Yes, that's one of the impacts because you always overdo it and bring an improper mindset to gambling, I think that means you have entered the real addiction phase if you behave like that in your gambling involvement. Of course that is a very bad condition for you, and I'm sure the impact you feel is not playing around with a lot of financial problems and maybe also with significant mental stress. Yes that's right, it usually happens to beginners and I'm sure you come not to seek entertainment as you should but it seems like you come because you have seen some victories that have been achieved by others or maybe your friends so you are tempted and want to have the same fate.

Lately I think most of those who suffer from addiction are those who have just been involved or entered into gambling, none other than because as I have said above that they come with the wrong mindset and also added because they do not have any experience and never see the impact that happens to other people who have already fallen into addiction. The wrong mindset makes them lose control and of course with that, chasing defeat is always a matter that they think is a good alternative to recovery even though there is no guarantee whatsoever. Of course, the actual fact is that chasing defeat will only cause a lot of problems, so it is important to note that before you enter you must first see what risks are in gambling, because it is clear that usually defeat will dominate more than victory.

Hmm yes it seems that it is the best that can be done when we are in such conditions, it is better for us to tell the truth about the truth to them, than we lie and on the other hand later surely at least they will harbor jealousy towards us, and of course it will definitely interfere or become a problem in our friendship. So yes, as I said, maybe the middle way that can be taken is just to tell them honestly about our needs, and as a remedy so that they are not too disappointed, we can give them a little money from our winnings, I'm sure it won't be a big problem if we want to be honest and they also I think they will definitely be able to understand about our condition.

Yes, it is quite difficult to be able to get friends who are truly sincere, sometimes there are also friends who are friends but only need it or just want to benefit from us, and there are also friends who are truly sincere with no strings attached. And on the other hand with money we will usually know human nature, but yes I hope one of your friends is a good and sincere friend who does not ask for anything or in the sense of a true friend as you said.

Yes, although Manchester United have managed to get a few wins in their last few Premier League matches but that's not the end of it, they still need a lot of adjustments in terms of balance to restore consistency in performance. I honestly don't know what Ten Hag will do but there is certainly no time for him to relax in the midst of a team that needs a lot of changes. Changing the scheme and tactics of play may be one of the actions that need to be taken, I hope Ten Hag will know what the real problem is with his squad. Yes as the transfer window reopens this season then it might be a good opportunity for Ten Hag to look for some candidates who can help in the change of his team, and also yes I think the main point is that somehow Ten Hag must change the game scheme, try some actions to restore the consistency of the squad. There are only a few games left towards the end of the season and I hope Manchester United will be able to climb back up at least into the top five of the table which is still pretty good.

True, basically difficulties are actually only for those people who don't want to do anything but have very high dreams, how can you possibly achieve all your dreams if you are basically just silent without any action. If you really want to have a business or build a business but you are having problems in terms of capital, I don't think it can be used as a complete excuse for you not to do anything, because obviously as you said that now everything is quite easy, you can submit a proposal to several service companies that will be able to provide you with a loan in a certain amount.

With that the problem is solved and you can build your business, as long as you have prepared a lot of preparation regarding some basic things that are needed to manage your business properly. Sometimes it's like what I said above, someone has high dreams but they don't do anything and don't want to take risks, basically if you want to experience progress in your life then you have to take risks, everything that goes on in life will have its own risks, and why there are people who can succeed it's because they dare to take risks who never give up in fighting to achieve their dreams so that they will get something worth the process they have gone through. Failure is not an excuse, because it is a natural part of everyone's journey, because only by failing will you know what you should do next for something better.

Yes, basically conditions like this are indeed quite confusing for someone who has just won, between they have to fulfill their personal needs with the money they won or maybe they will celebrate their victory with their friends with the risk that the money will definitely run out quickly. I'm sure if I were in that condition then I would also be quite confused in choosing a decision, on the other hand I need the money but on the other hand I also don't want to lose my friends. But I think the middle way in this problem is like for example they talk to their friends that they have a very important need and what they can do is maybe just share their friends a few percent of the winnings and not choose to party because it will definitely be very wasteful. I think that's a pretty good solution for a balance, and also yes hopefully some of their friends will understand the situation you're in at the time.

Yes, if you really don't want to be complicated with problems like that then it's better from the start you don't tell them anything, and don't take actions that can make them suspicious of you. Basically good friends are those who can understand and appreciate each other, I'm sure their friends won't be that bad even though they have pretty bad habits, at least maybe they will be able to understand about your situation at that time.

