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March 21, 2018, 08:32:30 AM |
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Just stay focus on what you are currently doing if you think that is useful to you and to your job. Ignore those bullying workmates because they may be jealous of what you have now. Also, make sure you are enjoying what you are working so that you will not be bother of what others do or back fight on you.
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March 21, 2018, 11:33:49 AM |
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Actually, it depends on how you are being bullied and it deoends on how much you eould like to stay on that place you're working on. I mean wherever you go you'll definitely come across someone that eill make your job a bit harder. My advise is fight back. Bullies generally won't pick on someone who would actually push back. Keep it in yhe boudaries of your company's code of conduct. If it worsen, kick this person's ass outside work to settle things out.
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March 21, 2018, 11:40:04 AM |
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Bullies are cowards, if its verbal bullying, study and outwit them, make them look the inferior person in their peer group, watch lots of standup comedy to get ideas of how to roast them.
If its physical get in the gym and develop yourself, that will have more benefits than just keeping the bully away i.e. health benefits, confidence boost and you will look better and be stronger.
1st day of my new job the local "Funny/big man" tried to put me down, not in a nasty way but definitely not in a welcome to the company way, trying to mark his Territory..
"Your quite, dont you talk? are we too intimidating?" 3 of them stood around me, i stood up calmly walked to the guy doing the talking and said, "Sorry what was that?" while looking right in his eyes...
All i had to do, he went bright red, mumbled, stuttered and walked off.
Hes one of my good mates now - funny how it works out..
Im 100% sure if i crumbled and went red/said nothing id be the object of ridicule to this day...
I have trained in the gym for 12 years so that probably helped, but they are all the same - stand up they run.
Dont let them win by moving on.
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March 21, 2018, 11:48:01 AM |
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Always was and always will be bullies, or pests. I advise you to speak openly with them. You should not show your fear (even if you are afraid). Be confident and convincing - then you will be left behind.
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March 21, 2018, 03:04:56 PM |
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Grow up and fight back you should know better that you are not born to be bullied or your parents didn't raise you just to get bullied, Sometimes you need to fight back so that others wouldn't make fun of you because there are times that they would make fun of you because they know that you wouldn't fight back.
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March 21, 2018, 04:46:44 PM |
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•How to deal with bullies? bullies at work not at school.
•Will I be mature and stay away or get another job what can I do? any suggestions?
•What will you do if your in this case?
This is a strange thing and I think there is a problem in you why something is bothering you and that environment rejects you and everyone has its own problem.
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March 21, 2018, 06:01:41 PM |
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•How to deal with bullies? bullies at work not at school.
•Will I be mature and stay away or get another job what can I do? any suggestions?
•What will you do if your in this case?
Bullies around us are destructions but it is just for us to handle different circumstances. As for me, it would serve as a challenge for me on how to deal with those kind of people. I will try to treat them nicely despite of what they are doing but I would never have a second thought of fighting back once they hurt me.
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March 21, 2018, 08:37:07 PM |
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•How to deal with bullies? bullies at work not at school.
•Will I be mature and stay away or get another job what can I do? any suggestions?
•What will you do if your in this case?
I ignore them because they have no knowledge how beautiful life is. yes, it would be better not to care about and focus on your work, because there are still many people who care and support you in your work. do not fight with words. but you show that you can be more than he said.
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March 21, 2018, 09:35:04 PM |
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Very hard to deal with workplace bullying. I don't get why people do this, we work to get purpose and to make money. Bullying is evil and should be stamped out everywhere.
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March 21, 2018, 11:44:45 PM |
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Go to your head and complain about them and make sure to fight back.
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March 22, 2018, 03:06:37 AM |
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Complain. That is the only way you can deal with them.
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March 22, 2018, 05:11:29 AM |
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No one should tolerate their non sense and should always fight back.
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March 22, 2018, 10:35:32 AM |
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The victims in bullying is increasing bullying is the main cause of depression of student
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March 22, 2018, 12:38:40 PM |
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•How to deal with bullies? bullies at work not at school.
•Will I be mature and stay away or get another job what can I do? any suggestions?
•What will you do if your in this case?
I ignore them because they have no knowledge how beautiful life is. yes, it would be better not to care about and focus on your work, because there are still many people who care and support you in your work. do not fight with words. but you show that you can be more than he said. Getting another job because you are being bullied can only make it worse both for you, the bullies and the other people at work that can be bullied as well. Looking away works for some instances but i think one needs to stand up for himself and stare down the bullies. Because these morons would only grow in confidence if you simply let them be
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March 22, 2018, 05:54:08 PM |
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Bullies are annoying and should be treated in a way that they don’t repeat it.
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March 22, 2018, 08:47:41 PM |
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Ignore them. Let them do whatever they want to do.
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March 22, 2018, 09:48:52 PM |
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Hi all,
good day
in a formal ways at the work place to deal bullying with you at the first time talk to her not to bully you and inform your superior that one of your co-worker bullying with you and not to the extend that you look a another job to keep away from her, maybe on that case your superior make and action for that guy. maybe that guys is ground for termination if they do that for no reasons.
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March 22, 2018, 11:56:52 PM |
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They are everywhere. Give them back and if you cannot then complain.
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March 23, 2018, 04:23:24 AM |
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Don’t tolerate them and be a part of their culture. They are worthless.
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March 23, 2018, 05:16:50 PM |
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My way to deal with bullies at work I keep on being myself,I don't change my attitude because of them.You always get those persons who want to be the main atraction in every descussion and always make fun of you because they can't take it if everything is not about them.
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