To what extent have you hated yourself due to your gambling losses?

[maydna]

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Overall, mistakes are useful lessons. Embracing and learning from them helps us evolve. Indeed, ruminating on past mistakes hinders progress. Instead, knowing what caused these failures helps us make better decisions.

When gambling, this mindset is especially important. Each loss has been sobering but informative. I learnt to like gambling and establish limits. Being in the moment, experiencing the thrill, and understanding when to back off. It maximises delight and minimises losses.

Sharing my experiences helps turn past mistakes into collective wisdom. Why our mistakes can help others, especially in gambling, is fascinating. Acknowledging this can make gambling healthier and more fun. The game is about learning and having fun, not losing.

Experiencing mistakes is a lesson for us so that we can change our lives and correct those mistakes, and it can mean that we are getting something that can help us develop even better. Reflecting on past mistakes is okay, but we shouldn't get caught up in those mistakes so that we can't get up again. However, we must be able to recover from that mistake to fix it.

Regarding gambling, when we experience a mistake, we must be able to learn where the error lies and try to correct it so that we will not experience the same mistake again. This is important to mature our thinking so we can use gambling properly. We have to learn to control ourselves and understand how to use gambling well so that we don't make mistake after mistake.

Yes, we often share our experiences, whether good or bad, so that people can learn from our experiences and they don't have to experience what we experienced. However, we must be able to gain something from other people's experiences or our own so that we can be better at using gambling as entertainment.

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[Gheka]

Hating myself? Never done that when I lose, maybe I regretted my decision but it was never a hate. However, I would just be able to accept it within 24 hours as I don't want it to bother me on my upcoming session in gambling. I made a mistake, I learn from it, that's the only process but sometimes when I go overboard, I need to stop for awhile to evaluate my mistakes and reflect on it.

We are human so we are prone to make mistakes, and since gambling does involve our emotion, it's important that we are not weak, otherwise, we will easily get addicted and it could possibly ruin our life. But let us not allow it will happen to our lives, best thing to do all the time is, learn how to forgive ourselves.

Some people will be liberal and not hate themselves but another part will be frightened by the flawed version of themselves as they indulge in gambling more, like it was a moment where their regrets were voiced and their repentance was expressed but even so, the feeling of disgust should not be maintained, hating more and more only makes us become a more damaged version of ourselves. As you mentioned, it is a lesson and an improvement in personality, each shell of the buggy version will be the maturity of a future version with powerful fixes
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[irhact]

If I often lose when gambling, of course I will be angry and hate why I experienced this, even though what I want is a big win and that will definitely be experienced by other gamblers because what is experienced or felt like this is something that. ordinary and unusual. aimed at gamblers. However, it does not rule out the possibility that I will gamble again, but with the warning that I have to be more careful and still control myself well when I want to gamble and I will use this experience as a lesson for myself.

This behaviour is what makes you a responsible gambler, when you're learning from your mistakes and improving on your behaviour as a gambler you'll soon notice you'll be enjoying yourself when you're gambling. We cannot determine what the outcome of our games are but we shouldn't blame ourselves for every loss that we get and put ourselves into depression. Some losses there's nothing we can do about it as gambling is an activity that can give you profits or loss.

Every gamblers losses sometimes, but it's how we handle this losses is what determined if we're responsible gamblers or not. Some individuals will immediately chase after their losses when they lose but a responsible gambler won't do that but to learn. Regardless of how we hate it when losing don't take your own life as some gamblers do when they lose. To prevent this don't over spend when gambling.

[klidex]

Every gambler who wants to win indeed have great hope and confidence in himself to be able to win a large enough amount of money hoping that luck will come to him even though it is clear that there is no definite belief in winning at gambling because gambling is full of uncertainty. Thinking about risk is the key so that we don't take too much risk so that we avoid being greedy and also have the ambition to win big, let alone hope in gambling because this is just a game full of risk.

Most gamblers who don't accept losing are like that, they try to recover their losses by continuing to gamble even though instead of being able to recover, their losses increase. It is very difficult to recover losses. If you are not careful, your balance can be drained due to chasing losses too much which causes you to become addicted to gambling and Once again, never hate yourself, even though you always lose when gambling, it means you are unlucky. Stopping for a while is like saving yourself from misleading gambling.

It's true that there is no definite belief about winning at gambling. In my opinion, this is something that is still a mystery and will forever be a mystery because no one can guess accurately whether the gambling they do will result in a win. Some gamblers don't think about the risks involved, I mean the risks involved in gambling are often ignored, even though if they could see this side maybe they wouldn't experience big losses.

