Gambling addiction causes loss

[Out of mind]

A person addicted to gambling never takes good advice, no matter how much advice is given. I see there is a gambler in my area who stays indoors all day and rarely comes out, so people call him a gambler. He is so addicted to gambling that if he does not gamble every day he may never fulfill his sake, if he is given good advice he never takes the advice of others. Although he is currently in a long period of time, he is still gambling and losing and rarely winning, indicating that he is completely addicted to gambling. So I think if a player becomes addicted to gambling, then he is a loss to a family and society. If a gambler lives in a family, the family slowly goes to ruin because the gambler never thinks about anything good but only about gambling. So if you give good advice to your friend because of this problem, if he doesn't take it then he is going to suffer hugely in future. So it is very difficult to get a gambler back, but if he can be constantly surrounded by friends, he may be able to reduce the addiction a little and get on the right track.

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[leonair]

A person addicted to gambling never takes good advice, no matter how much advice is given. I see there is a gambler in my area who stays indoors all day and rarely comes out, so people call him a gambler. He is so addicted to gambling that if he does not gamble every day he may never fulfill his sake, if he is given good advice he never takes the advice of others. Although he is currently in a long period of time, he is still gambling and losing and rarely winning, indicating that he is completely addicted to gambling. So I think if a player becomes addicted to gambling, then he is a loss to a family and society. If a gambler lives in a family, the family slowly goes to ruin because the gambler never thinks about anything good but only about gambling. So if you give good advice to your friend because of this problem, if he doesn't take it then he is going to suffer hugely in future. So it is very difficult to get a gambler back, but if he can be constantly surrounded by friends, he may be able to reduce the addiction a little and get on the right track.

Yeah who addicted on gambling there beehives like crazy. They are never ready to listen to anyone's advice. They find gambling very easy and always think that they will win huge jackpots from gambling and become rich with that money. And when they lose in gambling, they don't care about it because they think that this loss will be recovered later and besides, they can profit a lot when they win the big jackpot.  With such a plan, they don't hesitate to take decisions like gambling on loans or selling their homes

[Gormicsta]

I had a friend in the gambling circle,he was gambler addicted person over a year.I had advised him many times,but he is not ready to accept my advice in the gambling.Apart from gambling,my friend accept my advice without any hesitation.When I had a time on weekend,I get a chance to meet him in personal.I had some question about his gambling addiction,but the sad part is he is not accepted his gambling addiction towards the gambling site.

He said that he had nearly 64k dollars as a loss in the gambling site.In order to recover that 64k dollars,he keeps on betting from all his economic resources.I had advice him to use only 20 percentage of salary to get away from entire gambling loss.But he is now repeating the same 100 percentage of income from weekly,biweekly and monthly.So he was in the big loan problem.Still he is arranging funds from loan to play gambling,because he think that the recovery was possible at the place where he lost his money.What will be your suggestion for my friend to recover from the gambling addiction.

Your friend's experience is heartbreaking, and it's evident that he's in a terrible situation, but if he's unwilling to seek professional treatment, you may attempt to get him to join a support group such as Gamblers Anonymous. These peer-led organizations use a 12-step approach similar to Alcoholics Anonymous. They are free to join and offer a helpful place for participants to share their stories and work toward overcoming their addiction. Even if your buddy does not wish to join one of these organizations, encourage him to discuss his condition with a trustworthy friend or family member, if not it will affect his relationship with friends and families.

[tygeade]

I think gambling is a controllable addiction because I can control myself, but some people cannot control themselves, like in the example you gave. Your friend seems to be a hopeless case. I don't think the advice you are giving him will have a positive outcome. If I were you, I would try to get professional help after doing everything I could. Professional health organizations that fight against addictions can help you. Specialized psychiatrists or psychologists will surely help your friend. They spend their lives helping people like your friend. We should always trust professionals and science.

but usually addicts think that what they are doing is right and they don't believe what anyone else says other than themselves. usually they will refuse various forms of help, even from professionals, which makes it very difficult to treat gambling addicts. so the initial approach that can be taken to treat the addict is to approach him with empathy and understand what he is feeling. then, after a while of this approach being carried out, professional help is brought in to be able to provide emotional assistance to the addict and at the same time to help him get out of his addiction.

