The madness of gambling addicts.

[Orpichukwu]

There's this friend of mine who was into gambling. This guy was introduced to betting and got addicted to it for years, and at this level he has gone into virtual games. At some point, he could use all his money, borrow from others, and even use the one given to him by someone for important stuff. This went a long way for him, and his life was becoming miserable as time went on. But with the help of some punishment , self discipline and prayers, he was able to reduce it. And today he doesn't do virtual games. In all this, I noticed that there's this confidence he has that he will hit it big, if not today but one big day, and he will stop it with the money he will hit.
My question was, When is this big day? Yes, you might be lucky one day, but when is that? Is there a guarantee for it? How long will you continue to do this for the big day? It's better to stop today than regret it.

This one day I will hit it big is what really inspires most of them to go into gambling more and more, even when they have not been winning. They still keep on gambling with the hope that one day, if they win, they will be able to recover all that they have spent on gambling.
 
But one thing about this is that if they calculate all the money they have spent since the very first day they started gambling, they will notice that what they won from that one bet they might claim is big is just a small percentage of what they have spent in the past.

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[Fredomago]

The truth is that when a gambler is addicted to gambling, he's very likely to make decisions that's not going to be beneficial for him at that moment because most of the things he'll be doing be will mostly be influenced by his desire to satisfy his gambling addiction. Loan as we all know is mostly taken by people who are trying to invest in their different business endeavors and not to use them for gambling but when a gambler is addicted to gambling, taking loan from any financial institution just to fund their gambling activities won't be a big issue for him.
Most times gambling addict takes this decisions unconsciously and can't just help themselves. Gambling addict have caused so many people to take decisions they would never take when they're completely stable and that's why we as a people must continue to condemn gambling addict and also preach about the consequences of gambling addiction

When it comes to gambling addiction,  there is no limit to how far one can go and that is the reason you see some gambling addicts going as far as taking loan just to gamble with and with the hope that they will win and there after recover.

Addiction is a high pressure thing that put the gambler on the higher risk of wanting to earn more by risking all, this is why we always preach that gamblers should take gambli6as an entertaining and fun and not with the aim to hit a jackpot or trying make money off it at any time, because trying to do so you may be putting your money at risk and also making you to become addicted to gambling.

Yeah right, there's no level if how far you can go in terms of gambling addiction, if the limitation already exceeded and you can't control things or can't handle your aggressions to keep playing, like many other people's opinion addiction can lead you to do something that unusual and unexpected, there are some quiet people who you won't think can do crime but because of addiction they fall to do things that they are not known of doing.

They been force by the situations, they just wanted to keep playing but they've got limited resources and to be able to proceed, they need to do things that they are force just to please their gambling needs.

[Accardo]

There's this friend of mine who was into gambling. This guy was introduced to betting and got addicted to it for years, and at this level he has gone into virtual games. At some point, he could use all his money, borrow from others, and even use the one given to him by someone for important stuff. This went a long way for him, and his life was becoming miserable as time went on. But with the help of some punishment , self discipline and prayers, he was able to reduce it. And today he doesn't do virtual games. In all this, I noticed that there's this confidence he has that he will hit it big, if not today but one big day, and he will stop it with the money he will hit.
My question was, When is this big day? Yes, you might be lucky one day, but when is that? Is there a guarantee for it? How long will you continue to do this for the big day? It's better to stop today than regret it.

This one day I will hit it big is what really inspires most of them to go into gambling more and more, even when they have not been winning. They still keep on gambling with the hope that one day, if they win, they will be able to recover all that they have spent on gambling.
 
But one thing about this is that if they calculate all the money they have spent since the very first day they started gambling, they will notice that what they won from that one bet they might claim is big is just a small percentage of what they have spent in the past.