I think by them recovering the loss it means they can't see the risky side of gambling. also I think when every time they lose gambling they regret it, but the regret is still outweighed by the hope they have of winning big. and in every regretted loss they may hate themselves for not being able to control themselves well. it is true what you said that saving yourself from gambling should be done consciously not to gamble excessively,  because it is not a completely profitable action.

Yep, it's true that gambling is a mysterious thing because no one can win for sure even if they have used any strategy because gambling is a game that has a smaller chance of winning than losing, if you win then it's money from other people's losses. Casino owners create gambling to provide games that are money-based but fun for their users. By considering it as entertainment and managing expenses well, it will not be a big risk for the gamblers themselves.

Yes, some gamblers sometimes ignore the risk of losing so that they only realize it when they start losing quite a lot of money and in the end regret having ignored this risk. Even though they hope that if they win they can recover their losses, gambling winnings are not certain, we don't know how big the winnings are and I don't think it's enough to cover the losses they have experienced so far. So even though they hate themselves because they often experience losses, but still they could not restore the situation to normal.

[ethereumhunter]

Some people will be liberal and not hate themselves but another part will be frightened by the flawed version of themselves as they indulge in gambling more, like it was a moment where their regrets were voiced and their repentance was expressed but even so, the feeling of disgust should not be maintained, hating more and more only makes us become a more damaged version of ourselves. As you mentioned, it is a lesson and an improvement in personality, each shell of the buggy version will be the maturity of a future version with powerful fixes.

If they can learn from their experience or from what they have experienced, it can give them maturity and a mature way of thinking because this is gambling and there will be times when we lose. Losing when playing gambling may be more common than winning, so they must be prepared for the risk of losing their money. If not, they will only hate themselves because they have spent a lot of money but haven't been able to win any money. That's the point of learning self-control and using limits when gambling so that we don't gamble excessively. We must be able to use gambling properly to avoid feeling disappointed, stressed or even frustrated.

[Kakmakr]

I believe this is not strange to regular gamblers. We often joke with each other that once you fall into a streak of bad luck, it will be difficult for you to escape, you will only lose and lose. At that time, you almost just threw money into gambling unconsciously, without thinking about anything else.
I have also experienced this situation many times, I once placed 20 consecutive bets on only one over, but it only came out under, and countless other times were the same, also a bit disappointed about myself, but why only appeared 1 door, when the probability is always 50/50? What I learned later is that you should not stubbornly continue to play when you have had more than 3-5 consecutive losses, stopping and coming back the next day will be a wise choice to escape the losing streak.

I cannot see how... "coming back the next day" ..will improve your luck?

Yes, I think casinos change the RTP, so you might come back the next day and the casino might have flipped the "happy" switch... and you might win 1% more than the previous day. (Slight adjustments)

So it's not your luck that has changed, just the slight adjustment to the RTP. (Some casinos request this from their game providers, but they can do it with their own original games)

Sports betting is a beast on it's own... and it's influenced by 1000s of factors. (Odds/weather/mood/bad intel or data... etc.)

[Hirose UK]

Hated is a strong word, thankfully I never hated myself for gambling, I mean if we are talking about just gambling, otherwise I do end up hating myself everyday lol. But when we are talking about just gambling, I do not gamble all that much to hate myself.

The worst situation was losing just a bit of money, something I really needed that's true, but in grand scheme of things, it wasn't really half of my salary, I have never lost that much, so when you do not lose even half of your monthly income, you lose less than that, it means no matter how much you needed that money, you end up recovering. This was of course like ten years ago or so, which means that it has no valid feelings left about that one anymore. Be careful, bet small.

Hahaha, that good because you never feel regret and whatever the outcome of gambling, even if you lose and lose certain amount of money, it will still make you happy.
An attitude of self-loathing will usually appear when big failure occurs and this is normal condition for anyone to experience.
Many gamblers blame themselves or even blame others for their losses but this is mistake and if it continues it can also have bad impact.
As gambler, you must have a patient attitude to accept everything that happens in gambling and everything can start when the aim of gambling is to have fun.

Whether we have lot or how little monthly income we have, we still have to have limits when we decide to gamble because otherwise it could get out of control and cause us to make careless actions such as increasing the number of bets.
This is not only related to income in one or two months but also in the long term, when gamblers are used to increasing bets then every time they gamble they will definitely do the same thing and this is clearly very detrimental.
If you can accept it, it not problem and what actually happens is that it is still very rare for gamblers to be able to accept any of their losses.