They always think that their luck is just about to turn, even though it doesn't. I get that the idea that they are going to make some profit is always on their mind and I believe that they are almost always wrong but they just keep thinking that way. There is no way that we are going to end up with anything good, it is not going to be profitable for anyone, I just wonder how things are going to go.

We should all be considering the situation we are in right now, and that means we are going to just see it change eventually, that's the way it should be going. I believe that we are going to end up with something decent one way or another, and if we know what we are doing then we shouldn't be worrying about it. Focus on what you can alter, and let everything else be the way it is.

[boyptc]

Whatever I will be suggesting to your friend for sure he won't listen. He didn't even listened to you when you've explained that he's addicted.

That's how it is going to be with those gamblers that are seriously addicted already. No suggestion will be good to them because what they are listening with is only themselves.

They can't admit that they're heavy gamblers and they're losing a lot and have been doing crazy things just to gamble.

No way, do you expect an addict to quit fronting on his addictive behavior, he'll definitely lie and bottle it up. The healing work is on others to help the addict, as he, indeed needs it. Don't mind his strange action, it looks like he doesn't want to help hands. Neglecting them won't be the right choice, working on ways to help change the addict is better than watching him misbehave. While they listen to themselves alone, sooner they'll want to talk to somebody. Deep down, they'll try to save themselves from the attitude, since they personally got into addiction, their self-consciousness will make them believe it's possible to come out with nobody's help. I think that's the main purpose behind why they avoid helpers.

Due to their psychology being affected, they wouldn't make it out alone. That's why sometimes a gambler will decide to open up and reach out for help. Which remains the best time to help an addict. When he's in need of it because he wants it and is tired of the lifestyle. In your context is fine to give them a space. But, to some extent, it's risky, as their attitude can get worse when left unattended. Staying in touch with the gambler helps revive his brain towards changing. Addiction isn't interesting for anyone, seeing his acquittances talk to him, will make him think of being like his unaddicted friends. Sooner, he'd confide with them and seek for help. When neglected he may not try talking to anyone. Thereby stressing his brain, on saving himself.

I am not sure what are you talking about. I've said what I have to say and there's no suggestion needed to be given to his friend when that guy don't even listen to his friend.

I didn't even say that I am expecting that he'll quit and that's why I am quite confused on what you're saying. But I agree that he'll try to save himself with what he's up with.

Sometimes you just have to be harsh and try to ignore that have ignored your thoughts that might help them.

[hyudien]

When someone has become addicted, they will not be able to stop even if someone stops them or advises them because they feel right about the actions they are taking regarding gambling even though it is detrimental to themselves. It's true what you said, it's difficult to treat someone who is addicted because in my opinion what is sick is mental and their thoughts are not physical, because if they are physically sick they will definitely feel the pain and will treat it themselves.
If they are chronically addicted, maybe they really need help from someone who is professional in dealing with it, perhaps like a psychologist who is an expert in their field. Those who are addicted must of course be helped to get out of their addiction, because it is impossible for them to continue in that cycle. because it is a cycle that harms them financially or health-wise. especially if the person who is addicted is our own brother, I think we should help him to get out of the addiction that is detrimental to him.

When someone is addicted to gambling, advising them to quit is ineffective. Like shouting in a storm. Still, addiction is mental. War in the brain is more intricate than damaged bones. Although invisible, those scars and harm are eating them up

Help from professionals? The move is that. Just find someone who gets it. An addict speaks its language and knows its rhythm. Gambling may amuse and excite. When it changes and controls you, that's a red flag

With your brother and others, you must be proactive. Not a choice, but a duty. Show them their blind spots. Most importantly, guide them, not force them. Choose to quit that addiction. Long-ass fight with ups and downs, but also tiny successes. The grind will be real. What's worthwhile without a fight?