The feeling gets very serious the closer they get to hitting it big. Some players are inspired by the results that show that a game was the reason they didn't win big. It proves to the gambler, he's close to hitting big. But I keep wondering why a single game? the gambler would have forfeited staking on multiple games and focused on a few games he was sure of winning. Instead of losing out completely because of a single game. However, it's not about saying they'll stop the moment the big win arrives. Practicing it works best for the player, yet it's hard to find a player who stopped after making a big win. I think the drive multiplies and leads the player to gamble more, with a high stake.

Moreover, gamblers are tricked by the thoughts of the big day, that they forget themselves. Gamblers instead of spending on their health, would bet and hope on the wins to support their livelihood. Which is the reason they get affected emotionally when the game is lost. Their senses begin to creep in on the other things they would have done with the money. Friends who have an interest in virtual games, tend to lose out on all their wins. It gets weird to hear them complain about winning and losing out on everything, not even a transportation fee would be left. Consistently correcting the thoughts of the gambler, towards remembering himself, and the fact he matters, will go a long way in safeguarding him against problem gambling.

[junder]

This one day I will hit it big is what really inspires most of them to go into gambling more and more, even when they have not been winning. They still keep on gambling with the hope that one day, if they win, they will be able to recover all that they have spent on gambling.
 
But one thing about this is that if they calculate all the money they have spent since the very first day they started gambling, they will notice that what they won from that one bet they might claim is big is just a small percentage of what they have spent in the past.

There are indeed some people who think they can get big wins after many losses by gambling, like my friend did. he gambled only in casinos and the more he gambled the more often he lost, and when I told him to stop he refused because he believed he could win big after losing so much. In fact, that's each individual's right, but as his friend I certainly don't want him to be fooled by gambling, I mean don't have too much hope either, because often too much hope ends up trapping us, like losing a lot of money or being in a cycle of confusion. and brands that say they will be successful with gambling someday, I doubt that.

It's true that I'm sure of that, if you take everything into account from the start when they first became acquainted with gambling, there's definitely not a small amount of money they've lost because of gambling, and even if they win, I don't think it can cover all the losses that have occurred. It feels like a big win is almost impossible to get, because it's very rare for me to hear of anyone getting a win that is so big that it can change their life drastically, from poor to billionaire for example. Even in my country I haven't found any news about it, which is certain that many people have experienced bad effects because of gambling, such as financial losses and their lives being ruined.

[hyudien]

When it comes to gambling addiction,  there is no limit to how far one can go and that is the reason you see some gambling addicts going as far as taking loan just to gamble with and with the hope that they will win and there after recover.

Addiction is a high pressure thing that put the gambler on the higher risk of wanting to earn more by risking all, this is why we always preach that gamblers should take gambli6as an entertaining and fun and not with the aim to hit a jackpot or trying make money off it at any time, because trying to do so you may be putting your money at risk and also making you to become addicted to gambling.

Indeed, there are no restrictions on gambling because it depends on us ourselves who gamble, but in my opinion, having limits on gambling is a must. because having these limits will help reduce or prevent major losses. By having limits on gambling, it will be safely controlled, there will be no big losses such as excessive deposits. Taking out a loan to gamble is wrong, and maybe gamblers do that because they have no limits in their gambling.
That's right, even if they become addicted, it can make them even bolder in carrying out big-risk actions which can clearly harm themselves. It is really not recommended to gamble by chasing wins or jackpots, because that will only make us lose more money. What you said is true is that gambling should be done just for fun, because if the motive is different then the results and what will happen will be different. in the future.

[Lucasgabd]

taking loans and gambling despite having no money in their pocket etc. Because of this, it is better to keep yourself under control and play limited gambling

We think that of all the mistakes that can be made financially is to ask for loans to be able to do something else with that money, a person always lends money thinking that it could make a difference, that is, if they lend $2k they will leave with at least $3 -$4k and this or so, things in the casino work differently, and when they lose the money they lent, things get worse, because not only do they not have money to play, they do not have money to pay the loan And apart from that The player has a family, children, we must add the problems he brings in terms of food expenses, maintenance, and apart from those expenses that have to do with services, and this becomes stress, pressure, something that can make him A person loses control and does not know where to get money from, this is the only worst thing that can happen, because it is already a minimum step to enter into addiction.

