Gambling by financial dependents.

[AmoreJaz]

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With communication we can open up any problems and can find the best solution to solve the problem. In my opinion, there should be no boundaries between parents and children, because if there are boundaries, it will create a relationship that ultimately makes communication not run smoothly.

As effective as communication is in bonding and building great relationship in a family, it's sadly not always applied. It's hard for most modern parents like us dealing with Gen-Z kids because of the preponderance of what is consumed on the internet. Those days, kids used to go out to gamble and that could mean parents having movement control over their children. That's not the case now as kids can lock themselves up in rooms or wherever and access any gambling sites they want.

As for someone who's financially dependant on others indulging in gambling, it's a bad idea for me. I judge it irresponsibility when I see someone gamble on funds that aren't theirs.

That's the dilemma of parents nowadays, as most young gen are into all kinds of gadgets, you can't totally know what they are doing. Unless, you will restrict the sites that they can visit, so you need to do a very good security and privacy settings on their phones or gadgets.

But still, as a parent, you need to instill the good values starting at the very early age. So while they are growing up, they have this good upbringing that they can always rely on in especially in their challenging times, when they are being influenced by their peers and other people. If they are secure with themselves, they will do the right thing no matter what.

[Franctoshi]

In this kind of situation, the parents should call their kid and educate him on the risk involved in gambling, not by leaving him without guiding him else the child go extent sourcing for funds which could also lead him to try to steal from their, then secondly every access that the kid may have towards the parents funds should be denied, in the sense that they should avoid keeping cash big cash or no cash at home where the kid would have access to.

[alastantiger]

In this kind of situation, the parents should call their kid and educate him on the risk involved in gambling, not by leaving him without guiding him else the child go extent sourcing for funds which could also lead him to try to steal from their, then secondly every access that the kid may have towards the parents funds should be denied, in the sense that they should avoid keeping cash big cash or no cash at home where the kid would have access to.

Agreed, the parents are responsible for their kids until they are man enough to stand on their own and make decisions. Kids don't know the value of money and how hard it is to work for money. They'll think earning money is easy hence you have to teach them how to value money at a very young age so they don't misuse money and become a nuisance to the community. Money not used wisely will be lost and this is what happens with most underage gamblers. As they keep losing, they get more desperate and when they don't see the money again, they'll turn to other means of getting the money which will bring disgrace to your family if they're caught doing unlawful things just to get money that they'll still not use wisely and lose all. All people under your care should be restricted from having easy way in to your money when you observe that they're having difficulties with gambling addiction.

[Tmoonz]

Personally, I don't see any problem with this guy gambling if he uses only his own money and does not overstep the bounds of the law. I started gambling long before I came of age and I am still gambling, but I have changed my attitude to gambling radically since then.

I would advise young gamblers to pay attention to the study of cryptocurrencies and investing. It is quite an interesting area to study. Gambling is entertainment, and investing with the right approach is an opportunity to earn money.

I appreciate your advice, what you said is indeed the honest truth though anyone is entitled to his or her opinions as to this regards, the reason why I said that the young boy should properly guided at this point from my previous post, to ensure he is not fallen apart from the plan which includes seeing gambling as a fun play and nothing to be taken too serious because the he over steps his boundaries the consequences can be very detrimental to his life as growing young boy, yeah he shouldn't be left alone to figure out how this works rather he should be guided diligently.

[I_Anime]

A family member reported to me that her eighteen years old son has started gambling. She is not worried that he is gaming but her problem is that he is a student that solely depends on her for everything he needs. Her fear is also that her son might start stealing from her if he has no access to the money he needs to gamble. My relative has even started suspecting that some money she feels was misplaced might have been stolen by her son.

I spoke to my nephew and he told me that he has never stolen from his mother to gamble. And he gambles with only his savings from his weekly stipend he receives from the family. And he won't gamble if he has no savings to do that. From my observation, he is a responsible gambler that is just enjoying the game and making a little money occasionally. The gambling age in my country is 18+, but his mother is insisting that he must stop. What will be your advice for this young boy?

