stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky

[Dewi Aries]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

Winning while gambling is just depends on the probability so we never know when we will win and when we will lose, gambling can indeed give money that can change life into a fortune but it doesn't mean one who gambles should aim for that because it is an incident that is totally unpredictable and happen rarely than a loss so just understand the fact if you bet 100 bets in luck based game then you may win 10 bets and loss 90 bets or it can be totally other way that is why we call its game of luck.

Blaming the form you are doing even when you know these facts, then its wrong or you are just ignorant about gambling and still chose to do it which is also wrong.

More precisely, there is absolutely no certainty whatsoever that can guarantee your victory at the end of the session, of course the result at the end of the session is always about two things, namely winning and losing, if you want to win then of course you have to be really lucky but the problem is whoever will never know when they will be lucky because luck always cannot be predicted when it will come and when it will go, and this is the reason why it is highly recommended for anyone not to put hope or even chase victory in gambling because it is too unreasonable unless occasional wins.

On the other hand, yes, you have explained the scenario that if we push too hard to win, it means that there will be a lot of trials and the lack of certainty in gambling will make us experience more losses than wins because it is impossible to get lucky. streak. Therefore, becoming a responsible gambler is more recommended. You can become a responsible gambler if you are basically able to understand the real concept of how gambling works.

[Rabata]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

Although for some people gambling indeed has given the capital to start whatever business they want to do and for others the money they could live from during the rest of their lives, no one should count on the same fate. We should be aware that it's possible and may hope that it will happen to us too, but we must know the probability of us losing is slightly higher than that of winning. And then later, if we lose, we shouldn't blame anyone but ourselves, because we knew that that was the most probable outcome.

Its a good site for a gambler if he doesn't always imagine himself in terms of winning. Because a common complaint among gamblers is that they lose. Gamblers who can embrace the humanity of losing can manage to gamble successfully in the long run. A gambler who takes losing easily can never blame gambling. They rather try to find their faults there. Gambling involves winning and losing. Most of the time the losses will outnumber the wins. I think that simply accepting this defeat will reduce such type of blaming attitude.

[Cryptoprincess101]

I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong?

Yeah, every one is believed to know the good and bad side of whatever decision they want to take in life and in gambling you're entitled to any decisions you want to take because it's your money and you work for it so you can choose whichever way you want to go about it no problem but a situation where you know the complexity of your job and to be spending it on gambling even when you don't win is a very bad habit because if you truly know what you're passing through before you receive your salary i believe you wouldn't be happy to be wasting money just because you are desperate of winning.

 A gambler needs to understand that gambling is associated with risk and winning is by luck not by force so a situation where one can't actually control their gambling habits then what ever consequences that comes along with it you would have only but yourself to blame and moreover, you have been advised but yet you choose to give a deaf ear so you should be ready to bear the brunt alone when the consequences arises.

[uneng]

I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong?

Rationally, that would be the right thing to do before making every decisions in life, however, the reality is different, because many people act by impulses and momentary desires they feel on the present moment, without measuring the potential consequences of their acts. These are considered irresponsible, immature, unstable individuals who will always find someone to guilt for their own personal mistakes, so they never feel bad about themselves.

And it's even more common among the new generations who don't accept following rules, traditions and want to do everything on their own way, consequently failing in the end, because they didn't listen to wiser old people who are more experienced in life and have already passed through many ways the youngs are knowing only now for the first time. Even worse is the fact these generations are arrogant, so they never apologize and admit their mistakes, causing the "blame game" you mentioned in your post.

Now you might ask, is there a solution for this social problem? I think at some point life teaches these people how to behave in a decent manner towards their pairs, accepting their responsabilities and consequences for their own acts. Although while they don't get conscious about it, the tendency is that things keep getting worse in their lives until they finally learn and improve.

[Woodie]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.

Life indeed isn't balanced!!

Like the famous saying, one man's meat is another man's poison and true to this, gambling has made wins from small amounts and these guys are set for life and for the losing party all I can say is greed is the father of all ruined lives!!!