Apart from this, when a person has gone into debt like this he cannot demand that things turn out well for him, because he has to get involved in more days and more things that become more complicated as time goes by.

Taking a loan to gamble with is far too many risk to take as a gambler this is because most times the results of such moves have always ended in the negative which could be traced to pressure to recover from Previous loses and at that when you build that capacity to take loans at frequent it becomes a habits which will later translate into addictions on the long run, so many of those wrong thoughts that you can make up for what you lost or being able to make some gains on the long run, from a loan will always end in frustrations.

So it best to decipline yourself to the point that you can easily walk away fr9m gambling when you already exusted your set aside funds and to a point that if you don't have any left over funds you walk away instead of taking loans to gamble with, that is not wise decisions unless and only those who are already addicted to gambling will go that legnt just to satisfy the urge.

The truth is that when a gambler is addicted to gambling, he's very likely to make decisions that's not going to be beneficial for him at that moment because most of the things he'll be doing be will mostly be influenced by his desire to satisfy his gambling addiction. Loan as we all know is mostly taken by people who are trying to invest in their different business endeavors and not to use them for gambling but when a gambler is addicted to gambling, taking loan from any financial institution just to fund their gambling activities won't be a big issue for him.
Most times gambling addict takes this decisions unconsciously and can't just help themselves. Gambling addict have caused so many people to take decisions they would never take when they're completely stable and that's why we as a people must continue to condemn gambling addict and also preach about the consequences of gambling addiction

the best decisions we make in life are usually though
you may not regret by decisions made in seconds done by a gut feeling but these should probably be an exception not a rule
if you're addicted to something that by itself is a sign that something is wrong and that you're not thinking clearly

[Why2why]

the best decisions we make in life are usually though
you may not regret by decisions made in seconds done by a gut feeling but these should probably be an exception not a rule
if you're addicted to something that by itself is a sign that something is wrong and that you're not thinking clearly

Yeah that is right, most good decisions are tough decision, that will directly impact our way lf life and how we tend to enjoy our freedom, this is quite essential for the well being of any human and it not in gambling alone but other aspects of life, one need to be very decipline in approach to things, so for anyone to stay above possible addiction there is need for high decipline and dedication to following lay down laws to achieve the majority goals.
Most of those that have become gambling all trun out so because of they inability to have a draw line when the turn back or be able to control their emotions, for sure we must not rely so much on our own ability to control our gambling activities,  because man without law is free to abuse the freedom which will lead to addictions of any form.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

There's this friend of mine who was into gambling. This guy was introduced to betting and got addicted to it for years, and at this level he has gone into virtual games. At some point, he could use all his money, borrow from others, and even use the one given to him by someone for important stuff. This went a long way for him, and his life was becoming miserable as time went on. But with the help of some punishment , self discipline and prayers, he was able to reduce it. And today he doesn't do virtual games. In all this, I noticed that there's this confidence he has that he will hit it big, if not today but one big day, and he will stop it with the money he will hit.
My question was, When is this big day? Yes, you might be lucky one day, but when is that? Is there a guarantee for it? How long will you continue to do this for the big day? It's better to stop today than regret it.

This one day I will hit it big is what really inspires most of them to go into gambling more and more, even when they have not been winning. They still keep on gambling with the hope that one day, if they win, they will be able to recover all that they have spent on gambling.
 
But one thing about this is that if they calculate all the money they have spent since the very first day they started gambling, they will notice that what they won from that one bet they might claim is big is just a small percentage of what they have spent in the past.

Well, lets not pretend, beat about the bush, but be totally honest with ourselves, our lucks are not the same, and there are definitely alot of gamblers out there who did actually got so lucky and this dream of theirs was actuallised in just a single winning, when we actually say stuffs just exactly the way you said it, without acknowledging the fact that the experience is not always the same for all gamblers, it turns out that what we are doing is passing or misinforming people.