How is professional help different from advice? what the professionals give is not advice? I think the advice is the same, only they are more detailed and more thorough and the skills they have can make the addict finally realize it. In my opinion, giving advice is the same as helping them to become aware of their addiction so that they can recover from it. However, it is clear that gambling can change us quickly, but it depends on us. If we can control ourselves, everything will be fine. fine even though the temptation of gambling is very strong.
in my opinion, if we are addicted then we have to be able to stop, because if not it will get worse in the future, life will be destroyed and life will be at stake, there have also been many incidents of people ending their lives because they are addicted to gambling and cannot accept excessive pressure even though it is because of your own actions, not someone else's. Gambling addiction does not bring profit but brings disaster.

[Plaguedeath]

Your friend's experience is heartbreaking, and it's evident that he's in a terrible situation, but if he's unwilling to seek professional treatment, you may attempt to get him to join a support group such as Gamblers Anonymous. These peer-led organizations use a 12-step approach similar to Alcoholics Anonymous. They are free to join and offer a helpful place for participants to share their stories and work toward overcoming their addiction. Even if your buddy does not wish to join one of these organizations, encourage him to discuss his condition with a trustworthy friend or family member, if not it will affect his relationship with friends and families.

Not all friends and families are open minded.

Imagine if both of your friend and families are close minded, when you explain to them if you're a gambler and has a sign of addiction, your friends might mock you and say you're stupid. While your families will get angry and will limit or forbid you to use cell phone.

Imagine you live without cell phone nowadays, it's impossible.

[Dewi Aries]

No way, do you expect an addict to quit fronting on his addictive behavior, he'll definitely lie and bottle it up. The healing work is on others to help the addict, as he, indeed needs it. Don't mind his strange action, it looks like he doesn't want to help hands. Neglecting them won't be the right choice, working on ways to help change the addict is better than watching him misbehave. While they listen to themselves alone, sooner they'll want to talk to somebody. Deep down, they'll try to save themselves from the attitude, since they personally got into addiction, their self-consciousness will make them believe it's possible to come out with nobody's help. I think that's the main purpose behind why they avoid helpers.

Due to their psychology being affected, they wouldn't make it out alone. That's why sometimes a gambler will decide to open up and reach out for help. Which remains the best time to help an addict. When he's in need of it because he wants it and is tired of the lifestyle. In your context is fine to give them a space. But, to some extent, it's risky, as their attitude can get worse when left unattended. Staying in touch with the gambler helps revive his brain towards changing. Addiction isn't interesting for anyone, seeing his acquittances talk to him, will make him think of being like his unaddicted friends. Sooner, he'd confide with them and seek for help. When neglected he may not try talking to anyone. Thereby stressing his brain, on saving himself.

I am not sure what are you talking about. I've said what I have to say and there's no suggestion needed to be given to his friend when that guy don't even listen to his friend.

I didn't even say that I am expecting that he'll quit and that's why I am quite confused on what you're saying. But I agree that he'll try to save himself with what he's up with.

Sometimes you just have to be harsh and try to ignore that have ignored your thoughts that might help them.

A gambler who has entered the addiction phase is usually quite stubborn, they always claim to others that what they do is "normal and there is no harm", this is the confession of addicted gamblers who do not feel that they are addicted to gambling at all, and this is the reason why gambling addiction is difficult to overcome because this kind of disease is in the brain and mind of a person who has significant ambitions and preferences for gambling activities so that no matter how much you tell them by suggesting anything that leads to change for the better, they will usually ignore it.

Sometimes this situation can also become a problem between you and your friends, and maybe they will think that you are one of those people who interfere too much with other people's business. And I think it is a fact that an addicted person will only be able to stop when they have really felt the downturn that can traumatize them due to excessive gambling involvement, so if for example they do not appreciate your good intentions trying to help them then let it go because in the end time will answer with regret.

[entertheabyss]

Not all friends and families are open minded.

Imagine if both of your friend and families are close minded, when you explain to them if you're a gambler and has a sign of addiction, your friends might mock you and say you're stupid. While your families will get angry and will limit or forbid you to use cell phone.

Imagine you live without cell phone nowadays, it's impossible.

This is the new era and gambling is proven to be important in the system. Families doesn't care if you're gambler or not, as long as you keep making multiple streams of income and taking good care of them, they will continue to lay their supports towards your activities. Gambling only favors does that have a good sense of sighting odds, and we know that's where the money comes from and non-stopping. As a gambler, there are boundaries that ought to be significant and made easy for them.