For this season to be honest there is absolutely nothing to expect from Union Berlin, the difference in their changes is very significant if we see or compare them in the current season and last season. Last season they had a very good season and could compete in the top five area of the standings by finishing in the top 4, with their success last season I thought indirectly it would be a pretty good indication to go through this season very well, but apparently the facts that happened were far from what was expected especially for their fans.

This season Union Berlin is very bad and far from luck, but yes, this is the fact that actually happened, like a team, basically there will definitely be changes either for the better or vice versa for the worse as they are experiencing now. In my opinion, there is nothing more to expect from them either in the Bundesliga or in the UCL.

And that means that environmental factors will have a big influence on a person's life, it is clear and I believe that if the character of their friends is a person who likes to waste when they have money then surely when they know that you get a win from gambling then they will advise you to do what they usually do. Basically, everyone has their own life and there will also be times when they really need money for their personal affairs, if they need money for their personal affairs and at the same time they get a win from gambling then obviously the main thing they will do is fulfill their needs first before thinking about the advice of their friends.

In this condition if you remain firm to hide your victory then I think it is quite risky for your friendship, because obviously if only they know about what you are hiding then maybe they will not consider you as a friend anymore, it is very possible. So yes it's true that when we are in a condition like that there is no other way but you prepare a very reasonable reason such as for example to pay debts or whatever it is, it doesn't matter if you lie because it's better than you follow their way to squander money. But on the other hand there are also friends who understand your condition and some who don't, some come for profit and some come because they are sincere, it is a human character that is beyond anyone's control.

Therefore, to be honest, I personally always try to be a responsible gambler by always imposing a lot of restrictions on my gambling activities and coming up with only a small budget amount, that's because before I also fell into the trap of addiction even though it was at a low level but honestly it was very unpleasant, every day I feel the pressure from a financial point of view because I always go overboard in putting the budget amount with a very high level of trust and confidence, maybe for some people especially newly involved in gambling who still have high ambitions in gambling will not really believe what I just said, but honestly it doesn't matter at all to me because I'm sure they will say yes if they have experienced it.

I think the fact of the matter is that if you really want the benefits of gambling to put you back in a good mood then there's no other way, like you said by limiting your budget and being a responsible gambler then you'll be able to feel the true pleasure of a few good rounds without getting your hopes up. I think it all really depends on a person's mindset and level of expectation, if they really take care of those two things then I'm sure they will feel what is meant by fun in gambling.

Although only their last two games have looked promising but honestly I will not fully believe that Chelsea will really change for the better, but on the other hand yes maybe the success in the last two games is enough to indicate that there are signs of change from Pochettino's squad, although I will first fully believe but at least this is a good sign. Last season was indeed as we saw that they really slumped by only being able to finish 12th in the standings, but let's just say that it was their time of change that we some good signs have begun to be quite visible.

Yes that's right, that indeed now what most Blues fans hope is that they expect Chelsea to be able to maintain their performance like this, they hope that there is consistency created for the next few games, although it might be quite hard to expect to win the title or even enter the top five of the standings because the season time is not long anymore, for this season yes maybe I won't have too much hope for them, but for next season I don't think there is any reason for them to slump again, after all it's time for them to restore the prestige of the club in the Premier League.

Yes, I think so too, basically overall in my opinion there is no real health whatsoever that can be obtained by gamblers from their gambling activities. One of the benefits that they can get maybe if we talk from a matter of time that is not more for entertainment only, they can get some entertainment and sensation from a pretty good spin in gambling that can make their stress or depression quite treated due to other things, gambling should be used only for that, or I mean not more than just for fun if you really believe that by gambling you can get that pleasure.

Although basically there are still quite a lot of other activities that they can choose outside of gambling that can keep them entertained, but whatever it all does come back to each of their decisions about what they will choose, between entertainment that is a little risky or pure entertainment without risk such as going to one of the tourist attractions. So it means that everyone has their own freedom and judgment about where they will seek entertainment and whether or not the activity actually entertains them.

Yes it is possible, but on the other hand it will also not rule out the possibility that professional gamblers may leave the gambling site if the casino has below average value according to them, and also vice versa if the casino is very comfortable and has a high percentage of trust then it is certain that professional gamblers will be there for a long time, because for them comfort and safety are the top priorities. And for the problem of the casino supporting responsible gamblers, in my opinion, it is a bit off, because what is meant by responsible is when gamblers are always not excessive in their gambling involvement in terms of the amount of budget or in terms of the time they use, while on the other hand the casino wants a big loss suffered by gamblers, which means that in my opinion the casino always wants gamblers to overdo it because then the casino will have a big profit, I think this statement is quite reasonable.