Otherwise let's all treat gambling to be based on pure luck..more like 1% skill and 99% luck and this will save many of us from depression, denial and revenge gambling!

 Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

Honestly, it's 50/50 for me I have lost big before and won some big tournaments from it and can't really complain...only regret is the 1 BTC prizes I won several several years ago win BTC was under $500 and if I was holding by now would have be laughing all the way to the bank with a new Lambo.

[Pandu Geddon]

I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

I'm sure no gambler doesn't know that they will lose their money. gamblers know the risks and clearly know the chances of winning or losing. but they still decide to bet, so there is nothing to regret about gambling activities.
If the impact of gambling is too bad for a gambler, then it is not the gambling that should be considered bad. This is a game, if you misinterpret it then it is the gambler's fault.
Casinos indeed offer winnings as part of promotions. but the win is still based on luck. so if we are not lucky, then we have to accept defeat.

[bangjoe]

I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

I'm sure no gambler doesn't know that they will lose their money. gamblers know the risks and clearly know the chances of winning or losing. but they still decide to bet, so there is nothing to regret about gambling activities.
If the impact of gambling is too bad for a gambler, then it is not the gambling that should be considered bad. This is a game, if you misinterpret it then it is the gambler's fault.
Casinos indeed offer winnings as part of promotions. but the win is still based on luck. so if we are not lucky, then we have to accept defeat.

Indeed, if seen from this point of view, when someone understands the game of gambling, there should be nothing to regret and must accept that they are indeed unlucky, but why are there always so many people who complain and regret the gambling they have done even before they knew? that winning and losing are certain in gambling.

among them are making wrong decisions, using money they cannot afford to lose and playing with ambition to win which makes a person forget what he knew about gambling and games before he decided to play.

[Jaycoinz]

You would be surprised how things work actually, in this life of ours there are certain things that we all ought to know that is good but at the same time we still fail to do them reason being centered on the fact that we fail to reason that particular actions at the very climax of things and tend to do the one that might end us all on regrets and this is the funny part we all still others to blame when this happens, it's just a common thing for everyone.

[Hanadawa]

"Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

Firstly, gambling is not an investment. It's a game where you will lose and win. Investment is you putting your money in places/items that can make your money continue to make money. And you can't say you invest in gambling games.

Secondly, you say they should have considered the consequences. Some gamblers I know think they can make money from gambling and get rich quickly. Get rich instantly. They are willing to spend their money just to bet in the hope of getting the jackpot. So in my opinion most gamblers don't understand and can think carefully about what they are doing.

[Youngkhngdiddy]

Firstly, gambling is not an investment. It's a game where you will lose and win. Investment is you putting your money in places/items that can make your money continue to make money. And you can't say you invest in gambling games.

Secondly, you say they should have considered the consequences. Some gamblers I know think they can make money from gambling and get rich quickly. Get rich instantly. They are willing to spend their money just to bet in the hope of getting the jackpot. So in my opinion most gamblers don't understand and can think carefully about what they are doing.

I get your point @Hanadawa however in my statement I wasn't tagging gambling as a form of investment, but rather making a comparison for those that take it as a form of investment, if you research deep you'll understand that they both involve committing a certain capital with expectations of making profits, although gambling is more riskier cause once the event you bet of ends the gambler stands a chance of making profits or loosing completely based on their decision on the event. While stock investment can be very rewarding over time interval, however it's not totally risk free just that gambling is more riskier.
 If you really care about those bettors, you should atleast try to convince them to decist from seeing gambling as a quicker means of getting money, it's not a get rich quick or ponzi scheme but should rather should be seen as a means of entertainment that could fetch them a fortune maybe out of luck or good gambling skills. If they got the skills, fine good for them but if not they should decist from the act and apply the risk managements of gambling.

[Gozie51]

It is normal human nature to always try to shift blame when something doesn't go as intended or planned and same thing applies when it comes to gambling. Many a time, when some gamblers lose stakes they end up attributing blame in one way or the other however it is of no use. More experienced gamblers in same situation also feel the pain of losing but accept the fact that they lost.
Refusing to accept the fact that one lost a stake based on your personal decision can cause such person to possibly make mistakes in their next stake making them to lose.