Gambling have always been a game of luck, and those who are lucky will always shine, I know of a person who have actually spent years in gambling, and I can't also deny the fact that he has also possibly spent alot of money as well, but then, he won a bet last year, ans amount was above a hundred thousand dollars, converting this money to our local currency, it's a very huge sum, and I to be honest, I don't think that in all his years of gambling, he has spend up to 3 percent of the money he won.
Gambling be a source of blessing and breakthrough for people, and continual gambling without giving can sure sometimes pay off, but only if the gambler is lucky.

[tech30338]

There's this friend of mine who was into gambling. This guy was introduced to betting and got addicted to it for years, and at this level he has gone into virtual games. At some point, he could use all his money, borrow from others, and even use the one given to him by someone for important stuff. This went a long way for him, and his life was becoming miserable as time went on. But with the help of some punishment , self discipline and prayers, he was able to reduce it. And today he doesn't do virtual games. In all this, I noticed that there's this confidence he has that he will hit it big, if not today but one big day, and he will stop it with the money he will hit.
My question was, When is this big day? Yes, you might be lucky one day, but when is that? Is there a guarantee for it? How long will you continue to do this for the big day? It's better to stop today than regret it.

This one day I will hit it big is what really inspires most of them to go into gambling more and more, even when they have not been winning. They still keep on gambling with the hope that one day, if they win, they will be able to recover all that they have spent on gambling.
 
But one thing about this is that if they calculate all the money they have spent since the very first day they started gambling, they will notice that what they won from that one bet they might claim is big is just a small percentage of what they have spent in the past.

Well, lets not pretend, beat about the bush, but be totally honest with ourselves, our lucks are not the same, and there are definitely alot of gamblers out there who did actually got so lucky and this dream of theirs was actuallised in just a single winning, when we actually say stuffs just exactly the way you said it, without acknowledging the fact that the experience is not always the same for all gamblers, it turns out that what we are doing is passing or misinforming people.

Gambling have always been a game of luck, and those who are lucky will always shine, I know of a person who have actually spent years in gambling, and I can't also deny the fact that he has also possibly spent alot of money as well, but then, he won a bet last year, ans amount was above a hundred thousand dollars, converting this money to our local currency, it's a very huge sum, and I to be honest, I don't think that in all his years of gambling, he has spend up to 3 percent of the money he won.
Gambling be a source of blessing and breakthrough for people, and continual gambling without giving can sure sometimes pay off, but only if the gambler is lucky.

i agree gambling is a game of luck and is set to make the banker wins more than us, so it will depend on how lucky you are, and how will you control you're emotion when losing money, because if you can't control you're emotion its 100% you will lose.

[Hispo]

This thread makes me think how many of the petty crimes we all see in news and in the newspapers are the result of people getting addicted to gambling. You know, the first thing which comes to my mind when I see those sad news on Television, is that those who are involved would be the victim of addiction to very harmful substances like Cocaine or Crack, because that is like the most obvious thing we could assume. But in reality, it could be also people who have gambled away most of their assets and since they have become addicted to it, they do not see any solution to their situation, besides stealing to further push their addiction to new levels of degeneracy.

In this thread we have learnt about people who were willing to kidnap their own family in order to continue to gamble, so I dont have any doubt in my mind about people going even further to please their insticts on gambling.  

Those kinds of stories are the ones used by the Muslim community as an example of way gambling can be dangerous, then in reality, we as adults are the only ones responsible for our habits, in the end.

[junder]

There are a lot of crazy things that are done when someone is heavily addicted to gambling, they tend to take actions that carry big risks, but they can do it with confidence and don't see the huge risks for themselves, including for their future. It's a shame that they dare to take risks on the wrong things, because if they take big risks, gambling will only destroy their lives, whether it's their health or their relationship with their family or partner.