[Accardo]

A gambler who has entered the addiction phase is usually quite stubborn, they always claim to others that what they do is "normal and there is no harm", this is the confession of addicted gamblers who do not feel that they are addicted to gambling at all, and this is the reason why gambling addiction is difficult to overcome because this kind of disease is in the brain and mind of a person who has significant ambitions and preferences for gambling activities so that no matter how much you tell them by suggesting anything that leads to change for the better, they will usually ignore it.

Sometimes this situation can also become a problem between you and your friends, and maybe they will think that you are one of those people who interfere too much with other people's business. And I think it is a fact that an addicted person will only be able to stop when they have really felt the downturn that can traumatize them due to excessive gambling involvement, so if for example they do not appreciate your good intentions trying to help them then let it go because in the end time will answer with regret.

I don't think every gambling addict will be opportune to have this rethink without a helping hand. Yes, there are people who after a while of experiencing problem gambling will trace back to their roots seeking help. Pain helps to recuperate the brain. But a times, things happen as you said, the person feels his right on the inside. And people who claim to change his mind, always piss him off, because they don't sound friendly to him, anymore. They want to be left alone to keep chasing their goals. Since we all know that the result of gambling addiction is quite dangerous to society, reaching out to them still helps. It mustn't be about his addictive behavior or trying to get him sad telling him he's doing the wrong things. A quality conversation is a therapy. People want to discuss with those they love, it helps their brain feel better. The goal is to get the player on our side using a quality conversation as a key point.

[EarnOnVictor]

A person addicted to gambling never takes good advice, no matter how much advice is given. I see there is a gambler in my area who stays indoors all day and rarely comes out, so people call him a gambler. He is so addicted to gambling that if he does not gamble every day he may never fulfill his sake, if he is given good advice he never takes the advice of others. Although he is currently in a long period of time, he is still gambling and losing and rarely winning, indicating that he is completely addicted to gambling. So I think if a player becomes addicted to gambling, then he is a loss to a family and society. If a gambler lives in a family, the family slowly goes to ruin because the gambler never thinks about anything good but only about gambling. So if you give good advice to your friend because of this problem, if he doesn't take it then he is going to suffer hugely in future. So it is very difficult to get a gambler back, but if he can be constantly surrounded by friends, he may be able to reduce the addiction a little and get on the right track.

Yeah who addicted on gambling there beehives like crazy. They are never ready to listen to anyone's advice. They find gambling very easy and always think that they will win huge jackpots from gambling and become rich with that money. And when they lose in gambling, they don't care about it because they think that this loss will be recovered later and besides, they can profit a lot when they win the big jackpot.  With such a plan, they don't hesitate to take decisions like gambling on loans or selling their homes

When you are gambling, you have to preserve your sanity, or else, you might find yourself where you least expected. If not always careful, you might be under the influence of it and get addicted and this addiction is more tempting than we believe. This is the worst part of it, and as long as a gambler is addicted, there is nothing the gambler can do rightly. Such will be at the mercy of luck and addiction, which is supposed not to be so. Gamblers should be active and gamble with all their consciousness, that's the only way such gamblers will be able to achieve their aim amidst other challenges in gambling.

But many things could cause the addiction and it doesn't necessarily mean it has to be for the money. Many might also be addicted to it due to the regular fun derived from it, and either way, it is not good because what you can't control will surely control you. And in gambling, if one is controlled by it, I am certain that the result can never be good. However, if it has reached the level of taking a loan to gamble, then the person is so crazy and needs fast help before he can overcome it. Gambling is not an investment so why secure a loan to bet what is risky as such, and that can make you lose so fast? This is even as the probability of losing all the money is higher than gaining, it is not just worth it to be desperate for gambling or let yourself get addicted.

[beerlover]

Overcoming gambling addiction is very difficult, many people fail to get rid of gambling addiction. For me, gambling addiction is much worse than drug addiction if it cannot be controlled, so avoiding addiction is something that every gambler must do. So it is true as you said, before entering the world of gambling we have to prepare ourselves physically and mentally, meaning we are familiar with everything that happens so that addiction can be avoided. Preventing gambling addiction is easier and better than overcoming gambling addiction. The average gambling addict experiences overwhelming feelings of regret. They will definitely say that if time could be turned back they would not want to know gambling, but that has all happened.

