Will you stop gamble if your girl friend insists ?

[GigaBit]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

a girlfiriend and will later become our partner I will follow him because our partner will definitely give the best for us, if it is not detrimental and is constructive for the sake of the future for both of us I will obey because in a relationship there must be mutual understanding and calculation for the impact possible

It will have no effect if you are not involved in any kind of addiction to gambling. Gambling and relationship both are different from each other. Girlfriend is considered as life partner while the gambling refers to the entertainment. I think both are needed here considering two aspects. But it is a big problem for those who are addicted to gambling.

[Jemzx00]

a girlfiriend and will later become our partner I will follow him because our partner will definitely give the best for us, if it is not detrimental and is constructive for the sake of the future for both of us I will obey because in a relationship there must be mutual understanding and calculation for the impact possible

Your partner, girlfriend or boyfriend giving the best for both you isn't always the case. Sometimes, it is most likely something that they don't want you to do or they are against to do. It is not something that you're partner needs to decide but rather it is you who must think how gambling affects your relationship and your financial needs. If gambling is just your leisure activity to have fun and it doesn't affect the both of you in terms of financial and time then your partner asking you to stop it would not be fine.

[Theones]

a girlfiriend and will later become our partner I will follow him because our partner will definitely give the best for us, if it is not detrimental and is constructive for the sake of the future for both of us I will obey because in a relationship there must be mutual understanding and calculation for the impact possible

Your partner, girlfriend or boyfriend giving the best for both you isn't always the case. Sometimes, it is most likely something that they don't want you to do or they are against to do. It is not something that you're partner needs to decide but rather it is you who must think how gambling affects your relationship and your financial needs. If gambling is just your leisure activity to have fun and it doesn't affect the both of you in terms of financial and time then your partner asking you to stop it would not be fine.

Some people change - they really value their relationship.
Had it been the case - I would go an extra mile for my partner.
But some people don't want to change - they are stubborn and they go on their way. They are difficult to deal at times too.

[len01]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

i've told you before that i was a gambling addict who was devastated to lose all the valuable things i had. but after i got to know a girl and i made her a friend to tell her all my problems and she found out that i was once a very broken gambling addict. but at that time i felt compatible with the woman and i married her.
after that i tried to gamble again but my wife always reminded me not to spend too much money on gambling, just think of gambling as playing games to entertain yourself when you have free time.
so that every time i play gambling my wife never forbids me to stop gambling but instead she always reminds me to gamble wisely and don't spend too much money.
i also asked my wife why she didn't stop me from playing gambling after i had a very bad past with gambling? he replied "because i am your wife, i appreciate whatever a husband does"
and until now i still play gambling without anyone forbidding and always reminded by my wife.
i feel proud to have a woman like my wife

[Newlifebtc]

a girlfiriend and will later become our partner I will follow him because our partner will definitely give the best for us, if it is not detrimental and is constructive for the sake of the future for both of us I will obey because in a relationship there must be mutual understanding and calculation for the impact possible

Your partner, girlfriend or boyfriend giving the best for both you isn't always the case. Sometimes, it is most likely something that they don't want you to do or they are against to do. It is not something that you're partner needs to decide but rather it is you who must think how gambling affects your relationship and your financial needs. If gambling is just your leisure activity to have fun and it doesn't affect the both of you in terms of financial and time then your partner asking you to stop it would not be fine.

Some people change - they really value their relationship.
Had it been the case - I would go an extra mile for my partner.
But some people don't want to change - they are stubborn and they go on their way. They are difficult to deal at times too.

Not all people who is gambler like their girl friend to notice that they are into gambling because woman like to restrict their boy friend from gambling and also like to restrict their boyfriend from smoking. This two things is what women can do to bend a man when they come into Man. Women sometimes they are selfish in the character and sometimes they character also contribute positive in the man life. But woman can not make me leave gambling

[Tumanggor]

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I just hope you can moderate your gambling activities and is gambling responsibly.  it would be hard for you if you fell into a gambling addiction.  Though I would say have fun doing what you like, but it isn't nice to cheat on our girlfriend when you promised not to play gambling but play behind her back.  Once she knew about it, she will definitely get mad.

for now because we still don't live in the same house and are not married so I can freely hide my gambling activities but it will definitely be a different story if we are married and live in the same house LOL

but yeah, I keep trying to moderate my gambling activities well so I don't become a gambling addict and get me into big trouble

[Viscore]

If she is the type you are honest with and consider to be your wife. She noticed that gambling is not helping you is the reason. If you are a working class, you can just use 5% of your weekly income or less to gamble. If you use more than that and you are becoming an addict, best to quit.