You have classified two kinds of gamblers regarding how they treat their gambling loses, that is the class that admit that they take lost and hope for another day and the class that they shouldn't have made the mistake to lose. So this last set of class are the one that will lose more because they will continue trying and keep blaming themselves for the loses hence will want to try again and vow to themselves not to make sure mistake again but failing to understand that it is not just working for them to win on such days. Those who lose and walk away get properly prepared to win at the next trier.

[Yatsan]

Frustrations, of course. Maybe it is the gambler's way to ease it by blaming or displacing the negative feeling from losing to the game itself. Everyone's aware thaat there's a tendency for us to lose our bet but why do we sometimes, if not often, tends to transfer the hate? Simply because we regret things and that we want to release our emotions and feelings of desperation. Unfortunately, it will just continue like a cycle and you will never learn from it unless you accept losing and to not bet that much next time. For sure, if the amount you lost is tolerable, you won't be in such situation because things will still be fine especialy with your finances. We just have no full control of our luck, therefore being preventive of extensive loss is a must to avoid regret afterwards.

I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

I'm sure no gambler doesn't know that they will lose their money. gamblers know the risks and clearly know the chances of winning or losing. but they still decide to bet, so there is nothing to regret about gambling activities.
If the impact of gambling is too bad for a gambler, then it is not the gambling that should be considered bad. This is a game, if you misinterpret it then it is the gambler's fault.
Casinos indeed offer winnings as part of promotions. but the win is still based on luck. so if we are not lucky, then we have to accept defeat.

If anyone forced you to gamble, then he/she is the one to be blamed. Are there any? for sure no other than ourselves took the initiative to do so. Other than acceptance with unwanted outcomes, there's no other thing to do. No one is to blame even yourself; you just have to accept that things do happen in gaambling, both desired and unwanted consequences. If you know to yourself that you cannot handle the stress this activity is giving on your end, then you better quit to save yourself from those negative reactions. Gambling is open to anybody of legal age but a good future won't be for everyone just because they wanted it.

[madnessteat]

"Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

Firstly, gambling is not an investment. It's a game where you will lose and win. Investment is you putting your money in places/items that can make your money continue to make money. And you can't say you invest in gambling games.

Secondly, you say they should have considered the consequences. Some gamblers I know think they can make money from gambling and get rich quickly. Get rich instantly. They are willing to spend their money just to bet in the hope of getting the jackpot. So in my opinion most gamblers don't understand and can think carefully about what they are doing.

You're right - most gamblers are naive people who dream of making a big score and change their lives in an instant. Except that they do not want to realize that it will not be possible to do this for everyone. Although on the other hand I somewhat understand their naivety, because having in your pocket $100, you can find a dream. Let it be temporary, but it warms the soul and heart, which is often lacking in people. The only thing is that this dream can also be quickly shattered when your account runs out of money.

[Justbillywitt]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

People who usually paint gambling as bad simply because they have been unlucky are immature. Gambling is a two way thing, it's either you win or you lose. There is no gambler that has not lost money at one point or the other so have they also won certain amount of money. If you think gambling is not for you then quit and let those who are ready to gamble responsible continue. Many times gambling has given me big winnings when I least expected.

[Mahanton]

"Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

Firstly, gambling is not an investment. It's a game where you will lose and win. Investment is you putting your money in places/items that can make your money continue to make money. And you can't say you invest in gambling games.

Secondly, you say they should have considered the consequences. Some gamblers I know think they can make money from gambling and get rich quickly. Get rich instantly. They are willing to spend their money just to bet in the hope of getting the jackpot. So in my opinion most gamblers don't understand and can think carefully about what they are doing.