It is true that overcoming gambling addiction is very difficult, but in my opinion gambling addiction and drug addiction are the same thing, namely that they will both make our lives worse, that is, a lot of money is spent doing these bad things. behavior and if it is not done then the heart and mind will be restless and easily emotional with uncertain goals.
Yes, I also often hear what you say when gamblers regret their actions and seem to want to repeat the times when they would never become addicts, but as the saying goes, the rice has turned to porridge and the incident has already happened. it will never be repaired again.

I believe that we are going to see a lot of regrets and we are going to make sure that people who have those regrets could be heard and be helped. What we need to remember is that these people are mostly doing this to "feel" something, because they may not have much going on in their own life, they gamble to feel something and sometimes they do, which really helps a lot, and sometimes they just don't.

This is why it's quite important to remember that you are going to end up with a good result if you are lucky, and if you can't then you are not going to end up with anything good. Just hear them out, listen to them, talk with them, and help them realize that regret will not help, but recovery will be the key factor.

[Belarge]

Not all friends and families are open minded.

Imagine if both of your friend and families are close minded, when you explain to them if you're a gambler and has a sign of addiction, your friends might mock you and say you're stupid. While your families will get angry and will limit or forbid you to use cell phone.

Imagine you live without cell phone nowadays, it's impossible.

Phones happens to be the medium that's swifly transmitting informations. Our families wants the best for us, they will do everything within their reach to ensure we're safe from social vices and also absolute unengagment in these gambling activities. This is the modern day, winning is important and necessary for most of us, never stop making attempts because it's crucial and straight. We can only become fruitful whenever we're in the system, having a positive mindset and stand tall to become prominent when dealing with the system.

[boty]

Phones happens to be the medium that's swifly transmitting informations. Our families wants the best for us, they will do everything within their reach to ensure we're safe from social vices and also absolute unengagment in these gambling activities. This is the modern day, winning is important and necessary for most of us, never stop making attempts because it's crucial and straight. We can only become fruitful whenever we're in the system, having a positive mindset and stand tall to become prominent when dealing with the system.

Limiting the use of cellphones will of course reduce our ability to interact with our friends who often gamble and this will eliminate our desire to gamble. Of course this will enable us to live a normal life like other people live, so that we can have a positive mindset indeed. it will be very good in living life because when we cannot have a positive mindset we will of course think about how to gamble and when we gamble and experience defeat we will regret it again.

[zuzie]

Overcoming gambling addiction is very difficult, many people fail to get rid of gambling addiction. For me, gambling addiction is much worse than drug addiction if it cannot be controlled, so avoiding addiction is something that every gambler must do. So it is true as you said, before entering the world of gambling we have to prepare ourselves physically and mentally, meaning we are familiar with everything that happens so that addiction can be avoided. Preventing gambling addiction is easier and better than overcoming gambling addiction. The average gambling addict experiences overwhelming feelings of regret. They will definitely say that if time could be turned back they would not want to know gambling, but that has all happened.

It is true that overcoming gambling addiction is very difficult, but in my opinion gambling addiction and drug addiction are the same thing, namely that they will both make our lives worse, that is, a lot of money is spent doing these bad things. behavior and if it is not done then the heart and mind will be restless and easily emotional with uncertain goals.
Yes, I also often hear what you say when gamblers regret their actions and seem to want to repeat the times when they would never become addicts, but as the saying goes, the rice has turned to porridge and the incident has already happened. it will never be repaired again.

I believe that we are going to see a lot of regrets and we are going to make sure that people who have those regrets could be heard and be helped. What we need to remember is that these people are mostly doing this to "feel" something, because they may not have much going on in their own life, they gamble to feel something and sometimes they do, which really helps a lot, and sometimes they just don't.

This is why it's quite important to remember that you are going to end up with a good result if you are lucky, and if you can't then you are not going to end up with anything good. Just hear them out, listen to them, talk with them, and help them realize that regret will not help, but recovery will be the key factor.