Yes, according to the story of my friend who is a former gambling addict, when he gambles he doesn't think about anything when trying to recover his losses, let alone chasing his losses, it's true that he almost looks like a crazy person, in fact he finds it easier to spend more money than before, he even was left behind by his wife and children because he often committed violence against his family when he experienced losses which made him seem unconscious and even sold his vehicle just to gamble, he almost used up all his assets and fortunately he realized in the end.

But fortunately he still had a house that he had not sold and finally he was back with his family until now he was no longer seen playing online gambling because he realized that gambling would only lose everything he had, fortunately he immediately realized that chasing losses because gambling is not the best choice for a gambler because it is a big mistake that no gambler should make and this has also made me realize that gambling must be responsible so that gambling should not exceed the limit which ultimately leads to gambling addiction.

Most likely it's like that, even though they already have their own families such as wives and children who are supposed to support them, but when they are addicted to gambling, they will probably want to gamble, as you said, they will also find it easier to spend money on gambling than on necessities. his own family, I think it really happened because in my environment there are families like this. where the head of their family is addicted to gambling so he only thinks about gambling and doesn't think about the fate of the family which he should be responsible for. until finally the wife asked for a divorce, and when this happened the head of the family acted normally, as if nothing had happened, but I'm sure there will come a time when he will regret having neglected his own family.

It's good if the addict can realize that excessive gambling will only cause him to lose all his assets and possessions, because if he can't realize it then there is a definite possibility that he will experience life destruction, perhaps even worse, it can cause stress, and if Excessive pressure is unacceptable or it is already too burdensome to think about, maybe what will happen is mental illness, it is very scary if that happens. Therefore, we must be able to learn from the many cases that have occurred regarding excessive gambling. we must have boundaries set rather than bad things happening to ourselves.

[ethereumhunter]

It is true that we gamblers will never know when we will get a lucky win and if we gamble just for fun then what you say is true, we will probably bet according to our desires and we only gamble when we are bored and have free time. it's free, so we can control when we want to gamble.
Yes, that's right, we can use the bad experiences experienced by other gamblers as lessons for us so that we don't experience the same thing, therefore we will be wiser and more careful so we can prevent and minimize it. quite a big loss by having good self-control.

That's why we don't have to playing gambling using much money because we don't know when we will get a lucky win. Although we try more and more, that doesn't guarantee us to win but we will have bigger chances to lose more money that we will not realize. If we playing gambling for fun, we will not trying to chase the win and only used gambling to have fun in our spare time. We will not trying to playing gambling longer than the other people because we realizes that playing gambling longer can make us losing more money. We must trying to be responsible gambler to prevents many problems such as losing more money, we can't be wises in treating gambling, and the worst is becomes addicted to gambling.

You talk about surfing the wave until luck smiles. The catch: that wave? The tsunami is more likely to swallow us with the least mistake. Enjoying ourselves and managing our time and money sounds good, but is it foolproof? Hardly.

As usual, the house wins. Always. Math and probability; not pessimism. Your advice is to be defensive, learn from others, and avoid pursuing losses. Good, but let's dig deeper. Can't the greatest victory be achieved in seeing the game as rigged?

Understanding the odds and playing the game on our terms is true enlightenment. Celebrate the thrill, not the illusive victory. Shall we accept that? Knowing the odds are against us, can we appreciate the gamble? The ultimate risk, my friend.

The outcomes of playing gambling can be loses more money and will increased if you doesn't knows how to controls yourself when playing gambling. Many people losing their money while playing gambling and can't control themselves and makes them lose much money. They must knows that winning on gambling games is difficult and no matters they are trying to playing gambling too often and longer, that will not gives more chances to win.

People who can't controls themselves in gambling will not understand how to used gambling for a fun. They tends to playing gambling to chases the wins and makes money but that's difficult to do because gambling is not a places to makes money. Some of them can't understand that gambling is just a places to have fun because they see some people can makes money from gambling. That's why they still have a hopes to win on gambling and used more money to playing gambling.