[retreat]

I've never gambled and lost and it's gotten to the point where I hate myself for being so unlucky, even when I'm on a losing streak. Because I thought that it was just gambling, what did I expect from gambling, especially since most of the games I played were slots, so I understood that the percentage of my losses was higher than my wins. So when I'm really unlucky, I usually stop for a while until I can calm down and start playing again.

[hedgeh0g]

I've never gambled and lost and it's gotten to the point where I hate myself for being so unlucky, even when I'm on a losing streak. Because I thought that it was just gambling, what did I expect from gambling, especially since most of the games I played were slots, so I understood that the percentage of my losses was higher than my wins. So when I'm really unlucky, I usually stop for a while until I can calm down and start playing again.

There's really no need to hate ourselves over this, we're just unlucky. We don’t know at what point luck will overtake us and whether it will happen at all. Also, we cannot influence this, so why then experience these negative emotions, we need to be above primitive emotions, and this can only be achieved with reason and calculation. Of course, it is difficult to fight your emotions, I understand, because this is inherent in us by nature and there is nothing wrong with it if we cannot defeat them, but next time, if you lose, try to control it more than before. By hating ourselves, we only slowly destroy ourselves and slide down, and we can also spit it out on the people around us, which will definitely affect our relationship with them. I wouldn’t want this, and I don’t think you would either.

[EarnOnVictor]

Hating myself? Never done that when I lose, maybe I regretted my decision but it was never a hate. However, I would just be able to accept it within 24 hours as I don't want it to bother me on my upcoming session in gambling. I made a mistake, I learn from it, that's the only process but sometimes when I go overboard, I need to stop for awhile to evaluate my mistakes and reflect on it.

We are human so we are prone to make mistakes, and since gambling does involve our emotion, it's important that we are not weak, otherwise, we will easily get addicted and it could possibly ruin our life. But let us not allow it will happen to our lives, best thing to do all the time is, learn how to forgive ourselves.

Some people will be liberal and not hate themselves but another part will be frightened by the flawed version of themselves as they indulge in gambling more, like it was a moment where their regrets were voiced and their repentance was expressed but even so, the feeling of disgust should not be maintained, hating more and more only makes us become a more damaged version of ourselves. As you mentioned, it is a lesson and an improvement in personality, each shell of the buggy version will be the maturity of a future version with powerful fixes
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I don't know the reason why gamblers should hate themselves because of losing if not for the fault of the gambler himself from the beginning. You do not just gamble senselessly, but if you did, then you can blame yourself or even hate yourself if that is what is nice for you to do so that you will not repeat it again. So why not? Gambling rightly has approaches to it, you can't miss it if you follow the right approaches and due process, and you can only miss it if you do otherwise. Missing it entails the fact that the gambler is gambling anyhow, and some will be gambling within gambling itself, which makes it so ill.

Gamblers must have certain gambling styles and approaches, and if these approaches are good enough, they will bring about better gambling results and even pleasant experiences for the gamblers. But in the absence of this, it will be losses and mismanagement of the gambling account, so no gambler should be exonerated in this regard. They must be blamed and they can be bitter with themselves to enforce a change if that is what it takes. All that matters is for them to stop making mistakes and treat gambling as it should be done. Or else, they will continue to lose in their folly.

[zuzie]

If I often lose when gambling, of course I will be angry and hate why I experienced this, even though what I want is a big win and that will definitely be experienced by other gamblers because what is experienced or felt like this is something that. ordinary and unusual. aimed at gamblers. However, it does not rule out the possibility that I will gamble again, but with the warning that I have to be more careful and still control myself well when I want to gamble and I will use this experience as a lesson for myself.

This behaviour is what makes you a responsible gambler, when you're learning from your mistakes and improving on your behaviour as a gambler you'll soon notice you'll be enjoying yourself when you're gambling. We cannot determine what the outcome of our games are but we shouldn't blame ourselves for every loss that we get and put ourselves into depression. Some losses there's nothing we can do about it as gambling is an activity that can give you profits or loss.

Every gamblers losses sometimes, but it's how we handle this losses is what determined if we're responsible gamblers or not. Some individuals will immediately chase after their losses when they lose but a responsible gambler won't do that but to learn. Regardless of how we hate it when losing don't take your own life as some gamblers do when they lose. To prevent this don't over spend when gambling.