Maybe your girlfriend had noticed that you are already becoming a slave to gambling, the reason why she insisted to make you quit from gambling. However, if you let her know that you are only gambling in moderation, and you only use your extra money to have fun and being entertained, I guess that could also help. Gambling is good when not abused, but you have to also respect your girlfriend if she has good intentions why she is insisting it.

[serjent05]

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I just hope you can moderate your gambling activities and is gambling responsibly.  it would be hard for you if you fell into a gambling addiction.  Though I would say have fun doing what you like, but it isn't nice to cheat on our girlfriend when you promised not to play gambling but play behind her back.  Once she knew about it, she will definitely get mad.

for now because we still don't live in the same house and are not married so I can freely hide my gambling activities but it will definitely be a different story if we are married and live in the same house LOL

but yeah, I keep trying to moderate my gambling activities well so I don't become a gambling addict and get me into big trouble

That is good to hear, at least you know your limit.

If she is the type you are honest with and consider to be your wife. She noticed that gambling is not helping you is the reason. If you are a working class, you can just use 5% of your weekly income or less to gamble. If you use more than that and you are becoming an addict, best to quit.

A girlfriend like that is supposed to be heard.  She has no intention but to make the best out of his boyfriend.  So those suggestions of us stopping our gambling activity would be taken fully as concerns for our betterment and I would gladly listen to her without any questions asked.   I'd better stop gambling than lose a wife material girlfriend like that.

[kotajikikox]

I am lucky because My Wife (former GF) is supportive in every steps of the way , When we are still in dating period? She knew that I am involving in gambling activities but instead of stopping me? yet he is joining me in activities and she even become my lucky charm.
until now we are still playing together in Online gambling here in crypto. also we are going sometime in Live casinos  just to have our date while playing lol.

My betting habit is a private matter that concerns only me. I don't like other people talking about it... We need to be more understanding about such matters so that we can establish better relationships with the people around us. If we put pressure on each other about matters that don't concern us, our good relationships can be ruined.

wrong . it is depending on how this affect your relationship specially in financial matter , because if you and your girlfriend is experiencing some difficulties because of the damage from your gambling activities then I think it is Her rights to stops you.

[Jemzx00]

If she is the type you are honest with and consider to be your wife. She noticed that gambling is not helping you is the reason. If you are a working class, you can just use 5% of your weekly income or less to gamble. If you use more than that and you are becoming an addict, best to quit.

Maybe your girlfriend had noticed that you are already becoming a slave to gambling, the reason why she insisted to make you quit from gambling. However, if you let her know that you are only gambling in moderation, and you only use your extra money to have fun and being entertained, I guess that could also help. Gambling is good when not abused, but you have to also respect your girlfriend if she has good intentions why she is insisting it.

That is why communication is the key to any relationship for it work out. You cannnot ask someone and expect them to listen and obey without telling the reason for them to do it. The same goes when your girlfriend ask you to stop gambling without any reason. If you are having fun gambling and it relieves your stress without being addicted and causing you any harm then there should be no reason for you to stop.

[madnessteat]

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Very often the other half sees changes in a person faster than everyone else so I think we should always listen to our girlfriends/wives. If your gambling activity does not lead to excessive spending of the family budget then the girl will not pay attention to it. But if she sees that you are not in control of your spending, she will let you know very quickly.

[Jemzx00]

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Very often the other half sees changes in a person faster than everyone else so I think we should always listen to our girlfriends/wives. If your gambling activity does not lead to excessive spending of the family budget then the girl will not pay attention to it. But if she sees that you are not in control of your spending, she will let you know very quickly.

I agree that other people will be able to better see yourself than your own but I rather disagree on always listening to your girlfriend or partner. Just as you've said, other people will have a better view of ourselves than us and the same goes to our partners. Sometimes, they would like to stop our gambling activities just to save money which can be used to buy something else. But they should also think about the fun it gives and provides us even if it will cost some excess money we have.

Anyways, it would still depends if something is already wrong to our gambling activities and we have already lost control and has imbalance to our financial situation.