[nullama]

This thread makes me think how many of the petty crimes we all see in news and in the newspapers are the result of people getting addicted to gambling. You know, the first thing which comes to my mind when I see those sad news on Television, is that those who are involved would be the victim of addiction to very harmful substances like Cocaine or Crack, because that is like the most obvious thing we could assume. But in reality, it could be also people who have gambled away most of their assets and since they have become addicted to it, they do not see any solution to their situation, besides stealing to further push their addiction to new levels of degeneracy.

In this thread we have learnt about people who were willing to kidnap their own family in order to continue to gamble, so I dont have any doubt in my mind about people going even further to please their insticts on gambling.  

Those kinds of stories are the ones used by the Muslim community as an example of way gambling can be dangerous, then in reality, we as adults are the only ones responsible for our habits, in the end.

Yes, that's the thing.

Every single person is responsible of their actions, and their consequences.

The problem is that many people don't like to have those consequences and realize they are the responsible of their bad choices.

It's a hard truth, but that's just how it works.

[Betwrong]

Right, and it has to be a good therapist, not just someone taking this position. Ask people around for recommendations, or maybe google about a psychoanalytic professional in your area who has a reputation for successfully treating gambling addiction.

Ask yourself the true question, if you're an addict, are you ready to quit? No it's never going to be enough because we're humans and desperate for more profits. ~

Are you sure about that? I know several guys who, would lough at those words. Maybe they are desperate but not about profits, that is for sure. Some of them want to be loved, others want to improve their health, and I know couple of guys that want to discover a cure for cancer, and not because of the potential profits, I can assure you.

Wanting to win big through gambling is not a bad thing in my opinion but loosing your head because of that is.

[Agbamoni]

Right, and it has to be a good therapist, not just someone taking this position. Ask people around for recommendations, or maybe google about a psychoanalytic professional in your area who has a reputation for successfully treating gambling addiction.

Ask yourself the true question, if you're an addict, are you ready to quit? No it's never going to be enough because we're humans and desperate for more profits. ~

Are you sure about that? I know several guys who, would lough at those words. Maybe they are desperate but not about profits, that is for sure. Some of them want to be loved, others want to improve their health, and I know couple of guys that want to discover a cure for cancer, and not because of the potential profits, I can assure you.

Wanting to win big through gambling is not a bad thing in my opinion but loosing your head because of that is.

I agree with you. It is not good to completely judge everyone that wants to big in gambling as addict or gambling madness. There are several reasons why people get high expectation in gambling pushing them to either bet for a long time or continuing gambling when they are supposed to quit. Yes, may would see it as greed but i don't.

Many are in pressing need of that money, either to pay school fees, health, or start a business. Most times it is just that one-time big need and after that they would quit. Although a onetime gambler is a continues gambler.

[hedgeh0g]

You talk about surfing the wave until luck smiles. The catch: that wave? The tsunami is more likely to swallow us with the least mistake. Enjoying ourselves and managing our time and money sounds good, but is it foolproof? Hardly.

As usual, the house wins. Always. Math and probability; not pessimism. Your advice is to be defensive, learn from others, and avoid pursuing losses. Good, but let's dig deeper. Can't the greatest victory be achieved in seeing the game as rigged?

Understanding the odds and playing the game on our terms is true enlightenment. Celebrate the thrill, not the illusive victory. Shall we accept that? Knowing the odds are against us, can we appreciate the gamble? The ultimate risk, my friend.

The outcomes of playing gambling can be loses more money and will increased if you doesn't knows how to controls yourself when playing gambling. Many people losing their money while playing gambling and can't control themselves and makes them lose much money. They must knows that winning on gambling games is difficult and no matters they are trying to playing gambling too often and longer, that will not gives more chances to win.