With responsible behavior we will be in control when gambling because this behavior is good to carry out in daily activities, especially when gambling responsibly we will also be consistent in playing time and how much money we will spend fairly and not excessively.

Agree, we have to be aware and accept defeat if this happens. We will not chase victory too much by continuing to gamble. Sometimes we also need self-control to perfect it and it is possible that we will not experience big risks from gambling.

[Blitzboy]

Hating myself? Never done that when I lose, maybe I regretted my decision but it was never a hate. However, I would just be able to accept it within 24 hours as I don't want it to bother me on my upcoming session in gambling. I made a mistake, I learn from it, that's the only process but sometimes when I go overboard, I need to stop for awhile to evaluate my mistakes and reflect on it.

We are human so we are prone to make mistakes, and since gambling does involve our emotion, it's important that we are not weak, otherwise, we will easily get addicted and it could possibly ruin our life. But let us not allow it will happen to our lives, best thing to do all the time is, learn how to forgive ourselves.

Some people will be liberal and not hate themselves but another part will be frightened by the flawed version of themselves as they indulge in gambling more, like it was a moment where their regrets were voiced and their repentance was expressed but even so, the feeling of disgust should not be maintained, hating more and more only makes us become a more damaged version of ourselves. As you mentioned, it is a lesson and an improvement in personality, each shell of the buggy version will be the maturity of a future version with powerful fixes
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I don't know the reason why gamblers should hate themselves because of losing if not for the fault of the gambler himself from the beginning. You do not just gamble senselessly, but if you did, then you can blame yourself or even hate yourself if that is what is nice for you to do so that you will not repeat it again. So why not? Gambling rightly has approaches to it, you can't miss it if you follow the right approaches and due process, and you can only miss it if you do otherwise. Missing it entails the fact that the gambler is gambling anyhow, and some will be gambling within gambling itself, which makes it so ill.

Gamblers must have certain gambling styles and approaches, and if these approaches are good enough, they will bring about better gambling results and even pleasant experiences for the gamblers. But in the absence of this, it will be losses and mismanagement of the gambling account, so no gambler should be exonerated in this regard. They must be blamed and they can be bitter with themselves to enforce a change if that is what it takes. All that matters is for them to stop making mistakes and treat gambling as it should be done. Or else, they will continue to lose in their folly.

Accountability is crucial, and reckless gambling is inherently dangerous. I find it unfair to tell them to blame themselves for failing. Isn't it better to learn from mistakes? Im convinced.

I like the idea of "proper" gambling. I support strategy, discipline, and research. These aspects are essential to gambling and life. To never miss the mark is unrealistic. Even with the finest techniques, losses happen. How we handle losses defines our gambling experience and character.

Gambling is fun for me because of the experience, not just the winning. Highs, lows, strategy, suspense. Its life in miniature. I promote a joyful, respectful, and self-forgiving relationship with gambling.

[junder]

Every gambler who wants to win indeed have great hope and confidence in himself to be able to win a large enough amount of money hoping that luck will come to him even though it is clear that there is no definite belief in winning at gambling because gambling is full of uncertainty. Thinking about risk is the key so that we don't take too much risk so that we avoid being greedy and also have the ambition to win big, let alone hope in gambling because this is just a game full of risk.

Most gamblers who don't accept losing are like that, they try to recover their losses by continuing to gamble even though instead of being able to recover, their losses increase. It is very difficult to recover losses. If you are not careful, your balance can be drained due to chasing losses too much which causes you to become addicted to gambling and Once again, never hate yourself, even though you always lose when gambling, it means you are unlucky. Stopping for a while is like saving yourself from misleading gambling.

It's true that there is no definite belief about winning at gambling. In my opinion, this is something that is still a mystery and will forever be a mystery because no one can guess accurately whether the gambling they do will result in a win. Some gamblers don't think about the risks involved, I mean the risks involved in gambling are often ignored, even though if they could see this side maybe they wouldn't experience big losses.

I think by them recovering the loss it means they can't see the risky side of gambling. also I think when every time they lose gambling they regret it, but the regret is still outweighed by the hope they have of winning big. and in every regretted loss they may hate themselves for not being able to control themselves well. it is true what you said that saving yourself from gambling should be done consciously not to gamble excessively,  because it is not a completely profitable action.

Yep, it's true that gambling is a mysterious thing because no one can win for sure even if they have used any strategy because gambling is a game that has a smaller chance of winning than losing, if you win then it's money from other people's losses. Casino owners create gambling to provide games that are money-based but fun for their users. By considering it as entertainment and managing expenses well, it will not be a big risk for the gamblers themselves.

