activity that is always at risk which means however you can never avoid losing and if you lose then it is normal because gambling is not an activity to make money but nothing more than an activity to have fun when you have boring free time. Simply put if you lose it means you are unlucky or vice versa, therefore the act of blaming others for the losses we experience is ridiculous.

Right, if you to blame something for your losses, then blame you luck, blame the stars or whatever, but don't blame other people. It's actually bad for your mental health, blaming the others. You will become unstable and it can affect your day to day life in negative way.

The fact is that people who put the blame of the outcome of their action on others, will not learn to prevent such action in future. This is because, they will fail to understand that what they did was the wrong move, because they believed that it was someone that led them wrongly. Instead of blaming themselves for their own actions, this is why they will keep on blaming people for their losses.

It is a very bad habit, because even in addiction, they will blame gamble for that, when they gamble for profit and fail to understand that gamble is not a means of making money, they will blame whoever introduced them to gamble. This is why I don't like telling anyone that I gamble apart from my close friends that we gamble together. To avoid any blame on me.

[Iroh]

Yesterday was a day like those with Real Madrid playing like a lower league team in the Champions League and presented a very bad way of playing football.They were lucky to even get past this elimination leg as they were nearly beaten at home yesterday when Leipzig hit the post in the last minute of the game.

Therefore sometimes gambling is to blame as no one expected yesterday Real to be playing that bad and not being able to win their game.

Gambling is an activity and you can’t really fault an activity for someone having either a positive out a negative outcome from indulging in it. You can’t blame gambling for whatever outcome that you get. You partook willingly in the activity and should be responsible enough to accept whatever outcome that comes out of it with a brave face.

Gambling is never to be faulted as being responsible for our losses as we aren’t forced to partake in the activity. Why blame something or someone else for the outcome of an activity we willingly indulged in while being fully aware of how the outcome could go either way.

[Zigabel]

It should be like that. But as you know, most gamblers never really think about the consequences that will happen to them when gambling. I agree with the OP that there are some gamblers who can win at gambling and open a business. But look how many gamblers there are like that? How many gamblers think carefully and understand the risks when gambling? I have several friends who are in debt and destroying themselves because of their gambling addiction. But I also have friends who are wise gamblers who gamble just for fun. Unfortunately, I don't have any friends who are successful from gambling and can open a business.

Actually it's very rare to see someone who has successfully gambled and were able to make good money off gambling enough to start up a business because gambling is usually a thing that has got to do with luck most of the times and just a few times people actually get lucky enough to win huge sums and then for the wise ones they will be able to set up a business and aswell do other things which will actually appear like a wise use of the funds and actually make good use of it to the point they get to make good money off the business they have set up from the funds they were able bro get gambling, sometimes even such records comes with a whole lot of been able to have successfully gambled in a very responsible manner.

It's actually really rare to be able to gamble and make money of gambling responsibly and that's why a few ends up becoming addicts because they never get to realize that they can only make fun of gambling and only a few times they are lucky they would be able to make huge money off it.