Gambling by financial dependents.

[Dewi Aries]

If a boy below 18 years of age who has no income gets involved in gambling and after getting involved he becomes addicted to gambling then when he cannot manage money for gambling but he can go in wrong direction to manage money. We see many drug addicted boys and girls who, if they don't get money for drugs, misbehave with family members and commit various misdeeds. A boy under the age of 18 who is involved in gambling must be brought out of gambling addiction and the family must supervise the matter so that the boy does not become addicted to gambling. Because it will not be good for the family if the boy gets addicted to gambling and he can definitely commit such misdeeds.

When someone is addicted, of course they will have great difficulty in managing their finances, making it difficult for them to meet their needs and for those who are under 18 years of age, of course they will not be able to have income that they can use for gambling, so when they experience an addiction in gambling, of course it will be very easy for them to do bad things so that they can fulfill their need to gamble, for those under 18 years of age who are addicted to drugs and gambling, of course they will commit crimes when they don't have money. to buy drugs and also gamble.

Yes, it is the family's responsibility to direct them not to gamble too often because they cannot yet have an income and it would be better if they could use their youth in a good way and not harm themselves.

True, when someone who is already addicted has absolutely no personal income in his life for some reason, whether it is unemployed or indeed they are still underage where most children at that age are more preoccupied with school lessons and not looking for ways to earn money such as working or simply they still depend on parents in any case such as in terms of finance to meet their needs, and yes it is true that what is feared is that it is very possible for them to do things that are out of control or bad things such as stealing from their parents or even from other people.

Of course it is a very bad behavior that can make a child lose their future because they have a bad personality which will lead them to many problems as they grow older. Of course this is entirely the responsibility of their parents, one of the contributing factors may be that their parents do not pay much attention to a child which in turn the child is influenced by an environment that is most likely thick with gambling, and I am sure that no matter how bad the parents are, they always want the best for their children by directing and re-educating a child to the right track.

[AmoreJaz]

If kids are rebellious, they have to disciplined by the parents. It's important to understand why they are displaying such behaviors and why parents are failing to succeed disciplining them. There might be several causes and reaching the truth may be complex, so each case must be followed closely.

At same time, we can't misunderstand rebellion with curiosity. Children are curious about everything, therefore it's possible they will find a way to get involved with gambling if they are heavily curious about it in the current moment. Then parents have to manage the situation in the most natural possible manner, while at same time not encouraging their children into dangerous paths which can bring further negative consequences in the future.

I guess if the child sees his parents are trying to care for him, that they are trustful people who can be counted on every situations encountered by the child, and have an open dialogue with the child regards the matters he is curious about, the right impression will last on him.

One way to understand your kid is to have open discussion with them about their life. This one is hard if they are not used to it. But if you happen to inject this activity with your kid/s, would be easier to learn why they are into this activity and so would be easier to guide and help them, in case, you feel they already need guidance.

There will be stage of being rebellious and all, but if you know your kid, you will understand where he is coming from. If you are a parent, you would know that it is only you that will have the patience to stay with your kid. So as much as possible, instill the good values so they can bring those wherever they are.

[Hirose UK]

Of course, the role of parents must be to be responsible and always supervise what their children do, if this fails there is chance that mistakes will occur in the future and worse, it can create problems involving the whole family.
Gambling is problem that often occurs, many teenagers and children are starting to get to know and even take part in gambling activities and basically they are gamblers who only rely on money given by their parents.
As time goes by they become addicted and do much worse things to make money to fulfill their gambling desires, there are also many cases where these young gamblers dare to take out loans from their friends to gamble.
In the end, the family has to bear what the child does and this is clearly problem that is quite worrying.

Development of the times which involves increasingly sophisticated technology does have negative impact if it is used incorrectly or deviantly.
Every parent must really supervise and direct their children to do what they should do and avoid what they should avoid in order to minimize the occurrence of mistakes that have bad consequences in the future.

The role of parents must be there to helps their children from bad things that can happens to them, especially in this era when the technology grows faster than before. Parents needs to have ability to supervise their children and besides them so they can watch their children grow without doing something that can harm their lives. If parents fail doing their job to watch their children, their children can gets a wrong way because they can do something with their friends and we can see many children use their time with their friends. Many of them drag into a wrong thing without they realize but after they knows that's what they do is a bad thing, they are too late to gets out. Many of them playing gambling with their friends without their parents knows and that makes their lives changed.

We must use technology better and not using it for something that can harm us or our family. The technology is like a knife which have two face, for a good or bad thing and that depends on us how we will used it. If we can use it for a good thing, that will not harm us and vice versa. Parents must always take care their children because that's the main job parents for their children. Parents must minimize the mistakes that their children can do and avoids something that can harm their lives.

And every parent must be harder in educating and directing their children into every activity that is more positive and can provide much better experience, it doesn't matter if we do things that our children might consider excessive but in the long run it is very beneficial.
Key to child personality and future is in the hands of the parents when the child is still teenager and in adolescence it becomes determinant of the child attitude and behavior in adulthood.
Sometimes many parents spoil their children too much and allow or even tolerate whatever child wants and does just with the aim of seeing them happy, but this is not the right way to educate child.
Don't make mistakes that can ultimately create problems and cause trouble for us as parents and all family members.