It's true what you say chasing losses is basically useless, we won't get what we want, it will only complicate matters and there will be a lot of losses there and this factor is also influenced by big emotions about what happens because of expectations. not in accordance with reality and agree with you, if we have experienced defeat once or twice then take the positive side, namely from our experience that gambling results in more losses than wins, then we can use this as motivation and valuable experience so as not to lose. excessive gambling.

[GxSTxV]

Your friend doesn't need advice at this point he needs clinical help, because he is not even aware of the problem he is in, not only he believes that chasing his losses may certainly recover what he lost but he is also addicted to Gambling, making himself turn into loaning and lending money just to satisfy his eager and naively thinking he can win back the money he lost.
He didn't know how to manage his gambling habits from the beginning, because the right way to gamble is when he reserves only a certain percentage of money dedicated to gambling like you advised him to do. But apparently your friend doesn't take advice from anyone at this point suggestions won't work on him because he is drowning is addiction. I think that he should consult professional help in order to help himself getting out of it, your friend should stop gambling because apparently it is not made for him, I hope he recovers soon.

[passwordnow]

Mate, if a friend of yours is like that you don't have to be worried with him anymore because he's not even taking care of himself and don't worry at all. I know as a person that we're worrying with someone's affair but if it's about being like that, you don't have to be attached with him anymore including that you're going to be affected with every action he does. When you've seen him that he's starting to change and also trying to help himself, that's when you'll step and try to lend him a hand. Don't forget that you're going to lend him hand and not money, let him lend if he want to but don't be your own money. Many does try to help themselves because no one wants to help them anymore and if someone comes to that point of living, they're forced to change for the better and I think that your friend are going to help himself and will definitely show it to you that he's changing for his betterment.

[rodskee]

Not all friends and families are open minded.

Imagine if both of your friend and families are close minded, when you explain to them if you're a gambler and has a sign of addiction, your friends might mock you and say you're stupid. While your families will get angry and will limit or forbid you to use cell phone.

Imagine you live without cell phone nowadays, it's impossible.

Phones happens to be the medium that's swifly transmitting informations. Our families wants the best for us, they will do everything within their reach to ensure we're safe from social vices and also absolute unengagment in these gambling activities. This is the modern day, winning is important and necessary for most of us, never stop making attempts because it's crucial and straight. We can only become fruitful whenever we're in the system, having a positive mindset and stand tall to become prominent when dealing with the system.

just listen to our family they will never bring us to anything bad situation even if we
are in bad already our love one will deliver us to betterment .
social media and mobile is really  not as better as we are looking for, trust our family
and trust the system.

[retreat]

A person addicted to gambling never takes good advice, no matter how much advice is given. -snip-

A gambling addict is very difficult to give advice to, usually they will immediately reject whatever words other people give them, even when it is their own wife or family. It is very difficult to be able to give advice to them, especially if the person giving the advice does not approach them empathetically, these addicts will find it difficult to open up and they will keep closing themselves off. Therefore, to approach a gambler, you need to approach someone with empathy and not judge them, because no matter what, a gambling addict also wants to change, but sometimes the environment makes them reluctant to do so.

[Oilacris]

A person addicted to gambling never takes good advice, no matter how much advice is given. -snip-

A gambling addict is very difficult to give advice to, usually they will immediately reject whatever words other people give them, even when it is their own wife or family. It is very difficult to be able to give advice to them, especially if the person giving the advice does not approach them empathetically, these addicts will find it difficult to open up and they will keep closing themselves off. Therefore, to approach a gambler, you need to approach someone with empathy and not judge them, because no matter what, a gambling addict also wants to change, but sometimes the environment makes them reluctant to do so.

I have been on different condition or situation about giving out some advises back in the past whether from my close friends or my relatives or known ones in regarding about their addiction in gambling.
Not all would really be that listening or most of them because they would really be sticking into those things that they do have in mind. This is why it would really be that just right on letting them be.
If possible to give out some advises but never force them because it would really just make the situation gotten more worst. One of the reason on why i dont mind those people been giving some advise
is that they do just tell you that its none of your business since its not your money that being spent. On the time or moment that those people been saying these words then i have complete
no care about them ever.