These are the primary things that you should make yourself that realize that gambling isnt something that you could really be able to treat it up as an investment but rather it is really just that good for leisure things.
Risk is high and you should really that having that kind of realization in the first place on which you would really be needing up for you to know that gambling is really just that for the sake of fun and not for making money.
Tendency or chances of losing is really that very high and if you are someone who do keep pushing your luck then you would really be having those odds on losing up more rather than on making yourself making some profits.
For those who do really love to blame then yes its really that common behavior of someone but its not really that right at all. You are the ones who have decided on taking some gambling and not others
on which you are really that doing it on your own free will on which blaming someone is really just that useless nor really be able to take back those things that are currently happening.

[Findingnemo]

On the other hand, yes, you have explained the scenario that if we push too hard to win, it means that there will be a lot of trials and the lack of certainty in gambling will make us experience more losses than wins because it is impossible to get lucky. streak. Therefore, becoming a responsible gambler is more recommended. You can become a responsible gambler if you are basically able to understand the real concept of how gambling works.

Theoretically, on an average one can have fewer wins than their lose but it just depends on the luck factor of an individual but myself who is know what amount of luck I had when I attempt to change the fortune of life with something little, it just ended up as nothing and I am okay with it because I didn't expect it to happen, I just wish if it happen then I would be happy but even when it didn't I have nothing to lose cause I did what will be the most expected outcome.

[Marykeller]

Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do.

The time gambling can be seen as a dangerous thing is on the ground that people are found addicted to it by spending more than they bargained for, allowing gambling to control their lives, which will lead them to live a reckless life. That's how I sense why some people view gambling as a dangerous thing to humans.

Those who sense it to be that way, are judging gambling because of how some people engage in it wrongly by not having fun in it, betting on what they can't afford to lose, and also gambling with the mindset of being rich out of gambling.

Putting this into consideration, when you see people who partake in gambling with the wrong mindset, you can view it as a dangerous thing without knowing that those who engage in It in such a manner are to be blamed for it

[rahmad2nd]

So it's like this Dude, basically we can't forbid someone from making their posts according to what they want.  especially, related to the defeat he suffered. Several members of the community want to share their complaints, or some experiences related to their problems. and in fact, there is nothing wrong with all that. most importantly, no rules were violated. conversely, so do the people who post their wins. All of this is their right, although it is not uncommon for some to want to show off and many also share their experiences with their wins. We here, on the gambling discussion board, can discuss anything, especially gambling. there are those who complain, there are those who are happy with their winnings, there are those who share tips, there are those who want to get rid of their addiction and many other things. What is certain is that you cannot forbid someone from doing what they want, especially if it does not violate existing regulations.

Including you, who made the post in this thread. Maybe you are a little uncomfortable, with so many people screaming about how their gambling has ruined their lives. but in fact, they still make posts on gambling discussion boards. Well, if there are those who still view gambling as a very dangerous thing as you said. In fact, you will not be able to force our different mindsets regarding gambling. So, it's a normal part of the dynamics that occur especially in our community. Most importantly, you can make threads according to what you want, even more useful. or, you just stop by the thread you like. the rest, ignore. yeah, it's that simple Dude. one more thing, gamble while you enjoy it. stop, if it is no longer interesting and enjoyable.

[|MINER|]

That is true every time when ever we do gambling we always have to keep one things in our head and mind that gambling is all about luck it fully depend on luck whether you will won or whether you will face losses. So if we lose the gamble then we should take it easy, And we have to agree with that losing are also the part of gambling so before doing gambling we have to set our mind on that way.

[topbitcoin]

Nonsense, they experience a loss in gambling and then they regret it, promising not to repeat the same mistake and to gamble responsibly. But the next day, they returned to betting an unreasonable amount and gambled indefinitely, they only stopped when the money in their household was gone. And if they feel they are still not satisfied with gambling, they will take out a loan or sell their belongings, so they can continue betting. They are really addicted to gambling and are unable to control themselves well when gambling.

And of course it's not the gambling that's wrong, but their own bad assumptions and behavior that often makes them make mistakes, which ultimately leads to losses and other negative impacts. Gambling is just entertainment, which is played for fun, not for profit.

remember that gambling should be considered a responsible form of entertainment and not as a way to deal with financial or emotional problems. Implementing self-control measures can help minimize the risk of error and result in a more positive gambling experience.