Yes that's right, and as time goes by now Tottenham is getting down from the standings, initially the arrival of this team in the top five of the standings was very surprising to all eyes, they came suddenly and until they could reach the top of the standings, honestly I never thought that they would have such a sharp performance this season. But yes as we see that now they are getting worse, it all started in their last few matches against Chelsea with a landslide score and followed by defeat in the match afterwards against Wolves, honestly I also think it looks like these two defeats are the beginning of Tottenham's return to their usual slump.

Now they are ranked fourth below Arsenal, and yes, however Ange must be able to improve the consistency of his club. And yes it's true, I thought at first Chelsea's victory with a landslide score over Tottenham I thought it was just luck, but it turns out it looks like my assumption was wrong because it was clear in last night's match Chelsea were able to perform very well against Manchester City by winning a draw, honestly it was an extraordinary score for a team that was slumping against an elite team like Manchester City. With all this evidence then it seems that I am a little convinced that indeed Pochettino has begun to succeed in making changes to his team, and yes if only they can maintain their consistency then I think it is true that Chelsea have a chance to qualify or enter the Europa League, they still have time until the end of the season, as long as they continue to be consistent.

It doesn't make sense does it? yes I also never thought why someone could have such a mindset, of course it is a very silly action, although I can't blame but try to be more realistic in seeing this gambling. If you really want to borrow for other emergency needs for the benefit of your life and get out it's no problem and go ahead because there are benefits that you will get, but if you borrow with the aim of allocating to gambling I think it's really a ridiculous act, how can you be so sure of the final result? Of course as usual that the casino has made a system so that losing always dominates and winning only happens occasionally, everyone has proven and that is the fact why now many people are in a cycle of addiction.

Yes, psychology is the basis of a person's addiction, and besides that, the driving force is in terms of hope and opportunities in gambling that make them continue to think the same that someday they will be able to get a victory to restore the defeat in the previous time. Basically what makes the system is the casino and the casino wants you to lose because your defeat is an advantage for them, so in my opinion by understanding that alone it is very clear that no matter how hard you try to get a win, the final result is usually not as expected.

The casino has set us up through the system they created, they wash our mindset until finally addiction, and there is nothing else that can prevent that from happening is like you said self-control and some other restrictions, we must be able to create our own rules for the good of ourselves in particular so as not to overdo it and for the way is that there is nothing else but just self-control and full responsibility for everything you will do. It is better to put a small amount, the point is that if you do lose then you will not experience mental and psychological stress, and also with that you will not enter a very bad addiction phase. 

Well that's exactly right, you said something that is in line with the facts about the difference in feelings between winning and losing, it's quite clear. As I said before that ten defeats will be able to be cured just by getting the sensation of one victory, and that's the perspective in the human mind, especially for those who are addicted like you said here.

Yes, casino companies have arranged everything very neatly, they not only set up the system but apply a tantalizing element of temptation so that gamblers can get addicted to their game concept. Therefore this is a very logical reason why someone can very easily get into addiction and it is also a logical reason why they are difficult to get out of that phase, because their psychology has been controlled by the system in the casino. Therefore, I am sure that every gambler when they want to get involved in gambling or when they want to play, they will definitely feel and assume that "this time I will be able to be one of the lucky ones out of ten people who play", the fact is that the cycle will continue without any time limit that can determine. Therefore, I am honestly quite concerned when someone does not bring any limitations at all and is so ambitious in seeing this gambling.

A very surprising start to the season for a team like Tottenham, it turns out they can make changes very well compared to last season, I'm sure their performance this season was never expected by most Premier League lovers, they were able to enter the top five of the standings and even some time ago they could occupy the top position, indirectly it also includes the best achievements for a team that always wants the title at the end of the season. And yes on the other hand unfortunately Tottenham could not maintain the consistency of their performance at the top of the standings so that things that were not wanted happened, the defeat against Chelsea with a high score greatly disappointed their fans, and was also followed by their last match which turned out to be a defeat against Wolves.

Honestly I can't be sure if this is a bad start from Tottenham for some other disappointing results in the next matches, but certainly it is natural because the competition in the top five is very tight and Manchester City will not allow any club to take over their title dominance at the end of the season, and also yes it is true on the other hand Liverpool has a pretty good chance of being able to overtake Tottenham in third place because as you said they have 1 more game yet to play.