Yes, some gamblers sometimes ignore the risk of losing so that they only realize it when they start losing quite a lot of money and in the end regret having ignored this risk. Even though they hope that if they win they can recover their losses, gambling winnings are not certain, we don't know how big the winnings are and I don't think it's enough to cover the losses they have experienced so far. So even though they hate themselves because they often experience losses, but still they could not restore the situation to normal.

That's right, the chance of winning in gambling is very small, compared to the very big chance of losing. I think many gamblers experience continuous losses because they don't see this side, so they continue to gamble even though they lose and lose. and indeed any strategy cannot ensure that you will win with certainty. If gambling is done well and with good understanding, perhaps the risk of losing large amounts of money will not occur.

and in my opinion, the regret they experience does not necessarily mean they will be able to stop gambling, maybe they will even want to continue gambling because they want to recover the losses that have occurred. and even if they win, I don't think that victory can cover the losses they have incurred. The wins they have obtained will not fully cover the many losses they have experienced. That's right, no matter how much they hate themselves for the defeat that has occurred, it won't change the situation, even if they think about it hard, it won't produce results that can turn things around.

[adzino]

Let me start by asking a question that is not very much different from the topic..

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

I was going through reddit in the early hours of today, and came across a user who lamented bitterly through his post, of how unlucky he has been in gambling in the past few weeks, like almost a month now, he said he bets minimum, twice every day, but have not won a dime for the past weeks, and this made him hate himself so much, I sincerely felt pity for him, for I remember one time I lost a huge sum of money to betting, I felt so bad that I thought of killing myself  .

So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling? To what extent, and how did it end?

Do you still hate yourself even now? 

Lets discuss.

If you had the thought of killing yourself after a loss, then I don't think you should be gambling anymore. No matter how much you are going to say that you "just thought of it, you would never do it", gambling is not safe of you. In fact, it is not normal to think of killing yourself over "some" losses. You didn't harm yourself the last time, but what is stopping you from doing it the next time? You might end up gambling all your savings and everything you have, and then the next step you might want to take is something drastic. Gambling should be all about fun and excitement. It shouldn't be about hating yourself or trying to harm yourself.

[zaim7413]

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

If you are not ready to accept defeat, don't gamble. Very simple right? Generally, gamblers already know what they will face at the end of the game, if they don't win, they will definitely lose. Hating yourself will only add to new problems such as depression and other things that will affect your body and mental health.
Losing is an unfavorable situation for gamblers, this situation is certain and is experienced by many other gamblers. Always use money that is ready to be spent to prevent other things that could harm yourself. Blaming yourself will not return the money you just spent at a gambling place, just accept the reality and start avoiding gambling if you are not ready to accept defeat.

[wiss19]

I've never gambled and lost and it's gotten to the point where I hate myself for being so unlucky, even when I'm on a losing streak. Because I thought that it was just gambling, what did I expect from gambling, especially since most of the games I played were slots, so I understood that the percentage of my losses was higher than my wins. So when I'm really unlucky, I usually stop for a while until I can calm down and start playing again.

It only goes to the point being discussed here for excessive and impulsive gamblers because they don't know when they should stop, so even if they are losing constantly, they still keep going until they reach the point where they exhaust all their accounts and lose everything they had which is when they start hating themselves for doing that, but there is no point in having this hatred because what has been done cannot be undone and you have to live with it now.

This is why everyone needs to think it through before making any decision, especially when it comes to financial decisions because if you make a wrong decision and lose your money on something useless, you will not be able to forget it and you will hate yourself for making that decision when you realize it.

[Oilacris]

I've never gambled and lost and it's gotten to the point where I hate myself for being so unlucky, even when I'm on a losing streak. Because I thought that it was just gambling, what did I expect from gambling, especially since most of the games I played were slots, so I understood that the percentage of my losses was higher than my wins. So when I'm really unlucky, I usually stop for a while until I can calm down and start playing again.

It only goes to the point being discussed here for excessive and impulsive gamblers because they don't know when they should stop, so even if they are losing constantly, they still keep going until they reach the point where they exhaust all their accounts and lose everything they had which is when they start hating themselves for doing that, but there is no point in having this hatred because what has been done cannot be undone and you have to live with it now.