People who can't controls themselves in gambling will not understand how to used gambling for a fun. They tends to playing gambling to chases the wins and makes money but that's difficult to do because gambling is not a places to makes money. Some of them can't understand that gambling is just a places to have fun because they see some people can makes money from gambling. That's why they still have a hopes to win on gambling and used more money to playing gambling.

The point is that you need to look one step ahead. We need to think about what will happen if we lose, whether it will greatly affect our lives and if the answer is yes, then how much. If the impact is very strong, it is better to stop the game immediately, but in a fit of excitement no one thinks about it. I know for sure that you can’t play games and bet your entire future on it, otherwise we could ruin our lives. When I watched the stories of gambling addicts, I was always surprised with how calmly they talked about their debts that they would have to pay off in the next 5-10 years. Perhaps without these debts they did not understand that they were able to earn such amounts, because they lacked motivation. Well, the interesting thing is that when the debt is paid off, the motivation will disappear completely and again you will not want to do anything, and gradually the thoughts will come that life is boring and you need to make a bet.

[zuzie]

It is true that we gamblers will never know when we will get a lucky win and if we gamble just for fun then what you say is true, we will probably bet according to our desires and we only gamble when we are bored and have free time. it's free, so we can control when we want to gamble.
Yes, that's right, we can use the bad experiences experienced by other gamblers as lessons for us so that we don't experience the same thing, therefore we will be wiser and more careful so we can prevent and minimize it. quite a big loss by having good self-control.

That's why we don't have to playing gambling using much money because we don't know when we will get a lucky win. Although we try more and more, that doesn't guarantee us to win but we will have bigger chances to lose more money that we will not realize. If we playing gambling for fun, we will not trying to chase the win and only used gambling to have fun in our spare time. We will not trying to playing gambling longer than the other people because we realizes that playing gambling longer can make us losing more money. We must trying to be responsible gambler to prevents many problems such as losing more money, we can't be wises in treating gambling, and the worst is becomes addicted to gambling.

It is true that if you gamble with as much money as possible or just don't overdo it, then we won't lose too much money when we lose and of course we also have to pay attention to the time limit. play. If we don't pay attention to the time limit then that will also happen. This can cause big problems in our lives, namely we can become addicted to gambling.
Because gambling addiction is based on no limits on playing time and imperfect financial control.

[ethereumhunter]

The point is that you need to look one step ahead. We need to think about what will happen if we lose, whether it will greatly affect our lives and if the answer is yes, then how much. If the impact is very strong, it is better to stop the game immediately, but in a fit of excitement no one thinks about it. I know for sure that you can’t play games and bet your entire future on it, otherwise we could ruin our lives. When I watched the stories of gambling addicts, I was always surprised with how calmly they talked about their debts that they would have to pay off in the next 5-10 years. Perhaps without these debts they did not understand that they were able to earn such amounts, because they lacked motivation. Well, the interesting thing is that when the debt is paid off, the motivation will disappear completely and again you will not want to do anything, and gradually the thoughts will come that life is boring and you need to make a bet.

Most gamblers who already playing gambling for a long time ago will not thinks about what happens to them if they lose. They still want to playing gambling and winning the gambling games no matter if they lose again. They see their chance to win can comes if they still playing gambling because their luck will comes someday. Their faith about their luck will comes still in their minds and that's why they keep playing gambling and not trying to reduce their gambling activity. But as we already knows other gamblers experienced, we must be wise with our gambling activity and can't just playing gambling without managing our money and time. We have the other things that we must do especially with our money so we must be careful to allocate our money to playing gambling. We must prevent becoming addicted to gambling because that can ruin our lives and gives us bigger problems.

It is true that if you gamble with as much money as possible or just don't overdo it, then we won't lose too much money when we lose and of course we also have to pay attention to the time limit. play. If we don't pay attention to the time limit then that will also happen. This can cause big problems in our lives, namely we can become addicted to gambling.
Because gambling addiction is based on no limits on playing time and imperfect financial control.

