Personally,
I dont focus that much on what is said in any forum, i always choses my site based on my research, i check the tos and once every rules suits me i try make little deposit every day so i have a big chance to win and make some withdrawals to see the quality of the service
If this what you do, then you're doing the right thing, with this practice, you may not be having any problems, because reading the Tos alone helps you to know what the casino maybe using against you, if you ignore it, choosing platforms to use relying on your finding is the best.
Some people don't bother in trying to know if what some people has been saying about a platform is true or not, they make their decisions on the basis of what they hear or credence given to the platform by random persons, site like that may not be bad, but confirming that what you read is true, gives you confidence to use the site without having doubt.