That's right, that method is really not recommended, borrowing money just to gamble is the most reckless way in my opinion, how can they have that kind of mindset or way out to realize their desire to gamble, while on the other hand as you said that gambling is nothing more than a profit - profit activity. That method will only add a lot of problems, that's for sure because obviously if it turns out that you lose then you will be confused about how to replace the money you have borrowed, and after that there seems to be no other way except to borrow again to other people to cover the previous debt.

In my opinion, usually people like that are none other than because their level of addiction is so high that they cannot consider anything they will do. Yes that's right buddy, so it's true that self-control is very important, because that's the only thing that might help them to be able to control and consider every decision they will choose. Setting an amount that will not be a problem if you end up losing is better, rather than you putting a large amount but the end result is still losing.

The real fact is that ten defeats will be able to be treated with just the sensation of one victory, that's the fact that actually happens, so if you look at the number of y = defeats and the number of wins they get in a certain period of time then I am sure that the number of defeats will be much greater than the victory, but strangely they are still fine and keep gambling as usual without considering anything with the facts that have happened that the number of defeats is much greater. Yes, indirectly with the enthusiasm and hope that you always carry in gambling, it will make you not realize that the actual number of defeats is much more than you imagine.

Yes that's right, that indeed the victory is nothing but a temptation for you to continue to engage in gambling, the casino will not let you go because your defeat is a victory for them, therefore the casino gives you an occasional victory from dozens of tries, nothing but the goal is to keep you involved in gambling and benefit them. Isn't my statement very logical?

Honestly, although the difference in the performance of the two teams can be said to be quite far but I will not be too confident, because it is clear that in the Chelsea camp even though they are slumping but in the previous match against Tottenham they managed to achieve satisfying results and it was all unexpected, and also on the other hand Manchester City are more favored because their prestige is a very strong team that can always dominate the top of the standings, so in my opinion this is a match between a strong team and a weak team that has the opportunity to steal surprising results.

Yes for that it is clear, with the final result of Chelsea's surprising match yesterday indirectly this will make Manchester City to be more careful in the match, I am sure Guardiola will not consider his opponent weak because there is clearly enough fear to be a concern for him. The match will be held at Chelsea's home and with that there will obviously be a lot of expectations from their fans to produce a score like they achieved against Tottenham, but now it might be quite tough because the opponent is Manchester City, and obviously Manchester City will not let the match be easy for Chelsea because after all they also have to get full points to maintain their top position.

That makes sense, I agree with your statement about doubling the budget for gambling, it is very correct to say that it will only increase the amount you lose. Why is that? obviously because in gambling there is no certainty whatsoever to produce something in accordance with our expectations, therefore the best thing to do in my opinion is to reduce as small as possible the amount of your budget so that in the final session you are not too disappointed. Especially if you choose to increase the budget by going into debt to other people, obviously I can't imagine how you feel when the final result loses, it will really make yourself depressed.

So from that we have to really think and consider everything with logical common sense, don't let you think about borrowing just for gambling, because of course it will only cause a lot of problems, getting into debt as a result of gambling is very bad, because obviously if you can't pay the debt you will be confused to find a way out and in my opinion it will only lead to an even more wrong mindset, I'm sure you will even go crazy in pursuit of defeat because you think of winning to return the money you have borrowed. On the other hand you have provided very clear evidence with the downturn of the person you told me about that he was willing to pledge his house to the bank.

Yes for normal people the thought is very absurd and out of what should be done, they are a bit crazy because they carry a mindset and beliefs that are clearly contrary to the facts that the actual concept of gambling. Basically it is very difficult for them to be able to get a win or even just to recover losses. That is why we must be responsible gamblers by always putting money that is ready to be lost so that there is no need or thought to chase losses.

If they put too much obsession and ambition on their gambling then obviously it will only worsen the situation, instead of getting a recovery from the money that has been lost but the opposite happens, the amount of loss is even greater. On the other hand, you should not think that chasing defeat is a struggle to achieve results that match your expectations, because in gambling there is absolutely no guarantee and still for the final result always depends on how lucky you are at that time.

It is very unreasonable if they put their hopes on something that always runs randomly for the results, self-control will always be at war with the temptations and opportunities that you are there, in my opinion that is what makes them end up in a dilemma and confused to choose which one, and because the temptation in gambling is very strong it makes them finally forget self-control and continue to pursue victory because of the temptation that seems tempting when it is nothing more than a trap.