We must limits our gambling activity, especially for our money if we don't wants to sees big losses. We don't have to gets the same experiences like other people who already lose their money in gambling because we used gambling for having fun and not trying to makes money. With limiting our gambling activity, we knows that playing gambling needs moderations and not just used some money to playing gambling. Many people already gets the problems from gambling and that's makes them losing their control and can't follows their limit in playing gambling.

[FinePoine0]

There's this friend of mine who was into gambling. This guy was introduced to betting and got addicted to it for years, and at this level he has gone into virtual games. At some point, he could use all his money, borrow from others, and even use the one given to him by someone for important stuff. This went a long way for him, and his life was becoming miserable as time went on. But with the help of some punishment , self discipline and prayers, he was able to reduce it. And today he doesn't do virtual games. In all this, I noticed that there's this confidence he has that he will hit it big, if not today but one big day, and he will stop it with the money he will hit.
My question was, When is this big day? Yes, you might be lucky one day, but when is that? Is there a guarantee for it? How long will you continue to do this for the big day? It's better to stop today than regret it.

This one day I will hit it big is what really inspires most of them to go into gambling more and more, even when they have not been winning. They still keep on gambling with the hope that one day, if they win, they will be able to recover all that they have spent on gambling.
 
But one thing about this is that if they calculate all the money they have spent since the very first day they started gambling, they will notice that what they won from that one bet they might claim is big is just a small percentage of what they have spent in the past.

Well, lets not pretend, beat about the bush, but be totally honest with ourselves, our lucks are not the same, and there are definitely alot of gamblers out there who did actually got so lucky and this dream of theirs was actuallised in just a single winning, when we actually say stuffs just exactly the way you said it, without acknowledging the fact that the experience is not always the same for all gamblers, it turns out that what we are doing is passing or misinforming people.

Gambling have always been a game of luck, and those who are lucky will always shine, I know of a person who have actually spent years in gambling, and I can't also deny the fact that he has also possibly spent alot of money as well, but then, he won a bet last year, ans amount was above a hundred thousand dollars, converting this money to our local currency, it's a very huge sum, and I to be honest, I don't think that in all his years of gambling, he has spend up to 3 percent of the money he won.
Gambling be a source of blessing and breakthrough for people, and continual gambling without giving can sure sometimes pay off, but only if the gambler is lucky.

i agree gambling is a game of luck and is set to make the banker wins more than us, so it will depend on how lucky you are, and how will you control you're emotion when losing money, because if you can't control you're emotion its 100% you will lose.

Winning the game is basically about patience and agility. Gambling can only be won through passion, greed, strategy etc. A person who gambles excessively for the sake of money and indulges in self-destructive emotions in the excitement of winning will face losses. You will notice that people with this type of approach are the ones who mostly face gambling losses. So it is definitely better to use these tips to become very successful at gambling.  Especially control the greed and emotions you win at gambling.

[Negotiation]

the best decisions we make in life are usually though
you may not regret by decisions made in seconds done by a gut feeling but these should probably be an exception not a rule
if you're addicted to something that by itself is a sign that something is wrong and that you're not thinking clearly

Yeah that is right, most good decisions are tough decision, that will directly impact our way lf life and how we tend to enjoy our freedom, this is quite essential for the well being of any human and it not in gambling alone but other aspects of life, one need to be very decipline in approach to things, so for anyone to stay above possible addiction there is need for high decipline and dedication to following lay down laws to achieve the majority goals.
Most of those that have become gambling all trun out so because of they inability to have a draw line when the turn back or be able to control their emotions, for sure we must not rely so much on our own ability to control our gambling activities,  because man without law is free to abuse the freedom which will lead to addictions of any form.

There are no legal rules and regulations in online gambling here everyone can gamble at their own pace. If the person does not tell anyone law enforcement will not get any information. The greatest activity is self control. If a gambler can control himself then he will not become addicted. A gambler should be wary of the fact that a bad habit like gambling can wreak havoc in a person's life. This process varies from person to person.