[BobK71]

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Very often the other half sees changes in a person faster than everyone else so I think we should always listen to our girlfriends/wives. If your gambling activity does not lead to excessive spending of the family budget then the girl will not pay attention to it. But if she sees that you are not in control of your spending, she will let you know very quickly.

This is true, when a gambler loses so much, he often doesn't have common sense. If a gambler finds himself in a situation where his family's maintenance money is spent on gambling, he should do what his partner tells him to do. Because using such money in gambling will bring major disaster in life which will be difficult to recover.

[Issa56]

Our girlfriend should not interrupt nor decide for us if we want to gamble or not. Why should we follow up on their request? Because of love? Nah.

If they just stop you without any reason, then ignore them.

If they stop you because you are now turning worst, then that's reasonable.

I think sometimes we have to listen to our partner, I believe lot's of people gamble just to make money, but if your girlfriend is against it, then you have to check yourself because definitely something is wrong, if you gamble just for fun or relaxation I don't think your girlfriend will ask you to stop gambling, but if you are getting addicted to gambling and she noticed something is wrong then she can ask you to stop gambling, it's for your own good so I believe it's better we listen to our partner sometimes.

[Cryptock]

Our girlfriend should not interrupt nor decide for us if we want to gamble or not. Why should we follow up on their request? Because of love? Nah.

If they just stop you without any reason, then ignore them.

If they stop you because you are now turning worst, then that's reasonable.

I think sometimes we have to listen to our partner, I believe lot's of people gamble just to make money, but if your girlfriend is against it, then you have to check yourself because definitely something is wrong, if you gamble just for fun or relaxation I don't think your girlfriend will ask you to stop gambling, but if you are getting addicted to gambling and she noticed something is wrong then she can ask you to stop gambling, it's for your own good so I believe it's better we listen to our partner sometimes.

That's correct . there are some men who are very rigid and tell up front that they are not going to change.
But life is hard like this - if you find a right partner then there is no harm is adopting what makes both comfortable - at he end most of the married men stop gambling. Research says that.

[madnessteat]

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I don't think your wife or girlfriend will tolerate a situation where you only think about gambling and have nothing to eat at home. She will most likely leave you for another guy who will devote his free time to her and not to gambling. Everything is relative, so I think we all need to control our finances and not forget about the other half, as they need our attention. Also, you can gamble at any time.

[wheelz1200]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

Someone popped up in the collectibles board once selling a cryptocurrency coin, and saying they were doing so because their girlfriend didn’t like the fact that he was “in to bitcoin/cryptocurrency”. We all told him he should get rid of her lol. That’s a bit different of a situation though. If the girlfriend doesn’t like the gambling because of it being a problem, then I understand, but if not, she likely needs to mind her own business.

I remember that yeah that was a "you need to leave her" moment lol.  What a terrible idea it is not to dive into crypto but gambling I can see some cases where your girl wigs out.  Generally speaking if you are into something and your girl isn't and it's an important part of your life it just might not be the best situation to be in

[molsewid]

I don't think your wife or girlfriend will tolerate a situation where you only think about gambling and have nothing to eat at home. She will most likely leave you for another guy who will devote his free time to her and not to gambling. Everything is relative, so I think we all need to control our finances and not forget about the other half, as they need our attention. Also, you can gamble at any time.

Yeah, if he really wants to stop gambling he don't need to ask for advice he needs to start it within. Even though people like his family or girlfriend will advice and ask him to stop he will still do the because he is addicted to it. His family can help him same as to his girlfriend but he needs to take an action so that there will be some changes in the future, it's for him and and his gf.

[smartaction]

It is common things many girls didn’t like gamble and They always pressure there boy friend  to stop gamble . coz they think gamble is a bad habit .but here i like gambling a lot i will never stop gamble gamble if my girl friend insists me he he

[coupable]

Generally speaking, it depends on the reasons why my girl friend will insist on me to stop gambling.
If you are in a situation of excessive addiction or on the verge of addiction to gambling, her insistence is legitimate and I am supposed to comply with her in order to avoid catastrophe.
If you insist on this for ideological reasons, then most likely every person is free in his choices and no one has the right to force the other party in any kind of relationship to adopt ideas he does not want.
Another hypothesis is that she insists because gambling takes all the time and negatively affects the relationship. In this case, it is better to sit at the negotiating table.