This is why everyone needs to think it through before making any decision, especially when it comes to financial decisions because if you make a wrong decision and lose your money on something useless, you will not be able to forget it and you will hate yourself for making that decision when you realize it.

Fate will really be that depending on the things that you would gonna do on which it would really be that something whether you could really be able to stop for yourself or would really be planning on proceeding on despite of the losing condition that you are really that facing. Not all would really be having that the same mindset or intellect when it comes to things on which there would really be those people who would really be that continuing even on the worst condition or odds.As long they would really be able to follow up on whats up into their mind then they would really be simply sticking with that.Gambling should really be just that for fun and not something that would really be destroying your life, on the time that you would be making yourself that being affected much by it
then this is where issues do really come and would be resulting into disaster.

[lienfaye]

I was going through reddit in the early hours of today, and came across a user who lamented bitterly through his post, of how unlucky he has been in gambling in the past few weeks, like almost a month now, he said he bets minimum, twice every day, but have not won a dime for the past weeks, and this made him hate himself so much, I sincerely felt pity for him, for I remember one time I lost a huge sum of money to betting, I felt so bad that I thought of killing myself  .

So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling? To what extent, and how did it end?

Losing is inevitable in gambling, therefore it must be expected already when you use your money to play. Consistent losses are certainly not funny at all but come to think of it, if you're not happy with what you're doing and it's just giving you stress, making you hate yourself for being so unlucky, do you think it make sense to continuously playing?

In my experience, I also felt the same way when I was a newbie in online gambling and has a high expectation to win. I thought I can double my money in snap and it's not hard. But gambling slap me with the real deal. Thus, if you can't bear losing your money, much better to not play at all.

[Maslate]

I was going through reddit in the early hours of today, and came across a user who lamented bitterly through his post, of how unlucky he has been in gambling in the past few weeks, like almost a month now, he said he bets minimum, twice every day, but have not won a dime for the past weeks, and this made him hate himself so much, I sincerely felt pity for him, for I remember one time I lost a huge sum of money to betting, I felt so bad that I thought of killing myself  .

So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling? To what extent, and how did it end?

Losing is inevitable in gambling, therefore it must be expected already when you use your money to play. Consistent losses are certainly not funny at all but come to think of it, if you're not happy with what you're doing and it's just giving you stress, making you hate yourself for being so unlucky, do you think it make sense to continuously playing?

In my experience, I also felt the same way when I was a newbie in online gambling and has a high expectation to win. I thought I can double my money in snap and it's not hard. But gambling slap me with the real deal. Thus, if you can't bear losing your money, much better to not play at all.

We all know that, unless we don't want to accept the truth that we lose money. Actually, that shouldn't be a huge issue since losing is part of gambling, it has only become a problem when we lose control like gambling more than our budget especially if that money we loss in gambling is already allocated for something more important, that will make us desperate and instead of stopping and try to find money to replace that losses, we tend to try it again in the same venue we lose more than our budget. We call it stupid, but that's how we act sometimes, we just have to accept our mistake and learn from it.

[klidex]

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That's right, the chance of winning in gambling is very small, compared to the very big chance of losing. I think many gamblers experience continuous losses because they don't see this side, so they continue to gamble even though they lose and lose. and indeed any strategy cannot ensure that you will win with certainty. If gambling is done well and with good understanding, perhaps the risk of losing large amounts of money will not occur.

and in my opinion, the regret they experience does not necessarily mean they will be able to stop gambling, maybe they will even want to continue gambling because they want to recover the losses that have occurred. and even if they win, I don't think that victory can cover the losses they have incurred. The wins they have obtained will not fully cover the many losses they have experienced. That's right, no matter how much they hate themselves for the defeat that has occurred, it won't change the situation, even if they think about it hard, it won't produce results that can turn things around.

They realize that they have spent a lot of money and experienced continuous losses and they also continue to gamble, no matter how much they know they have lost a lot. They still don't give up and are even more challenged to continue trying to gamble and wonder whether they can recover their losses or not instead get big profits. Their persistence in trying is indeed very good but that doesn't mean it applies to gambling because if they chase their losses too much they will end up getting trapped in a big hole and no one can save their situation or it could be said that they will get into big problems that they themselves have caused.

Sometimes regret doesn't make someone feel like giving up or stopping because they still believe they can win at gambling no matter what, they will always try continuously until the point they don't have any money and if it's like this I'm sure he will hate himself because he has always been a loser failing in a gambling game in this case can be a lesson that gambling can make you feel mentally down if you can't control yourself.