How deal with bullies at work?

[TaKlarPH]

•How to deal with bullies? bullies at work not at school.

•Will I be mature and stay away or get another job what can I do? any suggestions?

•What will you do if your in this case?

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[crazylikeafox]

•How to deal with bullies? bullies at work not at school.

•Will I be mature and stay away or get another job what can I do? any suggestions?

•What will you do if your in this case?

How to deal with them? Fight back cause even if you decide to go to another company/school there will be always a bully. People are not different from animals there would be someone preying on the weak.

I did encounter bullies in my school days and in work, I fought back and when they knew that i am a fighter they stopped

[jiamileshuai]

Bully now days is becoming a serious and big problem because it often happen in many places. Even thought there are many media shows this cases, it still there are many other cases of bullying. It seems very difficult to stop. If it happens to us in work, we just need to stay calm and be deaf. They will not stop bullying us because they who do bully is such as animal, they don't really have heart or even they have completely lost their mind. Actually, when they bully others it means that they are bullying them self.

[SugoiSenpai]

Bully now days is becoming a serious and big problem because it often happen in many places. Even thought there are many media shows this cases, it still there are many other cases of bullying. It seems very difficult to stop. If it happens to us in work, we just need to stay calm and be deaf. They will not stop bullying us because they who do bully is such as animal, they don't really have heart or even they have completely lost their mind. Actually, when they bully others it means that they are bullying them self.

Exactly. People should be mature enough in this stage. We musn't mind them because of their immature act. Maybe they just feel insecure of themselves and try to bully another co-worker to release the pressure of their insecurities. The best way to deal with these Bullies is either ignore them or if they are persistent, confront them and tell them the truth, don't just tell then to back away or that they are hurting your feelings, tell them facts, tell them your own opinions on how they are supposed to act, let them know that you are a formidable person to deal with. Manipulate their actions toward you with carefully thought words that are a fact. This has happened to me before, and in the end the one with the most facts given wins the argument. 

[nrm4bits]

In my opinion you should not stay away nor avoid the person, as every situation in your life you must face your problems not run away from them. Getting another job or school is worst because you will always be scare of those idiots. Once you show you are weak and you won’t do anything or fight back they will be over you all the time.

[Kuchiyosenojutsu]

1. Immediately get the child to talk about what he is doing. Explain that his actions harm himself and others. Strive for help from experts to get the problem handled properly and finished thoroughly.
2. Find the cause of the child doing so. Cause to be the determinant of treatment. children who become perpetrators because of low self-esteem will certainly be handled differently with the perpetrators caused by revenge for ever become a victim. Similarly, if the perpetrator is caused by a different aggressiveness.
3. Position yourself to help the child and not judge the child .

[elash]

•How to deal with bullies? bullies at work not at school.

•Will I be mature and stay away or get another job what can I do? any suggestions?

•What will you do if your in this case?

Those bullies at work can affect your job performance and they are aware about it and make them glad because you are affected but instead of showing them that you are affected you should revenge them of being effective and prodictive at work and use it as your motivation and if the day comes that you are already promoted in your work because of your being productive and effective those bullies will stop because being promoted is also a success and success is the best revenge.

[dongyi17]

Bullies are everywhere it maybe in school and in work place they will not stop for as long as they have victim and do meet their match, for as long as they can make fun of you and until there's no one who is willing to stand and fight to them they will still go on in their plan..it take courage to stand and confront them, just be yourself and do not be coward prove to them that you are not what they think you are, and do not give in to their lies but expose their wicked scheme.

[andrei214]

No need to get a new job to stay away from the bullies.It will just make them think that your weak,or whatever they say about you is right.Show to them that your not weak,not by hurting them also but try to be friends with them or just put your attention away from them.Just focus on your work.And if you feel giving up, seek for advices from the people who you trust and you think can give you right advices.

[Angna27]

Bullies are insecure and envious people they will demand, they will threat and make fun of everyone who obeys their wishes and who are move by their intimidation they don't want anybody to goes ahead of them or someone better than them and so they will try their best to put you down by any means you have to stand and fight for them in a way that they themselves will humiliate.