Everything has benefits and also bad impacts, but it comes back to how it is used because if it is used well and only to do work and positive things then negative impacts will not be experienced.
Vice versa, so we must be able to determine what is appropriate and what should be avoided.

[adpinbr]

Yes this is why I said that when some one is little below 18 or above 18 a little also, should I have their own life style,to me a notice that the boy is just trying to make money and have some good thing for himself and it not easy for him so to me he has to run back to the person who is getting more money than him? Which happens to be his mother and he can’t ask for me for any good reason because no good reason available, the only thing he wants to do is to still the money and that becomes a big problem between him and her mother, all we need to do is to advise the son to stop and make him happy that he will be great and get his own money

[ethereumhunter]

And every parent must be harder in educating and directing their children into every activity that is more positive and can provide much better experience, it doesn't matter if we do things that our children might consider excessive but in the long run it is very beneficial.
Key to child personality and future is in the hands of the parents when the child is still teenager and in adolescence it becomes determinant of the child attitude and behavior in adulthood.
Sometimes many parents spoil their children too much and allow or even tolerate whatever child wants and does just with the aim of seeing them happy, but this is not the right way to educate child.
Don't make mistakes that can ultimately create problems and cause trouble for us as parents and all family members.

Everything has benefits and also bad impacts, but it comes back to how it is used because if it is used well and only to do work and positive things then negative impacts will not be experienced.
Vice versa, so we must be able to determine what is appropriate and what should be avoided.

Parents must stay closer to their kids, no matters if they are busy with their job because that's what their kids needs so their kids will see that their parents will still besides them in any situations. This will makes their relationship becomes closer and will have a strong bond between parents and their kids so their kids can tells many things to their parents without boundaries. Sometimes, kids are afraid to tells their parents if they have a problem because many parents can't understand what they kids needs. Parents thinks that if they can gives money to their kids, that will be enough for their kids to fills their needs. But money is not everything because when their kids grow, they really needs their parents stay besides them and suggest many good things to them.

Parents must understand about this so their kids will not doing something that can harm their lives. They will not trying to playing gambling using the money from their parents instead will use it for their goodness. Besides that, their kids will follow their parents suggestion because they believe with their parents that their parents will always care with them.

[EarnOnVictor]

Yes this is why I said that when some one is little below 18 or above 18 a little also, should I have their own life style,to me a notice that the boy is just trying to make money and have some good thing for himself and it not easy for him so to me he has to run back to the person who is getting more money than him? Which happens to be his mother and he can’t ask for me for any good reason because no good reason available, the only thing he wants to do is to still the money and that becomes a big problem between him and her mother, all we need to do is to advise the son to stop and make him happy that he will be great and get his own money

I think you are getting this all wrong, he doesn't have the right, and it is irrespective of whether the dependent can ask the mum, dad, uncle etc for money, it is just the moral justification of what such a dependent wants to use the money for. Is it justified? In gambling, it can never be justified, you still do not earn by yourself, you are a dependent and whether you are above 18 years or below it doesn't matter, what you do not work for, you do not have the right to waste it. This is especially true if the money was given to him painstakingly, there is no way it will not hurt the person who sweated for the wanted money before giving it to the dependent.

Gambling is not food, and neither is it the air we breathe in, it has never been a necessity in my dictionary, so why then gamble when you can avoid it until you start making money by yourself and use it the way you want? Or have you seen someone who relies desperately on gambling to make money and actually makes the money consistently? This is why the focus of this dependent should not even be on gambling but on other viable means that can earn him direct money and not on gambling that could earn him passive winnings in a very risky way. Because he might gamble 50 times and still not win any, is that what he is justifying wasting the hard-earned money of another person for? This is bad.

Fine, no one is stopping you from gambling when you are at least 18 or 21 (depending on the company), but that is only justified if it is you who earned that money all by yourself. This clearly proves that you can use it the way you want, but you will be a very bad person wasting the money of others, especially if you know the person does not have much. That is the way I see it though, my friend.

[hyudien]

One way to understand your kid is to have open discussion with them about their life. This one is hard if they are not used to it. But if you happen to inject this activity with your kid/s, would be easier to learn why they are into this activity and so would be easier to guide and help them, in case, you feel they already need guidance.

There will be stage of being rebellious and all, but if you know your kid, you will understand where he is coming from. If you are a parent, you would know that it is only you that will have the patience to stay with your kid. So as much as possible, instill the good values so they can bring those wherever they are.

I agree with you, communication is the best form in a relationship, whether between parents and children, husband and wife and so on. With communication we can open up any problems and can find the best solution to solve the problem. In my opinion, there should be no boundaries between parents and children, because if there are boundaries, it will create a relationship that ultimately makes communication not run smoothly.
I see now that many parents are too strict with their children, I don't think that's good. And there are parents who are too soft, which is also not good. We must always be in the right measure so that we can know what their world is like.
As parents, we don't always want to be respected, because I believe that if as parents we respect them as children, then they will also give positive feedback.
Moreover, of course we were also young, and we should know what they want so that we can establish good communication with them.