Most gamblers hardly admit that they are gambling the wrong or they are gambling addict . Well the stealing he might be saying the truth but we can't still tell. But concerning the responsible gambling and stuff , is hard to believe. Though he may be gambling responsible due to the fact that he should started, but one thing about addict , is something that grows with time. Like he have Started with the right mindset of gambling for fun and to make extra bucks, but he will get to point were all he about is how to hit the jackpot quick or how to get rich quick with gambling.

Especially when he don't have someone to guide him , I'm speaking base on experience, I knew of someone that started gambling with the right mindset of gambling wisely, but as time goes he mind became clouded with greed in gambling which lead to being a gambling addict for sometime, but was able to get his self back after losing a certain huge amount of money that literally got him reckt. Just tell your nephew that he should be careful of the way he approach gambling, because gambling can either help ones lives or ruin it .

[Koadharber]

A family member reported to me that her eighteen years old son has started gambling. She is not worried that he is gaming but her problem is that he is a student that solely depends on her for everything he needs. Her fear is also that her son might start stealing from her if he has no access to the money he needs to gamble. My relative has even started suspecting that some money she feels was misplaced might have been stolen by her son.

I spoke to my nephew and he told me that he has never stolen from his mother to gamble. And he gambles with only his savings from his weekly stipend he receives from the family. And he won't gamble if he has no savings to do that. From my observation, he is a responsible gambler that is just enjoying the game and making a little money occasionally. The gambling age in my country is 18+, but his mother is insisting that he must stop. What will be your advice for this young boy?

Most gamblers hardly admit that they are gambling the wrong or they are gambling addict . Well the stealing he might be saying the truth but we can't still tell. But concerning the responsible gambling and stuff , is hard to believe. Though he may be gambling responsible due to the fact that he should started, but one thing about addict , is something that grows with time. Like he have Started with the right mindset of gambling for fun and to make extra bucks, but he will get to point were all he about is how to hit the jackpot quick or how to get rich quick with gambling.

Especially when he don't have someone to guide him , I'm speaking base on experience, I knew of someone that started gambling with the right mindset of gambling wisely, but as time goes he mind became clouded with greed in gambling which lead to being a gambling addict for sometime, but was able to get his self back after losing a certain huge amount of money that literally got him reckt. Just tell your nephew that he should be careful of the way he approach gambling, because gambling can either help ones lives or ruin it .

The longer duration that you would really be that dealing with gambling with, then the more chances or possibility that you would really be finding yourself that being addicted into it and this is something that
you must trying out to see or look upon on the time that you would really be dealing up with gambling. Never ever make yourself that easily get addicted with gambling. Its not really that bad to gamble
as long you do make yourself that being responsible on the actions that you are taking, then there's no way that you could really be falling out on such possible problem in the future. It would really be just that
up to you on how you would really be gonna handling out yourself because on the moment that you do already make yourself having that kind of hopes on getting rich then this is where issues would really be happening like on gambling addiction.

[LDL]

A family member reported to me that her eighteen years old son has started gambling. She is not worried that he is gaming but her problem is that he is a student that solely depends on her for everything he needs. Her fear is also that her son might start stealing from her if he has no access to the money he needs to gamble. My relative has even started suspecting that some money she feels was misplaced might have been stolen by her son.

I spoke to my nephew and he told me that he has never stolen from his mother to gamble. And he gambles with only his savings from his weekly stipend he receives from the family. And he won't gamble if he has no savings to do that. From my observation, he is a responsible gambler that is just enjoying the game and making a little money occasionally. The gambling age in my country is 18+, but his mother is insisting that he must stop. What will be your advice for this young boy?

If the gambler is above 18 years of age then the condition of participation is met but if a gambler is dependent on others and is addicted to gambling without earning himself, the matter becomes different. A gambler the OP mentions is addicted to gambling with mom's money and sometimes doesn't hesitate to steal mom's money to manage the gambling money, in this case the gambling has had a seriously negative effect on the son. All these boys need to be treated by a psychology doctor otherwise they will organize more crimes later.
But the gambler mentioned in the second step is addicted to gambling with his tuition money and in this case he does not have to depend on any other field to manage the gambling money. No criminal activity is being committed by this gambler rather he has chosen gambling as one of the main reasons for entertainment.  In this case, gambling has been able to create a positive effect on this boy.