[PIR]

Bullies at work is very subtle, sometimes it comes in colorful and good package but inside it is dangerous, their smooth talk is very convincing, they will make you think you're not good enough for their company at you do not belong to them, sometimes they will make you think think that you're good on other field were in fact they want you out, they want to steal your project your promotion and if you're weak enough you  will agree with them and cry and leave..be strong and courageous don't give the upper hand.. don't let them do what their wishes is, stand on your self and do your best.

[xena2]

Bully now days is becoming a serious and big problem because it often happen in many places. Even thought there are many media shows this cases, it still there are many other cases of bullying. It seems very difficult to stop. If it happens to us in work, we just need to stay calm and be deaf. They will not stop bullying us because they who do bully is such as animal, they don't really have heart or even they have completely lost their mind. Actually, when they bully others it means that they are bullying them self.

Don't allow them being you down. Laugh with them if possible. Be better than they are. Act professional and don'tmind whatever they say.

[Awnar]

Bully now days is becoming a serious and big problem because it often happen in many places. Even thought there are many media shows this cases, it still there are many other cases of bullying. It seems very difficult to stop. If it happens to us in work, we just need to stay calm and be deaf. They will not stop bullying us because they who do bully is such as animal, they don't really have heart or even they have completely lost their mind. Actually, when they bully others it means that they are bullying them self.

Don't allow them being you down. Laugh with them if possible. Be better than they are. Act professional and don'tmind whatever they say.

I think it is hard for us to really adapt op's situation but from what i see, maybe they are bullying for a good job you did, or they are testing and even they just are curios on your relationship with higher ups. Sometimes it depends on how long you are working but if they want you to leave the job just for their personal gains, then i think you should be able to read and learn how to address that bullying.

[rhomzkie26]

i rather stay at work! and will made their ass shut! i will give more effort on work and make sure to them that the next promotion is in you! once you are a level higher than then, thats the best slap you can make, they only have 2 choices! call you a boss or resign! OUT!!

[Firefox07]

You must show to them that you are strong. Don't show them that you are weak or affected on what they are doing. Because these bullies won't stop if your showing that you are weak. If i were you i will show these bullies that they bullied the wrong person. And i will kick their ass.

[akishang]

•How to deal with bullies? bullies at work not at school.

•Will I be mature and stay away or get another job what can I do? any suggestions?

•What will you do if your in this case?

Bullies only exist because people are allowing them to be that way. The only to get rid of them is to fight back.Violence is not the only way to fight back. I won't recommend that because your at work.Make them feel that you will fight back and you won't allow them to bully you anymore.A bit intimidation will work,I have tried that a lot of times. I would suggest that you stay at work, bullies always be there no matter what company you ate in.Fight back man,you don't deserve to be treated that way.

[korbelgpathi]

such people understand only one language - the language of power and violence
you know yourself what to do, man..

[Bigbangcrazy]

Talk to the guilty party

The first thing to try to do is talk to the bully. The person in question may not have realised how badly you’ve reacted to their behaviour and the complaint might not have to go any further.

If you don’t feel comfortable approaching them alone, ask a colleague to come with you and act as a mediator. Although this won’t always be enough to change their behaviour, a large number of workplace issues can be resolved informally, and needn’t be taken any further.

Talk to the right people

If talking to the bully isn’t an option, then find the right people to take your complaint to. Ask to speak to your line manager or someone from your employer’s Human Resources department.

Explain how the issue is causing you to feel unmotivated and affecting your performance in the workplace. Discussing the issue with other people will not only mean the issue gets resolved more quickly, but it can also be extremely comforting and cathartic.

Seek formal help

If it’s got to the point where no-one else will listen, then you could take the matter further by seeking external assistance. A good place to start is ACAS (Advisory, Conciliation and Arbitration Service). Their main aim is to improve working life through better employment relations and they offer free and impartial advice on the subject.

Advice can also be sought from the Citizens Advice Bureau, and many other independent bodies. However, following more formal procedures may only exacerbate the situation, and this option should only ever be used as a last resort.

For more information on who to speak to, visit the directgov website.

[jeremiah_woffy]

Well, the best thing to do is to simply talk with them and tell them that you not comfortable with it, but ofcourse this will not change in an instant, you also have to adjust with this people,

Otherwise, ignore them and focus on your work and show them what you can do better inspite of bullying you.

[Samkol26]

Ignore them and focus on what you do. Making them feel they are getting to you will make them continue. But you ignore as if it doesn't concern you..  They will stop eventually.